Amen set boundaries and have high standards morals and values and stick to it period if they the one they will respect it love you or leave you alone period
yes but since 80% dont use their power..they ll go find a woman who wont express herself , open her legs and home before marriage etc..but in the end as TG says such men who ghost you for having these standards arent good men..and they probably find women that arent good either
Ladies, turn the TV, radio and internet OFF and sit still with YOUR self and feel what FEELS right and wrong instead of romanticizing this malarkey all over the TV, in the music and on the internet! Love is not hard and does not require hurt and pain repeatedly to obtain! Come back to GOD, center yourself and learn YOURSELF and what YOU NEED! Too much compromising is giving the devil more wiggle room! If it hurts you, it’s not from GOD, of GOD or good for you. Have a discussion with whomever is causing you pain IF SAFELY POSSIBLE or move away from the pain. It’s just like fire; if you can extinguish it, do so. If it’s too big and hot (danger) flee for your life! Stop participating in self-hurting yourselves trying to stay loyal to and dealing with hurting/hurtful people. You and your well-being should be your number one priority!
@Joyful n Blessed AMEN! SO RIGHT NOW! WORDS OF WISDOM! YES INDEED! GOD BLESS US ALL! GOD LOVES US ALL! SELF LOVE! BELOVED! LET YR LIGHT 4EVER SHINE BRIGHT! HOLD ON TO GOD ALWAYS! PRAY OFTEN AND DAILY TO GOD ALWAYS! GLORY TO GOD ALMIGHTY! GOD IS OUR EVERYTHING! GOD CAN HANDLE ANYTHING! GOD IS WORKIN IT OUT! ON HIS GOD GIVEN RIGHT TIME! GOD IS ALWAYS WITH US!GOD WILL NEVER LEAVE U NOR FORSAKE U! GOD WILL SEE US THRU ALL THINGS IN YR LIFE RIGHT NOW AND ALWAYS!TELL THE LORD THANK U FOR THIS BLESSED TODAY! TELL THE LORD THANK U FOR EVERYONE IN YR LIFE RIGHT NOW AND ALWAYS! BE GRATEFUL AND THANKFUL FOR ALL THINGS IN YR LIFE RIGHT NOW AND ALWAYS! PEACE AND HARMONY TO EVERYONE IN THE WORLD RIGHT NOW! ENOUGH SAID! THATS IT! AUG 2021
@@kaleema1987 Not for some my friend for MOST!!!! Did you hear what tony said??? He said us women are doing bad...what does he mean?? Base on his experience he should know!!!!
"a common theme is LOW-self worth, LOW standards, LOW self-esteem" I hear that from several relationships coaches sites. It's an epidemic. Fathers use to screen men for their daughters. A man had to come correct.
As women we have to makeup in our minds to walk away from abuse and disrespect. Sometimes you have to let a man go back to the type of woman he is use to. Lord knows I've did this before, cause I would rather loose him than to loose my mind.
I’ve realized a lot of men are not use to quality women because there are so few out here. They feel more comfortable with the constant arguments, chaos and toxicity
An invisible pulpit appeared at minute 35:00 🙌🏾. Tony was preaching. I am 39 yrs old. I started watching Tony a few years ago. I enjoy him and Bishop R.C. Blake’s. I refuse to lower my standards. I believe there are some good men left and will continue to live life. One day when God is ready he will send my husband 👑👑👑
Maaaan I’m praying for the day a man of God will treat me the way I should be treated. I was an enabler and didn’t have self respect and these men got a way with A LOT but I’ll trust You and Your timing Lord cuz I know my worth now 🙏🏾
Trust in God. Keep yourself busy and he will find you. The man is the pursuer of what woman he choose. If you choose him for yourself and he didnt choose you, he will not love you bc it was not his choice. I learned this the hard way twice and two ruin relationship. Good luck
Tony just don’t know how naturally funny he is.. “ima clean up some of this lent on my van, so I can be making use of my time” (as he cleans). lol!!! Lmbo!! Recording a RUclips is already making use of your time, he shows up so much for RUclips he forgets he’s already serving/making use of his time.
Let me tell you, I’ve been watching your stories for the past few days Tony and it saddened me what a lot of women are out here putting up with. 💔 This is why healing & self love is key.
