I Killed My Boyfriend's Side Chick, Family Background, Losing My Virginity, Prison - Part 1.
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Donations for the deceased's family or for the murderer?
I wanted to ask the same thing.@@tsholofelomokone4046
@@tsholofelomokone4046😂😂
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This is why I walk away from situations, I don't want my temper to get the best of me.
Anger is such a dangerous emotion when there is no self control.
Agree with you the is no reason to kill sameone bcz of men
Absolutely
Please don’t judge her
Some men can really drive you crazy and most of the time
People who do that are not in their right mind…… I have a friend who is in a psychiatric hospital cause of a men…. Ladies please learn to love yourself
@@katametsimolamu6555 there is no way in hell that I would be angered by a man, to a point where I kill someone. Self-control and self-love.
You can see her pain
But shes holding back her tears
May you Forgive yourself and forgive the guy who led you to this
Repent to God ask for forgiveness
Ask him to cleanse you and follow him ..yes people will say whatever people will always talk people might always see you as umbulali but Once God says Yes nobody can say No
Once you turn back to God ,follow him .....other peoples perspective doesnt matter
GOD IS WITH YOU ❤he loves us all and theres no sin that can not be forgiven if you repent ..he will never forsaken us FORGIVE YOURSELF SIS ...Take everything step by step kuzoba ryt learn from your mistakes..the devil is a liar. Peace is with You....❤
thank you for noticing
Do come back for p2
She's just heartless there's numerous folks like her,u can't do such a thing&hold back your tears....this is so heartbreaking.
Who else is coming from TikTok? Let’s gather here 😊
What's going on ku tiktok
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M here
Shy does not mean quiet. It means you are socially awkward. When you are with people you are comfortable with you can be talkative.
Part 2 please
People are saying that this shouldn't be posted on the internet but they're missing important points... this is very educational... it's painful to the family of the deceased but this information can raise awareness to people who might find themselves in the same position
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True
You can say that again
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It's painful podcast we learned in a hardway, but at least justice was served to the deceased family. Wish to see part 2. Love sometimes can make you do stupid things, regrets later 😢😢
She meet the devil when she was still young and innocent
Oh guys , I don’t know but I think she does regret. Listening than rather focusing on her facial expressions,you will understand that she does regret. I don’t condone her actions and I wish justice was served,but what’s done is done. Yhooo this is so heavy, phumani ebantwini abanganifuni please .
She really does.
I think she's trying to tell her story exactly how it happened and to her it doesn't matter how we judge her.
😢😢I feel sorry for her but when a book of ypur life is written trust me you cannot avoid it, you can blame her all you want but trust me your journey in life you can never run away from it. Usala nabo I should have or I shouldnt have
This is so profound🙌
It started with the dad who rejected her, then another male who rejected her and she did everything to stop it until....
Yes but she doesn't show remorse at all
It is my prayer that Ntokozo finds a job and eventually build her life and also find peace, joy and happiness in this lifetime. What a lesson her story is to our youth.
What's her surname
Thank you for sharing this story with us. Lesson learnt here is self love and emotions management is very important
Not to judge here, what lead to this she became obsessed with this guy. The girl wasnt provoking her, the guy played both of them and sweet talked his way. He made them think they are main chicks. This is sad and may the decease rest in peace 🕊️✌️✌️
I agree with you
Exactly my thoughts 😢
I think her problem was the betrayal of the girl cos she took the lady as her friend😢
She was very young and didn't know any better. We all thought our first love was the ultimate. It's only later in life that we realise that it wasn't even worth our time😢
I like your honesty ❤
Classic case of how the devil works. This should be an eye-opener to everyone, ukuthi if you ever decide to stand for something good (in this case, the lady wanted to keep herself pure for as long as needed), the devil will attack that.
Have you ever noticed how difficult things get, when you try to do the right thing? 😢
But all these things shouldn't distract you, stay positive, push and do stand for the good thing you believe in, God will see you through in due course.
