YOU Are The PROBLEM: Enneagram Type 4

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  • Опубликовано: 1 янв 2025

Комментарии • 11

  • @peachesandpoets
    @peachesandpoets Год назад +17

    Important for me to learn to love myself because the world is made for different types and I'm not focusing on my faults for the rest of my life to fit in. I'll just do my thing.

  • @lendalcat
    @lendalcat Год назад +10

    This is incredibly helpful information. My daughter is a 4 with a 3 wing, whereas I am a 9 (her mom). We are learning so much from each other since we discovered the Enneagram about 10 years ago. I'm 65, and she's 37. It's as though she has given me a new set of "eyes" to see the world. We recently discovered that she envisions future events (let's say a vacation) with incredible detail. I told her that the future is generally a fog to me and unfolds in vague ideas more than images. Also, she is a conversational "scuba diver," and I'm a conversational "snorkeler." She has taught me the value of "diving deep," and I have taught her the importance of "coming up for air."

    • @Jessicaunarex
      @Jessicaunarex Год назад +1

      Your comment reminded me of me and my mom. I am a 4 and she a 9. The Enneagram got us to understand one another and we would talk about it up until the end of her life, 2 months ago. I miss her everyday.

    • @carleaa
      @carleaa Год назад

      I love this. What a beautiful relationship you two must share ❤❤❤

    • @iamenough6958
      @iamenough6958 Год назад

  • @loralubimaia2783
    @loralubimaia2783 Год назад +18

    Its me hi. Im the problem its me.

  • @mariamkokaia2093
    @mariamkokaia2093 Год назад +7

    I feel attacked. How can one nourish happy and stable relationships with these characteristics? I feel like everyone will run away if I expose all these :D

    • @Deheck-b3p
      @Deheck-b3p Год назад +3

      I feel that all the time as a 4. We should be friends

    • @139G20
      @139G20 Год назад +2

      I feel this way too, like I demand too much energy.. I need intense people with the same value of not the ship either platonic or not won't sail for far

  • @AntoineLavoisier
    @AntoineLavoisier Год назад +2

    I’m a 3W4 so I relate to many of these. Looking forward to Type 3!

  • @amandatempleman1160
    @amandatempleman1160 8 месяцев назад

    Gotdamn, why I gotta be a 4/Aquarius?! I’m way too intense 😢