Paul Might Have a Fetish for Black Women - mixed-ish

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  • Опубликовано: 7 сен 2024
  • After Alicia (Tika Sumpter) realizes that Paul (Mark-Paul Gosselaar) loves to tell people that he's married to a black woman, she starts to ask about his past. She thinks he might have a thing for black women, and if not, is she just an experiment? From 'All She Wants to Do Is Dance,' season 1, episode 5 of mixed-ish. Watch mixed-ish TUESDAY 9|8c on ABC, streaming, on demand, and Hulu.

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  • @echelleopia
    @echelleopia 4 года назад +2545

    Is it bad that at 0:37 My mind thought his next words were gonna be, there was... Brenda, LaTisha, Linda etc from that DMX song 😂😭🤦🏽‍♀️

    • @sumayasaid3715
      @sumayasaid3715 4 года назад +41

      Eyd Smyth I- underrated comment

    • @charminglady2011
      @charminglady2011 4 года назад +23

      Omg, I was thinking that too!

    • @natyra22
      @natyra22 4 года назад +62

      Dawn, LaShawn, Arnez, and Alicia

    • @pepesylvia9354
      @pepesylvia9354 4 года назад

      Hahahaha

    • @pepesylvia9354
      @pepesylvia9354 4 года назад +3

      Lol I always say that when my girlfriend asks about my exes

  • @veronicachandler1314
    @veronicachandler1314 4 года назад +2362

    Is this the only explanation they have for a nonblack man falling in love with a black woman?

    • @yippehanako
      @yippehanako 4 года назад +477

      Wow I didn't think of that. It is insulting.

    • @porsh590
      @porsh590 4 года назад +95

      Veronica Chandler omg your comment is facts

    • @phil6748
      @phil6748 4 года назад +47

      Veronica Chandler well no but it is however a question that one needs to ask.

    • @notthefather3919
      @notthefather3919 4 года назад +105

      @@graciousgrace7509 omg. Yall are forgetting that this takes place in the 80s, when interracial was still frowned upon.
      Dont take it too serious.

    • @athenaamiga7679
      @athenaamiga7679 4 года назад +10

      Right?! Thank you!

  • @yourgirlliss
    @yourgirlliss 4 года назад +2137

    Not a fetish though he's been married to a black woman for 15 years why would it matter if he wasn't with another black woman before, someone had to be the first.

    • @imtiredoftheseniggas6618
      @imtiredoftheseniggas6618 4 года назад +67

      Exactly

    • @yolir.u9452
      @yolir.u9452 4 года назад +16

      I’m tired of these niggas yeah

    • @yolir.u9452
      @yolir.u9452 4 года назад +2

      Animateddreamer true

    • @earthstar7534
      @earthstar7534 4 года назад +153

      Because no other race could ever love a black woman unless its because of a fetish or something nefarious. In reality in the 80's being in an interracial marriage with children still wasn't safe and it had only been legal a short time. What a way to diminish progress acting like a man married to a black woman for 15 years who were together during desegregation is doing it for a fetish.
      *read the following in sarcasm*
      Yes media, please continue to push how unworthy black women are of basic respect and love. You're right, no one could ever love us and not sexualize us.

    • @purplekitty
      @purplekitty 4 года назад +49

      earth star What gets on my nerves is that ALL women are fetishized. Asian women, white women and latinas. They turn that desire into something more for themselves!

  • @medusagorgon8432
    @medusagorgon8432 4 года назад +1859

    15 years and they’re just having this conversation? Weird.

    • @DonInADress
      @DonInADress 4 года назад +55

      EXACTLY 🙄

    • @notthefather3919
      @notthefather3919 4 года назад +17

      Its a TV show genius.

    • @seanswift1072
      @seanswift1072 4 года назад +117

      The whole point of the shows that they spend 15 years in a world where it didn't matter and it's only now that they're thrust into the real world that these issues are popping up. In the pilot the kids didn't even know they were mixed until they went to school

    • @ladennayoung2939
      @ladennayoung2939 4 года назад +43

      Sometimes a conversation don't start until someone plant a seed. It may not bother you initially until someone else mention it. Then you start asking questions. Especially with women!

    • @ladennayoung2939
      @ladennayoung2939 4 года назад +12

      @@seanswift1072 yep you nailed it. That's the whole premise to this show really. I enjoy watching it. 😊

  • @nicolehuff8455
    @nicolehuff8455 3 года назад +319

    I think the difference between preference and fetish is that a preference is just what you're typically physically attracted to, but a fetish is when you don't even see the person as a unique individual with their own unique personality, and only as the set of physical characteristics that you like. I also believe that to fetishize someone is to view them only as a sexual object. I don't think that's the case here. Paul actually loves Alicia for who she is. His dating history definitely suggests that black women are his preference though.

    • @charetacanady3588
      @charetacanady3588 2 года назад +41

      Thank you for breaking down the difference. Alot of people need to know that

    • @Soulsnatcher22
      @Soulsnatcher22 Год назад +4

      @@KrisBryant99 Right 💯

    • @dumbidea1007
      @dumbidea1007 Год назад

      So the same thing with a better pr

    • @Atzedernatzte
      @Atzedernatzte 6 месяцев назад

      Interesting

  • @laurenjackson2810
    @laurenjackson2810 4 года назад +1721

    Black women are allowed to be preferred & the eye of desire without it being a “fetish.” Don’t believe the hype.

