Sentenced To 8 Years In Prison, I Was With Flabba's Girlfriend In Prison, My Apology To The Family.

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  • @OnlinewithMathuto
    @OnlinewithMathuto 3 месяца назад +203

    I think Nonto's story is an extreme case of what women face daily in this country, that's why people are so drawn to her story. Thank you for your bravery, and opening yourself up to scrutiny. Condolences to the family that lost their daughter.
    I wish you a journey to complete wholeness Sisi. All the best.

    • @mxolirsa3120
      @mxolirsa3120 3 месяца назад +2

      im glad you sad you think .....

    • @OnlinewithMathuto
      @OnlinewithMathuto 3 месяца назад +1

      @@mxolirsa3120 Are you a male?

    • @Khayelihle-ns2jj
      @Khayelihle-ns2jj 2 месяца назад

      .. .c

    • @zuzumuzilindokuhle-siceloz6064
      @zuzumuzilindokuhle-siceloz6064 Месяц назад +1

      Sisi I love u.are you married?if not my heart is yours. You touched my inner heart n I'm single ready for you without any judgement.im very very serious

    • @Vusi-bf6uc
      @Vusi-bf6uc Месяц назад +2

      She is beautiful and didn't deserve all the drama from the guy. May God heal you and the family of the lady
      New

  • @OnlinewithMathuto
    @OnlinewithMathuto 3 месяца назад +262

    I think another lesson is, we must love ourselves ladies.

    • @sueeland5675
      @sueeland5675 3 месяца назад +4

      Nje uqedile

    • @ndilekamomoza4538
      @ndilekamomoza4538 3 месяца назад +2

      Always - self love

    • @hildakgodu5796
      @hildakgodu5796 3 месяца назад +6

      True yazi cos Men thinks about their happiness first , very selfish

    • @OnlinewithMathuto
      @OnlinewithMathuto 3 месяца назад +1

      @@hildakgodu5796 Lol yes, amadoda awazirobi. And we rob ourselves very often. Only to get the short end of the stick. We deserve better. And when we loves ourselves they can either learn to love themselves and us or go!

    • @nomalungelongcete5875
      @nomalungelongcete5875 3 месяца назад

      ​@@ndilekamomoza4538
      It starts with it

  • @Inno4839
    @Inno4839 3 месяца назад +42

    That man was sent by the devil from the pits of hell, we need to normalise praying and asking God to reveal the true nature of a person before getting into a relationship with them. Ntokozo God is a God of restoration, accept him as your Lord and Saviour. May God bless you and your children ❤

  • @thebaddie391
    @thebaddie391 3 месяца назад +64

    She is a great story teller. I give her that. I wish healing and success. She never experienced happiness from an early age.

    • @chisonimponda363
      @chisonimponda363 3 месяца назад

      So sad indeed.... from 15years old girl up her growing no peace at all

    • @Cosy-jq2kl
      @Cosy-jq2kl 3 месяца назад

      Not justifying what she did but being rejected from birth by her dad then the father of her kids is alot😢 may she find forgiveness and peace

  • @lindymgali3272
    @lindymgali3272 3 месяца назад +42

    I think the biggest lesson here is you can love but don't lose yourself! I wish Ntoko all the best going forward

  • @nombonisongedle2185
    @nombonisongedle2185 3 месяца назад +133

    To the guy stay away from Ntokozo and her kids….hamba with your confusion.God please make way for Ntokozo and her family.Give them wisdom and make them successful.May they leave in peace and protection.

    • @diphalepashe5361
      @diphalepashe5361 3 месяца назад

      Hamba guluva wendoda mbumbulu

    • @MaxwellDithejane
      @MaxwellDithejane 3 месяца назад +5

      Ntokozo, 😢 my sister, can you please approach NGO's (non-governmental organizations) where you are staying and ask them to have advocacy programs on matters relating to family violence. If there aren't NGO'S, establish one through the Department of Social Development in your province, I think they can assist you in order to establish one. Thanks for sharing your story through the podcast arrangement, and I wish the station grows to better heights on aspiring Ubuntu in our communities. Thanks a lot for the good work. Continue to educate the communities. Make sure that your kids meet with their father or his family so that in what, indeed you wanted to do is achieved at the end... continue to be positive as you are... ❤

  • @user-sq6vf7mn6v
    @user-sq6vf7mn6v 3 месяца назад +100

    Ay mina sisi angibuki interview,ngibuka Wena,hhay cha umuhle

  • @user-li1fn9nz1r
    @user-li1fn9nz1r 3 месяца назад +57

    As soon as a guy doesn't treat you well, leave, for good. He'll never change! Love yourself nje

    • @kamogelocaroline5704
      @kamogelocaroline5704 3 месяца назад +2

      I couldn’t agree anymore , it’s hard to choose yourself when you love someone but it’s the best decision one can take ! Heal forward not in toxicity

  • @badelisilemlotshwa1745
    @badelisilemlotshwa1745 3 месяца назад +71

    Sthandwa sami, may you find healing. Even the other family may find healing for their loss in this tragic story.

