Parents tell their adult child it's time to move out | What Would You Do? | WWYD
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- Опубликовано: 10 авг 2018
- A mother and father would like their 30-year-old son to move out and get a job. The son doesn't think he's a burden, but what will customers think?
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It's a very different situation for Asians. We'll be like.... Mum dad, we need to have a conversation, it's time for me to move out. Parents be like, what do you expect us to do with 10 rooms? Who's gonna make you soup?
Ray Mak
Exactly
omg yes i said i wanna move out next year to be independent n mum's like 'no you're not, you're staying right here' LOL
True
Same with brown parents omg
Yep
This is what would happen
I'm Filipino and 26 years old. Can't relate. My mother and father would be upset if I leave. 😂😂😂
Lmao true af
I'm a Filipino too.
Same in trinidad its the same
They don't care if we leave.
I’m Filipino as well and my parents actually want me to be the next owner of the house.
True for me but I’m white. My parents look like they are gonna have a heart attack if I even mention moving out
Asian parent's want their kids to stay at home as long as possible. To them it's not a burden, it's a great blessing.
As an Filipino Chinese man. That’s not true lol
But their kids don’t always want that
@@ryeblacas thats quite different from my filipino-chinese family; but its not true to some Asian families lol
Yess
We Africa too
My father kicked me out at 19. I will never do the same if I have children. If I have children I will be there for them no matter what.
then they act surprised when you put them in a shitty nursing home.
Oh right you will be there for them even when they turn 50
I got kicked out at 17, I'm 29 now.
@@toboabegunde4306 They'd never see me or my childrens faces if they put me with the trash at 19 lol.... can you imagine how disgustingly selfish one must be to just think you'll get away with that and still expect contact.... These people are delusional to the MAX.
@Suhan Das so is putting your child with the trash. Things have a way of balancing themselves out. That's not ''harsh'', that's life.
Can we do gender swap. I would like to see if people would say the same thing if it was a daughter getting kicked out.
Happywife Taylor IKR they should do a gender swap.. my dad is fine with me living with him as long as I need if I’m working and saving money and going to college
Right. I'm just wondering if people would tell the daughter she needs to be on her own too. I like to see if there would be a double standard.
Happywife Taylor yeah exactly..
This is based on real life. Google the name Michael Rotondo. FYI, he also has his own CHILD but obviously, he doesn't pay child support or anything at all because he can't even take care of himself.
que en Sooo!!! Are saying you wouldn't want a gender swap? I dont understand your comment.
I honestly wouldn’t get involved in that one, they’re all adults and it’s none of my business
Eff that you know how much CASH u can save at home? That should be the motivation not these boomer ass thinking we have train sets. I'll save 30 Gs soon enough. The rich do not pay rent remember that. Yeah u can get a roommate but they can be difficult to find and parent usually offer a cheap rent. Nothing wrong with it
These producers are very prejudiced against the young
@@TheOne-tl6nj True, but people also don't pay anything these days and things cost alot of money and people should know that as well. Just because you go to college doesn't mean anything. Now,you should do like myself and start somewhere and in a proffesion that you've to work your way up to make really good money but starting off and while you're getting that experience to move up. Then you're gonna struggle big time and it's easier said than done moving out on your own.Cell phone, car insurance,if you've a car note,gas for your car, rent, utilities,food for home and to eat while not at home. Health insurance etc etc and the list goes on and on and it gets expensive QUICKLY. It's actually really sad and PATHETIC that no jobs and especially these big corporations don't wanna pay a damn thing and they're all so greedy but then expect you to bust your ass and bend over backwards for them yet they won't do shit for you. All while making peanuts. Then everyone wants to give their 2 cents in and wonder why people can't afford things and why alot of people still live at home and alot of people even move back home because they find out how hard it's and they can't afford it on their own or with a dang roommate. Sad.... This country and the economy is so fucked up that I'm very shocked it hasn't crashed yet and you now also know why awesome people are homeless. Everyone now offers extremely low pay and it's hard to move up or find anything that starts off paying decent but everything is constantly going up up and up even higher making it harder everyday. I want someone to please tell me how that's supposed to work??? Oh,if you've kids then you're really screwed. Good luck with all that!!!
Good point.
@Turbo Turlet As soon as someone turns 18 they shouldn't be a kid. Let alone they are adults.
In my country, we live with parents through out life. The thing is when we get on to our feet, we start supporting em financially we pay the bills, the rent, the groceries and all other stuff just like they did for us when we were young. It is really nice. I mean you become financially stable and independent and still get love from parents. 😊
I'd steal everything and be like by bich and leaave
@@ismellliketunaimlockedinab9236 Why would you do that to your parents? They kept you with them, they cared about you. How can you even think like that?
Id like to do it to...
True...Living with your parents (while helping them also) doesn't mean you are not responsible and independent human being.
So your Parents had you as an insurance policy/investment for their futures? Yeah, sounds very loving
I've read a lot of the comments about different cultures wanting their kids to live with them forever. I'm American and have 2 teenage boys and I would love it if they would stay forever. I haven't lived with them as adults yet but I can't imagine not seeing them and taking care of them. It makes me happy. And I'm in a loving relationship with a wonderful man. I love caring for them all.
Bless ur heart
I sometimes think it would be cool if I was a billionaire. I would convert a mall into my own multi-generational and extended family compound. You can live with your entire family, but have more than enough room to avoid them whenever the need arise
I'm Greek and here it's the exact opposite. Even if you are 35 years old, if you tell your parents you want to move out they are like "WAAAAAAAAIT WHY? YOU DON'T LOVE US ANYMORE?"
Cat Sonia Είμαι μισή Έλληνιδα μισή Αφροαμερικανιδα και ισχύει 100%😂
Ελπιδα Ελπιδενια what?
@@christopherscott1913 if you didn't understand, she is speaking Greek.
Cat Sonia that was meant to ask what is being said.
@@christopherscott1913 ohh sorry. she is saying that she is half Greek and half black-american and what I'm saying is 100% true
Indian parents be like 'You're thirty and still living with us single! We want you to get married immediately and have your wife move in as well!'
Lmao
Exactly😂🤣
@@xtylishb4377 lmfao
@Usama Fayyaz Indian tradition have been like this
Patriarchy .
@@rohandutta9986 ohh fuck off with the patriarchy thing
Can’t relate to this. My aunt was 28 when she left my grandmas home and my grandma was crying when she left.
Aww💖
My grandpa cried when my parents left my dads hometown. Can relate 😭
As long as her tears simply meant "I'll miss you" WITHOUT imploring your aunt to stay, your grandma's response was reasonable in my book.
Thats your aunts life, what about you?
As Armenians, our parents wouldn't let us live in another house unless we're married lol
Yeah I can be married and I still wouldn’t be able to move out
My parents bought their first home at 26 (my age) in my town for $54,000 in 1997. That same home goes for $375,000 now. A 3 bed 2 bath. The median wage was $40,000 in 1997 and now its $46,000 in 2019. It's not that most of us are lazy, we just can't afford it.