    • @santyvalens
      @santyvalens 4 года назад +222

      exactly! One can just love and prefer black women and their beauty without having to be labeled as a dehumanizing fetish

    • @jun3jay197
      @jun3jay197 4 года назад +112

      Lauren Jackson exactly i prefer black women, and my wife is black. Shouldn’t someone logically marry someone they are most attracted towards?

    • @xoxohayaati
      @xoxohayaati 4 года назад +67

      Lauren Jackson, thank you for this. I’m not black and I always wondered why was this a question? Y’all are stunning, yes, but does that mean you’re just a fetish? No!

    • @sunkissedmonola5699
      @sunkissedmonola5699 4 года назад +33

      Thank God. I was starting to feel weird. I wouldn't call it a fetish it's just what I prefer and what I find attractive, not just in a sexual way

    • @daveondouglin5847
      @daveondouglin5847 4 года назад +22

      I'm pretty sure your all describing a definition of a fetish

  • @nafisaalam2409
    @nafisaalam2409 4 года назад +378

    Why is it a fetish if it's black or asian women??? Why can it not just be a preference? It's just such a dehumanising term.

    • @kkibela
      @kkibela 4 года назад +13

      Because being with someone like this.. They dehumansise but it takes a whiles to notice.. The sexist upbringing of society is already hard enough to navigate without adding fetishism as well.. Essentially men are prone to objectification women into being a posssention.. The last thing anyone wants in a relationship is to m have their needs ideas and autonomy dismissed.. I really believe this is what lead to domestic violence..

    • @nafisaalam2409
      @nafisaalam2409 4 года назад +3

      @ASK A CLASSY BLACK MAN TV RADIO NEWS WISDOM Which is just as wrong...........

    • @manastati
      @manastati 4 года назад +1

      @purplefashion03 but we're not in the past now! and all men aren't the same!

    • @santyvalens
      @santyvalens 4 года назад +11

      @purplefashion03 although i somewhat agree with you and think it goes both ways such as black men sometimes fetishizing white women with terms as "pawg" and the subconscious taboo of being with one, i still also agree with the other person that these things dont apply to everyone we can't label every preference a fetish

    • @vianjelos
      @vianjelos 4 года назад +15

      If you are only having sex with them and then leaving..THATS a fetish..because you are only interested in them sexually and not for a relationship. If you are with them to build a life and family thats just a preferance.

  • @jesushateswood
    @jesushateswood 4 года назад +308

    "Can we just relax and watch Foxy Brown?" 😂

  • @sheevpalpatine2989
    @sheevpalpatine2989 4 года назад +731

    So a white guy being attracted to women with dark skin is a ‘Fetish’?? Everyone has there own preferences, there’s nothing wrong with that.

    • @TheMrsilverscott
      @TheMrsilverscott 4 года назад +31

      Stop calling prejudices preferences!!!

    • @sheevpalpatine2989
      @sheevpalpatine2989 4 года назад +70

      I prefer brunettes to blondes, does that make me have a brunette fetish? Or prejudice towards blondes? Lol No. if i was dating someone because of their culture or just Because they were black then that would be a fetish. But not if you tend to find black women attractive.

    • @inouskehashibira1045
      @inouskehashibira1045 4 года назад +2

      Indeed sister. 😊

    • @riripari2042
      @riripari2042 4 года назад

      Exactly

    • @alexong2542
      @alexong2542 4 года назад +1

      You do realize you just defined the meaning of a fetish, right?

  • @Syoma
    @Syoma 4 года назад +195

    How dare you deny Lisa! After all you had been through together!

  • @PollyBFly
    @PollyBFly 4 года назад +1024

    Is that Zack from "Saved by the bell" ?

  • @owliealim745
    @owliealim745 4 года назад +65

    When a woman tells you "I'm just curious" you know sh*t is about to go down!.lol!

  • @robmoutoux4458
    @robmoutoux4458 4 года назад +375

    She knows Zack You dated Lisa

    • @thaibasil78
      @thaibasil78 4 года назад +54

      She kinda looks like Lisa 🤔

    • @animationlover2944
      @animationlover2944 4 года назад +16

      @@thaibasil78 so true. I never thought about that

    • @nileyfan1998
      @nileyfan1998 4 года назад +18

      @@thaibasil78 she doesn't 😂

    • @BlakeHolsey
      @BlakeHolsey 4 года назад +26

      I was so excited when I learned he dated Lisa on screen and off screen.

    • @baggergurl16
      @baggergurl16 4 года назад +9

      For like one episode and then it was never mentioned ever again almost like it never happened.

  • @KristinAlayna
    @KristinAlayna 4 года назад +23

    I recently came across a black fetish white guy...he only pursues black women which I think is strange. It's one thing to be open to dating a black woman like any other woman but another to hone in on black women like they are an expensive steak. I don't want a guy that feels lucky to have me because I'm black. It's a backhanded compliment. It makes it seem like that person harbors negative feelings about their own race. Like they only want to be with a black woman to feel cool, progressive, or release white guilt from the slavery era. Like, thanks for putting me on a pedestal but my color and culture are not some little black dress to show off. It is a part of me and deeply contributes to who I am, but it is not all of me. I am not a 1 dimensional characteristic. I am a whole person who happens to be black.

    • @Samuel115s
      @Samuel115s 4 месяца назад +1

      I totally understand that but what if their preference is based on looks, what if they are just really attracted to the way black people look more than their own race but have no negative feelings to their own race, if that is the case then I’d say it’s fine :)

    • @HyouVizer
      @HyouVizer 3 дня назад

      I had a white ex that was the same, I feel that 😔

  • @jeandakaud4286
    @jeandakaud4286 3 года назад +105

    The Robert de Niro thing got me in stitches😂😂😂😂

  • @shamare04
    @shamare04 4 года назад +43

    That wasn't a productive conversation. It's irrelevant at this point.

