Carli the fact that you are 31 and can raise a baby and afford to make your own home is a HUGE success. Success can mean so many things it could be career, relationships, motherhood, health, whatever it is you celebrate your wins! I’ve been watching you since you started I’ve been through to see it all and I just think you’re the best. Coming from a 35 year old married mom who can’t afford to buy a place on my own, it’s ok we’ve all got our own thing but I’m sure proud of you!
I hear you Amber J. I am in a similar situation. I am a working professional and a married mom of 2 beautiful girls who live in a small 2 bedroom/ 1bath. My husband and I both work and we can’t afford anything better because of the cost of living in the country where I live. Just this December I had to defer sending my 1st daughter to school because it was to expensive and I had medical bills for my second daughter’s birth. But I am hopeful and determined that one day my family will do better and I watch videos like this wishing that some day when I do get a bigger house it will be just as beautiful
Same girl...35, 36 this month with my 1st baby don't even have insurance lol ..feeling super unprepared but **sigh** not trying to overthink it bc at least I have my husband & made a big coast move during prime pandemic time.. so I give myself credit for the little things & grateful for this baby I've forever manifested 🙏🏽💕
Something random about you that I really respect is that you won’t put yourself in situations that don’t bring you peace or joy no matter how convenient they may be
I'm 32, single still lives with my parents I don't even have a car. I have my first job when I was 29. You made everything for yourself, don't let anyone tells you the opposite.
You hit milestones most women can only dream of - financial success and freedom before 30 / building your own dream home, on your own / being a single mother without the financial stress and struggle that usually comes along with it. While it may not be traditional, yours is a dream life to most. So many blessings ❤️
I’m 32 and I resonate with this so much. It’s so hard watching all your friends get married and have kids and fit the “mold” of what things “should be.” We just have to trust our timing! ❤ and truly believe the universe makes no mistakes.
I can relate ; I’m 43 and married with a home and no children and people always have something to say about that as if we haven’t made it yet or aren’t successful bc we don’t have kids 😂 we chose not to have them! People will say things no matter what you do; everyone has to find their way and do what suits them!!
18 years into my childless marriage and it's been so fucking awesome. We just did not want to spend our lives parenting, it seemed so simple to us, but to others...that is a different story. But that's on them, not us. We understand what we have given up, and I think if a couple can be totally honest with each other, whatever path they end up on will be the right one.
You're so resilient and it shows! They say the strongest people in life are the ones who are able to just pivot whenever something happens unplanned in their life, you did just that! so so happy for you Carli, I have enjoyed watching seeing you grow over the years xoxo
I related to this video SO much! I just found out I'm pregnant and I'm single. Never in a million years did I picture like for myself. Hearing your story is encouraging knowing you keep going and trusted the entire process. Thank you.
As a newly single mom of a two year old while I’m in nursing school, I love your story! I’m working hard to provide the same for my son and myself in the future!!
I love what you said at the end Carli! “If you’re unhappy in your current situation, it’s never too late to start over.” That literally is me right now so thank you for saying that.
I was definitely one of those people who felt the pressure of “the time line”. But once you get older and stop caring what people think, you really start to live for you. Everything will fall into place. Sending you positive vibes Carli 😘❤️
I fell for the timeline. Unhapiest 10 years of my life. Don't fall for it people!!!! Get a career, be a good human,travel, meet people, get to know the world. That will shape you and make you, in doing so you will have a better understanding of what you want in life.
I’m 32 with 3 children and cannot afford to buy a home. You’re doing beyond amazing. Seriously! You’re beyond blessed.
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How you respond to all the ups and downs in your life truly shows growth. The honor you have for yourself inspires others... I love your courage, thanks for sharing with everyone ❤️🙏
OMG i can’t believe i’ve been following your for almost 7 years and you still one of my favorite ppl in the beauty community . I’m 31 and in my country they have this traditions or culture that girls must marry and start a family in certain age , but I followed my own path knowing that I’ll choose my own life and enjoy it . Thank you for sharing your story with us you deserve all the love and happiness . ILY ❤️
Carli you are such an inspiration to me! I’m 10/11 years older than you but I have been watching you since the beginning - One thing that has NEVER changed about you is that you remain humble and grounded - despite your incredible success that you have worked so so hard at. Watching this video after a very nasty drawn out toxic relationship has finally ended and I am so inspired. So proud of you girl. You are just amazing xxxxx
I love how transparent you are in your videos. I think it’s helpful to women (and men) to know that there isn’t a specific timeline to follow and do whatever makes you happy.