@Usama Fayyaz Sweetie, you can't live off minimum wage.
Min wage full time is supposed to be enough to live on your own but I work 50 a week and it isn’t enough in cali
@@ripgoose27 get out of Cali
Ben Dover I live in the cat area in Cali and the prices here 2 mil + and $4000-$6000 for rent
kirisutegomen12 give me money to leave then.
honestly i dont see a problem with living with your parents,, as long as you have a job and/or going to college and your building yourself up, living with your parents is a good foundation to have. just dont act like a kid and do nothing and be lazy 24/7,, help them around the house or help them pay some bills
tori yes, this can actually save a good amount of money for you and them
Thats what I do, rent is too damn high and with going to school. Id rather pay my parents some rent and work on their cars for free
Exactly, I have just recently moved and I am 27, but I have double major in accounting and supply chain, am applying to MBA programs, studying for a certification exam for my job, helped out around the house a lot, and work full time and have been doing so while I lived with my parents.
Destiny Destiny I think if you're showing gratitude and have a job and are studying then it's more acceptable but when you're 30 year olds no degree no job and freeloads off their parents it's not the best thing to do.
Brandon i know, thats what i said in my comment
Video: 30 year old still lives with parents.
Me at 28: *nervous laughter* I'm in danger.
Same but I’m 25.
@Bulimic Diet no they win in contrast to people in their early twenties who have to pay their own rent etc, when those people living with their parents can save on their future by studying with less stress, they save money to buy their house instead of going into more debt like those who are kicked out by their "parents". They win by getting the unconditional love of their parents they deserve as their childs, when those young people who are thrown out are seen as guests who are unwelcome in their "parents" home. Those young people who live with their parents win at all costs.
@Obstratics lmao that's the dumbest shit i've ever heard
I'm in middle East, we live with our parents until marriage, when our parents gets old we have to buy a big house and start looking after them.❤️
You dont "have to"
In Asian countries, parents, as much as possible want their kids to live with them.
It’s always about family ties with us.
I Feel Like Yeezus bru
I Feel Like Yeezus he meant by Asian. Indians they tend live with family but that’s normally a big household with many bedrooms not tiny homes. He ain’t Chinese who eats dogs and fetuses
Don't make is sound all romantic because the ASIAN CHILDREN GIVES THEIR SALARY aka MONEY to their parents on the regular. It's either to help out with the bills or to help out the younger siblings or both. Nothing is FREE because if you think of it, the Asian children are practically paying the parents back for staying in the house and for staying with them. Also on average, Asian children are OBLIGATED to take care of their parents when the parents can't walk alone or wipe their own a s s anymore. Regardless if the Asian family is rich or poor or in the middle class. This is something that is EXPECTED from the Asian children and grandchildren. This is not very common from the USA or from non-Asian families.
They would HOPE that their youngsters would someday take care of them but they don't GUILT TRIP them to do it unlike the typical Asian families.
This is the reason why some Asians would move out when they're 18 or 21 and would break the tradition. It gives them a reason to be independent and not have the obligation to take care of the parents later on which is reasonable since they didn't really milk their parents until their 30 years old.
"And eating dogs" Less than 1% of the Asian population would eat dogs. Just like less than 1% of the Asian population works in the sex industry but go ahead, STEREOTYPE everybody! speaking of food, do you know that you eat FEET when you eat HOTDOGS? do you also know that you feed your dogs other dogs?
"published in 1990 by the Earth Island Journal.1
“The rendering plant floor is piled high with ‘raw product’. Thousands of dead dogs and cats; heads and hooves from cattle, sheep, pigs and horses; whole skunks; rats and raccoons - all waiting to be processed. “In the ninety degree heat, the piles of dead animals seem to have a life of their own as millions of maggots swarm over the carcasses." "food made to be fed to chickens, pigs, cattle - and dogs. Every day, hundreds of rendering plants across America ship thousands of pounds of this recycled rubbish to ranches, farms, feed lots - and pet food manufacturers."
system.na3.netsuite.com/core/media/media.nl?id=67159&c=460947&h=85ce93811a89d0d191c3&_xt=.pdf
"The National Hot Dog & Sausage Council (NHDSC) notes that hot dogs, whether regular, turkey, pork or beef, begin with "trimmings." A purposely-vague word, trimmings come in lots of shapes and sizes. According to the Food and Agriculture Organization of the United Nations (FAO): "The raw meat materials used for precooked-cooked products are lower-grade muscle trimmings, fatty tissues, head meat, animal feet, animal skin, blood, liver and other edible slaughter by-products."
gizmodo.com/how-hot-dogs-are-made-and-whats-actually-inside-1599811171
I Feel Like Yeezus In some cultures, dogs are considered livestock that can be slaughtered rather than pets, just like cows or chickens. Sickening, I know, but, in some countries, it's normal to eat dogs, just like it's normal to eat cows in the US.
Asians are like "whaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaat". We stay with our parents our whole lives.
Ikr😂😂😂😂
exactly what was I thinking
Swati Mohanty turkish people too. Until we get married ahhahshshsha
Spanish families can be like this too. Independence is encouraged in the men but in some families it’s considered disrespectful for daughters to even think about moving away if you’re not married.
I had dinner at my friend's last friday, After I came home,My mom served me dinner again because the former didn't count.
Me: I'm moving out.
Parents: Excuse me? How dare you disrespect me like this 😭
In this scenario, I’d only ask the people to quiet down while I eat my food, this is too trivial and personal to get involved. And my son could live with me FOREVER
As an Indian,I can never relate to this 😂😂 my parents will never let me move out until I get married.
Seriously i cant even relate
I know right!
@James Mathew - r/noshitsherlock. brown people don’t divorce unless the abuse is on the verge of murder. and once there’s kids involved, the divorce rate is even less
SAME lol
I'm so jealous ^w^
Make sure they won't marry you off :)
Asians can't relate, our parents love to be with us for the rest of their lives.
Ya they are part of family white people seem to be so selfish and self centered
shrinivas swami Bruh realize that you can’t live with your freakin parents forever.
@@sys9208 It's about growing the fuck up and learning to be independent not a mummy's boy. Get a job and learn to be self reliant and stop expecting mummy to do everything for you!
Expecting your parents to coddle you is SELFISH, being independent and making your own way in life isn't
shrinivas swami In India, 7 people out of 10 people have depression and anxiety. 5 of them are women. Most common reason is lack of parents support. Lot of married women get bullied by their own mother in law and husband. If they can move out, this can decrease. What the Indian society say for this, Oh he went out of his parents house after he married. His wife changed him. Like, what the fuck?? You can’t be with your parents forever. That’s a bullshit.
@@priyakabilan4393 It's getting worse over here, men are turning into mummies boys and saying "But it's so expensive to leave home" well DUH! it wasn't any easier when I was young mate but that's the challenge, to better yourself so that it gets easier!