  • @langutamacheke2412
    @langutamacheke2412 3 месяца назад +29

    Wishing Ntokozo more healing and strength. She is so beautiful and calm. It's a good that the deceased's mother and family forgave her (the one family member will forgive with time). Another good thing is that age (29) is on her side - she's still young. She will get back on her feet. All the best to her ❤❤

  • @CbosEasyRecipes7
    @CbosEasyRecipes7 3 месяца назад +116

    Without judging you Sisi, 8 years is light for murder. You should be grateful and think more about the family that lost their child even though akucasula you had a choice to not associate with that mess

    • @siyamthandandaliso4736
      @siyamthandandaliso4736 3 месяца назад +48

      The sentence may have been light but she will forever live with the consequences of her decision, she has a criminal record and she lives with the stigma. Only she knows how it feels, surely it can't be easy. She's done her time its left for only God to judge.

    • @CbosEasyRecipes7
      @CbosEasyRecipes7 3 месяца назад +10

      @@siyamthandandaliso4736 This was typed when she said she cried so much when she was given 8 years thinking that was a lot.
      Criminal record can be expunged after certain years..

    • @remandlo
      @remandlo 3 месяца назад +1

      ​@@CbosEasyRecipes7and the stigma?

    • @CbosEasyRecipes7
      @CbosEasyRecipes7 3 месяца назад +1

      @@remandlo ayikho into angayenza mfo. Kunjalo nje mntwabantu

    • @CbosEasyRecipes7
      @CbosEasyRecipes7 3 месяца назад +8

      @@remandlo The best way to deal with stigma is to do what she's doing, talk about it. Go to schools, do addresses, be a life coach
      People loose interest when they see that you are not scared about your mistakes. She must continue with awareness and do events. They will even pay eventually

  • @nomsachironda9624
    @nomsachironda9624 3 месяца назад +22

    For me i feel like she was given a vry light sentence coz 8yrs was vry short and what she needs to do is that she just have to continue with counseling and lean closer to God🙇‍♀️

  • @zamambhele242
    @zamambhele242 3 месяца назад +27

    It’s amazing how one’s life can change coz of circumstances we facing , really the enemy only comes to steal, kill & destroy 😢

  • @Magatsheni-zg2qn
    @Magatsheni-zg2qn 3 месяца назад +46

    Her story must teach us as ladies that the is nothing you can do or say that will make a man love you, if akakuthandi akakuthandi MUYEKE

  • @Mazet129
    @Mazet129 3 месяца назад +10

    She one of the chosen ones of God,thats why the enemy send that man she's was with to destroy her,but the enemy always lose
    God love you sis

    • @ayandachiliza4758
      @ayandachiliza4758 Месяц назад +3

      Say that again....only a spiritual person understands your statement....she has a high calling from above...I so wish she becomes a born again so that she will understands why she went through what she went through...GOD LOVES YOU CC NTOKOZO....GOD LOVES YOU...KEEP THAT IN MIND

  • @Alegria-Alegria
    @Alegria-Alegria 3 месяца назад +57

    In my humble opinion I don't think it would be a good idea to invite the father of the kids to be a part of their lives, it seems like he has always been a dark cloud over you. If he comes back into the kids life, automatically he's in your life even though you are not together. And anyways, if he really wanted to play a role in his kids lives he would have done that even when you were in jail. Just give your kids love and guidance. Let God be the father of your kids, "train them in the way they should go" , and ask God to cover you where you are lacking when it comes to parenting them.
    It's also great that you broke off those soul ties with the guy.
    May you also continously pray for the healing of the hearts of the family of the deceased, they are definitely still hurting judging by the comments some of them posted in part one of this interview.
    All the best with your future endeavors.

    • @snethembanxumalo2098
      @snethembanxumalo2098 3 месяца назад +1

      Very true

    • @yandintusi229
      @yandintusi229 Месяц назад

      You are correct

    • @melrossokahlabs4100
      @melrossokahlabs4100 24 дня назад

      The pressure of wanting to have one father for your children against all odds 🙆Let's not live for other people ...thina abafazi🤞

  • @tebohosamuel36
    @tebohosamuel36 3 месяца назад +31

    What a painful story..You deserve better. Can you be my PA.

  • @XolaniNtusi
    @XolaniNtusi 3 месяца назад +52

    especially taking decisions whilst angry is very dangerous

    • @ricotrial
      @ricotrial 3 месяца назад +1

      My mom says this all the time.

