Watch This Wife On TikTok Brag About How Bad Of A Partner She Is
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- Опубликовано: 15 май 2024
- A video of a woman bragging about all of the household chores she refuses to do went viral. Many women are cheering her on.
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I'm not even married to her and I want a divorce.
Same here she is insufferable
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This said more about her husband than her, dude must be a loser or a real beta
First red flag: woman sharing her private life on TikTok
1000%
Facts. I mean some of things she said is fair…but how she’s coming across is what is turning me off. She’s right…she doesn’t have to book his hair appointment, but the way she’s saying it is just terrible.
It is amazing to me just how much grown? women crave attention from total strangers.
^^^ This! STOP sharing everything about your relationship on tiktok, people!
If a woman is in a committed relationship, simply being on any social media still is also a giant red flag.
“I don’t change the oil in my wife’s car, she can do that herself. I don’t fix the toilet when it’s clogged or broken, she’s a grown ass woman. I don’t defend my wife when an intruder enters our home, I only protect myself and the kids because she’s a grown adult woman, she can handle herself.”
- said no real man ever.
I’d kinda hope her man does say that though. That would make him more of a real man than some meek mofo who allows his wife to walk all over him.
As a girl I get this. I think marriage is a give and take, you help eachother because you love eachother. It’s not a checklist of did I help more today, or did he? I don’t always agree with this conservative stuff but your response makes sense
Except, grown ass men ARE saying it, because modern women are awful. Drizzle Drizzle.
I don't give her any of my money either. I buy my kids stuff. But she's a grown ass women. She can work.
Brilliant mate brilliant this woman is toxic
I love referring to my husband as my husband. I would never refer to him as my partner. Frankly that's just nauseating.
I absolutely agree. Whenever I hear partner, I assume they're gay. When I find out they're not, I assume sickeningly woke and ungrateful. It's ALWAYS one or the other.
Exactly! It’s a covenant, not a business partnership.
Whenever I heard "partner" I always thought they were in business together like cops, detectives or lawyers. It certainly doesn't sound like a warm relationship.
@@elizlikethequeenYes, it's definitely a bad sign
I hate when people say partner. It's so weird. 😢♡
Interesting how all her “small acts of kindness” are mostly buying things.
Yep. No personal sacrifice
With the money he makes? Doesn't say if she works.
Probably using his money.
@@michaelwaninger3155 I really think that if she worked, we would have heard all about that every chance she got.
She avoided disclosing that info on purpose.
No effort involved!
With a wife like that, I think "nonalcoholic beer" won't cut it.
lol 😂
She decides he only gets nonalcoholic beer!!!
Why does anyone ever buy non alcoholic beer?
She probably wont let him have the real stuff.
If she’s working as many hours as he is then why is he not helping out
I just thanked my wife for being the opposite of this depraved woman. Thank you, Kristen!
Thank you Kristen!!! Josh - wishing you and your fam a beautiful life.
She’s a full time nurse and mother or 4, and works longer hours than her husband. Her account is dedicated to helping burnt out mothers and fathers come together to work as a team. I see nothing wrong with that.
@@Sunshineheart124
I notice she has plenty of time to make Tik Tok videos
@@jimwerther Yes, she does.
Don't lull yourself into a false sense of security; perhaps she hides her true persona well. I once knew a man who bragged about having the 'perfect wife,' only to discover she was cheating on him behind his back the whole time. Ergo, the only difference between a good wife and a bad wife is time - the time it takes to uncover the truth. Good luck to you!
The fact that she calls her husband a "grown ass man" is disgusting. This phase is only ever used by someone who wants to get out of doing something for you.
Ik, r?? When I hear her say that, I cannot help but to wonder whose "jaaaaahhhbbb" it is to clean their bathroom 🤮🤮🤮
My parents called me a mensch from about 16 years old. I was someone who could be relied upon. At 68, I haven't changed. My parents were responsible people who took care of their family members, mostly either in ill health or poor all their lives. Great examples.
I use that term when a man is genuinely acting like an entitled brat throwing a tantrum and taking their partner for granted.
Just another three word cliche' - people can't talk without them. I'm an exception, I for some reason never use them. "That Being Said" is constantly used. Now you can't unsee these "Game-Changer" phrases everyone uses. I just notice things others don't.
It's awful. Reminds me of a dad I heard call his son numb-nuts the other day. Same kinda cringe.
Lady Astor said to Churchill, “If you were my husband, I’d poison your tea,” to which he responded, “Madam, if you were my wife, I’d drink it!”
if i hada supremacist partner id take myself elsewhere before my ears bleed from a whiney man tantruming over his laundry
@@YinYang-CisPanPolyF Go home bot, you're drunk.
I learned this from Wilson on Home Improvement
Ahhh Winston ... That's a great line ... But hardly something to bring up to a debate such as this.
@@zoeolsson5683 you're a moron if you don't see the relevance 😂
She seems more like an adversary than a wife. Imagine driving home after a hard day's work and knowing that THAT is what awaits you.
So scary and sad.
30 seconds of that voice was enough for a lifetime
Walking on egg shells all the time
I'd rather live alone forever
One way ticket to army for me
My wife is a successful physician. She does all the laundry in the house. I do all the cooking. We all have our roles.
The hardest part of laundry is separating and folding it.
Many women would feel lucky to have a husband that does all the cooking. However, in many households women get stuck with most of the domestic chores while working a full-time job. It's hard not to feel resentful if you are both working 40 hours a week, get home and one person cooks, does the dishes and tidies up while the other sits around and watches TV or plays video games.
