From someone who has 14 years of long term relationship experience, trust me on this: when you’re with the right person, even the hard times seem easy.
There’s a difference between being an influencer vs an og RUclipsr. Carli you’re og, you stay real with us and don’t try to sell us a fake perfect life. And that’s why we love you!!!
The part where you talk directly to the girl struggling with being pregnant going through a breakup had me crying 😭 it’s like a one of those comfort voice notes from a best friend that makes you feel better. You’re so kind and beautiful ❤
Your sadness when you read if Brett and u are secretly dating.. maybe he’s your soulmate, maybe he’s not, maybe u guys had to separate to find your own identity and will reunite gods timing, or maybe he just belongs in your past.. it was so nice watching you grow with Brett and without him
I felt like the only person who broke up with their child’s father during their pregnancy. It’s a situation that no one ever sees coming. My daughter’s dad cheated on me during my pregnancy and I moved across the country to birth my child with my mom as my support. It was embarrassing and stressful. The most important thing is that my daughter is healthy and we are both happy; just the two of us. I hope whom ever has shared this experience heals and finds happiness within.
Sending you hugs and all the strength and the loudest applaud! ❤️❤️❤️ your daughter will be just as strong and beautiful! And wise and smart just like you!
sending you the best and most positive wishes! My mom went through a similar thing when she had my little sister, you always come out stronger in the end 🤍
I’m so glad you and Anthony have a friendly relationship, it makes raising a child easier when parents get along, Lorenzo is lucky to have parents like you.❤
My partner and I split during my first pregnancy. The heartache was truly awful. Crying daily. The fear of parenting alone absolutely terrified me. But I can't believe looking back how incredibly strong and empowered it made me. I think I was even a better mother for it...amazingly enough! We are back together now (which I know is not always the outcome) but I'm grateful for the struggle because I will never settle for less again. I know my strength and power and I know I'm an amazing mom. Thank you for sharing your answers with us Carli. God bless you and Lorenzo. ❤️❤️❤️
So sorry you ever had to go through this but you’re a FIGHTER! So proud of you for conquering all of those fears and bumps along the way! You go mama 💝
@@youtubeaccI definitely agree with you, but we don't know if he just left her, she said they split. She could've left him...or a mutual split. Same with Carli, obviously no woman in their wildest dreams want to be a single parent.. but you never know maybe she was miserable and saw a different person when she became pregnant.
I had an older wise woman tell me. You have to love yourself. We all think we know what that means, right? But, you wouldn't let anyone treat someone YOU love poorly. Mom, dad, brother, sister, your child, you wouldn't allow anyone to disrespect them. You have to treat yourself the same way. I literally let go. Stopped looking. Prayed a very specific prayer. Or put out into the universe the very specific needs and wants in a partner. My list was literally 10 miles long lol but when my husband found me. Every single thing I prayed for. I saw in him, and I just knew without a doubt he was truly sent to me. I have been a subbie of yours for years, and I also pray your person finds you ❤️
I am a fearful avoidant, leaning more towards anxiously attached. I just started seeing a mindful meditation therapist that is educated in attatchment styles. I encourage everyone to work on your attachment style (work to be securely attached) because if you don’t address it and heal, it will always always always pop up in every relationship you have in your life. It really is fascinating stuff. All has to do with your childhood
As someone who was in two different physically, mentally and just a horrible relationships with men. And a not so great childhood (s/a) I never thought I would find someone. I've met my match. I'm now doted over, loved, appreciated and treated like gold. I am also newly engaged. We accept the love we think we deserve was a quote I lived by for awhile. I know my worth and you all should too. You are worthy. Say that to yourself everyone. Sending you Lorenzo, your loved ones and everyone reading this prayers for lots of love, light, happiness, safety, great physical and mental health 🌞🙏🩵
You gave me hope❤ I also have a history of CSA and I'm scared that I won't find anyone who accept it. My past boyfriends have made fun of it and dismissed my experience. So reading your comment has given me hope.❤
Thank you. I truly believe there is someone for everyone 🫶 prayers and thank you ❤️ I'm sorry you have gone through this as well. It's scary, but you'll know when you know when you meet someone. Gut instinct. ❤️
Thank you for being so open and honest, these are my ABSOLUTE fav videos and just feeling like we are talking to a friend or hanging out with you. I’ve been watching you for 8+ years since I’ve been in highschool and I’m so happy you’re still here on RUclips
My mom and dad met at a grocery store when teenagers and were in love for 4 decades until she passed away in 2005 at 56. Till this day my dad never looked for anyone else as that was his sweetheart.