  • @user-in3sl1ju4x
    @user-in3sl1ju4x 3 месяца назад +12

    Oh Ntokozo ..if you can see this my sis Unkulunkulu Abe nawe nabantwana bakho ..I am really sorry you had to go through all that ...even the girl did not deserve that..May her family and your family be strong for you and the girl who passed on ... heal and be strong for your kids Mbhokodo ❤

  • @innocentiafambe7892
    @innocentiafambe7892 3 месяца назад +20

    Ntokozo....I'm for what you have been through....and also the victim's family....May the Lord strengthen you Ntokozo as you raise your children. I don't know you but, but your story touched my heart.❤❤❤

  • @boitumelodilapiso2294
    @boitumelodilapiso2294 3 месяца назад +27

    Ths story to be honest i dd learn for the Sister's, true story not fake, only God can judge her not us people,

    • @hildakgodu5796
      @hildakgodu5796 3 месяца назад

      Yes we can’t judge hle we can only love ❤️ and pray for each other

  • @MiriamMatabn
    @MiriamMatabn 3 месяца назад +39

    Sisi you got arrested on the 1st April
    I wish your story was an April fools joke
    You are so beautiful and you look innocent
    May you find yourself again, get back on your feet. May the Holy spirit guide you. Sad all this happened and may you be forgiven. Pardon to the family may you be comforted ❤

  • @nthabisengdlamini4971
    @nthabisengdlamini4971 3 месяца назад +10

    Aibo this girl she not killed another woman for a man who doesn’t love her , she also let this man abuse her child in her presence and went to have another child with the very same guy😢Yoh girl ungasa joli nje in your life because once in a relationship you put a man first even before your kids🚮

  • @phumlatshobeni2059
    @phumlatshobeni2059 3 месяца назад +11

    My wish for you is , I wish if you can get job and work for abantwana bakho , you are a strong woman when I look at you . Our God is a God of second chance . Nkulunkulu akulonde indlela yakho yonke

  • @kuhlemtsikini3508
    @kuhlemtsikini3508 3 месяца назад +15

    sisi, firstly I’m sorry that you went through all this because you grew up in cold home and only wanted stability and warm family for yourself, it’s okayy my love. Healing is a journey and I know you will be fine, as for the deceased family condolences 🕊️
    lastly, sisi thank you for sharing your story. 🤍

  • @dinnydee7576
    @dinnydee7576 3 месяца назад +14

    Thanks for sharing your story Ntokozo, wishing u the best on your journey. This is not easy....Chris big up !!!

  • @doreenmali1134
    @doreenmali1134 3 месяца назад +10

    Thx for sharing ntokozo, yr story is a lesson to us ladies n thx God for yr heart may u find healing in God 🙏❤️

  • @tebatsocarry7926
    @tebatsocarry7926 3 месяца назад +16

    Similar story but i didn’t try to harm the side chick and it never crossed my mind,I nearly took my life I know the voices that you’re talking about love is beautiful at the same time it’s dangerous love and peace ❤️❤

    • @chrisnetwork1266
      @chrisnetwork1266  3 месяца назад +1

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    • @tebatsocarry7926
      @tebatsocarry7926 3 месяца назад +1

      Cool

    • @zandimaphaha3943
      @zandimaphaha3943 Месяц назад

      Self love is even more beautiful,one woman died and the other went to prison for murder,all for a womanising broke baby making machine.

  • @sandilenkutha6355
    @sandilenkutha6355 3 месяца назад +24

    Flabba’s ex went to MacG podcast and made herself all holy kanti she was a mafia ejele 😩 ai she’s dangerous in relationships

    • @LindaMtiya-hb3nv
      @LindaMtiya-hb3nv 2 месяца назад +1

      Wayengu Nongoloza wejele...😅😅😅😅

    • @judymotsage3320
      @judymotsage3320 Месяц назад

      lol exactly my point 😂😂😂😭💀💀💀

  • @prudencepinky8726
    @prudencepinky8726 3 месяца назад +11

    Thank you for part 2 it was informative such a brave lady

  • @MbusoNgema-mf5ub
    @MbusoNgema-mf5ub 3 месяца назад +23

    How I wish we could get to hear the guy's side of the story I would like to hear how all this transpired from his POV

    • @mshlony
      @mshlony 3 месяца назад +2

      True

    • @Sharon.Masengana
      @Sharon.Masengana 3 месяца назад +5

      He will lie

    • @zamamorakile1518
      @zamamorakile1518 2 месяца назад +4

      He's liar and manipulative, that's all you hear and you will believe him coz he will give you all that you want to hear.

    • @zandimaphaha3943
      @zandimaphaha3943 Месяц назад

      The same person who was comfortable making 5 babies with no employment? I doubt he has time for an interview, probably making more single mothers out of teenagers

    • @user-xk2tk8lp3m
      @user-xk2tk8lp3m Месяц назад

      He was 31 ana she was 15 everything about him is wrong

  • @Miss_Kati
    @Miss_Kati 3 месяца назад +11

    Thanks for the story. I think so many woman can find themselves in this situation. I remember I was in such a toxic situation and then someone told me that it would end with one person dead and one in jail. I could literally see it happening cause I would just see red when I was angry. I left and never looked back, you can't let someone have such a a huge impact on your emotions and mental. Condolences to the family that lost their daughter.🌻

  • @collenmmotle8580
    @collenmmotle8580 3 месяца назад +71

    The lady Said when She got to the maximum prison, She found ladies who killed and burnt people, and She felt like yena she didn't do anything, Hers is a small thing, yooh sisi you killed a person 😭 I feel like that was too sensitive.

