you are the most selfless hardworking 18 year old i know. i cant imagine having 2 kids living alone having a job/ school but look at u! u have done so good and continue to do so good! i look up to you a lot my love💗 if u need someone i will literally come see u stay up babygirl im always here i love u
@@Saras_place I agree and raising 2 kids alone while going to school is amazing. I'm struggling as a dual enrollment student. I wouldn't be able to do it with 1 kid. Thats what make her amazing and such a hard worker.
Ps hope your doing alright if its hard for you to talk to someone about what your feeling you could try writing a journal it might help you thats something that's been helping me.
I’m the product of a teen mum! My mum was 16 when she had me. My dad was 19, they were both broke, my dad worked part time and that was it, they separated when I was 6 and my mum was really really struggling. She put herself through university, college, and school, and became a nurse; she raised me and my brother all by herself, and she did a really really amazing job. I graduated from architecture school two months ago and I now have a great job and I’m getting married soon, and I can’t wait to set as good as an example to my future kids as my mum did. You should be so proud of yourself, your kids will thrive from an amazing parent like you Disclaimer: I’m from the UK
Hi I have been watching you for along time. I'm amazed at what a strong , caring person you're at 18 .and that you're a great Mom to your boys . Keep up the wonderful job you are doing . I wish I live by you as I wo uld take some of your pressure off of you. You should talk to someone like a good friend or anybody that you trust.Don't listen to those who leave nasty or rude messages as like you say you are only 18 and have a lot on you. I wish I was as amazing as are. I got pregnant at 18 and had my 1st one at 19 and didn't do as good as you .My husband and I got marry .He work and join the Army. We where marry for 38 years until our God took him to be with him and I'm not no where as strong as you . I love you Josh and your sweet boys. Keep up the amazing job that you are doing
i struggle to pay rent, work, keep up with school, and maintain a social life as a 21 year old in my last year of college supporting ONLY myself. i cannot even imagine the amount of strength and willpower it takes to do what you do, at only 18 no less. you are a powerhouse, there are very few people who are strong enough to do what you do, and you do it with grace. you are resilient and you are doing such an amazing job, always remember that!
Listen Sophie: - first off your kiddos are the cutest little boys (like way too cute) - you are so beautiful (like way too beautiful) - you're in college and balancing motherhood (its hard for many of us to balance like life) - You are doing amazing. You have hundreds of thousands of people that LOVE you. We are here for you. Stay strong. Your happiness is ALL that we want.
Hang in there Sophie. You will get through the season you're in right now. I had my son when I was 16. He's 33 now. From where I'm sitting, you've really got your shit together. Please don't second guess yourself. Just seeing how happy and settled the babies are proves you're doing the right things. Love from Nanny Terrie in NC! 💖💙💙👩👶👶
Josh really should start a blog like this but for the same fan base. Everything can be from his point of view. Teen dad struggle is real too and it’ll help with money.
Sometimes I forget you're only 18 cause you're mature waaaaay beyond your age. As you said, hard work pays off, and it's reflecting in how happy your kids are, in your grades, in your home... If I may recommend something is ask for a little more help! I know it's hard, but sometimes it needs to be done in order to really accomplish all you want. You're doing great, don't let anyone make you feel otherwise!
Meanwhile, my 25 y/o lazy ass barely has anything to do and can't even keep my place clean or cook for myself. You're doing great, honey. You are such an impressive young woman and when your sons grow up, they will look back on all you have done for them at such a young age and be damn proud. You are doing a great job.
As an accelerated nursing student graduating in less than a month I hope you find some comfort in this. Nursing school is incredibly hard, and although I don’t have kids, some of my peers do. And I have NO IDEA how you all do it! It blows my mind! But if they can do it, so can you!!!
Sophie you should try cooking videos since you already cook so you're being productive, it's less footage to go through when editing, and they are super entertaining lol. I hope you take this to make your life a little easier
I am currently a senior in college and I can't even imagine juggling two kids and school. You are killing it! Your determination is inspiring and your kids are lucky to grow up with a mom that sets such a good example for them. They are going to grow up one day and realize all the sacrifices you made for them and be so unbelievably grateful.
You are so strong. I can’t even begin to imagine being 18 years old with that much responsibility (physically, financially, mentally) plus being a single mother of two toddlers. I’m a 37 year old Mom of four and I struggle terribly, I cannot even imagine how hard it is for you. You are doing amazing. Stay strong. Thinking of you.
When you are improving your life, it gets lonely. Growth can make you miss out on things, it can make you lose people in the process but you are doing great mama. Don’t forget to breath and give yourself credit because you’re doing really well.
Don't worry Sophie, you are an AMAZING mom, I wish I could have even a half of the maturity that you have, and just to let you know that you are raising two amazing and wonderful kids WE ARE SOOO PROUD OF YOU, even if we don't know you face to face, seeing you, the twins and josh grow up since the beginning is wonderful ... btw you are sooo pretty and so do the twins We love you SO much !! Hope you are doing well
As a single 20 year old mom who is in College, I totally feel you and know the struggle. You are doing more than many people in your position. Remember that you are a person too and just because you are a mom doesn't mean you need to hold it together all the time. You are allowed to feel those emotions and have your breakdowns. Hang in there mama
Everything you said is so incredibly normal. You sound like any mother in college mid semester. You’re doing fine. Friendships are hard when you are a teen mom. Other moms see you as a child and other teens can’t relate. My only advice is that you reconsider buying a home at this time. It’s far more stressful than you think.
Girl I honestly have such mad respect for you, you're doing the most amazing job and you should be so incredibly proud of yourself. I did a nursing degree too and it was the toughest part of my life and I didn't have to work, raise two kids, live on my own, and all the other things you have to do. Nursing is an incredibly tough degree, definitely more so than the average degree and it is amazing that you're doing it with flying colours and doing such a fantastic job with everything else you do too. You don't need to justify feeling low and stressed at points, every problem is valid no matter how big or small, and so is yours! You're incredibly young and its genuinely so admirable that you are working hard for yourself and other people considering everything going on in your life. I watch your videos not just because of the incredibly cute babies but also because you're so inspiring, achieving everything that you do whilst dealing with an incredibly challenging life, and all at such a young age. Be proud of yourself! Don't let anyone put you down, they have no idea of the real difficulty of the challenges you're going through, and doing amazingly at dealing with them! So so so much respect to you, and I wish you luck in everything, you're doing an insanely great job! xxx
I’m 30 and my life is not even remotely close to hers in terms of stress and responsibility, my God I so admire you Sophie, you are doing so incredibly good and you are such a great mom, I wish I were like you when I was your age, I would be on top of the world now
You don’t deserve hate.. you’re a young mother, and the only thing people should be giving you is positive affirmations and support. I have a baby girl, but I had her 20 days after i turned 19. It wears and tears you but it’s worth it and nothing feels better then being supported and loved. Wish you the best mamas🤍
Sophie, I am a 48 yr old mom!! I am going to be the first to tell how fantastic you are doing! You are more mature then women my age! I just want to tell you that you are a wonderful mother to those little boys and you are a terrific woman and everyone who knows you is lucky to have you in their lives!! Keep up the great work!! You got this!! ❤❤❤
you could literally post anything on here and i would watch all the way through and all the ads. I honestly love your videos and can’t believe we are the same age, I couldn’t do half the things you do the way you do them, you are a great mom and and even better person. I just know that you will find your significant other soon, and be able to share the rest of your life with them
Girl, I am 25, married with no kids and live 13 hours away from all of our family and can relate to this so much!! Know you're not alone! Your stress is 100% valid and that is a lot at 18 years old. You're doing SO well. Keep your head up and know it will get easier!!
