QUESTIONS I'VE BEEN AVOIDING | Q&A
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- Опубликовано: 29 сен 2024
- Hiiiii my lovie doves!! It's been a bit since I did a Q&A so I figured I would sit down and answer some of your questions!! I hope you enjoy this video! Happy Sunday!! Stay tuned until my next video this Wednesday! It's a fun one!!! Love you til the end of time XOXO Carli
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I felt like the only person who broke up with their child’s father during their pregnancy. It’s a situation that no one ever sees coming. My daughter’s dad cheated on me during my pregnancy and I moved across the country to birth my child with my mom as my support. It was embarrassing and stressful. The most important thing is that my daughter is healthy and we are both happy; just the two of us. I hope whom ever has shared this experience heals and finds happiness within.
Sending you hugs and all the strength and the loudest applaud! ❤️❤️❤️ your daughter will be just as strong and beautiful! And wise and smart just like you!
sending you the best and most positive wishes! My mom went through a similar thing when she had my little sister, you always come out stronger in the end 🤍
@@Cheecheeee Thank you❤
@@sofimurillo405 Thank you❤
Same situation here ❤️ my son and me couldn’t be happier. All the best wishes.
From someone who has 14 years of long term relationship experience, trust me on this: when you’re with the right person, even the hard times seem easy.
Yes mam!!
YES! After ten years with my husband I can honestly say that marriage isn’t what’s hard. LIFE is hard, and the right partner makes it easier. ❤
YEESSSSSSSSSSSS thank you
I needed this. ❤️ thank you 🙏🏼
I can confirm!
Carli everything you are saying is resonating with me and my current life… The therapy, the boundaries, the frustration of failed relationships, the wondering if there are honest men who don’t cheat, the wanting to meet someone naturally and not online -but work from home n don’t go out much 😟 all of it!! It makes me feel better to know someone as gorgeous and well put together as you is also going through the same stuff so thank you for sharing.
-anyone else down for a self love retreat n become BFF 👯♀️
Let's all start humanizing people we look up to
You are such an awesome Mom and all around wonderful person. I know you’ll find the right one when you least expect it. Thanks for being so open and honest, it’s really refreshing. ❤
I know I know it’s not our business and as long as you’re happy we’re all happy!!! But…. I feel like the way you were taking about Brett had you blushing a little!?!?!
👏🏻 ❤
Yess!! “When you least expect it..” happens because you’re not putting all of your hope, expectations and energy looking for someone. You’re more authentic, relaxed and attractive to someone when you’re focusing and working on yourself.
Thirsty people attract thirsty people.
So needed to hear all this. A theraputic girl talk. Sending you so much love Carli. I can relate to you on ALL levels. Luv ya
I think that one person a little more mature for you, is the perfect for you. ❤️❤️❤️
I totally didn’t believe you when you said you’re “not secretly dating somebody”😂😂😂😂 😂
Why would you not believe her? She is also raising a 2 yr old so I doubt she has the time or energy for dating anyway.
Enjoyed the video, can’t wait for more. Thank you for all the great advice! ❤
Carli I love you so much! I am here since 2012 💗! You are a beautiful soul and the right man will enter your life and treat you like a queen! You deserve the best! Love you so much! 💗💗💗
I love your advise and how you carry yourself and then I remembered you’re a Libra and understood why I agree with everything you said! Also, when I met my now husband, it felt like we’ve known each other forever and convos were just continuing on. Also, we agreed that cheating and abuse will ruin the relationship for both of us and we both couldn’t forgive each other afterwards and that we love each other too much to let things ruin us. Communication is key!
Love watching your videos. Thank you for all the uploads!
Yea you do deserve someone amazing . He is out there . He will be a high quality man with a heart of gold . I believe and declare this .
You talking about your therapy advice made me feel like I went through a session. We love you Carli😘😘😘 you are so relateable
*YOU ARE THE ONLY THE I STILL COME TO RUclips TO WATCH*
Always keeping it real love you Carly ❤
Carli where is your blue shirt from ? I love that you post so much recently 🥰❤
I was really hoping Anthony would propose to you while you were pregnant, its so heartbreaking when the guy you want wouldn't step up and ask you for your hand in marriage, while other guys will worship the ground you walk on
Omg I’m not even an eyeshadow girl and your BH Cosmetics palette was my life. I hit pan on literally everything. It’s so old now the last few are unusable and cracked. Please please please give us a similar palette like the old school one!
