The point about the time spent fighting with a child and the impact that can have really hits home hard, it's so important for parents like me to understand it as it can have massive benefits in how we raise kids
JUST LOVE DR.PETERSDN. SO GLAD HE'S WELL. IM IN SCOTLAND & I HAVE A VERY SERIOUS ADDICTION TO VALIUM.THEY ARE STREET VALIUM, SO IM ADDICTED TO ETIZOLAM. I STARTED TAKING THEM WHEN MY DOCTOR CUT ME OFF MY SCRIPT. I HAD TO TAKE £10 WORTH ,THAT'S 28. I'M NOW ON 3 BAGS OF 28 A DAY & MY DOCTOR SAID YOU KNOW TO JUST CUT YOURSELF DOWN. MY PARTNER DIED 5YRS AGO AT 44YRS OLD OF A BRAIN HEMORRHAGE, SO IM 52YRS OLD WITH A 16YROLD DAUGHTER WHO I CAN'T CONTROL.MY LIFES A MESS. I TRIED TO TAKE MY LIFE ON SEVERAL OCCASIONS , THE LAST TIME I LAY UNCONSCIOUS FOR 2DAYS IN MY FLAT. I PLANNED IT SO MY GIRL WASN'T THERE.SO I WAS IN A COMA & IVE DAMAGED MY BRAIN SO MY SHORT TIME MEMORY IS DAMAGED. SO I KNOW HOW EXTREMELY HARD & DANGEROUS BENZOS ARE. I'VE STARTED LISTENING TO JORDAN & HE MAKES SENSE TO ME COS HE JUST TELLS THE TRUTH. I'M GOING TO KEEP ON LISTENING & I THINK I MAY SEE A LIGHT AT THE END OF MY TUNNEL. THANK YOU DR.PETERSON 🤞 XX
due to employment at tha time, i fell into a state of almost chronic isolation bout 3 years ago & gradually began coppin massive crippling panic attacks almost ery day for like 9 months straight & disturbing asf mad invasive xistential anxiety bout tha possibility of developing schizophrenia. only after scorin a new job & a new schedule & new ppl wit whom to interact did i realize tha isolation was steady destroying me
@@awnaur0no919 Incredible. I was reading your comment and I felt like you were describing exactly what I've been trough. Only difference is that I have been unemployed for 2 years and been dealing with the anxiety of becoming crazy for about 2 months. It was so frightening at times that I couldn't sleep and had headaches almost every day. Unfortunately I haven't found a job yet but I starting the routine and I have been taking a training that should increase my odds of getting back in the workforce. Sorry for the long Comment but thank you for your comment. It encouraged me a lot to keep going.
there are no match for JP wisdom .... when it comes form WordToTheWIse ... it is cheery on the cake .. it is so beautifully edited and added the right clips .. Kudos for your hard work Word ToTheWise ..
@@MrJoHnConsTanTine1 bingo!...thanks for answering "sill.y folks". Superficiality concerning these matters shows a disturbing degree of immaturity...and serves as a lesson all.
The gift of finding sanity is, you get to cope with the insanity of others. People signall back and forward not to validate if the other person is sane. People do that to check if their level of insanity is still at an acceptable level. it is far more complex ofcourse.
It works both ways though, but not equally for all: some people mainly emit/validate signals of 'sanity' while the rest mainly receive them 'to be tuned' and retransmit.
Thank you for coming back. Glad you’re well and ready to continue to share yourself with all of us that are luck to have access to your knowledge and wisdom
@Amplexem Paradoxon...starting with simple personal structure', helps. And, walking, etc., helps immensely, as part of a daily routine...exactly what Jordan is addressing. Thanks for the reminder.
0:45 ... Who else had a mini existential crisis when he said "you need to know who you're going to eat... (a pause in my mind which seemed like forever) WITH" For a split of a split second my whole idea of life was disrupted. You see, I've learned from this very man to LISTEN and I did just that... Very closely... 🤣🤭 Jordan Peterson is a legend. Absolute brilliant mind. We can learn so much if we just open up and listen. 🙂
A witness, a conduit, with brevity. An openess to fragility, and natural law. Human being while being human. Jordan Peterson. Thank you. I need to say it to you at least once. Love and respect to you and yours, Christian Rondow.