That's how you get women like the one in this video.
Am I reading this wrong. I agree with the statements in the video. I am a male and my partner, and I literally live that kind of life. We both have our certain household chores that we know are not the norm, I love to clean the household, she doesn't. She hates cooking. I cook as well. We did a SWOT analysis. My toiletries are my responsibility and same to her. I will call and ask if she needs but it's not a duty.
@@Intercept10 You're not alone. I'm in a similar relationship with my wife because that's how I WANT it! I didn't marry a woman to become my mother. I am head of our household, we have a conservative marriage, but I don't need her to do all those things I can do myself. People don't understand that wives who micro-manage their husbands' lives are also the biggest nags.
She doesn't realize that she is demeaning him in front of the whole world.
Yes she does. She just thinks this is how women should treat their men.
She doesn’t CARE
I heard it the opposite. She's talking to other women who are likely married to big children they feel the need to clean up after cause he can't/won't participate at home. Her audience is likely overworked and frazzled from doing everything (work+domestic labor.) She's saying MY HUSBAND IS AN ACTUAL ADULT. And goes on to elaborate what he does to take care of himself and his marriage/family. It sounds like they've figured out a sustainable way of ensuring their home and the people in it have everything they need. That's respectable. I thought highly of him after what she said. I don't understand how men are hearing this as her speaking poorly of him. I heard quite the opposite.
Oh, she knows.
As a guy who cant get a 2 minute conversation out of a woman I think shes OK. Be glad you have someone
“Score keeping is death to a marriage”. The most truthful words ever spoken.
Yeah I dated a score keeper woman years ago and it didnt last long. She would do something nice then hold it over my head, it was very frustrating.
Score keeping was a death knell to our marriage. My wife was always throwing in my face “I’ve done X a ton of times! You never do it!” When I had done X, I just did it because it needed to be done, not because I wanted to earn a point and wouldn’t intentionally remember the amount of times I completed said task. She eventually stopped after a near divorce I was going to initiate and marriage counseling. Our marriage has been rock solid ever since.
I agree, but I actually think sitting down and talking these things through early on, like who does or doesn’t do what, helps couples to not keep score. My husband and I live like this and after 20 years together, things just get done. I do his laundry, but I don’t keep track of his doctors appts or buy him clothes. I don’t know when he need deodorant, toothpaste, or shampoo. We go to the store & he puts what he needs in the cart and I put what the kids and I need in the cart. He’s my husband, that I love and find attractive in many ways, & not having to treat him like another child allows me to continue seeing him that way.
@@user-qp2qe5gf9b I’m sort of the same way. My wife knows what I usually use and when I’m out, I’ll put it on the shared grocery list. Whomever is at the store gets what’s on the list. My doctor’s appts are all with the VA, so it’s not like she has any control over that factor. My wife still does the lion’s share of domestic duties and I contribute where I can. Honestly, she tries to do sweet things for me like take my plate and silverware when I’m finished eating to clean them, but I always feel some level of guilt when she does, even if she wants to, so I usually tell her “thanks but no” and do it myself out of not wanting to add to her burden.
Death to pretty much ANY kind of relationship besides a purely transactional business relationship. My older brother used to say "What have you done for me?" in response to any kind of request, no matter how trivial, as we were growing up. And my relationship with my older brother is absolutely the worst relationship, of any kind, that I have ever had with anyone in my life. I take the above question as an indication of what any relationship is like.
"I don't kill spiders. She's a grown woman and can kill them herself. I don't bring the car around in the rain. She has an umbrella - she should use it."
Correction -- "a grown-ass woman". 😊
I understand your point, and I don't particularly like the fact that this woman boasts about all the things she doesn't do for her husband, but I have heard of men who are similar toward their wives. I one time read an article about a group of Evangelicals who wanted to encourage men to start going to church. They would talk to their wives like, "Learn to work the toilet seat. You're a big girl. If it's up, put it down." I think they do have a point. Some things people should do themselves.
@@revacohenlmao ok weird anecdote
@revacohen Definitely, adults should act like responsible adults. I don't think that is what is going on here. I am a specialist and a consultant in advanced communication. It's an interesting thing about language that if you listen carefully and long enough, it betrays the inner workings of a person's mind. It is obvious to me that this woman values her husband primarily for his utility and not out of love. I would give their marriage maybe ten years.
I don't fight war's, women can go fight them👌
Notice her “small acts of kindness” involves material things that she buys. Seems to me that she values material over all other things in this relationship.
It is 100% her tone and smug attitude that makes her insufferable.
"Domestic Labor" is only "Labor" when it's someone else's house or property. If it's your house, it's not labor. It's life.
Well said
It’s still labor. It’s still work.
@@yveje9720 It's work as in effort, but not work as in a job. It's unclear which you mean.
Yep, it’s life. Life is work.
@@yveje9720booh fucking hoo 😂 if you think laundry is work you never worked a damn day in your life 🤡
Any woman that uses the term my partner that's not a marriage, that's a business Partnership.
What if they're not married?
@@DavidZ4-gg3dmI find it irritating when any straight couple address each other as “Partner.”
@@lorenzoocon8865 that does sound like a you problem..
@@DavidZ4-gg3dm she referred to him as "my husband", so I would say they are.
@@vortexalerand9949 What’s that supposed to mean?
