Nothing is better for growing closer than spending time just one on one with no distractions and no pressure of sex or physical romance. Just talking and learning about each other is the essence of a relationship.
No sex workers would say something like that. It's the usually women who hit the wall or those that are not having luck with men that would say something like that.
Damn, seems like I lucked out with my girlfriend. She's just as happy hanging out and watching TV or playing video games as she is going out to a nice place to eat or going to the movies. It's not about what you do that matters, it's about who you do it with.
This is so true! I love nothing more than doing the simplest things with my guy. Just watching the sunset or watching movies and taking walks. those are the moments you cherish most!
My gf and I had our first date at a museum and had a couple glasses of wine after, talked, got to know each other. it will be six years this October. We're watching this shaking our heads. Keep up the good work Courtney.
"Is a guy gonna want you if you act like that?" unfortunately there are lots of men who will validate toxic behaviour/mentality if the woman looks half decent.
Been left by many guys mainly because I don't look beautiful, don't wear make up. Though I do have made very good friends from my past exes, we don't love each other anymore, but are ready to support and help each other to find that significant other that they can synch with.
... yes you can? You can definitely want equality, especially in larger society and still have your own relationship dynamics. Straight up part of feminism is reworking the idea that wanting to be traditionally feminine = weak. If the guy paying for everything in a relationship, or a woman being a stay at home mother while the guy makes money is what works for people, then good for them, and part of feminism is empowering women to do that too if that’s what they want. Also, why should women have to compromise wanting a traditionally romantic relationship with having general equality? Isn’t that fucked up? We shouldn’t be basing whether or not women deserve to be equal (in pay/safety/being objectified) on if they pay for a meal. Basically being entitled really not cool but people can be feminist/want equality and still enjoy traditional relationship dynamics
@@mortenlarsen7220 dogs are only loyal if you're the one feeding them, seen my dog quickly become my friends dog when I started working away. Calling someone a dog here in Australia is the biggest insult you can dish out
@@Sean-zz2lj Sounds like you are not a dog person, ive had several dogs and feeding them is not the only way they stay loyal. Dogs stay loyal to a fault.
Haha, rest assured that it's not due to their character. It's a shame that these people get a voice, but that's how it is. We know better than to pay attention, though.
Low-value, low life fulfillment, low gratitude, hollow, mobile phone addicted followers. This is why Courtney’s mentality and advice is what those types and all of us should be internalizing and what they should be attracted to. Not cheesy, superficial nonsense. It won’t can’t lead to meaningful fulfillment.
I'm a young man and I was raised on old school tradition. I just ran into your channel and you seem like such a great person. I love when you call these overzealous women on their bs. They want a man to accept them for who they are but expect the world from us. It's just sad anymore.
Agreed. There are a lot of men out there that would say, “you don’t ask a fish how to catch a fish…“ I think that there can be some truth to that, and I would reference the first video Courtney commented on. However, I have found Courtney to be, as you said, extremely self-aware (and balanced); and she is a great complement to the solid male coaches out there.
@@lukeparisot7252 a womans attraction to a man can be varied i think. There are men they find sexually attractive, then there are those they find attractive because of status, then ones they find attractive because of money and the prospect of an easy life. Youll find the younger women (teens to early twenties) are more into sexual attraction (looks, bravado) but as they get older, they start to look at financial attraction and the settling down ability.
Two people know when there is chemistry, and when there is, the "date" could be standing on the sidewalk making googly eyes. Real mutual attraction bypasses all this crazyness.
Oh my gosh,yes. Before I was dating my partner, we literally stood out talking for ages,about loads of things. And when it started raining,I didn't want the chatting to end, even over coffee. Three years and going strong
@@deadcell4837 CHOOSING to date on the internet will make this harder. Every young person I know in a good LTR met in person, and through a mutual activity such as sports or work or school or through other friends, NEVER on an app, RARELY by "cold approaching" in clubs or on the street. There is still free choice as to how to go about things.
I like the TikTok response to that first girl from that one dude who said, "if your face and neck are two different colors were going swimming for a first date." LoL 🤣
It's very obvious from watching her reaction to these advice videos that Courtney Ryan is a very emotionally healthy woman. She has done the work and my guess, raised well. Thank you, Courtney.
"Pick and choose feminism".... You hit the nail on the head, Courtney. I hope your boyfriend realizes how fortunate he is to be with someone of your character combined with stunning looks
As a teenager, I can say that going for a coffee date or a walk in a park is totally fine, mostly because it is more casual and you really get to talk with the person you're on a date with
Courtney is the kind of lady anyone would ask for a date, not only is her looks, but also her being so calm and also she has a lot of common sense when she talks, would enjoy spending time with her a lot.
Sometimes I make sure you're on RUclips when my girlfriend comes in the door and then I tell her that I want my daughter to be like you. It's rubbing off, she's more classy now than ever! Thanks, Courtney.
That first one was like a hostile job interview. I’m surprised she didn’t demand that u bring your resume and three letters of recommendation. I feel sorry for anyone like this. They’re never really happy without years of intense therapy they don’t have the insight to acquire. The additional issue is they may have children someday and on it goes.
When Courtney (as a girl) says "Yikes, that was rough..." That means if a girl says something like that to you guys. It means get the hell out of there NOW! 😂
Yep, massive red flag when the women I’m talking to thinks that she doesn’t have to make an effort to impress me and behaves like it’s just me that needs to do the work and make a good impression. Reeks of entitlement, self-centredness and an over inflated ego. Won’t waste any time there once that’s established. People need to learn humility and the value of a relationship. It takes two to tango.
I absolutely loved this one Courtney! I agree, if we want equality it should mean 50/50 in all aspects. Also this is something we should know about our partner before the first date. For instance there are some guys who get upset if she pays her part just like there are girls who expect the guy to pay for it all. But if it up front then there wont be an issue on the date.
@timber wolf balanced is a synonym of equal: synonyms ... evenly matched · evenly balanced · even · balanced · level · evenly proportioned · well matched · on a par · on an equal footing · fifty-fifty · level pegging · neck and neck
I’m all for standards. My wife and I met through friends having a get together at a bar for drinks and we go on all types of simple and fun dates. I feel that some women have this major entitlement and spoiled attitude because they know they’re attractive. Acting like you’re above a walk or a coffee date just makes her so unattractive. A lot of these Tik tok/IG “dating coaches” give some of the most questionable tips and advice I’ve ever heard. I think people like her have a real hard time forming real connections because they come with these check lists of what they expect in a mate and it all just leads to a lot of shallow, empty relationships.