I have dropped out of religious tribes and as you just pointed out socially we need to attempt to be in a social group for sanity sake. Very hard for my husband and daughter and I as we are introverts. Joining groups is almost a physical pain...but I agree with everything you have said.
I enjoy listening to Jordan and I agree with most of what he says. There are points, though, that I don't necessarily agree or disagree with but that I say to myself, "Yeah, but..." like when he mentions the point of needing others to help us organize our world. I can only think of being socially introverted. Some people can't handle or feel very awkward in social situations. I would say I agree with him that people need others to help organize our world but it's quite a lot more difficult for some people to seek out or even want to seek out others to help them move forward with their life in a positive, structured, routine manner. I'm also glad he's back and seems pretty healthy.
Regardless of whether you are an introvert, he's touching on the idea that humans are largely social creatures. I'm an introvert, but i see the utility in having a social structure. We should have at least a small handful of people in our lives to provide us with feedback about who we are as a person and to regulate our sanity because we will never achieve this alone, the world is too complicated as Peterson points out.
My life is chaotic, no sleep schedule, I’ve changed professions 8+ times in the past 10 years, I’ve been homeless multiple times. I’ve never had a significant other, or my own home. Completely alone, in my little white walled apartment. I don’t even want to buy furniture or decorate it because I’ve had to start over from zero so many times I’m not expecting to live here for more than a year. I’ve never had $2000 in my bank account ever I don’t drink, I don’t do drugs. I don’t have any friends I’m pretty sure most men in my position would’ve either offed themselves already or turned to hard drugs, because I’ve seen people in better situations do that more easily I am a shell of a person, I have no joys or ambitions, I care not for intimacy or relationships, when bad things happen I don’t even really react to them anymore. When good things happen I don’t even notice. I feel I’m mentally defective, but not in a hurt myself or others way, just feel like I’m separated, no connection to others, not even family. Like I get what Peterson says but it’s like it doesn’t apply to me
I have a family : housband And 3 kids, I have a Nice house with garden, I’m na architect ... And I am not happy, And I feel guilty about it... but ... all this things wont give me this feeling of fullfilment, maybe they keep me sane... why do I watch Peterson? He makes me believe that my life matter. Because he really cares... You are important And your life matters !!! :) good luck to you!! Maggie from Poland
I hope God blesses your heart and your life with peace, love and all the good things life has to offer This peice of advice might seem random, but don't dismiss it without giving it a chance. Try reading (or listening to) the Quran!
I can relate to this 100%. The only thing that seems to help me is keeping open mind and faith that this is not permanent. All I can do is try to make necessary changes every day. If nothing changes, nothing changes. Hope things get better for you brother
I enjoyed the content, there are some people who struggle greatly when they are overwhelmed with the consequences of not behaving as people would like, but it is important for people to understand that sometimes that person’s behavior could be linked to many circumstances where they felt it was appropriate to act in that manner. Based on my experience, some people will encourage you to believe something is normal, when in fact it is very offending and disruptive to others. If an innocent child is mislead during the time where they are developing their beliefs, it can have severe consequences for something that they weren’t equipped to understand. Kids only know what they are taught by the people they trust, and as a child, you aren’t developed enough to know what makes someone trustworthy. It’s important to know the facts about what lead up to the behavior being unacceptable, and it’s not right that the child has to get punished on top of that.
A lot of people want a good lifestyle , but the way they spend can't see them getting that lifestyle anytime soon , the rich invests more and spends less
Investing in the right things matters, I actually invested in the stock market and also the crypto market , trust me crypto trading is more profitable than stock investment
I saved my life from a downward spiral using his knowledge. I then helped keep the company I work for afloat. After that, I was able to get married and keep that working even in these challenging times. Imagine what the world could do if we all try as hard as he asks us to?