This is so nice to see. My parents also met as teens and were together until she passed at 41. 20 years later and my dad has also not remarried. It’s a beautiful reminder that true love is real. God bless you and your Dad. 🤍
Thank you so much for sharing with us about your therapy/counseling sessions and being HUMAN with us. Even sharing about your anxiety that you didn’t know that you really didn’t have until recently as well. You touching on self love, setting boundaries and putting aside ESSENTIAL time for yourself is SPOT ON!!! It also triggers my anxiety, but also depression, when I over book, over commit and run myself ragged for things I don’t even want to be doing in the first place. I will definitely be using that tip ti ask for 24 hours before giving an answer about a situation I’m not sure about. Thank you Carli 🤍
Carli everything you are saying is resonating with me and my current life… The therapy, the boundaries, the frustration of failed relationships, the wondering if there are honest men who don’t cheat, the wanting to meet someone naturally and not online -but work from home n don’t go out much 😟 all of it!! It makes me feel better to know someone as gorgeous and well put together as you is also going through the same stuff so thank you for sharing. -anyone else down for a self love retreat n become BFF 👯♀️
Thank you for always being so open and vulnerable with us! Sending you all my love and well wishes. I want you to know you’re an incredible human being. It’s so refreshing and beautiful to see all that you have and continue to accomplish on your own. Not everyone is meant to have a “traditional” storyline and that’s ok. Thank you for being you 🤍
Yaaaay another video keeping it real! More try on hauls, therapy, life goals, morning routines, day in a life of Carli, and everything under the sun just coz we’re a nosey bunch 🤪
I second this!!!! It just feels like the best advice, insightful, honest, and humbling conversations with her! She’s that sorority sister, friend, and stylist we can all appreciate 💓
Carly!! Thank you !! For this video!! This helps me soooo much. I’m 31 years old and for sooo long I’ve struggled with boundaries always been a ppl pleaser always said yes when I’m reality I wanted to say no and have created scenarios in my head that we’re not realistic or necessary truth. It’s taken me so long to work on my self and this video helps a lot and a fresh reminder that I am not alone or the only one with these kind of struggles in life. I always thought it was me that I was the problem but in reality it was because I didn’t get the chance to know myself and love myself enough to set boundaries and respect for me. I love you and been following since the beginning. Thank you for growing up with us ❤
Carli I feel you on everything you say!!! I put into the universe you will meet someone at a country music concert or a musician. Possibly someone who is at Starbucks!!! My friend once told me “girl who are you going to meet the burglar that breaks into your house”! Lol . Carli all I can say is do all the things you love to do. Oh and write down all the wonderful things you want in your husband and be SPECIFIC!! I did and I enjoyed single life practiced self love to the point that I didn’t even want anyone! But I wrote down what I wanted in my future husband, and I prayed for him everyday. I prayed that he was loved,safe,that he thought of me and then I prayed that he would make it safely to me closer and closer each day. Guess what Carli where I prayed was in the gym everyday!! And then guess what he walked up to me in the gym❤️. I never told him I wrote of him and I never told him I prayed for him. But one day I will. All in perfect timing. Also I was a single mom of a boy ❤️. It’ll happen and I can’t wait until it does❤️.
Loved your openness and vulnerability when sharing your relationship struggles and experiences. I can totally relate to everything you've shared. Your advice, positivity, and encouragement are so comforting❣️
Love you Carli! I feel like you intimidate men with your independence. There is a man worthy of you out there and he will come along at the right time ❤️
yes it is hard out there in the dating world!! u are not the only one who feels this way. women all over the world are going through it. its just a really strange time to be single right now🤣
👏🏻 ❤ Yess!! “When you least expect it..” happens because you’re not putting all of your hope, expectations and energy looking for someone. You’re more authentic, relaxed and attractive to someone when you’re focusing and working on yourself. Thirsty people attract thirsty people.
You are such an awesome Mom and all around wonderful person. I know you’ll find the right one when you least expect it. Thanks for being so open and honest, it’s really refreshing. ❤
I love how open and real you are. It’s so refreshing. And it helps make these small things in life that we shouldn’t be embarrassed about,more excepted, so thank you 💗
I was broken up with once I got pregnant as well. Such I hard thing to go through when having a baby is such a beautiful thing. It is nice to know that other women have gotten through the heartbreak because in the moment and even after it can be very hard. ❤️
The problem with ghosting is with them. The problem nowadays is we women we’re strong we have our own money we run businesses we run households we take care of kids. We can do for ourselves. Men are very intimidated by that , and then if you throw beauty into the mix they say we’re unapproachable when they don’t get to know us on the inside.
Nah, not really. That's copium speaking. They're just not that into you and that's ok. Like women, they're allowed to not feel it or not think you have what they're looking for too no matter how great you are or think you are.
NOT ALL MEN!!! .SOME MEN...are intimidated...phrases like that are why I hate alot of what feminism has turned into...and phrases like that means the new generations of boys are already being told phrases such as ALL MEN completely unfair towards the future baby's of this world...this attitude is unhelpful.