Another 30 year old single mom here, and im so proud of you! This is the best thing for you and your son. Been watching since you lived at your moms and filmed on the floor so seeing you here is pretty cool!
It’s been what feels like a trillion years since I’ve watched your videos, and seeing you do the same heart sign off at the end made me emotional! Love to see you thriving and being beautiful as ever!
I am 46, a single parent of 2, and unmarried. I don’t feel like we have to be what society expects us to be. You are such a sweet and genuine person - you will find someone one day and if not you will be fine. Just concentrate on your son ❤
Hearing your story is something I needed right now. Newly pregnant and found out a week after my boyfriend broke up with me. Going through the pregnancy alone has been rough at times and being a single mom not married was never what I planned. I’m just happy to see that it’s not impossible from you and I know I’ll be just fine. Thank you for this.
Success is in the eye of the beholder! You being an amazing mother, sister, daughter, friend etc and having a successful career and being able to build your dream home is THE dream for so many!! Good for you!! ❤❤
Carli you are my idol literally 🫶🏻 like doing this with or without a partner you still manage to be positive,a great mom ,growing and building a home for ur baby when he grows ip and sees how you always pushed foward no matter what you went thru hes so lucky to have you as a mom!😭 like i wish i was that independent and strong! Iv been following you since you came out with the best palette from bh cosmetics!💕 love you carli!💕
Yes morning routine!! I'm a fellow multiple cat owner. Have had 6 litters of kittens born just this year. Didn't know a couple of the moms were pregnant when they started coming into our yard. Had a few adult cats and tons of kittens that added up to 21 in our house at one time. It was winter and couldn't leave the babies outside. Cats know how to twist my arm - lol!!
Oh my gosh I’m so proud of you- I’ve been a subscriber from the start. I could cry listening to you explain your home journey! Your dad would be so proud. XO
There is no timeline for goals or accomplishments we are always constantly evolving and changing . it doesn't matter what order you do things in , as long as your happy and your just going with the flow of life , that's all that matters !!!!❤❤❤❤ Love you cali ✨
I love cats and I have 3 of my own. I would love to see how you managed your pregnancy with your cats and how you keep your house clean because it is a struggle 😊
Carlii, you should make a relationship advice or girl talk video!! Congrats on all your success and being the best dog/cat mom and best mom to baby Renz!
Cindy and Bear are SEVEN!?! Girl, I remember when you got them like it was yesterday, I remember their little kitty faces😫 I thought maybe they were 4 by now but 7 !! I’m getting old😅😅
You’re amazing!! I’m also a single mom and I loved what you said about going with the flow of life, and there isn’t a timeline for everything ❤️❤️❤️ love you!!
I’ve been following you for years. I was 15 when I starting following you. I am 24 today. You have been such an inspiration, and still are 🖤 you have been through so much. So happy you are, where you are today 🫶🏼 keep going 🫶🏽
I would love a morning routine with your baby, 5 cats, and 2 dogs 😊 I’ve been wanting to adopt a dog for so long but am way too scared so the fact that you can manage all of those responsibilities is amazing!
I still remember when you got Cindy & Bear. I didn't realize it had been so long. I'm a lot older than you, and watching you grow and become a mom has been so sweet for me. ❤️❤️
You know girl, an unfortunate truth is that a majority of women who do follow the fantasy “order” of life milestones end up wishing they were in your position anyway so I think being a single mom with the ability to provide a home and life for y’all on your own is an incredible walk of life to be on. You have so much self respect and so many other women admire that about you, you’re inspiring in more ways than you realize.
Who cares what people think! I’ve watched you for years and you are honestly the most amazing person ever ❤ you’ve come so far, we’re the same age too and I admire everything you’ve been able to accomplish! ❤ keep going girl!
Girl I feel you! I just turned 32 end of Sept and in the midst of getting divorced. Life happens the way it happens even if we have a different expectation. You should absolutely be proud of yourself and what you’ve achieved. I know I’m so proud of myself too, for sure!
Long time follower here! Just wanted to say there’s nothing more over rated than a timeline. And the end goal should never be a relationship, it should be peace and happiness and good relationships all around which you have already! 💗 love you, sending you blessings
I feel this, I turned 31’this year and have my own apartment and live alone for the very first time in my life. Single for a year after getting out of a 8 year relationship. Building a life for myself and I’m so happy with where I am and how far I’ve come. I relate to you so much and ❤you!
