Tinder sucks. It's full of women who are incredibly dull and basic, and it's your job to be their jester. They offer absolutely nothing on their profile, and if you even want to have a chance of them responding you have to handcraft a message just for them. Even then, the chances of them responding are about 50/50. And the women that do respond are usually incredibly dull and offer just a few words response, not continuing the convo. Yet it's your job to constantly entertain them when they offer nothing in return
Problem: Women are spoiled for choice. They get so many messages and matches that they feel like the world is in the palm of their hands. Their confidence skyrockets. Too many dudes put women on pedestals and women get so confident that they have way too much power. Big problem. This makes them feel entitled, like they can get a man that is WAY out of their league. Guys, stop treating women like they're God's gift to men and try to compose yourselves. Don't hand over power to women because they abuse it
Whatever your name is, you nailed it. 1,000%.... They cater to that type of treatment, but you can NEVER earn respect by putting them on a pedestal. And chicks end up with a big problem too, since they have no idea which guy to go for and which to not go for, with all of these push overs throwing themselves at them. They either exploit that type of treatment or look around Until they find a guy who lets them know that they aren't needed.... Then get heartbroken (because he's the one they love). Because he's not a pushover like most of the rest. Furthermore, the society places a position of strength by default in the woman's hands.... Because you can have a family with her. Every day, after you have a nest egg built up she has the option to take everything, leave AND continue taking your money for basically the rest of your life, with no issue. On top of that- she'll be with another guy real quick. There is no rational reason to enter a relationship where someone else gets to collect a payout and get free money from you for life. Its a scam completely (not that all chicks would do that). But eventually, its much more likely to happen as the relationship status diminishes and deteriorates based on the complexities such as finances, and other difficulties.
Tinder, at least at my age, is useless. The few matches I've gotten in a year have turned out to be fruitless to say the least. I am a decent hard working average looking guy. I think I have matched no more than ten times in a calendar year. Women have unrealistic expectations, fives think they deserve and eight or nine when they are lucky if an average guy like myself took them out. I'm ready to go full MGTOW. What's the point anyways? Even if you meet a girl , take her out, hit it off, she'll drop you like a bad habit soon as a better guy gives her the time of day.
All i hear is im unattractive and dont get any women to respond to me. Try stepping it up a little bit in the gym, put the fork down get a haircut there u go send me pay pal money for the life changing tip.
Or percieved income. Go to your exotics/luxury dealer and post selfies of you "getting a new car" You'll have dates farther than the eye can see. Take an uber because the "whip is in the shop", and you a capital investor in the company, no... you shipped the bently to italy so it'll be there for your vacation week... no... it wasnt the right shade of blue.
Ben W lmao wtf no? i have a bmw m4 and pictures of me with thousands in my car and no one ever cares about that when i have chats. i literally have a picture in my m5 with 2 1,000$ stacks and it gets me less matches than my looks
I feel like an ethnologist studying the behavior of some kind of unknown species. Feels pretty bad when all I want to do is to connect with another human being :/
Well to be fair Tinder, or living in a society millions large in a single city is completely unnatural. We have all these cultural rules to follow which we haven't genetically evolved to 'intuit' the way we could have easily done 20,000 years ago. So yes, there is some training to be done - But to be fair, even chimpanzees need to actually learn how to 'flirt', if they don't learn that because say.. they were isolated from other males - Then they behave crazy when they get introduced to female chimpanzees... So... everyone does need to learn.
@@Exascale: Bro, this comment is right on point, I don't know what's wrong with women today in date, social media have fucked things up big time! They all think that they are the shit and won't give a guy a chance unless he has looks or power! All that "be confident" nonsense is bullshit! I've been having Tinder for about a month, I've had about 15 matches, all of them being ugly bitches; NOT ONE HOT GIRL has giving me a chance; and to add insult to injury, NOT ONE DATE YET! -- This is just ridiculous that a dude has to go through so much shit just to get some pussy. Totally unacceptable.
Ján Chovanec Ya but you gotta be over 30 for any of those msgs to work, you hit up a 20 year old with are you into sharp object you’re gonna get a 0% response 😂
FEEDBACK: This is insane! I literally just did ONE of your recommendations, and now I've got lots of matches. I didn't even have to use any opening lines on some, because they contacted me first. Great video. It works.
I tried that a couple of times, and surprise: I immediately got tons of matches and first messages from guys. This means a homosexual or bisexual guy has a far easier dating life these days than heterosexual men. Think about how absurd that is!
@@snaicli I'm sure I'd be perfectly fine at dating in real life if I did it and never felt too anxious to approach women. But dating apps and especially Tinder? Forget it! I had much more luck on non-dating sites. I'll never turn gay. But you can switch sides if you find it that easy.
@@undyingsoul3949 It's way easier to meet people on tinder opposed to meeting in a bar or whatever. But if you're too anxious to approach women, I could see finding a date would be hard
Thank you SchoolOfAttraction!! I had 0 matches before I watched this video, but after watching and applying these hacks, now I have 0 matches!! LOOKS.ARE.EVERYTHING. for online dating.
1. Be Tall 2. Be White 3. Be handsome 4.refer to rules 1-3 for everyone else.... its just not worth it. you'd do much better finding a date in the REAL world.
Every girl has her preference, but more emotional personality types will seem to have distain for those they have little sympathy for and fall head over heels for those who they feel society should have sympathy for or those who they believe have disparity, which may or may not be accurate. I look like a young prince William, and it doesn't help as far as I know bro! d ; I'm introverted, analytical and straight-forward which doesn't vibe easily with most girls. It's not pure science, but I think this gent has some good tips!
It's 1. Be tall; 2. Be good-looking(which is different than merely handsome; 3. Embody charisma; 4. Be funny; 5. Be interesting(in something); 5. Be NEVER clingy; 6. Be self-supporting; 7. and ALWAYS keep and maintain some "myster4y" about you. 8. NEVER judge a woman; 9. NEVER pressure a woman("float the baloon"
Insane, simply insane! This video is of a immense quality. I rarely see such a perfect structured, research based piece of information/education. I am so glad I found this. Big ups for the work you've put in!
The fastest way to test photos is to post them on hot or not websites where you are scored. Everyone participating there is motivated to score and not seeking dates, so the caution women feel about matching with a wrong bloke doesn't exist. In addition to assigning scores some people write comments. These are useful, so read them. Once you have a set of your most well-received photos then upload some but not all. You want to rotate photos to appear fresh. Better still, participate on 3-4 dating sites, but don't do so concurrently. Do one site for a month or two, deactivate/hide/disable discovery it (not delete it), then activate another site, etc. You don't want to give the appearance that you've been on tindr for 4 straight years.
Same, a strategy that worked for me was to try to arrange a date within 5 messages. Make some kind of joke about it like "how much more small talk until you let me take you on a date?" It shows confidence and will very quickly weed out the bored validation seekers from the people who actually want to meet you. Why waste time texting when you could get to know each other in person?
I found the best profile pic was a super high definition pic of my cat who is the cutest creature on the planet followed by a completely unrelated bio talking about my lawn and how well kept it is. Only after those two crucial things can u start putting pics of urself, take my word for it chicks dont care how good looking u are all they want is cute pets and well groomed lawn ur just the baggage that stuff comes with.
From my experience Tinder in Spain was amazing. Meet very cool women that I still stay in contact with. Using it in the USA was just a huge waste of time. The American women that I would match with would put 0% effort into the conversation. I'm not asking for the world here but a conversation is just a monologue or soliloquy if one side doesn't participate.