    • @nosiphothembekathembeka4582
      @nosiphothembekathembeka4582 3 месяца назад +14

      Aybo musuphapha he killed 1person by mistake nakhona

    • @onkgomotsematlhaku321
      @onkgomotsematlhaku321 3 месяца назад +18

      I also felt the insensitivity on that statement. Is as if she's not remorseful 😢

    • @collenmmotle8580
      @collenmmotle8580 3 месяца назад

      @@nosiphothembekathembeka4582 she killed an innocent lady, why didn't she kill the guy she was dating?

    • @collenmmotle8580
      @collenmmotle8580 3 месяца назад +13

      @@sunrise7640 exactly, she just said she was angry and planned to do it, she even told people who were sitting at the shop. There's no mistake there

    • @spm9130
      @spm9130 3 месяца назад +18

      Learn to listen with understanding, not judgment! If you didn't understand, go back and understand the context in which she said that.

  • @refilwemotlhaga3748
    @refilwemotlhaga3748 3 месяца назад +11

    Thank you for sharing your story sisi, a real eye opener

  • @masegopatiencephokeng4471
    @masegopatiencephokeng4471 3 месяца назад +6

    U are so humble, I pray that god opens closed doors for u, u acknowledge that u made a mistake and u paid for it , may u find strength to move on and do better ❤

  • @preciousnene3446
    @preciousnene3446 3 месяца назад +7

    Lesson learned sister thanks for sharing and educating us
    Actually lady did fail your first born child 😭😭😭

    • @musanikelo340
      @musanikelo340 Месяц назад

      That's how I feel she failed her son big time, is she really serious for not taking her child serious with physical evidence even if there was no evidence. The child was innocent.........

  • @siviwekulu6996
    @siviwekulu6996 3 месяца назад +5

    I'm soo glad you tried to reconcile with that family.
    Wishing you the best and pray that your relationship with Jesus Christ may be stronger

  • @nombonisongedle2185
    @nombonisongedle2185 3 месяца назад +26

    The lesson is love and know when to stop.

  • @noncebancwana3764
    @noncebancwana3764 3 месяца назад +5

    She looks like a sweet person ❤❤❤may she find healing

  • @palesamabe9140
    @palesamabe9140 2 месяца назад +6

    Did anyone hear her say she heard voices provoking her and pushing her to do what she did... Hai man she was literally possessed by ill spirits with no mercy. Nothing to do with anger management. This is spiritual.

    • @mantoamamsika6925
      @mantoamamsika6925 17 дней назад

      True I heard that part and no one seems to be commenting about it. She was possessed and it was unstoppable 💔💔💔💔💔💔. We not saying it's an excuse but I hope that guy learned his lesson, being a player doesn't make you king

  • @Demru_1
    @Demru_1 3 месяца назад +4

    Anger is the biggest weakness of our lives, anger is good to get things done but when it gets hold of you, that is our emotions, feelings and character controlling you it turns us into evil. In anger there will never be logic.
    But when you're in Christ you're a new creation the old is buried. Hold on to Christ my sister, you are a very beautiful human being and a good mother. God will restore you 🙏

  • @NsikeSibisi
    @NsikeSibisi 3 месяца назад +2

    Ntonto I’m so glad you have healed enough to share your story with confidence. I pray you find closure, forgive yourself & continue to have a good relationship with your family. All the best hun ❤

  • @iamkhosie
    @iamkhosie Месяц назад +4

    Justice was not served well here. 4 years only after committing something so brutal? SA justice system failed the family of the deceased
    and blaming someone else for your own actions is wild. We all go through stuff but we don't have it in us to do what she has done.
    I feel for the family of the deceased. May they find peace.

    • @GabisileNdlovu-rr4oq
      @GabisileNdlovu-rr4oq 12 дней назад

      Haibo asfani masingabantu Yoooh niyathanda ukuzenza abo Nkulunkulu basemhlabeni ni judger abanye abantuana

  • @user-xm1wi6bj2x
    @user-xm1wi6bj2x 3 месяца назад +4

    You are so beautiful sisi ,God have forgiven you already, according to me , you where provoked and pushed to that corner to do what you did,God have mercy on you girl.

    • @mantoamamsika6925
      @mantoamamsika6925 17 дней назад

      Yes she was pushed and unfortunately it involves voices telling her what to do

  • @nontomashele3190
    @nontomashele3190 3 месяца назад +19

    Sis you are so calm and beautiful😢❤❤❤

  • @businkala2554
    @businkala2554 2 месяца назад +2

    Kuzalunga cc...impilo luhambo olungathunyelwa nona ubani ... thank you for your openness

  • @bettymongatane338
    @bettymongatane338 Месяц назад +3

    May de ladie soul rest in peace and her kid be blessed

  • @MirandaNdebele-tk7ff
    @MirandaNdebele-tk7ff 3 месяца назад +6

    Wishing you all the best Ntokoe.....God above all my dear❤❤❤

  • @olgamokhohleso
    @olgamokhohleso 3 месяца назад +6

    Wishing you good life.. with your family... trust God .. everything is possible ❤❤

  • @Thabiso-kp1sw
    @Thabiso-kp1sw 3 месяца назад +2

    All I can say to the lady is, big ups! Yeah you flopped but you're are not a flop, God knows your heart and hold on tight to Jesus. Many blessings sis'Ntokozo.