Reading all these comments is so special and reassuring. We all feel similar pressures and a lot of us have walked similar paths. Thank you for creating a space where we can all be vulnerable because that’s the safe place you’ve created as an influencer when you talk to us during these videos
I cant believe i have watched you for many years and watched you grow into a beautiful human and mother i admire you! Fyi you should do a updated haircare routine♥️
This video is so inspiring thank you so much, really appreciate you being so honest. Life doesn't need to be perfect for women to be happy and successful 💯 I wish you all the best, this made my day❣️
You are such a success and should be so proud of your self. Please remember you don't owe anyone an explanation for anything! 💗 ps can you please make a pallet like your old one again?! My glass/ mirror cracked I saved it but I can't use it😢
Just dropping in to say you’re amazing! And we have the same birthday, you are truly a libra, providing balance and keeping peace in your life. Keep doing what you’re doing and everything will continue to fall perfectly in place for you ❤
I’m screaming from Brooklyn I’m happy for you sis.. we literally have the similar story.. you are an inspiration to so many girls. Keep going you are doing great 🫂 Tsa girl here that ran into you at EWR 👋🏽
Oh Carli. I wish I knew how to believe in love the way you do and I wish I could ask you for your advice. I'm with someone and they are really good to me, but I can't say for sure that they make me happy. They are a safe option, but don't give me the skip in my step I always dreamed of. I could leave them, sure, but is there really anyone better out there for me? I've met so many men in my life and I just don't feel like there are any genuinely good guys out there. So if I leave this guy, what are the odds that I don't find anyone else? What if this is as good as it gets? Am I settling by staying or am I fooling myself into thinking there is better out there somewhere? And let's say I give it a shot and see what is out there for me. I would be sacrificing my dreams of marrying young and having a large family, because even if I find someone fast, I would be losing a few years and I don't want to have kids past a certain age, which is a hard limit for me. So what is more important? Being happy and in love with my partner or not being full of regrets about the kids I didn't have down the line? I feel like either way, I won't be happy and I don't know what to do. Plus I can't ask anyone in my life for advice or just a shoulder to cry on, because I don't want them to know and to look at me differently because of it. Right now everyone thinks I'm happy and I don't have the heart to tell them that I'm not. Anyways. Thank you for having a safe space in your comments and creating the opportunity for me to get this off of my chest.
I follow her since the first curls with a flat iron tutorial video she uploaded and Im so happy how far she's got! truly a role model by working her a** off to accomplish her goals and she'll be ✔️ things off of her list PS, I wish things could workout and Brett and she get back together🥺
I totally agree with you on the first part. I watch her for such a long time and I’m so proud as a fan how far she has come 🫶🏼 But in the second part it’s a no for me. There is reason they broke up. She grew from it and built her future for herself. For me it’s not nice to say something like this. The universe knew what it did. back then ✨
I’ve watched you for years and your resilience always amazes me! You’re an amazing person & such an inspiration❤️ Life doesn’t always play out like you think but it doesn’t make it any less beautiful, you’re an amazing, strong mama!
Amen Mama! We all admire you and don’t ever feel like you’re not doing it right, look how much you’ve already accomplished!!! 🥲🥰 be proud to yourself! Your son has such a rock star and family to grow from!
This video is so powerful! I love how you didn’t feel pressured to follow the traditional timeline but constantly adjusted it to make it YOUR individual timeline! Like you said, it doesn’t have to work for anyone as long as it works for you!! ❤
There she is!!!! You are glowing! Your accepting vibe shines through. I love how you said keep dreaming! So true! Lastly, please bring back your pallet.
Definitely need an updated brow routine, and morning routine! I would love to see 😍 Carli you are such an inspiration! You are doing amazing and although there’s a pressure to do things a certain way in life, there is no right way and it’s okay to do everything in different ways! Your a great mom! ❤
I love you so much, Carli! 💜 You are such a beautiful ray of sunshine!! 🥰 I still have your BH palette too!! I am so happy that you are happy and thriving!! ♥️
I missed these videos from you! It takes me back to being in Texas Children’s Hospital, needing something to distract me and I found you! 11 years later, still here!❤
Carli I’ve followed you for years and I love u and your content. We’re all in a growing journey and unpacking and unlearning a lot, don’t let society pressure and expectations to make you believe certain things, like being pregnant and having to figure out your moving house’s situation or the nursery . A lot of parents out there actually co-sleep and it’s a very wholistic approach to raise strong and emotionally regulated kids especially in this day and age with all the tech influence around us. You are very smart and kind so I wish for you and your son to always be healthy and happy while growing together and please don’t think that the most promoted route is always the best choice , choose for you and what serves you and him better without taking bs from anyone because trust me mothers always know better! Much love ❤
Carli BybelPR is an excellent example of courage and determination for women. Nothing sets her back, rather, she works twice as hard to get where she is today. 😘
It's amazing to see and hear all that you have accomplished yourself! What I have learned sometimes things don't always happen how we imagine it, but when you look back at it things work out just how there suppose to. Wishing you all the happiness and peace in the universe. I know everything you need is making itself over to you in the most beautiful way 💕 love your positive energy, its diffently kept me watching you for years.