@MGTOW REVELATIONS If you call yourself an alpha male then you have a potato in your head instead of a brain, just saying dude, this alpha male thing doesn't even exist aside from YT channels.
@MGTOW REVELATIONS lol your name says it all buddy. You actually believe that shit you wrote? Hahahhaa too funny. You're just mad there is competition so you "go your own way" rofl oh man
I haven’t been on tinder for very long but I suggest “you’re cute but you look like trouble” I’ve tried as an opener on like 30 girls and 26 replied. It’s simple and I doubted it but it works more consistently than I thought it would 😂
Guy's don't just write this off and say he's white or whatever. He literally showed you, using a bad photo of himself with a 0% success rate got changed around by adding a picture of Bruce Willis. He also showed a guy who wasn't the most attractive and used a power point tactic. If you're not going to apply the changes, you deserve the same success rate you have had. Just do it, it's fun and might only take 30minutes, and then it's finished. Don't be a victim and act like the world is unfair if you do fuck all to make anything happen.
Cheers Tim, I have noticed that coming up here a lot. I figured if they weren't going to pay attention to the movie before commenting in that way, nothing more I could say would change their minds ;)
the guy in the video is a good looking man ! lols an average looking joe will not stand a chance on these sites , end of story ! that's life, don't blame uglys for not trying hard enough ,jesus .
I superliked a classy lady cougar yesterday. And we got matches today, dang I was like "it's impossible"... Really made my day. Thanks man, your tips are golden, I actually using it and it's fun!
Wow, very good video. I've been through about 20 vids on tinder with these all the way prepped out, super good looking, and totally loathsome frat guys giving their tips to get more matches on tinder, saying super simple stuff and making it look easy. Waste of time. But here's a perfectly normal, average Joe playing the game, and bro has really thoughtful insight, and some great ideas that definitely should help. Thanks! Also, for any women reading this: this guy is obviously a psychotic sociopath, possibly even more sociopathic than the frat guys, and tinder is evil. An evil platform where only the evil stand a chance, and the most evil man wins.
Honestly, your online courses and videos rule. There's so much knowledge. And the way you communicate is so succinct and direct. I wish I'd taken your courses years ago.
Terrible !!! We almost don't have men in Brazil and luckily most them are gay. Tinder in Brazil is the opposite. We have so many matchs and we don't have enough time to meet all the girls. USA's dating apps are a nightmare. hahahahah
Let's do a test: Move your Tinder (if you have an account) to '"São Paulo - Brazil". You'll need to have some good pictures and that's all. Don't even say any thing about yourself in the BIO. After some sweeps (30 minutes), just "Hi (the name), how are you?" in Portugueses = "Oi _______, tudo bem?". Let me know how many girls is going to answer you.
TiagoMattos AudioTips USA especially west coast is a cockfest major. I even decided to take salsa lessons to discover there were 10 females in a studio and 45 dudes
That's crazy how women get so many matches. Online dating is so depressing now, it feels like applying for a job. Compare it to this video where women are saying stuff like 'don't wear a hat, don't take selfies, don't be in a photo with another woman'. It feels really random and contradictory, but I guess the numbers don't lie. ruclips.net/video/VZ4dIz5q648/видео.html
It is a self enforcing circle: women know they get more likes so they can be more picky, guys know that and swipe more right to still get a Chance to match, that means that the chance for a women can be even more picky and so on... so when such a dynamic has settled in there it is self enforcing and incredible stable. So if you want to break out of this circle you just have to leave tinder...
I know several guys that swipe right on every profile or almost every profile, and then decide after matching if they really should have swiped right. So women getting a match virtually every time isn't really surprising.
You swipe right on everything and then don't follow through. Don't be shocked when there are no real women. Or DON'T SWIPE RIGHT if she's not your type.
Reject online dating. It's the slot machine of dating. Learn cold approach. It's the poker of dating. Yes, it's harder to learn, but virtually no one is doing it. You can stand out as being better than 99% of other men, just by having the balls to approach. Tinder is for chumps. Let the hordes of chumps fight for the attention of the flabby forty-something recently divorced women with an inflated sense of SMV. Cowboy up, and talk to the girl.
Guys in the comments need to stop complaining about “how much power women have.” This is the world we live in and you may not be able to change your talent or your looks but you can change your approach. Stop feeling sorry for yourself and be proactive. This guy just gave you a bunch of tips FREE. Utilize the tools around you and do something about your situation, or don’t complain.
I got over 100 dates in 1 day, I got people to take some photos of myself standing next to some dudes Lambo by the beach, more photos in front of someones mansion and rented a $2,000 suit.
Because half of the girls in day game have boyfriends, then half of the ones that don't have boyfriends are just not attracted to you and so on and so on so you have to go through so many approaches to find one girl that MIGHT be interested...I can do day or night game but nothing is more efficient than online game for one simple reason... You and the girl are both SINGLE and are MATCHED. Most people work during the day so your advice is to spend your entire weekend hunting girls in the high-street? Come on man, play chess instead of checkers with dating. Night and day game at the weekends I got about 70 lays in 2 years. Tinder I got about 100 lays in one year. The data speaks for itself.
Problem is im out ... for a reason! Im doing shit... like i don't have time to just stop to every attractive woman. I wait on signals the woman gives but if im walking there is not enough to wait on signals.
That's how it has always worked - men have always had to do the pursuing. That's in our nature as a species. We've always had to demonstrate value. And you know when it comes to it - so does she. If she really is entitled, uninteresting and boring on the date then you can choose to not see/speak to her again. The reality is that if any of us want a quality woman (whatever that means to you and it can vary massively), then you have to be a quality man. I really do see the frustration in seemingly having to be the one that does all the 'work' but honestly all that the guy is saying is that we need to be a bit imaginative. The guy with the powerpoint profile doesn't look like he's working out or anything - he's just giving women something to work with, a reason to swipe right when there are millions of men available to them. @@theworldisimmense
dude, believe me, you're good looking.. and 4% match is MASSIVE for a guy in tinder. I could swip 1000 or 2000 and if I'm really lucky I match with a average girl (like 5 on a 1 to 10 scale).. even if I'm 6"1 engineer, living in Paris and having my shit together + having photos where I smill and I'm having fun.. Tinder is hell.
This video is about getting matches, not getting dates. Which are completely different things. Getting matches is about how attractive is your profile. Getting dates is about conversation and attraction skills. Can you talk about that please?
Great video, but I'm concerned about the age group in your sample size. For a 21 year old guy like myself, I feel like these results won't generalize to me as the women you're matching with who are in their late 20s and early 30s will be quite different to women in their early 20s.
That's a valid concern, although in honesty, I'm matching with women in their early 20s since I put my match range 20-30. But also, we do a lot of coaching wtih younger guys, the majority of guys who we've worked tinder with have been 22-25 years old.
Joffrey Bieber oh you are so wrong. Younger women only want to either have fun with an alpha male, or to get followed on Instagram. That’s it. In their bios, don’t write me here I barely check this follow me here
@@chipster3394 Exactly. A younger woman's expectations are way higher and in many cases she just wants the attention and that's it. Plus she's getting flooded with messages compared to older females.
