I’m glad you covered this. I went through postpartum with both of my children. I had thoughts of harming my daughter and didn’t know why. I was so relieved at my checkup when my doctor asked if I had thoughts or harming myself or my baby. Relieved because I didn’t have to be the first to mention it. My doctor laughed at my fearful reaction admitting to it. I was even more relieved when she told me there was a name for it. The second time with my son I had thoughts of harming myself. This postpartum was far worse than the first time. I was diagnosed with obsessive compulsive postpartum depression. They prescribed me with hardcore medicines that I was too scared to take. So I prayed as hard as the depression hit and God delivered me from all of it 🙌🏼
Carlita Washington I feel absolute trust shouldn’t be overemphasized in a relationship, smartness is also very important. There’s a popular saying that “don’t trust too much because that too much might hurt you so much”. A Narcissist shouldn’t be trusted, they’re toxic!. My greatest disappointment was discovering my wife cheating on me through the help of Cyberhackingsage who helped cloned her cellphone and i was able to read all her messages and uncover my wife’s infidelity without having to touch her phone. All i did was share my wife’s number with Cyberhackingsage and i got access to her Facebook, WhatsApp and text messages both deleted and incoming ones with a link on my phone. Thanks to Cyberhackingsage, now i have enough evidence for my divorce. You can contact him ( cyberhackingsage@gmail )Or Text/Call and WhatsApp him on +15713758467. Thank me later.
@@tamannasvlog2182 I wrote down Bible scriptures on separate pieces of paper and posted them all over my room. So the moment I woke up, I was greeted with a scripture that blocked those depression attacks. Whenever I would leave my room and those thoughts came back, I would go back to my room and just read whatever was on my wall. Read Philippians 4:8 and Psalm 29:11. Also, google Bible scriptures specifically for postpartum depression. The Lord will see you through it!
@@HamAndBeef13thank u so much i feel releived when i see many people like me facing this type of problem,I have lot of unwanted thoughts I feel afraid inside,psychiatre prescribed me medicine ,almost 3 weeks I take,I don't know how much go far
@@tamannasvlog2182 I know what you mean! It is a scary and lonely feeling and you feel doomed. I also feel relieved meeting other people like me that can relate to what I went through. I feel even more better when I can share how I got out of it cus I swear I thought this was gonna be the death of me. During this time, I also suffered panic attacks that grew into agoraphobia. So I used to ask God to either completely take it away or to kill me because I was that miserable. Looking back, I’m so glad He didn’t drop everything in the universe and just take this away because I wouldn’t know how to help other people overcome their depression. Just remember to say that this is temporary, you’ve been through this before and this too shall pass and eventually it will ❤️
I've suffered panic attacks and anxiety for almost a year and it was not a good feeling at all but I prayed and God healed me, now am a first time mum to a 1 month old and I have been having light anxiety and the fact that am home since m on maternity leave am not used to being home and doing all the feeding and sleepless nights but now I know how to handle it, it is just not something one can ever get used to... May God strengthen all the mothers
This video has brought me tons of relief to know that I am not alone. This is my first pregnancy and I’ve had a lot of unwanted thoughts due to anxiety. I cry about it at times and ask myself why am I thinking these things? I love my baby, I want to protect my baby, so why? When I know I would never ever want that to happen. It’s comforting to know I am not crazy and this is normal and happens to a lot of pregnant women. Taking on an entire new role and caring for a new life, for the rest of your life, would make anyone feel crazy at times. It’s such a huge change I am going to have to adapt to and I’m hoping with the help of my family and faith that I will persevere and be the best mom to my daughter. I only want the best for my baby and myself. I am going to let my doctor know about some of these feelings I have to get further help if needed, I can’t be ashamed or feel like a horrible person anymore.
r u recovery from this,kindly I want to know,I am facing same type of problem, I have lot of unwanted thoughts, i want to kill myself, my upcoming baby also my mind said not me, I don't how I remove this unwanted thoughts???