Meanwhile In Asia)
Mom: Stay in my House Your So So Young Okay
Son:I'm 45 MOM
same thing for us desi people parents want us to stay with them FOREVER
@@laila2607 for them we are always kid.
Cold Blooded Productions YT XD
Lol that the something in hispanic families. Its a culture thing. Most minorities take care family forever.
Why do you like to make fun of people’s race
In Australia with the house prices and rents at record levels, late 20''s and 30 year olds working or not staying in the parents house is fairly common
And then when you are 80 or 70 you get depress because your “family” doesn’t visit you lol...
Yeah but they just want their kid independent and live their own life and that's reality it's called though love
Im asian i know tough love lol... but what american culture teach kids is that you are alone when you reach 18... parents are always busy working not teaching their kids how the world works and just toss them out when they reach certain age
@@glogettaa8009 "tough love" that's how you know you are brainwashed.
@@hellicure its pretty clear that you're just a pathetic basement dweller.
@@virtualmiu9283 "pathetic basement dweller". I'm dead 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
My brother is 32 years old and lives with my mother. He is a veteran with an associates and bachelor degree. He is the kindest, smartest, and most free-spirited soul I know. Don’t judge a book by it’s cover.
It is different when two people live together and they share costs and different when a child freeloads of their parents
You can't really compare your brother with this guy who doesn't want to work and pay the rent, and just likes to sit in his room with his posters and trainsets like an 11 year old.
Josh Castro
Because maybe he has some sort of medical condition stop being a bigot ! I’m sick of people like you!
To each their own
@@joshcastro739 actually im 32, i have to live with my mom as shes barely can take care herself. and we cant afford a full time nurse from our money if in the meantime id like to pay for my own flat as well. i do everything around the house
@@joshcastro739 envy your loved ones!
I love how they said 30 is too long. My brother in law is 31 and still live with his parents. We live with them too. My husband is 27 and I'm 23, but we have a child and they are helping us so we can save to have a place of our own. Latino parents will love to have you even when you are 100 years old.
Thats real parenting. Of course the rates of elderly in nursing homes would be lower by nonwestern people
I did two doctorates. When I was in the middle of obtaining my MD, I was about 31 and my family kicked me out because I was "still in school and indecisive" in my 30s. It made an already difficult process so much harder. Things are okay now, but I am no longer close to my family. I moved across the country and hardly speak to them anymore. Dont do this to your kid.
LOL NO ONE ASKED YOU 😂 OH POOR YOU.
@@Daniel9-2 shut the fuck up bich,what you throw comes back so better watch out :)
@@Daniel9-2are you okay?
You were not a kid!
Im hispanic and my parents would probably never kick me out BECAUSE they want me to take care of them when the're old😅
Same
Well, usually Hispanic parents have the same culture of "kicking" their kids out, when they became adults
Napa not really. Most of the time they just want their kids to get a good paying job
@@Diseruption Uhum... Try to live with hispanic parents till ur 30s....
Napa uhum. My brother is 32 and still lives with us
I’m 30 and live with my mom.
I pay rent.
I do chores.
I take care my mom and brother(he’s sick and who’s 46yrs)
I buy groceries and necessities.
And plus it’s California so it’s impossible to find a place to live on your own.
It's different if you are contributing. I lived with my folks after college, and ran my Dad's side business so he could keep his regular job. It worked out well.
You are not a loser bro, I'm 21 and helping my parents here in california.
There you go
Youre the nice son to your family
whiteillusion89 that’s different lmao chill
I can never do this to my child, as long as they're responsible... getting an education or working towards a career
I agree, especially nowadays, it’s much harder for a young adult to get their first homes apartment etc. while trying to go for an education. Schooling is much more expensive then it’s ever been and some can’t even afford dorming, so it’s no wonder why most young adults are staying with their parents until they get their career going, it makes sense, unless you are lucky to make good money at a young age
“I love my train set”
LMAO 😂
Lol I love that
This is cultural IMO. My folks are Asian immigrants, and when I decided to move out in my 20s they were DEAD-SET against it, and we argued like crazy about it. In their traditional way of thinking, the chld is expected to stay with the parents until marriage, and maybe even after. So ya if my folks were in that diner they'd be totally on the son's side lol
Kap00rwith2os Same with the Latino culture. My parents tried everything to stop me from moving out when I was 20. You stay home till you get married. I lived with friends in another state for two years then got married.
Diana Taran Lucky for you your sis had to deal with that first, so it's not as bad for you eh 😂 Tho it was probably easier for me because I'm a guy... But since I'm an only child they were extra guard-doggish. 😖
Don't make is sound all romantic because the ASIAN CHILDREN GIVES THEIR SALARY aka MONEY to their parents on the regular. It's either to help out with the bills or to help out the younger siblings or both. Nothing is FREE because if you think of it, the Asian children are practically paying the parents back for staying in the house and for staying with them. Also on average, Asian children are OBLIGATED to take care of their parents when the parents can't walk alone or wipe their own a s s anymore. Regardless if the Asian family is rich or poor or in the middle class. This is something that is EXPECTED from the Asian children and grandchildren. This is not very common from the USA or from non-Asian families.
They would HOPE that their youngsters would someday take care of them but they don't GUILT TRIP them to do it unlike the typical Asian families.
This is the reason why some Asians would move out when they're 18 or 21 and would break the tradition. It gives them a reason to be independent and not have the obligation to take care of the parents later on which is reasonable since they didn't really milk their parents until their 30 years old.
Kap00rwith2os American society is a materialistic society. Everyone is encouraged to have their own home with their own furniture. Get as many possessions as possible. If you don’t have your own home then you can’t get a whole new set of furniture. TV. and so on. That’s why our society is geared to a families spreading apart as soon as the child turns 18. Is it practical? Absolutely not.
Jonathan - Non-Asian American children on average are not EXPECTED to give part of their salary or entire salary every month to their parents and WIPE THEIR OWN PARENT'S A S S later on. Apart from that, there are other factors as well like the DRAMA and JEALOUS within the family. Like when all of the children gets their own wives or husbands or live-in partners and combine that with the grandchildren. It's complicated and it's definitely not for everybody.
Lol surprisingly in other countries it’s normal until you get married
Kermina Arts Because most women are opressed..
Aisha Delva no they are not I am saying that in other countries that for men and women you have to stay at your parents house until you find a boyfriend or girlfriend and get married to them
@@aisha-3857 Both men and women do it you feminist idiot
Well in most other countries the average age of someone getting married is much younger.
John Johnson it’s not just countries, but cultures. I have Hispanic friends here in the US who are not allowed to move out until they’re married. And I have an Asian friend who already has a masters degree and is looking to buy a house for him and his parents to live in because he doesn’t want to get married, but it’s his culture to stay living with his parents.
My son is 29 and just got his first apartment. Takes time to save money and have the right job
How did he contribute to your household before moving out?