Yes, it is saddening. I was also in disbelief. I had to stop watch Tony Gaskins for a while cuz I used to bother me that women were going through these things with men 😭😭😭😭
AMEN! SO TRULY RIGHT! GOD BLESS US ALL! GOD LOVES US ALL! SELF LOVE! BELOVED! LET YR LIGHT 4EVER SHINE BRIGHT! HOLD ON TO GOD ALWAYS! PRAY OFTEN AND DAILY TO GOD ALWAYS! GOD IS OUR EVERYTHING! GOD CAN HANDLE ANYTHING! BLESSED TODAY! THANK U LORD! TELL THE LORD THANK U FOR EVERYONE IN YR LIFE RIGHT NOW AND ALWAYS! BE GRATEFUL AND THANKFUL FOR ALL THINGS IN YR LIFE RIGHT NOW AND ALWAYS!YES INDEED! ENOUGH SAID! THATS IT! AUG 2021
God is your comforter. I’ve had a few days like that this week. I just saturated my mind with worship and the word. God knows our hearts and He’ll give us what we deserve ❤️
I've been keeping up, the stories are, well, I'm speechless. I'm 59, and honestly, I'm good...it's not just the young people, it's the 55 & up that's trippin and skipping to. My personal opinion is, for my age group, it's men with deep set mommy unforgiveness or issues, and it's causing emotionally constipated men that can't communicate or even tell the truth believing their own lies.
You and Kev Hicks are men of valor. You are contributing to a new world....of harmony between men and women. I think you've mentioned it before. There is a spiritual war between the sexes There are men who are teaching other men how to dog out women( this is as old as time), and then there are men like you and others who are freeing women from pain. Thank you
Tony you made a great point! When I rebuilt my relationship with God and really decided to dig deep into my femininity my viewpoint on relationships changed COMPLETELY! I was always quick to leave when a relationship didn’t sit right with me but it’s worst now due to my relationship with God&your teachings! I pray all women are the same because we all really deserve the very best from a man mainly when majority of us want to be married!
At 42 i’m starting to think I’m going to be single the rest of my days...men these days are terrible and there just aren’t enough good ones. I’d rather be alone than deal with another dysfunctional relationship. Tony, those no good men are getting what they deserve...believe me. You don’t want their lifestyle or their woman and they cannot afford to have your lifestyle or a woman like your wife. You are winning.
👸true! 😥 abstinent 17 years. refuse to settle for a grown-boy. where are the real men? 🙄i don't know but what i do know is i'll die alone before sleep w/a man before marriage 👰 nor put up with a pos 💩aka so-called man😌!
The benefits of being a faithful man and treating your wife like a Queen is favor with God and peace in your life. I love the knowledge that you are sharing. Thank you
@@LA-wv7gf Kev Hicks is another good one to he is also married.... those the only 3 i listen to now ... dont listen to stephen speaks anymore because he said that he was friends with the man in the dark !!! and that they talk
@@whit9560 yes Kev Hicks is a really good one as well,his not doing long videos like Tony but as he says he has a full time job hope one day he will be able do his coaching full time just like Tony!
People are like plants..if you grow up in an environment from childhood that teaches you love and respect and gives you the nutrients you need you are highly likely to repeat this pattern in adulthood..if you grow up in a pot with very little nutrients only being fed whatever your owner decides to give you you are likely to be root bound and highly deficient..these plants die never reaching their full potential ..just like people..it’s in your childhood..most people are just repeating the patterns they learned in childhood both men and women..you can’t expect a woman who has never seen a woman with a man who loved and respected her to have a natural instinct to go out and get a man that loves and respects her..
"With great power comes great responsibility" Thank you Tony for using your power for good and helping to guide for the right reasons. The truth needs to be spoken...period
it's great when Tony uses words that he's not sure of the definition! dichotomy- to be opposed, or to be entirely different. you were right Mr Tony, keep up the good job with your vocabulary definitions! and thank you for all you have done, all you do, and all you will do. bless you and your family!
Ive always been a strong woman,, but I can admit to giving men way more chances than they deserved or than I should've but through you Tony, God has given me so much more strength snd insight that I didn't even know I needed. Thank you both from the bottom of my heart ❤
Thank you for not only teaching about the nature of a man and a woman's role in his life, but also highlighting the challenges a good man/husband faces. God richly bless your marriage and your family 🙏🏾
Hi Tony 🙏 Blessings to you and your family from Dublin Ireland 🇮🇪💚 I am 26 and have been following you for the last 6 years. I have taken your Life Coach Certification course thank you for the opportunity. I left my abusive ex partner this year like you said coming into the knowledge of God. I have been 'awake' since 2012 but have now realized the Divinity and worthiness in me in a very practical way, my standards now reflect my values 🙏💚 Thank you Tony.
This all starts with how we are raising our children. Yes, once they are adults, they can break that generational curse of ab*se unhealthy relationships too but is so much easier for them to not experience it in the first place…to not know that a*usive and unhealthy relationship as normal in the first place. Let’s try our hardest not to normalize this unhealthy way of living. Once they are born, our lives are no longer about us…the children’s mental, emotional, physical health should be the most important thing. Staying in a toxi* place/relationship to keep the family together is not for them - it’s for you/us. The children come first. The road to he🏒🏒 was built on good intentions…
This deserves a Peace Prize, s standing ovation, sainthood and any and every other prize that exists. I hope the women are listening and putting this into practice. Sisters, we need to stand together if we want change. God bless you all.
