Loved the point about staying calm when others try to provoke! Nothing throws people off more than not giving them the reaction they crave. Silence speaks louder than any comeback could.
This principle is true! I have been there with my husband and his rude remarks and mental and verbal abuse. Some of my husband's children, also show me disrespect. I will and follow this principle. If you don't practice this principle, you will always be there Charlie Brown.
I appreciated how you explained that protecting your peace isn't selfish, it's essential. It’s something we all need to hear, especially when we feel guilty about walking away from toxic situations. Learning to prioritize my mental well-being has already brought so much more clarity and peace into my life.
I had an incident of disrespect moments b4 I found this video and I thought it was fantastic. Very thought provoking and I am going to set my boundaries because of your advice Thank you!
"Honestly, I used to think setting boundaries was something only parents did at 8 p.m. But after this, I’m convinced it's the adult version of saying, 'Do not disturb.' Much appreciated, Stoic Secrets; you might just save
There is no gender barrier for disrespect. There are plenty of people with venom in male and female human existence. This is my experience from past 60 odd years😮
Its amazing. ive actually witnessed and experienced people trying to trigger me, and when I responded with silence, you could see the shame and defeat on their faces. Their shoulders literally slumped in defeat. And theIr behavior changed. In my case, I didn't have to walk away. Walk away not to escape, BUT TO ELEVATE.
"The concept of silence as a tool for peace is so underrated. I can already see how it can completely shift the dynamic in tense situations. Thanks for this insightful perspective! (25:30)
I honestly take in what is being said I then decide whether they are being heart felt or deceitful. If heart felt I evaluate my self and if I see I was in the wrong I say so. If what they are saying is deceitful and disrespectful I respond if I can and let them know what I think and feel and that is usually enough because in the past I usually allowed the disrespect but not now I respond appropriately. Most people that are used to you allowing the disrespect won't think you will ever stand up for your self and when you do they will walk away themselves.
I learned years ago that there are times when doing nothing is the right course to take. I also found that if someone was purposely trying to provoke you, be ready because if they were expecting a reaction and didn't get it, quite often they will try again. This time it will be more intense or grandiose than the first time and they like to have an audience. This is when you continue to do nothing and they have humiliated not you but themselves
Kevin Lovell is a serious man who has been bothering me since day one of my best friends in her lives and the other people sure gather around me let everyone off easy times and I see ❤😅of them
IAM free from the people who disrespect me. Thank you. 4 years gone by. I don't speak or talk to her. That's my daughter in law. Happy today. Thank you ❤❤
I re-establish my boundaries at that point, and tell a narcissist that he/she is abusing me, they don't always realise they are abusive. Controlling people too, I tell them what they're doing, it's working
Life is nothing to compromise with disrespect people no need anxiety , no stressful, just live happily harmonious prosperity wealthier than ever before with no regrets & Smiling laughter😂🤣😄
I have the complete opposite problem, I just sit there silent when I actually want to, Need to speak up. I just don't have it in me! So I'm just a easy walking target and draw awful people to unload on me since they know I won't fight back.
LOL in response to the question how do you handle people who disrespect you. Let me try to paraphrase an ancient verse in contemporary slang, agree quickly with your enemy, and then get the hell out of there LOL
I'm being bullied by my driving instructor. It's 5 days to go until my test and I've been on the brink of quitting. You're saying until we stand up for ourselves we're going to be disrespected? But we cant say it in a confrontational way? Most of us that are targets are unsuspecting, wouldn't think we'd have to assert boundaries learning to drive or doing our jobs etc. By the time we're losing sleep over being bullied it's too late
Lmfao i wish my only problem was my driving instructor from 20 years ago Literally problem over withon 1 hr damn Dont grow up and face problems that are caused and dig into your soul for eternity lmao
Loved the point about staying calm when others try to provoke! Nothing throws people off more than not giving them the reaction they crave. Silence speaks louder than any comeback could.
Agreed!
The power of boundaries is everything. Silence speaks volumes when words aren't worth the energy. Thanks for the reminder!
This principle is true! I have been there with my husband and his rude remarks and mental and verbal abuse. Some of my husband's children, also show me disrespect. I will and follow this principle. If you don't practice this principle, you will always be there Charlie Brown.
I appreciated how you explained that protecting your peace isn't selfish, it's essential. It’s something we all need to hear, especially when we feel guilty about walking away from toxic situations. Learning to prioritize my mental well-being has already brought so much more clarity and peace into my life.
The maturity of the teachings in this video is immensely appreciated. 🎉🎉🎉
Easier said than done. In real life, silence and setting boundaries don't always work. Some people just don't respect anything, no matter what you do.
walk away
Truth.
once said, that's it. let them run rabbits and howl at the moon.
Indeed
Amen and I am not lonely, because acquaintances, and strangers treat you better than your own Family. I'm a Survivor not a Victim!!!
Not anymore. I walked away. Cause of disrespect. Thank you 😊
I had an incident of disrespect moments b4 I found this video and I thought it was fantastic. Very thought provoking and I am going to set my boundaries because of your advice
Thank you!
I love you
"Honestly, I used to think setting boundaries was something only parents did at 8 p.m. But after this, I’m convinced it's the adult version of saying, 'Do not disturb.' Much appreciated, Stoic Secrets; you might just save
I am stoic. Greatly appreciate your channel full of wisdom.
May the truth be told. Us woman we suffer the most. From our husband and children. Thank you for this lovely programme ❤❤❤
Love, romance, relationships, marriage and kids are overrated!