@@daniellevinson6975 I let him work and save. I didn't ask him for anything. I even continued to feed him. I mean, he is my son after all
@@80sMusicJunkee OK, just asking.
@@80sMusicJunkee you’re a good dad
i bet youre an amazing father.
i bought my own place at 21 and rented it out until i was 25 when my parents decided its time for me to move out, broke my heart.
most of my friends still live with their parents at their 30's but thats mainly because of the housing shortage in my country.
In my country and in our culture even u reach 50 yrs old as long as u want to stay in your parents u stay,family means so much to us.🇵🇭
As a Middle Eastern, our parents would do anything to keep us with them at home till marriage, they love us unconditionally...
right
arab live so beautifull
It's not about unconditional love. It's about culture. We all do what we define as normal.
@@mrsaya1234 It kinda is considering how many old American people end up rotting away in nursing homes.
That turns us into dependent, entitled brats. No wonder these countries are so dysfunctional.
Fady Barsoum
Agreed
This is one of the rare instances (from this show) where I’d mind my own business. The family dynamic is very private; not an instance of abuse or anybody being mean. Lot of Asian families in my area & many of the kids are still home at 30 because they save money until married that way. Homes here (in Silicon Valley) start at $900K, so that’s part of it too.
Our oldest lived with us until 23. A few years later moved to another state for a job to support oneself. The youngest lived off and on with us until able to stand on their own at 28. We made sure they understood they had to help out around the house, yard, buy groceries, and help with the bills. We explained as adults that couldn't just free load or leech off us that they had to have a job if they didn't want to go to college. At nineteen we made them responsible for their own personal items (clothing, hygiene stuff, etc.) phone bills, car insurance and gas that went into the car. This meant they had to get a job. They have done well for themselves. Of course there are times when they hit hard places like hours cut at work, car issues, etc, we have helped out from time to time. Sometimes they've stay a couple of months with us while waiting on a apartment to come available they can afford. We've made sure to keep the lines of communication open and let our kids know they have a place to stay, but that there are responsibilities they have when they do. They have been respectful of this. We have tried our best to teach our kids to stand on their own. We have explained to them we can't support them forever. They have to stand on their own because one day we want here anymore. As of now our kids have tried their best to make it despite trials of learning. We are relieved to know they when we are go that our kids are going to make it.
As a low-income family, if my brother and I moved out of the house, my parents wouldn't be afford to the house. Albeit, my brother's 24 and I'm 20 (so we aren't quite 30 yet😂), but we pay for more than half the living expenses at home.
That's what families *should* look like when adult children continue living with their parents... In Western cultures, too many such young adults act similarly to Michael Rufano (though not quite to the same extreme).
If you have filipino parents, they will ask "why you want to be living on your own? Do you not love us anymore?" Hahaha
totoo to. haha! only child ako. baka atakihin sa puso parents ko. HAHAHAHA!
@@JISOOscryst HAHAHA. Ilan taon ka na ate?
@@Beadacut_ im 29 na. 😆 Still living with my parents. Hihi!
@@Beadacut_ im 29 na. 😆 Still living with my parents. Hihi!
@@JISOOscryst Hehe. I'm 22 ate. I just graduated college last year. Panganay po ako hehe, may 2 brothers ako. Same, I live with my parents as well. :)
you should have an Asian family begging their son not to move out lol that would be interesting 👍
OMG PLEASE DO THIS
Yes
IKR please convince them!
YASSS
slightly racist, but alright
I honestly think this heavily depends on the circumstances. As long as you:
1)Abide by house rules within reason
2)Make some sort of contribution to the household
3)Have some sort of goal in mind
4)Unentitled
It's perfectly reasonable for an adult child to stay at home
Yes 💯 my parents don't mind me being at home until I get married most of my friends are at home are 20 and 30 and still living with their parents cause they have babies and the parents take care of there babies and they support them there parents don't have a problem with them being at home most of them are nail techs at home they have careers making money on cash app and all that I'm 20 still at home doing college and my parents don't mind me being at home until I get on my feet when I get married my aunt is still 50 still at home and my grandma wouldn't mind her being at home cause my aunt actually contributes paying bills brings food home all that so it really isn't a problem
I saw videos of some kids saying " I couldn't afford my $1000 purse because they didn't give me money ". Those type of people need a dose of reality.
I dont see anyone talking about this: homelessness...kick anyone out of their home at any age without any savings, job, or place to live and they will end up on the streets. The parents would at least need to give a time limit to the kid to get his act together with a job and some savings, or to at least assist to help him financially afford somewhere to live
This is soooo culturally related. I am Italian, living in Italy but I spent my college years in the US. got the chance to catch a glimpse of both worlds, and it's true, once you are out of high school in the US you rarely go back home...here in Italy though, and in many other countries as well, time is much more flexible. If you never marry, often you stay at home and live with your parents as an adult, and it's not too weird. The video made it seem like the guy was too old to live with his family, but really it depends on where you come from. There is no universal rule in parenting :)
True.
Same with the general culture in the GCC countries. We all look after each other each other. I stayed with my family until I got married. When I did live with them, I had a job and paid and helped my parents with the bills. Now I’m living with my British husband in a different house and he found it a little strange how close we were to our families but he sees now that it’s quite nice that my brother and I check in regularly with our parents and sometimes I’ll give Mum money if she needs it etc.
Besides, rent is so expensive these days that more and more children are living with their parents post 25 years old and paying in to the bills together. www.theguardian.com/commentisfree/2018/feb/28/michael-b-jordan-live-with-parents-millennials-shame
Same here... it's just the state of mind
Stefania Marchese duh it's an American show
I’m Hispanic and my mom actually wants me to stay until I build up my career or get married
Nothing wrong with that.
Especially if you and your mother enjoy each other's company.
@Anne Liesveld Because it's a dangerous would out there for single women. Many mothers now visit their daughters in cemeteries because of that. Let's let their relationship be between them. In general, mothers know more about their daughters than the You Tube audience do (No diss here....just say'in….).
Steel Castle Why would you assume him or her wants to get married
Yeah but by 30 you should have a good job
Same
In Asia it's totally different. Grandparents and grandchildren get along well in our culture. There are not much elders homes here. We take care of our parents when they get older as if they did when we were children.
Try one with a adult child telling your senior parent that they want to put them in a nursing home.
i have an uncle who still lives with his mother. he is 47, married, got 4 daughters and has his own business. I don't see nothing wrong with that. There is plenty of room in the house.
norman bates well at least your uncle’s mom is still alive, norman
Well that's the thing. He has his own business and definitely does his share for the house. If you're 30 but have your life together or you're at least trying the best you can then there's no problem. However, you can't always be a baby and do nothing and expect to live with your parents forever.
Is he living with his mother, or is his mother living with him? There's a difference. If the guy is still living in the house he grew up in with his mom then that means he didn't established himself on his own yet. Now, if he bought his own house, got married, had kids and asked his mom to come live with them then most people wouldn't be judgmental.
