Hi Nina; Excellent presentation! I certainly enjoyed listening to all of the different aspects of your life that's changed over the last few years. When you mention confidence, I can certainly relate to the fact that earlier in my life I was not confident at all, especially when it came to girls. In high school, I was a very good baseball player. I also had earned a purple belt in Jiu Jitsu. However, I was always worried about the fear of rejection when it came to asking a girl out on a date. What changed for me was, when I went to college and began taking public speaking courses, and eventually speech communication. This gave me more confidence especially when it came to a socializing, and of course around women as well. When you mentioned you've changed from getting up early, to being a night owl, when I was in college I was certainly a night owl too. However, when I begin my Airline career I often worked the early morning 6:00 a.m. flights. So I had to get up by 3:30AM to get ready to get the van from the hotel to go over to the airport and start working my flights for the day. Even now I still get up very early. When you mentioned dancing, that's quite interesting to me. When I was in high school and college I danced a lot. Once I left College I never really got into dancing after that. However, 2 years ago I attended a high school class reunion party. I hadn't danced in a long time. Mainly because of the injury to my right leg. However on this one night at the party, this girl that I really liked in high school, was there. In fact, she was our high school class homecoming princess. She's still a very attractive woman. Shortly after I arrived to the party, she asked me to dance which definitely surprised me. So despite my leg injury, I went out there and danced with her. We had a great time and I didn't feel any pain the entire time I was dancing with her too. That in itself, allowed me to regain some confidence, that I had lost. When you mentioned drinking, while growing up my parents and relatives didn't drink much. So I never got into drinking when I was in high school or even in college. During my Airline career I serve so many drinks to our passengers, I just kind of lost interest in anything about alcohol at all. But one of the biggest changes in the last few years happened near the time that my Mom passed away in 2022. Well I have always been more spiritual than religious, I've been studying psychic mediums and different aspects of that for several years now. So, a few months after after mom passed away in 2022, I went to a psychic medium event in August of 2022. I was selected to receive a reading during the event. During the reading ,Mom my grandfather, my step grandfather, my uncle, all came through during the reading. Then about a year ago , I contacted another psychic medium. During that reading, my Mom came through loud and clear. This in itself made me realize that, even when people cross over, they're still with us. So this really help me deal with losing Mom here in the physical world, in a much calmer way. But I definitely agree with you about enjoying everyday as much as you possibly can. Enjoying the sunrise, the sunsets, the nature, and everything that goes along with it. I bet in 5 years, you'll look back and see other changes that have happened in your life. Hope you have a fantastic week. Brian
Hi Brian, I'm glad you found it interesting! Seeing your perspective is very interesting also:) That's something I bet many people deal in one way or another and the fact that you were able to transfer your skills from public speaking is very smart. That's so interesting how routines and work can have such an impact on how our body clock works and adapts. Yes, exactly! I think something like dancing is reflective of different phases in life. That's so good that even-though it surprised you, you had the courage to go dance and have fun freely. That's a huge change for sure, dealing with loss is such a complex process. I'm glad you've found ways to deal with it in a calmer way. I also find that the perspective of universality is very helpful, in a sense that we are part of life in all that surrounds us, through people, through nature - it lives on and when we notice the details and patterns we are all part of it. Hope your spiritual journey continues to grow and keep you curious. Yes for sure, will have to see how it all evolves in the future! Have an amazing week as well! Nina
Can definitely relate to the changing of habits, especially the dancing! I do think there’s a lot of activities we do as single people that slowly fade away as we become more committed in our relationships. I used to looove dancing at the club, but I don’t enjoy nightlife, drinking and clubs as much as I used to. I find that I find myself dancing the most whilst doing chores! Hahah sounds kinda sad but it reflects a genuine change in my lifestyle and interests more than anything. I have been thinking about other ways i can still enjoy dancing and want to check out more dance classes and concerts! Sometimes I think it’s just about taking favourite aspect from old lifestyles and putting them into new contexts ❤️
I love that perspective ! 💌 to transform those fun habits into new chapters of life. Dancing while cleaning sounds like such a good idea? I shall give that a go 🥰
Hi Nina;
Excellent presentation!