Men could care less about how successful women are. If they are ghosting they are either married or don't want you period whether its a wrong fit they are not ready etc. Not because you are too good 😂
You're beautiful. The amount of change and awareness you have now is noticeable. You have a kind and gentle soul and you need the right person to be able to embrace and honour that. You have a beautiful kid and a beautiful family and God bless you all! Keep inspiring us with beauty and hope 🙏🏻❤️
I thought I saw on her story that the video was 40 minutes long and got so happy. Can't get enough of her energy. It's been helping me get through finding myself again. Everyone else in this community seems to be so disconnected. I love u carli x
This video really helped me not feel alone. I have been in such a giving mode for the past years that I have felt like I have nothing left for myself. My goal has been to put my needs first and be happy with myself before giving to others. Thank you Carli for sharing and helping me out! -Love Ari
Glad to see you and Anthony have a good co-parenting relationship! Praying you find the perfect man in the near future. I have no doubt he’s out there ❤ sending hugs
Carli - you are amazing :) Trust that God has His plans for you. I have been married 20 years and my husband was far from what my dating criteria was. He loves God and his family and even through the hard times we have overcome. I truly believe that there are good men out there and that the right guy will come along. I pray daily for my daughters that their path is full of joy, success and love. I'm sure your father is sending his angels to watch over you and your beautiful baby boy and is watching out that the right person will be filling your days with the love you deserve. I may not be in your shoes but the struggles are there in the matter of our daughters health but am thankful that she is in my life and what comes with it. Thank you for your videos as they are my escape from the everyday stress of life.
Hearing your words just make me feel less alone and the fact that you have had your bad days just like any of us and you are always so positive just give me hope that i will one day feel as happy and positive as you god willing i am manifesting to be as happy as you
You don’t know how much you just healed my heart. I’m in therapy for the something! I’m learning boundaries too and to me it can be hard because I’m such a loving libra and I realize I need to watch who I give my time and energy to! I hope you are able to still keep those healthy boundaries and that people respect you and give you the energy and love you deserve!
I agree with everything you said girl. I’m a single mom of an 11 year old daughter. Life is hard out here, but I think we’re gonna be alright. Just keep manifesting everything we deserve ♥️🙌
You are such a beautiful soul. No time is wasted when watching your videos because you’re so inspirational and positive. I’ve been watching you forever and you just continue to grow and be an awesome human. ❤
One thing I learn from my past relationship (Horrible experience :( ) was that NEVER settle anything for less. You deserve someone better! Let them change for themselves. Don't ever hope that he will change after the mistake he has made (cheating etc) coz I've been there it sucks. But yeah throughout the healing, I've learn to love myself more. I pray for you Carli! You will meet the best wonderful man for you and your baby. You're such a nice person. Don't be sad okay? We're here for you.
The one thing about Carli that I loved the most is that she really knows truly and deeply who she is. And I feel like everyone that she’s been with wanted her to be some thing that she didn’t want to be or wanted her to change in that wasn’t true and authentic to herself. She needs a man to complement her, and to make her even better than she already is, but by being better together, and not changing the things that he doesn’t like about her.
carli, what u say about self-love in this video hits me through the heart. i felt it the most that giving too much is not okay, and i need to set boundaries for others :(
I know I know it’s not our business and as long as you’re happy we’re all happy!!! But…. I feel like the way you were taking about Brett had you blushing a little!?!?!
I hope Love comes to you in the purest form carli because you deserve that. Gods hinders are your protection in the end. What’s meant for you will happen ❤
You are absolutely correct. With the right person, it will be easy and smooth, however before it becomes that way we must first get to that stage ourselves, where we LOVE ourselves, and make it to the right love. We are young, we have time :)
Ive never heard of anxious attachment. I looked it up and that is exactly me. Im a Libra just like you and have always connected with you in so many ways and even more so in the things you mentioned today. Thank you for all the helpful tips. I am for sure going to seek professional help.
Libra here and I used to have this too. Wanted to be liked and wanted by everyone but I started to choose me and now I don’t care if people like me or not anymore cause it is NOT my problem. What other people think/feel about me is non of my business
I love your advise and how you carry yourself and then I remembered you’re a Libra and understood why I agree with everything you said! Also, when I met my now husband, it felt like we’ve known each other forever and convos were just continuing on. Also, we agreed that cheating and abuse will ruin the relationship for both of us and we both couldn’t forgive each other afterwards and that we love each other too much to let things ruin us. Communication is key!
❤️❤️❤️ Carli I too just got out of a relationship of 7-8 years, have a 6 year old boy with ex partner and we are co-parenting. 100% since scrolling through tictok and all these videos on trauma bounds and attachment styles. I too didn't believe I had these things until I watched those types of videos Same with anxiety, I always thought I didn't have it too and thought I letting go/controlled the voice inside my head well and discounted with emotions. It's only since the breakup with my son's father I've tuned into my emotions and really felt everything which has also caused anxiety. So you're not alone x
If you’re being ghosted, ask yourself why you’re allowing them to come back! Make connections black or white. Either you’re moving forwards together or you’re not🤍✌🏽
I would love to see more morning a daily toddler routines, cleaning, etc. we’ve all grown with you and are so excited for you to be in this new phase of life and we are ready to expand with you!
