I'm struggling... to balance dating & work. What should I do??

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  • Опубликовано: 27 сен 2024

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  • @DinaLu
    @DinaLu  10 месяцев назад +6

    Actually really nervous to share this video..... Let me know what you think❤

    • @jetimpulse
      @jetimpulse 10 месяцев назад +1

      I think it takes a lot of courage to be able to share your feelings in front of thousands of people. im sure it wasnt easy but you did it! you are stronger than you realize and thats truly amazing!! another great video dina

    • @DinaLu
      @DinaLu  10 месяцев назад +1

      @@jetimpulse thank you so much ✨♥️

  • @alexandramonette4753
    @alexandramonette4753 10 месяцев назад +2

    I feel you! But you know what, dont stress over this. You have a lot on your plate. Focus on tour business and love will come. Im 41 single no job and would really love to start my cards artist business too. One thing at a time friend. I rarely comment but I had to tell you. Dont stress, you have a lot of love to give and it shows . Take care ❤

    • @DinaLu
      @DinaLu  9 месяцев назад +1

      Thank you so much, that means a lot to me! ♥️ Wishing you best of luck on the greeting card business!

    • @Mustang85635
      @Mustang85635 9 месяцев назад

      41 single no job Jesus 😅

  • @zahrashivapour770
    @zahrashivapour770 9 месяцев назад

    As i said before, thank you so much for being a human! I really feel grateful from the bottom of my heart that God shows me people like you who share their honest journey in their life. It's the best reminder of what life is and how fine I walk my path. Dina, I really like to be your friend. I'm not comfortable with my English. Hopefully, I make it one of my motivations to practice more effectively 😊 best wishes ❤

    • @DinaLu
      @DinaLu  9 месяцев назад

      Thank you so much, I so appreciate you! Your comment means a lot to me. So glad you resonated with this video ❤️

  • @StreetwiseEconomics
    @StreetwiseEconomics 4 месяца назад

    Thanks for sharing your experience!

  • @propertystories
    @propertystories 8 месяцев назад

    Hmm...i think it's a relief to see behind the scenes instead of a picture perfect super woman who's excelling in everything she does ie perfect business, perfect life, perfect all around.
    Basically just seeing you as human most of us can relate to as we are all on the same boat in this journey called life.
    thanks for sharing Dina

    • @DinaLu
      @DinaLu  8 месяцев назад

      Thank you so much! 💕

  • @scottandgrace1
    @scottandgrace1 10 месяцев назад +2

    Maybe instead of only dating, you could mix in your friend's groups. You never know who you will meet and it takes the pressure off when you're at a social event. Sometimes your right person is either right under your nose or you meet that special someone when you're not looking. I think going on lots of dates could be like looking for a car... you look at so many and you freeze on the next step... the decision part. Hope it goes well for you.

    • @DinaLu
      @DinaLu  9 месяцев назад

      Yes that's really true! Thanks for the suggestion, I think that's perfect for the holiday time.

  • @nebulacurvefilms
    @nebulacurvefilms 10 месяцев назад

    Sometimes when we ask our selves deep long questions, the answer usually comes; hope this helps a little.

    • @DinaLu
      @DinaLu  9 месяцев назад

      I love that, thank you so much 💕

  • @AnggiSahamCantik
    @AnggiSahamCantik 9 месяцев назад +1

    Hahaa. You are not alone, Girl. I'm 37, start new writing business, and just sign up with online dating game 3 daya ago 😂 I feel you. Dealing with biz stuff is easier than personal stuff. I still try to figure things out 😅

    • @DinaLu
      @DinaLu  9 месяцев назад +1

      Awww wishing the best for both of us ♥️✨

  • @brianchua4240
    @brianchua4240 10 месяцев назад

    I've never been an entrepreneur, but considering the amount of responsibilities you're dealing with, that's a heavy plate of balance to deal with. Currently, the company I'm working for is going through a brutal 2 months of work hell with consistent 50+ hours of work/week but it's even higher than that during the weekends when we work. There were times weeks ago I've charged 60+ hours which is way more than I've ever done. But to balance that, I try to go for walks on my own just to relieve the stress or take a few hours off from work and go hangout with my friends. Actually, a couple of weekends now, my friends and I have taken the chance to just go out of town but not too far just to get away from everything both work wise and personally. It helps big time.
    Praying for you Dina!