Therapy could be amazing for you. I'm going through stuff and seeing a therapist virtually and it's incredibly helpful! 2020 is NOT easy on top of everything else.
You are exhausted because you are always “on.” You never have a chance to turn “off”. Been there!! Relax all you can during your winter break!! I’m a HS teacher and just reminding my students that a break is coming is so helpful.
I totally understand what you're going through! I'm starting my second year of nursing school with 2 jobs and it is hard and stressful but its so worth it! Sending good vibes.
Sophie you are allowed to feel how your feeling. Don't ever think that your feelings aren't valid because someone else may have it worse. Everyone handles things differently and that's okay! You got this girl!
I’m not far into the video yet, but you got this girl!🙌💯 Being a mom, college student, all of that is hard individually, but we’re both doing it all at once and doing great! It’s ok to feel overwhelmed sometimes and need a break. I have a toddler and now I’m pregnant with twins, so I have to take a little break from college work to focus on my kids. I know you will continue to great and manage through the struggle. Also, you look beautiful!👏😊❤️
Sophie have you ever considered doing an RN program instead of a 4 year BSN? Lots of RN programs have part time options and later on you could do a bridge program to get your BSN. It might be a good way to reach your goal while being slightly less stressful. Rooting for you!!!
Don't worry Sophie, christmas break is around the corner and when this semester is done, you'll have a breath of fresh air! Next semester you'll now how to manage it better, don't give up future nurse!
Babe you are a badass. Even when you are feeling low and are struggling you're still awesome. I'm 20 and struggling on my own paying bills and such I cannot imagine you being in college and having 2 babies it actually amazes me what you do. I will watch 5 advertisements a video. I'll watch a video of your washer going for 20 minutes I dont care, I really love these sit down talks though! Your pain isnt less important just because someone is doing worse than you, you are valid. Your feelings and words are valid.
Girl. Being a mom with everything else that goes along with adulting is HARD even for us older ladies. Im 34 and I feel overwhelmed! You are an AMAZING mama! Prayers baby doll! Push through these hard times and it will all be worth it!
omg girl ur taking ANATOMY!! i've never taken it since i'm not doing nursing but i hear it's really hard and many drop nursing bc of it. ur doing amazing balancing everything to the best of ur abilities and i really admire u for that. best of luck with school and ur family! stay safe!! :)
it makes me so sad seeing you so young and so stressed! i’m 20, and i haven’t achieved nearly as much as you. give yourself a break, dont be too hard on yourself. you are trying!!!
I’m in a nursing program and let me tell you you are such an inspiration! I’m 20 with no kids and live with my boyfriend in an apartment. I probably have a lot more time on my hands than you and I find myself being lazy sometimes. I know I can and need to work harder. When I watch your videos I see how hard you work and I know I can do it if you can. Just know you’re doing great. Your best is enough. You’re an amazing mom. All of your subscribers, friends, and family always have your back.
when she was talking about her grades and how hard chemistry was, I really felt that because I'm only in high school so its not as hard as college obviously... but its the only class I'm doing bad in too 😂 hang in there Sophie I believe in u getting high grades and feeling less stressed ;)
I feel yah girl! I'm a single 21 year old mom of 2 with a small business and I'm back at uni so I know how hard it is. there are just not enough hours in the day sometimes haha. but you can do it! the fact that you're fighting so hard for this says a lot about your character and strength. you go girl!
i completely understand what you’re going through. i’m feeling the same way lately. i’m 18 with a 4 month old and i’m a full time student. it’s really hard and i just had a breakdown last night actually. i also feel pretty alone and i just moved to a new place and i have no friends here. it sucks. but you’re strong and you will get through it. life’s hard especially as a teen mom. i’d love to talk to you more about it because i feel like i’m the only one feeling this way 😕
I know you keep saying how things could be so much worse, and that's important to recognize, but don't let that downplay or make your struggles seem not legitimate. You have SO much on your plate and one person can only take so much. Take breaks when you feel that you need them if you can. I hope you start asking for help if you need it. You've got this!
I was just thinking the other day that you must be swamped with school and life since it had been a while since you’d updated. I’m so sorry you’re going through so much, life sucks sometimes! I’m glad you’ll get a much deserved break soon. You look so cute despite having so much going on; actual goals. Keep on truckin, you’ve got this!
Girl you are strong you are amazing and you will get through this. It's only a short amount of time and here pretty soon you will see the light at the end of the tunnel. Stay strong stay amazing and you're awesome!
Stay motivated Sophie! You are a great mom, making yourself employable to secure you and your kids future + following your dream. Also, while in school you have so many opportunities to film how you study, whats helpful in A&P (those classes are hard), day in your life as a college student and mom.. YOU GOT THIS!!!😊💕
I moved away from my family and am in college too. I completely understand the struggle on those parts. I just want you to know that college is hard and the workload just gets worst the further you go. It is worth it though, so keep pushing. It’s hard when you are missing your family too. I struggle A LOT with that. I could not imagine having more on top of it, especially to be a mom of 2. You are doing amazing and are so strong. If you get the chance, may sure to give yourself some you time and relax. Just know no matter what, you will get through this.
I'm with you. I am 21, not in school or working currently off on an 18 month parental leave and and only have one child but I can still relate to what you're saying so I can't even imagine what you are going through! You are honestly amazing and so strong things will get easier and you will be able to look back and be so proud of all you accomplished by your self with two babies! You're awesome girl dont think any less!