Keep up this amazing content.❤ I’m hooked on your videos each week like im 14 again. I teared up when you talked about crying yourself to sleep pregnant. I definitely feel the energy of Lorenzo being sent to heal your precious heart during the loss of your dad / breakup. Love you so much Carli!
Yeeess! When you find the right person for you, it will just come easy and feel so right . ❤ Such an amazing feeling! If the man wants you he will not wait for someone else to steal you , he will put a ring on it and not wait! Talking from experience ❤😊
Carli!! Loving all your uploads lately 💙 sending lots of love your way. As someone who wanted that old school love story, I met the love of my life onlineee. You will find your person
This was an awesome video. We need these often. Your motto, Aspire to Inspire, I believe is growing in even bigger ways. I see you doing so many beautiful things outside of fashion and beauty. You are really helping alot of us women out here with mental. You gave me clarity on a situation that came up this weekend on my worth and boundaries. Thank you 🥰❤️ Sending you so much love
Have your friends or family set you up they know you best and want the best for you!!! Happened to me (I am too much in my head, honestly, to have found someone myself). 4 years later happily married 2 girlies no drama easy peasy lemon squeezy... ugh you DESERVE IT!!
💜Dating - When a man wants to be with you, he will. It won't be difficult and you should never beg a man for his time. Don't have sex (keep reading) until marriage because it clouds your feelings and makes it more difficult to see a man for what he truly is, making it difficult to leave or staying in a relationship longer than you should. 💜🤸♀️Do what you want with that advice but look back and you'll see it.😁😉
Carli I love you so much! I am here since 2012 💗! You are a beautiful soul and the right man will enter your life and treat you like a queen! You deserve the best! Love you so much! 💗💗💗
From someone who has 14 years of long term relationship experience, trust me on this: when you’re with the right person, even the hard times seem easy.
Yes mam!!
YES! After ten years with my husband I can honestly say that marriage isn’t what’s hard. LIFE is hard, and the right partner makes it easier. ❤
YEESSSSSSSSSSSS thank you
I needed this. ❤️ thank you 🙏🏼
I can confirm!
There’s a difference between being an influencer vs an og RUclipsr. Carli you’re og, you stay real with us and don’t try to sell us a fake perfect life. And that’s why we love you!!!
The part where you talk directly to the girl struggling with being pregnant going through a breakup had me crying 😭 it’s like a one of those comfort voice notes from a best friend that makes you feel better. You’re so kind and beautiful ❤
same, literally had me in tears and I have never even been pregnant. I wish I had a bff that would send me such vn's lol
I almost cried too. Luckily I'm in the train so it helped me keep em in 🥲
That was so thoughtful and beautiful!!! 😊
Your sadness when you read if Brett and u are secretly dating.. maybe he’s your soulmate, maybe he’s not, maybe u guys had to separate to find your own identity and will reunite gods timing, or maybe he just belongs in your past.. it was so nice watching you grow with Brett and without him
I felt like the only person who broke up with their child’s father during their pregnancy. It’s a situation that no one ever sees coming. My daughter’s dad cheated on me during my pregnancy and I moved across the country to birth my child with my mom as my support. It was embarrassing and stressful. The most important thing is that my daughter is healthy and we are both happy; just the two of us. I hope whom ever has shared this experience heals and finds happiness within.
Sending you hugs and all the strength and the loudest applaud! ❤️❤️❤️ your daughter will be just as strong and beautiful! And wise and smart just like you!
sending you the best and most positive wishes! My mom went through a similar thing when she had my little sister, you always come out stronger in the end 🤍
@@Cheecheeee Thank you❤
@@sofimurillo405 Thank you❤
Same situation here ❤️ my son and me couldn’t be happier. All the best wishes.
I’m so glad you and Anthony have a friendly relationship, it makes raising a child easier when parents get along, Lorenzo is lucky to have parents like you.❤
My partner and I split during my first pregnancy. The heartache was truly awful. Crying daily. The fear of parenting alone absolutely terrified me. But I can't believe looking back how incredibly strong and empowered it made me. I think I was even a better mother for it...amazingly enough!
We are back together now (which I know is not always the outcome) but I'm grateful for the struggle because I will never settle for less again. I know my strength and power and I know I'm an amazing mom. Thank you for sharing your answers with us Carli. God bless you and Lorenzo. ❤️❤️❤️
So sorry you ever had to go through this but you’re a FIGHTER! So proud of you for conquering all of those fears and bumps along the way! You go mama 💝
I know that feeling my ex an I split after 12 years being together
I just could never imagine taking a man back who left me while pregnant and made me feel like that. Remember if he does it once he will do it twice
How long did you leave for?
@@youtubeaccI definitely agree with you, but we don't know if he just left her, she said they split. She could've left him...or a mutual split. Same with Carli, obviously no woman in their wildest dreams want to be a single parent.. but you never know maybe she was miserable and saw a different person when she became pregnant.