And to the lady, hardy ntwana😢 continue to share your story, it'll surely help a lot of people. Power to you. May God protect and guide you, ukuya phambili😢
To the gents, we can change the trajectory of the world, thina nje sisodwa... It starts with us gents😢
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Thank you for sharing your story Ntokozo, may we all learn from your mistakes. May you heal and may the family of the deceased heal and forgive you.
The lady took someone's life because of a men that showed her that he does not love her, but continued to blame other ladies for her misery, how😢 Today she has a privilege of making interviews and the deceased who was a daughter, sister and a mother cannot speak for herself 😢I wish the family of the deceased peace and forgiveness cause life can be unfair❤
But a majority of men kill each other for cheating girlfriends as well and blame other people as well
My cousin’s daughter (Niece) akana mama ngenze yakhe and she’s out here telling the story as though she doesn’t care💔😭
😢😢😢 ubuyenzwa yibu thakathi as you are saying ukuthi you were One in Two
Wasibulalela ingane yethu wena, mthakathi
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Her showed her countless times
Both families were hurt and lost their daughters in different ways. Its not easy to live with that guilt and she was a little kid when all this happened. I hope the victims family may find peace and healing😢
What stood out for in this interview is how people especially your friends rejoice at your downfall.
Great interview
Hope she's rehabilitated.
May the family of the deceased find healing ❤❤
There were not rejoicing at her downfall they wanted justice for an atrocious act done in the society..How she even wanted her friends to protect her during this is crazy
@@tkmothiba5573 No
We as women, we need to teach the younger generation more about self love & self value. It’s sad the things we do for men. We can really be much better if we learn to love ourselves 1st before men.
This was a definition of lack of self love hle 😭😭😭
The pain of being played and betrayed by someone you love is very deep. Best thing leave all unhealthy relationships
The evil person in this equation was the boyfriend who enjoyed pinning girls against each other. I wish this lady had left his ass alone and continued with the second boyfriend.
The side chick was extremely wrong for doing that to her friend and even constantly provoking her, all because of a man, but her child did not deserve to be left motherless.
This lady was trauma bonded to the guy, that's why she kept on going back to him. Trauma bonds are the biggest cause of abused women constantly returning to their abusers.
She needs counseling to deal with the trauma bond. She also needs counseling to deal with the murder , I sense her trying to block feeling remorse for it. I understand she was not in her right senses when she commited the murder, hence she seens to be emotionally distancing herself from the actual act, but she needs to accept it and the emotions that come with it so that she can start afresh.
Most importantly she needs to write a sincere apology to the family of the side chick, although they may not accept the apology, it needs to be done for their healing as well.
MORAL OF THE STORY for us ladies: if you find yourself in a situation where have to fight for a man or over a man, that boy is not worth it. And if you just can't leave the guy alone no matter how badly he treats you, consider counseling to deal with the trauma bond. Most importantly sex is spiritual and a man that sleeps around with different people is bound to bring you bad energies and you end up doing things you would never do in ur right mind. Also consider that some people out there can hit you with 'isichitho' over a man and ruin ur life forever.
She died the day, he took her virginity and broke up with her. She needs healing and deliverance.
Well said... You have really broken down the entire situation without prejudice..
That's what happened to my friend first time fighting she killed someone. Sad to me you are not a murderer so will be my friend .Sorry dear condolences to both your family and the deceased.
This lady has such a beautiful aura is not believable what she says
It’s so so critical to teach our kids what love is so they don’t seek it from their partners 😰 this girl was so needy for love and adoration that she ended up sacrificing herself for a man who has never loved her 😰 & a life was lost 😞
She didn't sacrifice herself she sacrificed somebody else......that is the deceased
she wasn't even married and why would you end the other women's life her boyfriend chose to see the other women she should if walked away now she as blood on her hands
Yhooooo kwaze kwabuhlungu
Jesus loves you receive him today and he will fill your life with peace and joy.
