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Комментарии • 107

  • @secondtwonone22
    @secondtwonone22 Год назад +8

    Confronting mental health struggles as a person of Asian descent is some next level shit. It requires a lot of bravery, a lot of unlearning, a lot of humility and a lot of grace for yourself. Keep doing this hard work and thank you for normalizing the struggle AND the work towards recovery.

  • @cxg7381
    @cxg7381 Год назад +16

    Thank you for trusting us enough to share your past year. Oh yes, we do understand. No judgments ever - just support for your journey.

  • @angeloocchi05
    @angeloocchi05 Год назад +9

    You never failed you are learning your limits and yourself so failure is not a word you should ever use learning to be kind and loving to yourself is the hardest thing ever being willing to go on that journey makes you the braver and stronger then we give ourselves credit for

  • @MalekBinns
    @MalekBinns Год назад +15

    OMG. Lisa, this was sooooooo brave and courageous for you to do! I love to see the rawness that everyone else needs to see. Normalize being raw!! I love you a lot and we have talked about the real stuff that happened in our lives. You are strong and I cannot wait to see your journey in the new chapter in your life. Grandma sends her love as well! ❤
    Everyone, PLEASE get your mental health together if you can, you are worth it.

  • @pamelaschmidt3773
    @pamelaschmidt3773 Год назад +2

    Lisa we love you. The Sugar Art world would be loss without you. Remember God loves you and he is always there for you.

  • @wendyelmore9018
    @wendyelmore9018 Год назад +2

    Hi Lisa, Please do not even consider embarrassment, shame or any other negative thought about this video! You have done a great service to your friends, family and followers by posting your true position at this time in life.. When I first came across you in the "cookie world" I watched your video comparing dehydrators. I did not see you as anything less than a trustworthy, expert cookier with a terrific personality. As with so many people who have reached this level, you are experiencing what so many others experience by handling multiple aspects of life outside professional life. Not many are willing to share their struggle and I praise you for sharing! Those of us who follow you and other expert cookiers realize there is much more to your lives than what we see on camera. You only strengthen your reputation and persona by giving us a glimpse into how much you have been juggling since COVID. You are not alone! Embrace your heritage and know that being an American is not a strictly defined role! Our country and society is a beautiful tapestry woven with threads from many cultures. Thank you for all you contribute in the "cookie world," and even more for what you contributed to so many people living with the same issues you pointed out in your video. You are loved. Sincerely, Wendy Elmore

  • @deseraeconstantineau1063
    @deseraeconstantineau1063 Год назад +1

    Lisa, you've been one of my mentors in this new cookie adventure of mine and I'm so very proud of you for being so raw and vulnerable. I am so sorry for your pain and struggles the last few years but I believe we do have to break down to break through. Keep being you and keep being real. As @BreneBrown says, Vulnerability is a superpower!

  • @Kdpartak
    @Kdpartak Год назад +2

    I remember us meeting at News 10 what feels like a million years ago. I saw that weight... you were trying to decide if you could leave your corporate job to do BB. I'm proud of you and I get it. I've been there in entrepreneurship, marriage, now menopause has kicked my butt and I am on the other side of lots of things that provide me with empathy and compassion that I didn't have before. Hold your head up high, you are amazing and YOU ABSOLUTELY belong in the space with the best bakers and cookiers in the world. Love you girl! You are stronger than you think but it's okay to rest.

  • @reginamunster2937
    @reginamunster2937 Год назад +1

    Thank you for being open and vulnerable with your personal problems you have been experiencing this last year. So proud of you ❤ Come be inspired…CookieCon Orlando!

  • @hnybjonez2961
    @hnybjonez2961 3 месяца назад +1

    I relate! I have had identity issues as well. I was ashamed of my Mexican heritage because of how I grew up so I get the “fitting in”. It takes a HUGE toll on your psyche. You are brave and I commend you for putting it out there!! I hope you find the answers soon.

  • @ccook9906
    @ccook9906 Год назад +2

    I just came across this video and am so thankful for your vulnerability and openness in sharing your struggles. That took so much courage and bravery and it touched my heart and helped me know that I am not alone in my struggles. God bless you and stay strong, you’re an amazing woman.