  • @jenevapulane5933
    @jenevapulane5933 3 месяца назад +22

    We all make mistakes girl and you paid your sins. We learn from our mistakes.

  • @Tshegofatsosehlabela30
    @Tshegofatsosehlabela30 2 месяца назад +5

    I dont think im brave enough to share my story as yet,mara ke tshepa gore Modimo o tla mpha maatla,ill forever be greatful for a second chance in life imagin being charged with Murder after some few months its then changed to Culpable homicide later being given 8 years suspended sentence.ill forever be greatful im nothing without God✋🙏🏿😢

  • @cynthiamolewa3533
    @cynthiamolewa3533 3 месяца назад +5

    Sending you love!!!! Only God knows. May He intervene.

  • @portiamakgoka2424
    @portiamakgoka2424 3 месяца назад +24

    How long will her criminal record going last? She can rebuildher life and go back to school God has already forgave her😢

  • @Magatsheni-zg2qn
    @Magatsheni-zg2qn 3 месяца назад +17

    This story is not make sure, its giving obsessed girlfriend, the boyfriend showed that he doesn't love her the time he wanted abortion,the day he decided to frame family picture of the other girl and their child

    • @busisiwephakathi7793
      @busisiwephakathi7793 3 месяца назад +3

      Worse abused their child 😢. Low self esteem and being obsessed.

    • @aneledumzela7957
      @aneledumzela7957 3 месяца назад +12

      Weeeee judge Judy!

    • @user-nk4ef1ny9n
      @user-nk4ef1ny9n 3 месяца назад +6

      Judge Judy Busisiwe Phakathi

    • @mulamuleli-Ramu
      @mulamuleli-Ramu 3 месяца назад +4

      When I got pregnant I was 16 my boyfriend wa 21 she told me to do abortion I refused I give birth the guy was supportive even today the child is 8 yrs he loves him to core we are still together he want to marry me I told him I'm not ready

    • @phindilenxumalo4526
      @phindilenxumalo4526 3 месяца назад

      ​@@mulamuleli-Ramu manje lokhu kuhlanganaphi ne story sika Ntokozo?

  • @vuyolwethufihla8509
    @vuyolwethufihla8509 3 месяца назад +4

    Ntokozo thank you for sharing your story, anyway you're a good story teller. I wish you nothing but the best in your future endeavors

  • @nomfundosangweni2866
    @nomfundosangweni2866 3 месяца назад +2

    Her story should be a movie❤ she is so beautiful and smart all the best with life I wish you the best in life

  • @marthamotuba3825
    @marthamotuba3825 3 месяца назад +8

    Ntokozo You are SMRT BRAVE 🙏 Just PRAY ♥️🇿🇦🖐️

  • @mmathapelochristinah4205
    @mmathapelochristinah4205 3 месяца назад +20

    I don’t know man but this wasn’t a mistake it was just a bad decision, this is premeditated taking a knife and making all those stops while waiting for them can’t be a mistake and she doesn’t sound remorseful 😢

    • @emilymankotseng2399
      @emilymankotseng2399 3 месяца назад

      She hated to see boy loving the other girl.i wonder why she didn't go for that guy ,cos he showed her hore she is nothing from the start.she deserves everything that's coming for her ,o heartless

    • @user-of5rh1vc3p
      @user-of5rh1vc3p 3 месяца назад +3

      She sound and look happy ..... and it's said we will never hear the other girls side of the story

    • @monicadhlamini2019
      @monicadhlamini2019 3 месяца назад

      And she still hates the girl even in her death.

    • @BONG101MJ
      @BONG101MJ 2 месяца назад +1

      ​@user-of5rh1vc3p I suspect her casual demeanor is a coping mechanism but some the language she uses betrays her.

  • @vusidumisanimiya994
    @vusidumisanimiya994 3 месяца назад +5

    Bhuda Chris i feel pity for this what she has gone through Life sometimes can be harsh on innocent soul . For the family that has lost their soul Dudu

  • @reggybnxumalo
    @reggybnxumalo 3 месяца назад +3

    Eich phephisa dade wetĥu, iqiniso ubaba wabantwana kakaze wakuthanda kepha wayenomona ngawe futhi nguye owenza ukuba ugcine ubulele. Sengathi umufi angakuthethelela noThixo akukhumbule🙏

  • @nosiphosibeko1
    @nosiphosibeko1 3 месяца назад +14

    Thank you for part 2

    • @zamamagagula9718
      @zamamagagula9718 19 дней назад

      The virginity was given by a child my goodness. Statutory rape lee

  • @NtombiLindiwe
    @NtombiLindiwe 3 месяца назад +1

    Ntokozo u really are a child. Of god all i can say is ive learnt a lot from you sisi to the lady who died. And her family sending love and healing unto them❤thnks for sharing your story ntokozo

  • @Vulamathongo
    @Vulamathongo 3 месяца назад +2

    I'd never ngidakwe uthando and not see when my child is being abused, never!