Do dogs like routine or have pets been separated from their natural instincts and rhythms? Animals in the wild have patterned daily and seasonal rhythms. Perhaps people could optimize behavior according to their natural circadian rhythms, best attuned by exposure to sunlight and shaped by the timing of eating (and/or fasting) and the quality of sleep. In other words, does the impulse to socialize like the drive to monetize reflect separation from nature and the unnecessary creation of needs? Are cognitive structures of prediction and control based on materialistic assumptions about causal relations which disregard synergetic potential and synchronicity?
When my kids were young, I rubbed their heads, for 10 to 15 minutes, they used it as a que to go to sleep, 10 12 now still go to sleep, 12 most of the time no anymore, but once and awhile, it still works,
Moulding to and being shaped by a society that creates an environment for a parent-child relationship where the child resorts to fighting to get 40 minutes of undivided attention, is the problem in itself. Dr P contradicted himself here, since he presented the child/bedtime example as the problem, and the shaping to-fro our social norm a solution. So if that 5% deviation window drives change, it's worth asking ourselves which way we're driving it. It's also worth asking what the consequences are, and how that bedtime story may play out.
I am such an idiot who can’t do this damn things by sticking to the tomes , routines consistently. I am still learning don’t know if i will be successful.
The fact that you never answer the question intrigues me. I’ll answer the question as it applies to me. I need an optimal level of stress. Not too much. Not too little. Take time aside to process the craziness of the world. Help others. Help myself. Limit time with narcissists and other people with personality disorders.
Is it wise to outsource our sanity? Look at society right now with the restrictions and lockdown. We do not have predictability or structure anymore because of a few health officials and governors. So again, is it wise, when you cannot predict what those who can affect your structure will do? We outsource sanity at the cost of predictability and control.
“Sanity is like the stock market.”-Jordan Peterson Me-“I’m short biased. I begrudgingly buy for short periods of time and I prefer to sell. Because in my mind I like to pretend it will hurt more.” “That’s just not okay. You’re nuts man…You’re…you’re full blown nuts. Couple of lobsters will set you straight.”-Jordan in my mind
I kinda followed him up to 04:05, then what he described were other people with serious antisocial attitudes, predicated on the detrimental capitalist system; I don’t agree with anyone giving me a “cuff” if I appear “stupid” by their opinion, this is precisely why capitalism and the success illusion is bad.
*Explain* things to children such as why they need to go to bed, eat fruit and vegetables and go to school. Explain the importance. Explain what happens when they don't do those things. Instead of arguing and forcing bad habits onto others.
Jordan saved my life but I don't believe routine is a thing. Did the humans a few thousand years ago had routine??? Indont think so. It was more about moments. For example a lion will hunt but won't hunt same time same day same month. They hint when hungry OR if the opportunity comes to them sooooo being an animal is not a valid example
@@petepeet5174 this guy told people that nonone will take you seriously if you cant tidy your room, then gave 12 rules for life, got addicted to benzos and wants to give us another 12 rules as if he knows what hes doing.......
@@samuelecongiu6828 So getting hooked on Benzo's invalidates the validity of ones words? He should have known they were so addictive but apparently he didn't.
@@petepeet5174 well mr Peterson claims that having a messy room invalidates ones words, and id say getting addicted to benzos is probably worse, so yes by his logic it does
Jordan Peterson is very disappointing and incoherent: he sees through Trudeau who is a complete disaster for Canada but he is very harsh towards Trump who did such a good job for his country and the US citizen. Usually Jordan Peterson is poised and balanced, rather fair, but in Trump's case he is very biased, I wonder (a hunch) if this is not coming from his wife: many men are influenced by their wives' liberal standpoint and just parrot them (keeping relative peace at home). This is the proof that someone can be highly intelligent but limited in some aspects.