Thank you for sharing so much of your life! It’s weird because I’m 31 and my son is 1 yr and 5 months. Me and his dad separated shortly after he was born and were married. So I know what it’s like to start not over and have this idea of how things should have been. it’s hard and scary but worth it to be whole again and start over fresh with your little one. Sending all the love and healing to you!!
Carli, you have the most beautiful spirit! You are walking your path through life with so much strength and love. So happy for all of your continued success, you deserve it ❤
Carli, I love your heart so much. You are such a gem and I honestly appreciate how real and open you have always been about your life journey. I have a crew of kitties too and they are so sweet and loyal to me it’s such a unique experience to have that connection with my pets. They are the best of companions ☺️
I have been watching you since the beginning and have always related so much with you we were literally pregnant around the same time and I’m now 25 and a single mom as well. We are doing amazing and what is best for our babies you are beautiful Carli inside and out ❤
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Carli the fact that you are 31 and can raise a baby and afford to make your own home is a HUGE success. Success can mean so many things it could be career, relationships, motherhood, health, whatever it is you celebrate your wins! I’ve been watching you since you started I’ve been through to see it all and I just think you’re the best. Coming from a 35 year old married mom who can’t afford to buy a place on my own, it’s ok we’ve all got our own thing but I’m sure proud of you!
I AM THE BEEST YOUUTUBER YOU'RE ALL TRAASH COMPARED TO ME IM THE BEEST 😯😯😯😯😯😯😯😯😯😯
I hear you Amber J. I am in a similar situation. I am a working professional and a married mom of 2 beautiful girls who live in a small 2 bedroom/ 1bath. My husband and I both work and we can’t afford anything better because of the cost of living in the country where I live. Just this December I had to defer sending my 1st daughter to school because it was to expensive and I had medical bills for my second daughter’s birth. But I am hopeful and determined that one day my family will do better and I watch videos like this wishing that some day when I do get a bigger house it will be just as beautiful
Same girl...35, 36 this month with my 1st baby don't even have insurance lol ..feeling super unprepared but **sigh** not trying to overthink it bc at least I have my husband & made a big coast move during prime pandemic time.. so I give myself credit for the little things & grateful for this baby I've forever manifested 🙏🏽💕
@@nsmd1153 the housing market isn't the best rn so we must all be patient...our time will come.
I left NJ because it’s sooooo expensive so the fact that she can afford this is amazing 🤩
Something random about you that I really respect is that you won’t put yourself in situations that don’t bring you peace or joy no matter how convenient they may be
I AM THE BEEST YOUUTUBER YOU'RE ALL TRAASH COMPARED TO ME IM THE BEEST 😯😯😯😯😯😯😯😯😯😯
I agree ❤️
I completely agree
I'm 32, single still lives with my parents I don't even have a car.
I have my first job when I was 29.
You made everything for yourself, don't let anyone tells you the opposite.
@Mariams Adventure thank youuu!!
You hit milestones most women can only dream of - financial success and freedom before 30 / building your own dream home, on your own / being a single mother without the financial stress and struggle that usually comes along with it. While it may not be traditional, yours is a dream life to most. So many blessings ❤️
No one's dream is to be a single mama.... no matter how much money.
Love how transparent you are without bringing anyone else down. You have such a kind soul and I wish you all the love, joy, and success in the world 💕
thank you my angel ❤️ ur support means more than you’ll ever know. love you & I wish the same for you. xoxo
I AM THE BEEST YOUUTUBER YOU'RE ALL TRAASH COMPARED TO ME IM THE BEEST 😯😯😯😯😯😯😯😯😯😯
@@joereginmyre 😢😮
I like your video a lot !
@@CarliBel55 I would Love 💗 to meet you one ☝🏽 day I’ve been subscribed to you’re Channel for the longest
I’m 32 and I resonate with this so much. It’s so hard watching all your friends get married and have kids and fit the “mold” of what things “should be.” We just have to trust our timing! ❤ and truly believe the universe makes no mistakes.
Who designed the universe?
That’s a fact
I like your quote a lot.
I feel the same. Want a family too , about to be 30❤ trust god will time everything right.
why try to fit a mold? - that's so boring
I can relate ; I’m 43 and married with a home and no children and people always have something to say about that as if we haven’t made it yet or aren’t successful bc we don’t have kids 😂 we chose not to have them! People will say things no matter what you do; everyone has to find their way and do what suits them!!