If this helps anyone, I'm 5'4.. and dating apps are a virtual dead end for short men. I've been on Tinder only a few days and got over 20 matches, although only 1 so far has been willing to hold an honest conversation. A few have been suspicious profiles attempting to lure me to watching a show for $$. 🤦 I brushed them off. But it's given me hope to stay the course awhile and hope for something authentic. I've watched enough videos of people breaking down the numbers of Tinder to know I'm actually doing relatively ok for a really short guy. Needless to say, it's incredibly difficult and quite the confidence killer when you realize how many options women have nowadays. All you can do is promote the absolute best character traits and not have any expectations. Most of these women are going to end up completely alone and depressed for being super shallow. Happy Fishing 🎣 ✌️
This video actually changed the way I evaluate a few things. Main notion to go with is: Don't get distracted from the point, which may or may not mean not acting like your true self. And experimental approach is really something. People are algorythims after all.. Thanks.
The same strategies work, but youi're targeting a more niche market so to speak because yes there is some unfair bias, but I do have African descent clients who still get very decent results man.
I never had any luck, (absolutely zero matches) with Tinder or any other dating site that I tried. In real life I have found that most single women to be of the "it's all about me" mentality. They want to be with you as long as you can provide some type of financial service. When that's over, they dump you. I'll stick with MGTOW.
For the first time in my life I'm dating a girl I'm not very physically attracted to. It's entirely different. No sexual motivation. I say my tip, do some short term dating with a girl your not attracted to. This is the best training you can get.
Im curious as too what women think of your assessment. I do believe that women are spoiled for choice becuase nearly every guy on tinder swipes right until we get a match. We are so desparate to find a match that girls on this app get a false sense of confidence becuase they are likely to get a match with whatever guy they match with. Not only does this lead to heightened levels of competiton, but girls set their standards much higher becuase of the guys they are matching with. Therefore, it is hard for average guys to get dates. I feel like ugly ass girls feel like they're hot shit because considering that men swipe right on every girl, nealry every swipe right is a match. In my opinion guys should get like 25 likes per day which forces us to consider the girls profile, and women should be allowed say 50 per day. I feel like tinder should incorporate some of the aspects of bumble in that girls have to make the first move. However, what is complicated about this is that women wouldnt use the app then because they like to be courted and fought over so it would be hard to change the way these apps work. In my opinion, I feel like us guys should give up these apps and try talking to girls because it takes a shit ton of confidence to approach a girl over just teexting her on an app
One of the women who watch my videos said it really well when she said "Men have to talk to 100s of women on Tinder to find a woman to have sex with" , women have to talk to 1000s of men on tinder to find a good man in general..... You forget women are more interested in the men than the sex he can provide. So women can match with 100s of men all of whom are going to talk, act, and treat her like rubbish.
The problem of today's age is that it is more important how you look on social media or pictures than in person. It is more about who has got a better iphone and who is more photogenic than about a real look and personality. I wish I had been born in a different era.
Funny that men who dont look good and being negative and bitter think that women who desire better in their life are the problem. How about you live up to the best version of yourself and treat women with respect instead of just trying to satisfy your need for sex with anyone who is female. Most comments here are shocking and i hope women will refuse you further for their own protection. Also what i found is that the problem with men is, that they cant hold up a interesting conversation. why would women spend their time talking to someone who is boring and bitter?
I have a bland personality and no bio, but I'm a pretty good looking guy so I get about 50-65/100 Its crazy how if you look average people become much more nit picky.
wow all the bitter comments, since Tinder got monetized i've been getting close to 0 matches. i used to get atleast 4 per day. i thought it was because i wasnt a subscriber, but then i noticed that it was because the standards have gone up since i started with tinder. i simply got a photographer and took some pro ass looking shots of me dressing like a mad billionaire, and i got them matches back and even more. and mind you im average looking.
geeez... actually you RIGHT! it's a form of self-sabotage damn , but I bet he DONT GIVE AF cos he gonna get money for it in return, just increasing his attractiveness anyways so it will leave him in just as good spot as before
The biggest difference I see between men and women on Tinder is that men think in terms of numbers. Women don't want the high number of matches. They want one. They want "the right" one. I see that men talk about how women are spoiled for choice. That's because those men want to be spoiled for choice (they're thinking in numbers). But that doesn't mean that women find this choice to be a good thing. I'm interested to know if those men realise that what they're doing is hoping to get the maximum number of 'matches' and then be able to choose the best of those matches (maybe even a few each week). Even the man making this video is equating "incredible results" with the number of matches you get. Women think differently. They're not out to have sex with as many men as possible. They're looking for incredible results in terms of quality - not quantity. This is because "incredible results" in a relationship don't come from having more and more and more people in that relationship. They come from having more connection with the ONE person you're in the relationship with. Being the "best" out of a group of competitors does not make a young woman want a relationship with you. She'd rather wait until she finds "Mr Right". What does that mean? It's something different for every woman. Ask her. Many women have stupid answers that focus on material things. If she's one of those, be grateful that she's revealed herself and ditch her. Look instead for the woman who will respect you and your boundaries. Of course, everything I've just said applies to women who are looking for a relationship and not just empty sex. There are women who are ostensibly looking for empty, casual sex these days. They tend to be quite damaged and distant. They don't make for very fulfilling encounters. If you've not yet grown out of the phase where that's what you want too, then you should continue thinking in terms of numbers. But for those men who are over the empty, casual sex, you need to start thinking in terms of people. You'll want to think in terms of quality - not quantity. Figure out what you consider a quality woman and don't settle for anything less.
Absooutely! I couldn't have said it better myself! If I had have named this video (how to find one great girl on Tinder) guys just wouldn't click on the video. I don't believe that Tinder (or the dating landscape in general) is at all tilted unfairly in either gender's direction because it really does suck for a variety of reasons for both genders at present.
Maybe an anwser from a Guy's perspective on what you wrote. I agree with everything you say, but i have something to add about the thinking in numbers. That's maybe more logical thinking but, I don't think that men want to be spoiled by choice, although a large number DO want it, because it strokes the ego and for those that just want casual sex it ofcourse increases the chances of getting it. But for me personally and I think I can speak for those men that want to look for the ONE to have that connection with (and perhaps the last relationship they'll ever have), more matches does increase your chances of finding the set person. While women swipe right and probably will have a match, a guy swiping right will not have the same chances of getting the match. This I think is the main difference between the genders on tinder, while women don't NEED to play the numbers game (and perhaps don't want to), men HAVE to play the numbers game, whether it be for the casual sex or finding the right one. Cause if they don't, their chances of finding whatever they are searching for rarely happens.
@@DjayT89 I think you may have hit on the reason why there are so many single, older women with your last sentence. Matching with a thousand wrong people can only hinder your chances of finding a compatible person, but swiping left on a thousand potential matches might be even more detrimental. Men do have a logical (biological) incentive to play the numbers game. Single men are far more likely to have a higher desire for sex than single women (and this desire is more easily kindled and transferred) so behaviour that seems to increase the number of women available to mate with would indeed seem logical. Unfortunately this logic has been eroded by modern legislation. Sex is now even more risky for men than it is for women but laws introduced in the last hundred years or so don't change men's desires or instinct to play the numbers game. And, if anything, women's swiping behaviour on dating sites only seems to increase it. I actually came here because I'm trying to think of ways to encourage women to stop swiping away potential happiness.