  • @shelbyatkins4327
    @shelbyatkins4327 Год назад +5

    Your content is what gave me the confidence to first get into baking. I have loved seeing your content over the years: cookies, pavlova, you exploring your Chinese heritage, everything. Thank you for sharing and what you do. You’re strong enough for this ❤

  • @Syl91765
    @Syl91765 Год назад +1

    Thank you. Many of us are going through depression and angst. Covid changed our world. Take care of you. It's okay if you're not consistent with content. We enjoy whatever you share and we learn from it. Praying for your health. ❤

  • @cathyoyama9938
    @cathyoyama9938 Год назад +4

    Thank you for sharing your story. I’m much older than you and I’ve struggled with some of the same things you shared as well. I can tell you that every major valley in my life, turned out to simply be the starting point of a new journey - setting me on a new path forged thru the struggle, providing new awareness and greater strength. And when I look back on it, I am so grateful. My heart breaks for you, because I know what it’s like to go thru a valley, but I’m also so excited for you because I know that this is the beginning of something wonderful. “I know the plans I have for you declares the Lord, plans to prosper you and not to harm you, plans to give you a hope and a future” Jeremiah 29:11. I will be praying for you, Lisa. New heights and brighter days are ahead ❤️.

  • @user-hj8wz3xu2u
    @user-hj8wz3xu2u Год назад +2

    Takes great courage to open up and be vulnerable with the world. It was raw and authentic, many can relate as well as myself. Im proud of you for taking those steps and seeking out help. I wish you patience and self love on your journey of discovery. You have a whole tribe in your corner, rooting for you and sending love, light and virtual hugs.

  • @kimberlyzuniga1594
    @kimberlyzuniga1594 Год назад +3

    Thank you for being real with your followers, that is the one thing i have always admired about you, well besides the Boss Girl in YOU, but thank you for not always cutting a perfect cookie all time because life is not always perfect. But we always learn and grow as we go long this journey of life. Sending hugs to you and you will come out this being more resilient than ever!!
    I have also been in a emotional funk and want to get back in grove of going to work with joy, going to gym, doing the hobbies i enjoy and being happy. So thank you for sharing, very powerful! We are here to support! :)

  • @Artisan855
    @Artisan855 Год назад +2

    Life can be such a struggle! While my life choices are not the same as yours in some ways, I can totally empathize with so many of your struggles! One of the things that I have learned as I have progressed in this life, is that family is everything! Your heritage and family are very important. You should take pride in the fact that you are working on putting things in perspective for your happiness. I hope that you can come to understand that you are loved and that you definitely matter! Take it one day at a time. I hope you have a spiritual person that can help you with your beliefs. All of these things can help to strengthen you to help you to become stronger and better. The world can wait. Do what you need to for you! Bless your heart, and I hope that you will come to see that this has all helped you grow into the person you truly want to be.

  • @chouamclean4844
    @chouamclean4844 Год назад +3

    Thank you for sharing, Lisa. Sending to a BIG virtual hug and lots of love. 🫶🏼🫶🏼

  • @amoderncookie
    @amoderncookie Год назад +4

    Thank you for your vulnerability and bravery to share. Will always be following and supporting and routing for your success in all aspects. Much love to you!❤

  • @marthab255
    @marthab255 Год назад +5

    After graduation cookies, I went into I don’t want to do another cookie. I love people of different cultures. There is a lot to be learned. I have a relative who is Cambodia and lots of Mexican immigrants. I was born in USA but I love that you are here in my country. We will be together in heaven one day.

  • @sharon.in.cookieland
    @sharon.in.cookieland Год назад +1

    Thank you so much for sharing this because it definitely helped me ❤️ I’m just starting out trying to start a cookie decorating business and I’ve noticed my life has gradually become more and more strained as I spend all my time baking, decorating, designing, editing videos, and cleaning up. It’s starting to really consume my life and your video reminded me I need to prioritize myself and self care. It’s easy to ignore boundaries when it comes to a home business and treat yourself like a machine to keep up. So I really needed to hear this and I appreciate it.