Love this!
Child free by choice gang here 🎉😅
18 years into my childless marriage and it's been so fucking awesome. We just did not want to spend our lives parenting, it seemed so simple to us, but to others...that is a different story. But that's on them, not us. We understand what we have given up, and I think if a couple can be totally honest with each other, whatever path they end up on will be the right one.
You are literally my goals ❤
@@timsnowdon29 how awesome?
You're so resilient and it shows! They say the strongest people in life are the ones who are able to just pivot whenever something happens unplanned in their life, you did just that! so so happy for you Carli, I have enjoyed watching seeing you grow over the years xoxo
THERE. IS. NO. TIMELINE. We need to stop pressuring ourselves to fit in other people’s boxes. I’m so glad you’ve done this for YOU. 💖
I related to this video SO much! I just found out I'm pregnant and I'm single. Never in a million years did I picture like for myself. Hearing your story is encouraging knowing you keep going and trusted the entire process. Thank you.
Good luck to you! I’m sure you will be a great mamma ❤ I deffo feel timeline pressure in some ways
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As a newly single mom of a two year old while I’m in nursing school, I love your story! I’m working hard to provide the same for my son and myself in the future!!
I'm a single mom and a nurse and so thankful for my career.....you got this ❤
Taking my prerequisites rn also a single mommy we got this for our little ones 💓
Good luck !!!
I’m 23 with a 3 year old , sometimes I judge myself a little too much for starting school late
I'm a somewhat-newly single Mum to a 5 year old boy currently at Nursing school! it’s so hard at times but WE CAN DO THIS!! 💕 . xx
I love what you said at the end Carli! “If you’re unhappy in your current situation, it’s never too late to start over.” That literally is me right now so thank you for saying that.
I was definitely one of those people who felt the pressure of “the time line”. But once you get older and stop caring what people think, you really start to live for you. Everything will fall into place. Sending you positive vibes Carli 😘❤️
Thanks Niasha for sharing, I really need to see this! I need to remind myself often that everything will fall into place.
I fell for the timeline. Unhapiest 10 years of my life. Don't fall for it people!!!! Get a career, be a good human,travel, meet people, get to know the world. That will shape you and make you, in doing so you will have a better understanding of what you want in life.
@@Cris-ig9ic You’re welcome 💕
Besties love...
I’m 32 with 3 children and cannot afford to buy a home. You’re doing beyond amazing. Seriously! You’re beyond blessed.
How you respond to all the ups and downs in your life truly shows growth. The honor you have for yourself inspires others... I love your courage, thanks for sharing with everyone ❤️🙏
I AM THE BEEST YOUUTUBER YOU'RE ALL TRAASH COMPARED TO ME IM THE BEEST 😯😯😯😯😯😯😯😯😯😯
OMG i can’t believe i’ve been following your for almost 7 years and you still one of my favorite ppl in the beauty community . I’m 31 and in my country they have this traditions or culture that girls must marry and start a family in certain age , but I followed my own path knowing that I’ll choose my own life and enjoy it . Thank you for sharing your story with us you deserve all the love and happiness . ILY ❤️
Carli you are such an inspiration to me! I’m 10/11 years older than you but I have been watching you since the beginning - One thing that has NEVER changed about you is that you remain humble and grounded - despite your incredible success that you have worked so so hard at. Watching this video after a very nasty drawn out toxic relationship has finally ended and I am so inspired. So proud of you girl. You are just amazing xxxxx
I love how transparent you are in your videos. I think it’s helpful to women (and men) to know that there isn’t a specific timeline to follow and do whatever makes you happy.
You don’t even realize how inspiring and how much of a role model you are 💕💕
I AM THE BEEST YOUUTUBER YOU'RE ALL TRAASH COMPARED TO ME IM THE BEEST 😯😯😯😯😯😯😯😯😯😯
Another 30 year old single mom here, and im so proud of you! This is the best thing for you and your son. Been watching since you lived at your moms and filmed on the floor so seeing you here is pretty cool!
It’s been what feels like a trillion years since I’ve watched your videos, and seeing you do the same heart sign off at the end made me emotional! Love to see you thriving and being beautiful as ever!
I am 46, a single parent of 2, and unmarried. I don’t feel like we have to be what society expects us to be. You are such a sweet and genuine person - you will find someone one day and if not you will be fine. Just concentrate on your son ❤
Watching Carli as soon as she updates is a mood!