  • @loveinspired7
    @loveinspired7 4 года назад +82

    LMAOOOOOOO!
    It's true!😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
    "The only thing a White woman can do for Robert DeNiro, is to show him where a Black woman lives..."
    ---Comedian, Paul Mooney

    • @lizbeth072676
      @lizbeth072676 4 года назад +11

      😂😂😂😂😂😂

    • @jessicaaudate
      @jessicaaudate 3 года назад +4

      ☠️☠️🤣🤣

    • @loveinspired7
      @loveinspired7 3 года назад +1

      @@suzygirl1843 It's a sitcom, actually...

    • @elybeauty9729
      @elybeauty9729 3 года назад +2

      @@loveinspired7 Y'all love to complain about racism toward black women but Laugh at jokes toward white women.

    • @baptistebrigand5882
      @baptistebrigand5882 Год назад

      @@elybeauty9729 .

  • @janepatrick97
    @janepatrick97 4 года назад +327

    He's like Phil Dunphy

    • @bilodolo11
      @bilodolo11 4 года назад +1

      why?

    • @Milagros81
      @Milagros81 4 года назад +7

      Lol , yes 😂

    • @Drehgab
      @Drehgab 4 года назад +5

      Phil Dunfy isnt married to a black women

    • @shaypieqwe5546
      @shaypieqwe5546 4 года назад +1

      Lmaoo yessss philllll

    • @msls6592
      @msls6592 4 года назад +1

      😭 yes I remember

  • @garylevine3521
    @garylevine3521 3 года назад +12

    This show takes one step forward and like three steps back.

  • @shashavengesayi6055
    @shashavengesayi6055 4 года назад +34

    Damn, so liking a black woman was even considered “unconventional” in the 80s. I thought things had changed by then

    • @imtiredoftheseniggas6618
      @imtiredoftheseniggas6618 4 года назад +13

      Shasha Vengesayi interracial marriage was legalized in America 50years ago. That was in 1970...10 years from the 80s... So yeah this is not surprising considering the times...

    • @Kendawg841
      @Kendawg841 4 года назад +2

      It was the 80s it was slowly being accepted

    • @LonnieBhi
      @LonnieBhi 10 месяцев назад +1

      It wasn't unconventional, the media is just good at highlighting division. I know so many biracial adults whose parents married during the 80 & 70s, so it's not as "taboo" as they are making it out to be. All you have to do is travel to places like NYC, DC, ATL, London, or any major city/capital, interracial dating is actually more common than people think.

    • @kant.68
      @kant.68 2 месяца назад

      ​@@imtiredoftheseniggas6618
      Interracial marriages became legal in all states in the 60s, but before that it was legal is many states I'm the North

  • @zgurl94
    @zgurl94 4 года назад +79

    When it becomes a pattern where being with a Black person is "cool" to do (here's to you Kardashian- Jenner clan)...it's a fetish. You're also 15 years and three kids too late to ask that question.

    • @SupernaturalLove100
      @SupernaturalLove100 3 года назад +9

      Nothing he said indicated that he fetishized being with her bc she’s Blk. “Cool” isn’t indicative of a fetish. And the kardashians seem to just like Blk men, they’ve never made any exploitative comments abt Blk men that would indicate that their preference is in fact a fetish. Some of y’all in the community are just triggered by nonBlk women w/ Blk men bc it sparks up an insecurity. Pls let it go and develop some self esteem. There are plenty of Blk men out here married and or looking for Blk women 🤦🏾‍♀️

  • @phoenixmoon3
    @phoenixmoon3 4 года назад +125

    This was a good episode. Honestly, you like what you like and who you like. I was glad to see Rainbow have a happy moment this episode too.

  • @megpruden20
    @megpruden20 4 года назад +20

    🤣 That Robert DeNiro part was hilarious!

  • @tay2944
    @tay2944 4 года назад +112

    So a fetish is a sexual obsession and a preference is who you’d rather be with. Like I’d prefer someone taller than me but tall men are often fetishized.

    • @PrincessKLS
      @PrincessKLS 4 года назад +3

      taylor views I have fetishes, I see nothing wrong with them. There has to be limit to extreme PCism in your relationship for it to work.

    • @kikigam7113
      @kikigam7113 4 года назад +11

      @@PrincessKLS fetishes aren't a good thing tho

    • @watchstar5392
      @watchstar5392 4 года назад +6

      @@kikigam7113 she slow

    • @kikigam7113
      @kikigam7113 4 года назад +4

      @@watchstar5392 gotta be

    • @leelohaskin7941
      @leelohaskin7941 4 года назад

      @@watchstar5392 🤣🤣

  • @jg3865
    @jg3865 4 года назад +86

    What's this fetish question. Why can't he just have a preference for black women. I know quite a few men of different races that have a preference for black women. So what?

    • @ejsims143
      @ejsims143 4 года назад +7

      I think a fetish is more sexual in nature and there’s a difference between that and having a “preference” for a specific type off person. Everyone has there own version of attractive. Everyone sees different people attractive and as long as your not seeing the people as purely sexual objects I don’t think it’s wrong necessarily, though I do understand her concern, we’re humans we get insecure sometimes but I feel like they could have gone about this in a different way instead of making it seem like Paul only was attracted to them for sexual reasons. I personally don’t see this situation as that but I think it’s an important conversation to be had sometimes.