  • @tinashenyoni1440
    @tinashenyoni1440 3 месяца назад +10

    I'm sorry babe, wajola nohlanya wena 😢

  • @user-bh9qf2di8j
    @user-bh9qf2di8j 3 месяца назад +39

    So he was even abusing her kid and she STILL didn't leave, she waited until she ended up killing someone over him....ridiculous...have some respect for yourself

    • @tunzamassudi8142
      @tunzamassudi8142 3 месяца назад

      Agree with you all for the name of 1 men who don't deserve you

    • @Lungelo911
      @Lungelo911 3 месяца назад +6

      She didn't even kill him, she killed someone else 🙄

    • @thabilemotsopa5746
      @thabilemotsopa5746 3 месяца назад +10

      Ours is not to judge but take the lesson

    • @nomusamakhubela9312
      @nomusamakhubela9312 2 месяца назад

      Aman to that she paid for her sins

  • @bafanambonambi8205
    @bafanambonambi8205 3 месяца назад +16

    First time 🤞🏿ngibona umuntu obulele angayena umbulali..... sester know that you clean to us🤜🏿🤛🏼......... gents lets stop ukukhohisa abo cherry kakhulukazi abas'thandayo

    • @PeterPeter-qr5gf
      @PeterPeter-qr5gf 3 месяца назад

      Lol thz guy 👦 myb

    • @ntsako_nxu
      @ntsako_nxu 3 месяца назад

      But she chose to stay after he had told her he has a woman, they’re both wrong. She must forgive herself and find healing

    • @ntombienhlemahlaba8368
      @ntombienhlemahlaba8368 3 месяца назад

      Impela!

    • @bafanambonambi8205
      @bafanambonambi8205 3 месяца назад

      @@ntsako_nxu yes ngivumelana nawe kodwa asingakhohlwa inhliziyo ayiphakelwa🤞🏿

    • @tebogomatlala5056
      @tebogomatlala5056 3 месяца назад

      I agree she might be wrong but the guy wronged the girl for sleeping with her knowing that he has a girlfriend yoh

  • @NathiMathumbu
    @NathiMathumbu 3 месяца назад +6

    Amanye amadoda zizinja ayingo madoda because clearly i meaning your budoda abayazi.nge ndlela abakhohlakele ngayo😢😢

  • @nkosana_wongama
    @nkosana_wongama 9 дней назад

    Umjolo destroys a whole lot of things!
    What a beautiful young lady- May whatever is meant for her locate her(be it grace, forgiveness/wrath as a consequence)
    Huge lesson: Leave men!!Bathunyelwe nguSatane abaya bc this girl was a minor when the 21year old (at the time) initiated this mess.
    Now he's a father of so many and one of the babymamas lost her whole life at the hands of the other😢-Heavy!!!💔
    The siblings will have a lot of healing to do mabakhulile.

  • @noziphochili963
    @noziphochili963 Месяц назад +1

    The mum in me wouldn't have stayed after umntana wami enziwe ubhlungu😪..guess iv never been inlove🤞🏽

  • @BasaniShilubane
    @BasaniShilubane 2 месяца назад +1

    Thank you sesi, for accepting Jesus Christ as your savior .God is faithful he has restored you .I am happy you asked for forgiveness from the family. Is also a lesson that we should learn is that we should know that When your loved ones dissappoint you , with another girlfreinds or boyfriend just accept 😢 and move on .We should learn to controll our emotions .We should open up and talk to other poeple who are trusted .We should not throw our own burdens to innocent poeple. We should alsa have a good relationship with our mothers.

  • @margiemukwevho5437
    @margiemukwevho5437 3 месяца назад +3

    WoooowNtokozo such a humble soul I remember her she was sleeping on top of me in suncity D2 ...sweet some😔Nna I was behind those walls for 15yrs full

  • @moworld2102
    @moworld2102 3 месяца назад +4

    Yoooooh people are judgemental.....I sympathize with the lady. She did what she did, yes it wasn't right but her story is painful 💔 I also sympathize with the son of the other lady ,and the lady who lost her life. May both parties find peace

  • @mantoamamsika6925
    @mantoamamsika6925 17 дней назад

    I so wish the father of the children got an opportunity to be interviewed here. A lot of people felt a lit of pain throughout this situation,the family of the deceased,Ntonto, her family and the baby daddy. May they all find healing and condolences to the deceased fam. Hence i walk away once i don't feel loved or made a fool because im avoiding the little devil that might come out of me. Let's rather love ourselves,choose ourselves, our family and allow to be single if you have to.