  • @siftandswirl
    @siftandswirl Год назад +3

    Love you Lisa!!! Big hugs to you 💗💗💗 therapy is so draining sometimes but when you see the clarity, it is amazing. I’m still praying for your journey and rooting for you. Cannot wait until I can see you in person again and give you a big hug!

  • @Phyl429
    @Phyl429 Год назад +3

    Dear Lisa, Thank you for sharing your story. Know there are so many of us that truly care and are here for you. I wish you only the best and it's okay to go through life changes--- mental, physical, emotional. You are strong, intelligent, independent, brave, honest and loving. Be good to yourself. You deserve it. Love & Hugs

  • @elizabethz3627
    @elizabethz3627 Год назад +4

    Thank you for being so brave in sharing your journey. ❤❤❤

  • @LisaSciabica-tq9pu
    @LisaSciabica-tq9pu Год назад +2

    Thank you for your vulnerability, honesty and authenticity... giving voice to your journey & the struggles you've encountered along the way, is so brave & I hope, freeing. Your sharing about these experiences helps to normalize talking about mental health, loss, self-care & restoration. I'm grateful to you more than you could ever know. You are so loved by this community. I can't wait to see what this next season of life holds for you ❤️

  • @triciapike6276
    @triciapike6276 Год назад +2

    Thank you, Lisa. Came at a perfect time for me. Your honesty really did make a difference. THANK YOU!

  • @butterflybakesatl
    @butterflybakesatl Год назад +1

    Lisa ❤ you are so brave and generous to share your struggles with us. What you did with this video is so extremely important, I think, not only for your own healing, but for our collective healing as a society. I am so thankful you did decide to share your raw, vulnerable self. Please be gentle with yourself and know there is hope on the other side. I love you!

  • @lily4118
    @lily4118 Год назад +2

    Thank you for being honest and so, so brave about all of your recent struggles. It helps to know that when we all feel that loneliness in struggling with the difficult things in life, being an entrepreneur, etc….that there is someone who understands and can relate. Thank you for also talking about your mental health and how important it is to take care of yourself in that regard. I’m rooting for you and if there is anything I can say from following you, it’s that this next chapter in your life is going to be filled with strength, love, and growth.

  • @kateb3259
    @kateb3259 Год назад +1

    I’m on both sides of a similar struggle right now as what you’re describing- as both the person going through it and the partner of someone going through it- while trying to make it as my own business and you’re the first person I’ve heard voice it as I’m experiencing it. All of it. And thank you so much for that. While I understand why you might want to delete this later, I hope you know what a source of compassion and strength it can serve for others (and is). You’ve helped more than your one person I imagine.

  • @kristinedubeau341
    @kristinedubeau341 Год назад +3

    Thank you for sharing so honestly. I felt seen as a fellow baker, always working out how to best balance being a wife, mother, animal rescuer and running my business, not wanting to let anyone down but often feeling like I put myself last (only realizing it when I am fully depleted). I’m also on a journey to restoring balance and ensuring I’m pursuing the things in life that bring me joy. Just wanted to let you know that your story resonated and will definitely help many people as, like you said, these emotions can often leave someone feeling alone in their emotions. Good luck in your journey as you continue defining what a life that is most meaningful to you looks like and cannot wait to see your cookbook. 💕

  • @sugarbeezllc
    @sugarbeezllc Год назад +1

    Oh my ganache, this was so relatable. I felt like you were talking about me. How lonely entrepreneurship is. I hope you continue to heal.

  • @tanyakollar7795
    @tanyakollar7795 Год назад +1

    Compassion and love your way. Spent much time as a teen going to school in San Francisco at Prosideo School. My best friend was of Asian decent and never gave much thought of how difficult it might have been for her. Not because I was insensitive but only. Young and thought we were the same,, just being kids. We rode horses at the Golden Gate Park. Miss her, I am 74 now and wonder of her from time to time..Hope you a speedy journey through your struggles..Blessings.