“my job description”
“receive nothing in return”
As a stay at home father, I can’t imagine treating my wife this way. I didn’t even treat my wife this way when I was the one making all the money.
I hate when people say ‘right’ after saying something absurd to try to convince you they’re not crazy.
I'm glad I'm not the only 1.. shit irritates the F out of me
For real?!!
Same here.
She says “kindness” a lot but she doesn’t seem kind. She seems angry. Acts of kindness that husbands and wives both perform are amazing not for the things themselves but for the joy they bring to everyone.
Right, the things she doesn't do don't seem that awful, but her attitude is awful. She seems like she just flat out won't and is angry about it. I don't do a lot of things she lists for my husband, but I would if he wanted to. He does breakfast, I do dinner. He washes his clothes when he wants them cleaned, except underwear, under shirts and socks. He makes his own appointments, and all that because he knows his schedule and when he's able. Just easier for him. I think the worst part is her delivery and refusal.
she seems smart shes aware of gender discrepancy she does their kids cooks kids breakfast
True, and believe it or not the most joy comes to the person performing the task. There is more happiness in giving than in receiving but a woman like this has the wrong POV.
She’s probably just mad that someone accused her of not loving her husband. I’d be mad if some rando had the audacity to do that too
She needs to look ‘kindness’ up in a dictionary. She is a score-keeper and that is a marriage fail.
I’m a grown woman of 70 yrs. and married to the same man for 52 yrs. Keeping score in a marriage means it’s a business, tit for tat. It’s a team working for a common goal. Going through life together and the roles change as needed.
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Nope. It is a business licensed by the state
@@roryteal5940yea…. Like your opinion matters next to the wisdom of a lady that’s been married over 50 years lol
I've been married for 36 year's to the bride if my youth. She is the embodiment of what this woman is not.
I do all this for my husband BUT my husband works and I don’t. He doesn’t expect me to generate any kind of money to support the family, that’s his job as a provider. I think the problem with many modern households is men expect “stay at home wife privileges” but they aren’t good enough providers to generate “stay at home wife money.” If the wife has to work to support the home, the man isn’t doing his job and she shouldn’t be expected to work and do all the home making.
*suggestion* “I don’t work outside the home” ‘Cause you’re working 7 days a week😅
I used to do it all too for 18 years when I was home. He wanted me to go back to work since our kids are all teens and adults so I did. Now, he’s struggling with the realization that he has to split all the housework. 😂 I made a list of everything that has to be done in the house and for the kids. We also have a disabled teen so that takes extra time to stay on top of her and make appointments. He is now absolutely shocked at how much I was doing when he was the only one working. 😂
@@alstroemeria227again4 Housework doesn't take up much time, I'm male ,widowed young, the workload hasn't increased now I'm on my own, if anything the house is tidier now, I miss her but it doesn't take a whole labour unit to run a household.
Even if both are working, there should be seperate roles for the respective partners, not redundant parity. If you do laundry, you do all the laundry. If you maintain the lawn, you maintain the entire lawn. Otherwise it's like a baseball team where everyone the pitcher.
Exactly. That's why so many women cheered this woman on - because they are being treated like a stay at home mom and expected to do all the housework while also working.
Matt Walsh doesn't get it because he's actually a competent husband that provides for his wife and makes her feel safe and loved enough to take on the homemaker role.
Many women aren't getting that.
I did all of these things for my husband. He passed away over two years ago. I miss doing those things. This woman sounds insufferable.
My ex was a terrible cook, and I'm a decent cook. I did enjoy making things and seeing how she liked it. Always felt good when she really liked it.
Sorry to read about your loss. I bet you were a wonderful partner to your husband.
I am so sorry to hear that you lost your husband .... I believe however that you shared many more things with your husband that you miss.
This tiktok wife has many things she does for her husband too.
God bless you madam. May your late husband rest in eternal peace.
Sorry for your loss ❤️🙏🏻 God bless
I just don't get it. I have been married for 32 years, and I take great pride in doing domestic work for my husband. I love him and am honored to serve him, and he intern is honored to serve me. How sad for the wives who dont feel the joy of wanting to do more for their husbands just because you love him.
I have a wife of 34 years just like you. And I thank the Lord every single day he gave her to me. You are a very special and rare woman and your husband is incredibly Blessed.
So am I.
It is a shame there are not more women like you and my wife.
I absolutely adore my wife every single day.
I bet your husband feels the same way.
It’s funny; i do laundry and most of the dishes and day to day cleanup. I have been married almost 25 years and happily so. But i do most of the domestic tasks and earn most of the money. If i come home to a nice dinner, that is pretty awesome.
These women who do the bare minimum and resent doing it will always be miserable because they don’t appreciate anything anyone does. And they deserve it.
@@H..M.. But here is the sad part.
Her husband probably loves her with all his heart in spite of her not deserving it.
Many here say ," Dump her". and I agree.
But when a man truly loves a woman in spite of her being a monster he is trapped.
Unfortunately, loving someone is not something you can turn on and off like a faucet and it shouldn't be.
It is a sad fact that men are programmed to love and protect their wives often in spite of their behavior but that doesn't make him a simp.
It makes him a real man who took his marriage vows seriously in spite of the fact she turned into a monster probably after they were married.
He probably was raised to believe marriage was for life.
This woman is not even worth wiping his shoes on, but love is not rational.
I have a feeling he is a good man trying to make a marriage work with a piece of garbage of a woman.
Maybe he will get lucky and she will get run over by a car.
Same!
u do u IMO thats a horror show.
