I'm 39, divorced, no past drama, no kids, living in a very well populated area, but I feel like I'm only getting responses from those who have kids that are getting ready to graduate or people think i'm fake and get reported. My point is it doesn't matter what age you are, dating is tough.
As a single person who's in their late twenties with a lot of single friends in their late twenties, I can assure you not we're not leftovers! We just didn't have the opportunity to meet the right person, or have been too focused on our career with our two phones to date!
Do you know how ridiculous that sounds to a 50 year old divorcee? If you take care of yourself you are set to become MORE attractive in the next few decades. You are likely to become more impressive in your career. You are likely to get better at spotting a mate right for you. You may discover more emotional intelligence, which often makes you more charming. You may get more perspective on relationships, like ok I am getting angry but it is so not worth hurting the feelings of someone you love. Just let it go. You are nothing like a leftover. You are like the Lamborghini Aventador spitting fire out the exhaust but worried a Ford F-150 can catch you. Trust me, you will be ok.
What are these two on about with left overs and bruised apples? Those who didn't get married 'on time' are no less than no who did. Haiyaaa Nigel & Evelyn .....why so weak? Haa? Whyyy sooo weeaakk???? 😜
I can relate so much in this episode, I’m so happy Evelyn is healing, this is the first time I felt Nigel is making a good point in broken people. It’s harsh but so true, it stamp into my heart so much, so relatable.
The more I know Evelyn, the more I love her. I want her to know that we don’t NEED someone to be by our side, but it’s ok to WANT someone. We can be happy with our family and our friends. Men are not always our happy ending. The right person will come at a right time. We don’t need to rush.
Wrong: many singles in their 30s are anything but leftover or broken. Especially women (according to recent studies). The people that ‘got taken’ and caught up into long-term relationships are not necessarily the happiest ones on Earth. Being in a relationship does not come without its flaws , challenges and difficulties. If you are fully committed to love and accept someone you truly care for and love, then you’ll have to take, accept and love them with the whole package they come with, which include: personality traits, good qualities, strength as well as weakness and all the other flaws. And if you genuinely choose to stay with that person you may as well want to care for them enough to support them either in good and hard times. Being engaged and bound in a healthy relationship should imply also that you will eventually grow with your partner, so that both of you are willing to always take it to the next / new level, so that the relationship itself will then evolve but for the better and thus won’t stay stationary. And there is a lot of (hard) work involved in that.. So, just don’t delude yourself by thinking that to be engaged or married is like eating a piece of cake and necessarily opens up the ‘’magic portal’’ for happiness. So, please do not assume the people that got taken before their 30s are all ‘good’ and worth taking. This conclusion is a product of terrible and outdated misconceptions and culturally biased thoughts. It’s probably much healthier for an individual (regardless of their gender) to be single or ‘leftover’ rather than being in a unhappy/tormented, abusive or toxic relationship. And furthermore : some people may opt for remaining single in the meantime because they just set their standards high or too high.
@@jturner1774 True, but the mental health thing are depend where you live, how much money do you make, who your friends, and how your family can handle your "singleness".
I like the face nigel’s making when evelyn is talking about men’s tinder photos. You could see nigel is looking at the camera back n forth like he’s already know what to say
Tbh is normal to marry late nowadays due to higher education and work commitments etc. No need to rush for relationship, take it easy and 顺其自然....rushing will end up meeting a not so good quality candidates though (from my experience) haha 😆 u will met your best partner/soulmate when u r at your best condition and when times come~
Evelyn, good for you! It's good to see you opening up and having a willingness to get back into dating and such. You seem to have a wonderful personality and it's starting to show more with each podcast. And I'm not sure if it's true that Asian men aren't as bald as men from other races. I don't know many Asian men that are completely bald, but I do know quite a few that have some bad receding hairlines.
I recommend Chop Suey: A Cultural History of Chinese Food in the United States by Andrew Coe. Asian people who migrated to the United States had to modify dishes to get Americans to buy their food. "Food snobs" love to criticize Italian American cooking but something similar happened to them.
You guys... 30s are young. You are not leftovers, you are just getting started! It's better to have discernment over potential romances than to just go after whoever. Evelyn being so emotionally intelligent as you are is a big plus. You both will have your happily ever afters, no doubt!
