Cool video, My relationship of 6 years ended a month ago. The love of my life decided to leave me, I really love him so much I can’t stop thinking about him, I’ve tried my very best to get him back in my life, but to no avail, I’m frustrated, I don’t see my life with anyone else. I’ve done my best to get rid of the thoughts of him, but I can’t, I don’t know why I’m saying this here, I really miss him and just can’t stop thinking about him
its difficult to let go of someone you love, i was in a similar situation, my relationship of 12 years ended, but i couldnt just let him go i did all i could to get him back, i had to seek the help of a spiritual counselor who helped me bring him back
Truth be told, woman that play these kind of games are not worth it if you have any self respect... I feel sorry for the guys that actually get them...
This guy is so right. I had 2 women beg to come back and a 3rd heart broken when she saw I found another woman. Great reminder for my current situation.
You can’t chase after them. That’s the most important thing. You have to pull your energy back in as best you can. Do your life in the most positive way you can with as much physical exercise as you can to keep feeling good.
If they left for no reason, don’t take them back. It will happen again. It’s time to just keep it pushing. I’ve never just walked away from a good relationship due to boredom or craving more. That person will never be satisfied.
I swear that’s what happened to me today 😂, Ignored her when she ghosted me after I took her out yesterday for a fancy date despite her being a walking red flag. Today she started texting again. But you know, not interested anymore. I deserve better.
They always come back because they have no FAVOR from above. They don’t do what it takes to be given FAVOR yet they expect FAVOR to be given. Ungrateful
Facts! My ex had me blocked on everything and yesterday she sent me a friend request on Facebook. I told her kick rocks back in December. She was on her socials talking bad bout me and now she’s back. Life and women are crazy 😂
@@staygolden84 I deactivated my instagram so fear of missing out probably made her swallow her pride and come back. I would cut her off completely but she lowkey respects me more now for telling her kick rocks cause I have things I need to achieve instead of simping and tryna comply to her demands
Omg I'm currently going through this with this woman who at my most vulnerable moment trying to speak my heart on things she's not responding. Being vulnerable as a man is a scary thing nowadays but for real like after everything we've shared, you can't give me one word in response to some sincere questions???? Wtf with these women man.
Same happened to me. Eventually saw them again IRL & they opened communications, nothing happened. We just cleared some air. But at the time the ghosting happened because women are literal pussies. It takes hell of a lot of guts to say things how they are & pull the trigger. Most women today are protecting themselves because they can't face their man & tell it to them how it is. Even if the man is a good guy. Women are so hyperfocused on making their own lives as frictionless as possible. Take their silence as your answer. They have cut ties & opened wounds that may not ever fully heal. Until you process it, bury it, go on your grind & find someone else. The best defense for men is to treat life like a business to a certain degree. A real man doesn't take things personally, no matter what happens. Being overtly emotional for guys is weakness. It's just the cost of doing business. It's not personal. This sort of detached, stoic attitude is what makes men an oak tree. Be vulnerable & empathetic when they deserve it. But cold, stoic & impersonal when they don't. And that's a good defense when you're being on the defense for whatever reason. When they insult you, attack you or ghost you. But once you're back on your legs, believe in yourself & open up to new people to give love a chance again.
She let me crack the first date and then pulled back all the way, ghosted and started gaslighting heavy. I guess she realized I was higher value then she initially thought 🤷♂️
Don’t take them when they come back… just feel good and move forward. Why??? Because they only come back to leave you again, don’t give them the satisfaction
I was just thinking about this and researching online this topic , when you have a good convo and they block you for no reason, it’s all a game of power and control for them , if you act like a simp, they will never respect you
Thanks TJ. ❤ Sometimes people are doing their ego games and sometimes they are working on their fitness or confidence or whatever and they are not ready to move forward
Guys - girls do come back. Not all the time but some come back. I have had 3 come back. In each case, I was doing my own thing and focusing on myself when they reached out. They make up some reason to contact you but they won't say what they want but they want you to ask them out. When she does this, you are in control because she's chasing you now instead of you chasing her. So if you're interested in her ask her out. If she's non committal then say ok if you change your mind let me know. Then get back to your life and go back to no contact.