  • @ktodd037
    @ktodd037 Год назад +2

    Holy cow Lisa, you're human! I have followed you forever and always wondered how you did it all. Thank you sooo much for sharing your struggles. I remember being in my mid 30's (I'm 58 now) and going through some of the same things you're going through now. Your 30's are such a time of reflection and it's hard. I'm so glad to hear you have found it in yourself to see it and to find the people you need to help you through it. I think one of the hardest things for me was thinking that I didn't deserve it and what am I complaining about when there are people who have it so much worse. I want to tell you that your struggles are real to you and you have to do whatever you can to address them. I wish you all the best, and believe me, if you take care of yourself, it will get better. Much love and thank you!

  • @comradekitsch
    @comradekitsch Год назад +2

    Sending so much love to you. What you’re doing is so hard and so brave. Thank you for sharing your experience and truth with us. ❤

  • @Eazybakecakes
    @Eazybakecakes Год назад +1

    💚💚💚 I felt your energy was different this time. Take care of yourself always Lisa! 🫶🏼

  • @kalyndecarlo1118
    @kalyndecarlo1118 Год назад +3

    “Sometimes there is a season to hustle and sometimes there is a season to look in on yourself.” 🖤
    Thank you for standing next to us and meeting us with such vulnerability and honesty.
    You’ve given me the strength to push pause on parts of my life and give myself the time to mourn the recent loss of my parents. Now is not the time to hustle. Now is the time to take care of me.
    As my therapist told me, “You can’t white knuckle it through life.”
    🖤 you and THANK YOU.

  • @kathyh9423
    @kathyh9423 Год назад

    Oh, Lisa. My heart goes out to you and you have my utmost respect for showing your vulnerability and bravery this way. It is so true that every person one meets is struggling with something and what we see on the surface or on social media never tells the real story. It is also very true what Leonard Cohen wrote: "There is a crack in everything. That's how the light gets in." I was 35 years old when I finally realized that all along I'd been asking myself, "What am I supposed to do?" It was a seismic revelation to realize the question I could ask myself is, "What do I want to do?"
    I am 52 years old now and I can tell you that life can get harder at times - I had a rare, aggressive cancer where my odds of surviving beyond 2 years were less than 3% and I now have Chronic Fatigue Syndrome where I am housebound and often bed/couch bound. But I would never trade the wisdom I have accumulated by coming through the hard times and remaining grateful. It has taught me the most fundamental life lesson... that love is the foundation of life and your people are what get you through.
    You clearly have insight, intelligence and grace and those will continue to serve you well in all the years ahead, whatever they bring. Stay curious, stay brave and be gentle and patient with yourself. I have a Life is Good shirt that says "Grow through what you go through" and I wish you growth and peace. Sending you love and a hug.

  • @mvessels721
    @mvessels721 Год назад +3

    I think so many of us can relate to your feelings. I appreciate you sharing and being vulnerable. Sending lots of love your way 💜

  • @shawnjones3288
    @shawnjones3288 Год назад +2

    I am so crying right now Lisa..your heart is so visible and vulnerable here and I am sending you the biggest grizzly bear hug..I think we all go through this “who am I” and “what do I want” phase and then hopefully finding our purpose at some point in our lives…COVID just made things almost insurmountable no matter what stage of life we were in..my opinion ❤️ Although IG and FB (I am not on Twitter or TikTok) are useful tools in growing and maintaining a business, along with these comes a lot of personal peer pressure..God is here..lean on him and he will give you what you need for tranquility and survival 🙏🏻❤️ love you sweet Lisa 🥰😍

  • @jessieg8527
    @jessieg8527 Год назад +4

    Lisa, I am so incredibly proud of you for telling your story. It’s very difficult to do on a public platform. You are so strong for doing it. Sending lots of love and positive vibes your way. You are doing great!!!! Xoxo.