There is no gender barrier for disrespect. There are plenty of people with venom in male and female human existence. This is my experience from past 60 odd years😮
It's amazing how prioritizing your inner peace can shift your entire perspective and lead to personal growth. Stoicism is a game-changer! Thankyou!
Its amazing. ive actually witnessed and experienced people trying to trigger me, and when I responded with silence, you could see the shame and defeat on their faces. Their shoulders literally slumped in defeat. And theIr behavior changed. In my case, I didn't have to walk away. Walk away not to escape, BUT TO ELEVATE.
I would rather walk away than to continuosly feel drained.
Love this and your advice is great and I learn new things , Everything you teach I have been learnt from my mum.thank you
"The concept of silence as a tool for peace is so underrated. I can already see how it can completely shift the dynamic in tense situations. Thanks for this insightful perspective! (25:30)
I honestly take in what is being said I then decide whether they are being heart felt or deceitful. If heart felt I evaluate my self and if I see I was in the wrong I say so. If what they are saying is deceitful and disrespectful I respond if I can and let them know what I think and feel and that is usually enough because in the past I usually allowed the disrespect but not now I respond appropriately. Most people that are used to you allowing the disrespect won't think you will ever stand up for your self and when you do they will walk away themselves.
Stop associates, wasteing your time, walks away silently, no second chance to those:(
I have found these lessons and this channel, greatly enriching. Thank you.
I learned years ago that there are times when doing nothing is the right course to take. I also found that if someone was purposely trying to provoke you, be ready because if they were expecting a reaction and didn't get it, quite often they will try again. This time it will be more intense or grandiose than the first time and they like to have an audience. This is when you continue to do nothing and they have humiliated not you but themselves
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The truth is that some creatures only respect violence...the universal truth among all living beings.
🙏✨👍 l love listening to this it's very relaxing and ease my mind and really appreciate it.thank you👍 💖✨ very much ..🙌 thank you
IAM free from the people who disrespect me. Thank you. 4 years gone by. I don't speak or talk to her. That's my daughter in law. Happy today. Thank you ❤❤
I don’t talk to my own family members including my own adult children and siblings. Happier than ever now!
Easy. Dont acknowledge them nor their existences. Focus more on yourself than them, youll do and feel better😊
Thank you for explaining these principals so that they're easy to understand.
I'm stoic!!!
I re-establish my boundaries at that point, and tell a narcissist that he/she is abusing me, they don't always realise they are abusive. Controlling people too, I tell them what they're doing, it's working
The toxic relatives so true .
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I am good at setting boundaries with others but I need to set boundaries with myself.
Ya that’s the hardest part.
This is useful and well-taught. Thank you.
Words of great wisdom!
These kind of people crossed the LINE intentionally, period!!
I do behavour in this way , still very good to be reminded , just feeling down at the moment thanks
Thank you well defined
I have decided come families or otherwise. Amen glad for the decision I made. God is my witness 🙏🙏🙏🙏
This video is powerful, however it easier said then done . keep up the excellent work
i learned a lot from you
Thank you...for your wisdom ❤
Keep me in form
This is what I need.
Life is nothing to compromise with disrespect people no need anxiety , no stressful, just live happily harmonious prosperity wealthier than ever before with no regrets & Smiling laughter😂🤣😄
I really am trying to apply this information in my life. Especially with Thanksgiving is coming.
I have the complete opposite problem, I just sit there silent when I actually want to, Need to speak up. I just don't have it in me! So I'm just a easy walking target and draw awful people to unload on me since they know I won't fight back.
I am stoic 🙏🏿
I am stoic god bless you
A still tongue keeps a wise head
Sometimes silence does not work in toxic environments.
Thank you at list I am learning
This is so good
Thanks for sharing 🙏🏼
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I ignore it. I'm not responsible for their problems.
Thank you
There is no such thing as re venge in Stoicism... There is only justice....
Not all the time ppl don't always respect ppl that respect they self
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Where were you all my life this is more helpful than the new testament
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Depends how & who 😮
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LOL in response to the question how do you handle people who disrespect you. Let me try to paraphrase an ancient verse in contemporary slang, agree quickly with your enemy, and then get the hell out of there LOL
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I'm being bullied by my driving instructor. It's 5 days to go until my test and I've been on the brink of quitting. You're saying until we stand up for ourselves we're going to be disrespected? But we cant say it in a confrontational way? Most of us that are targets are unsuspecting, wouldn't think we'd have to assert boundaries learning to drive or doing our jobs etc. By the time we're losing sleep over being bullied it's too late
Tell your driving instructor to eat it and find a new one
Lmfao i wish my only problem was my driving instructor from 20 years ago
Literally problem over withon 1 hr damn
Dont grow up and face problems that are caused and dig into your soul for eternity lmao
How to use this when the negative toxic person is your child?
What will I do if my subordinate do not follow instruction
In thumbnail, they spelled handle as Handel lol Handel is a music composer. See its not about what happens to you, but how you handel it.
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Spelling - handle
Are you the voice in video
its AI
I will always be stoic student 😂😂😂
Cut 2017.so he can't do anything
My Husband is the one who disrecfectme and my children he is lyer , manipulator ,
"HANDEL"...who made this video? A 12 year old who skips English classes?
This is horrible advice especially 17 minutes in.
SHITE AI BAD TITLE - BLAH!
Silence 🤐🙊 love peace always 🎬 🧩 🙌 💯 🪜 🌎 👍 🤍 🪜 🪄 🫒 😊❤
"How long are you going to wait before you demand the best for yourself?"
- Epictetus
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