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She has a big assignment to fulfill on earth...she must accept Jesus as her life and savior then she will know her calling..Amen
She does not look like she is remorseful…im sorry it’s just my observation
Ngivumelana nawe akazisoli 😢
Yep! I feel like its mixture of her personality as someone who was always quiet and keeping to herself and growing up in a cold household. Perhaps her mother didn’t show her love too…She lacks remorse and has that element of being a psychopath. I’m actually caught between feeling sad and Yho wtf.
You want her to scream guys? Hau lona
@@beniesmatsetse2202 From lack of remorse to screaming? I was about to tell u the difference between them, but It seems I would trying to explain theoretical physics to a pigeon.
@beniesmatsetse2202 We want to her to seem like she cares about the fact that she killed someone
My princess.Im happy your a testimony to as..I love 💕 you..God be with you and your children..
Part 2 please 😫😫lapho akamuhle ubabygurl🔥🔥Forgive yourself sweety sometimes kuyabhayizeka empilweni❤
Mara manithi akazisoli nifuna akhale,azibulale,azibhuquze phansi?🙄we deal with pain differently
Ngaba kazanga Lana if not
Cc, ebudlelwaneni, amathanga ahlanzela abangenama bhodwe,uqotho udinga umuntu ozokuthanda , athembeke kuwe,awusuye umbulali kwaba iphutha, ngenxa yalendoda eyayisilingo kuwe, siyabonga ngoba siyakubona usungaphandle, uyaphila,nabantwana bakho bayaphila❤
Thank you for sharing your story. A woman is a woman's worst enemy. May the all concerned find peace. I understand reasoning and thought process that led to this event. Excuses aside, it's just a sad story all around.
Syabonga sis wam for sharing your story, wishing the best for the future and heal from your past.
Ag shame this lady was pushed harder to the corner, but beautiful girl, she's was too honest in the relationship, trying to keep the good moral...
Sorry my sister 🙏. In future please think before you act. I know sometimes pressure and external circumstances, and frustration can make you do things that you will regret later. Stay strong siswam, God will help you. Condolences to the family who lost her daughter because of a childish guy who created a very bad situation between two ladies. This Guy unenhliziyo embi usathane and nguye odale yonke lenkinga. Please put all your faith to God. Very sad story 😭😭
All I can say is that, this beautiful lady made a mistake that anyone can do and I hope she stay strong and forgive herself too..❤
To the family of the deceased I'm sorry about your loss
Mistake when a child is growing without a Mother , you don’t know how it feel for your cousins life to be taken so easily .. My niece ukukhula engena mama because of someone thats not remorseful💔
@@lindohlatshwayo4950 I'm sorry about your cousin and I didn't mean to hurt your family and I don't judge this beautiful lady also, I pray for you and your family to find peace and forgive her also..
Killing is not a mistake. She does not even feel sorry for murdering someone. She does not see the wrong in killing someone. How does she gets forgiven if she shows no remorse whatsoever? Imagine if you are the deceased's family watching this, how would you feel.
@@lindohlatshwayo4950💔💔💔💔she's not remorseful at all.
But the lady feels nothing about killing a person, not remorseful
Part 2
I could be wrong but it seems like she feels the victim derseved to die... she keeps saying the victim provoked her
its like some gossip from Sowetan nxa
Part 2
I want to highlight to anyone who hears voices that you need to be delivered from evil demons. Is a sign of severe depression that can Lead to mental illness .Many poeple committ Suicide ,please check on your children.
The boyfriend was a player and the lady was too attached to the boyfriend. But am so disappointed with the interviewer he so calm as if a pet was killed not a human being and he's disappointed that the guy came and testify . And the lady she's not showing any remorse all.
Cause the lady didn't kill that women by mistake she planned everything. Who was sent by Devil the lady who intentionally stabbed a mother to death or a guy who wants to justice, am so disappointed with the interviewer
Part 2. Never been so invested
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PT 2 chief plz
Eish my algorithm throwing me gems🙌🏾
Life is cheap in South Africa it has no value . You kill somone in cold premeditated murdet and you get a second chance to move on like nothing.
