I'm a black lady, and I love Asian men. Unfortunately, there's not a lot in my area or they're just not into me. Keep trying BOO, the right one will come alone. 😉
if you live in a black dominated neighborhood you won't find many asians in your neighborhood as asians like to live in asian dominated neighborhoods. so there's that.
I've had quite a few dates and less than a year relationships... in 20 years of dating on and off, I've never met a woman who is loyal. I'm single now and life is so much more stable and enjoyable. I meet women here and there but a relationship, every day, every weekend, them living in my home or me in theirs, no thanks. These days I work, have friends, and spend the extra cash on travel.
hey brotha - keep your head up. def feel your pain here. dating in america in general is horrible. even worse for us asian guys. as time goes on, im sure youll find your girl bro. here in the US or abroad. they are way better abroad anyway!! more feminine and loving and caring. plus they love asian guys in latin america, etc !! you got it bro. just keep grinding.
I’m 5’5 and I might not get matches like others but I do get dates. I just see it as a tool and I don’t worship women or rush into a relationship. My values come first and it’s important that who I am dating shares the same values or respects mine!
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My bro, my experience as an asian man in the us is that people rarely date. It's just hookup after hookup bro. Don't try to find a gf online, it's extremly difficult. My opinion in general, girls have the perception that asian men are extremely socially uncalibrated, very judgy towards girls and on top of that a bunch of cultural differences.
As in dating long term. Hookup is bad because the high value woman is someone who is virtuous and has less body count (virgin until marriage). She often has a strong father figure too . For men high value men is someone who can attract several multiple women.
@@dandankokorohikareteku2620 I agree with you. I could take a girl with 2 or 3 body count max though. What's your opinion on that? Being the first for me is not ideal because, I think she must suffer a heart break first before settling.
I don’t know man. I think asian men would do really well in dating if they would stop chasing white women. Even a lot of white men are getting tired of their own women and going to Asia for better partners.
People don't even realize how racist they are being by saying they can't go for white women. Seriously. There are Asians who were born and grew up in American culture, among white people. It only makes sense for them to be attracted to them cuz they are white inside even though they look Asian. They are in a white majority country and you're advising them to go after the 10% of population who aren't white? White people can date whoever they want but we have to look for people among the extremely small minority population? Doesn't even logically make sense
@@Ghostrider-ul7xn then doesn’t it make sense that the majority of white women would not find asian men attractive, american or not, because they were raised among white men? I don’t know why men of color fetishize white women so much when white women are statistically the least likely to want to date out. It is normal for white people to prefer each other.
@@unknowguy7604 "it is normal for white people to prefer each other" Source? Evidence says otherwise. People's sexual preferences for the most part are socially conditioned through society's beauty standards and who they expose themselves to. Studies conducted on different babies show they develop these racial biases at an earlier stage based on lesser diversity of people babies are exposed to.
@@unknowguy7604 You also said statistically, white women are the least likely to interracially marry. You should also know Asians are the most open minded and likely to interracially marry. Cared to investigate why these patterns exist? It has everything to do with their racial biases. They don't care to self reflect on them and put themselves in situations where they have a positive exposure to minorities so they can interact with them( read "White flight"). Media also plays a powerful role in perpetuating toxic beauty standards which further reinforces their preference for toxic Eurocentric beauty standards.
And finally, you should also know that this discrimination of "Asian men" is mostly an American phenomenon. Its not exactly the case in European/Eurasian countries where more diversity of shapes and sizes are accepted in men. Which further reinforces my previous point that beauty standards that Americans use aren't exactly universal/objective measure of attractiveness.
no it isn't actually. Numerous studies and reports have already conclude that most swipes will be given to white men, then latino, then black,then asians on the average.
@@rabbitazteca23 Yes, and those stats show that there is a huge divide between whites/latinos and the other races. BTW, 'Latino' in this context just means 'white people who speak spanish' so don't be fooled. In other words white men are the only ones doing well. Asians, blacks, Middle Easterners and Indians are dead in the water.
@@rabbitazteca23 It really doesn't matter. As IncelTV said, "if you look white, you're white". Its how people perceive others that matters in attraction. Who cares what their ancestral pie chart says?
Bro I'm in the same struggle room man as a Jamaican American guy myself it's harder for me to get along with American women they also treat me as if I'm a outsider to them just because that I'm half Caribbean guy thats from fort Lauderdale Florida. So u guys are not struggling on this alone i also I also have it very difficult to talk to USA women here thats why i have it more easier to talk to foriegn women. Foriegn women is better for lonely guys in the west also for Asian American guys that are lonely don't pay attention to USA women anymore bro.
Go to non english non anglo speaking countries in europe if your into caucasian girls, and East Asia and southeast asia even middle eastern and south asian girls like asian men bc of kpop popularity, and south america has no holywood influence , so they generally like asian men a lot , and theres a growing community of chinese men in africa :)
Lol 😆 I agree with your saying I really wanna go live abroad & visit other countries to meet women that’s better & make new friends but you gotta have money!!
@@epsilonxvi5675 - I can verify that. Years ago I was in London for a conference, and I tried to approach an Asian girl at a pub. But I stopped short, because I could tell by the withering look of contempt and anger on her face that conveyed the message "Don't you dare -- I only go out with white guys."
Math is my worst subject, I failed algebra 1... I have small hands so playing the piano is a no go. School isn't for me, so obviously I never became a doctor. Stereotypes are super annoying for anyone, so I feel you.
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There’s a holy GOD in Heaven, Who created you and I for His glory, but our sins have separated us from Him. the wages of sin is DEATH, but the FREE Gift of GOD is eternal life in CHRIST the LORD. CHRIST died for our sins and was raised to life for our justification. repent, stop living in sin, and believe in the Gospel!