Keep going Tony... You WILL get your Nobel peace prize! God is looking... Yesss it’s a jungle out here and YES it’s LOW very low self esteem and the men are perpetrating it AND taking advantage of it! And yess we don’t know men because the dads have been absent and have women have not been taught about men. I know because I WAS one of them. Sad sad... Please continue on.... We desperately need your voice. God Bless you!!!! 🙏🏽❤️
Wow! This is awesome knowledge! kinda embarrassed I didn’t realize how I supposed to be treated! For me I didn’t won’t to be a failure so I just stayed! I’m thankful that I found you on U Tube last year! I’m healing now and growing! Thanks again! 😇😇😇
I read most and smh, come close to crying for most. If I could make a product and give for free it would be self esteem. I wish it could be handed out. Be blessed Mr.Tony. I know this is hard to do. May God continue to strengthen you.
Bro Tony I felt that when you said God showed you that you got to tell them who changed you 🗣️ Jesus 👏🏿👏🏿🙌🏿🙌🏿 tell them about Jesus 🙏🏾 ❤️ I love this ! !
I don’t express it enough when I comment but I just want to say thank you Mr. Gaskins for not giving up on us. We know that you have a pure heart, it shows with how you value and prioritize your family and through all of your work! You are a gem to us and I can only imagine how Father God sees you as you have been obedient in spite of the temptation from this wicked world. If you never made another video, you and your family will always have my prayer for God to bless you abundantly and cover you in His grace ❤️🙏🏾.
Those with low standards and low self esteem and dealing with anything is what makes its hard for women with standards and self worth... 🤷🏿♀️ I hate it here!!!
I Say this all the time. Me and my lady coworker with High standards and morals just like me was just fussing about this yesterday ❗️❗️ We’re overpowered by thots and jezebels with no standards, self esteem and self worth 🥴🥴
@@Classynfabolous005 Yup facts. I believe they do like heauxs that’s easy and ready to buss it open.❗️ If they didn’t we wouldn’t have such a hard time getting a good man. I been single for 4 years and run across the same problem most of the time. Smh
You are a blessing to women trying to get the knowledge and wisdom. And applying it to there life’s….. key word applying putting in the work. Thank you TG.
Tony you be telling the truth, you don’t be trying to be funny because you are serious about helping us women, but you are so funny to me. I love your videos. Keep doing the Lord’s Work.
I have virtually zero confidence in the ability to find a woman who hasn't been broken in some way along their path. Not excluding men but speaking from a woman's perspective. But what I've noticed is how broken we've allowed ourselves to get before we still reluctantly drag ourselves out of whatever situation still ruminating "did we make the right choice?" And it's like wait, what?!? There will have to be a serious movement among woman to start redirecting our priorities where they are supposed to be rather than where the path of the ignorant try to trail you. And start building each other up instead of trying to break each other down.
Tony, didn't I say we out here with these unstable Men. It's a mess out here. Giving people game ain't gonna help when guys not showing up to play. Women are checking out, no one wants to deal with the foolishness.
If you're created to help a man shine, checking out is turning your supernova into a black hole. I ain't doing it. All my wifely woman energy... Just won't be offered to the same standard of man anymore.
So called gold diggers have a lot of ideas on how to use femininity to attract the men who do show up to play. I recommend Anna Bey and Feminine Fancy first off
I have never thought that we are the one should be holding accountable for men's behavior... I am just so gald I could be able to turn away from a man even my heart was bleeding. I just do my 3Bs and meeting new people, if he is the right person he will be back as a changed man. If he is not, then God is leading me to the right man. Thank you Tony, I like when you say "Point blank period, get the T-shirt" hahaha Thank you soo much for sharing the reality with us and I will keep doing the hard work. I promise i won't waste you and God's wisdom in here.
Thank you so much for the encouragement to stay out of his way so he can hear the Lord! I pray for him and miss him immensely but time is necessary. I've been disciplining myself for years to co-create the life I deserve and I should not give in to temptation. I'm so glad I watched this video tonight 🙏
We have to heal as women, we have to stand our ground calmly and respectfully. To any sister who is in doubt about their relationships: just take your time and focus on you, take care of you, dear sister! Remember that you're loved by God himself, so why wouldn't you love yourself?
I have been listening to you for two weeks, I love that you love God and your teaching make since! I needed this, been married for 17 years and putting up with things I know that is not right, I did leave but it’s like I’m caught in between the good and the bad. Kinda confused but I’m trusting God. I appreciate you.
