From a counseling and communication point of view this is brilliant. Not only does it inject humor into a situation but also forces everyone involved to really think about what they're going to say if they're going to use proper old English grammar. Love this, going to use this in my counseling job!!!
If only more people actually understood how to speak in Elizabethan English (believe me, actual Old English is a completely different language), maybe it would work.
@@Caitydid561 even if what they’re saying isn’t entirely accurate, wouldn’t attempting to do this anyways have a similar impact as long as it’s not incomprehensible?
Ngl depending on what kind of mood I was in I would either find this hilarious or rage-inducing, especially if I was genuinely angry and he's talking to me like he's Prince Charming from Shrek. 😂
If it was a *serious* argument over something very important to the relationship I imagine this would be difficult, but for smaller things like “ayo I could’ve paid for ur nails :
@@clutterbot7279 Yeah obviously this method is probably better for the small petty stuff becuase that stuff should never be taken seriously, but serious and important conversations should be had in the best way for the couple
My husband and I started fighting the other person’s side of the argument for them. It’s so weird because you don’t believe anything you’re saying, and you know the other person doesn’t believe anything they are saying, but it opens you up to start to see the other person’s point of you because the words are coming out of your mouth and it also makes you feel super heard because other person is saying exactly what you want to say to them. 😂 it’s such a trip. Like it drives me crazy when my husband tailgates people but he doesn’t think he is. So I’ll say, “Why the heck is this guy driving so slow?? Take the paint off his bumper. Really teach him a lesson.” And then he will roll his eyes and say, “Ok road rage. It’s fine he’s going a normal speed.” Or before a trip I will be like, “This is so nice. This is one of those trips where we don’t have anything to prepare for. Like there’s a literally so little to do!” And then my husband will be like, “Are you kidding me?? We literally have so much to do! We are going to be up until midnight packing for sure.” And the best part is I can ask him. “Oh yeah, like what do we have to do?” And because he doesn’t have any idea so he just has to make stuff up on the spot. 😂 “We have to wash the dishes and do every load of laundry in the house and wash the car and wash the cat.” Like we don’t even have a cat, but it cracks me up every time. And I start to believe maybe we actually don’t have to do that much, and it gets him thinking about what we do have to do. It works!
Wash the cat!!! 😂😂😂😂 My husband and I just started this Old English stuff and I was cracking up. But I might have to suggest we try the other side too! ❤
This is so cute and genius! It both de-escalates and raises understanding and empathy on both sides. I'll suggest to my fiance to give it a go sometime!
Everyone is praising the idea but no one mentioned that they're arguing bc he wants to pay for her nails done and doesnt want her to pay 😭😭 made me realize I deserve more.
Why does it also sound like they’re being a lot more direct with their feelings this way while a normal argument would take 20 minutes to have the conversation they just had in 1 😂
Honestly, I can imagine the normal english version and how it could get really heated. This could really work to say what you need to say, thoughtfully, but ego is checked at the door 😂
Please make this a series😂😂 funny conflict resolution for couples. Common ones like.. leaving toilet seat up, squeezing toothpaste weirdly, not ordering takeout for one person, leaving dishes in sink, trash days, not putting laundry in basket.
The Toothpaste Solution: Buy a tube of toothpaste for each person. This saves lives. And when your partner’s gets low just go ahead and have another ready so they are not tempted to use yours.
This made me laugh so hard and also be thankful that there are lovely, fun people like you out in the world, wishing you both the very best because that was just awesome 😂😂
This is oddly sweet and wholesome. Not only is it a fantastic way to add humor, but what they're actually arguing about show so much care on both sides. Well done, good sir and good lady. 👏
So cute, and effective! 😃 Reminds me of something Uyen Ninh and German Boyfriend might do, that level of wholesomeness and creative humor. Subscribed! 😊
If I don't have this type of relationship in the future, I don't want it 😭. You two are so cute! May thou be bestowed graciously with the gift of imperishable prosperity!!
This is 😂❤ but also technically this is modern English. It’s shakespearian and a bit mad. But actual Old English is very different. Check out Beowulf, an old English poem.
This is actually very smart, as using vernacular and parlance that it uncommon to both parties that they have to think about what they’re saying and how they’re saying it. It *can* help with avoiding miscommunications based on assumptions and misunderstandings. Both of them also did it the right way: “this is what you did, and this is what it made me feel. This is how I see the situation.” They both were honest and neither took offense. *So* man arguments can be prevented by those two things alone.
all jokes aside this is a genuinely good concept. it lets both sides think about they’re gonna say when they translate it to old english, preventing speaking without thinking and possibly making the situation worse
Haha. Though if you want to be technical, this early modern English. Actual old English sounds like a completely different language. I used to have an English teacher who knew how to speak it. Loved the video btw.
