The Four Confidences by Ed Latimore (Animated)
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The four confidences in the process, the instruction, the past and in learning. It's 24 pages short and to the point written by the charismatic heavyweight boxer Edward Latimore. Stepping into the ring knowing you can get hurt can overwhelm the toughest combative sports athletes. Ed shares his insights on how he built his confidence, leaving out the usual self-development fluff.
Taking action, learning along the (right) way, eliminating mistakes from happening again and actively seeking good sources ― that's how confidence is built.
"The Four Confidences are based on cold, hard experience, not theory. The same way I got confidence in my boxing, mathematical, and social abilities is what I teach here. When I wasn't confident in my self to stay sober, I relied on these techniques to help me stop drinking." ― Ed Latimore
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A smart man learns from his mistakes. A stupid man doesn't learn from his mistakes. A wise man learns from someone else's mistakes.
The idiot doesn't think that he can make a mistake.
nie one
Titus James yes very nie one
Titus James Iv been all four of these men.
Proverbs 12:15
Titus James well said
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Back at it again! This one's been a long time in the making. Hope you like how it turned out. I know plenty of you can relate. I've no doubt trusting yourself / holding yourself in high esteem is one of the key things for a good life. Having insecurities is nothing to be worried about as long as you're working on yourself.
Taking action, learning along the (right) way, eliminating mistakes from happening again and actively seeking good sources ― that's how confidence is built.
"The Four Confidences are based on cold, hard experience, not theory. The same way I got confidence in my boxing, mathematical, and social abilities is what I teach here. When I wasn't confident in my self to stay sober, I relied on these techniques to help me stop drinking."
- You can get the 24 pages short, but to the point e-book at edlatimore.lpages.co/the-four-confidences.
- You can also follow Ed on Twitter @EdLatimore and check out his blog (the only one I'm reading at the moment) at edlatimore.com.
PS: Ed's a great and inspiring guy, because he's real. It seems to me very few things are real today. That's why I decided to share his content adding a bit of my own. *Thanks for watching and being patient.*
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illacertus hey man love your work and there Is nothing like information with real life experience attached DOUBLE APPLAUSE👏🏿👏🏿👏🏿🙌🏿 thank you
Great Work Mr. Illacertus.
thank you for this video! how can I Start a youtube channel like this? what it Takes as tools? thank you again
been a long time man! :D
Thanks for making these videos. They are great works.
"If you are going through hell, keep going" probably my favorite quote ever...im sure everyone is afraid to hit rock bottom but if you're already rock bottom in hell, I think a certain strength is developed by continuing to move forward in the presence of hellish situations....at least that's what it means to me
To me it means that if you'll stop you'll just stay there, in hell. So you gotta keep moving if you don't want to be there.
C'est la vie!
To be an illacertian (someone who follows this channel) you must be passionate about self-improvement. Stay on the journey my friends. :)
Illacertian did u jus make that up?
I read it with the Masters' accent
this guy has mastered the humble brag
You constantly manage to give me ever more reasons to keep pushing harder and feel invincible. Keep up the amazing work !!!
Keep it up!!!
Wow that was nice of you. 😀
You're personal story on this path to confidence reminded me of my own story: An abusive and pride driven father, myself suffering through depression, anxiety and crippling insecurity until I took up martial Arts in the second half of high school. By the end, I was fearless, and confident like never before.
I stumbled across this channel just over a month ago, since then I have been applying the teachings and been taking notes and I have seen vast improvements in all areas of my, life slowly but surely, thank you so much and keep up the good work, mad respect for you
underrated channel
Who underrated it?
very*
Most men have issues with their fathers. I know I do. We can't walk around with a chip on our shoulder. Change your thought processes and take ownership of your life. You will be successful.
I never comment but running across your channel a couple months ago have really helped me by putting into action a great many things I have learned from this channel. I have gotten two raises and just recently a promotion with the reinforcement your words and references have given me along with working hard. Thanks!👌🏾. And I'll keep watching
This video has really hit home for me. I had confidence issues growing up probably b/c my dad was abusive and egotistical as well. I'd figured having no dad was better than one that always puts you down. If I didn't know how to do something he would thoroughly shame me b/c he always learned by watching (with no instructions) and doing things " automatically." And he always had to bring it to the next level to gain the upper hand if I fought back he would threaten to kill me. But once I let my ego go and let him be the leader, as he refers himself as, I was able to get enough space to make plans to gain my independence and confidence. Thx for the video I finally feel like I can share with someone who experienced something similar.
p.s. boxing has really helped regain my confidence in defending myself. But most importantly it removed my fear when in a confrontation, allowing me to think clearly enough to talk him down from killing me in my sleep (since he now knows he can't beat me in a fight).