Wouldn’t the mother technically be living with his family then?
@Dante Son Of Sparda Not really I have an uncle at the end of his thirties and has 4 children too, my grandparents have a big house and they share the rent with my uncle. If my grandparents lived alone it would be so boring at their house rly ...
In Hispanic and Asian culture its normal to live with your parents well into adulthood.
indian culture too apparently
True! I'm both Hispanic and Asian, so I definitely know from experience.
Americans are the odd ones out.
speak for yourself, living at home until you finish college is FINE but being a 30-year-old burden leeching off your parents instead of being a productive member of society is wrong, pathetic, and bad for you
beerus sama That is not true for everyone. Some parents do make their adult children pay some money to remain in the house. Some parents just really want their children to move out and really have their own space to further mature and stand on their own two feet. After living in Asia for a number of years, I have noticed a large number of housewives and adults without any sense of how to make it on their own.
In Africa, most of us don't even have houses to be me moved out of.
😂🤣🤣 lol at least we have the family home. The house or home is where the family is.
😭😭😭
@Naftal John Presumably, you're equally responsible for the household as your parents are. That's a stark contrast to many Western millennials...
Seeing all these Asian, Indian, Middle eastern, hispanic comments and suddenly seeing this.
And then there's 26 year old me watching this with my mom and dad wile cuddling on bed (wot it's cold) 😂😂😂
You do you, king.
@Luigi Turiano gotta start looking , good luck with that!
@Luigi Turiano yes right now it sucks with covid and everything it's very hard with jobs , as long as you're submitting applications you're doing something good. Thank you
What?? You should think about moving out especially as a man.. you will ruin your life man
@@zejdland never said I’m gonna live with them forever mate. I got two years left before I get my PhD, after that I got my life sorted out already. Also even if I didn’t, I don’t think living with my parents would ruin my life, I love them to death and would be more than happy to take care of them as they grow old. Being a man doesn’t mean I don’t get to enjoy my family while I’m with them. Cheers.
I am 24 and have social anxiety issues. I am still living with my parents but I do have a job. I know moving out is tough at the beginning, but I hope life gets easier eventually and I get the mental strength to deal with the world.
Nikhil Tawde good luck
Nikhil Tawde as long as you help and they don’t mind don’t worry about it man
Nikhil Tawde I'm happy for you and I know you'll do well.
cristian c Yeah agree.
How did you find a job ? I have social anxiety and I can't even have a conservation with my brother. Give me some tips please 😖
It makes sense maybe 20-30 years ago. Nowadays, with student loans and overheated housing market, it would be way better for you to live with parents. Save up down payment and clear up student debt
My brother lived with my parents until he got married at 29. He worked very hard and helped with the chores, cooking, cleaning, buying groceries, paying part of the utilities, he respected the house and never showed up drunk or on drugs. With all of the money he saved from not paying rent, he was able buy his house cash right before he got married. My parents were absolutely happy to have him home, we enjoyed so many good times together. Many years have passed since, my parents are now older and he is not stuck paying high interest on a mortgage for 30 years so he is able to help them out if they ever need anything. It's really awesome! But I do understand parents wanting to kick their kids out if they just wanna be lazy and get a free ride.
@@AnaDiaz-wz4cf yeah and traditionalist want move out right away
I kept thinking they'd bring current housing prices up, it's not like it was back in mom and dad's day where everything was at reasonable prices. But they call it pure laziness without hearing our side out at all.
Tat Suen, that makes sense if the kid is actually paying off school or something. If the kid never went to college, never got a job just sits at home all day eating all the food not helping with bills they need to get the hell out
My uncle lived with his mother until 41 (when he met his wife and moved out.) He'd often come home drunk and didn't have to do anything around the house, but my grandmother was more than happy to have him. (He was an odd mixture between dead beat and successful. He ran his own company and it was successful, but he'd often drink after work and sometimes drive home like that totalling multiple cars in the same trench.) She even considered him when moving to a smaller home that'd be easier to maintain.
Meanwhile my parents counted down the days to my 18th b-day. :D
My husband's parents were the opposite.
They financially and emotionally depending on their son to be the glue to domestic problems in their own marriage.
They LITERALLY couldn't live without their grown son, and everything they could to not let their son marry me and move out their home.
What we didn't know was that there was likely a long history of closeted domestic violence, and they had gambling additions, alcohol addictions, and would financially depend on their son to always bail them our financially. And their son was there emotionally for his lonely mom who's husband worked away 6 days a week as a truck driver, for almost their entire marriage he was hardly hole. So she turned to her son for emotional support and attention. Once he was leaving she got into a closeted alcoholic depression, because she knew her #1 companion was moving out and her security guard was leaving too, but he didn't know that he was a security guard for his mom. When their younger son moved out for college, she also got back into an alcoholic depression again, because now she was going to be alone 6 days a week. But I think she was more afraid of being home alone with just her and her domestic abuser husband that 1 day a week he was home and now both their grown sons moved out their house there was nobody to stop their dad from murdering their mom. 2 weeks after the younger son moved out then the dad killed the mom.
My in laws LITERALLY couldn't live without their grown sons, and needed them to be the glue in their parents marriage ans safety they just didn't realize it. I didn't know why she was attached to her sons in a very dependant way, very needy and now it makes sense, it's because she actually did NEED him there to protect her life from danger only she never told us she was in danger, we always just assume it was because she was lonely. But even when her husband was home, she'd still ask my husband and I to come over and stay and not leave. One One she even asked me to come sleep over, back in 2014, bc my boyfriend at the time (now husband) was working night shift, her husband was working away on a trucking trip and her younger son was away on campus at a undergraduate university. I thought it was weird my boyfriend's mom asking to me to come sleep over so late at night.
She was scared and said "I'm afraid someone will come and kill me inside THIS house". She wouldn't let go of this fear, so I took 2 buses and walked over and slept over at her house. I didn't believe her back in 2014 bc I didn't recognize any signs of domestic violence at the time. But on September 16, 2019 that's exactly how she died, only it wasn't an intruder which I assumed she was referring to her fears, it was actually her husband who was the one who murdered her inside that very house that she said someone would kill her in that house.
Now I understand WHY she wanted her sons to live with them as long as possible. My husband was 32yrs old when he moved out his parents house, and they did not want him moving out.
They should do this, but the kid is 16 and the parents “can’t afford it”
Ah that ain't realistic as the son can sue the parents for kicking out a minor
I’m 27, yes still live my parents. I have a job, I help take care of my grandma, help pay the mortgage and bills. I do my own laundry, help with dinner and the dishes. Financially it’s best for me and my family.
JenniferSays291 at that point you dont live with your parents
Your parents live with you
JenniferSays291
That's very sweet of you to help out
must be nice. maybe you should give my 30 year old brother some advice to stop being such jerk and help my parents out just a little. 😒
How nice!
That’s good that you help out, i cant wait to move out 😂
When they are 80 "why u no visit"
Hahahaha
they kick him out and expect him to visit! pfft! would never talk to them ever again!