Oh my goodness!!! That scenario is the same thing that is happening at my job! Someone else clocking for someone else!! The Lord is having me see it all. I've been praying how to go about it.. thank you Tony for the perspective.
Tony, thank you for giving us such great guidance! God put you on this earth for a reason!! thanks for your patience in helping us ladies open our eyes and ears!
Tony I will keep you uplifted in prayer for God to continue your strength in advising & motivating women on relationships. God is definitely using you as a vessel speaking through you. Keep up the good work.
Thank you Tony...we are blessed truly blessed.. watching and keeping your videos for me to learn from and too make sure I don't make the same mistakes I once did... Peace and blessings to you and your family 🙏🏽
A male friend of mine told me a long time ago, “As women you have all the power, but you don’t use it”. He was right when he said it and he still is.
Yep
My uncle told me the same thing.
Amen set boundaries and have high standards morals and values and stick to it period if they the one they will respect it love you or leave you alone period
@@sherrynelson365 so true
yes but since 80% dont use their power..they ll go find a woman who wont express herself , open her legs and home before marriage etc..but in the end as TG says such men who ghost you for having these standards arent good men..and they probably find women that arent good either
Ladies, turn the TV, radio and internet OFF and sit still with YOUR self and feel what FEELS right and wrong instead of romanticizing this malarkey all over the TV, in the music and on the internet! Love is not hard and does not require hurt and pain repeatedly to obtain! Come back to GOD, center yourself and learn YOURSELF and what YOU NEED! Too much compromising is giving the devil more wiggle room! If it hurts you, it’s not from GOD, of GOD or good for you. Have a discussion with whomever is causing you pain IF SAFELY POSSIBLE or move away from the pain. It’s just like fire; if you can extinguish it, do so. If it’s too big and hot (danger) flee for your life! Stop participating in self-hurting yourselves trying to stay loyal to and dealing with hurting/hurtful people. You and your well-being should be your number one priority!
Thank you 🙏🏻
Very well stated!
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ABSOLUTELY RIGHT! When I got still and quiet, my whole life changed! Thanks for this perspective!
@Joyful n Blessed AMEN! SO RIGHT NOW! WORDS OF WISDOM! YES INDEED! GOD BLESS US ALL! GOD LOVES US ALL! SELF LOVE! BELOVED! LET YR LIGHT 4EVER SHINE BRIGHT! HOLD ON TO GOD ALWAYS! PRAY OFTEN AND DAILY TO GOD ALWAYS! GLORY TO GOD ALMIGHTY! GOD IS OUR EVERYTHING! GOD CAN HANDLE ANYTHING! GOD IS WORKIN IT OUT! ON HIS GOD GIVEN RIGHT TIME! GOD IS ALWAYS WITH US!GOD WILL NEVER LEAVE U NOR FORSAKE U! GOD WILL SEE US THRU ALL THINGS IN YR LIFE RIGHT NOW AND ALWAYS!TELL THE LORD THANK U FOR THIS BLESSED TODAY! TELL THE LORD THANK U FOR EVERYONE IN YR LIFE RIGHT NOW AND ALWAYS! BE GRATEFUL AND THANKFUL FOR ALL THINGS IN YR LIFE RIGHT NOW AND ALWAYS! PEACE AND HARMONY TO EVERYONE IN THE WORLD RIGHT NOW! ENOUGH SAID! THATS IT! AUG 2021
If he doesn't SHAPE UP YOU GOTTA SHIP HIM OUT. Ladies don't stick around to get dogged out and disrespected by man over and over again.
AMEN! SO RIGHT! WORDS OF WISDOM! YES INDEED! ENOUGH SAID!,THATS IT! AUG 2021
I think one of the reasons why women deal with grown boys is because they did not grow up with a mature dad in the household!!!!
Very true
Mostly right!
@@kaleema1987 Not for some my friend for MOST!!!! Did you hear what tony said??? He said us women are doing bad...what does he mean?? Base on his experience he should know!!!!
@@kaleema1987 so if that's not all what is it then??
@@kaleema1987 Yes that is true in rare cases!!!! I am talken about majority!!!
"a common theme is LOW-self worth, LOW standards, LOW self-esteem" I hear that from several relationships coaches sites. It's an epidemic. Fathers use to screen men for their daughters. A man had to come correct.
Totally agree
As women we have to makeup in our minds to walk away from abuse and disrespect. Sometimes you have to let a man go back to the type of woman he is use to. Lord knows I've did this before, cause I would rather loose him than to loose my mind.
I’ve realized a lot of men are not use to quality women because there are so few out here. They feel more comfortable with the constant arguments, chaos and toxicity
God is so good and wants the best for us ladies!
Indeed!
AMEN! SO TRULY RIGHT! WORDS OF WISDOM! YES INDEED! ENOUGH SAID! THATS IT! AUG 2021
Amen!
