When it comes to this "blindness" from falling in love with someone, I think the best thing we can do is communicate with our closest friends and family about even the smallest of red flags. This way they can more objectively figure out a pattern and advice us to protect us if we ourselves are not emotionally able to.
I'm so glad you said "sometimes life is shitty". Most people around me constantly try to fix everything and don't seem to allow each other (or me) to feel bad for any amount of time. I think it's important to sit with the shit for a bit. (lol)
as you date you learn quicker and quicker the red flags girly and as you have experience you learn how to see them quicker. be graceful with yourself and honestly that guy MISSED OUT!!! you’re so beautiful and i wish we were friend irl
What an incredible young woman you are. I stumbled across your channel (gotta love the RUclips algorithms) and am so glad I did. It might seem funny that a 62 year old woman from Kentucky would find and appreciate your content, but I consider my find you a blessing. I've been feeling old, alone and depressed lately and you and your words of encouragement are just what I needed today. I've been living my life like it's almost over and pointless to try new things. Thank you for the wake up call - I need it and sincerely appreciate it, Jen. 🙂
i know it's weird but the TIMING of this video is crazy?! like i have (shamefully) cried over a boy for the past couple of weeks and now you posted this with an eerily similar experience? it really makes me feel that im not the only one going through it, sure the experience made me feel like i could never love and be loved again, but there is something soothing to hear that yea these things happen, it is what it is. hearing you talk about this felt like talking to a sister and friend without judgement. and yes, i am mortified that i cried for weeks, over a MAN? come on guys, that's embarrassing.... from the previous video of your messy love life to this, i relate to many of those things you've mentioned and it's reassuring that maybe this is just not the right time yet. i wish the best for you and your love life, you deserved it
We def need details! At least junkies I feel. Also just imagine taking casual coffee brake by your window and suddenly hear all the tea spilling from some random girl below, crazy world. Anyway love u Jen! Don’t let stupid boys crush your spirits, you’re the boss
Watching your videos in new york made me feel so warm inside and made me think back on my time in Korea. I moved to Seoul, south korean for the summer and I feel like it was one of the best desions I made in my life. I did go through a lot of hardships in the first 1 month of my stay but after that it was amazing. I met so many people and learned what it was like to live alone in a big city. Now that I'm back I the US I am soo "homesick" and I'm literally trying to find a way I can move there move there more permanently.
Aww I'm sorry a boy made u cry😢 my previous relationship absolutely destroyed me mentally. I went from seeing romance with through this pink filter to actually being scared of ever letting a man into my life again so... just want u to know that u r not alone
TW gonna trauma dump: Went on a first date with a boy, we were talking, I felt understood and comfortable and I had my first time with him (he was much more experienced and I was curious). I was not thinking it through and I just knew I didn't see myself in a relationship with him which made him really angry and he broke my glasses 😶 He apologized and promised he'd pay for them and I left thinking we're civil. Then he sent me horrible messages while I was on my way home 🥲 it was just a rollercoaster of emotions.. Honestly I should've seen the red flags sooner.. like how many times he'd called a few days earlier when I couldn't answer him or the fact that he drank a bottle of wine alone and the weed on his kitchen table that I only saw when I left..
So, men start looking like losers to you once you're rejected by one? That's such a lame personality you've got there, aka victimising yourself coz you were rejected by someone.
As a fan of jennifer for over 5 years, and just gone through a breakup a month ago, and found out the boy i was dating until a month ago is already having a new girlfriend, this video really inspired me to live out my life right now. Although I don't know whether I was being cheat during the time that we're dating, I still felt like he lied to me about the reason of him broke up with me is because of him needing to focus on his academics, and he said that the relationship that we were having was holding him back, so he needed a break from us. Other than that, we had the greatest time together and never really have anything to argue or having disagreements. I believed that we were so in love that even our friends and my parents thought that we were meant to be, but turns out thats not the case and he immediately got a new girlfriend, which made me feel betrayed, sad and most of all very angry. Anyways, right now I don't have any urges to find new boys or to meet new people anymore, like this breakup ended so badly that it made me fear being in a relationship at least for now. And with the way i was living in the past month, locking myself up and giving so much pressure on forgetting him, made me even more miserable and depressed more than ever. I really want to change my way about living freely and embracing myself to feel more love from others and loving myself more. I hope everyone who watched this video would have a wonderful day and stay happy!
Please remember not to insult males just to support females. I've come across a lot of comments saying ''men are trash'', ''I'm entering my ''men suck'' period.'' I'm not gonna be explaining coz i hope y'all have enough brain cells to understand that being a bully online by pretending to be *hurt* is the lamest card. *Insulting men is no way to support women* everyone goes through heartbreaks, both males and females. Rejecting someone isn't a crime bruh, it's their opinion. You don't have the right to trash talk about anyone. in case you come attackin me later, this comment wasn't for the video but for the comments here.
LOVE YOU JEN and remember, men are trassshhh, and you’re a bad bitch don’t worry you’re so much betttter than him, sending you all my strength and love
*Men aren't trash, the men you pick are the problem* Men are badass, cool and kind, men I know are. No one rises with the wrong person by their side- that's a given for both males and females. If you're a woman commenting this, then i gotta say you're only bringing Jen down. Insulting men to make a woman rise higher is no way to support someone.