Her “small acts of kindness” are just buying shit with his money, lmfao
She’s the breadwinner in the family, goofball.
She's working full time, she's not a stay at home mom, it's her money that she spends.
Yeah bc she getting paid for putting her marriage on social media. Gross
She's a nurse. @@ashleyhughes1943
@@ausrinekuzaite6682 When it's her money and his money, that's not a marriage that's roommates.
As a husband, there are some things I do agree with this particular wife. I do pack my own clothes for vacation, I buy my own new underwear when there are holes in the old underwear, and I do cook dinner when she comes home late AND visa versa when I've had a long day, she cooks dinner. Sharing housework is not a bad thing. But the idea that one party puts their foot down and says, "It's your turn to do this!" just strikes me wrong. If either party feels the need to talk like this when responsibilities are shared, that's not a happy marriage.
Being a homemaker has been devalued and boiled down to chores, so women think its degrading to have to do the chores for someone else
Woman are the ones who devalued it. Men value it a lot still to the point it is required from most men that are worthwhile.
@joesmith3590 my husband certainly mentioned that on first date😂😂😂. He wanted a wife who can cook and clean before anything else is considered 😂😂😂
We need antifeminism laws. This is just ridiculous and has been since the 80's. The reason women didn't want to be just housewives originally; wasn't cause it was hard, it was cause it was boring. If it's not degrading working 60 hr a week to provide for your family, then it's degrading to do your husband's laundry. These women need to be brought on the local news and get the crap slapped out of them.
@@Masowe. well yeah, those are skills that you probably should have as a homemaker. But being a homemaker is so much more than just cooking and cleaning, and cooking and cleaning is more than what it appears, you're feeding your family (likely better food than they can buy) and keeping them healthy, and creating a welcoming and clean environment. Those things don't seem important but you're keeping your family mentally and physically healthy.
@@Masowe. hahah yea on my end
i wouldn't expect her to cook and clean every day but if you aren't willing to do both of these things at least some of the time
there is literally no point in us getting married at that point i may as well stay single and continue doing these things myself
Biggest red flag: when someone uses the word "labor" to describe responsibilities.
Or say partner instead of husband/wife
Pure laziness
Partner? You two cops or something?
Most of those things aren't her responsibilities.
If you have a partner, it’s a partnership. Therefore it’s equal distribution of work. Everyone understands this.
"When made public, love rarely endures" - Medieval Rules of Love
the clip of her listing off the things she doesn't do actually made me yell "NOOO" to my laptop screen. MA'AM BUYING THINGS ISN'T HELPING HIM OUT IN LIFE. She has the co-worker version of "small acts of kindness" and not _wife_ version of "small acts of kindness."
This woman is insufferable!
so are lazy males
@LaceandArmour,
I can honestly say with 100% certainty that if you really want to say what you did and go along with it then you either have a brain that doesn't want to function properly and/or you did not actually listen to what was said by that woman! There is literally nothing wrong with what she said.
He can do his own laundry, because is a grown-ass man!
What is wrong with saying that????
The woman slavering over her husband is not something she should have to do and I am a man!
People like you have serious problems and overthinking the whole f'ing thing. WHat is wrong with you!?!?!?!?!?!??!?
That's a nice way of saying what I was thinking....
Excellent commentary!
I see stuff like this and I ask what are men supposed to look for in a woman? We constantly hear what a good man or husband should do: provide, be supportive, romantic etc; but wtf does a “good wife” do beyond spend our money?
SPOUSE…. Enough of this “partner” bullshit.
That’s a leftist rejiggering of the language.
When I hear "partner" I just assume they're on the alphabet spectrum 😂
Aaaa-men!!! (With a chorus of talented black gospel singers.)
@@Wolf88888 To say nothing of Sydney Portier. 🙂
Language and culture are intertwined. They're trying to change the language to help change the culture. Stand firm against it all.
Amen!🙌🏻
With that wife there’s no way he’s drinking nonalcoholic
I'm an Indian. And I see videos about my Americans friends making fun of our "arranged marriage" culture and how we live with our parents. I used to be embarrassed. But not anymore. You know why?
I married my wife nearly 2 years ago. Our parents arranged our marriage (with our consent). My wife was a virgin when we married. She prays. She's kind. She does my laundry. She cooks me breakfast, lunch and dinner. She books appointments for me half of the time. We live with my parents in the same house. We just had a baby 3 months ago. And looking at the way my wife cares for our baby, I cannot be more proud.
Everyone in our family is genuinely happy.
Yet you Americans are still discussing about body counts and whose role is what. So yeah keep making your jokes about us and continue being miserable.
I read your message to the end. I'm glad you value what you have. Please keep it up. Africans are copying American culture that's why marriages are sour and breaking.
As a former leftist I understand the mentality. I could say a lot but I'll say one thing: it's not sexy. It's not warm and inviting. For either person.
...which, of course you understand, is the intent.
A century ago, romantic love = marriage = sex = children = commitment. Now, marriage & family are disposable. That's how you ruin a society.
Maybe he shovels half the driveway. Enough for him to get his car out. And leaves the other half for her and her car. And then makes TikTok’s bragging about it.
If he doesn't, he should after this video hit the airwaves. LOL. Maybe he could mow half the yard or change 1/2 the tires on the car LOL. but I have a feeling that he aint that kind of guy anyway - they probably pay someone else to do all of this; snow removal, lawn care, home maintenance where as if she stayed home & he was a guy that could do guy 'stuff' they would not NEED her income.