He sure is sis!
Always Amen❗️🙏🏾
An invisible pulpit appeared at minute 35:00 🙌🏾. Tony was preaching. I am 39 yrs old. I started watching Tony a few years ago. I enjoy him and Bishop R.C. Blake’s. I refuse to lower my standards. I believe there are some good men left and will continue to live life. One day when God is ready he will send my husband 👑👑👑
Amen Sis. You are not alone. I am waiting until God presents me to my husband, and even if he doesn't, I am not bowing to this crazy world system
Maaaan I’m praying for the day a man of God will treat me the way I should be treated. I was an enabler and didn’t have self respect and these men got a way with A LOT but I’ll trust You and Your timing Lord cuz I know my worth now 🙏🏾
Yes Queen, stay prayed up and be in position! God always has the perfect plans 😉🙏
Trust in God. Keep yourself busy and he will find you. The man is the pursuer of what woman he choose. If you choose him for yourself and he didnt choose you, he will not love you bc it was not his choice. I learned this the hard way twice and two ruin relationship. Good luck
Dating for me is a revolving door because I am willing to walk away. It all makes sense. So grateful for your guidance 👑🤗
Tony, all of us women that know God also know exactly when these men are not loving us like Christ loved the church.
And some are in the Church.
@@joycenash372 Say that again !!
“I need a nobel peace prie, I need a Nobel peace prie,” 😂😂😂 Tony you are silly but thank you for all that you do.
Tony just don’t know how naturally funny he is.. “ima clean up some of this lent on my van, so I can be making use of my time” (as he cleans). lol!!! Lmbo!! Recording a RUclips is already making use of your time, he shows up so much for RUclips he forgets he’s already serving/making use of his time.
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That's why I kept listening 🤣
Let me tell you, I’ve been watching your stories for the past few days Tony and it saddened me what a lot of women are out here putting up with. 💔 This is why healing & self love is key.
Yes, it is saddening. I was also in disbelief. I had to stop watch Tony Gaskins for a while cuz I used to bother me that women were going through these things with men 😭😭😭😭
AMEN! SO TRULY RIGHT! GOD BLESS US ALL! GOD LOVES US ALL! SELF LOVE! BELOVED! LET YR LIGHT 4EVER SHINE BRIGHT! HOLD ON TO GOD ALWAYS! PRAY OFTEN AND DAILY TO GOD ALWAYS! GOD IS OUR EVERYTHING! GOD CAN HANDLE ANYTHING! BLESSED TODAY! THANK U LORD! TELL THE LORD THANK U FOR EVERYONE IN YR LIFE RIGHT NOW AND ALWAYS! BE GRATEFUL AND THANKFUL FOR ALL THINGS IN YR LIFE RIGHT NOW AND ALWAYS!YES INDEED! ENOUGH SAID! THATS IT! AUG 2021
I was so in my feelings today in feeling so lonely today.. then God sent this for me to watch. Phew! Listening right now🌻
God is your comforter. I’ve had a few days like that this week. I just saturated my mind with worship and the word. God knows our hearts and He’ll give us what we deserve ❤️
@@gretiquemartin Yes he will, and I believe it and have faith. Thanks sis🌻
Hold on sis. Stay busy🗣🗣
I totally understand 💛. I have those days as well. God hasn't forgotten about us❤
@@munix9351 Thank you sis. Keep your crown on, Queen!🌻
I've been keeping up, the stories are, well, I'm speechless. I'm 59, and honestly, I'm good...it's not just the young people, it's the 55 & up that's trippin and skipping to. My personal opinion is, for my age group, it's men with deep set mommy unforgiveness or issues, and it's causing emotionally constipated men that can't communicate or even tell the truth believing their own lies.
So very true what you say! My ex was dishonest and a 70 Year old cheater!
@@dublingirl1691 his loss, and I'm so sorry that, that happened to you.
Wow! Have the strength to walk away. Women are the backbone of society that's deep.
You and Kev Hicks are men of valor. You are contributing to a new world....of harmony between men and women. I think you've mentioned it before. There is a spiritual war between the sexes
There are men who are teaching other men how to dog out women( this is as old as time), and then there are men like you and others who are freeing women from pain.
Thank you
RIGHT BECAUSE THEM PEOPLE ARE STEALING FROM THE JOB !!!😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
Tony you made a great point! When I rebuilt my relationship with God and really decided to dig deep into my femininity my viewpoint on relationships changed COMPLETELY! I was always quick to leave when a relationship didn’t sit right with me but it’s worst now due to my relationship with God&your teachings! I pray all women are the same because we all really deserve the very best from a man mainly when majority of us want to be married!