There's a big difference between VISIT and LIVING at home.
Espurrrxd I’d be mad too bruh
AussieBlokeGordo If you bring a child into this world then that child is completely your responsibility until you are
present in this world. If you think ur responsibility ends when they turn 18, why should they bare to care for you when you get old? Never kick your kids out just motivate them to do better. You child is lacking confidence to become successful.
I've had severe mental illness for many years so I moved out when I just turned 30. I understand where these parents and other people giving advice are coming from but if you have a vulnerable mentally ill child (I mean, adult child at some point) you would do anything for them. My mom knew I always struggled at school/college/university and ofcourse I had to do some chores at home but thankfully she never kicked me out. I don't think I could ever go back though to that situation even though I still struggle heavily with mental illness and I live off of dissability at the moment. Sometimes it's just really nice to also have someone to talk to you know. My mom was single at the time so she liked to have some company around as well. I wonder how these people would have reacted if the 30 year old in question (the actor) would have also been struggling with mental health issues. That could have made things more interesting. And maybe make people see things from a different perspective.
I have just moved out at almost 25, it took me a while to get to a position where I could do it and not struggle too much. Also I wasn't completely ready before now. I was working my way through college and working hard at work. Now all of my cousins all moved out at between ages 18-21 and every one of them landed back home several times before being out permanently. I wanted to wait until I was confident I was prepared
Mexican families all live together nomatter how old you are
That's my kind of family. Even though I was working my parents told me I could stay in their house for as long as I liked
Everyone expect whites lmao
Brazilians too
Sounds great to be honest. But what if the family gets too big. line having 4 children who make like 15 grand children who make 50 great grand children. someone has to seperate and move out
I was born and rise in Mexico ,almost 40....I moved out @ 19 ...(moved out the country)right now I got a beautiful family,2 teens and 2 kids and a lovely wife...it was a little hard at the beginning but wherever I got is because I work hard to get it,no body gives me anything for free..the only 2 persons to thanks ,is my dad and my mom for give me the life
I would be pissed if they did this to me in public.
I can’t blame you
Exactly, I hate drama in public 😅
The man picking up his menu and leaving is literally me 😂 if John came out and asked why didn’t u get involved I’d be like “nope don’t ask don’t care” 😂😂😂
That must be an American thing, I am from Italy and almost all my friends my age, 31, live with their parents
@@scythianlord9702 It's also wrong to generalize like that. Not all Americans are the same
What a bunch of mommies boys and daddies girls, NOT something to be proud of. Learn to be independent and stop being a burden to your parents
@@scythianlord9702 No it's because the parents in those countries are controlling tyrants who wont let you be independent. Yeah America is so stupid that's why people LEAVE the Asian, Mid Eastern and African countries to go there. Because in western countries you have the FREEDOM to make your own life and don't have to live in fear of your parents
@@GeneralG1810 Yeah, so much independence people have in America that they have the highest divorce rate, a country where the parents die alone and lonely and children are nowhere close no fidelity to one partner etc and etc. Western nations have a fucked up society and no matter what you say, I won't be convinced otherwise.
@@scythianlord9702 60% divorce rate. Yeah they are very independent at fucking up their family life.
I would NEVER EVER interfere in such conversation. Cause i would never know in what kind of situation the boy is in. There could be a tons of things wrong with the dude wich the parents might not understand or he havent told them.
Me either. My sister is 26 and still lives at home, all while holding down a full-time job. She's paying off her loans and saving for a house. I'm 23 and haven't left, because I'm still in school (and I work part-time as well). Rent is so expensive.
Me neither. There sure were a lot of holier than thou people in that restaurant. They sit there and act like they are perfect beings, when in reality, they are losers. They overhear this conversation and you could just tell by the looks on their faces that they automatically felt better about themselves because here is a 30 year old living with his parents. It wouldn't do for me to have been that actor playing the son. I'd be like "ya'll motherfuckers need to look in damn mirror before judging me for fuck sake! Hell, half of you shouldn't even be in here because your fat asses should be on diets". And to the guy with the kids I'd be like "dude, I'd much rather be me than you any day. Those kids are gonna bleed your ass dry, you'll see" LOL
I agree. I think if you are a young person working it is time to fend for yourself but there are always exceptions and it is not for strangers to interfere
This is a difficult one. If your child is lazy and unmotivated to work, then they need a good push into the real world. Giving them a little help is totally fine, which my mom has offered me when I move out. My parents know I am hard working, motivated, and have a plan. My parents are fine with me living at home until I get married, or save for a condo. However, I don’t plan on staying with them forever. Just like that one woman said, “Tough love.”
Yup 👍 my parents really don't have a problem with that
I agree with you. Sometimes is not a choice to live with your parents when you are 26 - 30 or a similar age. In my case i'm 26 years old, living with parents and i also have a disability and i use a wheelchair. it's more hard to find a job and i have to pay for more things than other people (like a wheelchair, medical stuff...). I would love to be at 30 living on my own, but it all depends in finding a job and the economy of my country. My parents would never kick me out of their house knowing im disabled and that i work so hard for achieve my goal in independence.
It's not the same as the ones who don't want to work and want to live in their parents home without helping them
I'm a Filipino (Asian) our parents loved us they don't want us to leave. They also want to see us succeed within their sight. No kicking out here in the Philippines, it's just pure love. AND we only leave to look for a job abroad, the only reason is because we love them and we want to provide them and also to repay our gratitude 💕
aging parents: NO ONE VISITS US.
adult children: HELLO, YOU KICKED MY ASS!!!!
Exactly... if my parents were kicking me or my siblings out wich I'm pretty sure they wouldn't! they'll never see my face
True. They should have to be more responsible for their own actions.
@@QueenElsaVeganfromEurope That's true
Being an adult is expensive bruh...
JustSomeDude-Gaming Expensive and boring
Camerons Car Reviews not boring
Bruh, my rent Is 915 a month, folks be that's expensive, for a one bedroom. Shit now a days its cheap
Voidaken I live in Dallas. So I think that is major.
@@sirgrinder depends how you view adult life. If you're working a shitty desk job 40 hours a week, with a horrible girlfriend who you're only with because she pays your rent, and no time to go out and enjoy life with friends and family. Then life is boring.
Im nearly 40, parents even are so upset if i hung out too late.
Honestly I don't think it's wrong to be an adult and still live with your parents. I'm Asian and I live with my aunt and uncle, grandparents and my parents. Think of it this way, it's hard to find a good house, and it can also be concerns. A couple don't wanna leave their children to a stranger babysitting, cost money. Their grandparents live with them, watch the children and helps take care of them. Plus an adult living with his or her parents, when they get old, they have their adult children helping them and spending a lot of time with them.