That's the frustrating part!
kuzobasathwani,abulawe naye?👀
Shes not the only responsible for this situation.The boyfriend,the deceased and her.
The name of this boy is Waze wadlala ngabantwana babantu
This was her friend, betrayed by 2 people who are so close to you.. I'm not pleased with what she did.. But is she supposed to carry the coffin... She was jailed.. Let's leave God for the judgment
some of us we will think she's not remorseful but myb she healed n tried to fix herself apologised to the family ..men will make us do things
Women and not wantin to take accountability of their actions!🌚 wow
Banna ke M.S.P sheam mo lefatsheng lena😢
No1 deserves to die like that 😢may she rest in peace n wish the family can find peace as hard as it is...sending love to the deceased's family 💔
Ay😮 uyapipiyela nalomfana wakho neh!
Yes please part 2 Kunene 🙏🙏🙏
Today 6pm
Part 2 Please❤!
May the merciful God heal the family of the deceased including you sisi, and give wisdom to raise your kids well without a men.
We cannot judge you we were not in your situation. We all have different blunders in life. Be well, forgive yourself and move on!
You were young and having that mantaliity of most woman think of. I forgive you 🙂. Condolences to the family of the decease. May you please forgive her too. Zixolelwa zibomvu although I know the quensiquensis of the pain and trauma you were going thru and still into it now, Ngiyamxolisela ugal . P2 please.
Ay mina bandla, ngiyamehlulela, kakhulu.
This ❤❤❤❤❤
8 years for killing someone is mad business😢
Female privilege. She’s the victim and the man is the demon. Oh and she was hormonal so nje, she’s not at fault for anything. It’s justified because she was sad. And the guy is a bad guy for testifying against a cold blooded murderer 😂, how dare he. Mind you, forget that this person killed someone’s mother and daughter over a man. She’s nothing. The real victim is this beautiful lady.
Ya ne… society and its triple double standards.
Worse, she was in jail for how long? A year or 2? This hurts. In SA people's lives are of no value.
Yoooh uyazi so
Uthini ngoku wena?
Ngyamcela Lo cc.....Celing'Hlanganise naye.❤
We need to teach our girls self love. Choose yourself in any situation ❤
Thanks God for the internet we get to learn more about men and women in the townships our conditions make us behave in a very evil way I am glad Chris keeps bringing all these victims and instigators we need to know our surroundings as for the lady I cant judge her she is a victim of circumstance so far no one I know has survived impilo yase loskhin
Amen
Things like this happen when you don't value or love yourself. You can never love someone to the extent of wanting to harm anyone you feel jealous or threatened by. Ladies love and respect yourselves enough to walk away... (Worse, the guy wasn't working)
Yhooo yhoooo yhoooo, im so sorry you couldnt accept rejection from this guy mntana bantu😮
Eish this is so sad part two please
But we thank your honesty sisi.... we learning
You're learning to not kill people? You didn't know this already 😂 yoh ai
@@robbylebotha osa tlwayela masepa. Ake boleli lwena
@@robbylebothaNop we are learning that it is important to stay away from toxic relationships and we get to understand traits of ama narcissists
Mna I understand nkosiyam and I hope unkulunkulu akuxolele,sibhlungu istory sakho
Yhoo!!!..what a sad story, this lady is a good narrator. Can we please have a Part 2...
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It is really tough to deal with anger issues. “Anger is an acid that can do more harm to the vessel in which it is stored than to anything on which it is poured.” It's like drinking poison and expecting the other person to die.”
Oh my BabyGal you had it hard even before you were born, your own father established a spirit of rejection in your life. I'm grateful to both your grannies for not abandoning you
same as your mother and her family. May God be merciful upon you and your young ones. Age is still on your side, you can pick up the pieces and rebuild a beautiful life❤❤❤❤
Eish, this is a very sad sad story. Damn
And yet none of these women had a marriage certificate. Ladies please do better. Wake up.