Its a very poor definition of sanity he proclaims here. Basically saying: "Insane is the one, who doesn't adapt to the desires of those around him." He conflates sanity with agreeableness. If you are socialized properly, you will know what is acceptable from a cooperative standing point. You don't need to be like others want you to be. Soon enough they will accept your behavior for what it is, under one condition: It has to bear fruits. And that's exactly the point. of everything. Sanity bears fruits. Or at least, doesn't spoil them. I could speak for hours about how people tried to alter me more to their liking, tempting me to do stupid stuff, criticizing me for everything meaningful I had to say or do. Of course you will be spit out and isolated by people who are deeply confused themselves. For them, your behavior is a constant reminder of what they have lost, a reminder of the high ideal which looks just hostile to them, due to their own incapability to fulfill it. So before you think "oh yeah lets please everyone, and then I will be sane" better look around yourself, and who it is, you seek approval from.
"Its a very poor definition of sanity he proclaims here. Basically saying: "Insane is the one, who doesn't adapt to the desires of those around him." That's not what he said at all. It's got nothing to do with being agreeable. Sanity is dependent on structure and order being in your life while avoid tyranny. ". Soon enough they will accept your behavior for what it is, under one condition: It has to bear fruits. And that's exactly the point. of everything. Sanity bears fruits. Or at least, doesn't spoil them." *That's* closer to what he said. The people around you send out sanity signallers and tolerate you if you pick up on them.
Glad the man is back. Welcome back sir.👊
🤟
We’ve missed you Mr Peterson!
Climb the mountain of god within....TAME THE BEAST...moral MIND||SAVAGE heart
this man is worth his weight in gold one thousand times over 🇨🇦🥇👍☘️
thats like 60 kg* $60 K = 3.6 million $..... I could buy that
So glad Jordan is back and recovering :)
instablaster.
Jordan's speech is so potent.
The point about the time spent fighting with a child and the impact that can have really hits home hard, it's so important for parents like me to understand it as it can have massive benefits in how we raise kids
JUST LOVE DR.PETERSDN. SO GLAD HE'S WELL. IM IN SCOTLAND & I HAVE A VERY SERIOUS ADDICTION TO VALIUM.THEY ARE STREET VALIUM, SO IM ADDICTED TO ETIZOLAM. I STARTED TAKING THEM WHEN MY DOCTOR CUT ME OFF MY SCRIPT. I HAD TO TAKE £10 WORTH ,THAT'S 28. I'M NOW ON 3 BAGS OF 28 A DAY & MY DOCTOR SAID YOU KNOW TO JUST CUT YOURSELF DOWN. MY PARTNER DIED 5YRS AGO AT 44YRS OLD OF A BRAIN HEMORRHAGE, SO IM 52YRS OLD WITH A 16YROLD DAUGHTER WHO I CAN'T CONTROL.MY LIFES A MESS. I TRIED TO TAKE MY LIFE ON SEVERAL OCCASIONS , THE LAST TIME I LAY UNCONSCIOUS FOR 2DAYS IN MY FLAT. I PLANNED IT SO MY GIRL WASN'T THERE.SO I WAS IN A COMA & IVE DAMAGED MY BRAIN SO MY SHORT TIME MEMORY IS DAMAGED. SO I KNOW HOW EXTREMELY HARD & DANGEROUS BENZOS ARE. I'VE STARTED LISTENING TO JORDAN & HE MAKES SENSE TO ME COS HE JUST TELLS THE TRUTH. I'M GOING TO KEEP ON LISTENING & I THINK I MAY SEE A LIGHT AT THE END OF MY TUNNEL. THANK YOU DR.PETERSON 🤞 XX
JP's lucidity, then the ability to convey it into articulate speech, always blows me away
He's right about having a routine. My routine keeps me grounded, sober, and healthy.
wow how revolutionary
due to employment at tha time, i fell into a state of almost chronic isolation bout 3 years ago & gradually began coppin massive crippling panic attacks almost ery day for like 9 months straight & disturbing asf mad invasive xistential anxiety bout tha possibility of developing schizophrenia. only after scorin a new job & a new schedule & new ppl wit whom to interact did i realize tha isolation was steady destroying me
@@awnaur0no919 Incredible. I was reading your comment and I felt like you were describing exactly what I've been trough. Only difference is that I have been unemployed for 2 years and been dealing with the anxiety of becoming crazy for about 2 months. It was so frightening at times that I couldn't sleep and had headaches almost every day. Unfortunately I haven't found a job yet but I starting the routine and I have been taking a training that should increase my odds of getting back in the workforce.