So to be clear, she should work night shifts at the hospital, then come home and do all of her husband’s laundry in addition to her own and the kids’, and do all of the other household tasks alone? Because she a woman???
I do EVERYTHING for my husband and I enjoy it, there is no “ LABOR “ when you love someone , there is only “ CARE”
And if you work full-time and take the majority of thebills, I suppose you still wouldn’t mind doing all the chores?
Buying him a non alcoholic beer is NOT an act of kindness. It is a cruel joke.
This is a Contract not a Covenant.
50-50% instead of 100-100%.
Well put
In reality marriage is the biggest financial concern. It's not a faith institution but a financial one. Both partners need to bring to the marriage their full commitment. Here in Australia partner means significant other (spouse/defacto)
Marriage is a state concern not a covenant. If you want a wife that does more contribution to your marriage than you do..... Then you are a bit of piece of lazy.
That's where you're wrong @@zoeolsson5683
My wife gets angry if I start doing the cooking. It's like she feels insulted that her cooking isn't good enough. She takes very good care of me. God bless my wife.
I feel this way when my husband does housework. Except for when I'm super pregnant and can't get to it all, then I feel like he's helping because I need the help.
@@rebekahmontesdeoca565 you sound like a wonderful wife. i hope he cherishes you.
My wife doesn't like how I wash the clothes or dishes, so we compromise. I only do the dishes.
Would you rather this woman let her kids starve than allow her husband to cook dinner? She works longer hours than him as a nurse. Get over yourself.
Amen.
If my wife ranted about our personal life on social media, i would be at my Attorneys office the next day.
Notice how every " act of kindness " she mentions she does is monetary. Wouldn't that be the ultimate insult if all these nice thoughtful things she buys for him is with his money 🤑🤑🤣🤣🤣🤣
You can hear the love and devotion in her voice...
NOT!
She will file for divorce and expect him to pay for everything. Bet she has no problem spending HIS MONEY.
fe·male n.
pl. fe·males
Etymology:
She who either explicitly or tacitly demands a "fee" from "males" - therefore "fe(e)male"...😩
Depends on the situation- I stopped working but when I did my checks went into his account and now that I’m not working, my parents give me my spending money most often.
I do most chores, cleaning, arranging, laundry, etc.
wom·an n.
pl. wom·en
A money-guzzler (i.e. Those who siphon cash, goods and services from the opposite gender, without offering anything of value in return).
Etymology:
She who gives “woe” to “man” - therefore “wo(e)man”...😩
I doubt it. She probably has a job and works full time. Men who work full time do not do their wifes laundry, make their appts, or pack their suitcases.
It’s kinda ridiculous when you really think about it. I literally can’t even imagine a man doing those things for his wife on the daily even a wife who works full time.
Some men need to get with the times. If you both have jobs no one person should be responsible for all the domestic labor. It’s 2024 most women have jobs and earn money and help provide for their household likewise men should help maintain it.
@@yveje9720
Women are fortunate because they are BORN with a job:
Daughter.
Wife.
Mother.
:-)
Now go and serve your MASTERS like a good wife and daughter!
The consequences for disobeying one's superiors can be VERY severe.😨
She's not just a bad wife... she ISN'T a wife. She's an acquaintance that he lives with. Occasionally buying something they might like is what a friend does. Especially if you're spending your friend's money!
"and receive nothing in return"
You said he works.
I'm not sure the worst part, her not doing anything for her husband or bragging about buying him non-alcoholic beer.
She's married to a "modern man". That's the only reason she is still married.
She will divorce him soon tho
Looks like he likes non alcoholic beer. That explains a lot.
I married a traditional man raised by a mother who did everything for the men of her house. During our first year of marriage I remember once he told me he expected me to take off his shoes and serve him a drink when he came home after work because that was something his mom used to do for his dad. I sat down with him and told him we needed to talk. See, I came from a family where mom and dad worked and we all helped at home. When he met me he did not meet a submissive person. On the contrary, I was a very determined person, a woman of strong believes. I had graduated very young, had two jobs and was doing some specialized studies. He loved that about me. So we talked and we came to an agreement about our expectations in our marriage. We’ve been happily married for over 30 years.
@@brenozwkI’m sure it’s at her insistence, 100%. She is a score keeping, grudge maker. A healthy marriage is about giving for each other willingly.
@@brenozwk that’s the first red flag
This makes me wanna go home today and tell my wife how much I love and appreciate her, this woman seems awful
You reached home?
Do you create a retirement account for your wife? And deposited the 25 percent of you money since you got married until your last paycheck?
@Luz So it IS about the money. Thank you for confirming this.
I’m a conservative woman, but the reality is, Matt makes lots of money and can afford for his wife to stay home with the kids. If we could afford that in my home, I’d gladly do everything without even thinking about it. But both my husband and I work full time and I’m only one person. The kids depend on me much more than him, so having his help with household things and having it be more equal, is fair and I don’t see why that is so horrible. One person can only handle so much and if my husband has lots of extra time to relax while I run around taking care of all the household chores, but we are equally working and making money, how does it make sense that I cannot sit down or relax ever just because I am a wife? I’m so confused on this mentality. It makes sense when only the man works, but that’s just not always possible.
That sounds reasonable and requires a team effort since you both need to go out and work full time to support the household. Something tells me this that tiktok influencer isn't pulling her share of the income and then refuses to do household tasks as well. I suspect your situation is different than the lady in this video everyone is hating on.