@SL-lz9jr Because Chaucer is written in a type of English, we no longer use called Middle English. It was spoken from the Norman Conquest in 1066 to about 1500. That's why it's so difficult to read. I never had issues with Shakespeare, I loved Shakespeare, but I was bored because we kept doing Macbeth. But everyone has things they are good at.
I mean, they put the old English in quotation marks and also didn’t capitalize the ‘Old’. So they could mean it’s just old english with old being an adjective and not Old English.
😳❕ doesn't the argument normally go the other way? He would be angry because she _didn't_ foot the bill herself and expected _him_ to pay to have a manicure (or whatever "frivolous" thing)? 🤔🤷
Here is why good grace and etiquette is essential to both manners and thy keeping - for, on the focus of what one says - and the politeness with which it is conveyed - diffuses anger, and thus allows for a gentler conversation Though it is not at all for brevity
“I sought only to preserve your purse.” 😂
"I don't even have a -" 😂
@@chickadee1607 Coinpurse. d(Ow O
Definitely has a coin purse. A purse never meant just a woman's bag. She should have replied : "Thy ignorance is unacceptable" 🫠
not the "man cannot live on bread alone" 😂😂😂
Flashback to me in Catholic school as a kid 😂😂😂
Babe 😂
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The only couples argument I wish to see on the Internet😂
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Marriage therapists need to use this kind of role play with their troubled clinets. It may solve more problems!
A hearty chuckle is oftentimes the most Potent Tonic for what ails thee, particularly in matters of the heart.
You may be onto something lol! God bless you in the name of Jesus Christ, who is the name above all names & the only way to Heaven❤😊
Oh God but imagine 2 theater actors doing this and they go on for like 10 minutes 😂
Each session ends with partners saying to each other “I have you to feast on” then a 😉
@@PridelessChickz Calm down. We don't need a sermon.
From a counseling and communication point of view this is brilliant. Not only does it inject humor into a situation but also forces everyone involved to really think about what they're going to say if they're going to use proper old English grammar. Love this, going to use this in my counseling job!!!
If only more people actually understood how to speak in Elizabethan English (believe me, actual Old English is a completely different language), maybe it would work.
@@Caitydid561 even if what they’re saying isn’t entirely accurate, wouldn’t attempting to do this anyways have a similar impact as long as it’s not incomprehensible?
“ I also have you to feast on” that did me in 🤣🤣
the exaggerated wink afterwards was what got me
@@Meganeura_monyi1218 yeah! 💀
High key Bridgerton coded.
That smooth operator! Oh my!
Her amazed gasp is what did it for me 😂
"man cannot live on bread alone... babe" 😭
This couple is SO WHOLESOME
you just KNOW they love each other so much😭
This is what I imagine Bridgerton is
It is exactly that😂🔥
@@angel1np1nk69I need to watch it then 🔥
Lmfao
This is better 😂😂😂😂
The lady, she is kind and thoughtful. Beautiful, and charitable, clever with finances. May you two enjoy a blessed union!
I cannot express how happy this his makes mine heart. Many blessings upon your household!
The thoroughly Exact same Sentiments to me! ❤
Ngl depending on what kind of mood I was in I would either find this hilarious or rage-inducing, especially if I was genuinely angry and he's talking to me like he's Prince Charming from Shrek. 😂
Same lmao. There are two wolves inside us xD.
Yall same but I had anxiety for a second and this was funny
Okay but you gotta talk like lady Macbeth so it's kinda even
If it was a *serious* argument over something very important to the relationship I imagine this would be difficult, but for smaller things like “ayo I could’ve paid for ur nails :
@@clutterbot7279
Yeah obviously this method is probably better for the small petty stuff becuase that stuff should never be taken seriously, but serious and important conversations should be had in the best way for the couple
My husband and I started fighting the other person’s side of the argument for them. It’s so weird because you don’t believe anything you’re saying, and you know the other person doesn’t believe anything they are saying, but it opens you up to start to see the other person’s point of you because the words are coming out of your mouth and it also makes you feel super heard because other person is saying exactly what you want to say to them. 😂 it’s such a trip.
Like it drives me crazy when my husband tailgates people but he doesn’t think he is. So I’ll say, “Why the heck is this guy driving so slow?? Take the paint off his bumper. Really teach him a lesson.” And then he will roll his eyes and say, “Ok road rage. It’s fine he’s going a normal speed.”