I was kicked off Tinder😂. I am only 5'3," but get some now and then. I had better luck with Facebook dating (free) than paid dating sites. No, the American media are not friends to Asian men. It is what is. Work on improving yourself. Go to Asia and get yourself traditional girl. The girls in America are good for stick and move only.
@@cosmeticscameo8277 That is a true statement but isn't applicable to my personal situation. It's not predominantly one race . Its melting pot but other reasons contribute to my comment.
the easiest thing would to kill the stereotypes in the bud but that's harder than jus saying it unfortunately. propaganda is so useful stereotyping is a form of propaganda.
@@cosmeticscameo8277 and its the lamest form of believing in something. Are all Caucasian racist-no Are all blacks ratchet-nope Are all Hispanics crazy-no Are all Asians good at math-nope
@@chadkennedy4100 i didn't say it was right. i'm just saying that stereotypes is such a effective propaganda tool to shape public opinion and steer it how you want it to go. humans are so easily manipulated it's noteven funny
@@yourstruly7798 bro if you want I got a Colombian cousin that'd marry you in a heartbeat. Gotta come to Miami they'll want papers but they'll give you a kid at least.
Umm. I am an Asian man. I didnt have any problem meeting women online. Now I am married to a beautiful American woman. Just be yourself and be confident. Good luck to you all.
I do agree that it can be harder for Asian men to date in the US, but some of the statements you made are kinda ironic. Like you mentioned how if an Asian woman has babies with a white man, then the children would be influenced by white culture/beliefs. The same would be true if you had children with a white woman, and there's nothing inherently wrong with this if it's not promoting negative beliefs. It also seems like you have a problem with Asian women dating outside of their race, but are perfectly fine with Asian men doing it (maybe that's just the way I percieved it). Anyways, I wish you luck on finding love & happiness.
@@shenuke4335 I'm not really sure if I'm following correctly, but the culture of one of the parents wouldn't outweigh the other unless the couple let it happen. On top of that, it depends on whether one of the parents is born and raised in America vs Asia (or even another country outside of Asia). From what I've noticed, Asian American culture is different than that of an Asian born and raised in Asia.
@@jennyk629 @ Jenny - "Asian American culture is different than that of an Asian born and raised in Asia." Bingo - you nailed it ! Women all over the world are extremely sensitive to the signals they get from their surrounding culture. In the Western world, Asian guys are seen as bottom of the barrel. On the other hand, girls born and raised in Asia grew up with a positive image of Asian men. They developed high self-esteem, pride, and aggressiveness. In my case, they literally initiated their approach to me in public - which was surprising, because they were gorgeously beautiful, and I am only average looking. Be careful of stereotypes, because you may be missing out on one of life's greatest pleasures.
Hi you said it’s easier to find a woman abroad like in Europe, I can tell it’s wrong. I was born and raised in France and I can tell the stereotypes against the asians are very strong too. We are all impacted by these stupid stereotypes coming from the US bro. I suffered a lot when I was a kid being mocked by the others cause I was Asian and a lot of my brothers also felt the same. It’s also really hard to find a white girl in here in dating apps. We have only success with back females ngl. So don’t think that you would be happier outside the US, that’s not true at all.
You're wrong though. I've done some rigorous social experiments on this by changing location throughout the world, my worst experience was in America, EU countries were still better, especially Eastern European countries. Not only the frequency of my matches increased but I was being matched with slim, model looking gorgeous women ( that are considered top tier in US and would have absolutely no chance of matching with me in US) on the same day I started switching. They even respond to your messages, which was uncommon with American women. It was like I entered an alternate reality where things are completely opposite. I welcome you to try social experimenting yourself with different locations, you'll see it for yourself
Hey bro, I am a south Asian man so I feel ya. But let me ask you this, would you wanna marry a chick and have offsprings with her who thinks being good at science and math is a negative stereotype and is somehow a disadvantage in 2022 and indicative of a man’s size? You can’t change the people in your environment buy you can sure change the environment. Embrace yourself with all your “negative” stereotypes because that’s who you are. Use your so called negatives to develop the positives. You can move you are not a tree. Many are jumping ship, why bother chasing something that is unhealthy for you anyway? You have your whole life ahead of you and tons of opportunities. Go get them wherever they are. Trying to date someone that do not respect you just to make a point is not a challenge worth undertaking. Because it hampers everything else that you truly meant to be. Respect yourself and just move along. Best to you!!
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Go for Asian girls, why make life harder. Hit the gym. Go to meetups and start chatting to girls. Walk around and try and spot women looking at you. Approach women who give you soft long eye contact. Make yourself more attractive and that will force more women to look at you. Gym is a big one, work on your shoulders, back and upper chest for 6 months, force the shoulder to grow before working on other body parts. Don't tell me if you had a upper body like captain America, Asian girls won't look at you. If you are wearing well fitted clothes. They can tell.
Its not you man. Its this US society/culture. And I'm 6ft 2in 205 lbs AM dragged into the US at age 6, not by choice. This country is utterly FULL of heffers, karens, etc. Am married to an AF. But warning all AM's thinking about emmigrating here. The USA is a DEAD END for AM's. Am speaking from nearly Half A Century of Experience.
1 Samuel 16:7 King James Version 7 But the Lord said unto Samuel, Look not on his countenance, or on the height of his stature; because I have refused him: for the Lord seeth not as man seeth; for man looketh on the outward appearance, but the Lord looketh on the heart.