Insulted her so hard and broke in tears. Called her things. Then cried again. Well. After all she had been cheating on me with a friend of mine. And she was doing it right in front of me. I felt jealous, but she wasn't remotely hiding it. I thought they were just very good friends. She was just stupid. So yeah, I definitely lost my cool. Guess she won't be coming back. Me playing my cards in the worst way possible may have granted me a better future
A voice in my head sounded like my own said.....3 kids and you will seperate. I had this while she was pregnant with my first right through til the third was born. Everything went bad over night. We split up after 11 years. Everyone was shocked. A voice has then said since 3 years and "you will have a choice" its been around a year so far. Went no contact about a month ago and the parents "flying monkeys" keep questioning me. Ive realised they feed it back to her. I now say yeah fine. Makes me wonder the three yesr thing....if this option comes about ill be very curious where this voice comes from.
I just wanted the colleague as a work friend. After a shift together where we got to know each other likeably. she suddenly avoids me at work. She doesn't even say hello. When I wave at her from a distance she just smiles strangely. So weird
100%. It’s a reaction to their intimidation. They feel threatened in a sense, and this is their way of attempting at an even playing field. Even though it won’t ever be
I passed my narc and her twin sister talking to someone front doors of walmart.They both gave me the evil eyes..lol..I had big smile and pep in my step..😂The sister is the king narc.Her daughter is 28 no drivers license really over weight just sets home under moms thumb..She so depressed I can see it and she just lights up when I came around like a small child..Maybe she will be a super empath one day.All this came from the 54 yr old twins mother.She neglected them big time.One got tinkered with by grampa at young age..Don't mean you can fix them..Sorry for rant figured someone might use it..Good one fellow.❤
Keep talking about this. I hate to sound redundant - but I have been working on myself the last 3 months since we stopped talking. I always have that one hidden person in facebook stories - no way to prove if its her or not. Could be someone else, who knows. I have gotten a new job, taken care of a route canal I needed - got a passport and my diet is on point. You what is crazier - I kind of still wish we talked just because she was cool but at the same time there are some red flags - she told me after a year she was Bi-sexual, she has male friends and she struggles with Bipolar/Depression. Its just like one of those women where everything else is so perfect but there are some things that she needs to work on. I have to worry about myself and you know I used the pain and channeled it into my school work and make a better life for myself. I know I am him.
I got this one girl off her game so bad. She tries to play it cool, but then she's blowing my phone up telling me all the stuff she has going on, sending me pictures and memes and all that. Then it's like she catches herself and she dips for a couple days and comes back doing the same thing. Like girl, I know what tf is going on, but play your game.
How can they come back with games after 20 years of liberties come on I wood think putting people in impossible positions out of selfish and self centered needs is kinda sick when you check what the invidial there coming back for has been through and held back from wood really??
My first ever heartbreak did eventually come back into my life, we're friends today and talk on occasion but neither of us have any interest in eachother romantically.
For some reason woman need you to be a mind reader it never fails. You’ll see in there face and ask is something wrong. No of course not. They then walk away. Imagine if we did that. Why would you play games and risk a relationship you really care about and ya feel is going somewhere.
I think it depends on the situation, some guys take the woman back. It depends on how attached and other factors in the relationship. Sometimes it works out and sometimes it doesn't. I don't think taking back and revive the relationship makes a man weak, there's many factors involved.