Or before a trip I will be like, “This is so nice. This is one of those trips where we don’t have anything to prepare for. Like there’s a literally so little to do!” And then my husband will be like, “Are you kidding me?? We literally have so much to do! We are going to be up until midnight packing for sure.” And the best part is I can ask him. “Oh yeah, like what do we have to do?” And because he doesn’t have any idea so he just has to make stuff up on the spot. 😂 “We have to wash the dishes and do every load of laundry in the house and wash the car and wash the cat.”
Like we don’t even have a cat, but it cracks me up every time. And I start to believe maybe we actually don’t have to do that much, and it gets him thinking about what we do have to do. It works!
This is genius!
Wash the cat!!! 😂😂😂😂
My husband and I just started this Old English stuff and I was cracking up.
But I might have to suggest we try the other side too! ❤
This is so cute and genius! It both de-escalates and raises understanding and empathy on both sides. I'll suggest to my fiance to give it a go sometime!
“I also have you to feast on” 😏
*agressive wink*
😂😂😂
0:57 Spitting bars!!😂😂😂❤
Everyone is praising the idea but no one mentioned that they're arguing bc he wants to pay for her nails done and doesnt want her to pay 😭😭 made me realize I deserve more.
Why does it also sound like they’re being a lot more direct with their feelings this way while a normal argument would take 20 minutes to have the conversation they just had in 1 😂
"Man cannot live on bread alone, babe" fucking Sent Me 💀 💀💀
Honestly, I can imagine the normal english version and how it could get really heated. This could really work to say what you need to say, thoughtfully, but ego is checked at the door 😂
I had to share this! Everyone should resolve disagreements this way. Hilarious!
"I also have you to feast on" 😂😂😂
You guys are so funny. I want to see more videos were you speak like this 😂
Please make this a series😂😂 funny conflict resolution for couples. Common ones like.. leaving toilet seat up, squeezing toothpaste weirdly, not ordering takeout for one person, leaving dishes in sink, trash days, not putting laundry in basket.
Plus you’re too beautiful 😍
Finally someone who understands my toothpaste struggles
@@clutterbot7279 🤣🤣 we might fight if you don’t squeeze from the end. None of that middle stuff here.
Which one are you?🤭
The Toothpaste Solution: Buy a tube of toothpaste for each person. This saves lives. And when your partner’s gets low just go ahead and have another ready so they are not tempted to use yours.
@@Memkoh the correct way of course - squeeze that end! what kinda criminal squeezes the middle? (my husband apparently)
This pair, a model of matrimonial bliss. Truly.
Her giggles. 😂
“Hear ye, hear ye” freaking sends me every time 💀💀💀💀
The matching bonnets is everything.
They are really, really good at this! Wonder how much Shakespeare they have read?
Probably none considering they’re butchering “old sounding” words together and spamming thee, thou and thy
“I also have you to feast on 😉😏” Indeed, Sir Rizzler, indeed!
This made me laugh so hard and also be thankful that there are lovely, fun people like you out in the world, wishing you both the very best because that was just awesome 😂😂
"Pray forgive me" 😂😂😂
"I also have you to feast on" FERALLLL
You both have such delightful laughter. Relationship goals!
I could watch these all day 😂 thank you for the original, fun content!
This is the go to for every disagreement now
As a therapist I find this amazing and healthy practice to engage, real listen and see each other ❤ Externalization techniques are my favorite!
😂😂😂 they had me snickering had!
Sub for more 🤣
I love that this is what his issue with you is 😂 So sweet ❤
this is actually perfect for if you find yourself bickering over something unserious lol
Love this!!!! I shall share far and wide with mine colleagues! ❤😂
My husband and I started this. I haven’t giggled so hard at a text from my husband… ever 😂😂
This is so sweet and charming.
What a hilarious idea! I love it!
I love that you use the correct forms of thee/thy/thou.
This is oddly sweet and wholesome. Not only is it a fantastic way to add humor, but what they're actually arguing about show so much care on both sides. Well done, good sir and good lady. 👏
I love this skits 🖤
So cute, and effective! 😃 Reminds me of something Uyen Ninh and German Boyfriend might do, that level of wholesomeness and creative humor. Subscribed! 😊
"I delight in plain white bread as...refreshment."
If I don't have this type of relationship in the future, I don't want it 😭. You two are so cute! May thou be bestowed graciously with the gift of imperishable prosperity!!
Always find someone that can match your weirdness
You guys are absolutely comedy. This video just made my entire day. 😂❤
Oh gosh you guys are adorable
So cute and a great way to diffuse a possible argument. Can't be angry when you are laughing!