Courtney, you are one of the few women out there who actually admit and can see the problems with modern society on BOTH sides, both with men AND women, not just always blaming one s3x or the other, as many people tend to do... This realization and awareness that you have is a rare trait for anyone to have, but it is one reason that I like watching your videos; because you are usually fair and relatively unbiased, which is what this world needs more of, especially nowadays! I hope to meet and get to know a girl like you myself... Your BF is a very lucky guy to have a GF with your level of intellect and genuine realness and good nature! Thanks for your videos and what you do, keep up the great advice!
As someone married nearly 2 decades, I don't think the first girl was wrong. Dinner has always been a standard first date option. She didn't say Michelin stars. She didn't say she'd never go grab coffee. But she does appear to want a traditional role and relationship, which means she probably expects the man to true to pursue and impress like men are wired to do. A walk as a first date? Nah, I'd pass, too. Feels like you had to pencil me into the part of your day between points A and B. And I agree with no bars on first (or second) dates.
Just found your channel the other day and gotta say you are by far one of my favorite RUclipsrs, super straight forward and to the point. Love your videos!
I can’t agree on the third one - if you know anything about men you know that texting him first if he hasn’t yet won’t do anything good, if he hasn’t texted you after a good weekend date by the end of the next work week - forget he ever existed. If a guy had a god date he WILL text you within the next few days, if he didn’t than he either didn’t have a good date or he isn’t looking for a relationship right now. Guys aren’t playing games, if they like you they’ll let you know, you won’t have to guess.
@@genesisspace5331 nope, I felt anxious wether a guy is going to respond the way I want him to or not, but ultimately if they don’t - they don’t, just move one and find someone who will. Honestly if someone is just scared of texting someone they like and had good time with, they should deal with their issues first (therapy perhaps?) cause they are clearly not ready for dating.
I appreciate the fact that you bring to light that texting someone you were on a date with doesn't have a time frame. I think that's important to know who's playing games and who isn't. Great point to make and very useful information
Your facial expressions are precious. I keep laughing like a maniac. Thanks Courtney. I am literally done with all of the manipulative things/shits. I will be happily single forever. You take care and stay safe.
The girl in the first video looks so snug as she talks about a date where the guy pays everything & barely gets a💋 while a “chad” who she rarely hears from gets invited over “ late nite” for” desert” lol
ANGEL LONDIAN the only time sex matters to a girl on a first date is, who order’s FIRST from the menu lol . That’s why now even smart women would rather have a coffee or casual drink for starters.
@ad izzle bro this isn't a game this is real life. I don't need anyone but I want people that are in my life exception maybe my family but even then it's not so much need as much as intense want. People need companionship but it's not a checklist.
@ad izzle listen, that mentality seems kinda unhealthy. That “ I need you, I am incomplete without you” attitude can end up very obsessive and toxic. You are just as complete without a relationship as you are with one.
I think the reason why women want men to initiate and do a lot of the work is because a woman's interest has been used against them as a weapon throughout history. When men did it, it was for ego and control, when women did it, it was for survival.
Black Phillip! “This show is trying to help women understand why we hate you.” “We don’t hate you as in we want to kill you, it’s the bullshit we have to go through to get P****.” “Men want to get p*** without having to give up time. Women want time without having to give up p****.”
My goodness. Where do I find a woman like you? Smart, knows the difference between a man and woman, understand both need to earn what one has, and most importantly beautiful. Always enjoy watching you speak truth
Just to further clarify: I'm not a "He-Man Women-Haters Club" member, but what I see on social media really makes me want to become a monk. There are still real people out there who aren't the worst ever. You just have to look past the garbage that the algorithms want to push on you at every turn.
Same dude. Bout two weeks ago started to watch some JustPearlyThings and... faith in humanity and my future cratered looking at the aired material during that period. Found a few other shows scrolling that eventually led me here, and here there's at least some hope, and some folks forming a counter to that bullshit.
I was watching a video of Matthew Hussey question a lady in the audience, after she said she wanted a real men (not a pu**y) or something along those lines. He asked “why do you want a man then if you are strong and independent?” And the lady didn’t know how to answer that! This is the issue - strong and independent women these days want to date but they’re so strong and independent men don’t feel like they can compliment or give anything of any value to these kinds of women. Let a man play his part bc he has a part to play towards your dating success. And it’s also so much fun when men and women play their part, don’t you think?! I think it’s great! 😍
Just started following your channel - it's fantastic to see a woman giving advice like this - keep up the great work! Guys and girls NEED to follow content like this.
I'm fine taking a girl to dinner. But I'm not ok with being someone's slave so the 1st girl is a turn off.Hillarious the 2nd guy made the girl split the bill. Not what I'd do but still funny!
You just cannot afford the first girl. Her hair and face cost probably $3,000. She would not be caught dead in a pub with broke dudes- older men that are surgeons and lawyers go for chicks like her because they can impress her. She’s not the type that would attract mediocre dudes that want every thing for cheap.
My parents would often say that there are more bad and toxic people in the world than there are good. I used to think they were being pessimistic, but as I've gotten older it's getting more and more clear that they are right. So I don't blame men who are opting out of dating and marriage and feel sorry for the genuine good girls out there who are mostly affected. The time, resources, and heartache it takes trawling through the cesspit and minefield just to find these girls, in the end, isn't worth the effort. By that point, we're too tired, wounded, and jaded to keep trying.
Jeez, I met such one girl...the best definition is "leech" - she has showed so many red flags, that I stopped any comunication with her. 1) Getting mad at print house employee because a saved document file she gave to print resulted in incorrect print (not employee fault that we gave incorrect file, also computer mishaps can happen) and she had to pay literally just 0.5 $ more for corrected print because employee corrected our mistake in file saving and even managed to make high quality print - it was a technical drawing for her project so she could pass her course finally. 2) Why she offered to participate for dancing lessons as a partner for dance and not coming to lessons leaving me without partner to dance... There was any information about absence or even "sorry" - couple times in a row. 3) Calling on phone and asking if I am at home and she can borrow money out of blue, without telling a reason and what happened - I wasn't at home, so I declined. 4) Not wanting to do anything with her project to pass final engineer exam, then wanting me to help while deadline is close and not even saying "thank you" after passing first part, where without my help she was unable to pass. So I didn't bother if she passed last part. Communication cut off. This is sad. Meet a girl with a kind of look that hits your hormones and you get that false first good impression after first talk, but if you listen and observe longer then you spot such a turn off. But it happens and I am happy I didn't went immediately for close relationship.
Coffee dates during daylight hours are the best. Not a big time commitment for either of you, she feels safe because it's during the day. You don't have to spend too much. Obviously a nice coffee shop, not Starbucks. If it goes well and you hit it off it's really easy to suggest the 2nd date, which can then be drinks or dinner. For one thing, you know by then if you actually WANT to spend more time with her.