Same here ..to top all my family husband no one understands me...I cry days/nghts beyong imagination.. small things irritate me...no one even senses what m feeling...I need some help plz
Not talked about enough. This is such an important topic. Personally, I don’t even feel comfortable speaking to a therapist about it cause it’s a stranger
🤣 I kept thinking the same thing. Looks like a giant malty marshmallow 🥰♥️🙌🏽 I want to just sink into it and not get up until my due date in September lol
So happy to see this spoken about and make me feel like I'm not alone. I have a history of anxiety and depression but haven't had any relapses in a few years, however I'm now 8 weeks pregnant and have been going down hill mentally the last week. I'm lucky that I know how I feel when my anxiety is bad, it's still scary and worrying, but I at least know that I need to seek help. I had an 'aha' moment today realising the root of my anxiety is due to finances concerns and not being ready (can you ever be ready though). I'm now working with my GP and antenatal psychologist to assist with counselling and new medications combos. I'm still feeling anxious but starting to feel in control again. Thanks again for talking about this, I think prenatal anxiety and depression doesn't get talk enough like postpartum depression.
I have bad anxiety. Severe panic attacks. I want to have a family. But I hyperventilate just thinking about becoming pregnant because I feel like i won't be able to breathe if I become pregnant.
Thank you for discussing this topic. Do you have any tips for pregnant ladies who are depressed but the depression isnt necessarily surrounding the baby. If im being honest, my baby is the one thing keeping me going. Im having a hard time with hormones and dealing with work, relationships, mortgage, unstable future is all getting to me. Im struggling to look after myself and stop myself from crying all the time.
Im not having bad thoughts about baby im depressed about my body nd im always blaming my husband for being a cheater even though he hasn’t done anything i feel like my life has ended i should die nd stuff like that these thoughts cant let me sleep im dying inside im always crying i need help but no one understands whats going on even I don’t understand i just have started hating my self 🥺😭😭😭
Hi, I hope someone can give me some advice. My GF is ten weeks pregnant, and she has anxiety. She was struggling to feed herself. She was in the hospital, and I was there to support her all the time. She was discharged yesterday. I came to her home to see if she was ok because I didn't hear from her all day. She got angry cos I turned up at her home cos she said was going to spend a time with her mum I got this message; She asked me for a alone time I don't get it why. She texted me this: Atm I need sometime to myself to do some selfcare so I would like to ask that you respect that i have decided I need to take some space for the next few days. If you would like to message me you can but I will not always reply. This is not me saying I don't still care about you etc this is just what I need for me right now. So wow I don't know why this big change?
I can somewhat understand, I'm currently 28 weeks pregnant and I'm living with my mother for a brief period of time, until I give birth, the thing is pregnancy hormones are so good at messing up brain and thoughts that even us women find it difficult to deal with, she'll have so many thoughts and insecurities even if these problems don't exist, she Will think about them and just be worried, So all i can say is it's a pretty difficult time for her mentally, and the best thing you can do is convince her that she's not alone in this journey, and that you are ready to be there for her whenever she needs you... Don't worry, she's just concerned that the way her state of mind is in, she'll end up arguing with you on things that don't even have relevance... So don't worry she isn't angry on you or anything , it's just that her mind is a mess rn. .. I can tell that pregnancy hormones are making her feel like that because these damn hormones have made me a difficult person to deal with
Ben Rizzo what are you confused about? I’m just curious because I could possibly help you understand and help you become less confused, if you tell me what exactly is confusing you?
@@singer07872007 I guess the entire situation....all the details....I'm just wondering why sometimes I just can't get it going!...I'm just thinking my mind's playing tricks on me...so I fight back get up and make myself complete a 15 to 20 hour day of work.....I won't do the pills......I feel I can retrain my thinking and just get better......I don't know......the minds a very powerful part of the body......and I feel we all have the tools to control it.....just how we want to...would enjoy a Doctor! But who do I choose......how do I know there not to filled up w other people problems....and can't give me 100%
Ben Rizzo call your health insurance & they’ll give you a list of primary care physicians in your area & you’ll have to call the primary to make the appointment. If you DONT have health care, apply for social/government health care at your local Department of Human Services (most all govt aid application will be in a govt building like this). This could be a lengthy process but if you are open with your case worker about what you need/when you need then they should be able to help you with “emergency services” such as Food stamps, seeing a doctor and even some re/homing benefits! I was undiagnosed with private insurance till 2016 (then got a diagnosis on private INS) & I had to apply for govt aid in 2017 with a diagnosis in order to receive benefits. Hope that info helps you find a spot to start your journey! Good luck!