    • @DinaLu
      @DinaLu  9 месяцев назад +1

      Brian, thank you so much for your encouragement! Wow that's a lot of hours to work.. I'm really glad I can be more flexible with my hours. I'm glad that you're finding things that are helping you to relax more like going out with your friends, that's awesome. Thank you so much again💕

    • @brianchua4240
      @brianchua4240 9 месяцев назад

      You keep doing what you're doing Dina!

  • @michaellim7635
    @michaellim7635 9 месяцев назад

    Great reflections Dina. You're doing so well. Keep sharing these personal stories

    • @DinaLu
      @DinaLu  9 месяцев назад

      Thank you so much Michael!

  • @butonphillie5114
    @butonphillie5114 6 месяцев назад

    You beautiful .. stay on your grind girl🎉❤💪 ... meet a guy who is on your level don't settle for average .. he has to be a entrepreneur like you

    • @DinaLu
      @DinaLu  6 месяцев назад

      Thank you!

  • @taijiayee6122
    @taijiayee6122 10 месяцев назад

    Support Dina as always! ❤

    • @DinaLu
      @DinaLu  10 месяцев назад

      Thank you ♥️✨

  • @Reda-qg3fq
    @Reda-qg3fq 9 месяцев назад

    In fact I work to date, to get motivated to work to date again and the same loop repeat itself 😂

  • @breadyforlife08
    @breadyforlife08 10 месяцев назад

    You are so relatable❤

    • @DinaLu
      @DinaLu  9 месяцев назад

      Aww I'm so happy that you think that!

  • @stasiaerickson9342
    @stasiaerickson9342 10 месяцев назад

    34 and single. Honestly, I really like it. 😁

  • @LennyTim
    @LennyTim 10 месяцев назад

    Great video Dina. I can't imagine how difficult it is to date nowadays....
    By the way, hope your Etsy store picks up. I've been doing Etsy for many years now and even though I'm not an expert I have some experience. So if you ever want to get some input---

    • @DinaLu
      @DinaLu  9 месяцев назад

      Thank you so much! The dating scene is quite interesting these days hahaha. And thanks, hope the Etsy shop picks up!

  • @jumlicky
    @jumlicky 9 месяцев назад

    Long time no see😝aunt Dina(it sounds u're old haha),i think the meaning of life is to do what u're interested in,just do it.😋

    • @DinaLu
      @DinaLu  9 месяцев назад

      I miss China so much! Hope you are doing well in university!!

    • @jumlicky
      @jumlicky 9 месяцев назад

      @@DinaLu thx~i am gonna to have CET4 test this weekend,i wish i could pass it😣

    • @DinaLu
      @DinaLu  9 месяцев назад

      @@jumlicky good luck 加油!

  • @jenescollen
    @jenescollen 9 месяцев назад

    Etsy Digital Download....
    It is different from the etsy available on your mobile can you please share a tutorial on how to create a account for selling digital product? Hope to get a reply..... 😊

    • @DinaLu
      @DinaLu  9 месяцев назад +1

      I have a 1 hour tutorial on RUclips called how to start an Etsy shop!

    • @jenescollen
      @jenescollen 9 месяцев назад

      @@DinaLu thank you

  • @dramamoviebuff
    @dramamoviebuff 10 месяцев назад

    I'm 33 and single

    • @EddyTheLion
      @EddyTheLion 10 месяцев назад

      ❤ single life is the best

  • @joshdehustler
    @joshdehustler 10 месяцев назад +1

    Wow, ❤

    • @DinaLu
      @DinaLu  10 месяцев назад +1

      ♥️✨

    • @joshdehustler
      @joshdehustler 10 месяцев назад +1

      @@DinaLu longest time 😉😊

  • @kizarumelon2477
    @kizarumelon2477 10 месяцев назад

    but yes i feel u haha. think its an issue with today's society, everyone chasing money because its so expensive to live. also in today's world ur a driving, no walking and rarely meet new people... so hard to find partners. society morality has also broken down

    • @DinaLu
      @DinaLu  9 месяцев назад

      I'm glad you resonated with this video!