Does anyone on here find life depressing because I do I am just glad I am the chosen one because I am hated and and depressed and life always makes me miserable and depressed and everyone hates me and that could be because everyone is jealous of me because I am the chosen one
See I was mostly confused because she asked to be bf/gf then ghosted. So I’m confused because we just had the talk and I don’t wanna cheat but idk what’s going on
Does it also apply to ex who left me 1,5 years ago? However I was completely loser in every area in my life when I was with her and she left after 3-4 months. We have been in no contact since then, but we don't have each other on social media anymore and I don;t post anything. We have also no mutual friends. I didn't pursue her, but she probably doesn't give a fuck. She is also extremely attractive, smart and succesful and tons of guys chase her (even quite famous one)
A week ago, I t was told by a female that we were gonna hang this week, I'm hot, they feel special, and then disappeared lol I gtfu with modern broken women.
I hope you talk about other topics. In the end, you are a healthy person, but you were exposed to someone's stupidity. Of course, there is no room for self-doubt. You do not need to justify that they always come back. Of course they come back. These are emotional beggars. ... You are a person with high intellectual talents, so do not waste them on analyzing their childish behavior.
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Cool video, My relationship of 6 years ended a month ago. The love of my life decided to leave me, I really love him so much I can’t stop thinking about him, I’ve tried my very best to get him back in my life, but to no avail, I’m frustrated, I don’t see my life with anyone else. I’ve done my best to get rid of the thoughts of him, but I can’t, I don’t know why I’m saying this here, I really miss him and just can’t stop thinking about him
its difficult to let go of someone you love, i was in a similar situation, my relationship of 12 years ended, but i couldnt just let him go i did all i could to get him back, i had to seek the help of a spiritual counselor who helped me bring him back
amazing, how did you get a spiritual counselor, and how do i reach him
His name is fatherabulu, and him is a great spiritual counselor who can bring back your ex...
Thank you for this valuable information, i just looked he up now online. impressive
They comeback when they have failed to replace you.
They always come back but we don't always want them back.
NEVER take them back even if you do, my ex tried to and she got the boot instantaneously.
@@Mythical444she dodged a missile
@@sleepisthecousinofdeath7395why you even here, call him if you want, but he done with you ass.
I love her but i don't want her to ever lay eyes on me again
@@sleepisthecousinofdeath7395 she was the missile
Gotta believe theyll come back so you can live life, even if they don't actually come back you'll be stronger at the end
" Things were good....Then....all of a sudden..."😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅
Women ☕
every fuckin time bro
Truth be told, woman that play these kind of games are not worth it if you have any self respect... I feel sorry for the guys that actually get them...
This guy is so right. I had 2 women beg to come back and a 3rd heart broken when she saw I found another woman. Great reminder for my current situation.
They don't care about you they only care about themselves.
I care about myself as well
@@johnathanjones9216 same lol
You can’t chase after them. That’s the most important thing. You have to pull your energy back in as best you can. Do your life in the most positive way you can with as much physical exercise as you can to keep feeling good.
Chase? I don't even chase my liquor.
You mean the bank right lool
Lmfao
If they left for no reason, don’t take them back. It will happen again. It’s time to just keep it pushing. I’ve never just walked away from a good relationship due to boredom or craving more. That person will never be satisfied.
I swear that’s what happened to me today 😂, Ignored her when she ghosted me after I took her out yesterday for a fancy date despite her being a walking red flag. Today she started texting again. But you know, not interested anymore. I deserve better.
Let's goooo!
They always come back because they have no FAVOR from above. They don’t do what it takes to be given FAVOR yet they expect FAVOR to be given. Ungrateful
This came out at the right time
Happened to me yesterday
Facts! My ex had me blocked on everything and yesterday she sent me a friend request on Facebook. I told her kick rocks back in December. She was on her socials talking bad bout me and now she’s back. Life and women are crazy 😂
@@madewavy exactly bro theyre always watching, but they come back and play the same bs over and over, just gotta start fresh w a new female
@@staygolden84 I deactivated my instagram so fear of missing out probably made her swallow her pride and come back. I would cut her off completely but she lowkey respects me more now for telling her kick rocks cause I have things I need to achieve instead of simping and tryna comply to her demands
Omg I'm currently going through this with this woman who at my most vulnerable moment trying to speak my heart on things she's not responding. Being vulnerable as a man is a scary thing nowadays but for real like after everything we've shared, you can't give me one word in response to some sincere questions???? Wtf with these women man.