  • @aminla3
    @aminla3 Год назад +4

    Good for you for allowing yourself to be your authentic self: if something doesn't positively resonate within you, chances are it's not the right thing or path for you. ♥

  • @emilyh3479
    @emilyh3479 Год назад +2

    By tapping into your "faults" and addressing them you will only become stronger and the pursuit of perfection will ultimately lose out to the pursuit of happiness. Trust the process and always allow yourself forgiveness. I follow two mantras in life "History is not destiny" and "It is always now". These help me personally when I get overloaded and stressed. Be in your current moment the best that you can because "now" is truly the reality any of us have. Thank you for sharing and be well

  • @lynnlai9968
    @lynnlai9968 Год назад +1

    Thank you so much for sharing and you're definitely not alone. You've provided so much support for your community and now we want to give you that same support. The journey is never easy but you'll definitely come out better for it. Sending you (and Frey!) all the love! ❤

  • @4furballs
    @4furballs Год назад +3

    With age comes wisdom. This was brave and honest and everyone can relate! Hang in there and give yourself grace! You are becoming who you were meant to be. Find you again, it will come in time 💕

  • @mecheleclasson
    @mecheleclasson Год назад +1

    I watch you because you aren't bubbly but because of your serious demeanor.. One personality doesn't fit all people.. In this industry I have come to find that burnout will come for everyone.. Don't be so hard on yourself ❤.. Thank you for sharing..

  • @daylepedrick7066
    @daylepedrick7066 Год назад +5

    Thank you for being vulnerable and sharing a glimpse of your struggles. You are loved and not alone. ❤

  • @mikandcookies
    @mikandcookies Год назад +5

    so proud of you ❤️ thank you for sharing and opening up, Lisa. I am here for you, however you need me to be!!

  • @dawnbatson8697
    @dawnbatson8697 Год назад +1

    Lisa, I am so incredibly proud of you. Allow yourself, to be patient with yourself. If that makes sense? I struggle with that myself. I'm an immigrant also. I have been made to feel like I shouldn't be here in the US at times. I know your story isn't really about. It just gives me imposter syndrome sometimes. I was so grateful that you let us into your life. I even cried a little. We are here for you, always 🤗❤‍🩹

  • @lj8742
    @lj8742 7 месяцев назад +1

    You are soooo brave for showing your vulnerability. The biggest gift we can give ourselves is the ability of being core honest with who we are. In order to love someone else, one has to love themselves. That was my mum's advice. It seems so basic, but it was the best advice she gave me. I totally understand the rut you have experienced, I am dealing with it atm, and I am 63. I decided I need to find something to occupy my time, which is royal icing cookies, hence how I found you!! So you see, here I am in Western Australia, the other end of the world, and I came across your video. You should be sooo proud of yourself and that you have been able to self assess and question your life choices at such a young age, 35 is way young and you have your whole life ahead of you!! I only figured it later in life!! Thank you soooo much for sharing something soooo private, I needed to hear this today. Much ❤️. P.S. I love your videos!!! You go girl❤❤❤❤

  • @cassiepike834
    @cassiepike834 11 месяцев назад +1

    Take your time, friend. Good for you for facing it head on, life is harrrrrrrrrd. Money will be there when you’re ready to go get it. ❤️

  • @eileenhurley7473
    @eileenhurley7473 Год назад +2

    Thank you for sharing your journey with us. I'm humbled by your honesty. Just remember- everything happens for a reason (s) and you are exactly where you are supposed to be. Growth happens through pain and struggle( AFGO: another f*****g growth opportunity!) . You're navigating your journey, and eventually, the light will shine through the darkness. Have Faith. Sending {{{{hugs}}} and healing energy.

  • @rosemacarons
    @rosemacarons Год назад +4

    Lisa, thank you for sharing your journey. I’m 34 this year too and the last couple of years have not been consistent to say the least for me, either. Happy to hear from you even tho these are hard subjects and challenging times.

  • @epiphanyl
    @epiphanyl Год назад +5

    ❤ I empathize with you. I feel like the last few years since covid has put me through the wringer with close family deaths and my relationship faltering as well. It's a journey and even though it's not always pretty, it's yours. However you choose to live it is under your control. Wishing you grace and courage to continue through it.

