they are severely fu cked up individuals, there is no doubting that. the first vid i ever watched on narcs, the narrator ended it with: if anyone lives a living hell, its a narcissist. i never forgot that. continuous, self inflicted, self torment.
That's just it. The narcissist absolutely cannot stand his/her own company, cannot bear to bore themselves to sleep at night. Anyone will do for them. Someone is better than no one.
this reminds me of a chess game....u sacrifice pawn, etc, etc....what u give up...is too set up an ultimate, move, position...final victory. after complete, deception...strategy......the goal remains the same....the complete destruction of the other side......its complete war.......its a sad way to do romance.............really ms radin...u r kinda devastating
💯 My parents would constantly treat me as if there was something wrong with me for not being married. They would say, " You don't want to be alone for the rest of your life, do you?" And THEY were the ones who settled and spent their entire lives miserable, because THEY couldn't be alone. One bad marriage was enough for me to learn my lesson, and take my time finding the right man. Unlike my parents who were both married previously, and never learned from their mistakes.
@@jodizellmer994 people can be so judgmental and yet they never lived in your shoes! Im always the single one too so i can relate. So if you do go somewhere and try to find someone does it feel awkward if you’re by yourself? Letting go of social media like Facebook was good for me in a lot of ways but not if i tried dating because there is little to go off of and my old friends I’ve lost connection to. Facebook was draining my energy though!
@@jodizellmer994 I apologize for my comment because I wasn’t too clear in my return comment and I was reading it as I was falling asleep What I was getting at was that don’t be afraid to be alone! Lots of is are out there dealing with people who are critical and don’t live up to their own advice. My parents that raised me were so judgmental the same. That really is painful hearing it from your own caretakers and contributed to low self esteem as it was in my case. I hope you find the power to move on and build that self identity apart from that which was bestowed upon you!
What my now X GF Covert Narcissist passive aggressive enjoys the most in her relationships ( Secrets) The more men she has at one time and she keeps secret from her other supplies , the More excited she becomes,in bed or just hanging out. It's a GAME of Secrets...She enjoys very much. The more ( Taboo ) the relationship,the more she wants .yes it excites her sexually. + It's a secret...with her employees or married men or business associates, More than one man in same day or same week. Validates how wonderful she wants to think she is... Secrets 🥳❤️🔥...
you dont hear the secret thing much pertaining to them, but you are correct; its a big part of their constant dilemma of life. id suggest you bail, before you get dissed. its the only big win you can get on one of these nut jobs.
@@jodizellmer994 education is everything. the more you know, the more you understand. got my education totally by chance; jesus throwing me a bone, i guess?
They fear being alone with themselves so need constant constant constant 24/7 attention which is why they rotate supply to get their insatiable self serving needs met 🙄 its always ALL about them in all ways.
What should I do when my nex refuses to move on from me ? She's fixated on fixing the relationship with me and I am not willing to take her back at all.
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Narcissists are boring. They have to be abandoned, amidst a million other horrendous attributes they possess.
The Narssist in my life showed me a side so disturbing I can't even comprehend 😢
they are severely fu cked up individuals, there is no doubting that. the first vid i ever watched on narcs, the narrator ended it with: if anyone lives a living hell, its a narcissist. i never forgot that. continuous, self inflicted, self torment.
they have 0 appreciation for anyone, anything.
Their fear of abandonment sets them up for abandonment.
and they never let themselves down, they will see to that.
Self sabotage at its peak.
That's just it. The narcissist absolutely cannot stand his/her own company, cannot bear to bore themselves to sleep at night. Anyone will do for them. Someone is better than no one.
They need constant validation 24/7
this reminds me of a chess game....u sacrifice pawn, etc, etc....what u give up...is too set up an ultimate, move, position...final victory. after complete, deception...strategy......the goal remains the same....the complete destruction of the other side......its complete war.......its a sad way to do romance.............really ms radin...u r kinda devastating
They scapegoat or project their issues onto you!
💯 My parents would constantly treat me as if there was something wrong with me for not being married. They would say, " You don't want to be alone for the rest of your life, do you?" And THEY were the ones who settled and spent their entire lives miserable, because THEY couldn't be alone. One bad marriage was enough for me to learn my lesson, and take my time finding the right man. Unlike my parents who were both married previously, and never learned from their mistakes.
@@jodizellmer994 people can be so judgmental and yet they never lived in your shoes! Im always the single one too so i can relate. So if you do go somewhere and try to find someone does it feel awkward if you’re by yourself? Letting go of social media like Facebook was good for me in a lot of ways but not if i tried dating because there is little to go off of and my old friends I’ve lost connection to. Facebook was draining my energy though!
@@jodizellmer994 I apologize for my comment because I wasn’t too clear in my return comment and I was reading it as I was falling asleep What I was getting at was that don’t be afraid to be alone! Lots of is are out there dealing with people who are critical and don’t live up to their own advice. My parents that raised me were so judgmental the same. That really is painful hearing it from your own caretakers and contributed to low self esteem as it was in my case. I hope you find the power to move on and build that self identity apart from that which was bestowed upon you!
Not human.....
What my now X GF Covert Narcissist passive aggressive enjoys the most in her relationships ( Secrets) The more men she has at one time and she keeps secret from her other supplies , the More excited she becomes,in bed or just hanging out. It's a GAME of Secrets...She enjoys very much. The more ( Taboo ) the relationship,the more she wants .yes it excites her sexually. + It's a secret...with her employees or married men or business associates, More than one man in same day or same week. Validates how wonderful she wants to think she is... Secrets 🥳❤️🔥...
you dont hear the secret thing much pertaining to them, but you are correct; its a big part of their constant dilemma of life. id suggest you bail, before you get dissed. its the only big win you can get on one of these nut jobs.
It's a pretty messed up dynamic!
its hard for a normal, thinking, mind, to wrap itself around the twisted mess that resides inside their head.
@lilfairycupcake Exactly! They have a mind of their own, that makes sense to nobody but them.
@@jodizellmer994 education is everything. the more you know, the more you understand. got my education totally by chance; jesus throwing me a bone, i guess?
Damn right and straight up Lady. Your brilliant.
They fear being alone with themselves so need constant constant constant 24/7 attention which is why they rotate supply to get their insatiable self serving needs met 🙄 its always ALL about them in all ways.
This piece of* paper or that piece of paper. Loool.
What should I do when my nex refuses to move on from me ? She's fixated on fixing the relationship with me and I am not willing to take her back at all.
real easy. 0 contact. they will drag you around in their stupidity for a lifetime, "if you let them".
You're my hero!
A Fur Coat?
In L.A.?
In August?
Must be a _"Rocky Mountain High"..._
Ngl she soo fine bro I’ll watch her vids all day
Your the most beautiful person ❤
she seems to be a good soul.