"if I fought back he would threaten to kill me."
That's not a father (although biologically he might be), those are the words of a psychopath. Sorry you had to go through that (I went through similar, and constantly battle the feelings of inferiority planted in me). Hope you're in a better place today.
Illacertus you have outdone yourself yet again. I would be foolish to watch this video only once. What a complete and artistic piece of work. This could not be more relevant to my life, and I am grateful you have spent so much time and energy producing a masterpiece of this nature. Keep going you Bauss
I like 👍 your videos before watching them.
They are just unbelievable. So helpful and productive.
Keep up your brilliant work.😊😊
I had no idea Ed was so insightful. Good fighter. It took the son of a legend to take him down.
I have a new found respect for the man.
Great presentation of his ideas. Well done.
Illacertus, my man, it's good to have your content back. You inspire us; your content teach us and give us the opportunities we want to strive for. Keep going, man!
this video made me cry.
I haven't *cried* in almost 10 years
thank you
Not only this video... But this channel share so much intellectual and moral power that I don't know if it is for the worst or the best that so few people (relative for the internet) know about it.
Anyway, I just hope that everybody can listen clearly all the knowledge being shared without distorting the information (either by twisting your words, or by taking in as absolute instructions)
Keep the amazing job.
I like how the story is beautifully narrated .
Awesome video. Such a motivation. Thank you very much!
I must say I started watching Improvement pill and saw your, input on top laws of power. I came to your page I watched the full video of it. I listened to it allllllll day yesterday and through the night. I woke up this morning and said let me see what else is on here. And My My My My, this was so helpful. It is exciting to know that your growth and what you have experienced is helping others. It is proof that if you keep going just a little at a time you can achieve great things. .... This information is going to be multiplied and make the change in this world that we so need. Thank you and continue to reach higher and higher.
Same here
"If you can trust yourself when all men doubt you, but make allowance for their doubting too... Yours is the Earth and everything that's in it." - Kipling
Great message, illacertus. Know those of us with confidence and strength of will also want to bring others to experience and live their best human selves for we all gain from it. Thank you for putting this message in video. I always appreciate them.
Your channel is amazing! Congrats for the awesome video :)
what congrats..he made it dude...u shall thank him instead
MY favorite line to tell my self is "I don't know how to can't". With that line I can do literally anything and I prove it constantly. People first called me a master of none. I am now a master of much and a learner of so much more. I desire to become a part of the unlimited class in humanity.
Am an aspiring boxer, Electronics engineering student, currently learning how to play the guitar and a deep love for life psychology. This video is perfect for me. *Once it sparks a fire in your spirit go and chase it*
This is the most beautiful motivational-animation on youtube!!!
lol corn dog
I'm not really big into these videos based on the fact that they practically tell you what you should do, but this guys process is natural and filled with experience. He introduces the Idea and articulates the idea both verbal and visual, a lot of others more or less just tell you how to act. I'm not sure why RUclips suggested this guy to me but it is nice to hear some form of rational thought and process.
I gotta admit your videos constantly challenge me to change my perspective of live and change my self for the better
*life hehe typo
I play your videos when i go to sleep so subconsciously i can grow. Thank you for these gems
Hey I really admire how much effort you put into each video and they all turn out great sir!
Been in a rut. Found this channel and am feeling better. thanks
I should have subbed after your first video - i knew I was hooked. I do not understand why you do not have 110 million subs. I do not believe that you are 22 as has been alleged - if so you must have magical parents and or family and environment. I take my hat off and raise my glass to you sir. Thank you for posting your brilliant work.
How in this world somebody dislike this??? Amazing fact
Erivaldo W. Santos quitters is why
Thank You illacertus from the bottom pf my heart. You don't know how much you changed my life just by posting these amazing videos. I'm more than grateful, thank you again.
Ur sorted thinking is soothing. Ur clarity is so good
this channel is the best thing i have come across in the last month. Informative videos, filled with motivation and beautiful animation. Thanks for all your work Illacertus
That's true the only difference between people who make it out from the depths, are those who believe they will see better, somehow you just know, without needing to be taught or told
Another excellent and inspirational video. Thank you for taking the time to distill this knowledge and your insights. In this way, I feel like you are a teacher and mentor even for those who are not aware that they need one.
I'm a really big fan of you illacertus. You've changed my whole life mainly because of the videos you had on the 48 laws of power. Thank you so much. Keep on doing this. I know you're gonna make it big. :)
I can relate with you. You know, I did the same. Learn how to fight (bjj), going to the gym, studied about positive mindset, pickup, psychology, etc.