I think it's not important the race, and never thought if I like one or another but I'm very angry cause I almost get scammed. One guy was contacting me by telegram saying he was looking for a friend from his College and was hard to find her and bla bla so I felt sorry for him ( a vietnamese guy, supposed) I try to help him to find his friends and we were talking few months by voice, picture etc and he was trying to have something else and I was feeling something towards him, but my inside's alarm sounded when he didn't knew about Tết, avoided always have a video calling etc...in resume I investigated him and he was a nigerian guy, campletely different from the picture, and almost married. I blocked him but I'm very very sad and angry to be naif. It was my first contact with online unknow people and now I want to know more people(friends, girls and guys) from this country to know how they really are, an d I found your video. Maybe there are a lot people doing the same. In Brazil it happens as well. specially people tr6 to show someone different of who they really are. Sorry about everything.
I love Asian men! I like the culture but I can't find any to date! I guess I am too old to find love :( but I really would like to date an Asian man so I am not sure why you're having a problem I know plenty of beautiful young women who like Asian men not sure where you're looking for a date at!
Every race has negative stereotypes. So we all have our own issues with dating. Like some people prefer to date within their own race. But when you’re talking about dating outside your race, then that’s a different story. Some races want to assimilate to the American culture, so that’s why they might prefer white men/women. And some races fetishize black people, so that’s why they might show more interest in them. But if you’re genuinely a good person and u jus so happen to be Asian, then I think you’ll eventually find someone.
Some people fetishize Asian men too. It's more common if a white girl has lived in Asia during her childhood or teenage years young adult. Or she lives in a neighbourhood populated by mainly Asian guys. Or she just has an anime kpop weeb cos play Asian hobbies with an introverted personality. Plus all men It's about looks status and money and game personality
Yeah, but this fetishization of race cannot be confused with love, I mean there might be room for it, but you really want someone to love you for who you are, not something you can't change which is your race or skin.
dude this whole video is so low vibration I can barely handle it lmao. I'm an asian dude and I mostly have only dated white women. Mainly because all my friends are white, my hood is white, everybody around me are just Caucasian people and koreans, some latino. Have you ever thought to your self that the reason why lot of women in general reject some of these asian guys is because their reality is so low vibration that it's unattractive? I have never consciously thought to myself that I'm at a disadvantage because of my race and the people around me can feel that. I've never once backed down from a social stare down by anybody; I'm kind of a douche and I know it and while it does repel a lot of people away from me, it also keeps my close group of friends pretty tight to me and the girls who are interested in me are "Super" interested
Stating reality for what it is doesn't make it "low vibration". What else do you want people to do? Stick their head under the sand and pretend discrimination doesn't exist? Surely it'll change society! Lol What people like you fail to acknowledge is their own subtle privileges you are born with. You aren't aware of your own privileges that makes you stand out from the stereotypical Asian guys. White people have the highest implicit bias out of all groups based on tests, they gauge attractiveness using their Eurocentric beauty standards, so people who share some of their features will obviously have a better experience being chosen over. Its not surprising.
wasup bro i saw the stream with you and winston i can totally understand how you guys feel all my friends got married or moved away i'm asian myself and i really wana travel i'm curious about the world i'm sick of the stuckup bitches here i'm lookin for friends to travel with cuz i hate traveling be myself it's no fun maybe we can hang out and travel later on become friends since i lost most of my friends i heard you say you wana travel to europe so do i so where are you from and when did you want to travel to europe???
Here is my experience using Hinge: 100 something likes in 3 months, mostly overweight landwhales and silverback gorillas. Some of the attractive ones usually ghosted. Went on 10 dates. Slept with 2.
@@Tommyttm There was a time (I think maybe early to mid-2000's, when I was driving an old beat-up Honda, (rear end was crushed like an accordion from previous owner's accident, paint was peeling) but I was rotating 3 different white girls. I would kick one out of my apartment to make way for the other ones. None of them ever complained - because they knew that if they did, I would kick them to the curb. If a girl likes you, she doesn't give a sh_t about your money. Why do men keep spreading this false trope / mythology - that you need to drive an exotic car or have lots of money? Does she demand to look at your bank account or take out a measuring tape for your penis before agreeing to go out on a date with you? I don't give them jack sh_t information about my finances - its none of her fu__king business. She either wants to go to bed with me or not. I urge you all to look up the case of Dr. Han Jo Kim, millionaire neurosurgeon (naive Beta male) from Manhattan, who got fleeced by his cheating white wife. Then come back and tell me if money is the key to success with women.The level of willing stupidity engaged by men is truly astounding.
Its because theyre beta bucks lmao. They have to make 100k a year to get a girl while that girl gave it away for free to a hot guy she liked. She also didnt make the hot guy go through 50 hurdles in life like her new asian beta bucks lol Most likely the hot guy dumped her and the asian beta bucks got sloppy seconds while being treated worse in the relationship
@@redpilledcoper5054 Brutal, but absolutely true. Sometimes I tell a girl I am unemployed - but I still get laid. There is a fascinating, unbelievable story about an Asian spinal surgeon (Dr. Han Jo Kim) in Manhattan who got fleeced by his white (beauty queen) wife for 5 long years after he married her. As smart as he was, it took him that long to figure out that she was leading a double life as a high end hooker behind his back, and making serious bank, servicing other high-earning Beta males. She was no doubt giving it out for free to the hot Alpha guys. If this can happen to a hard-working, very highly educated millionaire simp, what chance do ordinary guys have? I wonder if men have an extra lobe in their brains specifically dedicated to stupidity. Poor guy - it will probably take him years to recover from this devastating emotional trauma. How could he go back to work and face his colleagues, after the story gets splashed all over the news? "The horror, the horror." -- Quote from the the movie - Apocalypse Now.