Been watching your channel over a year now after discovering it through Teddys (thanks Teddy 👍) and I have to say this is one of my favourite videos so far! "There's so much beauty in the small things in life." What a wonderful person and example you are. And I think that, even more than the admittedly great advice you give, is one of the most important things guys can take from this video. That there are, kind, considerate and genuine women out there that see through the BS and the materialism like you do. I hope guys take inspiration from this and one day find themselves to be as lucky as Teddy clearly is. Well done Courtney! X
A lady at work told me and several other people at work about her dentist who bought her a new car. She was showing it off and some people said, ";wow you must have some boyfriend" and she said, " no we're just good friends." The worst admission she made was when she said to her guy friends, You can f**k me, but you gotta pay me." One of the other guys in the office just shook his head smiling and said, " she means it!." I was stunned at the woman's total lack of self awareness self induced character assassination. Worse part about it was she was studying to be a nurse.I don't think she'll wake up until she's going over the Niagara Falls of her own destruction. This is a true story.
Thanks for doing these videos! You have a refreshing, down-to-earth perspective🙌 The biggest lesson I get from your videos so far (new subscriber) is how people can look as physically beautiful as possible, but if their attitude sucks or they act entitled and rude, they quickly become ugly. It's crazy how our brains work like that haha
Great advise on all points Courtney and I agree with you - 50/50, mutual respect and no pressure for either party involved. It should flow, no feel like it's forced or you being taken advantage of.
I’m so happy I found ur channel! I feel like I was all alone when it came to dating cuz I kept getting all these tik tok vids and it just made me confused on relationships! Thank u for ur insight
This is why the dating scene is such a minefield, so much conflicting, self entitled advice out there. Finding a beautiful partner who based and doesn't have unrealistic and misguided expectations is so hard to find. As I've got older life experience has taught me that you need someone who wants you as much as you want them. If they are interested in you they will make the effort, if your the one constantly keeping the momentum going after a reasonable effort you need to ask yourself is this worth it. There is no value in flogging a dead horse. We need more Courtney Ryan's out there for us guys.
That’s actually what I needed to hear when she said the part about texting them after you had a good first date. I actually had a first date at a coffee shop last Sunday n felt pretty basic but we really hit it off and immediately after she had texted me that she had a great time:)
The message at the end of this video is awesome. People need to let go of their preconceived notions about modern dating and remember we are just human beings. I do think it is important to check somebody behaving like this before you just move on though. I agree that continued unreciprocated effort spells the end of a relationship and that the behavior is a huge red flag, but there are also plenty of good people out there doing this to you even though they actually genuinely like you. Modern dating's abysmal state has left a lot of people with low confidence in their dating lives which gets them more caught up in thinking about how they're supposed to act versus how much they actually like you. This certainly doesn't excuse the behavior, but the fact is that if you're dating someone who is uncomfortable, you're probably not dating the real person. Sometimes all someone needs to open up to you is an a bit of a push towards reality and a second chance.
I rather choose to walk at the park with my dog, seat on the ground while watching some other people's behavior. Dating a princess wannabes are toxic, not fun to share your heart.
What I don’t get is why do people have to “ text “ after a date? Whatever happened to a phone call? This texting crap is what’s ruining society when it comes to communication.
I just subscribed because you seem logical and intelligent. Keep it up, some people need better advice. The problem with social media is everyone thinks they are right. Very few actually are...
5:52 - Oh my word, you know Bill Burr and can actually reference his bit where he calls out the issue of women claiming to be independent until it comes time to saddle up for the bill? Most women take issue with his work because it’s not exactly praising them, but I like how you were able to cite a source that was fair through and through. Seriously, what girl do you know who might like one of Bill Burr’s bits? Thank you, all the more respect, if I could subscribe again I would.
Ok. I've stumbled upon your channel a few days ago, and have LOVED every single word that comes outta your mouth, have been recommending it to friends and stuff. But now you mentioned BILL BURR. That went over the top, I'm now a true fan. You ROCK hahahah! Keep up the good work.
A woman may not *need* a man in many scenarios, not only those with onlyfans or sugar daddies, please...there are many successful women, who don't need a man, who own businesses, or have high positions and yet they will expect the man to pay and they will find men, who will gladly pay on dates. Why? Because at the end of the day, women and men are not equal,and this has nothing to do with needing or not needing a man or being independent, because the woman CAN of course pay her own bill, but she gives the man the option to be a gentleman, which many men appreciate, there are other reasons as well, but I will not go into them in this comment. By saying that those women are on "onlyfans", or with sugar daddies, which only a very little minority of women actually are, you are in fact bashing women...just like the comment about the filter, you could've just left it out. It's not classy. Sorry.
You're just mad because she's speaking facts. Women hate when other women call them out and you're one of them that I see. You're independent, pay for your own ish. It's 2021, it's fair when both parties go half. No one wants another bill. They want a partner.
@@gmoney537 first of all, I'm not mad. I don't like having to bring other women down to make men like you more, which is what she's doing, maybe even subconsciously. I pay for my own dishes and more, I will not protest that my partner pays for me if we go out together, this works for me, if it's not what works for you- great. I think that my comment was quite factual as well. As long as other women are not put down, go 50-50 all you like. 🙂
@@chansinging91 she's not putting other people down. She is just speaking facts. One thing I don't like is that women will attack other women and call them pick me if they tell the truth about other women. Sorry that she's exposing other women and telling us how women really are especially when guys aren't around and when they're around other women. And girls like you get mad because it's the truth
@@11Reaper9 toxic to whom? To you? Okay. You don't have to date, interact etc. with me. "Toxic" is a highly overused term nowadays. I believe that I sound reasonable, if you don't like it, then interact with people who don't sound toxic to you. I had people in this comment section not entirely agree with me, but still be respectful, your comment is just for the sake of making a comment.
The whole topic of who pays for the first date (when the couple is heterosexual) is very interesting. I recently read a survey of about 300,000 people asking for their opinions on this, and it varied a lot by sex and geography. Men are more likely than women to think that the man should pay, and people living in culturally conservative and religious parts of the US are more likely to think that the man should pay than those who live elsewhere. In my own state, which is very culturally liberal and irreligious, there's actually a larger percentage of women who think that one should go Dutch on a first date than think that the man should pay. And very large numbers of the survey respondents simply had no opinion one way or the other.
@@jleano609 Indeed; what we believe in the abstract doesn't always match up with how we behave in practice. That's why, if I'm the one who did the asking out, I go with the "No, this is my treat. You can get it next time" approach. Assuming I want to see them a second time, that is.