  • @kevinmandujano5639
    @kevinmandujano5639 4 года назад +16

    I remember later on in this episode when they’re at a clothing store and (I’m paraphrasing a bit) but he asks her if she in fact has a fetish for white men and if she’s only with him for the color of his skin and she replies with “It doesn’t work that way!” It felt so dismissive and the whole argument is just so one sided.

  • @Teekoness
    @Teekoness 3 года назад +5

    So he finds black women attractive? What's the big deal? It's not like he would've married any old black woman. He married the woman who had many traits he was attracted to. He married the right woman for him.

  • @tessavermilyea
    @tessavermilyea 4 года назад +5

    I....ok as a white woman clearly I don't understand this but to try and say the only reason a non black man would love a black woman was because of a fetish? Am I naive? You don't marry someone in such a difficult time period because of that.
    The ppl who made it through that did so BECAUSE of love.

    • @roslyngordon4596
      @roslyngordon4596 4 года назад +1

      No you're right BUT if it's like he has only dated black woman it comes off as odd

    • @tessavermilyea
      @tessavermilyea 4 года назад +1

      @ASK A CLASSY BLACK MAN TV RADIO NEWS WISDOM
      There's a difference between preferences and fetishism.

  • @Knightfall182
    @Knightfall182 4 года назад +13

    Race Fetishizing is actually really gross. But there are some genuine people out there that see the person for who they are and not their color/features.

  • @PhoenixFeather09
    @PhoenixFeather09 4 года назад +313

    Is it weird that he reminds me of my fiance? I asked him how many black women has he dated and he told me 5 and I asked him has he dated any non black women and he said 1. Hmmmm......

    • @Studio-ch3qc
      @Studio-ch3qc 4 года назад +18

      Fetish sis

    • @roxilindaaa
      @roxilindaaa 4 года назад +274

      Not a fetish that's his preference. He put a ring on it.

    • @crazyafrobaby2013
      @crazyafrobaby2013 4 года назад +66

      @@roxilindaaa just coz someone marries their fetish doesnt mean it doesnt exist

    • @drethethinker6418
      @drethethinker6418 4 года назад +108

      The difference between a fetish and a preference is obsession. I know a black woman obsessed with black men, who they date, how they look, etc. I felt just as icky listening to her talk about black men as I would a white woman talking about black men. Its objectifying. Meanwhile, I know brothers who just prefer black women because it's just convenient.

    • @contessamariposa1734
      @contessamariposa1734 4 года назад +169

      Black women are the only women who think a man has a fetish if he prefers to only date black women. Stop thinking you’re not worthy.

  • @nileyfan1998
    @nileyfan1998 4 года назад +18

    It's funny cause mark Paul (the guy) actually had a long term relationship with Lisa from saved by the Bell for 3+ years. Most people didn't believe it or couldn't phantom. Dunno why....

    • @markilew250
      @markilew250 4 года назад +6

      I am right there and agree with you! I don't get it either why people find that hard to believe or can't phantom it! Heck when they first started on Good Morning Bliss, this was before Mario, Elizabeth and Tiffani came on as part of SBTB. So, he and Lark already began their connection and bonding. Plus, at the time they had both of their mothers mainly involved in their upbringing and careers. While the rest had both of their parents, so as life goes, on thing leads to another.
      I don't think either one of them ever thought about race like, 'Well, I think I want to date a black girl and since Lark is black, I'll go with her.' Or 'I really want to date a white dude, so I'll go on and date Mark-Paul.' They were like 13 when they did GMB and were innocent. It was something that grew in after being around each other for a while. I mean heck, they pretty much grew up in front of the cameras!

    • @ranip7644
      @ranip7644 4 года назад +2

      Probably because it was during a time that race mixing wasn't that common or accepted.

    • @nileyfan1998
      @nileyfan1998 4 года назад +3

      @@markilew250 yes yes yes! To all of that ❤️ when your a celebrity (especially young ) it's easy to find a connection with someone on the same show, same age and knows what your going through...people thought mark would date Kelly/Jessie because they were the tall and beautiful ones - but discarded lark like it's nothing it's sad.
      I kinda laugh when I watch SBTB though cause in every scene they are in together you can SEE they are dating and they look at each other more so then everyone else. So I dunno how people were that shocked. It's obvious...

    • @markilew250
      @markilew250 4 года назад +2

      @@nileyfan1998 And to you as well on ALL of That! Yes, yes, yes! I noticed the exact same thing! When you watch SBTB it is so obvious and you can see they were dating! I lost count on how many times they were hugging or kissing each other on the cheek. It was as if MP was trying let Lark know, although in my character as Zack has to have these different girlfriends, you are my number one.
      Aside from Bayside Triangle. Episodes of Jesse's Dad's Wedding, Mystery Weekend, Zack's Operation, and Home for Christmas all show some very telling scenes between the two of them!

    • @markilew250
      @markilew250 4 года назад +3

      @@nileyfan1998 And I forgot to add MP himself earlier this year (without saying her name) in an interview even said so. He mentioned how when you are a teenager and on a show like SBTB and you are with a cast like that of these beautiful women within 6-9 mos in the year obviously something was going to happen. Meaning a young man his age was obviously going to get with one of them. He didn't even focus nor dated any of the female guest stars because he was more in this bubble of being attached to the cast member he was dating on the show. All of the media prefers to jump into this whole he revealed he dated Elizabeth but I heard that interview and it was one of the interviewers who mentioned Elizabeth NOT MP! He was just trying to be polite and said 'yeah' but he was about to say something else until he was cut off!
      Anyway, in another interview also earlier this year he expressed how they were having fun with each other on the set of SBTB and how what he MAINLY remembers fondly were times outside of the set of the show he said "environment" which I think he was trying to carefully choose his words. And places like in Hawaii and Palm Springs, all of those times was when he was with Lark not Tiffani or Elizabeth! And he said these words 3x in that interview too: good times. This is what he remembered! Not the script or episodes but what was going on in his life at that time!