Sorry for the long Comment but thank you for your comment. It encouraged me a lot to keep going.
What an amazing gentleman
Thanks for not making the music too loud
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i just love this guy, much love and respect dr peterson
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Jordon Peterson is a treasure
❤️ Dr. Peterson! He’s spot on, whatever the topic, in understandable terms. Sanity and routine makes perfect sense.
there are no match for JP wisdom .... when it comes form WordToTheWIse ... it is cheery on the cake .. it is so beautifully edited and added the right clips .. Kudos for your hard work Word ToTheWise ..
Thank you sir :)
Yes, top notch editing.
The only man who preaches and gets things done.
The Modern Day Guru..
Thank you so much Jordan for your wisdom. As Spock said "Live long and prosper" I am so glad you are returned to us.
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Much love for Jordan and all his wisdom
@Psychonaut then why are you here.? clearly you lack judgement about what should you watch.
@@MrJoHnConsTanTine1 bingo!...thanks for answering "sill.y folks". Superficiality concerning these matters shows a disturbing degree of immaturity...and serves as a lesson all.
The gift of finding sanity is, you get to cope with the insanity of others.
People signall back and forward not to validate if the other person is sane.
People do that to check if their level of insanity is still at an acceptable level.
it is far more complex ofcourse.
It works both ways though, but not equally for all: some people mainly emit/validate signals of 'sanity' while the rest mainly receive them 'to be tuned' and retransmit.
@@sergiystoyan5260 a form of zelf reflection and if need be adjustment.
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Thank you for coming back. Glad you’re well and ready to continue to share yourself with all of us that are luck to have access to your knowledge and wisdom
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Thank you for your work!
The JP magic is his ability to talk deep , meaningful truths in a very simple articulate manner
JP is just amazing, looking forward too having him back.
I absolutely do not have a routine and am having a difficult time structuring myself to do that
@Amplexem Paradoxon...starting with simple personal structure', helps. And, walking, etc., helps immensely, as part of a daily routine...exactly what Jordan is addressing. Thanks for the reminder.
We need dr. Peterson, specially during these crazy times.
He has graciously given us more than enough already. Stand straight. Shoulder's back and carry on.
It’s sane to stay sane. With the information and experience of this video I can keep my mental health much more sane.
I love this guy he is a genius and a great person..
With every thing JP sais it is like he knows me deeply.
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This man is love💝
I love these videos. The way you combine the lecture with videos is just genius. Thank you
0:45 ... Who else had a mini existential crisis when he said "you need to know who you're going to eat... (a pause in my mind which seemed like forever) WITH"
For a split of a split second my whole idea of life was disrupted.
You see, I've learned from this very man to LISTEN and I did just that... Very closely... 🤣🤭
Jordan Peterson is a legend. Absolute brilliant mind. We can learn so much if we just open up and listen. 🙂
More videos like this please!
A witness, a conduit, with brevity.
An openess to fragility, and natural law.
Human being while being human.
Jordan Peterson.
Thank you.
I need to say it to you at least once.
Love and respect to you and yours, Christian Rondow.
I have dropped out of religious tribes and as you just pointed out socially we need to attempt to be in a social group for sanity sake. Very hard for my husband and daughter and I as we are introverts. Joining groups is almost a physical pain...but I agree with everything you have said.
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it always motivates me to listen to good advice like this. applying it to my own personal life is the difficult part.
When I didn't want to hear what he was saying n this video I knew I needed to listen the most. This video hit hard. Thank you.
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Thank you
Can we get this man a Nobel peace prize
man he's so smart,
he could be a prophet
Really good extract bro. Thanks
I just hate being unable to share it in my social accounts, because of the clickbaiting title, "Best Life Advice"
4:38 "look at how much this paper cost!"
Great content ❤
I enjoy listening to Jordan and I agree with most of what he says. There are points, though, that I don't necessarily agree or disagree with but that I say to myself, "Yeah, but..." like when he mentions the point of needing others to help us organize our world. I can only think of being socially introverted. Some people can't handle or feel very awkward in social situations. I would say I agree with him that people need others to help organize our world but it's quite a lot more difficult for some people to seek out or even want to seek out others to help them move forward with their life in a positive, structured, routine manner.