Greetings Courtney ma'am I am Aryan Jaiswal from India and I am really grateful for your wisdom you are providing to the men community to take real actionable steps towards improvement ❤️ Simple but powerful adopting healthy practices enhanced my Relationships with my parents and Friends Currently being 17 years I really appreciate your efforts of navigating us My Advice to everyone out there Grind yourself for a cause and purpose Know and accept yourself the way you are and take baby steps to improve your short comings Don't force anyone to change Be Grateful for everything Forgive more, Care less Let go of expectations Know yourself that you are not perfect Serve the society to your fullest potential As it is good for your mind and soul And also Serving with your companion Makes Relationships stronger ❤️ Wish you Love,Peace and blessings Aryan Jaiswal India
Wow, I was as shocked as you were at the first princess entitled video. I couldn't believe I was hearing this and I didn't know that women like this exist. I have a loving relationship and have no interest in dating, but I always follow your videos for the sheer pleasure and your wisdom is always 100% spot on! I think I'm speaking for all men followers in that we all love your videos as they also incorporate, life-style choices such as what to wear, what accessories a man needs etc. All I can say for men here is that we just want more videos from you, but perhaps we're all greedy! :)
It’s about 1 in 3 millennial and Gen Z women who think that it is perfectly OK to use a guy for a foodie call. I’m convinced that Gen Z will be the last in human history as we are simply going to stop reproducing
Seems like a rather conservative view on feminism, it's nice to see. Don't know if you'll ever even see this, but I'd like to know more about your political views. You just got a sub.
Honestly I always chose these type of dates when I’m getting to know someone. In case they turn out to be creepy or I’m simply not attracted to them I can leave early
I am a girl and I watch your videos! I love it! I share your wisdom to my brother. I always felt like I was the odd one out since I didn't have these ideologies and rules about dating. I just focus on the chemistry, the attraction, and overall not playing with someone's emotions. I really enjoy your videos Courtney! keep up the great work! Video suggestion: how feminism is ruining relationships (the extreme feminisim)
I loved it when you brought up Bill Burr made me chuckle because I could just picture him just shouting to the audience "There are no feminists in a house fire!" classic
"I'm so independent...I don't need a man..." is the female equivalent of a man saying "I'm an alpha male..."
If you have to say it, you're not....
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"Any man who must say, I am the King, is no true King." - Tywin Lannister
I guess if she has an espresso machine at home she has food at home too so I don't need to feed her the first date either!!! Love you Courtney!!
Ha! Got em
Lmao true! 😂 thanks for watching!
Exactly! :)
Not all people have food at home. We know people that live in the twin cities and go out to eat for every meal, there pans have dust on them.
Spot on!!😁
That Tik Tok weirdo thinks walking is beneath her? My girlfriend and I go on walks regularly, and it suits us just fine.
She sounded absolutely awfull and i hope no man lowers himself into dating her
I agree, I think walking side by side is kinda romantic.
Nothing is better for growing closer than spending time just one on one with no distractions and no pressure of sex or physical romance. Just talking and learning about each other is the essence of a relationship.
@@Jerome616 Totally agree!
@@Jerome616 Agree!
That hit hard. The women that say they don’t need men are the same women that are gaining their income from men on onlyfans.
They dont see the hypocricy
You're so right
Well getting money from men in exchange for work is something else. But when you say i dont need mens money but want the guy to pay is bullshit
So are they suppose to accept only women's money? Y'all don't make any fucking sense 😑
No sex workers would say something like that. It's the usually women who hit the wall or those that are not having luck with men that would say something like that.
Damn, seems like I lucked out with my girlfriend. She's just as happy hanging out and watching TV or playing video games as she is going out to a nice place to eat or going to the movies. It's not about what you do that matters, it's about who you do it with.
Yes! I've met a few girls like this too. They ARE out there!
This shall change ....
How long you been together?
Tyrone be calling soon...
This is so true! I love nothing more than doing the simplest things with my guy. Just watching the sunset or watching movies and taking walks. those are the moments you cherish most!
My gf and I had our first date at a museum and had a couple glasses of wine after, talked, got to know each other. it will be six years this October. We're watching this shaking our heads. Keep up the good work Courtney.
CONGRATS on 6 years :D
I doubt your girlfriend showed up to the date looking as good as the girl in the first tick tock if you weren’t at all worried about impressing her
That sounds like a dream date I wish I could also find someone like that
6 years and still not a wife… 🤭
"Is a guy gonna want you if you act like that?" unfortunately there are lots of men who will validate toxic behaviour/mentality if the woman looks half decent.
100%
Ugh, I know. Can’t complain about something if you allow it 👏🏼 what you allow is what will continue!
Yup. A lot of guys can overlook or justify toxic behavior as a trade off for having an attractive woman. Not worth it!
Been left by many guys mainly because I don't look beautiful, don't wear make up. Though I do have made very good friends from my past exes, we don't love each other anymore, but are ready to support and help each other to find that significant other that they can synch with.
“There are no feminists in a house fire” - Bill Burr
😂 hahaha that was it
Bill Burr is awesomme!
@Penderyn Lewsyn and this is relevant because of?
or plumbers
Go ahead masculine ass woman save the family dont act feminine now
To the strong and independent feminists: You can't want special treatment and equality at the same time. lmao
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That's good because I don't want special treatment
They want it to work both ways in their favor but they simply can't. Their delusional mindsets are just laughable lol.
@@TheReaperLSX Yeah exactly. 💯
... yes you can? You can definitely want equality, especially in larger society and still have your own relationship dynamics. Straight up part of feminism is reworking the idea that wanting to be traditionally feminine = weak. If the guy paying for everything in a relationship, or a woman being a stay at home mother while the guy makes money is what works for people, then good for them, and part of feminism is empowering women to do that too if that’s what they want. Also, why should women have to compromise wanting a traditionally romantic relationship with having general equality? Isn’t that fucked up? We shouldn’t be basing whether or not women deserve to be equal (in pay/safety/being objectified) on if they pay for a meal. Basically being entitled really not cool but people can be feminist/want equality and still enjoy traditional relationship dynamics
Everybody wants equality until it's time to be equal.
Welcome to the world of 2021
@@Shah-of-the-Shinebox Spit Shine Tommy never needed to be equal.
I want equality in every way.
That's partly because many people confuse equality with egality.
@Chinon Chinan I just had coffee with Spit Shine Tommy... he treated!
"She is not a dog..." but if a dog would have money she will definitely go with...
Hahaha
Dogs are loyal as hell tho, so being called a dog is the best thing ever.
@@mortenlarsen7220 dogs are only loyal if you're the one feeding them, seen my dog quickly become my friends dog when I started working away. Calling someone a dog here in Australia is the biggest insult you can dish out
@@Sean-zz2lj Sounds like you are not a dog person, ive had several dogs and feeding them is not the only way they stay loyal. Dogs stay loyal to a fault.