Life is hard. I feel her pain although she hides it. I wish she heals from the abuse and may God forgive her and heal her .
Unto was supposed to kill her boyfriend, instead of fighting the side chick
Mistakes bro
She wasn’t supposed to kill anybody, she was suppose to love herself and stop acting desperate.
@@Redbottoms1Periodt!!!💯
@@Redbottoms1True 💯💯
She was not a side chick they we're not married
"Bangi treater ngathi ngiyi serial killer"...😢😢😢😢... Hyooo. Imagine hearing this from someone who killed your sibling😢
Ay mina bandla ngithi abamthakathe nje straight.
Hi Sindiswa, the deceased lady was your sibling? May her soul rest in eternal peace
@@Mbalingsme2 mbali nje ngiyamsaba she’s even laughing 😢
I am very much sorry if you are the sibling to the deceased.
As opposed to…👂 Ntokozo isn’t normal in her head quite honestly. You just killed someone in broad daylight.. after serving a lite sentence (instead of a life )YOU STILL SEE NOTHING WRONG WITH WHAT YOU DID?🥺
M so sorry honey i know what your going through ive been there before be strong and keep going❤
Basically, two girls died that day. My heart breaks, girls and thier first time. How we define this issue killed are lot of women literally. How many girls committed suicide because of this one thing that. Eish..... And Many walking dead because of these, how many women are going through hell, "because he was my first. "
People must share their experiences to save a life, because either you die, kill or punish their bodies because you feel like you have no value anymore.
Part2 please
Present My Buti ❤️🙌 siyabonga ngisalalela
Thank you sisi
Your show is good,educative to the society but most of us don't understand the language, English please
Part2 please ❤
I am a little puzzled 🤔. The perpetrator diligently picked out a knife, concealed it, proceeded to get her child to safety in anticipation of some kind of confrontation and made her intensions clear to the bystanders of what she was about to do and yet she had the option to plead guilty to unintentional murder!!!?? The sequence of events indicate premeditation of the poorest precision of course but nonetheless INTENTIONAL. Had the victim not prematurely lost her life it would still be considered intentional grievous bodily harm. I do not mean to be insensitive because there are always nuances to these type of situations but it seems like more than anything the narrator was too caught up in the idea of not wanting to lose. May the young lady who lost her life so senselessly continue to rest in peace 💫.
Definitely intentional
Absolutely I feel like 4 years sentence was another kick in the teeth to the deceased family members.
Wow so sad man,I love you lady, what's done its done ,the good God will forgive you and I forgive you
Nam ngisho njalo
Part 2
This girl still needs counselling cause we don't see remorse in her face also because shes been through a lot as a young girl .She still needs to look at things as they were and are emotions shes lacking them shame 😔
Even in her voice I am not picking it up 😭
I think she doesn't have remorse yet cos she is still in denial cos the the fact that she still hasn't acknowledged where & how the lady died.
Part 2 pls.
Ingamnandi le podcast if ebekwazi ubuza imibuzo ebhadlileyo uChris sana
Qala eyakho
She's not normal, my jaw been dropping 😮, no remorse or whatsoever
So casual about the entire thing, yoh!
Awrhaleli kuzithuka? ndikunika ichance zithuke. nive nibemuncu noba akhoneed nina.
@@mazwideamahle4091 apho ngesithini abeformal njengawe? ayinguwe moss lo or?
@nikitasigowadifferent363 maybe the real person you should be questioning here is yourself....we talking murder, not a walk in the park here, someone's child lost their life.
@@mazwideamahle4091 SO WHAT MUST HAPPEN,MUST SHE ALSO BE KILLED. YOU MAKING IT AS IF YOU ARE THE ONLY ONE EMPATHETHIS. I CAN IMAGINE HOW THE DECEASED FAMILY IS FEELING BUT AS SOMEONE WHO IS NOT IMMUNE TO MISTAKES NDIFUNA UVA NGAWE UBA URHALELWA KWENZEKENI?