Wow a female comment! I truly appreciate it in a cockfest city aka the internet 😛 But to my disappointment when it comes to the women I find attractive and most suitable for myself, well 95% of dudes desire very same woman and think the same. Competition is to fierce...fuck You biology
Disclaimer: ----------------------------------------------------------------------------- Despite his humble attitude, he's actually not a bad looking guy in good physical shape. That makes him a relatively good looking guy. Also, he talks on RUclips. He's built confidence speaking to people. It make A LOT of difference. Don't get discouraged if you don't get these results (you probably won't). He's spot on with that competition thing, cuz people (like me) swipe for matches before considering if they want to initiate conversation (sorry). Be confident/comfortable in your skin, pay attention to what kind of people are attracted to you, practice talking to people if you're uncomfortable, you'll be fine. That goes for meeting people outside of the web as well ;)
· where you live also plays a big role on success rate · i have many suave male model friends · and none get results anywhere close to this high · but i've lived in los angeles and las vegas
Southern California is shit for dating if you're a hetero male. Northern California is way better. I lived in the north and south. In the north they're just more liberal and easy to talk to and less judgmental. The situation is better outside the country, though (Mexico, Spain, Europe, etc.).
Online dating is the best way to see a person's horrible, disgusting narcissism. Been on OkCupid and Tinder for 3 years. Never gotten a single match on Tinder, talked with a transsexual man living in Texas on OkStupid. Online dating is gross.
Tinder does still work very well in other countries. I have had the best results in SE Asia. It was okayish in Dubai, Brasil and France/Germany. But Phillipines, Vietnam, Thailand Indonesia is still great. Plus the culture over there is WAY better. Stop dating here. Get a fleshlight, save your money and travel. You'll have a better experience, better life and way hotter women. Dating in the west is dead! And completely ignoring women is the only way to starve women here into behaving again.
that doesn't have to do with the country in which u're using tinder . it depends on the fact that everyone feels free to do whatever he likes if he knows the people he's going to meet for a 1 night stand won't probably ever see him again. this makes you a lot more like a go-ahead kinda guy that people (not just girls) like a lot in general. you just don't feel any pressure or fear to be refused if you know that no one ever will know how idiot you were to do or say certain things. it's just the typical traveller psychology.
The reason you get more likes in South East Asia is that the population there is a lot poorer. They don't match you because they "behave" but because beeing from the West is associated with wealth there. For someone who is acctualy from those countrys there experience is quite similar to your experience in the US, if not worse because They have to compete with Sex crazed Tourists like you...
The key to success is to get them off Tinder and onto WhatsApp asap, because they get many messages on Tinder, and they might overlook your message, but not so many messages on WhatsApp
Remember the 2 rules
1. Be attractive
2. Dont be unattractive
Seadog95 I’m sorry that you’re ugly how about you date ugly girls?
@@vegetalover1009 you're the equivalent of a human cow. You have no room to speak
David Lord more like a human dear hence the profile pic
@@legsdiamond6 WHAHAHAHAHA genius comment
@@vegetalover1009 ugly girls still want hot guys, it's not an option.
Tinder sucks. It's full of women who are incredibly dull and basic, and it's your job to be their jester. They offer absolutely nothing on their profile, and if you even want to have a chance of them responding you have to handcraft a message just for them. Even then, the chances of them responding are about 50/50. And the women that do respond are usually incredibly dull and offer just a few words response, not continuing the convo. Yet it's your job to constantly entertain them when they offer nothing in return
Cj James tru they
True that
There more looking for someone to fund a better life for them, so you need to have the money to splash on them.
...you probably worn get a lot of matches do you
@@folatooreal8582 I get plenty of matches. That's not the problem. The problem is actually keeping a decent conversation with these women
Why yo ears upside down?
Kresimir Drofenik 😂
This has got to be the best comment ive seen in a while xD
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LMAO
I love you
i had tinder for 2 years and got 2 matches. who can beat that?
IIRC I've had it for 3 years off and on and I've gotten like 3 matches, all scammers, I think I'm beating you
I got 1 match. And she wanted to pay me for sex.
I win
Are you counting connecting with spam accounts?
YUNG SPJENKINS This is a thread where scoring means you lose.
Butch Stein Jesus, I just got on tinder/bumble and had 5 in a week and thought I was doing bad. Stay strong bro
Problem: Women are spoiled for choice. They get so many messages and matches that they feel like the world is in the palm of their hands. Their confidence skyrockets. Too many dudes put women on pedestals and women get so confident that they have way too much power. Big problem. This makes them feel entitled, like they can get a man that is WAY out of their league. Guys, stop treating women like they're God's gift to men and try to compose yourselves. Don't hand over power to women because they abuse it
Whatever your name is, you nailed it. 1,000%.... They cater to that type of treatment, but you can NEVER earn respect by putting them on a pedestal. And chicks end up with a big problem too, since they have no idea which guy to go for and which to not go for, with all of these push overs throwing themselves at them. They either exploit that type of treatment or look around Until they find a guy who lets them know that they aren't needed.... Then get heartbroken (because he's the one they love). Because he's not a pushover like most of the rest.
Furthermore, the society places a position of strength by default in the woman's hands.... Because you can have a family with her. Every day, after you have a nest egg built up she has the option to take everything, leave AND continue taking your money for basically the rest of your life, with no issue. On top of that- she'll be with another guy real quick. There is no rational reason to enter a relationship where someone else gets to collect a payout and get free money from you for life. Its a scam completely (not that all chicks would do that). But eventually, its much more likely to happen as the relationship status diminishes and deteriorates based on the complexities such as finances, and other difficulties.
Tinder, at least at my age, is useless. The few matches I've gotten in a year have turned out to be fruitless to say the least. I am a decent hard working average looking guy.
I think I have matched no more than ten times in a calendar year.
Women have unrealistic expectations, fives think they deserve and eight or nine when they are lucky if an average guy like myself took them out.
I'm ready to go full MGTOW.
What's the point anyways? Even if you meet a girl , take her out, hit it off, she'll drop you like a bad habit soon as a better guy gives her the time of day.
but dat pussy so strong my nigga
All i hear is im unattractive and dont get any women to respond to me. Try stepping it up a little bit in the gym, put the fork down get a haircut there u go send me pay pal money for the life changing tip.
@@thomasmichaels6850 "average looking guy" i think thats the problem. You might want to try meeting girls in real life.
one simple but very effective hack: be good looking.
FexFitnessFanatic 13 and british, and/or white
this is 2018. you don't have to look good, you just learn to use a camera
a better hack is: don't be unattractive.
FexFitnessFanatic 13 - Not true. There are unattractive guys who are good at getting girls, and there are good looking guys who don't do so well.
chamboyette853 facts!
Girls judge you by your looks when it comes to online dating, period!
dont forget status
Or percieved income. Go to your exotics/luxury dealer and post selfies of you "getting a new car"
You'll have dates farther than the eye can see. Take an uber because the "whip is in the shop", and you a capital investor in the company, no... you shipped the bently to italy so it'll be there for your vacation week... no... it wasnt the right shade of blue.
So you sayign that people search for attractive in future potential partners ? im shook
Ben W lmao wtf no? i have a bmw m4 and pictures of me with thousands in my car and no one ever cares about that when i have chats. i literally have a picture in my m5 with 2 1,000$ stacks and it gets me less matches than my looks
So do guys, period.
I feel like an ethnologist studying the behavior of some kind of unknown species.