1:30 - That’s fucking funny how Courtney is so taken aback by the video that she’s left motionless and speechless.
Lol 😂😂
I can definitely judge someone based off of one video 😬. Gooood luck to that girl
And the sad part about this, is that these girls have lots of followers.
I know 🥲
Haha, rest assured that it's not due to their character. It's a shame that these people get a voice, but that's how it is. We know better than to pay attention, though.
Low-value, low life fulfillment, low gratitude, hollow, mobile phone addicted followers.
This is why Courtney’s mentality and advice is what those types and all of us should be internalizing and what they should be attracted to. Not cheesy, superficial nonsense. It won’t can’t lead to meaningful fulfillment.
The problem is that so many women hear this garbage and believe it...
And many of them agree with their crazy ideas...
I'm a young man and I was raised on old school tradition. I just ran into your channel and you seem like such a great person. I love when you call these overzealous women on their bs. They want a man to accept them for who they are but expect the world from us. It's just sad anymore.
You’re definitely one of the most self-aware and honest females on RUclips.
Keep doing what you do 👍
Thank you! 😂
Agreed. There are a lot of men out there that would say, “you don’t ask a fish how to catch a fish…“ I think that there can be some truth to that, and I would reference the first video Courtney commented on. However, I have found Courtney to be, as you said, extremely self-aware (and balanced); and she is a great complement to the solid male coaches out there.
@@CourtneyRyan aren't you "the unicorn" from the "hot crazy matrix" ?
@@kamilkukowski5369 yes, she is! 👌
Not tryna bring politics into this but she has to be a Republican js
“You deserve what you earn. You earn what you work for”
Yes!!
That was deep
My question is though: what makes a desirable man and what makes a desirable woman these days?
Men: wealth?
Women: looks?
@@deadcell4837 status for blokes and looks for chicks
But there's a lot more to it than that as well
@@lukeparisot7252 a womans attraction to a man can be varied i think. There are men they find sexually attractive, then there are those they find attractive because of status, then ones they find attractive because of money and the prospect of an easy life.
Youll find the younger women (teens to early twenties) are more into sexual attraction (looks, bravado) but as they get older, they start to look at financial attraction and the settling down ability.
I wish someone would ask me on a walk or coffee date or a hike 🤦♀️ I think it’s so cute
Would you like to go on a walk with me?
@@DeepGroudon67 what she say and her actions are different
Hike with a stranger? Not afraid of being found dead at all?? That's so dangerous
Same. I’m not a coffee fan, but if a man took me on a walk or a hike, that’d be so nice!
@@generalferret7129 Hike with a stranger? Are you not afraid of being killed??
#1 - hard pass, (simple things matter)
#2 - all women want equality until it's time to storm Omaha Beach
I was just thinking something similar. They want to be soldiers until its time to enter "No Mans Land" or invade Normandy.
Underrated comment
"we're gonna get DINNER!"... Notice she didn't say she doesn't want a dinner date because she can cook her own food 🤔🤔
You think she can cook? All she knows is McDonald's and charge her phone.
@@michaelellis772 all she knows is eat hot Cheetos and lie
Because she can't LOL
@@nothingpersonal1000 Glad I'm not the only man of culture
@@michaelellis772 *takes off helmet* I am no man
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Just kidding yes I am
Two people know when there is chemistry, and when there is, the "date" could be standing on the sidewalk making googly eyes. Real mutual attraction bypasses all this crazyness.
Exactly
Oh my gosh,yes. Before I was dating my partner, we literally stood out talking for ages,about loads of things. And when it started raining,I didn't want the chatting to end, even over coffee. Three years and going strong
Internet dating has killed this. Its all about a good CV now, rather than chemistry.
@@deadcell4837 CHOOSING to date on the internet will make this harder. Every young person I know in a good LTR met in person, and through a mutual activity such as sports or work or school or through other friends, NEVER on an app, RARELY by "cold approaching" in clubs or on the street. There is still free choice as to how to go about things.
@@mrcrhartman oh absolutely, but i think the internet has made it harder for such interactions, as people have become more socially awkward
I was literally watching Bill Burr right before I played the video. Shoutout to Billy!
I like the TikTok response to that first girl from that one dude who said, "if your face and neck are two different colors were going swimming for a first date." LoL 🤣
"I dunno if you know who Bill Burr is but.."
You're too wholesome lol
I don’t think she *quite* realizes how strong the RP is in her viewer base… 🤣🤣🤷♂️
She has a very calming voice. She’d be perfect for ASMR
I just LOVE your face expression after watching videos like that! LOL
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"She is not like, the worst thing ever". Complements by Courtney Ryan. hahaha all love girl!
😂😂👏🏼 I tried to be nice hahaha
It's very obvious from watching her reaction to these advice videos that Courtney Ryan is a very emotionally healthy woman. She has done the work and my guess, raised well. Thank you, Courtney.
So glad I found you through Hafeez. It's refreshing to see a classy woman speaking with such grace and eloquence. And she's spitting facts too!
Thank you so much! I’m glad you found me, too! ❤️ always love to hear from likeminded ladies!
I just heard a collective sigh from my ancestors when that white girl was talking about chopstick skills. Yeah like you hold them properly
"Pick and choose feminism".... You hit the nail on the head, Courtney. I hope your boyfriend realizes how fortunate he is to be with someone of your character combined with stunning looks
As a teenager, I can say that going for a coffee date or a walk in a park is totally fine, mostly because it is more casual and you really get to talk with the person you're on a date with
Courtney is the kind of lady anyone would ask for a date, not only is her looks, but also her being so calm and also she has a lot of common sense when she talks, would enjoy spending time with her a lot.
Women like you with your mindset are essential to our society. Time to start a new Era of authenticity 👍
Sometimes I make sure you're on RUclips when my girlfriend comes in the door and then I tell her that I want my daughter to be like you. It's rubbing off, she's more classy now than ever! Thanks, Courtney.
That first one was like a hostile job interview. I’m surprised she didn’t demand that u bring your resume and three letters of recommendation.
I feel sorry for anyone like this. They’re never really happy without years of intense therapy they don’t have the insight to acquire.
The additional issue is they may have children someday and on it goes.
When Courtney (as a girl) says "Yikes, that was rough..." That means if a girl says something like that to you guys. It means get the hell out of there NOW! 😂
Yep, massive red flag when the women I’m talking to thinks that she doesn’t have to make an effort to impress me and behaves like it’s just me that needs to do the work and make a good impression. Reeks of entitlement, self-centredness and an over inflated ego. Won’t waste any time there once that’s established.
People need to learn humility and the value of a relationship. It takes two to tango.