Same happened to me. Fearful avoidants!
Same happened to me. Eventually saw them again IRL & they opened communications, nothing happened. We just cleared some air. But at the time the ghosting happened because women are literal pussies. It takes hell of a lot of guts to say things how they are & pull the trigger. Most women today are protecting themselves because they can't face their man & tell it to them how it is. Even if the man is a good guy. Women are so hyperfocused on making their own lives as frictionless as possible. Take their silence as your answer. They have cut ties & opened wounds that may not ever fully heal. Until you process it, bury it, go on your grind & find someone else.
The best defense for men is to treat life like a business to a certain degree. A real man doesn't take things personally, no matter what happens. Being overtly emotional for guys is weakness. It's just the cost of doing business. It's not personal. This sort of detached, stoic attitude is what makes men an oak tree. Be vulnerable & empathetic when they deserve it. But cold, stoic & impersonal when they don't. And that's a good defense when you're being on the defense for whatever reason. When they insult you, attack you or ghost you. But once you're back on your legs, believe in yourself & open up to new people to give love a chance again.
She let me crack the first date and then pulled back all the way, ghosted and started gaslighting heavy. I guess she realized I was higher value then she initially thought 🤷♂️
She still hasn’t 100% ghosted me so no she didn’t lose interest bc of the date and s3x😂
@@RealKyteomy man leaving them alone is part of the game.
You're a stud! 😂
You were a hookup buddy
Dude, if she's already gaslighting it means it will only get worse. Walk away, this is coming from a 47 year old.
They won't. I block them so bye bye come back 😂
Spot on!!!!! You’re a life saver brother
I've noticed it's always women come back. But men on the other hand we rarely comeback
Chase and they run. Run and they chase
This is like my relationship with my narc mother
Don’t take them when they come back… just feel good and move forward. Why???
Because they only come back to leave you again, don’t give them the satisfaction
Especially the young attractive ones!!!
Nobody ever comes back for me. I hope some things change
I was just thinking about this and researching online this topic , when you have a good convo and they block you for no reason, it’s all a game of power and control for them , if you act like a simp, they will never respect you
Thanks TJ. ❤ Sometimes people are doing their ego games and sometimes they are working on their fitness or confidence or whatever and they are not ready to move forward
They want attention even when they’re not interested in you.
Guys - girls do come back. Not all the time but some come back. I have had 3 come back. In each case, I was doing my own thing and focusing on myself when they reached out. They make up some reason to contact you but they won't say what they want but they want you to ask them out. When she does this, you are in control because she's chasing you now instead of you chasing her. So if you're interested in her ask her out. If she's non committal then say ok if you change your mind let me know. Then get back to your life and go back to no contact.
I'm sooo glad I found your channel!!! Just what I needed when I needed it 💪
This guy's so cool..him and Xander...and narc survivor..epic. Just epic..thanks man
* Zander
Insulted her so hard and broke in tears. Called her things. Then cried again. Well. After all she had been cheating on me with a friend of mine. And she was doing it right in front of me. I felt jealous, but she wasn't remotely hiding it. I thought they were just very good friends. She was just stupid. So yeah, I definitely lost my cool. Guess she won't be coming back. Me playing my cards in the worst way possible may have granted me a better future
If she cheated on you with your friend why would you want her back? Plus that friend would be out of my life forever
When they try, just tell em how bad you miss em and how your life is terrible without them, and they'll leave ya alone haha
Hahaha we are playing chess not checkers over here!
They always come back they see that you are not the one to be played with you are cut from a different type of cloth
And then we don't want them back at all
I needed to hear this and it was right on time !!!! THANKS BRO !!!!!