I totally agree. It wouldn’t be fair to expect you to do everything when you’re both working. You’re a team!
There’s ways to afford to stay home even in todays economy. There’s plenty of houses an hour from a small city that are under 200k some under 150!
Agreed! I love Paige, and she’s perfectly reasonable. Matt Walsh is starting to sound like he wants women to just be slaves in the home. It’s getting bizarre. The woman in this video sacrifices so much for her family, and people in these comments are just being bullies.
It not about fair work distribution. It is how she portrayed her husband. Anyone can pick up how she referred to him that she lacks respect and admiration for him. The question is, why?
Her small acts of kindness are shopping. $250 for her, $15 for him. She's a keeper.
That's the attitude of a room mate, not a spouse.
I can’t believe some women really hate their husbands like this 😢 I love doing things for my husband. Making him happy and feel loved makes me feel so fulfilled
You can make your husband feel happy and loved just by washing his socks? Wow, your guy is easy to please, isn't he? :D So when you met him, did you just KNOW that he had the kind of dirty socks that you would gladly spend your life washing? I bet that if you suddenly inherited $20 million, you'd refuse to get a maid, because you would NEVER let another woman touch his dirty socks! Good for you!
Wow .... She does love him she has 4 kids with him ... She doesn't have a village of homemakers to help and she is in the workforce too... Her husband has many labour saving devices if he were to do the traditional things guys do to maintain house and garden. Why shouldn't the labour divide be reexamined?
This channel is not for thinkers that's for sure
As it should...
@@linasaidso1355Dont be jealous, its alright
Misery loves company.
Any woman who uses the word "partner" should not be anyone's wife to any man.
She obviously has never heard of the 5 love languages. She's giving gifts and claiming it's an act of service.
The husband really deserves a medal. By sacrificing himself he's saved countless guys the agony of potentially dating and then marrying this egotistical, selfish broad. Thanks dude!
He chose to marry her!
Why everything she said is fine .. I don’t think women need to do all the things the mans mom did for him .. I’m a wife not his mother , nothing kills a sex life more then a man acting like a child
@@Kwildcat13 I agree totally. Also men should not defend the home, he should not defend his wife or children, he should keep all of the money he makes to himself (and you keep whatever you make), No paying for flowers, romantic gifts, or dates (that will be 50/50) and ABSOLUTELY NOT will men be responsible for doing the “hard or heavy” chores. Its pathetic that grown women cant do this for themselves
@@YoungGunner000👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽
@@Kwildcat13then us women shouldn’t need our husbands to spend any of his money. We should make our own money. Don’t expect a man to pay the bills or get us a house or a car. We’re not his children. We’re adults 🙄
Her husband is a total simp. Dude, she's not worth it!
He'll find that out when she's dumps him for a guy that makes more money. Leaving him broke as she moves away with his kids and teaches them to hate him.
Spot on, my thought exactly!!
He's probably very libbed out and works at YT.
lazy males arent worth it.
@@michaelwaninger3155bam!
“Not my job to do all these acts of kindness and receive nothing in return”
Dude marriage is self sacrifice, denial of the self. Marriage isn’t about you, it’s about your partner. You signed up to love your partner unconditionally for the rest of your life. You shouldn’t expect anything in return. He should love her the same way. Sacrificially
The problem is for years women have been doing the majority of the sacrificing (sacrificing their youth, sacrificing their careers, their bodies for children, etc.) and they are tired of getting the short end of the stick in marriage.
@@janicefinch3563 It shouldnt matter whats going on in society, what should matter is how you operate your marriage. If suddenly our society decided that men and women should reverse gender roles, it would still be the job of BOTH spouses to love eachother sacrificially. Men need to love their wives and wives need to respect their husbands. When this form of sacrifice comes from both partners, thats when a marriage is functional.
@@cstmex4937 But society reflects what is happening with individuals.
"When this form of sacrifice comes from both partners, thats when a marriage is functional." Exactly! That's the problem. Women are sacrificing way more than men in marriage, and naturally that breeds resentment.
Not much of a partnership there. They're just roommates at this point.
I am so glad I don’t have a TikTok internet wife.
At this point, I need to find a woman who doesn't even have the internet at her disposal 😅
im so glad i dont have regressive partners
@@YinYang-CisPanPolyFnot having tik tok makes them regressive?
I'm so glad I don't have Tiktok
Instead you’re a RUclips internet husband.
If you do not live in service to someone other than yourself, you will die a miserable existence.
And she seems to be living a miserable one too.
In a few years she will be single, living with 100+ cats and on an episode of hoarders
No truer words have been said.
Maybe that is why she is encouraging him to live in service to their family by doing a fair share of the work.
Does that also apply to the mgtow guys who have NO ONE?? lmao
So what’s the difference between “score keeping” and generally trying to ensure that no one is overtaxed? Because it seems like any effort to try and divvy up the necessary labors of life roughly evenly is considered “score keeping” and means you hate your spouse? I don’t understand what’s so awful about saying, “hey, I’ll take A, B, and C, if you’ll handle X, Y, and Z?” I guess I’m lucky that my husband and I are concerned about each other’s bandwidths and whether the load is too much for the other at any given time. That’s not score keeping to me. It’s just making sure we each have enough time to get everything done and still be able to spend time together with each other and our children.
My God.
My girlfriend will do my dishes, cook for me or something similar at random and without ever being asked. I tell her that’s how I know she’s wife material.