Yesss to the morning routine video! 🤗
I needed to hear this. Thank you ❤
can’t wait for you to find your cowboy, i think you need a homespun kinda guy cos you’re such a humble person
Perfect way to end my Sunday ❤
I know it’s random , what kind of camera are u using ? I love you honestly as allways ❤sending you lots of love
Love you Carli ❤
One more question where did you get the necklace that you are wearing? It looks so cute on you.
Carli you are just an amazing. I love you ❤️ ❤❤
There’s a difference between being an influencer vs an og RUclipsr. Carli you’re og, you stay real with us and don’t try to sell us a fake perfect life. And that’s why we love you!!!
I think Anthony used her for his barbershop and clout... that's why she keeps talking about being used. Hope you feel better ❤️ this sucks!
I think he probably cheated during her pregnancy too. Insane. Who the hell would cheat on Carli? You can’t spell mental without “men.”
@MissKarennnn totally agree! It's INSANE 😞 she's sooo sweet! Always the best people attracting the worst people!
The part where you talk directly to the girl struggling with being pregnant going through a breakup had me crying 😭 it’s like a one of those comfort voice notes from a best friend that makes you feel better. You’re so kind and beautiful ❤
same, literally had me in tears and I have never even been pregnant. I wish I had a bff that would send me such vn's lol
I almost cried too. Luckily I'm in the train so it helped me keep em in 🥲
That was so thoughtful and beautiful!!! 😊
Your sadness when you read if Brett and u are secretly dating.. maybe he’s your soulmate, maybe he’s not, maybe u guys had to separate to find your own identity and will reunite gods timing, or maybe he just belongs in your past.. it was so nice watching you grow with Brett and without him
These videos are so therapeutic. It’s like listening to a friend chat! ❤
Ikr? 😀😀
They really are!
Yaaaay another video keeping it real! More try on hauls, therapy, life goals, morning routines, day in a life of Carli, and everything under the sun just coz we’re a nosey bunch 🤪
This!
Hahaha! AGREE❤
I second this!!!! It just feels like the best advice, insightful, honest, and humbling conversations with her! She’s that sorority sister,
friend, and stylist we can all appreciate 💓
I’m so glad you and Anthony have a friendly relationship, it makes raising a child easier when parents get along, Lorenzo is lucky to have parents like you.❤
I REALLY don’t understand how you’re still single, I would love for you to get with a country singer. Hell tell us who and we will all flood their dms for u haha 😂
Girl, if it's hard for you... whats the hope for the rest of us?! 😫😫😩
😭🤣 I had the same thought
Can I just say - I love how Non-controversial you are! No drama, just beauty! Lu 💕
Carli I feel you on everything you say!!! I put into the universe you will meet someone at a country music concert or a musician. Possibly someone who is at Starbucks!!! My friend once told me “girl who are you going to meet the burglar that breaks into your house”! Lol . Carli all I can say is do all the things you love to do. Oh and write down all the wonderful things you want in your husband and be SPECIFIC!! I did and I enjoyed single life practiced self love to the point that I didn’t even want anyone! But I wrote down what I wanted in my future husband, and I prayed for him everyday. I prayed that he was loved,safe,that he thought of me and then I prayed that he would make it safely to me closer and closer each day. Guess what Carli where I prayed was in the gym everyday!! And then guess what he walked up to me in the gym❤️. I never told him I wrote of him and I never told him I prayed for him. But one day I will. All in perfect timing. Also I was a single mom of a boy ❤️. It’ll happen and I can’t wait until it does❤️.
yes it is hard out there in the dating world!! u are not the only one who feels this way. women all over the world are going through it. its just a really strange time to be single right now🤣
Thank you on saying what you said about cheating. Why has it become so normalized? Even in shows and movies it’s like that. It’s sad.
Thank you Carli for being SO honest🙂
I had an older wise woman tell me. You have to love yourself. We all think we know what that means, right? But, you wouldn't let anyone treat someone YOU love poorly. Mom, dad, brother, sister, your child, you wouldn't allow anyone to disrespect them. You have to treat yourself the same way. I literally let go. Stopped looking. Prayed a very specific prayer. Or put out into the universe the very specific needs and wants in a partner. My list was literally 10 miles long lol but when my husband found me. Every single thing I prayed for. I saw in him, and I just knew without a doubt he was truly sent to me. I have been a subbie of yours for years, and I also pray your person finds you ❤️
As someone who was in two different physically, mentally and just a horrible relationships with men. And a not so great childhood (s/a) I never thought I would find someone. I've met my match. I'm now doted over, loved, appreciated and treated like gold. I am also newly engaged. We accept the love we think we deserve was a quote I lived by for awhile. I know my worth and you all should too. You are worthy. Say that to yourself everyone. Sending you Lorenzo, your loved ones and everyone reading this prayers for lots of love, light, happiness, safety, great physical and mental health 🌞🙏🩵
You gave me hope❤
I also have a history of CSA and I'm scared that I won't find anyone who accept it. My past boyfriends have made fun of it and dismissed my experience. So reading your comment has given me hope.❤
congrats on your engagement!! definitely an inspiring message, thank you
Thank you. I truly believe there is someone for everyone 🫶 prayers and thank you ❤️ I'm sorry you have gone through this as well. It's scary, but you'll know when you know when you meet someone. Gut instinct. ❤️
My partner and I split during my first pregnancy. The heartache was truly awful. Crying daily. The fear of parenting alone absolutely terrified me. But I can't believe looking back how incredibly strong and empowered it made me. I think I was even a better mother for it...amazingly enough!