@@MrPurge11 I met my boyfriend on a dating site and he is Korean.There are a lot of men and women that would date someone of Asian descent they sometimes just think they will not be interested in them at least is what I've heard.
@@aprilwilliams237 The stats dont really back it up what you say, online dating sites have a bias against anyone not white, well apart from Asian girls.
I like Asian guys, but i would never give you a like. I am sorry, but i have the feeling, that you need some honesty (and maybe self-reflection) in your life. Shave yourself, wear nice clothes, do some sports and work on your self-confidence. Wish you all the best 🤍
@@u235u235u235Actually the asian guy i am dating right know is not that tall. We already discussed my high heels because of that 😁 But he is fine with it and self-confident. You are obviously missing this great feature. And please, don't tell me what would i do or not, i know myself better than you ;) And that's another reason why i would never date a guy like you 😉
I always liked Asian guys but they always give me that creepy attitude, I feel like white guys give us more attention as well as black guys. You guys are handsome but have no confidence,
yeah, confidence works if your average looking.once you're male model hot , it doesnt matter. Kevin Kreider had confidence but he stated he got shut down many times, even by asian women lol and he is considered a really good looking asian guy. if you;re a light skinned white model hot, you literally could get 95% of chicks out there just from your looks alone. A really hot chick with zero personality, depressed bat shit crazy can get almost any guy. its kinda of like a trophy for men and women.
@@redpilledcoper5054 woah, this is insane. no idea how many messages good looking dudes get. average looking asian guy here, ive received like 3 messages in my years of online dating. it was so depressing I deleted everything a few weeks ago.
@@mitch20003 Mitch, you didn't have "years of online dating" - you had ZERO. Why would you seek a "message" from a dating app if you are not in the top 5% of good looks?
. wait, I forgot to mention I did meet chicks off apps several years ago before online dating really became popular. I should have stated bumble and tinder. I did meet chicks off meet me and pof
I'm a black lady, and I love Asian men. Unfortunately, there's not a lot in my area or they're just not into me. Keep trying BOO, the right one will come alone. 😉
if you live in a black dominated neighborhood you won't find many asians in your neighborhood as asians like to live in asian dominated neighborhoods. so there's that.
@Jas Yann Just ignore Ozell, she dont want black women to get with Asian guys.
@Ozell Israelite lol ur delusional
@Jas Yann Lol, she always calls people trolls who defend relationships with Asians and blacks. She calls me a troll and a bot as well. God help us!
Curious what area? I'm here in Las Vegas
I've had quite a few dates and less than a year relationships... in 20 years of dating on and off, I've never met a woman who is loyal. I'm single now and life is so much more stable and enjoyable. I meet women here and there but a relationship, every day, every weekend, them living in my home or me in theirs, no thanks. These days I work, have friends, and spend the extra cash on travel.
it's good to see asian men start to speak on that social topic. they used to be so shy and not talk about anything publicly. ( black guy here )
It’s wrong the way the media portrays you.
the media stereotypes... all ethnicities that's the problem.
it's not wrong
@@stepbrohelpimstuck2480 it is.
hey brotha - keep your head up. def feel your pain here. dating in america in general is horrible. even worse for us asian guys. as time goes on, im sure youll find your girl bro. here in the US or abroad. they are way better abroad anyway!! more feminine and loving and caring. plus they love asian guys in latin america, etc !! you got it bro. just keep grinding.
Thanks trying my best & chilling with my head back!
Then you've got to try Europe/Canada/Australia, i heard that asian guys do pretty well there
I’m 5’5 and I might not get matches like others but I do get dates. I just see it as a tool and I don’t worship women or rush into a relationship. My values come first and it’s important that who I am dating shares the same values or respects mine!
Lol
There’s a holy GOD in Heaven, Who created you and I for His glory, but our sins have separated us from Him. the wages of sin is DEATH, but the FREE Gift of GOD is eternal life in CHRIST the LORD. CHRIST died for our sins and was raised to life for our justification. repent, stop living in sin, and believe in the Gospel!
My bro, my experience as an asian man in the us is that people rarely date. It's just hookup after hookup bro. Don't try to find a gf online, it's extremly difficult. My opinion in general, girls have the perception that asian men are extremely socially uncalibrated, very judgy towards girls and on top of that a bunch of cultural differences.
What you refer to as date is actually named Courtship. It's generally wooing a girl to like you long term with the PRIMARY goal of marriage .
As in dating long term. Hookup is bad because the high value woman is someone who is virtuous and has less body count (virgin until marriage). She often has a strong father figure too .
For men high value men is someone who can attract several multiple women.
@@dandankokorohikareteku2620 I agree with you. I could take a girl with 2 or 3 body count max though. What's your opinion on that? Being the first for me is not ideal because, I think she must suffer a heart break first before settling.
finding a girl online used to work before online dating became mainstream say 1990s or early 2000s.
Asian guys are just obsessed over white girls, which makes them creepy af
I don’t know man. I think asian men would do really well in dating if they would stop chasing white women. Even a lot of white men are getting tired of their own women and going to Asia for better partners.
People don't even realize how racist they are being by saying they can't go for white women. Seriously. There are Asians who were born and grew up in American culture, among white people. It only makes sense for them to be attracted to them cuz they are white inside even though they look Asian. They are in a white majority country and you're advising them to go after the 10% of population who aren't white? White people can date whoever they want but we have to look for people among the extremely small minority population? Doesn't even logically make sense
@@Ghostrider-ul7xn then doesn’t it make sense that the majority of white women would not find asian men attractive, american or not, because they were raised among white men? I don’t know why men of color fetishize white women so much when white women are statistically the least likely to want to date out. It is normal for white people to prefer each other.