  • @dyondzekanindlovu1453
    @dyondzekanindlovu1453 3 месяца назад +12

    We keep hearing about how he took virginity and how bad the guy is, that is not a good way of interviewing someone please do better buti.
    Love and light to Ntokozo may life be kind to you, condolences to the family that lost their daughter may her child be safe, protected, and never lack always

  • @user-vx9cd2ez7c
    @user-vx9cd2ez7c 2 месяца назад +1

    Sweetheart I am sending you warm hugs 🤗🤗🤗and love❤❤❤ God loves you

  • @zandiledlamini4493
    @zandiledlamini4493 3 месяца назад +6

    i story sakho siyafundisa kakhulu seyangigquqguzela ukuthi ngishiye lenja yomfana engijola naye cos struu god....ngzophelela e jele noma e psychiatric ward

    • @zinhlemfeka3040
      @zinhlemfeka3040 3 месяца назад

      Please please gather some strength and leave ungabheki emuva🙏

  • @nkuthazomabaso8977
    @nkuthazomabaso8977 3 месяца назад +8

    Yoh mina ngiz thandela wena sis 🤞🏾

  • @thabangmodise587
    @thabangmodise587 3 месяца назад +1

    She’s just amazing and beautiful we all make mistakes in life and God bless her and give her strenght

  • @gugulethundhlovu4241
    @gugulethundhlovu4241 28 дней назад +1

    Love you girl you are a good story teller but the interviewer hayi ah ukhuluma kakhulu....leave ur guests to tell their story before trying to b a counselor

  • @alexrantseli3301
    @alexrantseli3301 2 месяца назад +6

    Interesting story but badly presented . At least you let the guests speak without interruptions which i appreciate. So many questions should have been asked. Just Constructive criticism .

  • @sessyzwane1812
    @sessyzwane1812 3 месяца назад +10

    Good story teller, 🌹

  • @christinaqgibelomotau1577
    @christinaqgibelomotau1577 3 месяца назад +1

    Biggest lesson learned, walk away from relationships that will damage your life ASAP

  • @sanelemagudulela3310
    @sanelemagudulela3310 2 месяца назад

    Wow what a good attitude, top class, she cannot be compared, she is very strong and powerful, I'm impressed

  • @LucasieSA
    @LucasieSA 3 месяца назад +6

    Ngilalele nkulumo yakho cc but ngyacabanga nje amadoda awaneli ungathi unomuntu omuhle so ngabe ufunani okunye ke ay amathanga hlanzela amangenawo amabhodwe..suka

  • @NondumisoDladla-vu8vu
    @NondumisoDladla-vu8vu 2 месяца назад +4

    Ntokozo did pay for her actions. ❤️
    So according to some of you she musnt try anything in life? She must just sit there and cry everyday to show remorse?
    I love your spirit sis Ntokoh😌 from jail to wearing your crown again and still believing in yourself ❤️
    Thank you so much , for such an educational interview ❤️

  • @thatomatang1174
    @thatomatang1174 3 месяца назад +7

    This women does not seem remorseful about the murder she committed.
    She’s robbed parent’s of a daughter and a child of a loving mother.

    • @mantwasonto6866
      @mantwasonto6866 3 месяца назад +4

      Bathong seem remorseful wa Eng!!! Thato o batla Thz women a direng coz o buwa her story,,,,ka botsa nje🤷🏿‍♀️ anker ba Mmotsa questions wa Araba Lona lare areng!!?

  • @noreenm5018
    @noreenm5018 3 месяца назад +3

    Ntokozo, you were 15 years old. Clearly ypu were way obsessed because of your age, immaturity. You are also a victim of the father of your children.
    Once you garther the strength consider reporting him for statutory rape. That exactly what happened. They guy took your your youth, your life, basically he took a lot from you as a child.
    It unfortunately there's no continuation in cases, in a perfect world, the state should have got him for statutory rape.
    I wish you and your family healing.
    To the family that lost a mother, daughter a sister. Niphole, I can only imagine how painful the situation is, nginisela i healing.

  • @Mezzoeanela
    @Mezzoeanela 3 месяца назад +1

    What a sad story Ntoko good luck with the future cc. U can do the awareness in schools also to avoid other kids to find themselves in the same road

    • @user-xk2tk8lp3m
      @user-xk2tk8lp3m Месяц назад

      She must start motivational work and push the word of the lord

  • @thembisiledelron533
    @thembisiledelron533 2 месяца назад

    Such a beautiful lady like this I believe by the grace of the lord she gonna get the job hallelujah

  • @LeratoMasiu-ox2hv
    @LeratoMasiu-ox2hv 3 месяца назад +3

    i know i story sika joyce the girl who was labelled as a satanist😢 a very beautiful,soft and alegant young lady