I loved the message!!! Tony’s accent takes me out every time😂♥️He’s a real Florida Boy to his core♥️♥️♥️♥️ Tampa Bay all day💯💯💎💎💎💎💎💎💎💎💎
Yessss he is the real Florida man🤣🤣🤣stay off yo bike!
@@LiveLovely9 Point blank PERIOD
At 42 i’m starting to think I’m going to be single the rest of my days...men these days are terrible and there just aren’t enough good ones. I’d rather be alone than deal with another dysfunctional relationship.
Tony, those no good men are getting what they deserve...believe me. You don’t want their lifestyle or their woman and they cannot afford to have your lifestyle or a woman like your wife. You are winning.
👸true! 😥 abstinent 17 years. refuse to settle for a grown-boy. where are the real men? 🙄i don't know but what i do know is i'll die alone before sleep w/a man before marriage 👰 nor put up with a pos 💩aka so-called man😌!
The benefits of being a faithful man and treating your wife like a Queen is favor with God and peace in your life. I love the knowledge that you are sharing. Thank you
Yoooooo! “I don stop listening to the man in the dark with the stuff spinning on his desk. “ 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 God Bless you Tony! 🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽
@@LA-wv7gf Kev Hicks is another good one to he is also married.... those the only 3 i listen to now ... dont listen to stephen speaks anymore because he said that he was friends with the man in the dark !!! and that they talk
@@whit9560 yes Kev Hicks is a really good one as well,his not doing long videos like Tony but as he says he has a full time job hope one day he will be able do his coaching full time just like Tony!
This hurts because had I known better I would’ve. Didn’t stand firm in my standards and boundaries. But now I do, thanks Tony.
Tony needs a Nobel peace prize for patience! Maybe your message will also help parents to teach their kids your gems of wisdom so they will be ready.
Tony out there keying ppl's cars. Lol! I'm over here screamn. Lol!😂🤣
His honesty is a blessing! Amazing guy!
Lol 🤣🤣, Bro Tony is something serious keying ppl's cars
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People are like plants..if you grow up in an environment from childhood that teaches you love and respect and gives you the nutrients you need you are highly likely to repeat this pattern in adulthood..if you grow up in a pot with very little nutrients only being fed whatever your owner decides to give you you are likely to be root bound and highly deficient..these plants die never reaching their full potential ..just like people..it’s in your childhood..most people are just repeating the patterns they learned in childhood both men and women..you can’t expect a woman who has never seen a woman with a man who loved and respected her to have a natural instinct to go out and get a man that loves and respects her..
Wow, that was really good. Thank you.
"With great power comes great responsibility" Thank you Tony for using your power for good and helping to guide for the right reasons. The truth needs to be spoken...period
It's time to help these young ladies....it's heartbreaking.
All of the women going through this, are not young. That's the sad part.
@@elainegomillion978 so true.
Yes. Tony is right! You have to love yourself first and don’t compromise on what you want in a relationship. Thanks for video
it's great when Tony uses words that he's not sure of the definition! dichotomy- to be opposed, or to be entirely different. you were right Mr Tony, keep up the good job with your vocabulary definitions! and thank you for all you have done, all you do, and all you will do. bless you and your family!
Amen! I came from a strong mama but it was Christ who strengthened me 🙏🏽
The info and advice you give is really GOLD✨ it starts with women.
"DENOUNCE YA FLESH" - TITLE😂
Ive always been a strong woman,, but I can admit to giving men way more chances than they deserved or than I should've but through you Tony, God has given me so much more strength snd insight that I didn't even know I needed. Thank you both from the bottom of my heart ❤
Thank you for not only teaching about the nature of a man and a woman's role in his life, but also highlighting the challenges a good man/husband faces. God richly bless your marriage and your family 🙏🏾
Hi Tony 🙏 Blessings to you and your family from Dublin Ireland 🇮🇪💚 I am 26 and have been following you for the last 6 years. I have taken your Life Coach Certification course thank you for the opportunity. I left my abusive ex partner this year like you said coming into the knowledge of God. I have been 'awake' since 2012 but have now realized the Divinity and worthiness in me in a very practical way, my standards now reflect my values 🙏💚
Thank you Tony.
Love imagining you saying this in your accent while reading this comment. Nzinga from 🇹🇹 Trinidad and Tobago
@@nzingahoney wow I completely forgot I wrote this comment! Thank you very much sending you love!
This is the realest video! 💯
I like that Sprinter! My first time seeing inside of one! That’s a house on wheels! Great Accomplishment Brother 🙏💕
This all starts with how we are raising our children. Yes, once they are adults, they can break that generational curse of ab*se unhealthy relationships too but is so much easier for them to not experience it in the first place…to not know that a*usive and unhealthy relationship as normal in the first place. Let’s try our hardest not to normalize this unhealthy way of living. Once they are born, our lives are no longer about us…the children’s mental, emotional, physical health should be the most important thing. Staying in a toxi* place/relationship to keep the family together is not for them - it’s for you/us. The children come first. The road to he🏒🏒 was built on good intentions…
I felt the Spirit of God and had to give him praise in my living room wien you started talking bout Jesus! A whole word!