@@unknowguy7604 "it is normal for white people to prefer each other"
Source? Evidence says otherwise. People's sexual preferences for the most part are socially conditioned through society's beauty standards and who they expose themselves to. Studies conducted on different babies show they develop these racial biases at an earlier stage based on lesser diversity of people babies are exposed to.
@@unknowguy7604 You also said statistically, white women are the least likely to interracially marry. You should also know Asians are the most open minded and likely to interracially marry. Cared to investigate why these patterns exist? It has everything to do with their racial biases. They don't care to self reflect on them and put themselves in situations where they have a positive exposure to minorities so they can interact with them( read "White flight"). Media also plays a powerful role in perpetuating toxic beauty standards which further reinforces their preference for toxic Eurocentric beauty standards.
And finally, you should also know that this discrimination of "Asian men" is mostly an American phenomenon. Its not exactly the case in European/Eurasian countries where more diversity of shapes and sizes are accepted in men. Which further reinforces my previous point that beauty standards that Americans use aren't exactly universal/objective measure of attractiveness.
Online dating is terrible for everybody, unless you look like a young Dicaprio !!!!!
it's terrible for all men, let's be real.
Fax
no it isn't actually. Numerous studies and reports have already conclude that most swipes will be given to white men, then latino, then black,then asians on the average.
@@rabbitazteca23 Yes, and those stats show that there is a huge divide between whites/latinos and the other races. BTW, 'Latino' in this context just means 'white people who speak spanish' so don't be fooled. In other words white men are the only ones doing well. Asians, blacks, Middle Easterners and Indians are dead in the water.
@@Ergeniz right. They should start putting ethnicities (or break down the race category further) instead so the insights could be more accurate.
@@rabbitazteca23 It really doesn't matter. As IncelTV said, "if you look white, you're white". Its how people perceive others that matters in attraction. Who cares what their ancestral pie chart says?
As an asian man myself i hv to say that white men/woman are attracted everywhere...but for asian, latinos, black and arabs it depends on the region.
Bro I'm in the same struggle room man as a Jamaican American guy myself it's harder for me to get along with American women they also treat me as if I'm a outsider to them just because that I'm half Caribbean guy thats from fort Lauderdale Florida. So u guys are not struggling on this alone i also I also have it very difficult to talk to USA women here thats why i have it more easier to talk to foriegn women. Foriegn women is better for lonely guys in the west also for Asian American guys that are lonely don't pay attention to USA women anymore bro.
Go to non english non anglo speaking countries in europe if your into caucasian girls, and East Asia and southeast asia even middle eastern and south asian girls like asian men bc of kpop popularity, and south america has no holywood influence , so they generally like asian men a lot , and theres a growing community of chinese men in africa :)
Lol 😆 I agree with your saying I really wanna go live abroad & visit other countries to meet women that’s better & make new friends but you gotta have money!!
Is Australia ,Canada and New Zealand and uk bad for Asian guys ?
@@BreakingJJC all English Anglo Country bad for Asian guys.
@@Tommyttm sacrifices... unfortunately
@@epsilonxvi5675 - I can verify that. Years ago I was in London for a conference, and I tried to approach an Asian girl at a pub. But I stopped short, because I could tell by the withering look of contempt and anger on her face that conveyed the message "Don't you dare -- I only go out with white guys."
Math is my worst subject, I failed algebra 1... I have small hands so playing the piano is a no go. School isn't for me, so obviously I never became a doctor. Stereotypes are super annoying for anyone, so I feel you.
There’s a holy GOD in Heaven, Who created you and I for His glory, but our sins have separated us from Him. the wages of sin is DEATH, but the FREE Gift of GOD is eternal life in CHRIST the LORD. CHRIST died for our sins and was raised to life for our justification. repent, stop living in sin, and believe in the Gospel!
This stereotype is okay because women actually are attracted to smart men, the most annoying stereotypes is that we're short and small D
Start with a good attitude it shall work
Thats easier than it sounds. After a while even attitudes get worn down.
The fact that we have to justify why we don't eat cats and dogs is fucking ridiculous
Dating as a Asian gay guy is even much more harder… 🤕
Hey, but let’s keep trying. Never give up and move forward
There’s a holy GOD in Heaven, Who created you and I for His glory, but our sins have separated us from Him. the wages of sin is DEATH, but the FREE Gift of GOD is eternal life in CHRIST the LORD. CHRIST died for our sins and was raised to life for our justification. repent, stop living in sin, and believe in the Gospel!
Just travel i go to philippines all the time im filipino. Also i went to china women are nicer there too. I love asian women in asia though.
I was kicked off Tinder😂. I am only 5'3," but get some now and then. I had better luck with Facebook dating (free) than paid dating sites. No, the American media are not friends to Asian men. It is what is. Work on improving yourself. Go to Asia and get yourself traditional girl. The girls in America are good for stick and move only.
I love asian men but it's hard to find anybody in my city to date. I tried online and kept meeting people using others pictures.
well if your city is predominantly one ethnicity than you won't find asian men simple as that.
@@cosmeticscameo8277 That is a true statement but isn't applicable to my personal situation. It's not predominantly one race . Its melting pot but other reasons contribute to my comment.
Asian men are incredible. However, many do not approach or date other races of women. You're handsome btw. I'm sorry you're having difficulty
too much focus on 'white' . way too much.
Stereotyping and believing in it are for those who can't think for themselves.
the easiest thing would to kill the stereotypes in the bud but that's harder than jus saying it unfortunately.
propaganda is so useful
stereotyping is a form of propaganda.
