No dilemma here always choose truth…if truth triggers u than u have work on ur self…we’re not here to make people feel good but to make them do the work
What i do has a INFJ, is instead of choosing only one, kindness or honesty i use one of the two depending on the person, i test the person with a simple honest truth if the person can take honesty without being triggered, i use honesty with that person, if the person gets triggered with a simple truth i use kindness with that person. The thing is the person that gets kindness doesn't get advice from me ever.
@@Lonly82Wolfthe truth is the "person you have to treat with kindness all the time", is a time bomb 💣 that soon or later, you have to let it go when you know is the f***ing moment to say the truth 😅😂❤
@@michelacherchi Exactly, is very hard to keep this type of relationship, because if i'm not allowed to say any truth, the relationship can't get deep or personal.
This profound fact has recently engulfed my resolve and will be trying my very best every day to just not engage in conversation unless it is just dull, bland and non threatening as being misunderstood is far more likely than helping 🤷♂️🫶
No dilemma here always choose truth…if truth triggers u than u have work on ur self…we’re not here to make people feel good but to make them do the work
Live and let live. I focus on something else or someone else
Right I am blocked again ‼️
More like reassignment. Not resentment for me at least during my healing let it go instead of let them be
Triggered 🤔
So what to do then?
What i do has a INFJ, is instead of choosing only one, kindness or honesty i use one of the two depending on the person, i test the person with a simple honest truth if the person can take honesty without being triggered, i use honesty with that person, if the person gets triggered with a simple truth i use kindness with that person. The thing is the person that gets kindness doesn't get advice from me ever.
@@Lonly82Wolfthe truth is the "person you have to treat with kindness all the time", is a time bomb 💣 that soon or later, you have to let it go when you know is the f***ing moment to say the truth 😅😂❤
@@michelacherchi Exactly, is very hard to keep this type of relationship, because if i'm not allowed to say any truth, the relationship can't get deep or personal.
Pick your poison, manipulative or tactless. No safe choice
@@Lonly82Wolf exactly 💯
This profound fact has recently engulfed my resolve and will be trying my very best every day to just not engage in conversation unless it is just dull, bland and non threatening as being misunderstood is far more likely than helping 🤷♂️🫶