That’s a low air on your tires light & a oil change is usually every three months or every 3,000 miles which is around $20/$30 and they’re charging you $200?? Just to get it looked at? Girl you got scammed ☹️
20-30 is far too cheap for a good oil change, good oil starts from around 60 quid and goes up to 80 quote easy for 5l which is standard capacity for most cars, not including the new filter or labour, 200 is a lot yes but don't go to them cheap places it snot good for your car
@@kalliemcfaul2410 I rather pay $20 for an oil change than pay $200/$300 just for someone to look at my car 😐 if you’re keeping up with your oil changes the quality doesn’t make much of a difference. Her car looks to be from a dealership and most of the time the first few oil changes are free if you take it back to the dealership. I hope she knows that too 😬 there’s no way you can justify her paying a few hundred bucks for an oil change and some air in her tires 😂 assuming that’s all she needed done.
Sending all my love. I am 20, struggling with a 4 month old being a stay at home mom. I can’t even imagine doing it at 18, doing school and work with TWINS. You’re soo strong love. Make sure you take time for yourself 🥺❤️
“Have I not commanded you? Be strong and of good courage; do not be afraid, nor be dismayed, for the LORD your God is with you wherever you go.”” Joshua 1:9
You are so inspiring. I am 18 in nursing school and feel stressed as it is. You are one of the strongest people I know. Keep your head up girl, you got this. Just think of how your kids will see you as a hero.
Girl I wish I could just give you a hug! I had my first when I was 20 and my second at 23, I’m now 24. I get so overwhelmed sometimes and my kids have an age gap, I can’t imagine having twins. You’re doing amazing and your kids being happy shows you that you are doing great! You’re super young but you just gotta work on not giving a damn what everyone else thinks. When I was 18 I moved 6 hours away to college and my family only called me when they needed money. I was a full time student and worked two jobs, I had no one to rely on but myself and then I got pregnant at 20 during school and I ended up dropping out. I still love my life, my kids are happy, we are doing great, and eventually I might go back to school. I know how overwhelming it is and I feel like you got it times 10 with everything you’re trynna juggle. I just gotta say you’re doing amazing and live your life the way you want to not based on others’ expectations of what you should be doing cuz People always have shit to say no matter how great you’re doing. Those babies are gorgeous and it gets easier :)
Girl, I TOTALLY understand how hard nursing school is. I’m in my second year right now of nursing. It’s a struggle but at the end, it will be all worth it for you and your kids! You are a great mom and DO NOT let anyone tell you differently! It is also okay to not be okay and ask for help. You have a ton of people that love you! YOU GOT THIS GIRL! ❤️ If you need anything do not hesitate to ask! I’m always willing to help and listen.
Hey Sophie, you are super strong, this is a rough patch that will hopefully get better. I’m a mom who moved away from my family and was also in nursing till this passed June. Had my son during nursing school, it wasn’t easy, but there is an end to this take it day by day. You can do it! Nursing school isn’t easy being a mom isn’t easy but if anyone got this it’s you. Proud of you girl!!!!
I am so sorry that you have to go through all of this. Just know that there are a lot of people who support you out there. I am praying that you will be able to figure everything out. Have fun with your life and try to take things one day at a time,you will be ok.
You are so strong, mature and responsible for being someone your age. I’m 19, a full time student (for nursing), so i can relate to the school being stressful part. I couldn’t image doing it with 2 kids also. You got this Sophie. I know it’s hard right now, but you are strong enough to do it. Head up girl 💖
You are such an amazing hard working dedicated young beautiful and most importantly a powerful young mom Sophie. I swear to god that I almost watch your videos every single day when I’m struggling at something. When I watch you everyday I get motivated to move forward with whatever obstacles come on my way. I have watched all of your videos for multiple times and it’s been the10th time I came to your channel to see if u have posted anything new. Love you so much. You are such an inspiration. I’m 27 now and pregnant with my first baby and I cannot imagine how you are managing all the house chores and two babies, school, and so many other things at such a young age. Never give up Sophie. You are amazing. You are doing super great. You are a sunshine to all of us. Keep shining. If you feel so down please look for therapy. But don’t ever give up. Take it day by day. I would love to mention you this before I stop typing this long comment. ‘Tough times never last, but tough people do’ ❤️💪 Lots of love from Sri Lanka 🇱🇰
Senior nursing student here! First semester is the hardest. It will get easier, be kind to yourself. You have so much on your shoulders. My advice would be keep a planner! Have your whole month laid out. Every week go through and see what you have for that week and ONLY worry about that week. In nursing school we always say “take it one day at a time”. Looking ahead will stress you out. You will look back and realize how much you were able to handle and begin to feel more confident in yourself. With that being said, having bad days is okay! We all have them. Sending positive energy your way! ❤️
You are doing so well Sophie, you’re a very strong and courageous person! We all have rocky patches in life but you can get through it! Once you graduate school and become an amazing nurse you’ll look back and be grateful you got through it. Stay strong beautiful 🤍❤️
Every single thing you feel is incredibly valid & important even if you feel other’s have it worse. I had friends in nursing programs my first semester of college and it seemed very very hard and stressful, plus being a MOTHER.. bro. You feel however you need to girl. I hope you can find some peace soon.
Sophie, (PLEASE READ THIS) GIRL you are so strong, so mature so beautiful and such a brilliant mother! Your 18 , 2 beautiful boys , your own apartment, studying with school , plus RUclips etc you've got your head on your shoulders, youve always done the right thing! In the right direction with life , dont feel down or let anyone put you down it's all jealousy, they want what they dont have, your incredible girl !! 🥰❤
I don’t know who to put it into words, but you are so so so strong, i can’t describe who much I am impressed of you in every single video. I am just two years older than you, living at home (because i am studying and not earn money) and without baby’s to take care of an I am still struggling sometimes, especially when it comes to the end of semester. Have this in your mind. So many people struggle with college and you have so much more to do, so it is so so so normal (or to be hones ist less then normal. Normal probably would be to freak out, start crying every minute and stop college :D) to struggl. You do more than anyone expect from you! Keep it in your mind. Sorry for my bad english skills :D
Honestly you inspire me so much! Im 18 still in high school and most of the time i spend 90% of each day in bed reading and watching youtube videos but your video just kicked my ass into gear and as soon as im finishing writing this comment i will catch up on all my school work and responsibilities-thank you for showing the world that everything is possible! Question - when you first found out that you are pregnent did you ever think you would be able to do everything you are doing now?
I have been watching you since before you had the babies and you have grown up so much since that first video I saw. You have been such a great mom and it is so inspiring to see you handling this all on your own. But remember it is okay to ask for help, because don't push yourself to that breaking point! Even if you allow an hour or even a half an hour at night before bed to yourself to watch a show or relax it will help your mindset so much. I have been there that the stress is so much but I promise you are not alone.