  • @kesegokgagodi4425
    @kesegokgagodi4425 3 месяца назад +3

    Thank you so much sisi for boldly sharing your story. God is still at work in you, and you have your two blessings (kids) to make it up to and work hard for. I'd also like to thank Chris for this platform, I'm sure young people are learning a lot. To the interviewer, I'm really sorry to say this but you are not good at conducting an interview and this will make you lose potential sponsors, potential subscribers and it just lowers the quality of the interview. If you can, remain in the background/back scene. You can maybe look at other South SAfrican podcast and RUclips stories and see how to conduct an interview (not copy but steal a few ideas). Even reacting loudly like "yoh", "aish" or "ssss" is really unprofessional and does not sound good. Don't conduct an interview with emotions. This is a very sensitive story and should be treated like one.
    I love this RUclips channel, my problem is the interviewer. Also, refrain from making jokes about a sensitive story like in the beginning when you said "you break my heart and my virginity". I can see the discomfort, shyness and shame in the interviewee's laughter. Maybe you can always discuss the title later after shooting the video but not online.
    Also, kindly try to refrain from talking about yourself like there by minute 13:20, when you said "if it was me, I'd say hey you trusted me with gold" because as audiences we are more interested in the story of the interviewee, not how "perfect" the interviewer is compared to the perpetuator in the story. Because you probably have done wrongs in the past, but this not the platform to paint yourself, the interviewer, as the person who would have done things right in the scenario. We don't know if had tables turned, what would have been your real retaliation, also it is not the interest of the listeners. From minutes 12:00-15:20, it truly felt like the interviewer is rubbing the salt on the wound by repeating what has happened to Ntokozo. It would be better to at least encourage or acknowledge whoever you are interviewing. For example: "You are such a strong woman, regardless of whether you made that decision or not. And for you to be able to be here with us on this interview, we really acknowledge your strength and we believe that the healing journey is still continuing"
    Please try to provide tissues readily available incase the interviewee cries and maybe a glass of water just to make them feel accommodated and sympathized with.
    Kindly take this comment as positive criticism. I would like to see it grow and flourish. Thank you

  • @churhillntombela2487
    @churhillntombela2487 3 месяца назад +4

    Eish i story sikasisi sinzima but u guy naye uyimoshile impilo ka my sister

  • @vusumuzigkhambane4197
    @vusumuzigkhambane4197 3 месяца назад +10

    Kahle kahle these ladies will never tell the truth! What Ntokozo is saying about Flavah's girlfriend contradicts what she shared on MacG's podcast. So, why put someone laundry out there while nawe you had your own uncle coz uNtokozo had her own but will never tell the truth.

    • @emilymankotseng2399
      @emilymankotseng2399 3 месяца назад +3

      Wish they can sue her for mentioning their names .

  • @tebogosibiya
    @tebogosibiya 4 дня назад

    Can I know that lady personally she's so good

  • @churhillntombela2487
    @churhillntombela2487 3 месяца назад +3

    Please make sure ukuthi abantwana uyabahlanganisa and play a roll to be a mummy to the deceased child and bona benze ba understood ukuthi abandawonte

  • @user-ok7ki4th5m
    @user-ok7ki4th5m 3 месяца назад

    Nonto is crying in the process and the voice doesnt change. Promise you, the soul needs to come back for part 3. Telling us about her upbringing, her mother failed her. She grew up in a toxic family with mother and step father.😢😢😢

  • @busibarbiemillinaj
    @busibarbiemillinaj 3 месяца назад +10

    I'll nva understand women that protect men instead of their own children...So u killed someone else's child bcz of a man that not only abused u but abused ur child and still went on to have another child with him? So she basically ruined so many lives for what a psycho? Women need to do better honestly y'all bring innocent children into toxic situations bcz u don't want to accept the truth and reality of the nature of ur rshp which a lost course..If a man abuses u what makes u think ur children will be safe?...Imagine how many lives she would have saved from ruin including her own had she walked away as soon as she started seeing the red flags!!😒...All this damage she caused cz she couldn't walk away from an abuser it's hard to sympathise with such..She destroyed too many lives for a man that clearly did NOT only love her but didn't even like her...The sad reality is that there are so many women like her that still won't learn from this story!!!💔

    • @tunzamassudi8142
      @tunzamassudi8142 3 месяца назад +1

      I agree ...women don't listen all for the men 😢

    • @GodfreyMogale-ee6cv
      @GodfreyMogale-ee6cv 3 месяца назад +1

      She was still young and obsessed. There’s no need to judge her. We all make mistakes and I know some won’t forgive and forget your mistakes. Fact of the matter is; we all make mistakes 😢

    • @busibarbiemillinaj
      @busibarbiemillinaj 2 месяца назад +1

      @@GodfreyMogale-ee6cv Taking someone's life like she did was not a mistake it was a choice she made cz of a man!!!!...It's easy for u to say such cz she did not take the life of your loved one!!!....She destroyed a lot of lives with that one choice she made for an abuser that clearly didn't even like her let that sink in!!!😐😾

  • @ThembelihleMncwango
    @ThembelihleMncwango 3 месяца назад +4

    To the Host, that comment you made about Flabba's girlfriend was very reckless....
    Try and be careful next time.

  • @VincentTau-yw8nj
    @VincentTau-yw8nj 3 месяца назад +1

    She's brave, but I wonder how she lives with the fact that she murdered a woman, a mother.
    May God give her strength