  • @Aureu
    @Aureu 10 месяцев назад

    I am 35 and still single. So I have it worse. It may comfort you 😉

    • @aviosene
      @aviosene 10 месяцев назад

      What a really callous thing to say

    • @Aureu
      @Aureu 10 месяцев назад

      @@aviosene That was a joke! 😆

    • @EddyTheLion
      @EddyTheLion 10 месяцев назад

      Too many broke boys 😂

  • @brunolimaengenharia
    @brunolimaengenharia 10 месяцев назад

    OMG

  • @emmanuelowusu220
    @emmanuelowusu220 10 месяцев назад +2

    I love the transparency❤❤
    Hope you get someone who will love you like how you love your business😊

    • @DinaLu
      @DinaLu  10 месяцев назад +1

      Thank you so much Emmanuel, that means a lot to me!

  • @AntoVntura
    @AntoVntura 9 месяцев назад

    I am 21 and I can't even meet new peeople. I am so lonly

  • @darcdemon
    @darcdemon 10 месяцев назад +1

    Being in a relationship is not all it's cracked up to be.

    • @DinaLu
      @DinaLu  10 месяцев назад +1

      Relationships can be really complicated, but really rewarding and meaningful I believe.

  • @Vincentmiaw99
    @Vincentmiaw99 10 месяцев назад +1

    You go gurl. There always 2 sides of the coins. There's a balance between 1 over the other I'm glad to see your success in all your business . I wish you all the best on your dating life and your future . I recommend a book "The mountain in you".

    • @DinaLu
      @DinaLu  10 месяцев назад +1

      Thank you so much Vincent! Actually I read that book and I loved it so much!!

    • @kizarumelon2477
      @kizarumelon2477 10 месяцев назад

      stfu up. ur recommending books? I suggest she go to big community meet up events like those down town, find a bunch of nice looking dudes she likes and hand them pieces of paper with her number on it and wave at them

    • @kizarumelon2477
      @kizarumelon2477 10 месяцев назад

      @@DinaLu As a girl approaching guys, ur success rate will be over 50%. as compared to like 5% for dudes lol

  • @TaylorHaselton
    @TaylorHaselton 8 месяцев назад

    Thank you for sharing this video. It’s not always easy to be vulnerable on social media. It’ll be okay. I hope things get better soon!

    • @DinaLu
      @DinaLu  8 месяцев назад

      Thank you so much Taylor!

  • @EddyTheLion
    @EddyTheLion 10 месяцев назад

    Can't date if people broke 😂

  • @sharonunwritten
    @sharonunwritten 9 месяцев назад

    It was a hectic week for me and I didn’t check my YT until now. My comment was featured 😂😂😂🎉🎉🎉 Thank you Dina ❤
    The dating struggle is real and I think a lot of us can relate to it, especially for people who are creatives or building their creative careers. Thank you for taking us on this personal journey.

    • @DinaLu
      @DinaLu  9 месяцев назад +1

      Thank YOU for all your support and encouragement! ♥️

  • @bsamuel3758
    @bsamuel3758 10 месяцев назад

    something that’s changed me in my entrepreneurial and dating life is learning my personality type. I learned I am INFP which shared how I process information and strengths. not always being 100% productive doing “the thing” is relatable and necessary for me because my cognitive way of thinking actually needs the regular breaks and more methodical thinking. I get way more done for myself having this awareness. you know your MBTI type?

    • @DinaLu
      @DinaLu  9 месяцев назад +1

      I'm not too into the mbti, but I think I'm a INFJ. I'm more into the enneagram, and I'm type 7. But yes that's so true, I've learned so much about myself from these personality frameworks, especially the enneagram.

  • @joyceho1290
    @joyceho1290 9 месяцев назад

    I wanna say I loved this video 🥰 it’s common that we don’t show our problems on social media but thanks for sharing on your video :)

    • @DinaLu
      @DinaLu  9 месяцев назад

      Awww thank you so much joyce! ♥️

  • @robinswaytoday
    @robinswaytoday 9 месяцев назад

    Hi Dina, It’s so nice of you to share yourself with your viewers. Thank you. I’m retired but still have a lot of things to balance in my life. Staying busy is a good thing. Friends are important in our lives too. ❤❤ You are amazing Dina.

    • @DinaLu
      @DinaLu  9 месяцев назад

      Thank you so much for your encouragement ♥️