I had an older wise woman tell me. You have to love yourself. We all think we know what that means, right? But, you wouldn't let anyone treat someone YOU love poorly. Mom, dad, brother, sister, your child, you wouldn't allow anyone to disrespect them. You have to treat yourself the same way. I literally let go. Stopped looking. Prayed a very specific prayer. Or put out into the universe the very specific needs and wants in a partner. My list was literally 10 miles long lol but when my husband found me. Every single thing I prayed for. I saw in him, and I just knew without a doubt he was truly sent to me. I have been a subbie of yours for years, and I also pray your person finds you ❤️
I am a fearful avoidant, leaning more towards anxiously attached. I just started seeing a mindful meditation therapist that is educated in attatchment styles. I encourage everyone to work on your attachment style (work to be securely attached) because if you don’t address it and heal, it will always always always pop up in every relationship you have in your life. It really is fascinating stuff. All has to do with your childhood
These videos are so therapeutic. It’s like listening to a friend chat! ❤
Ikr? 😀😀
They really are!
As someone who was in two different physically, mentally and just a horrible relationships with men. And a not so great childhood (s/a) I never thought I would find someone. I've met my match. I'm now doted over, loved, appreciated and treated like gold. I am also newly engaged. We accept the love we think we deserve was a quote I lived by for awhile. I know my worth and you all should too. You are worthy. Say that to yourself everyone. Sending you Lorenzo, your loved ones and everyone reading this prayers for lots of love, light, happiness, safety, great physical and mental health 🌞🙏🩵
You gave me hope❤
I also have a history of CSA and I'm scared that I won't find anyone who accept it. My past boyfriends have made fun of it and dismissed my experience. So reading your comment has given me hope.❤
congrats on your engagement!! definitely an inspiring message, thank you
Thank you. I truly believe there is someone for everyone 🫶 prayers and thank you ❤️ I'm sorry you have gone through this as well. It's scary, but you'll know when you know when you meet someone. Gut instinct. ❤️
Can I just say - I love how Non-controversial you are! No drama, just beauty! Lu 💕
Thank you for being so open and honest, these are my ABSOLUTE fav videos and just feeling like we are talking to a friend or hanging out with you. I’ve been watching you for 8+ years since I’ve been in highschool and I’m so happy you’re still here on RUclips
My mom and dad met at a grocery store when teenagers and were in love for 4 decades until she passed away in 2005 at 56. Till this day my dad never looked for anyone else as that was his sweetheart.
This is so nice to see. My parents also met as teens and were together until she passed at 41. 20 years later and my dad has also not remarried. It’s a beautiful reminder that true love is real. God bless you and your Dad. 🤍
Thank you so much for sharing with us about your therapy/counseling sessions and being HUMAN with us. Even sharing about your anxiety that you didn’t know that you really didn’t have until recently as well.
You touching on self love, setting boundaries and putting aside ESSENTIAL time for yourself is SPOT ON!!! It also triggers my anxiety, but also depression, when I over book, over commit and run myself ragged for things I don’t even want to be doing in the first place.
I will definitely be using that tip ti ask for 24 hours before giving an answer about a situation I’m not sure about. Thank you Carli 🤍
Carli everything you are saying is resonating with me and my current life… The therapy, the boundaries, the frustration of failed relationships, the wondering if there are honest men who don’t cheat, the wanting to meet someone naturally and not online -but work from home n don’t go out much 😟 all of it!! It makes me feel better to know someone as gorgeous and well put together as you is also going through the same stuff so thank you for sharing.
-anyone else down for a self love retreat n become BFF 👯♀️
Let's all start humanizing people we look up to
That bluey color under the lash line is GORGEOUS and really makes the eyes pop ✨
The 24 hour time period to think about committing to something is really great advice! Thank you Carli ❤
Thank you for always being so open and vulnerable with us! Sending you all my love and well wishes. I want you to know you’re an incredible human being. It’s so refreshing and beautiful to see all that you have and continue to accomplish on your own. Not everyone is meant to have a “traditional” storyline and that’s ok. Thank you for being you 🤍
Yaaaay another video keeping it real! More try on hauls, therapy, life goals, morning routines, day in a life of Carli, and everything under the sun just coz we’re a nosey bunch 🤪
This!