Calling urself a chad
@@kagamiuchihathebeast5862 happens to be my name. No pun intended lol
@@cosmeticscameo8277 and its the lamest form of believing in something.
Are all Caucasian racist-no
Are all blacks ratchet-nope
Are all Hispanics crazy-no
Are all Asians good at math-nope
@@chadkennedy4100 i didn't say it was right. i'm just saying that stereotypes is such a effective propaganda tool to shape public opinion and steer it how you want it to go. humans are so easily manipulated it's noteven funny
I'm Latina and l love Asian men. There's not many here in Atlanta.
In Texas, latinas don't like asians. 😕
I love Latinas
@@yourstruly7798 bro if you want I got a Colombian cousin that'd marry you in a heartbeat.
Gotta come to Miami they'll want papers but they'll give you a kid at least.
@@charlesovatar I love asian man
@@andreacorrales7349 I'm Asian. Live in Las Vegas.
Its always been easier for womens when it comes to dating bruh, no matter what race they are
Umm. I am an Asian man. I didnt have any problem meeting women online.
Now I am married to a beautiful American woman.
Just be yourself and be confident.
Good luck to you all.
well you sure wrecked the OP.
I do agree that it can be harder for Asian men to date in the US, but some of the statements you made are kinda ironic. Like you mentioned how if an Asian woman has babies with a white man, then the children would be influenced by white culture/beliefs. The same would be true if you had children with a white woman, and there's nothing inherently wrong with this if it's not promoting negative beliefs. It also seems like you have a problem with Asian women dating outside of their race, but are perfectly fine with Asian men doing it (maybe that's just the way I percieved it). Anyways, I wish you luck on finding love & happiness.
No they will be white culture and speaking English fluently is already one of it in asian culture
@@shenuke4335 I'm sorry. I don't know what you mean? Who are you referring to when you say 'they'? Like do you mean the mixed children or Asian women?
@@jennyk629 yes in both cases
It will be the white sides . men sides would be lesser
@@shenuke4335 I'm not really sure if I'm following correctly, but the culture of one of the parents wouldn't outweigh the other unless the couple let it happen. On top of that, it depends on whether one of the parents is born and raised in America vs Asia (or even another country outside of Asia). From what I've noticed, Asian American culture is different than that of an Asian born and raised in Asia.
@@jennyk629 @ Jenny - "Asian American culture is different than that of an Asian born and raised in Asia." Bingo - you nailed it ! Women all over the world are extremely sensitive to the signals they get from their surrounding culture. In the Western world, Asian guys are seen as bottom of the barrel. On the other hand, girls born and raised in Asia grew up with a positive image of Asian men. They developed high self-esteem, pride, and aggressiveness. In my case, they literally initiated their approach to me in public - which was surprising, because they were gorgeously beautiful, and I am only average looking. Be careful of stereotypes, because you may be missing out on one of life's greatest pleasures.
You need to take the black pill and face reality.
Looks and race is number 1 in attraction.
Hi you said it’s easier to find a woman abroad like in Europe, I can tell it’s wrong. I was born and raised in France and I can tell the stereotypes against the asians are very strong too. We are all impacted by these stupid stereotypes coming from the US bro. I suffered a lot when I was a kid being mocked by the others cause I was Asian and a lot of my brothers also felt the same. It’s also really hard to find a white girl in here in dating apps. We have only success with back females ngl.
So don’t think that you would be happier outside the US, that’s not true at all.
pretty much if youre asian be bruce lee .... no bobby lee from mad tv. if you get what i mean.
@ Snipe06 - I agree - thank you for your comment.
Its true black females love Asian men.
You're wrong though. I've done some rigorous social experiments on this by changing location throughout the world, my worst experience was in America, EU countries were still better, especially Eastern European countries. Not only the frequency of my matches increased but I was being matched with slim, model looking gorgeous women ( that are considered top tier in US and would have absolutely no chance of matching with me in US) on the same day I started switching. They even respond to your messages, which was uncommon with American women. It was like I entered an alternate reality where things are completely opposite. I welcome you to try social experimenting yourself with different locations, you'll see it for yourself
Try other countries like Netherlands, Germany, Denmark, Poland etc. I guarantee you may get a good catch
Hey bro, I am a south Asian man so I feel ya. But let me ask you this, would you wanna marry a chick and have offsprings with her who thinks being good at science and math is a negative stereotype and is somehow a disadvantage in 2022 and indicative of a man’s size? You can’t change the people in your environment buy you can sure change the environment. Embrace yourself with all your “negative” stereotypes because that’s who you are. Use your so called negatives to develop the positives. You can move you are not a tree. Many are jumping ship, why bother chasing something that is unhealthy for you anyway? You have your whole life ahead of you and tons of opportunities. Go get them wherever they are. Trying to date someone that do not respect you just to make a point is not a challenge worth undertaking. Because it hampers everything else that you truly meant to be. Respect yourself and just move along. Best to you!!
There’s a holy GOD in Heaven, Who created you and I for His glory, but our sins have separated us from Him. the wages of sin is DEATH, but the FREE Gift of GOD is eternal life in CHRIST the LORD. CHRIST died for our sins and was raised to life for our justification. repent, stop living in sin, and believe in the Gospel!
Go for Asian girls, why make life harder. Hit the gym. Go to meetups and start chatting to girls. Walk around and try and spot women looking at you. Approach women who give you soft long eye contact. Make yourself more attractive and that will force more women to look at you. Gym is a big one, work on your shoulders, back and upper chest for 6 months, force the shoulder to grow before working on other body parts. Don't tell me if you had a upper body like captain America, Asian girls won't look at you. If you are wearing well fitted clothes. They can tell.