Hilarious 😂 😃 😄 😁 🤣
Bro yo, that person funny 😁 😂
Definitely be rewatching your videos especially most recently
Mine came back 3 x in 10 yrs.. everytime was a toxic nightmare
From an Old Phraze from the late 60s,, This guy is Groovy dude... Far Out......
thanks bro keep strong. 8 days into my breakup just doing no contact. and pretty much what you have said.
Head up king it gets better with time, 3 months strong for me🤝
@@plamedie17update
I don't even want to manifest the idea but if she comes back it's clearly a test.
Bro I feel this
Agreed, unfortunatelly some people will only respect you when they loose you.
Yes they do!
A voice in my head sounded like my own said.....3 kids and you will seperate.
I had this while she was pregnant with my first right through til the third was born.
Everything went bad over night. We split up after 11 years.
Everyone was shocked.
A voice has then said since 3 years and "you will have a choice" its been around a year so far.
Went no contact about a month ago and the parents "flying monkeys" keep questioning me. Ive realised they feed it back to her.
I now say yeah fine.
Makes me wonder the three yesr thing....if this option comes about ill be very curious where this voice comes from.
Yep. Men get Angry. Don't do this. Don't lose your self respect and act in some kind of weird way
Exactly. I'd rather lose the girl than lose my dignity and self respect.
What are you doing up so late go to bed😂😂😂❤😂❤😂😂
This is exactly what I needed! Thank you Joellllll ❤❤❤❤❤❤
I agree with your way of thinking. This video resonated with me. Good job 👍
I just wanted the colleague as a work friend. After a shift together where we got to know each other likeably. she suddenly avoids me at work. She doesn't even say hello. When I wave at her from a distance she just smiles strangely. So weird
They come back after their run thru.
Thank you for the video
So well spoken, the flow. The cadence. Humour
Also I think when you're that powerful looks/prize wise and status wise they want some power too, like a Neg kind of
100%. It’s a reaction to their intimidation. They feel threatened in a sense, and this is their way of attempting at an even playing field. Even though it won’t ever be
@@LongStrokey wow. Yes.
I passed my narc and her twin sister talking to someone front doors of walmart.They both gave me the evil eyes..lol..I had big smile and pep in my step..😂The sister is the king narc.Her daughter is 28 no drivers license really over weight just sets home under moms thumb..She so depressed I can see it and she just lights up when I came around like a small child..Maybe she will be a super empath one day.All this came from the 54 yr old twins mother.She neglected them big time.One got tinkered with by grampa at young age..Don't mean you can fix them..Sorry for rant figured someone might use it..Good one fellow.❤
Wtf lol
Keep talking about this. I hate to sound redundant - but I have been working on myself the last 3 months since we stopped talking. I always have that one hidden person in facebook stories - no way to prove if its her or not. Could be someone else, who knows. I have gotten a new job, taken care of a route canal I needed - got a passport and my diet is on point. You what is crazier - I kind of still wish we talked just because she was cool but at the same time there are some red flags - she told me after a year she was Bi-sexual, she has male friends and she struggles with Bipolar/Depression. Its just like one of those women where everything else is so perfect but there are some things that she needs to work on. I have to worry about myself and you know I used the pain and channeled it into my school work and make a better life for myself. I know I am him.
Yup. You're definitely him!!!
Bi-polar? Depression? Bro your crazy for getting involved with someone like that... Girls like that can break you
Yes it could be them, but also don't forget it could be a random nosey stranger
Thank you for the wisdom chosen brother 🙏👏☝️📈
I got this one girl off her game so bad. She tries to play it cool, but then she's blowing my phone up telling me all the stuff she has going on, sending me pictures and memes and all that. Then it's like she catches herself and she dips for a couple days and comes back doing the same thing. Like girl, I know what tf is going on, but play your game.
Some Women can be a 10 Outta 10 in Looks but if her spirit is too young you won't feel a
ANY attraction to her❗❗🤣🤣🤣
I’ve recently had 1 come back and leave again 😂
It's been 26 years and my ex still hasn't come back!😂 she's got to be one of the very few cases I guess!🤔
She played me almost 7years ago…
Have not heard a word from her since.