Girl, I’ve been subscribed since your fist video you are honestly SO inspirational, I’m a 21 year old college student and trying to juggle work, school and bills is so difficult for me and I don’t even have two toddler boys. Honestly you are doing such a good job and I know we only see a portion of your life but from what I do see you are killing it!!
I feel you girly. Not a parent but I can relate in the sense of being stretched thin and not being the type to ask for help when needed. I definitely need to take this advice too, but I’d recommend maybe seeking a therapist if you’re able to. It’s okay to not be okay. It’s okay to not have it all together. And it’s okay to feel what you’re feeling 💗
I genuinely can't imagine going through all of this as an 18 year old... I am so proud of you Sophie. I wish we could all give you a huge hug. This season of life will pass and things will get easier.
You are doing a terrific job raising those boys. Try to take it one day at a time. I know it’s easier said than done but you are one strong mama and your kids absolutely love you. Hopefully filming this video helped you as you spoke openly about your struggles. Your youtube family loves and supports you too!❤️
I have no idea what you’re going through, and neither does this yt community. please take these comments w a grain of salt. I am the same age as you, and I can’t imagine how difficult it must be to be a mother of 2 in college. You are doing amazing!! I can tell just from these few clips, that you work hard for your family, and that is the most important thing. When life feels uncertain, that’s exactly when you continue to push through. Keep focusing on the progress and where you want to be, and it’s ok to not be ok. Life will continue to surprise you in so many good ways. Much love from Cali🧡
you should totally do a video where you show how you balance school and being a mom! like show when you go to class, spend time with the boys, and do homework. it could even be a few day vlog! hope talking it out helped you, and take as much time as you need for yourself, because that is the most important….
Keep going it is so so hard but you are doing an AMAZING job!! I’m 38now and my son is 20 I lost all my friends,was working and doing cosmetology school at night while having a newborn it was the HARDEST thing I ever did endless night of crying but here I am 20 years of doing hair married and 3 more kids hearing you was hearing my 18 year old teen mom self!! YOU GOT THIS🙌🏼
I’m happy you sat down and expressed to us all how you’re feeling. You’re an amazing mother, daughter, sister, student, and friend. Don’t EVER be afraid to ask for help. My mother had me as a teen and I see a lot of her in you; she has never asked for help in her entire life and growing up, I saw how difficult juggling everything was for her. I can’t imagine doing it all. I’m now a second year nursing student and I’m overwhelmed just with school and my part time job. I know you’ve never met many of us, but just know we are always here to help. This video reminded me of my favorite quote -“The greatest mistake you can make in life is continually fearing you will make one”. We are all human. No one is perfect. But you are damn near close. Keep pushing mama.
I am becoming a nurse in a different country and it is kicking my ass too. I can't imagine what you are going through. You are such an incredible strong person and I am pretty sure that you will succeed.
Is there no way for you to maybe switch college to part time? You have so much on your plate and juggle everything so well and it seems like you are a great mom. If there is an option for you to take some things slower then think about it. You are still so incredibly young and don't have to do everything at once :-) of course it's something different if that's what you want though. You're doing great!
i understand how stressful life can be. i am feeling the same stress with school but then there is the rest that you are feeling. but i just want you to know that you are allowed to feel the things you are feeling. yes, people in the world have it way worse but how you feel is still valid and it is best to get it off your chest. and just know that you are amazing and strong. you are raising two toddlers, going to college, and the rest of adult life like bills and groceries like that is an insane amount of things to be doing at 18 so never doubt yourself!!!
I can't even explain in my own words how strong and mature you are. School with one of the hardest majors(for me), family, financial support, and more things that you do in 18! Just one sentence. YOU ARE AMAZING! Can't understand people who hate you. I am pretty sure they aren't as responsible as you are.
aw sophie i had to comment again cause i hate that you are going through this. I totally understand the shock of university especially during midterms and stuff ugh it's so tough. And I dont even know what to say about you missing your family. I'm super close to my family to the point where I couldn't go away for uni I just stayed home and commute everyday. I'm so sorry that you're feeling this way right now :( the stress of being a student is sooo overwhelming I can't even fathom what you are feeling as a single mom of two, with essentially a full time job and going to school. You are truly an inspiration queen.
You’re doing amazing! The twins are so cute and happy and my heart broke when you told about everything you are struggeling with. You are so strong and keep going!!❤️❤️
It's really easy to get into a negative headspace like that but you have so much to look forward to in life, and you have to pat yourself on the back for the things that you're succeeding at. You're an amazing mom given all that you've gone through, and I have no doubt that everything will work out.
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“I went to class looking like this”
*points to the prettiest face I’ve ever seen*
that was so nice 😭😭😭😭😭😭
@@sophiegonzalez9465 we ain’t being nice, we being honest! You are so beautiful inside and out! You're raising some amazing kids
@@sophiegonzalez9465 PLEASE turn on the closed captions for the deaf community and hard of hearing like myself. Ty Sophie 💕
That face would be like me in a nice day... jajajajjaa
how did i read this right when she said it in the video-
you are the most selfless hardworking 18 year old i know. i cant imagine having 2 kids living alone having a job/ school but look at u! u have done so good and continue to do so good! i look up to you a lot my love💗 if u need someone i will literally come see u stay up babygirl im always here i love u
No one said it was going to be easy, but your outcome will prove how strong and incredible of a person you are.
yes ma’am ❤️
She is amazing young mama working hard
@@Saras_place I agree and raising 2 kids alone while going to school is amazing. I'm struggling as a dual enrollment student. I wouldn't be able to do it with 1 kid. Thats what make her amazing and such a hard worker.
You are amazing ❤️
Definitely look into therapy Sophie. Talking to someone. Even 1 hour once a week can do wonders.
All lives matter.
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@@mgtowanonymous3120 this was unnecessary
Ps hope your doing alright if its hard for you to talk to someone about what your feeling you could try writing a journal it might help you thats something that's been helping me.
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@@mgtowanonymous3120 I mean you are right though ..
I’m the product of a teen mum!
My mum was 16 when she had me. My dad was 19, they were both broke, my dad worked part time and that was it, they separated when I was 6 and my mum was really really struggling. She put herself through university, college, and school, and became a nurse; she raised me and my brother all by herself, and she did a really really amazing job. I graduated from architecture school two months ago and I now have a great job and I’m getting married soon, and I can’t wait to set as good as an example to my future kids as my mum did. You should be so proud of yourself, your kids will thrive from an amazing parent like you
Disclaimer: I’m from the UK
Bet you are your brother really close to your mom
Wow such an awesome story!!! God bless you! Could you say a prayer for me?