  • @ler1354
    @ler1354 Год назад +4

    Your community is here for you. I understood this more than you know and to a lesser extent am going through parts of it. I haven't been able to put it into words but your descriptions were right on. I know it can't and doesn't help, but sending you love and hugs. We'll be here when you're ready. YOU need to come first. ❤️

  • @shelleymank755
    @shelleymank755 Год назад +2

    Sending you love and thanks for this video. So much of this is relatable and well spoken. Best of luck on your new journey of self discovery and doing this hard stuff ❤️

  • @debbieperez1034
    @debbieperez1034 Год назад +1

    Thank you so much for being transparent, Lisa!!! Totally understand…. Live with depression and think EVERYONE should get therapy. Judgement…. YES but NOT in a BAD WAY!! YOU ROCK 🤘🏻 Thank you for showing REALNESS ✌🏻💗

  • @otterbebaking3444
    @otterbebaking3444 Год назад +2

    Thank you so much for sharing this with us. A lot of what you said resonated with me. You are a huge gift to this community and being this real and relatable is another example of why. Keep doing the hard work on yourself! ❤

  • @triciahanley651
    @triciahanley651 Год назад +3

    Thanks for sharing. That was brave.

  • @emilyowens2852
    @emilyowens2852 Год назад +5

    Rooting for you as you continue to go through this journey. Thank you for sharing with us. I hope you will someday know how much you mean to this baking community. ❤️

  • @catricarrion5305
    @catricarrion5305 9 месяцев назад +1

    Thank you for sharing. Prayers and big hug.

  • @minjonjones8548
    @minjonjones8548 Год назад +6

    We all have a story - thank you SO much for sharing yours. I know it wasn't easy. Your honesty is refreshing and inspiring. I hope this experience is therapeutic for you. I LOVE your work and look forward to your videos. I will be thinking about you - sending positive energy your way and praying for your healing. VERY happy your relationship with your parents is on the mend and you and your husband still talk! Be blessed, be safe, and take your time taking care of yourself as you get to know you. You matter, we see and hear you. Your video touched me deeply and has caused me to pause and hit the "reset" button.

  • @lisalarcenaire4406
    @lisalarcenaire4406 Год назад +1

    Thank you for your brave share. I hope it was cathartic for you on some level. You have obviously learned so much and are on your way to the next iteration. It is somehow fitting that you would open yourself up to teach others on THIS level because we have all learned so much from you on the cookie/small business level. Sending a virtual hug.

  • @meaganbruno2296
    @meaganbruno2296 Год назад +4

    First off this was amazing. I know how difficult this was to do. 🤗 you got this ❤

  • @user-ww9gy7yj5e
    @user-ww9gy7yj5e Год назад +2

    Hi Lisa. Sending hugs to you. How brave of you to put this out there and be so vulnerable. Praying that you find what truly makes you happy.

  • @2OfMommy
    @2OfMommy Год назад +4

    Sending you big hugs, Lisa. I’ve been going to counseling for a few months now and it was the best decision ever. You have always been my inspiration and I love that you’re being open because you have lots of people here to support you and show you love.

  • @user-co1zh7xx2k
    @user-co1zh7xx2k Год назад +1

    You are so brave girl !! Sending you all the love and strength to come out the other side of this stronger than ever ❤️💪🏻

  • @beththevanillan
    @beththevanillan Год назад +5

    Lisa, you’re brave and thank you for sharing this video. You light up my soul, girl! 😘

  • @karenlightfield3103
    @karenlightfield3103 Год назад +6

    If I could give you a huge hug right now I would do it!! Thank you for sharing and for being YOU! You are so worthy Lisa. You are on your way to your authentic self...that is something to be very proud of!! We are here to help you shake yourself out of this until you can do it on your own. I am so very proud of you!!

  • @usmcwife1215
    @usmcwife1215 Год назад +7

    Sending you big hugs! I can just see how hard that was for you. Coming from a strong Mexican background, speaking up when I was overwhelmed was not an option for me. I just couldn't admit to these feelings I was having. Helplessness, hopeless, depressed. All seemed to be dampening my spirit. I can relate to things you mentioned. I'm so happy that you've gotten help and are working through and forward. I look forward to seeing your upcoming content. You're amazing! ❤

  • @gabrielncali8999
    @gabrielncali8999 5 месяцев назад +1

    Lisa, I can’t believe I’m just seeing this now! Crazy! Thank you for being real! This is ALL part of it! It is! I know we don’t’ know each other personally, but you are a cookie mentor for me. I just wanted to give you a big hug watching this. But, I’ve been in this place and hug can only mean so much you have to make the decisions. So glad you got help and my experience is to be willing to accept help. All love. All love. All love. Thank you for sharing. I hope things are getting better now. Looking forward to the cookbook!
    P.S. I loved the slurping! ❤🤣