How can they come back with games after 20 years of liberties come on I wood think putting people in impossible positions out of selfish and self centered needs is kinda sick when you check what the invidial there coming back for has been through and held back from wood really??
If they come back don't take them it's very simple, show the door to the highway street.
My first ever heartbreak did eventually come back into my life, we're friends today and talk on occasion but neither of us have any interest in eachother romantically.
They might put us in a lose/lose situation but they're the only 1s losing
Life Lesson #384
Don't chase shit boy.
For some reason woman need you to be a mind reader it never fails. You’ll see in there face and ask is something wrong. No of course not. They then walk away. Imagine if we did that. Why would you play games and risk a relationship you really care about and ya feel is going somewhere.
Spot on!
Great video Terry!
Good video terry 👏 amen
Do they come back if you dumped them? I only want her to come back, so i can tell her to get lost again 🤣🤣 she was a toxic cruel narcissist woman
“They always come back” not if you change your number 🕶️
I think it depends on the situation, some guys take the woman back. It depends on how attached and other factors in the relationship. Sometimes it works out and sometimes it doesn't. I don't think taking back and revive the relationship makes a man weak, there's many factors involved.
Statically speaking.. getting back with an ex very rarely works.. the odds are hugely stacked against you. It's not worth the risk
Wonderful video. 😊
So many facts bro 👏👏👏
Does anyone on here find life depressing because I do I am just glad I am the chosen one because I am hated and and depressed and life always makes me miserable and depressed and everyone hates me and that could be because everyone is jealous of me because I am the chosen one
Stay strong brother, you’re not alone in your battles. 💪🏻
Watching King 🖖
Many of them don't come back from stubbornness
I've done this its so smart
but she said "i love him and will never leave him" about her new guy
Yeah try to comeback with 5 kids later. Nah I'm good.
See I was mostly confused because she asked to be bf/gf then ghosted. So I’m confused because we just had the talk and I don’t wanna cheat but idk what’s going on
Does it also apply to ex who left me 1,5 years ago? However I was completely loser in every area in my life when I was with her and she left after 3-4 months. We have been in no contact since then, but we don't have each other on social media anymore and I don;t post anything. We have also no mutual friends. I didn't pursue her, but she probably doesn't give a fuck. She is also extremely attractive, smart and succesful and tons of guys chase her (even quite famous one)
If she really cared about you. She wouldn't had left you. Have respect for yourself. Not even as a friend she reaches back out. She sounds lame.
Real.
if you didnt fucked up badly they will come back
We know this but we don't want them to come back 😂😂😂
A week ago, I t was told by a female that we were gonna hang this week, I'm hot, they feel special, and then disappeared lol I gtfu with modern broken women.
SEEEK HELP LMFAOOOOOOOOO
Push pull behaviors. Red flag of borderline. ❤❤❤❤❤❤
They do
Can you do a video about starting to be self employed
Yup, it's annoying
#T-Clover ☘️ #FREEGAME101🧏🏾🌊🏄🏾♂️ ⛳️☄️🏌🏾♂️🗣️
"planet earth" was their first big lie brother.
Even if they really dislike you after a breakup?
Exactly
Proverbs 27:18
Whoso keepeth the fig tree shall eat the fruit thereof: so he that waiteth on his master shall be honoured.
not for me they dont.
This guy is hurt 😢
I die laughing at these videos
I hope you talk about other topics. In the end, you are a healthy person, but you were exposed to someone's stupidity. Of course, there is no room for self-doubt. You do not need to justify that they always come back. Of course they come back. These are emotional beggars.
...
You are a person with high intellectual talents, so do not waste them on analyzing their childish behavior.
I have a text relationship with my DOORMAN you guys, that's how much a text relationship means lol
Did you get caught up on your sleep
based af
I unfollowed them . Did I mess up ?