Its not you man. Its this US society/culture. And I'm 6ft 2in 205 lbs AM dragged into the US at age 6, not by choice. This country is utterly FULL of heffers, karens, etc. Am married to an AF. But warning all AM's thinking about emmigrating here. The USA is a DEAD END for AM's. Am speaking from nearly Half A Century of Experience.
Australia would be much better, US is full of shit especially politics-wise. Anyway if your a black 190cm guy then it might work out for ya
I guess I didn’t take that seriously the first time I heard about that. It was disbelief.
On line dating has no tangibles for ethnicels.👎🏼
1 Samuel 16:7
King James Version
7 But the Lord said unto Samuel, Look not on his countenance, or on the height of his stature; because I have refused him: for the Lord seeth not as man seeth; for man looketh on the outward appearance, but the Lord looketh on the heart.
I think it's not important the race, and never thought if I like one or another but I'm very angry cause I almost get scammed. One guy was contacting me by telegram saying he was looking for a friend from his College and was hard to find her and bla bla so I felt sorry for him ( a vietnamese guy, supposed) I try to help him to find his friends and we were talking few months by voice, picture etc and he was trying to have something else and I was feeling something towards him, but my inside's alarm sounded when he didn't knew about Tết, avoided always have a video calling etc...in resume I investigated him and he was a nigerian guy, campletely different from the picture, and almost married. I blocked him but I'm very very sad and angry to be naif. It was my first contact with online unknow people and now I want to know more people(friends, girls and guys) from this country to know how they really are, an d I found your video. Maybe there are a lot people doing the same. In Brazil it happens as well. specially people tr6 to show someone different of who they really are. Sorry about everything.
Thank you for telling the truth brother
It’s not you King (though I do know it’s harder), it’s American women. Seriously.
I love Asian men! I like the culture but I can't find any to date! I guess I am too old to find love :( but I really would like to date an Asian man so I am not sure why you're having a problem I know plenty of beautiful young women who like Asian men not sure where you're looking for a date at!
Goodluck with the tyrone and chad
Every race has negative stereotypes. So we all have our own issues with dating. Like some people prefer to date within their own race. But when you’re talking about dating outside your race, then that’s a different story. Some races want to assimilate to the American culture, so that’s why they might prefer white men/women. And some races fetishize black people, so that’s why they might show more interest in them. But if you’re genuinely a good person and u jus so happen to be Asian, then I think you’ll eventually find someone.
Indians have lower market value dating than Asian dudes
Some people fetishize Asian men too. It's more common if a white girl has lived in Asia during her childhood or teenage years young adult. Or she lives in a neighbourhood populated by mainly Asian guys. Or she just has an anime kpop weeb cos play Asian hobbies with an introverted personality.
Plus all men It's about looks status and money and game personality
Yeah, but this fetishization of race cannot be confused with love, I mean there might be room for it, but you really want someone to love you for who you are, not something you can't change which is your race or skin.
This guys is hilarious..."I haven't ate even ONE dog or ONE cat" ... "making babies out of them" 🤣
dude this whole video is so low vibration I can barely handle it lmao. I'm an asian dude and I mostly have only dated white women. Mainly because all my friends are white, my hood is white, everybody around me are just Caucasian people and koreans, some latino. Have you ever thought to your self that the reason why lot of women in general reject some of these asian guys is because their reality is so low vibration that it's unattractive? I have never consciously thought to myself that I'm at a disadvantage because of my race and the people around me can feel that. I've never once backed down from a social stare down by anybody; I'm kind of a douche and I know it and while it does repel a lot of people away from me, it also keeps my close group of friends pretty tight to me and the girls who are interested in me are "Super" interested
you're very westernized. so thats a plus.
well, race does play a fact, unfortunately. Most American girls do not prefer Asian guys.
Stating reality for what it is doesn't make it "low vibration". What else do you want people to do? Stick their head under the sand and pretend discrimination doesn't exist? Surely it'll change society! Lol
What people like you fail to acknowledge is their own subtle privileges you are born with. You aren't aware of your own privileges that makes you stand out from the stereotypical Asian guys. White people have the highest implicit bias out of all groups based on tests, they gauge attractiveness using their Eurocentric beauty standards, so people who share some of their features will obviously have a better experience being chosen over. Its not surprising.
I’ve seen plenty of fine Asian men but I think I’m not there type or that they just want to stay within there race.
Who doesn't like asian men
Most women in America even asian women its not easy out here for asian men
@@brucelouie4613i totally agree i am asian in california. This place sucks.
wasup bro i saw the stream with you and winston i can totally understand how you guys feel all my friends got married or moved away i'm asian myself and i really wana travel i'm curious about the world i'm sick of the stuckup bitches here i'm lookin for friends to travel with cuz i hate traveling be myself it's no fun maybe we can hang out and travel later on become friends since i lost most of my friends i heard you say you wana travel to europe so do i so where are you from and when did you want to travel to europe???
if you found a woman that are loyal to you in other country Invest you wealth in there for your children future.
Here is my experience using Hinge: 100 something likes in 3 months, mostly overweight landwhales and silverback gorillas. Some of the attractive ones usually ghosted. Went on 10 dates. Slept with 2.
Kevin: you already slept with 2. Now, keep that momentum going. Success breeds success.
Good video
The problem is why you care about dating, look us asian but muslim community dont have that problem because we dont care about dating😂😁
unless you own an exotic car and have a pic of your self post on tinder , LOL
Bro it’s not even a exotic car! It’s Honda cheap car!
