5 Ways To Make Your Ex Think About You Constantly
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5 Ways To Make Your Ex Think About You Constantly
In this video were going to talk about
#1 - Flirt, Friendzone
#2 - The Positivity Bank
#3 - Make Use Of The Zeigarnik Effect
#4 - Use Sense To Trigger Memories
#5 - Live Well From Afar
Tip #1 - Flirt, Friendzone
I’m you’ve heard of this concept before, where you’ve been in the situation where a person is hot and then cold, or they ‘rubber band’ you. Or they flirt with you and then all of a sudden, they say “Hey, we’re just friends”
In all my time doing this, I've spoken to my clients about this hot and cold method. Looking at it as, Flirting and then Friendzoning them again. It’s an important thing to get right, and if you get it wrong it can be ineffective.
What can you do, to make sure that it works?
The most important thing to remember is that you’re not always going to be flirting and you’re not always going to be friendzoning.
What is supposed to happen is that you start off equally, you’re going to flirt, friendzone, flirt, friendzone. But as time goes on, you’re going to flirt a little bit more and friendzone a little bit less.
Tip #2 - The Positivity Bank
Rome wasn’t built in a day, and a strong relationship wasn’t built in a day either. When we look at struggling marriages, they find that the golden ratio is;
5 kind acts to 1 negative act.
What I mean by that is, if you did 5 nice things to your significant other, and 5 mean things to your significant other, it means they’re going to offset. So, what you’re looking for, or what stronger couples are doing, is more positive things for their partner, than negative.
Tip #3 - Make Use Of The Zeigarnik Effect
One of the most popular strategies that I recommend, it means that “People remember uncompleted tasks, better than completed ones”
In the past when I’ve recommended my clients to go out on dates and have a great time that they would “overstay” their welcome. Yes, part of the goal is to out on a date and have a great time with your ex, but it’s also important to leave them wanting more.
That’s what gets them thinking about you throughout the day, so how do you do that, thinking about it in the simplest of terms, the Zeigarnik Effect is all about appearing unavailable. Most women when they try and win their exes back, or want their exes to think about them constantly are way to available. They put their ex on a pedestal, and their ex definitely senses that.
Whereas women who engage with their ex in an interesting conversation, and then suddenly can’t stay around because they’re too busy, cutting the date off at the most important part, your ex is now wondering. “Why is she leaving? I want more of that”
Tip #4 - Use Sense To Trigger Memories
Human beings are famous for having five senses, today were going to be talking about the most undervalued ones, smell. When women are trying to get an ex back, they tend to obsess about surface level things. “How do I look? How do I sound?”
But what I if I told you that the sense of smell is a little bit more important than you are thinking. Human beings tend to smell something and it triggers memories. It works the same way as it does when we listen to music, a certain song can trigger a memory.
So, there is two aspects that you have to take into account here, one is that the date needs to be exciting enough get his adrenaline going or positive emotions, and number two you have to smell good!
Tip #5 - Live Well From Afar
Absence does make the heart grow fonder, but not when your ex can see you from afar. He can see you on all the popular social media threads, he can see you but he’s not saying anything to you. Now the big mistake women do, during their break up is they don’t post anything exciting on their social media sites.
Those are opportunities for you to communicate that you are living well without him, an opportunity to make him think about you constantly. It also plays into the addiction mindset, the more he sees that you’re having fun without him, not only will he feel like he’s missing out on that experience with you, it also creates an addiction to get him looking at your social media posts.
It programs him, so that when he picks up his phone, he’s going on social media to look at your posts first. That little act, is enough to get him obsessed with you. Even if he doesn’t realise, he’s doing it at the time. Even if he is not consciously wanting you back it’s an important step for when you go in to try to get him back.
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Thanks for the tips. I'm already doing tips number 1. He seems to be flirting back a little. Being in the friend zone with your ex isn't easy.
That's a fact
He left me for another person after 3 years of genuine relationship by telling that I don't have feelings for you...after all his promises and all sugar talks now am in hell...to be honest they are super cool enjoying their time and he is totally into her....is any possible way all these no contact or watever is going to work in my case?? Help
Yes, No Contact will work to help you better your chances if you put in the work that is needed. Work on becoming the best version of yourself during NC
Dayum I wanted to be friends because I still love him. Didn't know I was doing this!!! Ahhh yeah!
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Thank you Chris for your sharing some helpful tips!!! love it
You're welcome
Morning and thanks
yesterday I sent my ex bf a funny video I thought he would like and today I told him a dirty joke I made up cause well that’s my personality and he likes my jokes. now he’s saying I’m insulting him and asking if we have a problem and that he’s confused about what my intentions are... should I back off a little even though he sometimes texts me first?
Hi Kaykay, it sounds like you crossed a boundary for him at this time, you need to build rapport. Check out some videos about texting with your ex after the No Contact Rule
If he broke up with you he wants you to respect that. Leave him alone. No contact until he does. You can apologize for your behavior and say you won't do it again then no contract
The friendzone is better than nothing. Plus its not really a “friendzone” since you’ve dated. The friendzone doesn’t apply to people who’ve already dated. The “friendzone” is good for sneakily crawling into their heart. Do this by flirting subtly, and make sure they know you’re desired by multiple men. Even if it’s not true, fake it if you have to. Lie about it. Just make it seem like you’re very desired. Also be less available for your ex and alternate between giving attention and not. It’s a cat and mouse game ;)
That is true