Leftover has been a degrading term people use directly and indirectly. In a world where marriage is an "achievement", they dont understand marriage is not everyone's goal in life. Dont worry, you are not the only one feeling that.
Nah, they're too degrading imo. I recently I excluded 18 and 19 yo from my settings and added up to 35, because I want someone who know what she wants and is not walking child. And I'm 25. So yeah, they do not represent my views on dating at all and I'm also dating considering marriage.
Haha. I totally feel your pain about the makeup but opposite. I lived in Cambodia and it was yellow or ghost white makeup. Can I get a light beige here? 😂
Evelyn, your insightful-ness makes you beautiful. Also, I know Kevin and have to say that Nigel is 10x a man Kevin is or 10 Kevins makes up a Nigel. Solidarity and Unity!
I was smiling and laughing throughout the podcast 😂 I love you guys! Thank you for making my super stressful week a whole lot better ❤️❤️❤️ PS: Evelyn! It’s okay to be super horny!!! Hahaha love that you guys didn’t cut that out
As an asian, I actually grew up sleeping on a mattress with nothing under it. My family and I still do that till this day. Is that a sign that we are turning psycho? 😂
Evelyn, please be brave and reliaze what you want.. please be yourself.. your happiness and horny are waiting for around the corner.. greeting from Malaysia fan 😉 you're getting more care about your dressing and your make up, that's is very good of progress and influence by Nigel.. btw, Nigel, you're really something.. I luv both of you and I never missed up any your podcasts and videos.. God bless you guys
I see a lot of comments criticizing Nigel and supporting Evelynn, but I feel the other way. Nigel is joking, even if what he says is distasteful. Evelynn shows bias and makes generalizations and is perfectly serious. She's very aware of the hardships involved with being Asian, being a woman, and being overweight. But she won't recognize good things and that race or sex isn't what defines a victim. She doesn't do many jokes, she just scolds Nigel. She pontificates on societal norms while perpetuating others. It's not comedy; it's a lecture. I don't dislike her, but she is voluntarily playing buzzkill.
Nonono, Asians have every right to be saying yellow lives matter. Since Covid-19 they've been experiencing a SHIT TON of hate crimes. Asian lives matter and black lives matter. Anybody who is unfairly treated should be able to speak up about their issuss
@@christopherbrady8074 I agree with this too! I just also understand how using the [insert] Lives Matter slogan is mostly done as a disingenuous rebuttal to BLM... "White lives matter too", "what about Blue lives (Cops)", etc. Not to mention calling Asians yellow in itself is rooted in historically racist ideas against Asians perpetuated by white people.
Johnny Sins and the Hot Felon are very attractive bald men. Hair is a distraction to the face. If a guy looks good bald and if a girl looks cute with a pixie cut then their face is the real asset and are truly more beautiful than people with (long) hair.
Pls i rush over here listening from spotify podcast as soon as Nigel said is there any bald kpop artist. Uhm Yes? Google up Peniel from BtoB😌 He aint bald bald though
I'm 39, divorced, no past drama, no kids, living in a very well populated area, but I feel like I'm only getting responses from those who have kids that are getting ready to graduate or people think i'm fake and get reported. My point is it doesn't matter what age you are, dating is tough.
As a single person who's in their late twenties with a lot of single friends in their late twenties, I can assure you not we're not leftovers! We just didn't have the opportunity to meet the right person, or have been too focused on our career with our two phones to date!
Plus you can just have friends and tinder.
Do you know how ridiculous that sounds to a 50 year old divorcee? If you take care of yourself you are set to become MORE attractive in the next few decades. You are likely to become more impressive in your career. You are likely to get better at spotting a mate right for you. You may discover more emotional intelligence, which often makes you more charming. You may get more perspective on relationships, like ok I am getting angry but it is so not worth hurting the feelings of someone you love. Just let it go. You are nothing like a leftover. You are like the Lamborghini Aventador spitting fire out the exhaust but worried a Ford F-150 can catch you. Trust me, you will be ok.