  • @samiapple9889
    @samiapple9889 4 года назад +19

    This is funny cuz the dad is Zach from saved by the bell and he dated Lisa turtle in real life (who was literally the only black girl in the show)

    • @KrisBryant99
      @KrisBryant99 Год назад

      They didn't date. That was just a rumor. He went out with both Thiessen and Berkeley but not Voorhees. They dated on the show briefly though.

    • @samiapple9889
      @samiapple9889 Год назад +3

      @@KrisBryant99 he's literally confirmed multiple times that he dated Lark and that he actually dated her for the longest stretch of time out of all three of the girls in the show

    • @KrisBryant99
      @KrisBryant99 Год назад +2

      @@samiapple9889 ohhhhh I see now and thanks!!!! ❤️

  • @imtiredoftheseniggas6618
    @imtiredoftheseniggas6618 4 года назад +5

    Get your Swirl on Black Woman don’t let these scare tactics prevent you from dating out. It’s not a fetish if a non -black man have interests in you. If that’s the case then we all have fetishes. Period.

  • @ashleighadams1842
    @ashleighadams1842 4 года назад +20

    You’re attracted to who you’re attracted to - in most cases, you can’t help it, and that’s the point. As long as you treat that person with love and respect, I don’t see why this matters...🤷🏻‍♀️

  • @wintergreen7951
    @wintergreen7951 4 года назад +78

    “Zac Morris is trash” lol.

  • @senorstyx3011
    @senorstyx3011 4 года назад +48

    He has a thing for black women, this is not a issue.

  • @passiveagressive4983
    @passiveagressive4983 3 года назад +6

    So what, some guys prefer other races to date? It’s not a fetish it’s a preference. End of

  • @madisonlewe1057
    @madisonlewe1057 4 года назад +8

    There’s a difference between a fetish and a preference

  • @c-light7624
    @c-light7624 4 года назад +31

    “Unconventional taste in women”...

  • @leval1000
    @leval1000 4 года назад +20

    Funny thing is, Mark did date a beautiful black girl, Lark Voorhies during the Saved by the Bell days!

  • @treyonay
    @treyonay 4 года назад +18

    Idk about this .. Theyve been married 15 years and have 3 children together, so ???? Whats happening?

    • @sebsignat8286
      @sebsignat8286 4 года назад +1

      She's remember to have the talk AFTER the fact

    • @davidharris9395
      @davidharris9395 4 месяца назад

      Exactly. These type of questions are irrelevant and asinine, and they just create problems.

  • @vlpinfinity9448
    @vlpinfinity9448 4 года назад +20

    Being someone's kink. What a terrible feeling.

    • @t_sizzler_2032
      @t_sizzler_2032 4 года назад +2

      You don't like the person per se. You like the idea of the person. We all have preferences, but when you eliminate preferences, it leaves you with the non-superficial characteristics of a person, aka their personality.

  • @carajay1851
    @carajay1851 4 года назад +36

    I'm mixed raced and my partner is white. As long as he loves me I really dont give a dam. Our daughter is happy and our 2nd on the way, it just shows me how happy we are. He supports everything about me. He truly looks after his family. If that's hes fetish then fair play on him. 😍😘

    • @cocodragonblazedtea7803
      @cocodragonblazedtea7803 3 года назад +3

      Don't worry it's not a fetish or wrong it's not weird to prefer one race as long as you don't hate the other

    • @otakonlover10
      @otakonlover10 2 года назад

      "Mixed" also white

  • @Delena00
    @Delena00 4 года назад +29

    Did he forget about Lisa Turtle?

  • @DePiagetfan
    @DePiagetfan 4 года назад +35

    He was with Ginny Baker at one point, they almost kissed.

    • @SF-op5ix
      @SF-op5ix 4 года назад +3

      DePiagetfan LOL. Still sad they cancelled that show!

    • @LoveWhales4life
      @LoveWhales4life 4 года назад +3

      The fact they canceled that show😪

    • @chisomo3118
      @chisomo3118 3 года назад

      I’m saying 😭😭

  • @ang5035
    @ang5035 4 года назад +6

    Fetishizing someone can be an issue - if they don’t love the person for who they are but what they represent - white supremacists are marrying more and more Asian women - it is no accident.

    • @gwailou5
      @gwailou5 3 года назад +1

      That's very true

  • @Lauren.E.O
    @Lauren.E.O 4 года назад +21

    This is the first time they’re bringing their relationship histories up? Were they just high all that time in the commune?

    • @NewBlueTrue
      @NewBlueTrue 4 года назад

      Lauren O But this is a TV show. It’s not necessarily suppose to be an accurate depiction of a real life interracial relationship. The episode has a story it wants to tell and this scene was put in to carry along the plot.
      Yeah, they could have talked about this before, but that wouldn’t have been as entertaining as the viewers being able to watch this interaction unfold in “real time”

    • @Lauren.E.O
      @Lauren.E.O 4 года назад +2

      NewBlueTrue Yeah, I got that. It just seems ridiculous in general that a relationship over a decade old would leave such an obvious question untouched.