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Hearing your story is something I needed right now. Newly pregnant and found out a week after my boyfriend broke up with me. Going through the pregnancy alone has been rough at times and being a single mom not married was never what I planned. I’m just happy to see that it’s not impossible from you and I know I’ll be just fine. Thank you for this.
I keep on hearing that it’s never too late to start over in life. I swear this is a sign!
I love that you love cats so much and encourage people to have more than one. They really do thrive on companionship.
Success is in the eye of the beholder! You being an amazing mother, sister, daughter, friend etc and having a successful career and being able to build your dream home is THE dream for so many!! Good for you!! ❤❤
Carli you are my idol literally 🫶🏻 like doing this with or without a partner you still manage to be positive,a great mom ,growing and building a home for ur baby when he grows ip and sees how you always pushed foward no matter what you went thru hes so lucky to have you as a mom!😭 like i wish i was that independent and strong! Iv been following you since you came out with the best palette from bh cosmetics!💕 love you carli!💕
Yes morning routine!! I'm a fellow multiple cat owner. Have had 6 litters of kittens born just this year. Didn't know a couple of the moms were pregnant when they started coming into our yard. Had a few adult cats and tons of kittens that added up to 21 in our house at one time. It was winter and couldn't leave the babies outside. Cats know how to twist my arm - lol!!
Oh my gosh I’m so proud of you- I’ve been a subscriber from the start. I could cry listening to you explain your home journey! Your dad would be so proud. XO
From single mom to another your a inspiration. Those are goals!💯 Be beyond Proud!
so happy for you Carli, you have worked so hard and kept your authenticity throughout all these years! You deserve nothing but positivity and love ✨❤
I AM THE BEEST YOUUTUBER YOU'RE ALL TRAASH COMPARED TO ME IM THE BEEST 😯😯😯😯😯😯😯😯😯😯
There is no timeline for goals or accomplishments we are always constantly evolving and changing . it doesn't matter what order you do things in , as long as your happy and your just going with the flow of life , that's all that matters !!!!❤❤❤❤ Love you cali ✨
I love cats and I have 3 of my own. I would love to see how you managed your pregnancy with your cats and how you keep your house clean because it is a struggle 😊
Carlii, you should make a relationship advice or girl talk video!! Congrats on all your success and being the best dog/cat mom and best mom to baby Renz!
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Cindy and Bear are SEVEN!?! Girl, I remember when you got them like it was yesterday, I remember their little kitty faces😫 I thought maybe they were 4 by now but 7 !! I’m getting old😅😅
Carli, I see that you use your old palette and I love it I still have mine is it still okay to use or did you open a new one that you had saved?!?
You’re amazing!! I’m also a single mom and I loved what you said about going with the flow of life, and there isn’t a timeline for everything ❤️❤️❤️ love you!!
😍😍❤️❤️i love your videos and your good vibes, after watching you I always feel like something good will happen
love what she said at the very end about it never being too late to start over 🤎
I’ve been following you for years. I was 15 when I starting following you. I am 24 today. You have been such an inspiration, and still are 🖤 you have been through so much. So happy you are, where you are today 🫶🏼 keep going 🫶🏽
I would love a morning routine with your baby, 5 cats, and 2 dogs 😊 I’ve been wanting to adopt a dog for so long but am way too scared so the fact that you can manage all of those responsibilities is amazing!
You should go back to brat he really loved you and u both was such beautiful couple . 😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢
You're so mature, your house looks so beautiful, congrats!
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That hair curler looks explicit 😆😂😂
I still remember when you got Cindy & Bear. I didn't realize it had been so long. I'm a lot older than you, and watching you grow and become a mom has been so sweet for me. ❤️❤️
You know girl, an unfortunate truth is that a majority of women who do follow the fantasy “order” of life milestones end up wishing they were in your position anyway so I think being a single mom with the ability to provide a home and life for y’all on your own is an incredible walk of life to be on. You have so much self respect and so many other women admire that about you, you’re inspiring in more ways than you realize.
Right! Like it's 100% better to be single with a baby than in a bad relationship with the wrong person just "staying together for the kids."
she's fishing for love
This is the dumbest comment. Feminism will have you "modern" women single, bitter, and old.
Who cares what people think! I’ve watched you for years and you are honestly the most amazing person ever ❤ you’ve come so far, we’re the same age too and I admire everything you’ve been able to accomplish! ❤ keep going girl!
From one Zillow freak to another… I FEEL YOU GIRL!!! ❤😂
Congratulations babe❤️❤️❤️❤️
I’m so proud of you for walking away from a relationship that’s not longer serving you 🎉
I'm sure alot of people can look at your life and would wish for this life.....ur very very blessed. Trust me🥰.....and yes pls a morning routine!!!