@@Tommyttm There was a time (I think maybe early to mid-2000's, when I was driving an old beat-up Honda, (rear end was crushed like an accordion from previous owner's accident, paint was peeling) but I was rotating 3 different white girls. I would kick one out of my apartment to make way for the other ones. None of them ever complained - because they knew that if they did, I would kick them to the curb. If a girl likes you, she doesn't give a sh_t about your money. Why do men keep spreading this false trope / mythology - that you need to drive an exotic car or have lots of money? Does she demand to look at your bank account or take out a measuring tape for your penis before agreeing to go out on a date with you? I don't give them jack sh_t information about my finances - its none of her fu__king business. She either wants to go to bed with me or not.
I urge you all to look up the case of Dr. Han Jo Kim, millionaire neurosurgeon (naive Beta male) from Manhattan, who got fleeced by his cheating white wife. Then come back and tell me if money is the key to success with women.The level of willing stupidity engaged by men is truly astounding.
@@robguyton3577 very true. Im asian and i admit maybe it is harder. But same here, lol. Squattincasanova has the right idea imo
@@robguyton3577 Sex will be easy enough to get. Relationships and marriage without money will be much harder - women are hypergamous.
I dont understand you I Love Asian Men!!!
I am screwed.
Your cute 🙂
Lol
Dude, you gotta stop blaming being Asian. I know plenty of regular Asian dudes who do well. if they can, why can't you?
Not on dating apps
@@shodak9445 dating apps are failures for all men not just azns
Its because theyre beta bucks lmao. They have to make 100k a year to get a girl while that girl gave it away for free to a hot guy she liked. She also didnt make the hot guy go through 50 hurdles in life like her new asian beta bucks lol
Most likely the hot guy dumped her and the asian beta bucks got sloppy seconds while being treated worse in the relationship
@@shodak9445 Wrong, plenty of Asian dudes are killing it on dating apps.
@@redpilledcoper5054 Brutal, but absolutely true. Sometimes I tell a girl I am unemployed - but I still get laid. There is a fascinating, unbelievable story about an Asian spinal surgeon (Dr. Han Jo Kim) in Manhattan who got fleeced by his white (beauty queen) wife for 5 long years after he married her. As smart as he was, it took him that long to figure out that she was leading a double life as a high end hooker behind his back, and making serious bank, servicing other high-earning Beta males. She was no doubt giving it out for free to the hot Alpha guys. If this can happen to a hard-working, very highly educated millionaire simp, what chance do ordinary guys have? I wonder if men have an extra lobe in their brains specifically dedicated to stupidity. Poor guy - it will probably take him years to recover from this devastating emotional trauma. How could he go back to work and face his colleagues, after the story gets splashed all over the news? "The horror, the horror." -- Quote from the the movie - Apocalypse Now.
You should go to Brazil. No emasculation of Asians there
Despite you good intention and thanks for your input but you ain't helping!!
bro what kind of accent is this?
word
You're cute as fuck. Good luck 💜
Your using the wrong dating sights then .
Would you date him?
IDk I know nothing about except that he said he was Asian .
@@aprilwilliams237 Sorry to say, Asians and those not white tend to get a tougher time via online dating sites altogether.
@@MrPurge11 I met my boyfriend on a dating site and he is Korean.There are a lot of men and women that would date someone of Asian descent they sometimes just think they will not be interested in them at least is what I've heard.
@@aprilwilliams237 The stats dont really back it up what you say, online dating sites have a bias against anyone not white, well apart from Asian girls.
I like Asian guys, but i would never give you a like. I am sorry, but i have the feeling, that you need some honesty (and maybe self-reflection) in your life. Shave yourself, wear nice clothes, do some sports and work on your self-confidence. Wish you all the best 🤍
Lmao has nothing to do with that. Stop lying to him. He doesnt have the right bones on his face. Hes not your lookstype. Stop virtue signalling
@@grind75hoursaweekjusttoget48 So you know me and you know what i like or not better than me? 🤔 Wow 😲👍👍
@@michaelam.4828 Which asian guy have you dated?
you would date a tall asian man. it's mostly about height.
@@u235u235u235Actually the asian guy i am dating right know is not that tall. We already discussed my high heels because of that 😁 But he is fine with it and self-confident. You are obviously missing this great feature. And please, don't tell me what would i do or not, i know myself better than you ;) And that's another reason why i would never date a guy like you 😉
Your intro was the problem..complaining..or ranting..workout and focus on self...
He is allowed to rant sometimes, its really hard for Asian men in the dating scene. Even stats back him up.
Why always cry😂😂😂still in this video you are speaking witj very low confident...irritating😁😁😁
how tall are you?
anything less than 5'8" is danger zone.
I always liked Asian guys but they always give me that creepy attitude, I feel like white guys give us more attention as well as black guys. You guys are handsome but have no confidence,
xD get a load of this
yeah, confidence works if your average looking.once you're male model hot , it doesnt matter. Kevin Kreider had confidence but he stated he got shut down many times, even by asian women lol and he is considered a really good looking asian guy. if you;re a light skinned white model hot, you literally could get 95% of chicks out there just from your looks alone. A really hot chick with zero personality, depressed bat shit crazy can get almost any guy. its kinda of like a trophy for men and women.
@@redpilledcoper5054 woah, this is insane. no idea how many messages good looking dudes get. average looking asian guy here, ive received like 3 messages in my years of online dating. it was so depressing I deleted everything a few weeks ago.
@@mitch20003 Mitch, you didn't have "years of online dating" - you had ZERO. Why would you seek a "message" from a dating app if you are not in the top 5% of good looks?
. wait, I forgot to mention I did meet chicks off apps several years ago before online dating really became popular. I should have stated bumble and tinder. I did meet chicks off meet me and pof