It's a lesson not to get too attached to a person . Mentally , spiritually physically and otherwise
Part 2 please the story is very interesting
Tomorrow 6pm
Matter of a good girl gone bad, because of a foolish man
god help us from this toxic relationship
This lady is heartless and the way she has narrated her story she sounds as someone who committed a premeditated murder, and as far as I'm concerned she doesn't seem remorseful whatsoever. I have picked up that she doesn't want to FULLY take accountability of her role in this whole situation, she is victim blaming the late girlfriend even the words she used she "provocked" her etc, she has the audacity to blame everybody else but herself because she also played her role. Now the child of the late girlfriend has to grow up without a mother because of a selfish act caused by this lady its sad. Moving forward this lady must release all this HATRED and ANGER that she harbors within herself.
Gal we all learn from our mistakes,who r we to judge may God b with u n the family u killed their daughter,n hv space in their hearts to forgive u Amen😢🙏
very strong lady uhlala kuphi
Part 2❤❤❤
Yoh 😮😢
Anger is cruel. It can change your personality
Never let anger overpower you
Oooh cc yabuhlungu into yakho kodwa mna ndithi iba strong as u are
This is very sad yhaz coz usisi feels justified ngobulala this other woman whereas bebebhanxwa boyitwo nguguy😥💔
Uguy yena is probably busy enjoying his best life.. carrying on nobu selfish bakhe😏
Part 2 but its a lesson to our daughters that loosing virginity to someone even if you love him that doesn't mean u have to throw Yourself lesson 1 and two they were red flags that this guy was a user or telling himself is a king having different kids and you still go and fell pregnant again that triggered your anger and the least if a boy or man love you will never be promiscuous around or near you will respect you hope gorls are learning
Lesson 2
Gents, if you're a player and you think you have someone's daughter in the palm of your hands. STOP! That's a ticking time bomb... hell will break loose when it explodes
It's a sad story, gal. I can't blame you.
This guy was sent by the enemy. Few wont understand her and judge her but her background means a lot. I really feels pain for her. And the deceased also painful 💔.
Our justice system is extremely poor. She killed someone and was still roaming the streets freely for 2yrs. Watching this interview makes me mad because she is NOT remorseful. She wanted to get away with murder, even the interviewer was disappointed at the fact that the baby daddy showed up to testify. I'm disgusted. So according to this lady and the interviewer, justice should have not been served. She doesn't feel anything wrong with killing a person and she will do it again. I feel sad for the deceased's family. Imagine seeing your loved one's killer roaming the streets freely, worse, doing an interview and showing no remorse. THIS IS THE WORST INTERVIEW I'VE EVER SEEN. THE INTERVIEWER IS TERRIBLE AT THIS. AT THE LEAST, THINK ABOUT THE FAMILY OF THE DECEASED.
Yes the interviewer is terrible, he doesn't direct the interview with questions, his interviews are unnecessarily long. He asked about how the murder occurred, and she tells a long story of what she was not asked and he doesn't control her.
Neh!! Yoh she is busy smiling yet she killed some1😢
@@user-pk7dm1wg3i What hurts is that she doesn't see anything wrong in killing her instead she's playing the victim and yet, of the other 2 baby mamas, she was the sidechick.
I agree the system failed the family of the deceased
This reflects the ills of South africa
The story of this lady is touching, but please we want part two 🙏🙏🙏🙏
Tuesday 6pm
@@chrisnetwork1266 we want more! we want more!
Part 2 please
Eish yazi ndiyayiva yonke lento abantwana benu are siblings 🙆♀️yeer umamakho wabulala umamam hayi izoba nesono lendoda🤞🏻yhuu
It hurt because she doesn't look like uyazisola or uyabona her mistake mxm
Khoveze ivideo yakho uzisola.
What do you want her to do? To scream?
Talking rubbish
Part 2 please 🙏🏾
Tuesday 6pm
Part 2,part 2,part 2🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