Hey i stayed till 32 but i had a plan, i got my degree, then found a good job, i saved 25k and used some of that as a down payment to buy my own home, Glad i had the support from my parents because i don’t know how i could have saved up that much. I say let them stay AS LONG as they are working, contributing and have a clear plan to get their own place. But if they’re doing nothing... well that’s a diff story
UniquelyMade nice
UniquelyMade that’s exactly what my dad and I think too.. but my mom wants to leave to the east coast as soon as my brothers 16, and he’s 10 now 😬🤔
agreed, i'm in that situation, finishing college as of now, saving and I plan on moving out by 33, I'm 27 as of now. Parents are supporting me while I get my life together. As well as getting my savings built
Yeah I actually agree with that a bit. I mean usually I feel like by the time you hit at least 24 years old then it's time to think about moving but yeah if you're doing something and have a plan sure.
Wondering if you guys that stayed home until 30+ had a partner during that time?
I think it’s better just to leave it alone and let the parents deal with it.
True. Family business should stay within the family. Unless, the person wants to confide in friends or a significant other or a counselor. But, the decision is still up to the parents. Random strangers shouldn't get involved at all, in my opinion because it's none of their business; and it's not an emergency, even if they feel sorry for the people. If I were asked about it, I would have to know more information before deciding who I side with. If the son for example is being irresponsible and immature, I would side with the parents; because moving out would teach him to grow up really quickly, and part of that is taking care of your responsibilities . But, if he can't afford it and has a job and is not a burden on his family; or has a disability that makes some parts of life difficult without help, then I would side with the son. I see no shame in living at home in those conditions. Both my brother and I are adults who still live with our parents, and those things apply to our lives since we are both looking for work; and I have autism. Even though I'm high functioning and pretty independent most of the time, and I want a lot of the same things most other women my age want (except kids no offense); I would and do still need assistance with some things no matter what. So, if I got my own place someday it would need to be one of those apartments where a caregiver stops by once or twice a week. Or, something else can be worked out. But, my family members and I will deal with that when the time comes. Same with my brother, except he's not disabled. We also enjoy living at home for now, because we have extras that we wouldn't always have if we were out on our own; like T.V. and internet for example, and fun events with Parks and Recreation for me, etc., and our parents love us.
True. Some of these videos make me realize how nosey people are.
bougie clorox but they are showy as well so they're obviously just inviting the nosey ones. But yeah it's WWYD right? lol
If its family business do it in your home. If you are doing it in public place, people will interfere.
coogamer007 yeah but it's the purpose of the show lol
if i told my mom i'm moving out she wouldn't leave me 😂
This video just open my eyes thank u for this videos now I know what to do to move forward in life
i can’t help but to think everyone who stepped into the convo was wrong. That’s a family issue that obviously varies family to family, honestly this is a mind your own business situation.
I mean I would probably help convince the guy to live on his own but yea it is a family Matter
But when you go to a public place and talk really loud it kind of makes it hard not to say anything.
@@tasherabrackett4878 not it doesntits not ur businessu can move or just close ur mouth worry about ur own business
@@zaqueenzhane7744 If they don’t want anyone to say anything, it shouldn’t be a public conversation. Moreover, freedom of speech is a thing.
These people were wrong my friend is 30 living at home with her parents cause she has a career she's a stay at home nail tech and making money on her online career she pays bills and helps pay her mother's bills and rent so my friend has a reason I have a reason also cause I'm doing college still at home my parents don't mind if I'm still at home neither do my friends parents either
No wonder why some children send their parents to nursing homes and not take care of them when they get older. What goes around comes around
jara rose first the parents kick their children out of the house and the same parents expect their kids to not send them to nursing home when old
jara rose lmao
McCrillis Nsiah I disagree, just because they disagree with u doesn’t mean u shouldn’t respect them. Why? Because without them u wouldn’t be born.
he 30 no job, he should have been working since he was 18, he a free loader,
😂😂 this only imply to white Americans. As soon as they send their parents to nursing homes they move in to their parents house and turn it into a crack house.
Brazilian here. In my country, is not common an young adult leaving their parents house. Unless you have a great job (and paycheck), we only leave to get married.
I agree with the parents 100%. 30 is not just too old. It’s WAY too old to still live with your parents. You should be moved into your own home by 24 years old.
I'm 41 and live at home but my parents were loving and courageous enough to allow me to come back 8 years ago despite a 10 year meth addiction and on the verge of homelessness. I've been clean and sober for 8 years, work full time as an Industrial Relations Specialist and in the middle of my 3rd term on my way to an AA degree in Business Administration. I pay my share and more in bills, and help with the general up-keep of the house, etc. I wont be here forever, but I'm indebted to my family for letting me heal at home!
God bless you and your parents. Keep pressing on. I've never met you but I'm so proud of you. Your comment made my night. Thanks and take one day at a time. You're loved ❤
Get your ass out
You're a hero. Stay strong, you're such an inspiration. Wishing you all the best!
your situation is completely different. drug addiction is never easy to bouce back from
Cuz they probably knew that was your last chance at life drug addict. Why are you afraid to be on your own. Be a true real adult. A real person. I love my parents. I could never do that to them
"id do anything to get my kids out"
Not a candidate for mother of the year.
Retro Robbie only white parents...
@@JamButter123 What about Asian parents? Yeah didn't think so
U mad Bro? Umm? I saw comment about Asian parents let adult kids stay until they are wanting to be independent or married and move out.
Retro Robbie my mum and dad say I stay with them even when I’m married lol
The best thing to do is to gradually get them to do stuff such as get them to study then employment and then when they start gaining more independence then they can move out though, all of it has to be planned properly
My Arab parents were shocked when my older brother decided to move out with his wife, my poor mother kept crying for days 😆
How many people did they expect to live there? Hope it's a big enough house for the parents, your brother and his wife and potentially you and your spouse-Plus all the kids that would start getting born! If they're expecting the entire clan under one roof, it had better be like those Beverly Hills compounds
Day a person begins to become an adult is the day they move out of their parents home .
My family won’t let me move out till I am married 😂. African parents. And it is not a bad thing, I work and save up
Aminata Diallo what if you never marry
Same, Catholic plus I live where rent is super high
no one will marry a woman who lives with mom
Aminata Diallo same I’m Indonesian I move out when I’m married
Aminata Diallo but you work so it’s not bad some people don’t wanna get a job and live with their parents and expect everything provided for them
Aw... I don’t mind if my son lives with me when he’s 30 ... as long as he’s working and is respectful of house rules.
Any sane kid wouldn't want to anyway. I'm 19 and can't wait to move out.
@@randomuser1687 What are you waiting for? I moved out at 19 and have been on my own ever since. I'm 28 years old now.
Can’t relate to this what so ever, my husband and I had our first house at 18 , we were the ones having family and friends over the years staying with us to get in their feet. It is extremely difficult to keep afloat especially now in these times.
It was hilarious when he mentioned his posters and his train set.
I built my house for my kids and I want them to live in it
Bless you!
Goofen Would you rather “spawn”
thank you.