Hahaha! AGREE❤
I second this!!!! It just feels like the best advice, insightful, honest, and humbling conversations with her! She’s that sorority sister,
friend, and stylist we can all appreciate 💓
Carly!! Thank you !! For this video!! This helps me soooo much. I’m 31 years old and for sooo long I’ve struggled with boundaries always been a ppl pleaser always said yes when I’m reality I wanted to say no and have created scenarios in my head that we’re not realistic or necessary truth. It’s taken me so long to work on my self and this video helps a lot and a fresh reminder that I am not alone or the only one with these kind of struggles in life. I always thought it was me that I was the problem but in reality it was because I didn’t get the chance to know myself and love myself enough to set boundaries and respect for me. I love you and been following since the beginning. Thank you for growing up with us ❤
Carli I feel you on everything you say!!! I put into the universe you will meet someone at a country music concert or a musician. Possibly someone who is at Starbucks!!! My friend once told me “girl who are you going to meet the burglar that breaks into your house”! Lol . Carli all I can say is do all the things you love to do. Oh and write down all the wonderful things you want in your husband and be SPECIFIC!! I did and I enjoyed single life practiced self love to the point that I didn’t even want anyone! But I wrote down what I wanted in my future husband, and I prayed for him everyday. I prayed that he was loved,safe,that he thought of me and then I prayed that he would make it safely to me closer and closer each day. Guess what Carli where I prayed was in the gym everyday!! And then guess what he walked up to me in the gym❤️. I never told him I wrote of him and I never told him I prayed for him. But one day I will. All in perfect timing. Also I was a single mom of a boy ❤️. It’ll happen and I can’t wait until it does❤️.
Carli deserves the World. Someone raw, real & authentic just as she is. Don't go looking for it, it will come to you! Love you Carli ❤️
I’d rather want something I don’t have than have something I don’t. The right person will come along at the right time ❤
Loved your openness and vulnerability when sharing your relationship struggles and experiences. I can totally relate to everything you've shared. Your advice, positivity, and encouragement are so comforting❣️
When you’re with the right person you’ll know. Even when ish is difficult, you get through it. You look great and I’m happy you did this!
Love you Carli! I feel like you intimidate men with your independence. There is a man worthy of you out there and he will come along at the right time ❤️
yes it is hard out there in the dating world!! u are not the only one who feels this way. women all over the world are going through it. its just a really strange time to be single right now🤣
👏🏻 ❤
Yess!! “When you least expect it..” happens because you’re not putting all of your hope, expectations and energy looking for someone. You’re more authentic, relaxed and attractive to someone when you’re focusing and working on yourself.
Thirsty people attract thirsty people.
You are such an awesome Mom and all around wonderful person. I know you’ll find the right one when you least expect it. Thanks for being so open and honest, it’s really refreshing. ❤
I love this!!! It’s giving such big sister energy. Manifesting you find your person Carli
I love how open and real you are. It’s so refreshing. And it helps make these small things in life that we shouldn’t be embarrassed about,more excepted, so thank you 💗
Thank you Carli for being SO honest🙂
I was broken up with once I got pregnant as well. Such I hard thing to go through when having a baby is such a beautiful thing. It is nice to know that other women have gotten through the heartbreak because in the moment and even after it can be very hard. ❤️
The problem with ghosting is with them. The problem nowadays is we women we’re strong we have our own money we run businesses we run households we take care of kids. We can do for ourselves. Men are very intimidated by that , and then if you throw beauty into the mix they say we’re unapproachable when they don’t get to know us on the inside.
Nah, not really. That's copium speaking. They're just not that into you and that's ok.
Like women, they're allowed to not feel it or not think you have what they're looking for too no matter how great you are or think you are.
@family guy 💯 intimidated by women and then looking for an easier way where they can easier impress and ego feeling valid
NOT ALL MEN!!! .SOME MEN...are intimidated...phrases like that are why I hate alot of what feminism has turned into...and phrases like that means the new generations of boys are already being told phrases such as ALL MEN completely unfair towards the future baby's of this world...this attitude is unhelpful.
Men could care less about how successful women are. If they are ghosting they are either married or don't want you period whether its a wrong fit they are not ready etc. Not because you are too good 😂
men who ghost are pussies
i am so surprised actually that a woman like carli have struggles to meet the "right" guy. She is just too good to be true. 😍
why does that surprise you? men are trash (LOL?!)
We don’t in how she is in her person life
@@cristalgirljuliaso true
I’m sure she has issues just like the rest of us
You're beautiful. The amount of change and awareness you have now is noticeable. You have a kind and gentle soul and you need the right person to be able to embrace and honour that. You have a beautiful kid and a beautiful family and God bless you all! Keep inspiring us with beauty and hope 🙏🏻❤️
Thank you on saying what you said about cheating. Why has it become so normalized? Even in shows and movies it’s like that. It’s sad.
I thought I saw on her story that the video was 40 minutes long and got so happy. Can't get enough of her energy. It's been helping me get through finding myself again. Everyone else in this community seems to be so disconnected. I love u carli x
I feel like Brett is that guy Carli will always have love for. ❤
he used her and wasn't going to propose to her so i don't think so :\
I'm pretty sure he cheated on her :/
@@MinnieMousey06 how do you know?
Yeah you can tell by the way she talks about him 💔
@@MinnieMousey06 but she said he's the nicest guy ever :/
This video really helped me not feel alone. I have been in such a giving mode for the past years that I have felt like I have nothing left for myself. My goal has been to put my needs first and be happy with myself before giving to others. Thank you Carli for sharing and helping me out!