    • @NewBlueTrue
      @NewBlueTrue 4 года назад +3

      Lauren O You’ve got a point

  • @SurahOnline
    @SurahOnline 4 года назад +5

    *How have they been married 15 years and she NEVER asked him that before ????? Weird*

  • @markilew250
    @markilew250 4 года назад +66

    I kind of find this a semi-autobiographical for Paul (Mark-Paul) aka Zack Morris because It's no secret about him and Lark aka Lisa Turtle regardless of what she claims to deny it. In this scene, they did say he dated two white girls in high school: Tiffani-Kelly and Elizabeth-Jesse, anybody?
    Anyway, then starting by Truth Be Told-Mixedish, this actor suddenly seems to be doing shows that are black-themed in some way. And in Pitch it was his character and Kylie's character Ginny (obvious mutual attraction), then The Passage, he becomes like this protective father-figure to a little black girl, and now we got Mixed-ish with an actress for years people felt she favored Lark Voorhies!
    Connect-the-dots peeps!

    • @shazzam3211
      @shazzam3211 4 года назад +10

      Illuminati confirmed. Lol

    • @island_girl_shan
      @island_girl_shan 4 года назад +3

      I was just about to comment that they kinda look alike

    • @notthefather3919
      @notthefather3919 4 года назад +4

      You do know Saved by the Bell is FICTIONAL, right?

    • @markilew250
      @markilew250 4 года назад +6

      @@notthefather3919 Yes, SBTB is fictional but the people who played them all admitted that they dated, expect Dustin. Well, and Lark denies dating Mark-Paul but that is a whole other story there. Obviously what was shown on the show of their characters is what was fictional. MP was never that deep into Tiffani like their characters Zack & Kelly. Mario was never that deep into Elizabeth as their characters were as AC & Jesse. Lark was never that superficial and into fashion as her character was as Lisa Turtle.
      And plus, MP has for years shared how much his hair was not actually blonde like Zack Morris. He is actually a brunette although when he was a small child it did start of as blonde but due to his mother being Asian or part-Asian (which no one is really sure how deep her Asian bloodline is) as he got older became darker. Plus if anyone looks closely to some of those SBTB episodes it is clear that he naturally has dark roots anyways.

    • @notthefather3919
      @notthefather3919 4 года назад +3

      Uhh, you're talking about Mark-Pauls portrayl in this scene semi-autobiographical, and used fictional characters as examples. What his character, Zach Morris did, is not autobiographical.
      No, they didn't admit to all date. You're talking about Dustin Diamonds book, which they all didn't agree with and called trash.
      Like seriously.

  • @hiyahiy
    @hiyahiy 4 года назад +77

    This show is hilarious wish it were an hour sitcom

  • @zaidagrace2263
    @zaidagrace2263 4 года назад +9

    Men should never answer this question.

  • @jadeorien
    @jadeorien 3 года назад +7

    See scenes like this is what makes the show corny. Why does it matter how many black women he's been with before you? While watching this im constantly rolling my eyes.🙄🤣

  • @SandraSoapbox
    @SandraSoapbox 4 года назад +35

    Now it got me curious about Robert De Niro!

    • @JMac7395
      @JMac7395 4 года назад +21

      Well Robert De Niro's first & second wife are Black. But I don't think it's a fetish. He just fell crazy in love with them

    • @biancachi6435
      @biancachi6435 4 года назад +10

      He only dates black women

    • @imtiredoftheseniggas6618
      @imtiredoftheseniggas6618 4 года назад +11

      He likes Black women and so do most Italian. Stop

    • @sierrajohnson7300
      @sierrajohnson7300 4 года назад +5

      Robert De Niro LOVE black women!!!

    • @Love25648
      @Love25648 4 года назад +5

      I’m tired of these niggas are you delusional? Most Italians don’t love black women

  • @anyways3114
    @anyways3114 3 года назад +7

    Why a fetish? He has a type so what

  • @Daleylife
    @Daleylife 4 года назад +7

    They went 15 years without ever discussing this? Um....

  • @simonl2072
    @simonl2072 4 года назад +21

    As a white Englishman who fell in love with a Turks and Caicos girl I find this offensive. My pale never seen the sun white skin and her dark afro-carribean skin meant nothing to us. She was her and I was me. Other people noticed it so much more. Also, I have dated in the past different races including white and at no point was skin a factor in being with these girls.

    • @saira9632
      @saira9632 2 года назад

      no one asked, ur probs racist

    • @Moitie-Bae
      @Moitie-Bae 2 года назад +1

      A hit dog will holler

  • @saraharias2022
    @saraharias2022 4 года назад +10

    In black ish he had a license plate say “BLK WFE” in the episode where Bow and Dré renew their vows and have a wedding. Same episode he keeps checking out black women and the wife says ...”Hey you already have a black wife. Originally fetish means sexual preference so he probably has a preference for women of color. He doesn’t discriminate because he “doesn’t see color” but maybe he was worried that she other people would take it the wrong way if it came off as he only loves women of color

  • @jimgessner6071
    @jimgessner6071 4 года назад +3

    After all those other women, and 15 years married, you’d have to call it a preference. On a side note, he’s part Asian. Maybe not the character, but I thought it was cool, for obvious reasons, that they cast a mixed•ish guy to play the husband.