We are back together now (which I know is not always the outcome) but I'm grateful for the struggle because I will never settle for less again. I know my strength and power and I know I'm an amazing mom. Thank you for sharing your answers with us Carli. God bless you and Lorenzo. ❤️❤️❤️
So sorry you ever had to go through this but you’re a FIGHTER! So proud of you for conquering all of those fears and bumps along the way! You go mama 💝
I know that feeling my ex an I split after 12 years being together
I just could never imagine taking a man back who left me while pregnant and made me feel like that. Remember if he does it once he will do it twice
How long did you leave for?
@@youtubeaccI definitely agree with you, but we don't know if he just left her, she said they split. She could've left him...or a mutual split. Same with Carli, obviously no woman in their wildest dreams want to be a single parent.. but you never know maybe she was miserable and saw a different person when she became pregnant.
Carli, your lips look more fuller than usual. Did you get filler recently?
no one asked about Moo? :( I still want to know what happened.
Thank you for being so open and honest, these are my ABSOLUTE fav videos and just feeling like we are talking to a friend or hanging out with you. I’ve been watching you for 8+ years since I’ve been in highschool and I’m so happy you’re still here on RUclips
i am so surprised actually that a woman like carli have struggles to meet the "right" guy. She is just too good to be true. 😍
why does that surprise you? men are trash (LOL?!)
We don’t in how she is in her person life
@@cristalgirljuliaso true
I’m sure she has issues just like the rest of us
My mom and dad met at a grocery store when teenagers and were in love for 4 decades until she passed away in 2005 at 56. Till this day my dad never looked for anyone else as that was his sweetheart.
This is so nice to see. My parents also met as teens and were together until she passed at 41. 20 years later and my dad has also not remarried. It’s a beautiful reminder that true love is real. God bless you and your Dad. 🤍
I feel like Brett is that guy Carli will always have love for. ❤
he used her and wasn't going to propose to her so i don't think so :\
I'm pretty sure he cheated on her :/
@@MinnieMousey06 how do you know?
Yeah you can tell by the way she talks about him 💔
@@MinnieMousey06 but she said he's the nicest guy ever :/
Who is the right mind would ever ghost Carli ?!?! She is beautiful inside and out 😍
Yea he probably wasn’t good enough for her! Also some toxic men do this now days. She’s too good for him.
Some men are so insecure and losers they ghost woman who are better and want a mid type of woman they can control abuse etc . Gods protection in the end
It’s not about the person being ghosted that’s to be analyzed as to why they got ghosted. Rather it was the person who ghosted who’s the one with the issues
Honestly, when dudes do that it’s because someone else has their attention or they have a whole gf you didn’t even know about.
Gosh, yeah everyone seems like they getting cheated nowadays!
An ungrateful son of a bi**h 😅
That bluey color under the lash line is GORGEOUS and really makes the eyes pop ✨
Thank you for always being so open and vulnerable with us! Sending you all my love and well wishes. I want you to know you’re an incredible human being. It’s so refreshing and beautiful to see all that you have and continue to accomplish on your own. Not everyone is meant to have a “traditional” storyline and that’s ok. Thank you for being you 🤍
The 24 hour time period to think about committing to something is really great advice! Thank you Carli ❤
Ladies please get married before you have babies, and do not get pregnant for a man that you can’t see been a great husband and father to your children period.
If I was a man and I knew you were single , we would be together 😂
Studying for an exam had to pause to watch your video! Prayers that you finally find what you deserve 🙏 🙌 🥰
I wish you and Brett never broke up.. I feel like he was your soulmate..