Month ago i entered a very prestigious civil engineering competition - I got shortlisted. I had my interview on Friday that kicked my ass and the outcome, yesterday, was i didn't make it. At that moment, this video came to mind and i remembered how not get emotional about it but instead, figure out the weakness and work on it. Needless to say, i know what to work on in order to win next time!
thank you, thank you, thank you for bringing up the point that having a father who is detrimental to your mental health ( the nicest way I can put it) is worse then not having one at all. I'm so sick of hearing 'At least you had one' How does that make any sense at all?
They can't relate, nor do they care to. The fatherless have challenges, yes. But people assume abusive fathers "can't be that bad." Their kids didn't have a bloody father in their life, either. Instead, on top of all the other struggles, they had a man whose sole purpose seemed to be to make their lives living hell. Life's hard enough without being mentally (& physically) tortured by the person one is supposed to look up to. It's called "being a father" for a reason. That title is to be earned. It's not a "Congratulations-you-had-unprotected-sex badge."
Psychopathic "father" beats the living shit out of "his children" every day for no reason & pushes them to near suicide. Meanwhile the fatherless are fucking free to live. They can find some other role model/mentor figure & move on. That's hard, but not as hard. The others try to escape or deal with a cold-hearted tyrant that traumatizes them for life, when they're most helpless. Some of the greatest people in history had no parents to hold them back, even less so broken and life-hating despots.
illacertus Not to mention the worst part which is the subconscious programming you receive from an abusive dad, that stays with you into adulthood, affecting your relationships, work life, how you see yourself etc.. You have to deprogram and work to rebuild your mind to a healthy state as much as possible if you want any happiness and satisfaction before you die. My dad was a narc too. I’m recovering and I’m 39.
Hmmm 😍That voice... makes my heart melt, he could literally give me the recipe for chicken noodle soup and I'd still listen.
Chicken noodle soup IS sexy
Absolutely love your channel, I learn from every video I watch! Thank you so much for your had work :D
Have Faith in the process and don't give up.. Keep Going
Nice video it took me 30 years on this planet to get here. I can relate to it all.
Illacertus is still alive PogChamp
Just don't become too confident to the point of arrogance. Too much optimism or confidence just increases the height of the drop. I learned to be content with the outcome. I still believe in myself and push myself to the limit, but if I fail my will isn't shaken. In the end the best we can do is the best we can do and there's absolutely no shame in that. The beauty in that as well is you never truly know what your genuine limit is.
When u put a part of ur life into this synopsis that makes it even better
illacertus, I really like your content and the fact that you have a lot of background on history and universal laws, the fact that your tone to your content its so serious, makes perfect for summaries on Napoleon Hill's Laws of Success. Thank you!
I had no father, but this guy is teaching me to be the best one. I'm loving the journey
What I take away :
1 only 20% of what I do produce 80% of the results I get (use this to figure out what actions to apply while learning)
2 Do everything I possibly can to meet a mentor
3 See myself winning before my eyes
And most important, before even starting :
4 KNOW MY OUTCOME out of this situation, day and my Definite Chief Aim in life.
Thank you for this wonderful peace of learning ! ;)
always hear "I'm Possible" when someone tell you it's "impossible".
-Enzo
Just went through your 48 laws videos. Thank you for uncovering insights that would have otherwise been lost on many people. I'm glad content-creators such as yourself exist on this platforn to balance the weight of the contents available. Subscribed and I'll be waiting for more :-)
You're the best at this kind of presentation. Seriously
I needed this. Thank you so much! The video was awesome --- no bull, no frills, just the necessary stuff.
Love this vide; inspired me when he said “ If you look good,You feel good. It’s so true.
This video should have been called SELF-EFFICACY and Resiliency. I can definitely see how you might find your videos therapeutic. I get the sense that you are struggling with obstacles, possibly, in your prospective career. I wish you luck with that. You seem very intelligent but you know this..... Keep the videos coming I'm curious how things turn out.
I loved this video . Ever since I watched your video on power a few days ago iv been binge watching all of your videos . Thank you for making these videos . I am waiting for the next one , please don't take too long to post it
Just found your channel and I love your videos! You seem like such a genuine person, keep it up. Subscribed!
Officially got this edition on e-book today. Short yet concise. A good read.
this knowledge is already known by most of people interested in the subject, there are infinite copies of this just on youtube, but no one explain the actual mental process that you have to do in order to stick with things you already know, ie : i know smoking is bad yet i smoke. => explain the mental process "the steps" to delete/edit an idea instead of explaining that smoking is bad. That, would really help people.