@@thecrowshow6260 I'm good.......I'm just ganna keep working a d doing what I love! Building race cars.....lol ....I have to laugh...... going to the state for help....I pay child support and I'm almost paid off....you ever see the way the state runs there show....lmao.....I have no time to waste thanx though for your input ..take care
here's a few things worth trying Do Not have stimulants like alcohol and coffee Take part in relaxing activities Do daily exercises Seek help from others (I discovered these and more ideas on Trevs panic fixer website )
Access more mental health video series like this one HERE: bit.ly/2Vxj4I9
I’m glad you covered this. I went through postpartum with both of my children. I had thoughts of harming my daughter and didn’t know why. I was so relieved at my checkup when my doctor asked if I had thoughts or harming myself or my baby. Relieved because I didn’t have to be the first to mention it. My doctor laughed at my fearful reaction admitting to it. I was even more relieved when she told me there was a name for it. The second time with my son I had thoughts of harming myself. This postpartum was far worse than the first time. I was diagnosed with obsessive compulsive postpartum depression. They prescribed me with hardcore medicines that I was too scared to take. So I prayed as hard as the depression hit and God delivered me from all of it 🙌🏼
Carlita Washington I feel absolute trust shouldn’t be overemphasized in a relationship, smartness is also very important. There’s a popular saying that “don’t trust too much because that too much might hurt you so much”. A Narcissist shouldn’t be trusted, they’re toxic!. My greatest disappointment was discovering my wife cheating on me through the help of Cyberhackingsage who helped cloned her cellphone and i was able to read all her messages and uncover my wife’s infidelity without having to touch her phone. All i did was share my wife’s number with Cyberhackingsage and i got access to her Facebook, WhatsApp and text messages both deleted and incoming ones with a link on my phone. Thanks to Cyberhackingsage, now i have enough evidence for my divorce. You can contact him ( cyberhackingsage@gmail )Or Text/Call and WhatsApp him on +15713758467. Thank me later.
how u recovery from this????
@@tamannasvlog2182 I wrote down Bible scriptures on separate pieces of paper and posted them all over my room. So the moment I woke up, I was greeted with a scripture that blocked those depression attacks. Whenever I would leave my room and those thoughts came back, I would go back to my room and just read whatever was on my wall. Read Philippians 4:8 and Psalm 29:11. Also, google Bible scriptures specifically for postpartum depression. The Lord will see you through it!
@@HamAndBeef13thank u so much i feel releived when i see many people like me facing this type of problem,I have lot of unwanted thoughts I feel afraid inside,psychiatre prescribed me medicine ,almost 3 weeks I take,I don't know how much go far
@@tamannasvlog2182 I know what you mean! It is a scary and lonely feeling and you feel doomed. I also feel relieved meeting other people like me that can relate to what I went through. I feel even more better when I can share how I got out of it cus I swear I thought this was gonna be the death of me. During this time, I also suffered panic attacks that grew into agoraphobia. So I used to ask God to either completely take it away or to kill me because I was that miserable. Looking back, I’m so glad He didn’t drop everything in the universe and just take this away because I wouldn’t know how to help other people overcome their depression. Just remember to say that this is temporary, you’ve been through this before and this too shall pass and eventually it will ❤️
I've suffered panic attacks and anxiety for almost a year and it was not a good feeling at all but I prayed and God healed me, now am a first time mum to a 1 month old and I have been having light anxiety and the fact that am home since m on maternity leave am not used to being home and doing all the feeding and sleepless nights but now I know how to handle it, it is just not something one can ever get used to... May God strengthen all the mothers
Would this have any effect on baby I’m very scared
This video has brought me tons of relief to know that I am not alone. This is my first pregnancy and I’ve had a lot of unwanted thoughts due to anxiety. I cry about it at times and ask myself why am I thinking these things? I love my baby, I want to protect my baby, so why? When I know I would never ever want that to happen. It’s comforting to know I am not crazy and this is normal and happens to a lot of pregnant women. Taking on an entire new role and caring for a new life, for the rest of your life, would make anyone feel crazy at times. It’s such a huge change I am going to have to adapt to and I’m hoping with the help of my family and faith that I will persevere and be the best mom to my daughter. I only want the best for my baby and myself. I am going to let my doctor know about some of these feelings I have to get further help if needed, I can’t be ashamed or feel like a horrible person anymore.