  • @youjustgotburned3980
    @youjustgotburned3980 2 года назад +3

    15 years and they STILL didn't have this discussion. It's almost like they just met
    🤣😂This sh*t is awkward as hell

    • @KrisBryant99
      @KrisBryant99 6 месяцев назад

      Right and probably means he shouldn't had got with her to begin with 😅

  • @Obi-Wan_Kenobi
    @Obi-Wan_Kenobi 3 года назад +9

    This is weird on like 3 different levels.
    1. Just because a white person in in love with a black person, it doesn't mean that he has a fetish. In fact, it's kind of insulting to think that's the only reason someone would love someone of another race. And for the record, having a type is not the same thing as having a fetish.
    2. It makes no sense why they are talking about this *15 years* into their relationship. You can't honestly expect be to believe the wife thinks those last 15 years are nothing more than a product of a fetish.
    3. This is the 1980's. I'm pretty sure most the vast majority of everyday people had no idea what a fetish was. This show is really weird about taking modern day concepts and imposing them on what was happening 40 years earlier. You can't expect people living in the 80's to have the same thought process and sociological vocabulary as you do today, that's just not an accurate portrayal of that time.

  • @WhatAWonderfulWorld808
    @WhatAWonderfulWorld808 4 года назад +3

    There was Brenda, LaTisha, Linda, Felicia, Dawn, LeShaun, Ines, and Alicia, Teresa, Monica, Sharron, Nicki, Lisa, Veronica, Karen, Vicky,
    Cookies, well I met her in a ice cream parlor, Tonya, Diane, Lori and Carla, Marina, Selena, Katrina, Sabrina, about three Kim's, LaToya, and Tina, Shelley, Bridget, Cavi, Rasheeda, Kelly, Nicole, Angel, Juanita, Stacy, Tracie, Rohna, and Ronda, Donna, Ulanda, Tawana, and Wanda.

  • @stormyuwu1287
    @stormyuwu1287 4 года назад +3

    The spooky part here is that the people arguing against interracial = fetishization, tryna be " woke" are in the same breath of air telling black women they should be happy at being dehumanized.
    Like hard pass baby girl, i'd rather be celibate.

  • @paular3822
    @paular3822 4 года назад +4

    A fetish? Just because he likes women with darker skin? My God you Americans are so dramatic

  • @Frontdesk_tragedy
    @Frontdesk_tragedy 4 года назад +11

    oh wow my white husband whom I married 15 years ago and have THREE children with...might have a thing for Black Women.....huh. Somebody call Nancy Drew, Alicia is coming for her gig.

    • @metsrus
      @metsrus 3 года назад

      and you know you can't resist the BBC.

    • @Frontdesk_tragedy
      @Frontdesk_tragedy 3 года назад +1

      @@metsrus he is white, he doesn't have a BBC

  • @zainhottson7393
    @zainhottson7393 4 года назад +4

    Well, I'm a black man and I have a thing for dark dark skin black women. And i would call mine a fetish.

  • @charlesburris6314
    @charlesburris6314 4 года назад +5

    Terrible. I have a fetish for the qualities of the woman, including character, intellect, humor, creativity, sensuality, etc. Her race has no bearing, other than the understanding of her background and culture.
    Too bad so many people are coupling out of fetishes rather than real appreciation and love.

  • @ploodohplanit8259
    @ploodohplanit8259 3 месяца назад +1

    The Robert De Niro line is kinda offensive, “unconventional taste in women” like being a black woman is “unconventional.” Can we not exist?

  • @Mcelly58
    @Mcelly58 3 года назад +3

    It’s not a fetish it’s a preference

  • @cjisrael901
    @cjisrael901 4 года назад +1

    Yes, I thought of the problems of this conversation right when I saw the title... but the scene was so amazingly acted I forgot about it... LMAO "Around elev...mmmm wait...maybe zero.."

  • @Sabrina-rw3zq
    @Sabrina-rw3zq 4 года назад +48

    This show is annoying and unrealistic to me, and i’m mixed.

    • @Obi-Wan_Kenobi
      @Obi-Wan_Kenobi 3 года назад +1

      @Si Yeh LeTre LEADER OF ADOS MEN Or maybe a fictional tv show isn't an accurate representation of reality. And you should stop presuming to know the life of an *actual* mixed person and then telling that *actual* person how sheltered their life is (which you know nothing about) in an effort to defend a show about *fictitious* mixed characters.

  • @honeyisnatural5
    @honeyisnatural5 5 месяцев назад +1

    “ tonight we explore Robert de niro’s unconventional taste in women”😂😂😂😂

  • @cocodragonblazedtea7803
    @cocodragonblazedtea7803 3 года назад +1

    Out of dre and rainbow compared to these two
    I love this two wayyyyy more they are plain adorable!

  • @AmandaaRose
    @AmandaaRose 4 года назад +30

    Okay this was funny haha

  • @BooksInTheVoid
    @BooksInTheVoid 3 года назад +4

    I knew Zack Morris would end up with Lisa.

  • @amatullahsaafir685
    @amatullahsaafir685 4 года назад +3

    This is a reach. People have preferences. That is allowed. If he prefers black women then so be it. It's a preference not a fetish. Calling it a fetish is what is insulting if anything is. Some men prefer full women, some prefer super skinny. I say marry your preference, whatever it is.

  • @ayea28
    @ayea28 3 года назад +1

    I don't think this situation is a great example, but I had a friend with a black girl fetish. I wanted to believe it was a "preference" but when he told me he had a fleshlight that was also...black...that kinda made it hard for me to believe.