  • @kariaceto3151
    @kariaceto3151 Год назад +1

    This came at the exact time I am in a (scarily) similar position. Let me be honest in saying I struggle with jealousy and would see how successful you were and ALL the ways you were growing. It made me not want to watch you because it was a reminder of how far away I am - I couldn't relate. What I think most content creators fail to do is to be real. A lot of us don't want to watch these highly produced and mostly unattainable videos. We want to relate to you and see ourselves in you. So you've gotten a "fan" back and I am sure this video will bring even more people to you and I hope more support from us "faceless you tube subscribers" because we are real and my sentiments are as well. I wish you strength and hope you continue to be able to forgive yourself for any of the bumps and hiccups you have made. I hate to sound like an old lady but you are SO young! Give your younger self and your future self some much deserved grace. I wish I had come to this point in my life earlier and not wasted so many years being unhappy. You are on the right/your path - it's not always going to spark joy but you need to have faith that you do really deserve to be happier than not. Thank you. Sending you a huge hug.

  • @kathytimcho1102
    @kathytimcho1102 Год назад

    Appreciate your honesty. We are here for you and love your kindness in always sharing your skills with us. Hold your head up high and know that you are well-loved by cookiers and others who applaud all your efforts.

  • @SweetXpectations
    @SweetXpectations Год назад

    Survival mode is real & so exhausting hugs we will get through this ❤

  • @cherylmeehan6915
    @cherylmeehan6915 Год назад +4

    That was very brave, Lisa.

  • @senecaharris2087
    @senecaharris2087 Год назад

    You’re evolving and growing beautifully and that’s all a part of the process of unlearning and re-learning yourself. God bless you for sharing your journey thanks💜🙏🏾💜

  • @tbynum7751
    @tbynum7751 Год назад +5

    Sending hugs! Thank you for being so vulnerable and sharing so many relatable things! 🙏🏾 🤗 ❤

  • @ssbakesky
    @ssbakesky Год назад +1

    Thank you for always sharing wtih us, Lisa. I love how real you always are. I know what you are going through is very hard, but I cant help but feel like growth and strength are on the horizon for you. You will get through this. As I was listening to you yesterday, I could not help but feel like some (or maybe a lot) of what you are going through is grief. Grief for your grandmother, grief for your marriage, grief in that your life is so different now, and even grief for your childhood. That is alot of grief all at once. Grief can be so tricky; I think it can be really hard to pinpoint due to all the layers and emotions (anger, sadness, despair, stress, anxiety, and more). Grief isn't something we can just turn off; unfortunately, it has its own course and timeline. I am praying for you, Lisa. Please don't be so hard on yourself. You are only doing the best you can. Please remember that. If you need a break, take one. So glad you are putting yourself first. Love and big hugs.

  • @veronicadavidson5990
    @veronicadavidson5990 Год назад

    Thank you for sharing your story. I’ve felt the same for a very long time. Combine the self doubt with loss of a child and social anxiety I feel stuck. There are things I want to do but can’t bring myself to do. I spent 30 years of marriage being constantly put down by my in laws with no support from my husband. He never stood up to them out of fear of being cut out but it was at my expense. Now they’re gone but we’re just friends. I find it hard to get close. I can’t get close to anyone.

  • @mimiscountrygoodies5019
    @mimiscountrygoodies5019 Год назад +1

    Lisa, thank you for sharing your story and emotions!! Life is a learning process and each day we are learning something new about ourselves!! Keep striving and look forward to your content and products melodie/ Mimi’s Country Goodies

  • @zaidadiaz-rossi3668
    @zaidadiaz-rossi3668 6 месяцев назад +1

    You are amazing! I love your videos, and you are more than worthy! Proud of you for doing the work, this is not easy stuff. ❤

  • @dinkieduckie
    @dinkieduckie Год назад

    Thank you for opening yourself up like that. You have amazing insight into yourself and your mental health. You speak so eloquently and from the heart. I wish you a healing and joyous year to come.