This deserves a Peace Prize, s standing ovation, sainthood and any and every other prize that exists. I hope the women are listening and putting this into practice. Sisters, we need to stand together if we want change. God bless you all.
Keep going Tony... You WILL get your Nobel peace prize! God is looking... Yesss it’s a jungle out here and YES it’s LOW very low self esteem and the men are perpetrating it AND taking advantage of it! And yess we don’t know men because the dads have been absent and have women have not been taught about men. I know because I WAS one of them. Sad sad... Please continue on.... We desperately need your voice. God Bless you!!!! 🙏🏽❤️
This is the content I've really appreciated Tony. Thank you! Lesson learned
Tony always on point with everything he says in his videos messages!!!!!!👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽🙂🙂🙂
Wow! This is awesome knowledge! kinda embarrassed I didn’t realize how I supposed to be treated! For me I didn’t won’t to be a failure so I just stayed! I’m thankful that I found you on U Tube last year! I’m healing now and growing! Thanks again! 😇😇😇
I heard; A “Nobel Pee Prize” 😂😂😂😂😂 Tony, your accent is the best lol
Tony, you preaching today. This conversation was a very much needed conversation. Thank you
Whew! It gets real at the 35:00 minute mark!! Every woman needs to hear this!!
Yes it did!!
I read most and smh, come close to crying for most. If I could make a product and give for free it would be self esteem. I wish it could be handed out. Be blessed Mr.Tony. I know this is hard to do. May God continue to strengthen you.
Be blessed Tony! God bless you.
“Y’all out here doing bad my goodness “ LMAO so serious . It’s really sad .
Right, I felt second hand embarrassment.
💎💎💎💎💎💎💎💎 the last of this video.. was straight up GEMS. My goodness! Uncle Tony, we thoroughly appreciate you 🙏🏾 🙌🏾
Bro Tony I felt that when you said God showed you that you got to tell them who changed you 🗣️ Jesus 👏🏿👏🏿🙌🏿🙌🏿 tell them about Jesus 🙏🏾 ❤️ I love this ! !
The end of this video is absolutely phenomenal. Thank you Tony. So true.
“You cheated because you are a cheater.” TG
🥇 Awarded to Tony Gaskins and the Gaskin Family 💐
You used the word "dichotomy" PERFECTLY! Keep up the good work. You are helping us.
Tony. You are totally 100% right about Everything spoken in this video... And I am a woman.. I include myself in this.
Alright Tony! “Dichotomy” and “crux”. We see how you threw the vocabulary in there. Thanks for the message! 💯
Lol
Thanks Tony absolute truth. Blessings brother in christ.
Tony said “I need my five loaves of 🥖 and two fish”🐟🤣 …….God Bless you T.G
I hear you man🙏🏾
Thank you Tony Gaskins for Gods work to help women in this day and time. Many Blessings to you and your wife.
I don’t express it enough when I comment but I just want to say thank you Mr. Gaskins for not giving up on us. We know that you have a pure heart, it shows with how you value and prioritize your family and through all of your work! You are a gem to us and I can only imagine how Father God sees you as you have been obedient in spite of the temptation from this wicked world. If you never made another video, you and your family will always have my prayer for God to bless you abundantly and cover you in His grace ❤️🙏🏾.
Those with low standards and low self esteem and dealing with anything is what makes its hard for women with standards and self worth... 🤷🏿♀️ I hate it here!!!
I Say this all the time. Me and my lady coworker with High standards and morals just like me was just fussing about this yesterday ❗️❗️ We’re overpowered by thots and jezebels with no standards, self esteem and self worth 🥴🥴
@@fitwitbrittbritt yes we are and it sucks...we're looked at as difficult and no we just have standards.
@@Classynfabolous005 Yup facts. I believe they do like heauxs that’s easy and ready to buss it open.❗️ If they didn’t we wouldn’t have such a hard time getting a good man. I been single for 4 years and run across the same problem most of the time. Smh
@@fitwitbrittbritt I'm just recently single from a 3yr relationship. I already know and it just sucks to even think about.
“We starting with holding hands, homeboy”-👊🏼🔥🔥🔥💯💯💯
Wait I was not ready for that KS reference!!!! 🤣😂🤣😂 the man in the dark with the thing spinning on his desk 😆
You are a blessing to women trying to get the knowledge and wisdom. And applying it to there life’s….. key word applying putting in the work. Thank you TG.
Every man will test your self esteem from the get go....work on your self esteem ladies.