Feels pretty bad when all I want to do is to connect with another human being :/
Well to be fair Tinder, or living in a society millions large in a single city is completely unnatural. We have all these cultural rules to follow which we haven't genetically evolved to 'intuit' the way we could have easily done 20,000 years ago. So yes, there is some training to be done - But to be fair, even chimpanzees need to actually learn how to 'flirt', if they don't learn that because say.. they were isolated from other males - Then they behave crazy when they get introduced to female chimpanzees... So... everyone does need to learn.
yeah to be honest I'm the first to complain about not meeting enough girls, so I might aswell give it a try.
Don't worry, most of them are shit. A few golden ones though. I only found 2, personally.
Haha yea, I agree. Theres something superficial about desire/attractiveness when you start to break it down. It's quite off-putting.
@@Exascale: Bro, this comment is right on point, I don't know what's wrong with women today in date, social media have fucked things up big time! They all think that they are the shit and won't give a guy a chance unless he has looks or power! All that "be confident" nonsense is bullshit! I've been having Tinder for about a month, I've had about 15 matches, all of them being ugly bitches; NOT ONE HOT GIRL has giving me a chance; and to add insult to injury, NOT ONE DATE YET! -- This is just ridiculous that a dude has to go through so much shit just to get some pussy. Totally unacceptable.
This is so much better than any other tinder video I've seen, because there's some actual research, testing and numbers instead of plain guessing
Thanks Andreas, Yeah I'm a bit of a numbers feind.. Harks back to my geeks side :)
And more importantly he is getting results without being hot or super rich, which I've never seen before.
Ján Chovanec Ya but you gotta be over 30 for any of those msgs to work, you hit up a 20 year old with are you into sharp object you’re gonna get a 0% response 😂
Sample size: 100
Hamza technique working too, but its not available here
FEEDBACK: This is insane! I literally just did ONE of your recommendations, and now I've got lots of matches. I didn't even have to use any opening lines on some, because they contacted me first. Great video. It works.
Great to hear Sid
to increase likes of you, just change the settings to 'looking for men'
I tried that a couple of times, and surprise: I immediately got tons of matches and first messages from guys. This means a homosexual or bisexual guy has a far easier dating life these days than heterosexual men. Think about how absurd that is!
@Stefan Urban Sure. But that's not necessarily as absurd.
@@undyingsoul3949 You always have the options to switch sides if you're that terrible at dating women
@@snaicli I'm sure I'd be perfectly fine at dating in real life if I did it and never felt too anxious to approach women. But dating apps and especially Tinder? Forget it! I had much more luck on non-dating sites.
I'll never turn gay. But you can switch sides if you find it that easy.
@@undyingsoul3949 It's way easier to meet people on tinder opposed to meeting in a bar or whatever. But if you're too anxious to approach women, I could see finding a date would be hard
Thank you SchoolOfAttraction!! I had 0 matches before I watched this video, but after watching and applying these hacks, now I have 0 matches!! LOOKS.ARE.EVERYTHING. for online dating.
i love how technical you are about this lol
Haha yeah, I'm very much a maths and metrics man
This is the way to explain and make things clear 😭 thanks for existing School Of Attraction
“Winter isn’t the only thing that’s coming” Jon Snow-
Pahahahahahahhaahahah i just can’t. Best. Bio. EVER
Step 1.) Be handsome.
Step 2.) Be attractive
Step 3.) Don't be unattractive.
Follow these three steps and you'll have great success on tinder.
1. Be Tall
2. Be White
3. Be handsome
4.refer to rules 1-3
for everyone else.... its just not worth it. you'd do much better finding a date in the REAL world.
In most European countries black will work much better actually...
Every girl has her preference, but more emotional personality types will seem to have distain for those they have little sympathy for and fall head over heels for those who they feel society should have sympathy for or those who they believe have disparity, which may or may not be accurate. I look like a young prince William, and it doesn't help as far as I know bro! d ; I'm introverted, analytical and straight-forward which doesn't vibe easily with most girls. It's not pure science, but I think this gent has some good tips!
It's 1. Be tall; 2. Be good-looking(which is different than merely handsome; 3. Embody charisma; 4. Be funny; 5. Be interesting(in something); 5. Be NEVER clingy; 6. Be self-supporting; 7. and ALWAYS keep and maintain some "myster4y" about you. 8. NEVER judge a woman; 9. NEVER pressure a woman("float the baloon"
@@Ivan2Jura Big joke !!! Go to france and you 'll see ....
@@Ivan2Jura so true, I've lost count of how many beautiful aryan girls I see burning coal, sad
Insane, simply insane! This video is of a immense quality. I rarely see such a perfect structured, research based piece of information/education. I am so glad I found this. Big ups for the work you've put in!
Cheers Jannis!
The fastest way to test photos is to post them on hot or not websites where you are scored. Everyone participating there is motivated to score and not seeking dates, so the caution women feel about matching with a wrong bloke doesn't exist.
In addition to assigning scores some people write comments. These are useful, so read them.
Once you have a set of your most well-received photos then upload some but not all. You want to rotate photos to appear fresh. Better still, participate on 3-4 dating sites, but don't do so concurrently. Do one site for a month or two, deactivate/hide/disable discovery it (not delete it), then activate another site, etc. You don't want to give the appearance that you've been on tindr for 4 straight years.
good advice.
Who else came here for hacks and instead got tips :')
Just the tips?
Tip 1: Be attractive
Tip 2: See Tip 1
those opening lines are sooooo cheesy. cant believe women actually like that stuff bloody hell...
Yeah, don't forget you don't have to copy my lines. FInd your own that match your personality. The main deal is that it just needs to be fun.
Hi daniel
You're gay
I have a hard time respecting women that like cheesey nonsense. Seriously.
My swipe rate is like 35%, response rate is 100%, but I can't get a date because I'm incredibly dull over texts LMAOO
Same, a strategy that worked for me was to try to arrange a date within 5 messages. Make some kind of joke about it like "how much more small talk until you let me take you on a date?" It shows confidence and will very quickly weed out the bored validation seekers from the people who actually want to meet you. Why waste time texting when you could get to know each other in person?
I am a straight guy, but tbh
Even I would swipe right on that profile pic! 😂
Damn you are so blessed bruh :)
I found the best profile pic was a super high definition pic of my cat who is the cutest creature on the planet followed by a completely unrelated bio talking about my lawn and how well kept it is.
Only after those two crucial things can u start putting pics of urself, take my word for it chicks dont care how good looking u are all they want is cute pets and well groomed lawn ur just the baggage that stuff comes with.
From my experience Tinder in Spain was amazing. Meet very cool women that I still stay in contact with. Using it in the USA was just a huge waste of time. The American women that I would match with would put 0% effort into the conversation. I'm not asking for the world here but a conversation is just a monologue or soliloquy if one side doesn't participate.
Guys leave Tinder! Why would we play a game where all advantages are on the women's side?
Because a lot of guys are too nervous to approach women in real ife mostly...
@MGTOW REVELATIONS If you are spending woman on a woman you're not a true alpha male even if you get dates imo...
@MGTOW REVELATIONS If you call yourself an alpha male then you have a potato in your head instead of a brain, just saying dude, this alpha male thing doesn't even exist aside from YT channels.
Vinicius França I laughed so hard at your comment mate that was funny 😂
@MGTOW REVELATIONS lol your name says it all buddy. You actually believe that shit you wrote? Hahahhaa too funny. You're just mad there is competition so you "go your own way" rofl oh man
I haven’t been on tinder for very long but I suggest “you’re cute but you look like trouble”
I’ve tried as an opener on like 30 girls and 26 replied.