Verily, you two are too dang cute! 🥰
Bridgerton could NEVER
So. Freaking. ADORABLE! And also hilarious, lol. There is no way I could think up an old English reply fast enough to even properly argue 😂
Please make this into a series 😂 ❤
This is literally the cutest thing.
I don’t believe this because I don’t believe these two have ever had an argument about anything. They perfect together
This is 😂❤ but also technically this is modern English. It’s shakespearian and a bit mad. But actual Old English is very different. Check out Beowulf, an old English poem.
these are soooo entertaining! do more please♡ huzzah!
That is damn adorable! 😂☺️
I mean:
Thou art dastardly and wholly fair!
ERM AKTYUALLEEY! That's early modern english. Old english uses many words and grammar which we are not familiar with.
This is the cutest thing 🤣
Bro I laugh so hard, I choked in my own saliva. Like not joking, I literally had to sit up from lying down as I was choking on my own saliva. Worth it
Honestly, this makes sense. If you’re both embarrassed, you’re equally vulnerable, + the dialect makes you think harder about what you’ll say.
this is the most adorable fuss between a couple. I wish I knew them. they are so cute & fun. ❤
This is actually very smart, as using vernacular and parlance that it uncommon to both parties that they have to think about what they’re saying and how they’re saying it. It *can* help with avoiding miscommunications based on assumptions and misunderstandings.
Both of them also did it the right way: “this is what you did, and this is what it made me feel. This is how I see the situation.”
They both were honest and neither took offense. *So* man arguments can be prevented by those two things alone.
Thy charizzma be through the heavens!
You two are the cutest!!! 🥹
You two are an absolute delight.
Plain white bread is delicious, tho.
What a lovely elegance Middle Middle English adds to your communication
This is so wholesome
This is the healthiest thing I've seen ever. Y'all keep this relationship up
all jokes aside this is a genuinely good concept. it lets both sides think about they’re gonna say when they translate it to old english, preventing speaking without thinking and possibly making the situation worse
That's a very proper way to say "babe, I got money. Stop acting like we are poor"😂😂
This is the best way to diffuse and arguement
Not only did he say, "I gotchu, boo" he said, *I gotchu, boo*
I loved "preserve your purse" and "I have you to feast on." 😊
This is the ABSOLUTE CUTEST 😭❤️
This keeps reminding me of farquad asmr especially the "huzzah" 😂😂
Omg you both are adorable!!! Such a genius idea! 😁
Wholesome, thou art!!!
Literally me and my man after watching bridgerton 😭
This is the kind of silly gobbledegook I'd expect to see in Shakespeare lol
"man cannot live on bread alone, babe" is taking me OUT
This is a good way to organize thoughts.
You are my favorite couple. 😂 Relationship goals fr.
I absolutely love these! 😂❤
Marriage counselors are gonna be feasting on this one
Wow. They are so good at this!
You guys stoppppp this is so good that I pee laughing
Adorable ❤
Haha. Though if you want to be technical, this early modern English. Actual old English sounds like a completely different language. I used to have an English teacher who knew how to speak it. Loved the video btw.
I couldn't read Chaucer. I also couldn't read Shakespeare. What is English? Lol. I am but a failure.
@SL-lz9jr Because Chaucer is written in a type of English, we no longer use called Middle English. It was spoken from the Norman Conquest in 1066 to about 1500. That's why it's so difficult to read. I never had issues with Shakespeare, I loved Shakespeare, but I was bored because we kept doing Macbeth. But everyone has things they are good at.
It's not even fully early modern English, they slip at times.
It's hilarious though, so who cares.
@blueberryoatmeal4009 Well it's definitely not Old English let's put it that way.
I mean, they put the old English in quotation marks and also didn’t capitalize the ‘Old’. So they could mean it’s just old english with old being an adjective and not Old English.
I delight in plain white bread as a refreshment 😂
Oh this is quite delightful!❤
😳❕ doesn't the argument normally go the other way? He would be angry because she _didn't_ foot the bill herself and expected _him_ to pay to have a manicure (or whatever "frivolous" thing)? 🤔🤷
He's African. Most African men take pride in caring for their woman's every need.
Here is why good grace and etiquette is essential to both manners and thy keeping - for, on the focus of what one says - and the politeness with which it is conveyed - diffuses anger, and thus allows for a gentler conversation
Though it is not at all for brevity
you two are so cute ❤
Love this!!! ❤ I’ve also heard that arguing naked is another good one