This woman was done with her husband the second he gave her kids. He served his usefulness. Now she can just buy him gifts with his own money and call it a day.
" Score-keeping is death to a marriage. "
Absolutely true.
Been there, done that.
I awake every day thinking "what can I do today to make my husband happy?" How can I show him love and appreciation.
See women should have this mindset in every relationship they get in. Instead, they always think about what they can get out of it.
@@Garett.1214 I agree, but men should have the same mindset, and many don't. It is not that they think "How can I make my wife miserable today?". It is that they don't think about her AT ALL. They take for granted that everything is hunky dory and that everything is going to be done for them. Much like a child depends on their parents. A child does not worry about the mortgage or the light bill. They take for granted that those things will be taken care of by the parents. Many husbands, not all mind you, fall into the habit of just assuming that things are going to get done. They don't even notice those things, until it doesn't get done. I was deathly ill once and the laundry did not get done on the regular day that I normally did it. I had a temperature of 105.7. Hubs asked why his shirts weren't clean. I just told him the laundry fairy had the day off. It never occurred to him that it was the labor of a human being that was making that happen. And that human was unable to do it that day. And yes, sometimes wives take for granted what their husbands do. I never got the chance to do that, as he was a soldier when we first married, and was rarely home. So all of those weekly, monthly or yearly chores like changing the filter in the heater, unclogging toilets, changing the oil in the car, getting gas, mowing, taking out the trash, shoveling snow, cleaning the gutters, etc., well I was doing those things. We have been married 44 years, and he just retired from his second career. He has finally learned what day the garbage man comes.
@@Garett.1214not every relationship is worthy of this mindset 😂
@@limeonthecoconut Then don’t expect men to reciprocate.
@@Garett.1214 zip it simp
So since it’s gone viral, I guess the husband is now aware… why would anybody think they complete strangers would really truly be on their side? Instead of the person you married???
Issue number 1 - “She made the video in the first place“ - EXACTLY
My mum used to complain that my dad didn't cook or clean much. But he worked long hours, commuted, handled all the finances, fixed everything, did all the driving and more. She didn't have an outside job, had time for a few hours off in the day, he had maybe one hour off in the evening. Adding it all up I'd guess he did at least 30% more work overall than her but still she moaned. I loved her but feminism was destructive to their marriage because it encouraged her to complain without justification.
Nah…it’s your mom and all, but she would’ve gotten divorced. There’s no way I’m doing all of that as a man and she’s complaining. As a matter of fact, if her only job is to literally be at home…my home better be clean af
And in this case it’s the wife who works the long hours at the hospital.
Married man. Thats the wrong attitude. Both the man and the women should have the attitude that they will do as much as possible. I take out the trash, clean our kitchen, schedule all doctor appointments, and I watch our daughter in the morning and in the evening. My wife cooks lunch and dinner, watches the baby during the day, buys me clothes, and does the bed. We each do our best to do the most, and everything gets done efficiently.
A perfect example of watching a video, then feeling sorry for a guy you absolutely have never met.
I'm so thankful I'm not in a selfish marriage like this one! Women like this are so creepy and just give off the vibes of resentment and like they will betray you at any moment.
"Be devoted to one another in brotherly love. Outdo yourselves in honoring one another."
My husband is also a capable grown man but it's my greatest joy to take care of him and my children and I delight in cooking, cleaning, shopping for whatever anyone needs, loving them in any way I can. My husband is so kind and does the dishes most of the time and books all of my appointments because he knows I don't like those tasks. I'm so grateful! I'm not above household "chores". It's truly a delight to scrub a toilet when you are doing it unto the Lord and as a way to take care of the ones you love. 💕✝💗✨
Like Matt said, she is really just a controlling roommate who buys him the odd gift with his OWN money.
She's not even likeable!!
yea thats the Hilarious part
" i do nice things like buy him stuff sometimes "
lady who are you trying to kid you are using his money to buy him stuff --__--
@@kurtpunchesthings2411she works full time.
She works full time and so does he. Unless she stashes her money away and manipulates him to use only his......
She works and earns a good income.
Notice how she associated kindness with material “stuff”
yes, and not just that. She calls being a wife a job. So she just wants the money.
Eeeh that's what do. Kindness towards men means nothing to them because it has no monetary value.
It could be that neither of their love languages are "acts of service"... like at all. And they show their love through gifts or word of affirmation... its possible
“We’re ashamed of the things we should be proud of, and proud of things we should be ashamed of.” -J.S.
What woman even schedules her husband’s doctors appointments and haircuts and packs his suitcase for vacation? That’s what a mom does for her kids
I do it bc I like to and I'm better st doing those sort of things. Just like he mows the lawn and shovels snow better and enjoys that.
My husband is colored blind so I do HELP him pack his clothes so they will match haha.
I always packed my husband's luggage when he worked out of town. Why not? He worked long hours and welcomed the help.
That "marriage" is not going to last very long...
then he aint worth it
They have 4 kids
He’s an idiot to stay
@@Bryan-jd7os Sad.
@@YinYang-CisPanPolyF I don't know about him, but I do know she isn't.
Stop providing her a home, stop providing her a vehicle, stop paying for her clothes.
If you’ve ever watched her videos you would know that they both work full time. She pays for her own things 🙄
@@xxBrandie09xx so.. it's more like two roommate frds.
Too much of a simp. cheers
@@xxBrandie09xxso he's a beta.