It’s simple and I doubted it but it works more consistently than I thought it would 😂
Jesus... reality is so depressing sometimes....
Fall in love with yourself. Don't worry if it's not working out on Tinder.
Take a break and focus on yourself ❤
"i occasionally still laugh when the ketchup bottle farts" is it just me or am i crying right now
Guy's don't just write this off and say he's white or whatever. He literally showed you, using a bad photo of himself with a 0% success rate got changed around by adding a picture of Bruce Willis. He also showed a guy who wasn't the most attractive and used a power point tactic.
If you're not going to apply the changes, you deserve the same success rate you have had.
Just do it, it's fun and might only take 30minutes, and then it's finished.
Don't be a victim and act like the world is unfair if you do fuck all to make anything happen.
Cheers Tim, I have noticed that coming up here a lot. I figured if they weren't going to pay attention to the movie before commenting in that way, nothing more I could say would change their minds ;)
Really appreciate the content it is amazing
the guy in the video is a good looking man ! lols an average looking joe will not stand a chance on these sites , end of story ! that's life, don't blame uglys for not trying hard enough ,jesus .
Tim is on point
well you aren't wong on that one lol
Probably the best tinder instructional video Ive ever seen! Impressed!
Thank you Ashley, I appreciate it
I superliked a classy lady cougar yesterday. And we got matches today, dang I was like "it's impossible"... Really made my day.
Thanks man, your tips are golden, I actually using it and it's fun!
That's great to hear dude!
that's not a win.. but if you're ahppy.. good for you... Does she at least pay for herself on dates?
I really like this guy, he’s done his research
Me making a Tinder headline: "Communism is a disease"
S Aurelius Mine was “Music is the universal language, but soon it will be Chinese”
That would catch my attention
Tinder is a communist tool
"work on tinder" how far we have strayed from genuine human connection
covid made it much, much worse
Ok guys, i tested this, and it worked SO well that i had to come back, write a review and subscribe. Great work man!
Nice beard, dude!
Wow, very good video. I've been through about 20 vids on tinder with these all the way prepped out, super good looking, and totally loathsome frat guys giving their tips to get more matches on tinder, saying super simple stuff and making it look easy. Waste of time. But here's a perfectly normal, average Joe playing the game, and bro has really thoughtful insight, and some great ideas that definitely should help. Thanks! Also, for any women reading this: this guy is obviously a psychotic sociopath, possibly even more sociopathic than the frat guys, and tinder is evil. An evil platform where only the evil stand a chance, and the most evil man wins.
Honestly, your online courses and videos rule. There's so much knowledge. And the way you communicate is so succinct and direct. I wish I'd taken your courses years ago.
Thanks so much nick!
Terrible !!!
We almost don't have men in Brazil and luckily most them are gay. Tinder in Brazil is the opposite.
We have so many matchs and we don't have enough time to meet all the girls. USA's dating apps are a nightmare. hahahahah
Hold that thought, I'll be right there :P
Let's do a test: Move your Tinder (if you have an account) to '"São Paulo - Brazil". You'll need to have some good pictures and that's all. Don't even say any thing about yourself in the BIO. After some sweeps (30 minutes), just "Hi (the name), how are you?" in Portugueses = "Oi _______, tudo bem?".
Let me know how many girls is going to answer you.
What percentage of hot women speak English, realistically?
TiagoMattos AudioTips USA especially west coast is a cockfest major. I even decided to take salsa lessons to discover there were 10 females in a studio and 45 dudes
@@temich1985 hahahaha
That's crazy how women get so many matches. Online dating is so depressing now, it feels like applying for a job.
Compare it to this video where women are saying stuff like 'don't wear a hat, don't take selfies, don't be in a photo with another woman'. It feels really random and contradictory, but I guess the numbers don't lie.
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It is a self enforcing circle: women know they get more likes so they can be more picky, guys know that and swipe more right to still get a Chance to match, that means that the chance for a women can be even more picky and so on... so when such a dynamic has settled in there it is self enforcing and incredible stable. So if you want to break out of this circle you just have to leave tinder...
Dude...getting a job is easier
I know several guys that swipe right on every profile or almost every profile, and then decide after matching if they really should have swiped right. So women getting a match virtually every time isn't really surprising.
Yeah absolutely!
We do that because we never get matched if we decide to be picky at the start
You swipe right on everything and then don't follow through. Don't be shocked when there are no real women. Or DON'T SWIPE RIGHT if she's not your type.
Oh wow, legit bro! I redid my whole profile, worked like a charm, thank you!
Awesome to hear mate!
Reject online dating. It's the slot machine of dating. Learn cold approach. It's the poker of dating. Yes, it's harder to learn, but virtually no one is doing it. You can stand out as being better than 99% of other men, just by having the balls to approach. Tinder is for chumps. Let the hordes of chumps fight for the attention of the flabby forty-something recently divorced women with an inflated sense of SMV. Cowboy up, and talk to the girl.
Guys in the comments need to stop complaining about “how much power women have.” This is the world we live in and you may not be able to change your talent or your looks but you can change your approach. Stop feeling sorry for yourself and be proactive. This guy just gave you a bunch of tips FREE. Utilize the tools around you and do something about your situation, or don’t complain.
1000 swipes. Only got 7 matches. Rip 💀
And I'm mad to not get anything out of 200
If your good looking enough... "hey 👋" works just fine
Copying and pasting can be good for practicing and getting confidence up, but to really take it to the next level you need to be original.
I got over 100 dates in 1 day, I got people to take some photos of myself standing next to some dudes Lambo by the beach, more photos in front of someones mansion and rented a $2,000 suit.
Michael Angst 5 dates in 3 years man are you Even trying??? Ur Profil is a Mess i guess
Yeah but they are all gold diggers!!
@@chrish1590 Gee, shocker.
"I'm like 5'9" AkA you are 5'7
Or just go outside and day game when you see an attractive woman. Stop swiping right, and get outside!
Yes to this!
Why would anyone even bother to use tinder if he's skilled in the arts of day game
Or use both together
Because half of the girls in day game have boyfriends, then half of the ones that don't have boyfriends are just not attracted to you and so on and so on so you have to go through so many approaches to find one girl that MIGHT be interested...I can do day or night game but nothing is more efficient than online game for one simple reason... You and the girl are both SINGLE and are MATCHED. Most people work during the day so your advice is to spend your entire weekend hunting girls in the high-street? Come on man, play chess instead of checkers with dating. Night and day game at the weekends I got about 70 lays in 2 years. Tinder I got about 100 lays in one year. The data speaks for itself.
Problem is im out ... for a reason! Im doing shit... like i don't have time to just stop to every attractive woman. I wait on signals the woman gives but if im walking there is not enough to wait on signals.
Lmao the bald photo was hilarious
To sum it up, you have to be good looking entertaining clown for women nowerdays...
Well why would she choose you on Tinder if you didn't seem fun to be around, and made yourself look like a slob?
some things never change
That's how it has always worked - men have always had to do the pursuing. That's in our nature as a species. We've always had to demonstrate value. And you know when it comes to it - so does she. If she really is entitled, uninteresting and boring on the date then you can choose to not see/speak to her again. The reality is that if any of us want a quality woman (whatever that means to you and it can vary massively), then you have to be a quality man. I really do see the frustration in seemingly having to be the one that does all the 'work' but honestly all that the guy is saying is that we need to be a bit imaginative. The guy with the powerpoint profile doesn't look like he's working out or anything - he's just giving women something to work with, a reason to swipe right when there are millions of men available to them. @@theworldisimmense
Lol, Pass mate
Take the red pill friend. Everything will become clear.