@@Userusinutube you're the only one in your world, and im glad I don't share the same mentality as you. I believe in *your*world, women are hated and women are the victims, so it's only women in your world, this is why you think it's okay to trash talk the other gender. I guess you better search for another planet to inhabit then..
By chance, I entered RUclips looking for a decoration for my room. I saw your channel on RUclips. How beautiful it is for me every day. I watch all your videos. I follow you from Libya. from Africa🫶🏻🫶🏻🫶🏻🫶🏻🫶🏻
When it comes to this "blindness" from falling in love with someone, I think the best thing we can do is communicate with our closest friends and family about even the smallest of red flags. This way they can more objectively figure out a pattern and advice us to protect us if we ourselves are not emotionally able to.
“You’re too sexy and productive” best thing to say ever love it and it’s so true
I'm so glad you said "sometimes life is shitty". Most people around me constantly try to fix everything and don't seem to allow each other (or me) to feel bad for any amount of time. I think it's important to sit with the shit for a bit. (lol)
as you date you learn quicker and quicker the red flags girly and as you have experience you learn how to see them quicker.
be graceful with yourself and honestly that guy MISSED OUT!!! you’re so beautiful and i wish we were friend irl
You should be so proud of yourself for taking the trip and realizing life may suck sometimes but you still need to experience it! Love your new hair!
What an incredible young woman you are. I stumbled across your channel (gotta love the RUclips algorithms) and am so glad I did. It might seem funny that a 62 year old woman from Kentucky would find and appreciate your content, but I consider my find you a blessing. I've been feeling old, alone and depressed lately and you and your words of encouragement are just what I needed today. I've been living my life like it's almost over and pointless to try new things. Thank you for the wake up call - I need it and sincerely appreciate it, Jen. 🙂
Aww girlie! I hope it was just upsetting and not actually TRAUMATIC 😔 Either way your feelings are valid and sending you 💖 and strength
!! Your videos are so real, inspirational & iconic!
i know it's weird but the TIMING of this video is crazy?! like i have (shamefully) cried over a boy for the past couple of weeks and now you posted this with an eerily similar experience? it really makes me feel that im not the only one going through it, sure the experience made me feel like i could never love and be loved again, but there is something soothing to hear that yea these things happen, it is what it is. hearing you talk about this felt like talking to a sister and friend without judgement. and yes, i am mortified that i cried for weeks, over a MAN? come on guys, that's embarrassing....
from the previous video of your messy love life to this, i relate to many of those things you've mentioned and it's reassuring that maybe this is just not the right time yet. i wish the best for you and your love life, you deserved it
your filming is so creative and cinematic
We def need details! At least junkies I feel. Also just imagine taking casual coffee brake by your window and suddenly hear all the tea spilling from some random girl below, crazy world. Anyway love u Jen! Don’t let stupid boys crush your spirits, you’re the boss
Watching your videos in new york made me feel so warm inside and made me think back on my time in Korea.
I moved to Seoul, south korean for the summer and I feel like it was one of the best desions I made in my life. I did go through a lot of hardships in the first 1 month of my stay but after that it was amazing. I met so many people and learned what it was like to live alone in a big city. Now that I'm back I the US I am soo "homesick" and I'm literally trying to find a way I can move there move there more permanently.
Aww I'm sorry a boy made u cry😢 my previous relationship absolutely destroyed me mentally. I went from seeing romance with through this pink filter to actually being scared of ever letting a man into my life again so... just want u to know that u r not alone
It always makes me happy to have a notification on your channel ☺️💖
dont let that boy get u down he doesnt deserve u in the world♡
Your so inspiring I love your videos I can’t wait for the next GLOW UP project episode!!!
This resonates with me so much!
It feels like I am touring the NYC with you ❤
sis i need the tea 😭😭 going through a breakup myself and i love men-hating content atm lol
this was soo inspiringggg
I'm going through the same stuff...u got this gurlll , you r not aloneee🥹♥️
thank you for this amazing video jen ! sending u
very much going through a similar experience with a boy rn and very much a needed video ❤❤ we'll get through it babes everything happens for a reason
"hot girl summering too close to the sun" hahah never change ❤ we love you ❤
TW gonna trauma dump:
Went on a first date with a boy, we were talking, I felt understood and comfortable and I had my first time with him (he was much more experienced and I was curious).
I was not thinking it through and I just knew I didn't see myself in a relationship with him which made him really angry and he broke my glasses 😶
He apologized and promised he'd pay for them and I left thinking we're civil. Then he sent me horrible messages while I was on my way home 🥲 it was just a rollercoaster of emotions..
Honestly I should've seen the red flags sooner.. like how many times he'd called a few days earlier when I couldn't answer him or the fact that he drank a bottle of wine alone and the weed on his kitchen table that I only saw when I left..