I wouldn’t mind watching videos like this for a full hour lol just love your energy and the way you talk to us in your videos ❤🤩🙃
I am a fearful avoidant, leaning more towards anxiously attached. I just started seeing a mindful meditation therapist that is educated in attatchment styles. I encourage everyone to work on your attachment style (work to be securely attached) because if you don’t address it and heal, it will always always always pop up in every relationship you have in your life. It really is fascinating stuff. All has to do with your childhood
Carly!! Thank you !! For this video!! This helps me soooo much. I’m 31 years old and for sooo long I’ve struggled with boundaries always been a ppl pleaser always said yes when I’m reality I wanted to say no and have created scenarios in my head that we’re not realistic or necessary truth. It’s taken me so long to work on my self and this video helps a lot and a fresh reminder that I am not alone or the only one with these kind of struggles in life. I always thought it was me that I was the problem but in reality it was because I didn’t get the chance to know myself and love myself enough to set boundaries and respect for me. I love you and been following since the beginning. Thank you for growing up with us ❤
Love you Carli! I feel like you intimidate men with your independence. There is a man worthy of you out there and he will come along at the right time ❤️
Ive never heard of anxious attachment. I looked it up and that is exactly me. Im a Libra just like you and have always connected with you in so many ways and even more so in the things you mentioned today. Thank you for all the helpful tips. I am for sure going to seek professional help.
I’m a Libra too and also have anxious attachment!
Libra here and I used to have this too. Wanted to be liked and wanted by everyone but I started to choose me and now I don’t care if people like me or not anymore cause it is NOT my problem. What other people think/feel about me is non of my business
Same here also a Libra and struggled with anxious attachment.
Thank you so much for sharing with us about your therapy/counseling sessions and being HUMAN with us. Even sharing about your anxiety that you didn’t know that you really didn’t have until recently as well.
You touching on self love, setting boundaries and putting aside ESSENTIAL time for yourself is SPOT ON!!! It also triggers my anxiety, but also depression, when I over book, over commit and run myself ragged for things I don’t even want to be doing in the first place.
I will definitely be using that tip ti ask for 24 hours before giving an answer about a situation I’m not sure about. Thank you Carli 🤍
Just wondering what happened between Carli & Anthony??
We love you Carli! Hope you feel better soon!!
Loved your openness and vulnerability when sharing your relationship struggles and experiences. I can totally relate to everything you've shared. Your advice, positivity, and encouragement are so comforting❣️
Not to sound bad but I’m actually here for a Brett and Carli rekindle 😊 🤷🏻♀️
I think he used her too. I remember a Q and A video she did with Anthony where someone asked if he helped pay bills, and she said he did unlike her previous relationships. . .
@@Whoisshe7575 I wouldn’t doubt that but I also feel like it’s been long enough for him to know that it wasn’t right and that he learned he needed his own hustle. I’m sure he is now doing his own thing to make money , the separation prob showed him he needed to have his own money
The Untethered Soul is my favorite book!! The other books by the author are amazing as well!
Loving the consistency Carli! Your name popping up in my notifications is always a delight 💘💌
I was broken up with once I got pregnant as well. Such I hard thing to go through when having a baby is such a beautiful thing. It is nice to know that other women have gotten through the heartbreak because in the moment and even after it can be very hard. ❤️
I like that you’re doing a call for action now and posting more. I’m sure your following will grow. ❤
Men ghost a lot when they’re playing more than one game and you’re their plan B
Girl if there is a spider in your house kill it there’s always the chance of it biting your baby
Yes! Those guys do exist! I’m going to marry him this summer. 😍 It’s the best feeling. You’ll find someone too ❤️
As always lovely to see and listen to you! I always was curious about what happened to you and Moo
The problem with ghosting is with them. The problem nowadays is we women we’re strong we have our own money we run businesses we run households we take care of kids. We can do for ourselves. Men are very intimidated by that , and then if you throw beauty into the mix they say we’re unapproachable when they don’t get to know us on the inside.
Nah, not really. That's copium speaking. They're just not that into you and that's ok.
Like women, they're allowed to not feel it or not think you have what they're looking for too no matter how great you are or think you are.
@family guy 💯 intimidated by women and then looking for an easier way where they can easier impress and ego feeling valid
NOT ALL MEN!!! .SOME MEN...are intimidated...phrases like that are why I hate alot of what feminism has turned into...and phrases like that means the new generations of boys are already being told phrases such as ALL MEN completely unfair towards the future baby's of this world...this attitude is unhelpful.