I'm going through the same process youve gone through and I attest to the amazing effect of looking good. The mind is powerful enough that we can mute fear and act but I'm currently working on destroying the underlying reasons for fear. Interesting video
A very nice installment to these animated lessons.
This was much needed for me! Thank you for these wonderful vids that get the core message out in such an interesting way. Saves much time.
Also have started working out, eating right, trying to be focused and doing martial arts
I love your voice it's the oerfect voice to tell me about confidence and this video has such an open emotional value to it
Excellent video. I've been watching your videos for a long time and I can tell you re growing in wisdom. Your review of The 50th Law(my favorite book) is what led me here. Keep up the good work.
Thanks bruh you changed my life
One of my favorites! Do "The Champion's Mind" and "The Champion's Comeback" books by Dr. Jim Afremow. That would be awesome !!
I enjoyed this, thanks! However I have an issue with the argument that if you're going through hell you should just keep going and never quit. I think it's more important, and speaks more to your understanding of yourself and your strengths and weaknesses, that you know and learn when it is right to quit, and instead pursue a different path where you can be more successful. Continuing to hammer away at the same hellish path until success is achieved (which may never come) is going to be the best path to depression for many, not success. I'm not saying don't keep going and don't push yourself to achieve your goals, but don't be afraid to take a step back and see the many other paths you could take, and recognise when it's time to try them.
Self confidence, trust in yourself -wow
BELIVE - if giving enough you can learn anything
Your story strikingly coincides with mine. Thank you for sharing and thank you for your advice.
Hello Huge fan. Where are you? Your videos are life for some of us.
Just when I need it you come through... :)
You are RUclips best kept secret. Keep up the great work!
illacertus is the modern Godfather
Thank you so much for your time in making this!
Got a darth vader vibe going on
awesome video man ! thanks yo! ima send this to a few of my bro's
Hope all is well Illacertus. Really enjoy your channel. Can't wait until your next great video!
Really enjoyed the video, great illustration.
you make really great videos.... thank you! i dont always agree with your suggestions but i really enjoy the the animations and can feel your passion for creating these videos, congrats!!
I started crying 2 mins!! love your story brother. Thank you!!!
Your videos keeps me in a humble state of mind thank you. And stay water
Your videos are some of the best content on RUclips. Thank you!
thanks. this is going to change my life
Pradip Singh no, *you* are going to change your life
DO great things!
The Game Has CHANGED what's going with your life mate everything ok??
Glad you're Back! :) Looking forward to the next 10-11 minutes !!
Hurt people, hurt people. Sadly your father was in the pain he was causing you.
king nick worse thing is that you already knew this all through
It's strange, it's this pain that pushed my father and me to archive a lot in life. But this has to stop with me. I won't become like my father.
Coldfire Mamun want to know a secret? When I was a kid my mentor used to say that his dad would tell him “son I love you, I just don’t know how to show you” don’t try to be different than your dad because if you do you end up rejecting half of who you are. Become a better version of your dad instead. However to understand the depth of what I’m talking about you have to open up your heart rather than close it. Once you open up your heart you will understand your dad better than he understands himself.
I love everything you have to say and ive watched so many of your videos over and over. these are so helpful. I realize I use some of your tips subconsciously and others I can improve... its 4am n I'm watching your videos lol but I'm so ready to test them on strangers tomorrow!!!!
Dude, thank you for putting this up... it really helps
I’m so proud that I have developed that mentality. If you want to grow even more surround yourself with eagles, and stop pecking with chickens.
thank for this video it just came in a right time
Really good video, hope your channel grows
You have to mentor yourself, my buddy.. if you feel bullied, you learn to defend yourself. If people ridiculde you, you learn to accept humility, & laugh. Trial and errors no matter how worse or anguish they can build resilience and perseverance. Good illustration, will look towards more content.🙋hi5
I also have a narcissistic father I am we’re you were and I will be where you are- love what you are doing!
The Ultimate Confidence
I love your videos. Keep up the great work man, it doesn't go unheard.
I needed this. Thank you
When i saw the conclusion with the 4 points and you read them out loud i kept thinking of the movie "karate Kid" (the older one of course). Anyone else?
And also I very recently discovered your channel through your video "The 48 laws of power" and within that one video i became a subscriber and fell in love with your videos... and then 2 days later you make a video like this, you really know how to boost people through anything.
So glad I saw this on my feed, I’m getting ready to start my own business, and was feeling a bit nervous before this.