Oh my goodness, are you ok. I am so sorry you had to experience that. I hope things are going better for you ❤
But why did I think "solidcore" was a new aesthetic like cottage core 😂💀
I LOVE YOU LOVE YOUR DECORATING VIDEOS
vlogmas in august is a blessing fr
I love your vids so much. Luv you jen
Love your videos!
SO MUCH CONTENT I CAN’T KEEP UP
Iconic new vlog ever. ❤
Not me being early I was checking Ur channel and I saw a new vid pop up
thank you for your video ❤️❤️
I love you jen❤❤❤❤❤ huge fan..waiting for more videos
That book is what the movie “21” is based on! Such a cool story!
I was just re-binging your videos lol. You always post at the best times!! Love u and love your videos!!!♥♥
i agree with literally everything you said in this video
So young, so wise. Thank you 😊
I like the video and I hope you'll feel better soon! :) What kind of vintage transitions do you use? Is it an Final Cut Pro extension?
I relate so much to Jen with her dating life. I'm entering my "men suck" period.
So, men start looking like losers to you once you're rejected by one? That's such a lame personality you've got there, aka victimising yourself coz you were rejected by someone.
Lowkey thought the thumbnail said, "A Boy Made Mercy" 😂
whomever said one cant be productive waking up at noon only says this because they themselves wake up at 5 am and still fail to be productive ;)
how was living in nyc, cuz i would like to go there someday... what do you recommend to see and do?
I just wanna know if it's the same boy u were saying was a nice guy and u decided to say yes to a second date
Was it the boy from the get ready with me video?
IM SO HAPPY TO BE EARLY
As a fan of jennifer for over 5 years, and just gone through a breakup a month ago, and found out the boy i was dating until a month ago is already having a new girlfriend, this video really inspired me to live out my life right now. Although I don't know whether I was being cheat during the time that we're dating, I still felt like he lied to me about the reason of him broke up with me is because of him needing to focus on his academics, and he said that the relationship that we were having was holding him back, so he needed a break from us. Other than that, we had the greatest time together and never really have anything to argue or having disagreements. I believed that we were so in love that even our friends and my parents thought that we were meant to be, but turns out thats not the case and he immediately got a new girlfriend, which made me feel betrayed, sad and most of all very angry.
Anyways, right now I don't have any urges to find new boys or to meet new people anymore, like this breakup ended so badly that it made me fear being in a relationship at least for now. And with the way i was living in the past month, locking myself up and giving so much pressure on forgetting him, made me even more miserable and depressed more than ever. I really want to change my way about living freely and embracing myself to feel more love from others and loving myself more.
I hope everyone who watched this video would have a wonderful day and stay happy!
GIRLY THE SAME SHIT HAPPENED WITH ME
I WAS SO FREAKING BLINDED 😭
IM SO EARLY!!!!
Im cutting bangs! YOLO!!!😂😂
You remind me of me…it’s insane. Lol you’re actually my doppelgänger.
wait did i read that as “a boy made MERCY”?😂
This! 6:09
That guy seemed too good to be true out of a movie so he had to be fake, don't let all that get to you.
is that KAITI YOOO
6:49 hot girl summer ikarus edition
It's a "Cruel Summer" instead 😏😉😭😂
It makes me so sad that normal people end up being guarded bec there are unhealthy and unloving people in this world 😞
yolo? i don't think so
First ❤
Please remember not to insult males just to support females. I've come across a lot of comments saying ''men are trash'', ''I'm entering my ''men suck'' period.'' I'm not gonna be explaining coz i hope y'all have enough brain cells to understand that being a bully online by pretending to be *hurt* is the lamest card. *Insulting men is no way to support women* everyone goes through heartbreaks, both males and females. Rejecting someone isn't a crime bruh, it's their opinion.
You don't have the right to trash talk about anyone.
in case you come attackin me later, this comment wasn't for the video but for the comments here.
waiting until she's find out about girls.....
im so early wooooah
LOVE YOU JEN and remember, men are trassshhh, and you’re a bad bitch don’t worry you’re so much betttter than him, sending you all my strength and love
*Men aren't trash, the men you pick are the problem*
Men are badass, cool and kind, men I know are. No one rises with the wrong person by their side- that's a given for both males and females.
If you're a woman commenting this, then i gotta say you're only bringing Jen down. Insulting men to make a woman rise higher is no way to support someone.
@@user-ss6ye lmao you clearly do not live in the same world as me, but I’m still sending you good vibes and love bc feels like you need it sis ✨🫶🏻
@@Userusinutube you're the only one in your world, and im glad I don't share the same mentality as you.
I believe in *your*world, women are hated and women are the victims, so it's only women in your world, this is why you think it's okay to trash talk the other gender.
I guess you better search for another planet to inhabit then..
Video translation: She was some dude's sidepiece
I'm like that too. But keep doing what you do. Don't let one boy bring you down some day your prince will come
I feel like you just moved to nyc, I can’t believe you’re already leaving!! 😭🫶🏼 but either way do whatever makes you happy 🩷☺️
By chance, I entered RUclips looking for a decoration for my room. I saw your channel on RUclips. How beautiful it is for me every day. I watch all your videos. I follow you from Libya.
from Africa🫶🏻🫶🏻🫶🏻🫶🏻🫶🏻