  • @user-pz6nh8oe2q
    @user-pz6nh8oe2q Год назад

    Hugs and love and light your way. Thank you for just showing what being human is, messy hard and real. We are all here for it , even unknowingly. ❤ People need that, and I hope it helps you too!

  • @catrinaweagraff5194
    @catrinaweagraff5194 Год назад +1

    Thank you for sharing from your heart. You are not alone!! I can definitely connect with you on the disconnected from myself aspect... I don't know how to find me again..

  • @theresafranco7002
    @theresafranco7002 Год назад +1

    thank you for sharing your journey, sending hugs to you.

  • @AimeeJordan-oq6qg
    @AimeeJordan-oq6qg Год назад +4

    Big hugs! I’ve been there but trust me, you’ll come out stronger on the other side. Give yourself time. I’m glad you are taking care of yourself. Thanks for being brave and sharing your story. - Aimee

  • @AJ-yg6ii
    @AJ-yg6ii Год назад

    Lisa, your personality is so good, just being yourself. You don’t have to be bubbly or anything other than you. We all really like you exactly as you are, and always have!!! Props for realizing you’re worth having an authentic, best life! You inspired me to do CCC, and were so kind in person, I’ll always remember that. You’re amazing from where I stand!

  • @BakerAndABlackCat
    @BakerAndABlackCat Год назад

    Sending all the hugs, support, and gratitude. This came at a very appropriate time in my life. Thank you sharing. 💜

  • @mbuccibear
    @mbuccibear Год назад

    Thank you for sharing.--Never any judgements...please take care of yourself!

  • @_LaNica
    @_LaNica 9 месяцев назад +1

    I hope all is well! ❤

  • @user-nf7zy7do4e
    @user-nf7zy7do4e Год назад

    Ah, the crack in the cosmic egg. That’s where the light comes in. It’s on its way to you. 💕

  • @linsj1528
    @linsj1528 Год назад

    You are a beautiful human! Thank you for sharing your story

  • @AshleyNewellDotMe
    @AshleyNewellDotMe Год назад

    Thank you for sharing this! Your vulnerability is so brave! I'm so proud of you and I'm so glad that you are putting yourself, your needs, and your authenticity first. It's incredibly hard and working on yourself is truly not an easy task. I cannot wait to see where your next chapter takes you and I hope to see you more!

  • @kathleenrust5230
    @kathleenrust5230 Год назад

    Lisa I met you through Karen and have loved you and your products I’m so sorry your going through this no judgment I feel you will find your way through this god bless you

  • @iniabellepaz445
    @iniabellepaz445 Год назад

    Thank you for sharing, sending you blessings. Stay well.

  • @inugirl47guyzako
    @inugirl47guyzako Год назад +1

    To new chapters Lisa 🙌😊

  • @dianadgb1
    @dianadgb1 Год назад +2

    Sending you hugs, love, and positive energy 💖. You're such an inspiration and motivated me to do things I never thought possible, and I love you even more now. Can't wait to see what you'll do now that you're 'woke' 😂. Love you so much!

  • @8pattycake
    @8pattycake Год назад

    Thank you for sharing ❤

  • @cguzmanvisuals
    @cguzmanvisuals Год назад +3

  • @yinglong9845
    @yinglong9845 Год назад +1

    brave ,

  • @irenebielanski431
    @irenebielanski431 Год назад +1

    In life we all have challenges, great is the person who can learn empathy and remain in it consistently. Hearing you content today, I am gently recommending/suggesting the following: Get a Christian Bible to read; prior to reading, pray the Holy Spirit be with you as you read and help you understand and when done reading, pray again. Pray to God our Father...start prayer with what your thankful for, then ask for forgiveness of your sins, then whatever else is on your mind/heart, and end in the name of Jesus Christ, Amen. Start going to a Christian church or Bible Study...you do not need to join...just investigate...it takes time to get to know what their groups beliefs are and if they are aligned to what the Holy Spirit is communicating to you is the truth. - - - If at any time your therapist seems to be going in the wrong direction, switch. - - - Glad you and your parents can have a loving relationship. There are so many people that do not have that and it can effect their entire life. May God bless you with peace.