r u recovery from this,kindly I want to know,I am facing same type of problem, I have lot of unwanted thoughts, i want to kill myself, my upcoming baby also my mind said not me, I don't how I remove this unwanted thoughts???
Same here ..to top all my family husband no one understands me...I cry days/nghts beyong imagination.. small things irritate me...no one even senses what m feeling...I need some help plz
@@tamannasvlog2182 same problem to m..can anyone help m
@@ramaprabhakaran9540 would this have any effect on baby
@@tannishthasaha4455 would this have any effect on baby
Not talked about enough. This is such an important topic. Personally, I don’t even feel comfortable speaking to a therapist about it cause it’s a stranger
That sofa looks so comfortable.
Thank you for covering mental health in pregnancy!
🤣 I kept thinking the same thing. Looks like a giant malty marshmallow 🥰♥️🙌🏽 I want to just sink into it and not get up until my due date in September lol
@@WorldOfNicky legit 😂😂😂
So happy to see this spoken about and make me feel like I'm not alone. I have a history of anxiety and depression but haven't had any relapses in a few years, however I'm now 8 weeks pregnant and have been going down hill mentally the last week. I'm lucky that I know how I feel when my anxiety is bad, it's still scary and worrying, but I at least know that I need to seek help. I had an 'aha' moment today realising the root of my anxiety is due to finances concerns and not being ready (can you ever be ready though). I'm now working with my GP and antenatal psychologist to assist with counselling and new medications combos. I'm still feeling anxious but starting to feel in control again. Thanks again for talking about this, I think prenatal anxiety and depression doesn't get talk enough like postpartum depression.
Are u ok now
I been to the ER twice in 2 weeks and they did EKG becuase they thought it was a heart attack but listening to this make me realize a lot...😨😥😭
I have bad anxiety. Severe panic attacks. I want to have a family. But I hyperventilate just thinking about becoming pregnant because I feel like i won't be able to breathe if I become pregnant.
After knowing that feeding my baby it cause me more anxious, I deside to stop! For now I'm anxiety free just after one week!
how many feeling there tight elastic band around chest and rib cage,, lump in throat feeling
A good debate.lots of things to be learned from this podcasts
Thank you for discussing this topic. Do you have any tips for pregnant ladies who are depressed but the depression isnt necessarily surrounding the baby. If im being honest, my baby is the one thing keeping me going. Im having a hard time with hormones and dealing with work, relationships, mortgage, unstable future is all getting to me. Im struggling to look after myself and stop myself from crying all the time.
How is the baby would these thoughts have any effect on baby
Important topic! Thanks for covering it. Great video!
That was really helpful as this is my first time being pregnant
Are you afraid pregnant 🤰🏽 sounds scary . Are u ok ?