Strong woman here! I will leave in a minute if he disrespect me💪🙏🙏🙏🥰
Tony you be telling the truth, you don’t be trying to be funny because you are serious about helping us women, but you are so funny to me. I love your videos. Keep doing the Lord’s Work.
YOU ARE ABSOLUTELY 💯 PERCENT CORRECT... EXCELLENT TEACHING AND COACHING TONY!😎😎
I have virtually zero confidence in the ability to find a woman who hasn't been broken in some way along their path. Not excluding men but speaking from a woman's perspective.
But what I've noticed is how broken we've allowed ourselves to get before we still reluctantly drag ourselves out of whatever situation still ruminating "did we make the right choice?" And it's like wait, what?!?
There will have to be a serious movement among woman to start redirecting our priorities where they are supposed to be rather than where the path of the ignorant try to trail you. And start building each other up instead of trying to break each other down.
I wish I can hit the like👍 button one hundred times! God bless you and your family Tony!🙏
Tony, didn't I say we out here with these unstable Men. It's a mess out here. Giving people game ain't gonna help when guys not showing up to play. Women are checking out, no one wants to deal with the foolishness.
If you're created to help a man shine, checking out is turning your supernova into a black hole. I ain't doing it. All my wifely woman energy... Just won't be offered to the same standard of man anymore.
So called gold diggers have a lot of ideas on how to use femininity to attract the men who do show up to play. I recommend Anna Bey and Feminine Fancy first off
Thank you, Tony for your words of wisdom.
I have never thought that we are the one should be holding accountable for men's behavior... I am just so gald I could be able to turn away from a man even my heart was bleeding. I just do my 3Bs and meeting new people, if he is the right person he will be back as a changed man. If he is not, then God is leading me to the right man. Thank you Tony, I like when you say "Point blank period, get the T-shirt" hahaha Thank you soo much for sharing the reality with us and I will keep doing the hard work. I promise i won't waste you and God's wisdom in here.
Thank Jehovah for Tony and his family in the name of your son Jesus Christ. Amen.
I don’t think I even wanna be with a man anymore
Same.. I’m tired of meeting new ppl at this point. It’s exhausting and they all seem to be the same
Tony keep representing The Most High in your service
Thank you so much for the encouragement to stay out of his way so he can hear the Lord!
I pray for him and miss him immensely but time is necessary. I've been disciplining myself for years to co-create the life I deserve and I should not give in to temptation. I'm so glad I watched this video tonight 🙏
TONYYYYYY!!!!!???😭😭
I’m CRIIIIIIIIIINE at the point of swallowing.. freaknik.. and DRAWP IT LIKE IT’S HAAAAWT!
"I don stop listening to the man in the dark with the stuff spinning on his desk" Tony is low key a comedian 😂😂😂.
We have to heal as women, we have to stand our ground calmly and respectfully. To any sister who is in doubt about their relationships: just take your time and focus on you, take care of you, dear sister! Remember that you're loved by God himself, so why wouldn't you love yourself?
LMAO @ “you gotta understand the ‘dichotomy’...which, I don’t really know what that means but it sounds good so we’re gonna use it right there” 🤣😂😅😅
Amen!!! I thank God for showing me the truth.
Lmaoooo “ the man in the dark with the stuff spinning” I’m crineeee
I have been listening to you for two weeks, I love that you love God and your teaching make since! I needed this, been married for 17 years and putting up with things I know that is not right, I did leave but it’s like I’m caught in between the good and the bad. Kinda confused but I’m trusting God. I appreciate you.
Oh my goodness!!! That scenario is the same thing that is happening at my job! Someone else clocking for someone else!! The Lord is having me see it all. I've been praying how to go about it.. thank you Tony for the perspective.
One of the BEST videos.
Tony, thank you for giving us such great guidance! God put you on this earth for a reason!! thanks for your patience in helping us ladies open our eyes and ears!
Be blessed, you and your family 🙏💕
I am laughing and crying, lawd 😂. Thank you Tony for another compassionate message. The Lord was speaking. God bless.
Amen, Tony! Jeremiah 17:9! Everyone must keep the right perspective about what we're all capable of doing without Jesus Christ as our Redeemer.
Nothing! I can do nothing without & all things with His strength 😍❤️❤️✝️
Beautiful word Mr. Gaskins 😢Ladies make you watch until the end! Will change your life and perspective…
Tony I will keep you uplifted in prayer for God to continue your strength in advising & motivating women on relationships. God is definitely using you as a vessel speaking through you. Keep up the good work.
This was deep! Thanks for sharing this with us! 😊
Thank you Tony...we are blessed truly blessed.. watching and keeping your videos for me to learn from and too make sure I don't make the same mistakes I once did... Peace and blessings to you and your family 🙏🏽
JESUS! Tell it the 1Truth ! Praise God!