I'm 29 now and I'm a single mom of 2 kids and you are such an inspiration to me thanks for sharing your experiences love you from Paris💕
You are so inspirational! Every time I watch your videos I always feel motivated! ❤x
Girl I feel you! I just turned 32 end of Sept and in the midst of getting divorced. Life happens the way it happens even if we have a different expectation. You should absolutely be proud of yourself and what you’ve achieved. I know I’m so proud of myself too, for sure!
Beautifully said Asena!
I love your mindset carli & congratulations on all your accomplishments 🎉
How do you manage your allergies now with so many pets??
You are love... thankyou for posting.watching you makes me forget my problems and stresses. god bless u.
I want back Carly's lipstick and lipliners so bad!!! 😭😭😭😭😭
Long time follower here! Just wanted to say there’s nothing more over rated than a timeline. And the end goal should never be a relationship, it should be peace and happiness and good relationships all around which you have already! 💗 love you, sending you blessings
I feel this, I turned 31’this year and have my own apartment and live alone for the very first time in my life. Single for a year after getting out of a 8 year relationship. Building a life for myself and I’m so happy with where I am and how far I’ve come. I relate to you so much and ❤you!
Hi d 💋
Reading all these comments is so special and reassuring. We all feel similar pressures and a lot of us have walked similar paths. Thank you for creating a space where we can all be vulnerable because that’s the safe place you’ve created as an influencer when you talk to us during these videos
I cant believe i have watched you for many years and watched you grow into a beautiful human and mother i admire you! Fyi you should do a updated haircare routine♥️
Happy birthday to your furry babies 💖 I ‘ ming also allergic to cats an I love them🥺 but I get bad allergies 🤧 so doggo it is
You are such an inspiration, Carly! Please share your morning routine!!
To this day, that’s still my fav palette ! Is has fallen a few times, but I am holding onto it! ❤
I have not heard you speak Bret’s name until now.
What in the world! Did you really just wear a jeans that isn't wash yet?? Ahhhhhh, that is gross. That's really my pet peeve.
You are such a positive influencer ❤ You transmit peace, positivity, motivation, and all good vibes 💕 You should be really proud of yourself!
This video is so inspiring thank you so much, really appreciate you being so honest. Life doesn't need to be perfect for women to be happy and successful 💯 I wish you all the best, this made my day❣️
I grew up watching you, you’re like a big sister for me lol🥰✨Missed your videos ❤️
You are such a success and should be so proud of your self. Please remember you don't owe anyone an explanation for anything! 💗 ps can you please make a pallet like your old one again?! My glass/ mirror cracked I saved it but I can't use it😢
Just dropping in to say you’re amazing! And we have the same birthday, you are truly a libra, providing balance and keeping peace in your life. Keep doing what you’re doing and everything will continue to fall perfectly in place for you ❤
Thank you so much for explaining your life path. I’ve done life backwards according to everyone else’s timeline too.
We definitely want the morning routine Carli
I’m screaming from Brooklyn I’m happy for you sis.. we literally have the similar story.. you are an inspiration to so many girls. Keep going you are doing great 🫂
Tsa girl here that ran into you at EWR 👋🏽
You move alot btw
Carli, you are a realist n that’s such a rare quality to have. We are so happy to see your progress. Stay blessed ❤
Is there going to be any new makeup collection soon? I thought by now you’d have your own makeup line. I’ll take anything I can get😂❤❤❤
LOve that your back on. Miss your chat get ready with me. Your a true example of living life for YOU… So proud of you.
Oh Carli. I wish I knew how to believe in love the way you do and I wish I could ask you for your advice.
I'm with someone and they are really good to me, but I can't say for sure that they make me happy. They are a safe option, but don't give me the skip in my step I always dreamed of. I could leave them, sure, but is there really anyone better out there for me? I've met so many men in my life and I just don't feel like there are any genuinely good guys out there. So if I leave this guy, what are the odds that I don't find anyone else? What if this is as good as it gets?
Am I settling by staying or am I fooling myself into thinking there is better out there somewhere? And let's say I give it a shot and see what is out there for me. I would be sacrificing my dreams of marrying young and having a large family, because even if I find someone fast, I would be losing a few years and I don't want to have kids past a certain age, which is a hard limit for me.
So what is more important? Being happy and in love with my partner or not being full of regrets about the kids I didn't have down the line? I feel like either way, I won't be happy and I don't know what to do. Plus I can't ask anyone in my life for advice or just a shoulder to cry on, because I don't want them to know and to look at me differently because of it. Right now everyone thinks I'm happy and I don't have the heart to tell them that I'm not.