I absolutely loved this one Courtney! I agree, if we want equality it should mean 50/50 in all aspects. Also this is something we should know about our partner before the first date. For instance there are some guys who get upset if she pays her part just like there are girls who expect the guy to pay for it all. But if it up front then there wont be an issue on the date.
Totally agree! 👏🏼
@timber wolf balanced is a synonym of equal:
synonyms
... evenly matched · evenly balanced · even · balanced · level · evenly proportioned · well matched · on a par · on an equal footing · fifty-fifty · level pegging · neck and neck
I’m all for standards. My wife and I met through friends having a get together at a bar for drinks and we go on all types of simple and fun dates.
I feel that some women have this major entitlement and spoiled attitude because they know they’re attractive. Acting like you’re above a walk or a coffee date just makes her so unattractive. A lot of these Tik tok/IG “dating coaches” give some of the most questionable tips and advice I’ve ever heard.
I think people like her have a real hard time forming real connections because they come with these check lists of what they expect in a mate and it all just leads to a lot of shallow, empty relationships.
Courtney, you are one of the few women out there who actually admit and can see the problems with modern society on BOTH sides, both with men AND women, not just always blaming one s3x or the other, as many people tend to do...
This realization and awareness that you have is a rare trait for anyone to have, but it is one reason that I like watching your videos; because you are usually fair and relatively unbiased, which is what this world needs more of, especially nowadays!
I hope to meet and get to know a girl like you myself...
Your BF is a very lucky guy to have a GF with your level of intellect and genuine realness and good nature!
Thanks for your videos and what you do, keep up the great advice!
Courtney, your shocked face after the first part of the video was amazing 😂😂😂
As someone married nearly 2 decades, I don't think the first girl was wrong. Dinner has always been a standard first date option. She didn't say Michelin stars. She didn't say she'd never go grab coffee. But she does appear to want a traditional role and relationship, which means she probably expects the man to true to pursue and impress like men are wired to do. A walk as a first date? Nah, I'd pass, too. Feels like you had to pencil me into the part of your day between points A and B. And I agree with no bars on first (or second) dates.
Teddy's sincerely a lucky guy. You have such a great head on your shoulders. Your thought processes are refreshing these days. Great video as usual.
Just found your channel the other day and gotta say you are by far one of my favorite RUclipsrs, super straight forward and to the point. Love your videos!
I can’t agree on the third one - if you know anything about men you know that texting him first if he hasn’t yet won’t do anything good, if he hasn’t texted you after a good weekend date by the end of the next work week - forget he ever existed.
If a guy had a god date he WILL text you within the next few days, if he didn’t than he either didn’t have a good date or he isn’t looking for a relationship right now. Guys aren’t playing games, if they like you they’ll let you know, you won’t have to guess.
I disagree some guys are straight scared to do so
@@genesisspace5331 why? If they weren’t scared to go on a date and have a good time, why would they be scared all of a sudden?
@@user-id7mx6fh3n don’t you ever get this feeling to be scared to actually text them
@@genesisspace5331 nope, I felt anxious wether a guy is going to respond the way I want him to or not, but ultimately if they don’t - they don’t, just move one and find someone who will. Honestly if someone is just scared of texting someone they like and had good time with, they should deal with their issues first (therapy perhaps?) cause they are clearly not ready for dating.
I appreciate the fact that you bring to light that texting someone you were on a date with doesn't have a time frame. I think that's important to know who's playing games and who isn't. Great point to make and very useful information
Your facial expressions are precious. I keep laughing like a maniac. Thanks Courtney. I am literally done with all of the manipulative things/shits. I will be happily single forever. You take care and stay safe.
The thing is that they all think they are 10, and deserves that 1% who is able to build her a castle 🏰 " Show me the money NOW!"
The girl in the first video looks so snug as she talks about a date where the guy pays everything & barely gets a💋 while a “chad” who she rarely hears from gets invited over “ late nite” for” desert” lol
That is the woman’s equivalent to “why buy the cow” …
ANGEL LONDIAN the only time sex matters to a girl on a first date is, who order’s FIRST from the menu lol . That’s why now even smart women would rather have a coffee or casual drink for starters.
ad izzle yup
I dated a feminist, wouldn't let me pay for anything, that ended horribly.
I have always been very attracted to truly independent women. I want a partner who is a peer, I want a woman who wants me, not a woman who "needs" me.
@ad izzle no bro that's leeching off and unhealthy obessesion. Very "if they leave me, then we both dead" sort of creeper abusive vibe
@ad izzle bro this isn't a game this is real life. I don't need anyone but I want people that are in my life exception maybe my family but even then it's not so much need as much as intense want. People need companionship but it's not a checklist.
@ad izzle what emotions are that?
@ad izzle "what do girls need from guys? We asked a man"
@ad izzle listen, that mentality seems kinda unhealthy. That “ I need you, I am incomplete without you” attitude can end up very obsessive and toxic. You are just as complete without a relationship as you are with one.
My husband and I met at work. When we started seeing each other all we would do was go to the parks, talk and people watch. It's been 9 years 💞
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Beautiful!!
"what have you done to deserve that" that was gold!
I think the reason why women want men to initiate and do a lot of the work is because a woman's interest has been used against them as a weapon throughout history. When men did it, it was for ego and control, when women did it, it was for survival.
Courtney my respect towards you grows more and more. You’re an intelligent person. Kudos to you.
"This was a great video to watch being recorded" - Fly in room
😂😂😂
A horrible creature is in charge of the thing men want the most - Patrice O'Neal
The only winning move is not to play, this is too much of a mess.
Of course not all of them are horrible creatures, but there certainly are a lot of them, especially these days.
Black Phillip! “This show is trying to help women understand why we hate you.”
“We don’t hate you as in we want to kill you, it’s the bullshit we have to go through to get P****.”
“Men want to get p*** without having to give up time. Women want time without having to give up p****.”
@@Thewrightbrotha Patrice O’Neil...miss that guy so damn much!
My goodness. Where do I find a woman like you? Smart, knows the difference between a man and woman, understand both need to earn what one has, and most importantly beautiful. Always enjoy watching you speak truth
Watching Courtney's videos restores my faith in women.
Just to further clarify: I'm not a "He-Man Women-Haters Club" member, but what I see on social media really makes me want to become a monk.
There are still real people out there who aren't the worst ever. You just have to look past the garbage that the algorithms want to push on you at every turn.
Same dude. Bout two weeks ago started to watch some JustPearlyThings and... faith in humanity and my future cratered looking at the aired material during that period. Found a few other shows scrolling that eventually led me here, and here there's at least some hope, and some folks forming a counter to that bullshit.
EXCELLENT video! Especially the part about equality…until the check comes. So refreshing that you pointed that injustice out!