Thank You for sharing your story. It's so nice to be able to read something positive in today's world.
Hi I have been watching you for along time. I'm amazed at what a strong , caring person you're at 18 .and that you're a great Mom to your boys . Keep up the wonderful job you are doing . I wish I live by you as I wo uld take some of your pressure off of you. You should talk to someone like a good friend or anybody that you trust.Don't listen to those who leave nasty or rude messages as like you say you are only 18 and have a lot on you. I wish I was as amazing as are. I got pregnant at 18 and had my 1st one at 19 and didn't do as good as you .My husband and I got marry .He work and join the Army. We where marry for 38 years until our God took him to be with him and I'm not no where as strong as you . I love you Josh and your sweet boys. Keep up the amazing job that you are doing
Ok love your story it’s so motivating
i struggle to pay rent, work, keep up with school, and maintain a social life as a 21 year old in my last year of college supporting ONLY myself. i cannot even imagine the amount of strength and willpower it takes to do what you do, at only 18 no less. you are a powerhouse, there are very few people who are strong enough to do what you do, and you do it with grace. you are resilient and you are doing such an amazing job, always remember that!
Listen Sophie:
- first off your kiddos are the cutest little boys (like way too cute)
- you are so beautiful (like way too beautiful)
- you're in college and balancing motherhood (its hard for many of us to balance like life)
- You are doing amazing. You have hundreds of thousands of people that LOVE you. We are here for you. Stay strong. Your happiness is ALL that we want.
i love you thank you
@@sophiegonzalez9465 aw i love you, you're such an inspiration and light during this hard time
Hang in there Sophie. You will get through the season you're in right now. I had my son when I was 16. He's 33 now. From where I'm sitting, you've really got your shit together. Please don't second guess yourself. Just seeing how happy and settled the babies are proves you're doing the right things. Love from Nanny Terrie in NC! 💖💙💙👩👶👶
Josh really should start a blog like this but for the same fan base. Everything can be from his point of view. Teen dad struggle is real too and it’ll help with money.
I totally agree!!!
We see you as a person and a mom ❤️ Not a channel. You are important and you got this!!:)
Ahhh I love this comment. So true!!!
Yaaaaas
Mama is so proud of you! You are smart, strong and beautiful. If anyone can do this it is you! You got this girl :) Missing you like crazy
❤️
Omg your such a good mom😚😚😚
Sometimes I forget you're only 18 cause you're mature waaaaay beyond your age. As you said, hard work pays off, and it's reflecting in how happy your kids are, in your grades, in your home... If I may recommend something is ask for a little more help! I know it's hard, but sometimes it needs to be done in order to really accomplish all you want. You're doing great, don't let anyone make you feel otherwise!
Meanwhile, my 25 y/o lazy ass barely has anything to do and can't even keep my place clean or cook for myself. You're doing great, honey. You are such an impressive young woman and when your sons grow up, they will look back on all you have done for them at such a young age and be damn proud. You are doing a great job.
As an accelerated nursing student graduating in less than a month I hope you find some comfort in this. Nursing school is incredibly hard, and although I don’t have kids, some of my peers do. And I have NO IDEA how you all do it! It blows my mind! But if they can do it, so can you!!!
Sophie you should try cooking videos since you already cook so you're being productive, it's less footage to go through when editing, and they are super entertaining lol. I hope you take this to make your life a little easier
I would look into therapy. Talking to someone once a week (or more) can REALLY help!
That’s a great idea
Totally agree this is alot for an 18 yr old with twins and college
Yea but therapy costs money and she's clearly struggling with that too because she stopped posting
bailey leonard isn’t it possible to do that through school? I had a social worker from college I could always talk with
@@baileyleonard6282 There's counsellors at College she can talk to
I am currently a senior in college and I can't even imagine juggling two kids and school. You are killing it! Your determination is inspiring and your kids are lucky to grow up with a mom that sets such a good example for them. They are going to grow up one day and realize all the sacrifices you made for them and be so unbelievably grateful.
You are so strong. I can’t even begin to imagine being 18 years old with that much responsibility (physically, financially, mentally) plus being a single mother of two toddlers. I’m a 37 year old Mom of four and I struggle terribly, I cannot even imagine how hard it is for you. You are doing amazing. Stay strong. Thinking of you.
When you are improving your life, it gets lonely. Growth can make you miss out on things, it can make you lose people in the process but you are doing great mama. Don’t forget to breath and give yourself credit because you’re doing really well.
Don't worry Sophie, you are an AMAZING mom, I wish I could have even a half of the maturity that you have, and just to let you know that you are raising two amazing and wonderful kids WE ARE SOOO PROUD OF YOU, even if we don't know you face to face, seeing you, the twins and josh grow up since the beginning is wonderful ... btw you are sooo pretty and so do the twins
We love you SO much !! Hope you are doing well
As a single 20 year old mom who is in College, I totally feel you and know the struggle. You are doing more than many people in your position. Remember that you are a person too and just because you are a mom doesn't mean you need to hold it together all the time. You are allowed to feel those emotions and have your breakdowns. Hang in there mama
Everything you said is so incredibly normal. You sound like any mother in college mid semester. You’re doing fine. Friendships are hard when you are a teen mom. Other moms see you as a child and other teens can’t relate. My only advice is that you reconsider buying a home at this time. It’s far more stressful than you think.
Girl I honestly have such mad respect for you, you're doing the most amazing job and you should be so incredibly proud of yourself. I did a nursing degree too and it was the toughest part of my life and I didn't have to work, raise two kids, live on my own, and all the other things you have to do. Nursing is an incredibly tough degree, definitely more so than the average degree and it is amazing that you're doing it with flying colours and doing such a fantastic job with everything else you do too. You don't need to justify feeling low and stressed at points, every problem is valid no matter how big or small, and so is yours! You're incredibly young and its genuinely so admirable that you are working hard for yourself and other people considering everything going on in your life. I watch your videos not just because of the incredibly cute babies but also because you're so inspiring, achieving everything that you do whilst dealing with an incredibly challenging life, and all at such a young age. Be proud of yourself! Don't let anyone put you down, they have no idea of the real difficulty of the challenges you're going through, and doing amazingly at dealing with them! So so so much respect to you, and I wish you luck in everything, you're doing an insanely great job! xxx
I’m 30 and my life is not even remotely close to hers in terms of stress and responsibility, my God I so admire you Sophie, you are doing so incredibly good and you are such a great mom, I wish I were like you when I was your age, I would be on top of the world now
You don’t deserve hate.. you’re a young mother, and the only thing people should be giving you is positive affirmations and support. I have a baby girl, but I had her 20 days after i turned 19. It wears and tears you but it’s worth it and nothing feels better then being supported and loved. Wish you the best mamas🤍
Sophie, I am a 48 yr old mom!! I am going to be the first to tell how fantastic you are doing! You are more mature then women my age! I just want to tell you that you are a wonderful mother to those little boys and you are a terrific woman and everyone who knows you is lucky to have you in their lives!! Keep up the great work!! You got this!! ❤❤❤
you could literally post anything on here and i would watch all the way through and all the ads. I honestly love your videos and can’t believe we are the same age, I couldn’t do half the things you do the way you do them, you are a great mom and and even better person. I just know that you will find your significant other soon, and be able to share the rest of your life with them
Girl, I am 25, married with no kids and live 13 hours away from all of our family and can relate to this so much!! Know you're not alone! Your stress is 100% valid and that is a lot at 18 years old. You're doing SO well. Keep your head up and know it will get easier!!