Be tall, atractive, muscular, rich and smart! Thats all
Dont for get white. Online dating is shit for black men.
Im neither of the above and dont show my smarts except being muscular and got 6 matches instantly
oh and Im brown
dude, believe me, you're good looking.. and 4% match is MASSIVE for a guy in tinder. I could swip 1000 or 2000 and if I'm really lucky I match with a average girl (like 5 on a 1 to 10 scale).. even if I'm 6"1 engineer, living in Paris and having my shit together + having photos where I smill and I'm having fun..
Tinder is hell.
Loved how you associate yourself with bruce Willis to upgrade your attrraction. Just awesome!
This video is about getting matches, not getting dates. Which are completely different things. Getting matches is about how attractive is your profile. Getting dates is about conversation and attraction skills. Can you talk about that please?
Great video, but I'm concerned about the age group in your sample size. For a 21 year old guy like myself, I feel like these results won't generalize to me as the women you're matching with who are in their late 20s and early 30s will be quite different to women in their early 20s.
That's a valid concern, although in honesty, I'm matching with women in their early 20s since I put my match range 20-30.
But also, we do a lot of coaching wtih younger guys, the majority of guys who we've worked tinder with have been 22-25 years old.
Joffrey Bieber oh you are so wrong. Younger women only want to either have fun with an alpha male, or to get followed on Instagram. That’s it. In their bios, don’t write me here I barely check this follow me here
@@chipster3394 Exactly. A younger woman's expectations are way higher and in many cases she just wants the attention and that's it. Plus she's getting flooded with messages compared to older females.
If this helps anyone, I'm 5'4.. and dating apps are a virtual dead end for short men. I've been on Tinder only a few days and got over 20 matches, although only 1 so far has been willing to hold an honest conversation. A few have been suspicious profiles attempting to lure me to watching a show for $$. 🤦 I brushed them off. But it's given me hope to stay the course awhile and hope for something authentic. I've watched enough videos of people breaking down the numbers of Tinder to know I'm actually doing relatively ok for a really short guy. Needless to say, it's incredibly difficult and quite the confidence killer when you realize how many options women have nowadays. All you can do is promote the absolute best character traits and not have any expectations. Most of these women are going to end up completely alone and depressed for being super shallow.
Happy Fishing 🎣 ✌️
The more I look at these how to tinder videos the less hope I have in life. I can slowly feel myself dying
*This guy deserves soo much followers! goshh like some of the comments here say, THE BEST tinder instructional video Ive ever seen!*
Personally Harini, I couldn't agree more :P
“How I got 14 dates in 4 hours?”
Answer:I hired actresses and paid escorts because I’m a hustler who takes advantage of insecure men.
This video actually changed the way I evaluate a few things.
Main notion to go with is: Don't get distracted from the point, which may or may not mean not acting like your true self.
And experimental approach is really something. People are algorythims after all..
Thanks.
yeahh
I'm not on tinder and never be there, why am I even watching this...
I don't think people go on tinder looking to date unless you can consider "netflix and chill" a date.
Oh dude - Most of the women there would rather date.
Women are slower to swipe right because guys are more focused on looks by a good margin.
Very good! You have earned a new subscriber my friend. Keep up the good work, you're providing a public service lol.
Cheers OhSryOwned, Appreciate the positive feedback!
Never got one match, that’s life I suppose
OK I got it.
1) Look good
2) Have a sense of humour
Im gonna kms, cya o/
Thank you! Been looking for some real time Tinder experimentation!
This mainly works for attractive white men. If you're a brotha, not so much.
The same strategies work, but youi're targeting a more niche market so to speak because yes there is some unfair bias, but I do have African descent clients who still get very decent results man.
I never had any luck, (absolutely zero matches) with Tinder or any other dating site that I tried. In real life I have found that most single women to be of the "it's all about me" mentality. They want to be with you as long as you can provide some type of financial service. When that's over, they dump you. I'll stick with MGTOW.
Not even with the piggies?
For the first time in my life I'm dating a girl I'm not very physically attracted to. It's entirely different. No sexual motivation. I say my tip, do some short term dating with a girl your not attracted to. This is the best training you can get.
yeah liek ur sis
Im curious as too what women think of your assessment. I do believe that women are spoiled for choice becuase nearly every guy on tinder swipes right until we get a match. We are so desparate to find a match that girls on this app get a false sense of confidence becuase they are likely to get a match with whatever guy they match with. Not only does this lead to heightened levels of competiton, but girls set their standards much higher becuase of the guys they are matching with. Therefore, it is hard for average guys to get dates. I feel like ugly ass girls feel like they're hot shit because considering that men swipe right on every girl, nealry every swipe right is a match. In my opinion guys should get like 25 likes per day which forces us to consider the girls profile, and women should be allowed say 50 per day. I feel like tinder should incorporate some of the aspects of bumble in that girls have to make the first move. However, what is complicated about this is that women wouldnt use the app then because they like to be courted and fought over so it would be hard to change the way these apps work. In my opinion, I feel like us guys should give up these apps and try talking to girls because it takes a shit ton of confidence to approach a girl over just teexting her on an app
One of the women who watch my videos said it really well when she said "Men have to talk to 100s of women on Tinder to find a woman to have sex with" , women have to talk to 1000s of men on tinder to find a good man in general..... You forget women are more interested in the men than the sex he can provide. So women can match with 100s of men all of whom are going to talk, act, and treat her like rubbish.
easy there...
Very true Dylan
@@TheRealAK05 not all of them
A screenshot of your bank account, and you're good. 100% match guaranteed
Wrong. You are barking up the wrong tree, dummy. Look for a quality woman.
This method may not work post-COVID....
The problem of today's age is that it is more important how you look on social media or pictures than in person. It is more about who has got a better iphone and who is more photogenic than about a real look and personality. I wish I had been born in a different era.
Funny that men who dont look good and being negative and bitter think that women who desire better in their life are the problem.
How about you live up to the best version of yourself and treat women with respect instead of just trying to satisfy your need for sex with anyone who is female.
Most comments here are shocking and i hope women will refuse you further for their own protection.
Also what i found is that the problem with men is, that they cant hold up a interesting conversation. why would women spend their time talking to someone who is boring and bitter?
"i shaved my head because i was bored.." you just gonna slide that in there
Lol, yeah it'is a whole story, but that story wasn't important for this video :P
Haha. The grandma example is HILARIOUS! Nice vid bro!
Cheers buddy
I have a bland personality and no bio, but I'm a pretty good looking guy so I get about 50-65/100 Its crazy how if you look average people become much more nit picky.
Holy shit man 50/60% match rate? That's insane
Rate your self 1-10
Came for tinder advice, left with an education on statistics
You're welcome :P
Jon,21
winter is not the only thing coming
LOL CRAZY,IM DONE!!
The best advice I've ever heard on the matter and I'd like to think 2 years of learning material would be sufficient!
Thanks for the compliment Zohair!
Where will i have the energy to do this?
Put that same energy into getting money or something useful
It was worth it 100%
Channel your dick
Such an insanely awesome video!!!