I am pragnant and having problem of anxiety 😢
Kia problem hai apka sath
the dog has moved to the couch. yes . love the dog like the people
Im not having bad thoughts about baby im depressed about my body nd im always blaming my husband for being a cheater even though he hasn’t done anything i feel like my life has ended i should die nd stuff like that these thoughts cant let me sleep im dying inside im always crying i need help but no one understands whats going on even I don’t understand i just have started hating my self 🥺😭😭😭
whats
@Aymen Berour I delivered the baby a month ago and everything seems to be normal now and im doing good now 🥰
@@sadafscreation672 I m also have anxiety in pregnancy can I will be ok
I m in 8 month pregnancy
@@sheikhawaissheikhawais4758 inshAllah as soos you have baby every thing will be okay nd you will feel normal
The dog is so lovely 😍
Hi, I hope someone can give me some advice. My GF is ten weeks pregnant, and she has anxiety. She was struggling to feed herself. She was in the hospital, and I was there to support her all the time. She was discharged yesterday. I came to her home to see if she was ok because I didn't hear from her all day. She got angry cos I turned up at her home cos she said was going to spend a time with her mum I got this message;
She asked me for a alone time I don't get it why.
She texted me this:
Atm I need sometime to myself to do some selfcare so I would like to ask that you respect that i have decided I need to take some space for the next few days. If you would like to message me you can but I will not always reply. This is not me saying I don't still care about you etc this is just what I need for me right now.
So wow I don't know why this big change?
I can somewhat understand, I'm currently 28 weeks pregnant and I'm living with my mother for a brief period of time, until I give birth, the thing is pregnancy hormones are so good at messing up brain and thoughts that even us women find it difficult to deal with, she'll have so many thoughts and insecurities even if these problems don't exist, she Will think about them and just be worried,
So all i can say is it's a pretty difficult time for her mentally, and the best thing you can do is convince her that she's not alone in this journey, and that you are ready to be there for her whenever she needs you... Don't worry, she's just concerned that the way her state of mind is in, she'll end up arguing with you on things that don't even have relevance... So don't worry she isn't angry on you or anything , it's just that her mind is a mess rn. ..
I can tell that pregnancy hormones are making her feel like that because these damn hormones have made me a difficult person to deal with
This was very much helpful🙏
I can't concentrate with the dog ..I want one it's so cute
Callie on sec 0:18 Yeap ... I know Kyle... Here back in Medcircle.... We already know it! 🤣🐶 So cutie!
Im now more confused then ever...I'm not having a baby..I'm done I'll just handle it myself...thanx!!
Ben Rizzo what are you confused about? I’m just curious because I could possibly help you understand and help you become less confused, if you tell me what exactly is confusing you?
@@singer07872007 I guess the entire situation....all the details....I'm just wondering why sometimes I just can't get it going!...I'm just thinking my mind's playing tricks on me...so I fight back get up and make myself complete a 15 to 20 hour day of work.....I won't do the pills......I feel I can retrain my thinking and just get better......I don't know......the minds a very powerful part of the body......and I feel we all have the tools to control it.....just how we want to...would enjoy a Doctor! But who do I choose......how do I know there not to filled up w other people problems....and can't give me 100%
Hello
Ben Rizzo call your health insurance & they’ll give you a list of primary care physicians in your area & you’ll have to call the primary to make the appointment.
If you DONT have health care, apply for social/government health care at your local Department of Human Services (most all govt aid application will be in a govt building like this). This could be a lengthy process but if you are open with your case worker about what you need/when you need then they should be able to help you with “emergency services” such as Food stamps, seeing a doctor and even some re/homing benefits!
I was undiagnosed with private insurance till 2016 (then got a diagnosis on private INS) & I had to apply for govt aid in 2017 with a diagnosis in order to receive benefits.
Hope that info helps you find a spot to start your journey! Good luck!
@@thecrowshow6260 I'm good.......I'm just ganna keep working a d doing what I love! Building race cars.....lol ....I have to laugh...... going to the state for help....I pay child support and I'm almost paid off....you ever see the way the state runs there show....lmao.....I have no time to waste thanx though for your input ..take care
I’m caring but disrespectful
she is not beautiful; beauty itself is her
Kelly trolling the interview :*
🙏❤️
I thought this was Casey Anthony. My heart dropped.
The dog is so distracting, especially for someone with ADD and GAD.
here's a few things worth trying
Do Not have stimulants like alcohol and coffee
Take part in relaxing activities
Do daily exercises
Seek help from others
(I discovered these and more ideas on Trevs panic fixer website )