Therapy could be amazing for you. I'm going through stuff and seeing a therapist virtually and it's incredibly helpful! 2020 is NOT easy on top of everything else.
You are exhausted because you are always “on.” You never have a chance to turn “off”. Been there!! Relax all you can during your winter break!! I’m a HS teacher and just reminding my students that a break is coming is so helpful.
I totally understand what you're going through! I'm starting my second year of nursing school with 2 jobs and it is hard and stressful but its so worth it! Sending good vibes.
Sophie you are allowed to feel how your feeling. Don't ever think that your feelings aren't valid because someone else may have it worse. Everyone handles things differently and that's okay! You got this girl!
Sophie, it's ok not to be ok sometimes. You don't have to aim for perfection. Give yourself the grace you deserve.
I’m not far into the video yet, but you got this girl!🙌💯 Being a mom, college student, all of that is hard individually, but we’re both doing it all at once and doing great! It’s ok to feel overwhelmed sometimes and need a break. I have a toddler and now I’m pregnant with twins, so I have to take a little break from college work to focus on my kids. I know you will continue to great and manage through the struggle. Also, you look beautiful!👏😊❤️
wow!!! congratulations 🥰 you keep me motivated
Sophie have you ever considered doing an RN program instead of a 4 year BSN? Lots of RN programs have part time options and later on you could do a bridge program to get your BSN. It might be a good way to reach your goal while being slightly less stressful. Rooting for you!!!
Don't worry Sophie, christmas break is around the corner and when this semester is done, you'll have a breath of fresh air! Next semester you'll now how to manage it better, don't give up future nurse!
Babe you are a badass. Even when you are feeling low and are struggling you're still awesome. I'm 20 and struggling on my own paying bills and such I cannot imagine you being in college and having 2 babies it actually amazes me what you do. I will watch 5 advertisements a video. I'll watch a video of your washer going for 20 minutes I dont care, I really love these sit down talks though! Your pain isnt less important just because someone is doing worse than you, you are valid. Your feelings and words are valid.
Girl. Being a mom with everything else that goes along with adulting is HARD even for us older ladies. Im 34 and I feel overwhelmed! You are an AMAZING mama! Prayers baby doll! Push through these hard times and it will all be worth it!
omg girl ur taking ANATOMY!! i've never taken it since i'm not doing nursing but i hear it's really hard and many drop nursing bc of it. ur doing amazing balancing everything to the best of ur abilities and i really admire u for that. best of luck with school and ur family! stay safe!! :)
100% true anatomy and physiology so one of the hardest courses
it makes me so sad seeing you so young and so stressed! i’m 20, and i haven’t achieved nearly as much as you. give yourself a break, dont be too hard on yourself. you are trying!!!
I’m in a nursing program and let me tell you you are such an inspiration! I’m 20 with no kids and live with my boyfriend in an apartment. I probably have a lot more time on my hands than you and I find myself being lazy sometimes. I know I can and need to work harder. When I watch your videos I see how hard you work and I know I can do it if you can. Just know you’re doing great. Your best is enough. You’re an amazing mom. All of your subscribers, friends, and family always have your back.
when she was talking about her grades and how hard chemistry was, I really felt that because I'm only in high school so its not as hard as college obviously... but its the only class I'm doing bad in too 😂 hang in there Sophie I believe in u getting high grades and feeling less stressed ;)
I'm 21 and I still remember how much bs chemistry was in high school 😩 good luck to both of you!❤
I feel yah girl! I'm a single 21 year old mom of 2 with a small business and I'm back at uni so I know how hard it is. there are just not enough hours in the day sometimes haha. but you can do it! the fact that you're fighting so hard for this says a lot about your character and strength. you go girl!
It doesn’t get easier really as you get older. Raising kids and bring an “adult” is freaking hard. I love talkspace to talk to a therapist
i completely understand what you’re going through. i’m feeling the same way lately. i’m 18 with a 4 month old and i’m a full time student. it’s really hard and i just had a breakdown last night actually. i also feel pretty alone and i just moved to a new place and i have no friends here. it sucks. but you’re strong and you will get through it. life’s hard especially as a teen mom. i’d love to talk to you more about it because i feel like i’m the only one feeling this way 😕
I know you keep saying how things could be so much worse, and that's important to recognize, but don't let that downplay or make your struggles seem not legitimate. You have SO much on your plate and one person can only take so much. Take breaks when you feel that you need them if you can. I hope you start asking for help if you need it. You've got this!
I was just thinking the other day that you must be swamped with school and life since it had been a while since you’d updated. I’m so sorry you’re going through so much, life sucks sometimes! I’m glad you’ll get a much deserved break soon. You look so cute despite having so much going on; actual goals. Keep on truckin, you’ve got this!
you got this Sophie, we’re proud of you regardless 🥺❤️
Girl you are strong you are amazing and you will get through this. It's only a short amount of time and here pretty soon you will see the light at the end of the tunnel. Stay strong stay amazing and you're awesome!
You are seriously doing so well sophie, better than a lot of moms I know a
In their 30’s trust me!!
Stay motivated Sophie!
You are a great mom, making yourself employable to secure you and your kids future + following your dream.
Also, while in school you have so many opportunities to film how you study, whats helpful in A&P (those classes are hard), day in your life as a college student and mom.. YOU GOT THIS!!!😊💕
Awww I feel bad she was trying not to cry in the beginning🥺🥺
I moved away from my family and am in college too. I completely understand the struggle on those parts. I just want you to know that college is hard and the workload just gets worst the further you go. It is worth it though, so keep pushing. It’s hard when you are missing your family too. I struggle A LOT with that. I could not imagine having more on top of it, especially to be a mom of 2. You are doing amazing and are so strong. If you get the chance, may sure to give yourself some you time and relax. Just know no matter what, you will get through this.