Men could care less about how successful women are. If they are ghosting they are either married or don't want you period whether its a wrong fit they are not ready etc. Not because you are too good 😂
men who ghost are pussies
I wish you can see this Carli
But I think that your soulmate was Brett , but you both were not healed to accept each other into your lives
I don’t think that he was the one who cheated on you
But I guess the dad issues you had with your dad when you when a kid then he went away with another woman affected the relationship with Brett
You needed to heal that wound and fix your relationship with you dad , which I know you did after you and Brett broke up
I wish you can you find happiness
Lots of love 💗
I left my boyfriend when I was 4 months pregnant. I was so young and scared. He turned very possessive and I no longer felt safe with him. The pain I felt after feeling betrayed by my own child’s father was so intense, i really thought I was going to die. I had my beautiful daughter and decided to not put his name on the birth certificate. Best decision I’ve ever made. Honestly, The happiness and freedom of raising my daughter alone is immeasurable and FAR outweighs the feeling of pain I felt about losing him. It actually makes me laugh to think I ever felt anything at all. Because what I feel for her IS my world. There’s absolutely no room for anything else besides her. That was 15 years ago, and I’ve never regretted my circumstance once in all those years. I actually consider myself lucky and sometimes feel sorry for other women who have to raise their kids with some man. Ew. Haha
Glad to see you and Anthony have a good co-parenting relationship! Praying you find the perfect man in the near future. I have no doubt he’s out there ❤ sending hugs
Get better soon Carli😘 Love you doll face. And that cutie Lorenzo💙👩👦💙
Love yourself and be your own soulmate FIRST then poof💥💥💥💥..( I know you know this ,just reminder 💜💜💜💙💙🦋🦋)
💜Dating - When a man wants to be with you, he will.
It won't be difficult and you should never beg a man for his time. Don't have sex (keep reading) until marriage because it clouds your feelings and makes it more difficult to see a man for what he truly is, making it difficult to leave or staying in a relationship longer than you should.
💜🤸♀️Do what you want with that advice but look back and you'll see it.😁😉
I hope Love comes to you in the purest form carli because you deserve that. Gods hinders are your protection in the end. What’s meant for you will happen ❤
I couldn’t relate to you more or what you said about cheating. he way people are cheating is getting out of hand and ruining dating for a lot of people trying to find true love. I hope we all find someone out there
I love hearing your honest thoughts! How did you get approved on Raya, I remember awaiting a code or invite and forgot to look into it! I moved out of NJ and dating is no better lol
Ughh I thought for awhile there maybe NJ is just not the place for me to meet someone 😏😣
Girls, watch the video on youtube: Its not your city its YOU. The girl basically talks about how we attract certain type of men because of our deep rooted beliefs about ourselves, not because we live in a certain city 😊 I have this issue as well
I’d rather want something I don’t have than have something I don’t. The right person will come along at the right time ❤
Thank you the cheating is completely out of hand it does not matter how beautiful Shakira is its just like you said, its about the other person’s issues
gorgeous as alwayss ✨ felt like i needed to hear so many things you said in this video, well spoken! & much lovee to you and renz! 🤍
You look beautiful, wouldn’t have guessed you were sick. Feel better 🫶🏻
How are these questions you've been avoiding? Lol! thought we were about to get the tea! did you kill the spider you found and morning routines with toddlers is not what I expected 🤣
Your videos always keep me happy, thank you for keeping it honest on this video. my ex cheated on me and this was 2 years ago and till this day i cry on and off. Your video had me in tears but thank you, stay strong girl, and you're right it seems like cheating is a thing lol but to anyone ladies reading this stay strong, i know its hard but like Carli says stay strong! XOXO
I love how open and real you are. It’s so refreshing. And it helps make these small things in life that we shouldn’t be embarrassed about,more excepted, so thank you 💗
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Congratulations to Vinny and Monica! I’m a confused, didn’t she (Monica) say they were married for two years in the vlog with Monica?
Carli - you are amazing :) Trust that God has His plans for you. I have been married 20 years and my husband was far from what my dating criteria was. He loves God and his family and even through the hard times we have overcome. I truly believe that there are good men out there and that the right guy will come along. I pray daily for my daughters that their path is full of joy, success and love. I'm sure your father is sending his angels to watch over you and your beautiful baby boy and is watching out that the right person will be filling your days with the love you deserve. I may not be in your shoes but the struggles are there in the matter of our daughters health but am thankful that she is in my life and what comes with it. Thank you for your videos as they are my escape from the everyday stress of life.
love ya carli…now i’m all comfy in bed watching your video before bed…🤍✨🫶🏼
I love you Carli !!!!!! You are amazing 🙌🥰✨
I absolutely enjoyed this video Carli. Need more Q&A videos like this. Love you! 💜