I was watching a video of Matthew Hussey question a lady in the audience, after she said she wanted a real men (not a pu**y) or something along those lines. He asked “why do you want a man then if you are strong and independent?” And the lady didn’t know how to answer that!
This is the issue - strong and independent women these days want to date but they’re so strong and independent men don’t feel like they can compliment or give anything of any value to these kinds of women. Let a man play his part bc he has a part to play towards your dating success. And it’s also so much fun when men and women play their part, don’t you think?! I think it’s great! 😍
Just started following your channel - it's fantastic to see a woman giving advice like this - keep up the great work! Guys and girls NEED to follow content like this.
I'm fine taking a girl to dinner. But I'm not ok with being someone's slave so the 1st girl is a turn off.Hillarious the 2nd guy made the girl split the bill. Not what I'd do but still funny!
@ad izzle happens. I won't go out with her again. What's more a waste of time in my opinion is not trying at all.
You just cannot afford the first girl. Her hair and face cost probably $3,000. She would not be caught dead in a pub with broke dudes- older men that are surgeons and lawyers go for chicks like her because they can impress her. She’s not the type that would attract mediocre dudes that want every thing for cheap.
My parents would often say that there are more bad and toxic people in the world than there are good. I used to think they were being pessimistic, but as I've gotten older it's getting more and more clear that they are right.
So I don't blame men who are opting out of dating and marriage and feel sorry for the genuine good girls out there who are mostly affected. The time, resources, and heartache it takes trawling through the cesspit and minefield just to find these girls, in the end, isn't worth the effort. By that point, we're too tired, wounded, and jaded to keep trying.
Jeez, I met such one girl...the best definition is "leech" - she has showed so many red flags, that I stopped any comunication with her.
1) Getting mad at print house employee because a saved document file she gave to print resulted in incorrect print (not employee fault that we gave incorrect file, also computer mishaps can happen) and she had to pay literally just 0.5 $ more for corrected print because employee corrected our mistake in file saving and even managed to make high quality print - it was a technical drawing for her project so she could pass her course finally.
2) Why she offered to participate for dancing lessons as a partner for dance and not coming to lessons leaving me without partner to dance... There was any information about absence or even "sorry" - couple times in a row.
3) Calling on phone and asking if I am at home and she can borrow money out of blue, without telling a reason and what happened - I wasn't at home, so I declined.
4) Not wanting to do anything with her project to pass final engineer exam, then wanting me to help while deadline is close and not even saying "thank you" after passing first part, where without my help she was unable to pass. So I didn't bother if she passed last part. Communication cut off.
This is sad. Meet a girl with a kind of look that hits your hormones and you get that false first good impression after first talk, but if you listen and observe longer then you spot such a turn off. But it happens and I am happy I didn't went immediately for close relationship.
That's exactly it. Don't ever think with your d*ck. Gas, grass, ass - nobody rides free.
Coffee dates during daylight hours are the best. Not a big time commitment for either of you, she feels safe because it's during the day. You don't have to spend too much. Obviously a nice coffee shop, not Starbucks. If it goes well and you hit it off it's really easy to suggest the 2nd date, which can then be drinks or dinner. For one thing, you know by then if you actually WANT to spend more time with her.
If this materializes into a brawl with the first blonde chick (and I'm talking about hand to hand combat) , I got my money on Court!
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Been watching your channel over a year now after discovering it through Teddys (thanks Teddy 👍) and I have to say this is one of my favourite videos so far! "There's so much beauty in the small things in life." What a wonderful person and example you are. And I think that, even more than the admittedly great advice you give, is one of the most important things guys can take from this video. That there are, kind, considerate and genuine women out there that see through the BS and the materialism like you do. I hope guys take inspiration from this and one day find themselves to be as lucky as Teddy clearly is. Well done Courtney! X
So glad you referenced Bill Burr! One of my favorite comedians! Great taste! 👍
I love him! Too funny 😂
A lady at work told me and several other people at work about her dentist who bought her a new car. She was showing it off and some people said, ";wow you must have some boyfriend" and she said, " no we're just good friends." The worst admission she made was when she said to her guy friends, You can f**k me, but you gotta pay me." One of the other guys in the office just shook his head smiling and said, " she means it!." I was stunned at the woman's total lack of self awareness self induced character assassination. Worse part about it was she was studying to be a nurse.I don't think she'll wake up until she's going over the Niagara Falls of her own destruction. This is a true story.
there is a reason i don’t want to be in a relationship in this generation
I happened to just stumble on this channel and I’m pleasantly surprised. Such great logical viewpoints being shared by her. Definitely subbing.
Thanks for doing these videos! You have a refreshing, down-to-earth perspective🙌
The biggest lesson I get from your videos so far (new subscriber) is how people can look as physically beautiful as possible, but if their attitude sucks or they act entitled and rude, they quickly become ugly. It's crazy how our brains work like that haha
Great advise on all points Courtney and I agree with you - 50/50, mutual respect and no pressure for either party involved. It should flow, no feel like it's forced or you being taken advantage of.
I love how real Courtney is. Damn Teddy picked a high value lady
I’m so happy I found ur channel! I feel like I was all alone when it came to dating cuz I kept getting all these tik tok vids and it just made me confused on relationships! Thank u for ur insight
Your facial expressions when you hear something strange are priceless...Love it !
It is funny, she’s very expressive.
This is why the dating scene is such a minefield, so much conflicting, self entitled advice out there. Finding a beautiful partner who based and doesn't have unrealistic and misguided expectations is so hard to find. As I've got older life experience has taught me that you need someone who wants you as much as you want them. If they are interested in you they will make the effort, if your the one constantly keeping the momentum going after a reasonable effort you need to ask yourself is this worth it. There is no value in flogging a dead horse.
We need more Courtney Ryan's out there for us guys.
Love your diversity in your content Courtney. Keep up the good work
Thank you! ❤️
That’s actually what I needed to hear when she said the part about texting them after you had a good first date. I actually had a first date at a coffee shop last Sunday n felt pretty basic but we really hit it off and immediately after she had texted me that she had a great time:)
The first one was a narcisist .
The second one was a borderline .
The third one was a narcisist .
The message at the end of this video is awesome. People need to let go of their preconceived notions about modern dating and remember we are just human beings.
I do think it is important to check somebody behaving like this before you just move on though. I agree that continued unreciprocated effort spells the end of a relationship and that the behavior is a huge red flag, but there are also plenty of good people out there doing this to you even though they actually genuinely like you. Modern dating's abysmal state has left a lot of people with low confidence in their dating lives which gets them more caught up in thinking about how they're supposed to act versus how much they actually like you. This certainly doesn't excuse the behavior, but the fact is that if you're dating someone who is uncomfortable, you're probably not dating the real person. Sometimes all someone needs to open up to you is an a bit of a push towards reality and a second chance.