Thanks for the advice discount Hugh jackman
I like the one that says " "Noe' you know why I'm not a rapper. " Lol
I'm single my whtsapp number 00923087026760 add me
wow all the bitter comments, since Tinder got monetized i've been getting close to 0 matches. i used to get atleast 4 per day. i thought it was because i wasnt a subscriber, but then i noticed that it was because the standards have gone up since i started with tinder. i simply got a photographer and took some pro ass looking shots of me dressing like a mad billionaire, and i got them matches back and even more. and mind you im average looking.
Yeah Tinder still works, but it has just become way more competitive
really excellent content! U really know ur stuff re Tinder. Thanks Will definately look at ur course:)
Cheers Christian
This is great advice!!!
Best way to get matches is to log out for a few days and then log back in youll get a burst of matches
300k views on this one, so after this video now you'll have to compete with that amount of enlightened dudes 🤓
Happy swiping!
geeez... actually you RIGHT! it's a form of self-sabotage damn , but I bet he DONT GIVE AF cos he gonna get money for it in return, just increasing his attractiveness anyways so it will leave him in just as good spot as before
Hey man, this is the very first video of your channel that watched. Excellent video ;)
Thanks Dakey!
The biggest difference I see between men and women on Tinder is that men think in terms of numbers. Women don't want the high number of matches. They want one. They want "the right" one.
I see that men talk about how women are spoiled for choice. That's because those men want to be spoiled for choice (they're thinking in numbers). But that doesn't mean that women find this choice to be a good thing. I'm interested to know if those men realise that what they're doing is hoping to get the maximum number of 'matches' and then be able to choose the best of those matches (maybe even a few each week). Even the man making this video is equating "incredible results" with the number of matches you get. Women think differently. They're not out to have sex with as many men as possible. They're looking for incredible results in terms of quality - not quantity. This is because "incredible results" in a relationship don't come from having more and more and more people in that relationship. They come from having more connection with the ONE person you're in the relationship with. Being the "best" out of a group of competitors does not make a young woman want a relationship with you. She'd rather wait until she finds "Mr Right". What does that mean? It's something different for every woman. Ask her. Many women have stupid answers that focus on material things. If she's one of those, be grateful that she's revealed herself and ditch her. Look instead for the woman who will respect you and your boundaries.
Of course, everything I've just said applies to women who are looking for a relationship and not just empty sex. There are women who are ostensibly looking for empty, casual sex these days. They tend to be quite damaged and distant. They don't make for very fulfilling encounters. If you've not yet grown out of the phase where that's what you want too, then you should continue thinking in terms of numbers. But for those men who are over the empty, casual sex, you need to start thinking in terms of people. You'll want to think in terms of quality - not quantity. Figure out what you consider a quality woman and don't settle for anything less.
Absooutely! I couldn't have said it better myself! If I had have named this video (how to find one great girl on Tinder) guys just wouldn't click on the video. I don't believe that Tinder (or the dating landscape in general) is at all tilted unfairly in either gender's direction because it really does suck for a variety of reasons for both genders at present.
Agreed, quality over quantity any day!
Maybe an anwser from a Guy's perspective on what you wrote. I agree with everything you say, but i have something to add about the thinking in numbers.
That's maybe more logical thinking but, I don't think that men want to be spoiled by choice, although a large number DO want it, because it strokes the ego and for those that just want casual sex it ofcourse increases the chances of getting it.
But for me personally and I think I can speak for those men that want to look for the ONE to have that connection with (and perhaps the last relationship they'll ever have), more matches does increase your chances of finding the set person.
While women swipe right and probably will have a match, a guy swiping right will not have the same chances of getting the match.
This I think is the main difference between the genders on tinder, while women don't NEED to play the numbers game (and perhaps don't want to), men HAVE to play the numbers game, whether it be for the casual sex or finding the right one. Cause if they don't, their chances of finding whatever they are searching for rarely happens.
@@DjayT89 I think you may have hit on the reason why there are so many single, older women with your last sentence. Matching with a thousand wrong people can only hinder your chances of finding a compatible person, but swiping left on a thousand potential matches might be even more detrimental.
Men do have a logical (biological) incentive to play the numbers game. Single men are far more likely to have a higher desire for sex than single women (and this desire is more easily kindled and transferred) so behaviour that seems to increase the number of women available to mate with would indeed seem logical. Unfortunately this logic has been eroded by modern legislation. Sex is now even more risky for men than it is for women but laws introduced in the last hundred years or so don't change men's desires or instinct to play the numbers game. And, if anything, women's swiping behaviour on dating sites only seems to increase it. I actually came here because I'm trying to think of ways to encourage women to stop swiping away potential happiness.
Wow a female comment! I truly appreciate it in a cockfest city aka the internet 😛 But to my disappointment when it comes to the women I find attractive and most suitable for myself, well 95% of dudes desire very same woman and think the same. Competition is to fierce...fuck You biology
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Despite his humble attitude, he's actually not a bad looking guy in good physical shape. That makes him a relatively good looking guy. Also, he talks on RUclips. He's built confidence speaking to people. It make A LOT of difference. Don't get discouraged if you don't get these results (you probably won't). He's spot on with that competition thing, cuz people (like me) swipe for matches before considering if they want to initiate conversation (sorry). Be confident/comfortable in your skin, pay attention to what kind of people are attracted to you, practice talking to people if you're uncomfortable, you'll be fine. That goes for meeting people outside of the web as well ;)
· where you live also plays a big role on success rate
· i have many suave male model friends
· and none get results anywhere close to this high
· but i've lived in los angeles and las vegas
Southern California is shit for dating if you're a hetero male. Northern California is way better. I lived in the north and south. In the north they're just more liberal and easy to talk to and less judgmental. The situation is better outside the country, though (Mexico, Spain, Europe, etc.).
I live in Sweden which from ive seen in media is considered one of the best places to live.
Online dating is the best way to see a person's horrible, disgusting narcissism. Been on OkCupid and Tinder for 3 years. Never gotten a single match on Tinder, talked with a transsexual man living in Texas on OkStupid. Online dating is gross.
Tinder does still work very well in other countries. I have had the best results in SE Asia. It was okayish in Dubai, Brasil and France/Germany. But Phillipines, Vietnam, Thailand Indonesia is still great. Plus the culture over there is WAY better.
Stop dating here. Get a fleshlight, save your money and travel. You'll have a better experience, better life and way hotter women. Dating in the west is dead! And completely ignoring women is the only way to starve women here into behaving again.
that doesn't have to do with the country in which u're using tinder . it depends on the fact that everyone feels free to do whatever he likes if he knows the people he's going to meet for a 1 night stand won't probably ever see him again. this makes you a lot more like a go-ahead kinda guy that people (not just girls) like a lot in general. you just don't feel any pressure or fear to be refused if you know that no one ever will know how idiot you were to do or say certain things. it's just the typical traveller psychology.
You nailed it bro!
The reason you get more likes in South East Asia is that the population there is a lot poorer. They don't match you because they "behave" but because beeing from the West is associated with wealth there. For someone who is acctualy from those countrys there experience is quite similar to your experience in the US, if not worse because They have to compete with Sex crazed Tourists like you...
Foreign women are allot easier to talk too than American girls I agree
Or just not use online dating at all. Those things have 80% guys, 20% females. I call it "dubai dating odds". The real world doesn't have those odds.
The key to success is to get them off Tinder and onto WhatsApp asap, because they get many messages on Tinder, and they might overlook your message, but not so many messages on WhatsApp
Definitely!
So your trick is to hire a photograph try a million combinations and contact girls acting insecure or making cheesy jokes. Good stuff bro.