Youve got this gorgeous, youre so inspirational and so strong!
I'm with you. I am 21, not in school or working currently off on an 18 month parental leave and and only have one child but I can still relate to what you're saying so I can't even imagine what you are going through! You are honestly amazing and so strong things will get easier and you will be able to look back and be so proud of all you accomplished by your self with two babies! You're awesome girl dont think any less!
That’s a low air on your tires light & a oil change is usually every three months or every 3,000 miles which is around $20/$30 and they’re charging you $200?? Just to get it looked at? Girl you got scammed ☹️
20-30 is far too cheap for a good oil change, good oil starts from around 60 quid and goes up to 80 quote easy for 5l which is standard capacity for most cars, not including the new filter or labour, 200 is a lot yes but don't go to them cheap places it snot good for your car
@@kalliemcfaul2410 but still she’s still being ripped off.
@@fabylizzett2732 not by a huge margin, honestly shed be getting more ripped off paying 20 for an oil change
@@kalliemcfaul2410 I rather pay $20 for an oil change than pay $200/$300 just for someone to look at my car 😐 if you’re keeping up with your oil changes the quality doesn’t make much of a difference. Her car looks to be from a dealership and most of the time the first few oil changes are free if you take it back to the dealership. I hope she knows that too 😬 there’s no way you can justify her paying a few hundred bucks for an oil change and some air in her tires 😂 assuming that’s all she needed done.
@@fabylizzett2732 FACTS
Sending all my love. I am 20, struggling with a 4 month old being a stay at home mom. I can’t even imagine doing it at 18, doing school and work with TWINS. You’re soo strong love. Make sure you take time for yourself 🥺❤️
“Have I not commanded you? Be strong and of good courage; do not be afraid, nor be dismayed, for the LORD your God is with you wherever you go.””
Joshua 1:9
You are so inspiring. I am 18 in nursing school and feel stressed as it is. You are one of the strongest people I know. Keep your head up girl, you got this. Just think of how your kids will see you as a hero.
Sophie you look gorgeous without makeup I hope everything goes well
Girl I wish I could just give you a hug! I had my first when I was 20 and my second at 23, I’m now 24. I get so overwhelmed sometimes and my kids have an age gap, I can’t imagine having twins. You’re doing amazing and your kids being happy shows you that you are doing great! You’re super young but you just gotta work on not giving a damn what everyone else thinks. When I was 18 I moved 6 hours away to college and my family only called me when they needed money. I was a full time student and worked two jobs, I had no one to rely on but myself and then I got pregnant at 20 during school and I ended up dropping out. I still love my life, my kids are happy, we are doing great, and eventually I might go back to school. I know how overwhelming it is and I feel like you got it times 10 with everything you’re trynna juggle. I just gotta say you’re doing amazing and live your life the way you want to not based on others’ expectations of what you should be doing cuz People always have shit to say no matter how great you’re doing. Those babies are gorgeous and it gets easier :)
Sophie is literally the strongest woman i know period. love you girl thank you for sharing this with us
Girl, I TOTALLY understand how hard nursing school is. I’m in my second year right now of nursing. It’s a struggle but at the end, it will be all worth it for you and your kids! You are a great mom and DO NOT let anyone tell you differently! It is also okay to not be okay and ask for help. You have a ton of people that love you!
YOU GOT THIS GIRL! ❤️
If you need anything do not hesitate to ask! I’m always willing to help and listen.
You know that Sophie is committed when she uses a tiny vacuum like that one to clean her floors.
Hey Sophie, you are super strong, this is a rough patch that will hopefully get better. I’m a mom who moved away from my family and was also in nursing till this passed June. Had my son during nursing school, it wasn’t easy, but there is an end to this take it day by day. You can do it! Nursing school isn’t easy being a mom isn’t easy but if anyone got this it’s you. Proud of you girl!!!!
I am so sorry that you have to go through all of this. Just know that there are a lot of people who support you out there. I am praying that you will be able to figure everything out. Have fun with your life and try to take things one day at a time,you will be ok.
You are so strong, mature and responsible for being someone your age. I’m 19, a full time student (for nursing), so i can relate to the school being stressful part. I couldn’t image doing it with 2 kids also. You got this Sophie. I know it’s hard right now, but you are strong enough to do it. Head up girl 💖
We're proud of you! Stay strong girl 💜
You are such an amazing hard working dedicated young beautiful and most importantly a powerful young mom Sophie. I swear to god that I almost watch your videos every single day when I’m struggling at something. When I watch you everyday I get motivated to move forward with whatever obstacles come on my way. I have watched all of your videos for multiple times and it’s been the10th time I came to your channel to see if u have posted anything new. Love you so much. You are such an inspiration. I’m 27 now and pregnant with my first baby and I cannot imagine how you are managing all the house chores and two babies, school, and so many other things at such a young age. Never give up Sophie. You are amazing. You are doing super great. You are a sunshine to all of us. Keep shining. If you feel so down please look for therapy. But don’t ever give up. Take it day by day. I would love to mention you this before I stop typing this long comment. ‘Tough times never last, but tough people do’ ❤️💪 Lots of love from Sri Lanka 🇱🇰
knowing what you’ve already gone through, you will beat this soon bc ur the strongest person i know. you’ll get through this bubs🥺💗
Senior nursing student here! First semester is the hardest. It will get easier, be kind to yourself. You have so much on your shoulders. My advice would be keep a planner! Have your whole month laid out. Every week go through and see what you have for that week and ONLY worry about that week. In nursing school we always say “take it one day at a time”. Looking ahead will stress you out. You will look back and realize how much you were able to handle and begin to feel more confident in yourself. With that being said, having bad days is okay! We all have them. Sending positive energy your way! ❤️
You are doing so well Sophie, you’re a very strong and courageous person! We all have rocky patches in life but you can get through it! Once you graduate school and become an amazing nurse you’ll look back and be grateful you got through it. Stay strong beautiful 🤍❤️
Every single thing you feel is incredibly valid & important even if you feel other’s have it worse. I had friends in nursing programs my first semester of college and it seemed very very hard and stressful, plus being a MOTHER.. bro. You feel however you need to girl. I hope you can find some peace soon.