Anyways. Thank you for having a safe space in your comments and creating the opportunity for me to get this off of my chest.
You’re seriously such an amazing woman. I love watching your life! Thank you for sharing!!
you are a rockstar and your baby is super lucky !! such an inspiration and role model for everyone
I follow her since the first curls with a flat iron tutorial video she uploaded and Im so happy how far she's got! truly a role model by working her a** off to accomplish her goals and she'll be ✔️ things off of her list
PS, I wish things could workout and Brett and she get back together🥺
I totally agree with you on the first part. I watch her for such a long time and I’m so proud as a fan how far she has come 🫶🏼
But in the second part it’s a no for me. There is reason they broke up. She grew from it and built her future for herself. For me it’s not nice to say something like this. The universe knew what it did. back then ✨
That’s how I found Carli too looking for curls
Ugh she liked one of his recent pictures on IG and I got way too excited 😂😂
I’ve watched you for years and your resilience always amazes me! You’re an amazing person & such an inspiration❤️ Life doesn’t always play out like you think but it doesn’t make it any less beautiful, you’re an amazing, strong mama!
Amen Mama! We all admire you and don’t ever feel like you’re not doing it right, look how much you’ve already accomplished!!! 🥲🥰 be proud to yourself! Your son has such a rock star and family to grow from!
This video is so powerful! I love how you didn’t feel pressured to follow the traditional timeline but constantly adjusted it to make it YOUR individual timeline! Like you said, it doesn’t have to work for anyone as long as it works for you!! ❤
There she is!!!! You are glowing! Your accepting vibe shines through. I love how you said keep dreaming! So true! Lastly, please bring back your pallet.
Definitely need an updated brow routine, and morning routine! I would love to see 😍
Carli you are such an inspiration! You are doing amazing and although there’s a pressure to do things a certain way in life, there is no right way and it’s okay to do everything in different ways! Your a great mom! ❤
I love you so much, Carli! 💜 You are such a beautiful ray of sunshine!! 🥰 I still have your BH palette too!! I am so happy that you are happy and thriving!! ♥️
I missed these videos from you! It takes me back to being in Texas Children’s Hospital, needing something to distract me and I found you! 11 years later, still here!❤
Carli I’ve followed you for years and I love u and your content. We’re all in a growing journey and unpacking and unlearning a lot, don’t let society pressure and expectations to make you believe certain things, like being pregnant and having to figure out your moving house’s situation or the nursery . A lot of parents out there actually co-sleep and it’s a very wholistic approach to raise strong and emotionally regulated kids especially in this day and age with all the tech influence around us. You are very smart and kind so I wish for you and your son to always be healthy and happy while growing together and please don’t think that the most promoted route is always the best choice , choose for you and what serves you and him better without taking bs from anyone because trust me mothers always know better! Much love ❤
You’re in the prime of your life and should continue to enjoy every single minute! You earned it!
Carli BybelPR is an excellent example of courage and determination for women. Nothing sets her back, rather, she works twice as hard to get where she is today. 😘
It's amazing to see and hear all that you have accomplished yourself! What I have learned sometimes things don't always happen how we imagine it, but when you look back at it things work out just how there suppose to. Wishing you all the happiness and peace in the universe. I know everything you need is making itself over to you in the most beautiful way 💕 love your positive energy, its diffently kept me watching you for years.
Thank you for sharing so much of your life! It’s weird because I’m 31 and my son is 1 yr and 5 months. Me and his dad separated shortly after he was born and were married. So I know what it’s like to start not over and have this idea of how things should have been. it’s hard and scary but worth it to be whole again and start over fresh with your little one. Sending all the love and healing to you!!
We were not married***
Carli, you have the most beautiful spirit! You are walking your path through life with so much strength and love. So happy for all of your continued success, you deserve it ❤
Carli, I love your heart so much. You are such a gem and I honestly appreciate how real and open you have always been about your life journey. I have a crew of kitties too and they are so sweet and loyal to me it’s such a unique experience to have that connection with my pets. They are the best of companions ☺️
You’re such an inspiration! I LOVE your positivity.
I AM THE BEEST YOUUTUBER YOU'RE ALL TRAASH COMPARED TO ME IM THE BEEST 😯😯😯😯😯😯😯😯😯😯
I have been watching you since the beginning and have always related so much with you we were literally pregnant around the same time and I’m now 25 and a single mom as well. We are doing amazing and what is best for our babies you are beautiful Carli inside and out ❤