@@7th_CAV_Trooper ayyyyyye cavalry 🤙🏻
I am almost certain she’s not actually married. I think she is making it all up because he’s never in her pictures or videos
One thing she will do, file for divorce the moment he "slips up" too much.
...and she probably also believes a marriage is 50/50
When in fact it’s 100/100
What does 100/100 look like? Because what she’s describing actually aligns more with 100/100. Not 50/50.
Matt, here's how you keep score: If you've raised healthy, well-adjusted children, then you've BOTH won the game.
Social media is one HELL OF A DRUG for these woman…
they LOVE attention. Attention is sex for women.
She 100% doesn't let him drink actual beer.
Does she work outside the home? If not, then doing those things for him that she considers "work" are definitely part of the work she should do in the home.
I doubt it. We would have heard her go on & on about how 'she works full time too".
There's a reason why she didn't say a word about her working - because she doesn't.
Obviously she don't work. She is a selfish bum.
@@Mila_Breareythey both work full-time.
She does work outside of the home.
@@Mila_Brearey She has a career & 4 children. Its 2024, they divide domestic labor.
We’ve taught women to hate keeping a home and see it as unpaid labor that’s offensive to their feminist sensibilities. Your home should be your safe space, your haven, a place of peace and relaxation to get away from the world. The most important aspect of a healthy life. Women seem to have gotten so obsessed with decorating homes but somehow disgusted with keeping it. So sad.
So true!! Its not a home, its a place to stay in!!!!’
I read this great reinterpretation of housekeeping
= "home-caring."
We need to take care of our homes, our spiuses, & our families;
LOVINGLY, and with a servant's heart.
Her and her husband BOTH work, why should she do all of this stuff on top?
@@JJ-hu4cm what if she didn't work. Is that still your point of view?
@@JJ-hu4cm I bet he takes care of the heavy lifting, lawn and car without complaining.
The one who makes the money shouldn’t be doing a majority of the choirs
Thank you for calling out these ludicrous competitions of domestic life. How far society has fallen.
Tik tok is destroying what's left of the country...
Tic Tok is what it is, time piece stuck in the hands of the lazy from midday to midnight,
That's exactly it's purpose.
Tic Tok is overwhelmingly used by women to narcissistically share their feelings. Hence, Tic Tok is merely the means to the end of female narcissism. There was once a time (before 1970), women were modest and narcissistic behavior was frowned upon. That is before the era of 2nd Wave Feminism and "Boss Babes."
tik tok is just letting us know how bad things are.. this problem already existed
Still watching TikTok is destroying the country.
Individualism is more important than the family unit to these people.
This is what the "strong and independent" psyop got us
it's the sad reality for so many marriages
when 1 or both people instead of thinking
what is the best thing for our family
they think
what is best for ME ME ME ME ME
this is why cheating if you are married is so unbelievably evil
you are spitting in the face of your spouse and every child you 2 have
Very well said
So I guess her taking on a job in order to pay for their child’s medical bills is selfish? Please. As if you’d just let your kid die instead.
She’s not a wife, she’s a roommate
I'll bet if he told her the old joke about women getting married in White because it's the same colour as domestic appliances, she wouldn't laugh.
I bet she still uses his money though
Bet he has to beg to be intimate as well.
True, with her sort there is 'her money', and the rest is 'our money'.
I bet she also requires him to plan every date. And expects every date to be $$$$$
Lol y'all are replying to a bot 🤣🤣
@@johnnythewalrus Yeah... that's weird, but the comment doesn't seem like a bot's comment... I wonder if the account got hacked...
What a dreadful, selfish woman she is, and the act of boasting to the world about her disregard for her husband is simply outrageous. Wonder how he feels about be ridiculed by his "liberated wife.
Well said!
Poor guy!
Because her husband is doing his own laundry and appointments?
Y'all are ridiculous! She and her husband are both working full time and paying the bills, why would she do all the housework for him as well? How would that be fair?
She’s a full time nurse and mother or 4, and works longer hours than her husband. She pays the majority of the bills. Her account is dedicated to helping burnt out mothers and fathers come together to work as a team. I see nothing wrong with that.
Man can you imagine coming home to that after a 12 hour shift at the construction site? Oh joy!
He’s a grown ass man. She sounds like she loves him so much.
I can’t wait for TikTok to go away.
Yes man if Biden think it’s bad then we know it’s bad . Lot of evil people who mistreat people keep showing themselves. Glad they getting exposed now there gonna lose there app.
Right?
it won't
@@dragerdet It's gonna get banned in the U.S. if it doesn't sell within the next several months.
@@AlexJaneson Even if it gets banned another app is gonna take its place.
No. We need to stop using the word partner. It trips the commitment and intimacy from the relationship, it trips the boundaries, and implies you will just give up and can leave at anytime. Matt is right.
In Australia we all refer to our spouses as "partners". I guess Australians might socially mix with couples going through different stages of coupleness .... Partner can refer to boyfriend/fiance/defacto/spouse .... It's really not a term that means the end of the world.
But @75% of women file for divorce, and although I agree with you, partner fits the modern woman to a tee! cheers
@morganclare4704 in th le spirit of dark humor, that dies make sense. Can't deny that. The women are treating them like mere partners as Matt said.
The greatest truth in the universe is that when you lose your life in loving service to others, that is where you find the greatest joy and fulfillment. I hope she realizes that someday.
She buys those things for him with the money that he makes that he provides for her and the four kids. why should he pay her bills, she’s a grown ass woman