What are these two on about with left overs and bruised apples? Those who didn't get married 'on time' are no less than no who did. Haiyaaa Nigel & Evelyn .....why so weak? Haa? Whyyy sooo weeaakk???? 😜
🟨✊🏾As a black woman ✊I’m standing with the Asian community. Cause I know how it feels 😤
💚
💛💛💛
As a white woman, i stand with Asian people, black people and anyone who has been threatened or hurt because of their race or ethnicity.
welcome to our community :)
Steve Lives Matter also
I can relate so much in this episode, I’m so happy Evelyn is healing, this is the first time I felt Nigel is making a good point in broken people. It’s harsh but so true, it stamp into my heart so much, so relatable.
The more I know Evelyn, the more I love her.
I want her to know that we don’t NEED someone to be by our side, but it’s ok to WANT someone. We can be happy with our family and our friends. Men are not always our happy ending. The right person will come at a right time. We don’t need to rush.
Wrong: many singles in their 30s are anything but leftover or broken. Especially women (according to recent studies). The people that ‘got taken’ and caught up into long-term relationships are not necessarily the happiest ones on Earth. Being in a relationship does not come without its flaws , challenges and difficulties. If you are fully committed to love and accept someone you truly care for and love, then you’ll have to take, accept and love them with the whole package they come with, which include: personality traits, good qualities, strength as well as weakness and all the other flaws. And if you genuinely choose to stay with that person you may as well want to care for them enough to support them either in good and hard times. Being engaged and bound in a healthy relationship should imply also that you will eventually grow with your partner, so that both of you are willing to always take it to the next / new level, so that the relationship itself will then evolve but for the better and thus won’t stay stationary. And there is a lot of (hard) work involved in that.. So, just don’t delude yourself by thinking that to be engaged or married is like eating a piece of cake and necessarily opens up the ‘’magic portal’’ for happiness. So, please do not assume the people that got taken before their 30s are all ‘good’ and worth taking. This conclusion is a product of terrible and outdated misconceptions and culturally biased thoughts. It’s probably much healthier for an individual (regardless of their gender) to be single or ‘leftover’ rather than being in a unhappy/tormented, abusive or toxic relationship. And furthermore : some people may opt for remaining single in the meantime because they just set their standards high or too high.
Better to be single than in a bad relationship!
Unmarried women live longer and have better mental health than married women.
Not leftover, FREE!
@@jturner1774 True, but the mental health thing are depend where you live, how much money do you make, who your friends, and how your family can handle your "singleness".
@@jturner1774 True 😄
nigel: boring with no issues is better than interesting with issues
also nigel: baggage is great everybody needs it
He is living in paradox
I like the face nigel’s making when evelyn is talking about men’s tinder photos. You could see nigel is looking at the camera back n forth like he’s already know what to say
imagine Nigel going to therapy on zoom, and he is holding his mic on his hand...😂
Nigel: I don’t get a big head
Nigel 2 min later: my pro shoots are close to my DIY. 😂
Tbh is normal to marry late nowadays due to higher education and work commitments etc. No need to rush for relationship, take it easy and 顺其自然....rushing will end up meeting a not so good quality candidates though (from my experience) haha 😆 u will met your best partner/soulmate when u r at your best condition and when times come~
Is it me or does Evelyn’s hair look amazing today
Evelyn looks more and more prettier with every episode - She's glowing! #TEAMEVELYN
Nigel: name one bald kpop artist
Me: Sungjin, Kyungsoo, Xiumin and Peniel used to be bald😂
Shaved head isn't the same as bald
@@HappyGardenOfLife well, close enough 🤷♀️
Nigel is even cuter in this episode. Less harsh too lol. So cute explaining stuff lol
There is a hashtag, that's #stopasianhate!!! Look it up on insta there's a lot ppl and resources that spread the awareness of the issue!
The Rock looks better without hair. 🙃
Ye . I think he look bad in hair!!
Vin Diesel as well!. Actually Jason Statham with hair is weird.
I was screaming this at my iPad while I was watching it 😂
totally agree
RIGHT GODDAMN I WAS LOOKING FOR THIS- No hate, Dwayne, pls don't come at me.
Asian parents truly don’t have a filter! I empathize with you, Evelyn. 👍
I feel the same as Evelyn about using "how I actually look like in real life" photos. lol
you guys are always so funny omg
Im so happy at the fact nigel has a nice lighting. its easier to draw
Age appropriate is another term for "bargain bin" 😭😭😭
Evelyn, good for you! It's good to see you opening up and having a willingness to get back into dating and such. You seem to have a wonderful personality and it's starting to show more with each podcast.