-Love Ari
Carli’s advice to the person with the breakup was so genuine and heartfelt ugh I even got emotional 😭
Glad to see you and Anthony have a good co-parenting relationship! Praying you find the perfect man in the near future. I have no doubt he’s out there ❤ sending hugs
I think Anthony used her for his barbershop and clout... that's why she keeps talking about being used. Hope you feel better ❤️ this sucks!
I think he probably cheated during her pregnancy too. Insane. Who the hell would cheat on Carli? You can’t spell mental without “men.”
@MissKarennnn totally agree! It's INSANE 😞 she's sooo sweet! Always the best people attracting the worst people!
Carli - you are amazing :) Trust that God has His plans for you. I have been married 20 years and my husband was far from what my dating criteria was. He loves God and his family and even through the hard times we have overcome. I truly believe that there are good men out there and that the right guy will come along. I pray daily for my daughters that their path is full of joy, success and love. I'm sure your father is sending his angels to watch over you and your beautiful baby boy and is watching out that the right person will be filling your days with the love you deserve. I may not be in your shoes but the struggles are there in the matter of our daughters health but am thankful that she is in my life and what comes with it. Thank you for your videos as they are my escape from the everyday stress of life.
Hearing your words just make me feel less alone and the fact that you have had your bad days just like any of us and you are always so positive just give me hope that i will one day feel as happy and positive as you god willing i am manifesting to be as happy as you
You don’t know how much you just healed my heart. I’m in therapy for the something! I’m learning boundaries too and to me it can be hard because I’m such a loving libra and I realize I need to watch who I give my time and energy to! I hope you are able to still keep those healthy boundaries and that people respect you and give you the energy and love you deserve!
Loving the consistency Carli! Your name popping up in my notifications is always a delight 💘💌
I agree with everything you said girl. I’m a single mom of an 11 year old daughter. Life is hard out here, but I think we’re gonna be alright. Just keep manifesting everything we deserve ♥️🙌
You are such a beautiful soul. No time is wasted when watching your videos because you’re so inspirational and positive. I’ve been watching you forever and you just continue to grow and be an awesome human. ❤
One thing I learn from my past relationship (Horrible experience :( ) was that NEVER settle anything for less. You deserve someone better! Let them change for themselves. Don't ever hope that he will change after the mistake he has made (cheating etc) coz I've been there it sucks. But yeah throughout the healing, I've learn to love myself more. I pray for you Carli! You will meet the best wonderful man for you and your baby. You're such a nice person. Don't be sad okay? We're here for you.
gorgeous as alwayss ✨ felt like i needed to hear so many things you said in this video, well spoken! & much lovee to you and renz! 🤍
Knowing even Carli has been ghosted honestly makes me feel good… as bad as that sounds. Ghosting is a HUGE self esteem hitter
Carli thanks for all these uploads, man I love it!!!
The one thing about Carli that I loved the most is that she really knows truly and deeply who she is. And I feel like everyone that she’s been with wanted her to be some thing that she didn’t want to be or wanted her to change in that wasn’t true and authentic to herself. She needs a man to complement her, and to make her even better than she already is, but by being better together, and not changing the things that he doesn’t like about her.
Studying for an exam had to pause to watch your video! Prayers that you finally find what you deserve 🙏 🙌 🥰
I wouldn’t mind watching videos like this for a full hour lol just love your energy and the way you talk to us in your videos ❤🤩🙃
I love when you come on here at talk to us. i needed this
Girl, if it's hard for you... whats the hope for the rest of us?! 😫😫😩
😭🤣 I had the same thought
We love you Carli! Hope you feel better soon!!
carli, what u say about self-love in this video hits me through the heart. i felt it the most that giving too much is not okay, and i need to set boundaries for others :(
I absolutely enjoyed this video Carli. Need more Q&A videos like this. Love you! 💜
I know I know it’s not our business and as long as you’re happy we’re all happy!!! But…. I feel like the way you were taking about Brett had you blushing a little!?!?!
The Untethered Soul is my favorite book!! The other books by the author are amazing as well!
This video came at perfect timing, I needed to hear this about setting boundaries and self love. Love you Carli ♥️
I hope Love comes to you in the purest form carli because you deserve that. Gods hinders are your protection in the end. What’s meant for you will happen ❤
You are absolutely correct. With the right person, it will be easy and smooth, however before it becomes that way we must first get to that stage ourselves, where we LOVE ourselves, and make it to the right love. We are young, we have time :)
Clicked so fast! I love how frquent these uploads have been. You are so inspiring.
I like that you’re doing a call for action now and posting more. I’m sure your following will grow. ❤
Ive never heard of anxious attachment. I looked it up and that is exactly me. Im a Libra just like you and have always connected with you in so many ways and even more so in the things you mentioned today. Thank you for all the helpful tips. I am for sure going to seek professional help.