Sophie, (PLEASE READ THIS) GIRL you are so strong, so mature so beautiful and such a brilliant mother! Your 18 , 2 beautiful boys , your own apartment, studying with school , plus RUclips etc you've got your head on your shoulders, youve always done the right thing! In the right direction with life , dont feel down or let anyone put you down it's all jealousy, they want what they dont have, your incredible girl !! 🥰❤
I don’t know who to put it into words, but you are so so so strong, i can’t describe who much I am impressed of you in every single video. I am just two years older than you, living at home (because i am studying and not earn money) and without baby’s to take care of an I am still struggling sometimes, especially when it comes to the end of semester. Have this in your mind. So many people struggle with college and you have so much more to do, so it is so so so normal (or to be hones ist less then normal. Normal probably would be to freak out, start crying every minute and stop college :D) to struggl. You do more than anyone expect from you! Keep it in your mind. Sorry for my bad english skills :D
Honestly you inspire me so much!
Im 18 still in high school and most of the time i spend 90% of each day in bed reading and watching youtube videos but your video just kicked my ass into gear and as soon as im finishing writing this comment i will catch up on all my school work and responsibilities-thank you for showing the world that everything is possible!
Question - when you first found out that you are pregnent did you ever think you would be able to do everything you are doing now?
I have been watching you since before you had the babies and you have grown up so much since that first video I saw. You have been such a great mom and it is so inspiring to see you handling this all on your own. But remember it is okay to ask for help, because don't push yourself to that breaking point! Even if you allow an hour or even a half an hour at night before bed to yourself to watch a show or relax it will help your mindset so much. I have been there that the stress is so much but I promise you are not alone.
I’m a mommy, wife, and a college student as well. It’s really hard but you’ll get through it❤️
Girl, I’ve been subscribed since your fist video you are honestly SO inspirational, I’m a 21 year old college student and trying to juggle work, school and bills is so difficult for me and I don’t even have two toddler boys. Honestly you are doing such a good job and I know we only see a portion of your life but from what I do see you are killing it!!
You are so incredibly strong. When you are standing at your college graduation- your gonna be so happy you didn’t give up. You got this, Sophie❤️❤️❤️
you got this mama ur so strong! ik you’ll get through this and only get stronger we’re all so proud of you
btw i am an 18 year old mom to an 18 month old & definitely feel your pain!
I feel you girly. Not a parent but I can relate in the sense of being stretched thin and not being the type to ask for help when needed. I definitely need to take this advice too, but I’d recommend maybe seeking a therapist if you’re able to. It’s okay to not be okay. It’s okay to not have it all together. And it’s okay to feel what you’re feeling 💗
I genuinely can't imagine going through all of this as an 18 year old... I am so proud of you Sophie. I wish we could all give you a huge hug. This season of life will pass and things will get easier.
You are doing a terrific job raising those boys. Try to take it one day at a time. I know it’s easier said than done but you are one strong mama and your kids absolutely love you. Hopefully filming this video helped you as you spoke openly about your struggles. Your youtube family loves and supports you too!❤️
I have no idea what you’re going through, and neither does this yt community. please take these comments w a grain of salt. I am the same age as you, and I can’t imagine how difficult it must be to be a mother of 2 in college. You are doing amazing!! I can tell just from these few clips, that you work hard for your family, and that is the most important thing. When life feels uncertain, that’s exactly when you continue to push through. Keep focusing on the progress and where you want to be, and it’s ok to not be ok. Life will continue to surprise you in so many good ways. Much love from Cali🧡
You got it girl! Im almost 28 and your life is more set in stone and youre doing more than me! You are doing great, youll get through this!
you should totally do a video where you show how you balance school and being a mom! like show when you go to class, spend time with the boys, and do homework. it could even be a few day vlog! hope talking it out helped you, and take as much time as you need for yourself, because that is the most important….
She has one sort of similar to that, her morning routine! It was a good video :)
Keep going it is so so hard but you are doing an AMAZING job!! I’m 38now and my son is 20 I lost all my friends,was working and doing cosmetology school at night while having a newborn it was the HARDEST thing I ever did endless night of crying but here I am 20 years of doing hair married and 3 more kids hearing you was hearing my 18 year old teen mom self!! YOU GOT THIS🙌🏼
I’m in awe of your hair, it’s always so so pretty❤️
On a side note: you’re so well spoken, I’ll keep you in my prayers(:
I’m happy you sat down and expressed to us all how you’re feeling. You’re an amazing mother, daughter, sister, student, and friend. Don’t EVER be afraid to ask for help. My mother had me as a teen and I see a lot of her in you; she has never asked for help in her entire life and growing up, I saw how difficult juggling everything was for her. I can’t imagine doing it all. I’m now a second year nursing student and I’m overwhelmed just with school and my part time job. I know you’ve never met many of us, but just know we are always here to help. This video reminded me of my favorite quote -“The greatest mistake you can make in life is continually fearing you will make one”. We are all human. No one is perfect. But you are damn near close. Keep pushing mama.
Stay strong Sophie we are all here for you and the babies💖
I am becoming a nurse in a different country and it is kicking my ass too. I can't imagine what you are going through. You are such an incredible strong person and I am pretty sure that you will succeed.
Is there no way for you to maybe switch college to part time? You have so much on your plate and juggle everything so well and it seems like you are a great mom. If there is an option for you to take some things slower then think about it. You are still so incredibly young and don't have to do everything at once :-) of course it's something different if that's what you want though.
You're doing great!
i understand how stressful life can be. i am feeling the same stress with school but then there is the rest that you are feeling. but i just want you to know that you are allowed to feel the things you are feeling. yes, people in the world have it way worse but how you feel is still valid and it is best to get it off your chest. and just know that you are amazing and strong. you are raising two toddlers, going to college, and the rest of adult life like bills and groceries like that is an insane amount of things to be doing at 18 so never doubt yourself!!!
I can't even explain in my own words how strong and mature you are.
School with one of the hardest majors(for me), family, financial support, and more things that you do in 18!
Just one sentence. YOU ARE AMAZING!
Can't understand people who hate you. I am pretty sure they aren't as responsible as you are.
aw sophie i had to comment again cause i hate that you are going through this. I totally understand the shock of university especially during midterms and stuff ugh it's so tough. And I dont even know what to say about you missing your family. I'm super close to my family to the point where I couldn't go away for uni I just stayed home and commute everyday. I'm so sorry that you're feeling this way right now :( the stress of being a student is sooo overwhelming I can't even fathom what you are feeling as a single mom of two, with essentially a full time job and going to school. You are truly an inspiration queen.
You’re doing amazing! The twins are so cute and happy and my heart broke when you told about everything you are struggeling with. You are so strong and keep going!!❤️❤️
It's really easy to get into a negative headspace like that but you have so much to look forward to in life, and you have to pat yourself on the back for the things that you're succeeding at. You're an amazing mom given all that you've gone through, and I have no doubt that everything will work out.
I'm sorry :( I'm going to pray for you
awe girl you are STRONG! 🥺 and trust me us who have been with you for a while see it and always have seen it in you! it will get easier ❤️