And I'm not sure if it's true that Asian men aren't as bald as men from other races. I don't know many Asian men that are completely bald, but I do know quite a few that have some bad receding hairlines.
I recommend Chop Suey: A Cultural History of Chinese Food in the United States
by Andrew Coe. Asian people who migrated to the United States had to modify dishes to get Americans to buy their food. "Food snobs" love to criticize Italian American cooking but something similar happened to them.
YES THANK YOU FOR TALKING ABOUT THE ASIAN HATE CRIMES HAPPENING AROUND THE WORLD
You guys... 30s are young. You are not leftovers, you are just getting started! It's better to have discernment over potential romances than to just go after whoever. Evelyn being so emotionally intelligent as you are is a big plus. You both will have your happily ever afters, no doubt!
Evelyn is the best and most beautiful person ever. And I'm older than you.
Slide to her dm hahahahahaha
Tell her that you wanna get to know her wok hay
Thx for paying my student loan and cure my mother illness Dale. You are a really the best man out here
Tinder's group profile photo is so true and funny 🤣🤣🤣
Love the podcast
I was ok being single in my late 20’s until I saw this episode... I’m a leftover!
Leftover has been a degrading term people use directly and indirectly. In a world where marriage is an "achievement", they dont understand marriage is not everyone's goal in life. Dont worry, you are not the only one feeling that.
Nah, they're too degrading imo. I recently I excluded 18 and 19 yo from my settings and added up to 35, because I want someone who know what she wants and is not walking child. And I'm 25.
So yeah, they do not represent my views on dating at all and I'm also dating considering marriage.
Came here because of Uncle Roger but stayed for Evelyn. You are so loveable Evelyn!
So funny , so entertaining as usual !!!
Loving this podcast 👍
hey nigel i was wondering when will you show us you and aunty hellen meet up
ps you noticed how i spell auty hellen with a hell
other than Evelyn i think Nigel also had a glow up
I agree I’m leftovers
And the group photo thing and ugly selfies is so true!
Haha. I totally feel your pain about the makeup but opposite. I lived in Cambodia and it was yellow or ghost white makeup. Can I get a light beige here? 😂
I can't wait until nigel is back in Edinburgh he is getting punished pretty boy 😂😂🏴🏴.
Love this podcast.
I had an asian photography teacher named Mr. Vu and he was bald and pretty good looking.
Evelyn, your insightful-ness makes you beautiful. Also, I know Kevin and have to say that Nigel is 10x a man Kevin is or 10 Kevins makes up a Nigel. Solidarity and Unity!
I was smiling and laughing throughout the podcast 😂 I love you guys! Thank you for making my super stressful week a whole lot better ❤️❤️❤️
PS: Evelyn! It’s okay to be super horny!!! Hahaha love that you guys didn’t cut that out
Sexual intelligence
Sexual wellness
One of your best episode.
Very true Nigel, YOU LOOK GUD!! wooo
"Diabetic people just trying to survive" This made me so sad !! 😥😥 Yes, that's how i feel... a walking dead !
Super loving Nigel's background for this episode.
4 minutes in and Evelyn starts slaughtering 😂😂😂
I recommend “Yellow Peril” as a slogan for the movement
As an asian, I actually grew up sleeping on a mattress with nothing under it. My family and I still do that till this day. Is that a sign that we are turning psycho? 😂
Nigel is a ⭐️ STAR❤️✨👍
All the best guys with your love lives!
I was kind of tense then I saw that a new episode was out. Don't you love it when stuff like that has that effect.
Evelyn, please be brave and reliaze what you want.. please be yourself.. your happiness and horny are waiting for around the corner.. greeting from Malaysia fan 😉 you're getting more care about your dressing and your make up, that's is very good of progress and influence by Nigel.. btw, Nigel, you're really something.. I luv both of you and I never missed up any your podcasts and videos.. God bless you guys
I am on the fence about like Nigel or not. He's bordering between a funny jerk or an insensitive nice guy.
Does anyone else do tai chi in the mornings? 😂
51:30 my step dad does that lol 😂😂
He is very handsome! Greetings from Tricity in Poland 😘
from vietnam with love
Evelyn u look really good. Which magazine are you going to be featured Nigel?
Augustman.