I’m a Libra too and also have anxious attachment!
Libra here and I used to have this too. Wanted to be liked and wanted by everyone but I started to choose me and now I don’t care if people like me or not anymore cause it is NOT my problem. What other people think/feel about me is non of my business
Same here also a Libra and struggled with anxious attachment.
The car lighting is TOP NOTCH 💡✨👌🏻
Amber Scholl and You make me so proud. You both exude independence in a dignified way.
YES 🥰🥰
Yes! Those guys do exist! I’m going to marry him this summer. 😍 It’s the best feeling. You’ll find someone too ❤️
I love your advise and how you carry yourself and then I remembered you’re a Libra and understood why I agree with everything you said! Also, when I met my now husband, it felt like we’ve known each other forever and convos were just continuing on. Also, we agreed that cheating and abuse will ruin the relationship for both of us and we both couldn’t forgive each other afterwards and that we love each other too much to let things ruin us. Communication is key!
❤️❤️❤️ Carli
I too just got out of a relationship of 7-8 years, have a 6 year old boy with ex partner and we are co-parenting.
100% since scrolling through tictok and all these videos on trauma bounds and attachment styles. I too didn't believe I had these things until I watched those types of videos
Same with anxiety, I always thought I didn't have it too and thought I letting go/controlled the voice inside my head well and discounted with emotions. It's only since the breakup with my son's father I've tuned into my emotions and really felt everything which has also caused anxiety. So you're not alone x
So needed to hear all this. A theraputic girl talk. Sending you so much love Carli. I can relate to you on ALL levels. Luv ya
If you’re being ghosted, ask yourself why you’re allowing them to come back! Make connections black or white. Either you’re moving forwards together or you’re not🤍✌🏽
I think that one person a little more mature for you, is the perfect for you. ❤️❤️❤️
I would love to see more morning a daily toddler routines, cleaning, etc. we’ve all grown with you and are so excited for you to be in this new phase of life and we are ready to expand with you!
I wish you and Brett never broke up.. I feel like he was your soulmate..
Keep up this amazing content.❤ I’m hooked on your videos each week like im 14 again. I teared up when you talked about crying yourself to sleep pregnant. I definitely feel the energy of Lorenzo being sent to heal your precious heart during the loss of your dad / breakup. Love you so much Carli!
Yeeess! When you find the right person for you, it will just come easy and feel so right . ❤ Such an amazing feeling! If the man wants you he will not wait for someone else to steal you , he will put a ring on it and not wait! Talking from experience ❤😊
You’ll find the right person when you least expect it! Trust me girl❤ you’ll have your Prince Charming one day. Keep doing you for now😘
That was beautiful you talking to the momma who needed to hear your words 🥰
Carli!! Loving all your uploads lately 💙 sending lots of love your way. As someone who wanted that old school love story, I met the love of my life onlineee. You will find your person
I love you Carli !!!!!! You are amazing 🙌🥰✨
This was an awesome video. We need these often. Your motto, Aspire to Inspire, I believe is growing in even bigger ways. I see you doing so many beautiful things outside of fashion and beauty. You are really helping alot of us women out here with mental. You gave me clarity on a situation that came up this weekend on my worth and boundaries. Thank you 🥰❤️
Sending you so much love
Have your friends or family set you up they know you best and want the best for you!!! Happened to me (I am too much in my head, honestly, to have found someone myself). 4 years later happily married 2 girlies no drama easy peasy lemon squeezy... ugh you DESERVE IT!!
My favorite youtuber, such a gem!
Enjoyed the video, can’t wait for more. Thank you for all the great advice! ❤
You’re an inspiration to us all Carli. So relatable. An amazing human. You deserve the world x
It’s crazy how far you have come. I remember 7 years ago watching you!
Wow this is the earliest I've ever been. Carli, you're truly an amazing woman. You're truly inspiring to me and so many others. ❤️
Been watching you for almost 8 years now and you’re still my favorite RUclipsr 🫶🏼
💜Dating - When a man wants to be with you, he will.
It won't be difficult and you should never beg a man for his time. Don't have sex (keep reading) until marriage because it clouds your feelings and makes it more difficult to see a man for what he truly is, making it difficult to leave or staying in a relationship longer than you should.
💜🤸♀️Do what you want with that advice but look back and you'll see it.😁😉
Other video idea : style vlog! how you developed your style to fit the trends (even if you don’t necessary like the trends at the moment)
Carli I love you so much! I am here since 2012 💗! You are a beautiful soul and the right man will enter your life and treat you like a queen! You deserve the best! Love you so much! 💗💗💗
Carli. Loving the content girl ❤ your amazing! Thanks for putting out such a positive perspective in real life situations. XO
Love you Carli!! I hope you and the baby boy feel better soon♥♥♥
Everything you say is real and raw!! Thank you for being you Carli. I relate to everything you say every time thank you thank you ❤❤❤