  • @autumnfranklin6790
    @autumnfranklin6790 4 года назад +5

    So was no one gonna tell me this was Zack Morris or was I supposed to find this out from a video about dating fetishes myself?

  • @diwi5823
    @diwi5823 4 года назад +3

    Chile Zack Morris has had a thing for Black girls in real life since Lark Voorhies played Lisa Turtle 💅🏽

  • @antliveyabish9555
    @antliveyabish9555 4 года назад +13

    Let's just watch foxy brown😂😂😂😂😂😂

  • @honeyisnatural5
    @honeyisnatural5 5 месяцев назад

    Hold on. I literally prayed for this growing up watching saved by the bell. dreams do come true. The only white man I’ve ever loved! 😂❤

  • @ClaireHaire
    @ClaireHaire 4 года назад +1

    I don’t know my husbands “number “ and he doesn’t know mine. We both get tested on the regular , this does nothing but, create problems.

  • @jamaulmoore
    @jamaulmoore Год назад +1

    My grandaprents were an interracial couple, white and black, so people questioning why a nonblack person is dating someone outside their race sounds pretty ignorant.

  • @rachzainhass
    @rachzainhass 4 года назад +3

    The only thing that could get old with the stale is him having to apologise for being white with his speech essence and just whole being. He always looks afraid of everything

    • @lha7735
      @lha7735 3 года назад

      Well the show demonizes white people all the time ....he also turns that hate inwards

  • @MarisolGonzalez-yw3ef
    @MarisolGonzalez-yw3ef 4 года назад +5

    Wait.... Is that Zack from Saved by the Bell?!!

  • @amadi5x5
    @amadi5x5 4 года назад +2

    That is usually what I say before I sign off social media/TV. "You know what, let's just read."☠ Conversations to have before you get married. 🙄 I bet someone "observed" he has "a type" and just happened to tell her what they thought. Or brought up somehow in girly banters/conversations. Instant Drama, Voilá!

  • @nadiajupiter8340
    @nadiajupiter8340 4 года назад +5

    Zach and Lisa were my OTP

  • @auggie5097
    @auggie5097 3 года назад +3

    This feels like an SJW forced episode.. its only fetishing if they don't intend on being serious. He's MARRIED to her.

  • @sefutho
    @sefutho 2 года назад

    That question is totally unfair.

  • @happyninja42
    @happyninja42 3 года назад +1

    So yeah, he's been married to her for 15 years I think they said, and this is somehow a problem? I mean, don't you WANT your partner to have a fetish that matches up to you? I mean shit, I have a thing for tall women with dark hair, and guess what? My wife is a tall woman with dark hair! Odd how that works out huh? We hook up with the people we are aroused by. Shocking.
    I seriously don't get why this is some kind of suspicious thing, given the limited context of this clip.

  • @bobbybrown1389
    @bobbybrown1389 4 года назад +3

    Because fetish and preference are so close we get them confused and you can't put a blanket statement on everyone reason for being with a black person so that cones with conversation and questioning
    And when did dating a black woman boil down to he has no choice??

  • @alextroy9202
    @alextroy9202 4 года назад +1

    Meanwhile black men can marry nonblack women without having conversations like this they don’t seem to care

  • @lovettuduebor1902
    @lovettuduebor1902 4 года назад +30

    Why does it matter if he love you?

    • @daniellejackson5439
      @daniellejackson5439 4 года назад +3

      Yeah because him having a fetish for black woman is not a bad thing, seriously it matters alot

    • @imtiredoftheseniggas6618
      @imtiredoftheseniggas6618 4 года назад +4

      Danielle Jackson it’s not a fetish though. Stop throwing that word around so loosely. He just have a preference for black women.

    • @imtiredoftheseniggas6618
      @imtiredoftheseniggas6618 4 года назад +5

      Danielle Jackson so when black women say they like “big black dick” that’s not a fetish? Or when black men date non-black women that’s not a fetish. But all of sudden a white man is with a Black woman it’s a fucking fetish. Stop with the be

    • @jdhdhsjejeke2888
      @jdhdhsjejeke2888 4 года назад +1

      Missing the point

    • @lovettuduebor1902
      @lovettuduebor1902 4 года назад +1

      I’m tired of these niggas I was going to respond the same exact way.

  • @LeAlejx
    @LeAlejx 2 года назад +2

    They've been married for 15 years and NOW she asks?
    Women

  • @kaylad4486
    @kaylad4486 3 года назад +2

    I hate this take so much as a Black woman. It's insulting.

  • @leena-maarettadixon5448
    @leena-maarettadixon5448 4 года назад +2

    I've had this conversation with both an ex and current S.O. Does sometimes feel like you are in a bear trap 😄

  • @shantawinzer1214
    @shantawinzer1214 4 года назад +5

    Love it!

  • @HarpersInfiniteSystems
    @HarpersInfiniteSystems 4 года назад +1

    I mean, one of his first girlfriends was Lisa Tuttle, so there's at least one!

  • @candyapu3
    @candyapu3 4 года назад +1

    Can someone explain to me what makes attraction become a racial fetish vs simply attraction? I’m honestly confused. I’ve increasingly heard accusations.

  • @Zero8880
    @Zero8880 3 года назад +1

    It all started with Lisa Turtle, can't blame the man for that.

  • @MrMagistralMalik
    @MrMagistralMalik 11 месяцев назад +2

    I mean, I would give Paul all of my black women admirers who would be crushing on me any moment.

    • @Nubiandesert
      @Nubiandesert 10 месяцев назад +1

      Niggas like you are an embarrassment