Can make sense. If you are not in love or felt different from your spouse or wanted to be no monogamous, just let be transparent and have true conversation or talking with your spouse first before having an affair. If clear both of you are are tried and still not succeed then ask for for break up or divorce. That the best and good moral rather than cheated. After the divorce surely you have freedom and can find another guy your wanted and dream.
Hi Stacey Well I'm having some difficulty at the moment . Since I found out about my partner's affair she has on her ex husband for 3 years I have completely lost trust in her . But also now although the affair ended in 2017 we keep seeing this guy in places in the area she lives in different places . One time walked right past him outside pub and she claimed she didn't see him . But I feel it's putting me in danger . She told me how it was infatuation and how she thought he was amazing at the beginning so obviously they had a strong connection at one point . So now with also bumping into him around I feel there's always a risk there again even though she said she'd never ever do that again and hates that person now . I just don't believe her .
So amazing, that every unfaithful use the same excuses, the same words even.
Yep it's all the same script.
They try and justify it to try and take away some of the shame of not being a adult and dealing with the issues like one.
It goes much deeper than not being able to handle an issue like an adult.
Can make sense. If you are not in love or felt different from your spouse or wanted to be no monogamous, just let be transparent and have true conversation or talking with your spouse first before having an affair. If clear both of you are are tried and still not succeed then ask for for break up or divorce. That the best and good moral rather than cheated. After the divorce surely you have freedom and can find another guy your wanted and dream.
Unfortunately people who cheat are not the best at having hard conversations so they look for ways to cope.
Hi Stacey
Well I'm having some difficulty at the moment . Since I found out about my partner's affair she has on her ex husband for 3 years I have completely lost trust in her . But also now although the affair ended in 2017 we keep seeing this guy in places in the area she lives in different places . One time walked right past him outside pub and she claimed she didn't see him . But I feel it's putting me in danger . She told me how it was infatuation and how she thought he was amazing at the beginning so obviously they had a strong connection at one point . So now with also bumping into him around I feel there's always a risk there again even though she said she'd never ever do that again and hates that person now . I just don't believe her .
Stacey - What portion (%) of marriage partners do you think have some sort of extramarital affair?
30-60% of married couples will have at least one affair
@@staceychenevert - Thanks for that - I always thought the figure was higher than the surveys typically show.
@TM-tw1py I believe it is, this is just the percentage of people who admitted to it.
Why in the world he took u back?
Because he loves me !
What if your affair partner has gotten pregnant by you and wanted you to do harm to her husband?
You report to the police! Simple!