I certainly enjoyed listening to all of the different aspects of your life that's changed over the last few years.
When you mention confidence, I can certainly relate to the fact that earlier in my life I was not confident at all, especially when it came to girls.
In high school, I was a very good baseball player. I also had earned a purple belt in Jiu Jitsu. However, I was always worried about the fear of rejection when it came to asking a girl out on a date.
What changed for me was, when I went to college and began taking public speaking courses, and eventually speech communication. This gave me more confidence especially when it came to a socializing, and of course around women as well.
When you mentioned you've changed from getting up early, to being a night owl, when I was in college I was certainly a night owl too.
However, when I begin my Airline career I often worked the early morning 6:00 a.m. flights. So I had to get up by 3:30AM to get ready to get the van from the hotel to go over to the airport and start working my flights for the day.
Even now I still get up very early.
When you mentioned dancing, that's quite interesting to me.
When I was in high school and college I danced a lot. Once I left College I never really got into dancing after that.
However, 2 years ago I attended a high school class reunion party. I hadn't danced in a long time. Mainly because of the injury to my right leg. However on this one night at the party, this girl that I really liked in high school, was there. In fact, she was our high school class homecoming princess. She's still a very attractive woman.
Shortly after I arrived to the party, she asked me to dance which definitely surprised me. So despite my leg injury, I went out there and danced with her. We had a great time and I didn't feel any pain the entire time I was dancing with her too.
That in itself, allowed me to regain some confidence, that I had lost.
When you mentioned drinking, while growing up my parents and relatives didn't drink much. So I never got into drinking when I was in high school or even in college.
During my Airline career I serve so many drinks to our passengers, I just kind of lost interest in anything about alcohol at all.
But one of the biggest changes in the last few years happened near the time that my Mom passed away in 2022.
Well I have always been more spiritual than religious, I've been studying psychic mediums and different aspects of that for several years now.
So, a few months after after mom passed away in 2022, I went to a psychic medium event in August of 2022. I was selected to receive a reading during the event. During the reading ,Mom my grandfather, my step grandfather, my uncle, all came through during the reading.
Then about a year ago , I contacted another psychic medium. During that reading, my Mom came through loud and clear.
This in itself made me realize that, even when people cross over, they're still with us. So this really help me deal with losing Mom here in the physical world, in a much calmer way.
But I definitely agree with you about enjoying everyday as much as you possibly can. Enjoying the sunrise, the sunsets, the nature, and everything that goes along with it.
I bet in 5 years, you'll look back and see other changes that have happened in your life.
Hope you have a fantastic week.
Brian
Hi Brian,
I'm glad you found it interesting! Seeing your perspective is very interesting also:)
That's something I bet many people deal in one way or another and the fact that you were able to transfer your skills from public speaking is very smart.
That's so interesting how routines and work can have such an impact on how our body clock works and adapts.
Yes, exactly! I think something like dancing is reflective of different phases in life. That's so good that even-though it surprised you, you had the courage to go dance and have fun freely.
That's a huge change for sure, dealing with loss is such a complex process. I'm glad you've found ways to deal with it in a calmer way. I also find that the perspective of universality is very helpful, in a sense that we are part of life in all that surrounds us, through people, through nature - it lives on and when we notice the details and patterns we are all part of it. Hope your spiritual journey continues to grow and keep you curious.
Yes for sure, will have to see how it all evolves in the future!
Have an amazing week as well!
Nina
Can definitely relate to the changing of habits, especially the dancing! I do think there’s a lot of activities we do as single people that slowly fade away as we become more committed in our relationships. I used to looove dancing at the club, but I don’t enjoy nightlife, drinking and clubs as much as I used to. I find that I find myself dancing the most whilst doing chores! Hahah sounds kinda sad but it reflects a genuine change in my lifestyle and interests more than anything. I have been thinking about other ways i can still enjoy dancing and want to check out more dance classes and concerts! Sometimes I think it’s just about taking favourite aspect from old lifestyles and putting them into new contexts ❤️
I love that perspective ! 💌 to transform those fun habits into new chapters of life. Dancing while cleaning sounds like such a good idea? I shall give that a go 🥰