I love it because its so relatable
I have to say that Nigel looks like a Japanese singer/actor Hoshino Gen
He totally does
Haha yes agree
Tinder is like where's Waldo 😂
is it on spotify
As an American, Nigel isn’t wrong… I had to look up the Pacific Islands… I totally forgot what I was originally looking for 5 minutes later
you guys should search yellow lives matter, you get this funny picture of asian people who are making a photo
So funny at 21:00😂😂😂
I think Nigel has a nice smile, you are attractive. I thought you were hot on your old pictures when you look slightly older. And your are hilarious.
omgosh, he is abit narcissistic HAHAH
nigel dont leave malaysia, i am sad :(
🟨 oh Nigel!
Michael Jordan looks good as a bald guy. Wentworth Miller (Michael Scofield) definitely looks hot being bald.
& 1 of them is gay.
I see a lot of comments criticizing Nigel and supporting Evelynn, but I feel the other way. Nigel is joking, even if what he says is distasteful. Evelynn shows bias and makes generalizations and is perfectly serious.
She's very aware of the hardships involved with being Asian, being a woman, and being overweight. But she won't recognize good things and that race or sex isn't what defines a victim.
She doesn't do many jokes, she just scolds Nigel. She pontificates on societal norms while perpetuating others. It's not comedy; it's a lecture.
I don't dislike her, but she is voluntarily playing buzzkill.
@Evelyn - You should check out House of Ho. Much better than Bling Empire
i feel like evelyn understands me
ok i love that turtleneck
Wow. Good show.
About bald things, he said that coz he didn't see indonesian super hero name Deddy Corbuzier.
Nigel really reminds me of Rick from Rick and Morty.
Some men do look good/ better bald. Shemar Moore, Dwayne Johnson, and morris Chestnut to name a few.
Asian male hotness....😂😂😂 💕
3 weeks till Rice To Meet You #100
Signed on just to subscribe
That title........nigel no no no
Whataboutism is one of the main methods used to detract from the BLM movement, so I get where you're coming from!
@@jpolt1317 asians experience more racism than black, stfu you know nothing
@@MatthewLim2019 You wish...
Nonono, Asians have every right to be saying yellow lives matter. Since Covid-19 they've been experiencing a SHIT TON of hate crimes. Asian lives matter and black lives matter. Anybody who is unfairly treated should be able to speak up about their issuss
@@christopherbrady8074 I agree with this too! I just also understand how using the [insert] Lives Matter slogan is mostly done as a disingenuous rebuttal to BLM... "White lives matter too", "what about Blue lives (Cops)", etc.
Not to mention calling Asians yellow in itself is rooted in historically racist ideas against Asians perpetuated by white people.
lol there was a show on netflix called the unicorn.
Yellow Fist for YLM? What about a Bruce Lee Kung Fu pose?!
Agreed Hair looks better than shaved head ✌️
One word *Rice* 🍚
Johnny Sins and the Hot Felon are very attractive bald men. Hair is a distraction to the face. If a guy looks good bald and if a girl looks cute with a pixie cut then their face is the real asset and are truly more beautiful than people with (long) hair.
a glance on the thumbnail i thought is stephen chow
Have a safe flight home Nigel
I manscaped in my twenties , 😂
Two ugly person: Optimistic vs Pessimistic point of view 😂🤣😂
First of all these two ain't bargain bin level.
Ha! I’m milf territory now 😂
Nigel, dont you feel hot wearing like that? 😅
Maybe the AC is on at full blast 😆😆😆
Why not ALM: Asian Lives Matter?
Probably because some people might think that you're referring to All Lives Matter. I'm not sure though
Pls i rush over here listening from spotify podcast as soon as Nigel said is there any bald kpop artist. Uhm Yes? Google up Peniel from BtoB😌 He aint bald bald though
He shaved not bald
Idk I feel like most guys post photos with the homies to show they value there friends especially in a small town you homies are your brothers
Harith Iskander looks gorgeous too
Nigel, please don't get a dog if you're a very busy person/travel a lot. They need a lot of care, attention and walks. Get a cat instead 😸
Long hair in many cultures signified status, strength, fertility. Ie. long hair was good. Lol
Korean make-up artists are good however, they go too far when the male character wears more make-up than a girl...
i like dudes with heavy make up 😌💞