SALdosry are they happy with the Minecraft house?
asian here (34). we responsible to take care our parents till they gone. we only move out of the house when our parents told to. i say 80% of asian parents wants their children to live on same roof even when their married. It's ok we still live with our parents as long as we have a job, help our parents to pay bill, etc. these day Parents throw their children out so no wonder children let their parents rot in a nursing home. love your family.
btw I dont wanna live with my parent. I want my parent to live with me :)
Youbite same I want to be the one providing a roof over my parents heads.
Same, that way I can tell THEM to clean THEIR room.
Salute u
I think it's a bad idea when you started a family and live with your parent. If the wife and mother in law get along then it's fine, otherwise it will be a hell of life!
I’m Asian and my parents don’t have that type of mentality mainly because I have a different culture than you.
Depends if he’s a mooch vs an independent adult who does their own laundry, pays their own bills, who can support themselves and chooses to live with their parents because they love them, maybe they can’t make friends, would be lonely, is used to the vibe of their own home, doesn’t want to move in with a partner/ have kids and likes living with their parents. Maybe just family oriented old school. But then I’m Asian. Some of us marry and still live with our mummy and daddy!
Very true... As a person on the autistic spectrum, I didn't move into an apartment until the age of 26, and I did chores and ran errands (as well as dog-sat) for Mom.
The young kid interviewed in the end with his dad and sister is so adorable cute
When I turned 19 (age of adulthood on Nebraska) my parent sat me down and told me that I’m allowed to live with them as long as I want, the only conditions are that I have to keep a job and pay a third of the monthly rent.
Sounds white
Sounds normal
Lmao . I am an Asian so it might sound weird but if my parents said this to me I would be pretty much done with them. It's one thing to teach your child by kicking him out of the house so that he can stand on his feet and get a job . This is acceptable.
But demanding money from your own child , I don't get it. It's not how a parent should behave .
@@apurvchaturvedi it's acceptable because they're living there too along with the parents. A third should be fair. If they didn't do anything it would make them dependant on other people and lazy.
@@PlumpnDreamyWalrus true, if you're disabled it's completely acceptable.
My single mom wants me to live with her as long as i can. As long as i pay my fair share things are all good. Besides i want to care for her when she is old, i dont want her to be in a nursing home.
Oscar aka Ruby that’s really sweet. Your mom raised you well ^^’
Dante Son Of Sparda ??
how? because she loves her mother?
Dante Son Of Sparda i can get stuff done just fine. You're not very familiar with family oriented culture i assume? Mexico, india, and the philapines are doing just fine. Work and care for the family, just as your parents done for you.
Dante Son Of Sparda and being gay has nothing to do with anything lol. If i want a sexy mamicita to move in thats fine too. Bigger home would be needed of course.
Absolutely agree with this video. I currently am 60 years old I live out of state to get away from my siblings. What I left is a brother that is older than I am 62ish. And a son that's 31 and they both live with my mom and she defends them makes excuses for them feeds them and pays all the rent. I understand getting back on your feet but not after 15 30 years of Living off of a Elder person a relative enough is enough they need to get on their own tough love. So I was very pleased to come across this video it's my frustration I deal with everyday trying to convince my mom she does not have to raise her 62-year-old son after 40 Years of him living with her. And supporting my child that is 31 years old and he has two children of his own but she chooses to continue to let them live with her for free. I understand she doesn't want to be lonely but enough is enough she's not helping them just my opinion Joe Dirt Arizona
I’m so fortunate that’s not the case with me. I have a full time job, I pay bills, responsible, help my parents. Moving out is too expensive nowadays.
But sry, 30 yrs old…REFUSES to get a job, a draining resource on the family, that’s just embarrassing.
What's wrong with him being at home at that age. There is so many serious issues in the world & people worry about that issue, wow seems bad to me. If my son wants to do that wouldn't bother me, living at home doesn't mean you don't have a life. Doesn't make you a baby either you can still be independent to. Family is more important, it is in my family anyway.
Yeah, but there is something great about being able to have your own space and a place to call your own with your own rules. Plus, you have no choice except to really solve your own problems because you'll have no one to lean on to help with chores, dealing with banks and landlords except yourself. Parents are not going to always be around to help their children survive, and old parents shouldn't bank on having their adult children take care of them because young people can leave this world anytime too. Everyone should have the experience of making on their own at some point.
@LMLification
That's your opinion . What about how can you help your parents when they get older? . You just leave them in nursing house ?
LMLification people who still live at home still deal with a lot of those things, not all let their parents pay for everything, you helps from parents if needed etc. Your bedroom is your own space, Your parents took care of you, when you were ill, when you needed them, so why won't you help them & look after them when they need you. You are just being selfish.
Nope brbra No, none of my parents or grandparents are in facilities. My parents have their own house, and both pairs of grandparents have their own house. I have my own house. We all have a good relationship and actually do check on each other and are there when support is needed. It doens't require us being suffocated under the same roof. Just because you are all are under the same roof doesn't mean the relationship is better...
Emma H Dixon Yes, perhaps, but there is a difference when you have to deal with these things by yourself with no one around you. It also takes a lot of maturity and emotional stablity to be on your own because mommy won't always be there to give you a shoulder to cry on. At the same time, the adult children could die before the parents and still have to survive and vice versa. This goes beyond just "paying for everything." I am sorry, I cannot live out of a bedroom; I need my own house period, something I can really be responsible for on my own, with my own rules and sole ownership. My parents took care of me because they CHOSE to have children and wanted to ensure that they could raise me to function outside of their house eventually. They are happy for me and are enjoying their space at the retirement stage. They know I will be there when they need me and vice versa...We don't need to be under a roof together for that to happen. Plus, sometimes there are just too many adults under one roof. No, dear, being selfish woud be me cutting them out of my life, and not being in their house does not mean that. Nice try.
My dad said i can live with him forever👍👍
George Nguyen That is not good.
Asiel MILIAN its good to have a choice
If I had a son or daughter I wouldnt mind them living w me as long as they want.
Casey Nivans only if they pay rent
Luka Petković True but I feel like you should move out of your parents house when you are older but if you know how to take care of yourself and making a living its ok to stay with your parents.
I was never pressured to move out i have been told i am always welcome to live at home because im family.
Your lucky... but sadly in America its really being looked down upon
It depends on what kind of adult you are in your parents home. Are you saving for a goal? Do you contribute to the household? Do you clean? Do you treat your parents by cooking once in a while? Are you considerate and inform them when you’re going to be late, or, umm, 😳 hanging out at a friend’s house? Just saying, it’s one thing to have a considerate, well meaning kid who acts like an adult at home. But it’s totally different having a full grown lump living in your home making a mess, and eating all your food.
I'm Asian, I tried to move out of my parents house, they gave me the death stare, not until you're married!!!, you kno nothing, be doctor yet. - mom.
😂😂😂 i know that feeling. I hate living with my parents mostly because of my sisters.
@ThunderBlaze56 if you don't get married you'll eventually stay there forever.