I legit went from a simp to someone who gives the same advice I heard from Courtney ❤
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SIMP to PIMP, crackhead to crackdealer.
@@Karan-Aujla i like the analogy 🤣
@Cmndr Roy Fokker been one for a long time, trying to change that
@Cmndr Roy Fokker been at it for months now, thanks for the advice though 😄
1:12 I love Courtney just Jim Halperting the camera. LMFAO
I rather choose to walk at the park with my dog, seat on the ground while watching some other people's behavior. Dating a princess wannabes are toxic, not fun to share your heart.
What I don’t get is why do people have to “ text “ after a date? Whatever happened to a phone call? This texting crap is what’s ruining society when it comes to communication.
funniest part of this vid, courtney trying not to say "bit**" so she doesnt get demonetized
I just subscribed because you seem logical and intelligent. Keep it up, some people need better advice. The problem with social media is everyone thinks they are right. Very few actually are...
5:52 - Oh my word, you know Bill Burr and can actually reference his bit where he calls out the issue of women claiming to be independent until it comes time to saddle up for the bill?
Most women take issue with his work because it’s not exactly praising them, but I like how you were able to cite a source that was fair through and through.
Seriously, what girl do you know who might like one of Bill Burr’s bits? Thank you, all the more respect, if I could subscribe again I would.
Ok. I've stumbled upon your channel a few days ago, and have LOVED every single word that comes outta your mouth, have been recommending it to friends and stuff.
But now you mentioned BILL BURR. That went over the top, I'm now a true fan. You ROCK hahahah! Keep up the good work.
A woman may not *need* a man in many scenarios, not only those with onlyfans or sugar daddies, please...there are many successful women, who don't need a man, who own businesses, or have high positions and yet they will expect the man to pay and they will find men, who will gladly pay on dates. Why? Because at the end of the day, women and men are not equal,and this has nothing to do with needing or not needing a man or being independent, because the woman CAN of course pay her own bill, but she gives the man the option to be a gentleman, which many men appreciate, there are other reasons as well, but I will not go into them in this comment.
By saying that those women are on "onlyfans", or with sugar daddies, which only a very little minority of women actually are, you are in fact bashing women...just like the comment about the filter, you could've just left it out. It's not classy. Sorry.
You're just mad because she's speaking facts. Women hate when other women call them out and you're one of them that I see. You're independent, pay for your own ish. It's 2021, it's fair when both parties go half. No one wants another bill. They want a partner.
@@gmoney537 first of all, I'm not mad. I don't like having to bring other women down to make men like you more, which is what she's doing, maybe even subconsciously. I pay for my own dishes and more, I will not protest that my partner pays for me if we go out together, this works for me, if it's not what works for you- great.
I think that my comment was quite factual as well. As long as other women are not put down, go 50-50 all you like. 🙂
@@chansinging91 she's not putting other people down. She is just speaking facts. One thing I don't like is that women will attack other women and call them pick me if they tell the truth about other women. Sorry that she's exposing other women and telling us how women really are especially when guys aren't around and when they're around other women. And girls like you get mad because it's the truth
@@gmoney537 she sound toxic and doesn’t realize it
@@11Reaper9 toxic to whom? To you? Okay. You don't have to date, interact etc. with me. "Toxic" is a highly overused term nowadays. I believe that I sound reasonable, if you don't like it, then interact with people who don't sound toxic to you. I had people in this comment section not entirely agree with me, but still be respectful, your comment is just for the sake of making a comment.
The whole topic of who pays for the first date (when the couple is heterosexual) is very interesting. I recently read a survey of about 300,000 people asking for their opinions on this, and it varied a lot by sex and geography. Men are more likely than women to think that the man should pay, and people living in culturally conservative and religious parts of the US are more likely to think that the man should pay than those who live elsewhere. In my own state, which is very culturally liberal and irreligious, there's actually a larger percentage of women who think that one should go Dutch on a first date than think that the man should pay. And very large numbers of the survey respondents simply had no opinion one way or the other.
Yes but what women say on a survey and what they actually think when the guy suggests they go Dutch may be two very different things…..
@@jleano609 Indeed; what we believe in the abstract doesn't always match up with how we behave in practice. That's why, if I'm the one who did the asking out, I go with the "No, this is my treat. You can get it next time" approach. Assuming I want to see them a second time, that is.
Greetings Courtney ma'am
I am Aryan Jaiswal from India and I am really grateful for your wisdom you are providing to the men community to take real actionable steps towards improvement ❤️
Simple but powerful adopting healthy practices enhanced my Relationships with my parents and Friends
Currently being 17 years I really appreciate your efforts of navigating us
My Advice to everyone out there Grind yourself for a cause and purpose
Know and accept yourself the way you are and take baby steps to improve your short comings
Don't force anyone to change
Be Grateful for everything
Forgive more, Care less
Let go of expectations
Know yourself that you are not perfect
Serve the society to your fullest potential
As it is good for your mind and soul
And also Serving with your companion Makes Relationships stronger ❤️
Wish you Love,Peace and blessings
Aryan Jaiswal
India
Wow, I was as shocked as you were at the first princess entitled video. I couldn't believe I was hearing this and I didn't know that women like this exist. I have a loving relationship and have no interest in dating, but I always follow your videos for the sheer pleasure and your wisdom is always 100% spot on! I think I'm speaking for all men followers in that we all love your videos as they also incorporate, life-style choices such as what to wear, what accessories a man needs etc. All I can say for men here is that we just want more videos from you, but perhaps we're all greedy! :)
It’s about 1 in 3 millennial and Gen Z women who think that it is perfectly OK to use a guy for a foodie call.
I’m convinced that Gen Z will be the last in human history as we are simply going to stop reproducing
Seems like a rather conservative view on feminism, it's nice to see. Don't know if you'll ever even see this, but I'd like to know more about your political views. You just got a sub.
Honestly I always chose these type of dates when I’m getting to know someone. In case they turn out to be creepy or I’m simply not attracted to them I can leave early
Courtney's face at 1:32-1:34. Speechless
Really cute.
I am a girl and I watch your videos! I love it! I share your wisdom to my brother. I always felt like I was the odd one out since I didn't have these ideologies and rules about dating. I just focus on the chemistry, the attraction, and overall not playing with someone's emotions. I really enjoy your videos Courtney! keep up the great work!
Video suggestion: how feminism is ruining relationships (the extreme feminisim)
Someone that finally thinks like me and you’re beautiful too!!!!
I loved it when you brought up Bill Burr made me chuckle because I could just picture him just shouting to the audience "There are no feminists in a house fire!" classic