I'm also glad he's back and seems pretty healthy.
Regardless of whether you are an introvert, he's touching on the idea that humans are largely social creatures. I'm an introvert, but i see the utility in having a social structure. We should have at least a small handful of people in our lives to provide us with feedback about who we are as a person and to regulate our sanity because we will never achieve this alone, the world is too complicated as Peterson points out.
My life is chaotic, no sleep schedule, I’ve changed professions 8+ times in the past 10 years, I’ve been homeless multiple times.
I’ve never had a significant other, or my own home. Completely alone, in my little white walled apartment. I don’t even want to buy furniture or decorate it because I’ve had to start over from zero so many times I’m not expecting to live here for more than a year. I’ve never had $2000 in my bank account ever
I don’t drink, I don’t do drugs. I don’t have any friends
I’m pretty sure most men in my position would’ve either offed themselves already or turned to hard drugs, because I’ve seen people in better situations do that more easily
I am a shell of a person, I have no joys or ambitions, I care not for intimacy or relationships, when bad things happen I don’t even really react to them anymore. When good things happen I don’t even notice.
I feel I’m mentally defective, but not in a hurt myself or others way, just feel like I’m separated, no connection to others, not even family. Like I get what Peterson says but it’s like it doesn’t apply to me
Sending love brother... peace be with you for the rest of your life king 👑
I have a family : housband And 3 kids, I have a Nice house with garden, I’m na architect ... And I am not happy, And I feel guilty about it... but ... all this things wont give me this feeling of fullfilment, maybe they keep me sane... why do I watch Peterson? He makes me believe that my life matter. Because he really cares...
You are important And your life matters !!! :) good luck to you!!
Maggie from Poland
I hope God blesses your heart and your life with peace, love and all the good things life has to offer
This peice of advice might seem random, but don't dismiss it without giving it a chance. Try reading (or listening to) the Quran!
I can relate to this 100%. The only thing that seems to help me is keeping open mind and faith that this is not permanent. All I can do is try to make necessary changes every day. If nothing changes, nothing changes. Hope things get better for you brother
Great editing skills and powerful message mate.....👍👍👍👍
A genius
How?
thanks for these vids, God bless.
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ST. Jordan Peterson
We are very lucky to be alive in the same time Peterson is imparting his wisdom. He is the best western philosopher of our era.
Word.
Climb the mountain of god within....TAME THE BEAST...moral MIND||SAVAGE heart
That’s deep
Life is sanity
I enjoyed the content, there are some people who struggle greatly when they are overwhelmed with the consequences of not behaving as people would like, but it is important for people to understand that sometimes that person’s behavior could be linked to many circumstances where they felt it was appropriate to act in that manner. Based on my experience, some people will encourage you to believe something is normal, when in fact it is very offending and disruptive to others. If an innocent child is mislead during the time where they are developing their beliefs, it can have severe consequences for something that they weren’t equipped to understand. Kids only know what they are taught by the people they trust, and as a child, you aren’t developed enough to know what makes someone trustworthy. It’s important to know the facts about what lead up to the behavior being unacceptable, and it’s not right that the child has to get punished on top of that.
A lot of people want a good lifestyle , but the way they spend can't see them getting that lifestyle anytime soon , the rich invests more and spends less
People make the mistake of waiting for the government to provide everything for them and If you ask me , it is totally wrong
Investing might be good but investing in the right thing is the actual key to success
Investing in the right things matters, I actually invested in the stock market and also the crypto market , trust me crypto trading is more profitable than stock investment
The rich gets richer by investing while the poor just spend like the rich without thinking about a good investment to go into
Crypto investment requires good experience and knowledge to carry out a good and successful trade, I have a lot trying to trade all by myself
Keep at it - bring some sanity to this sick world
Outsourcing the problem of sanity - routines, schedules, structure = meaning and purpose.
I saved my life from a downward spiral using his knowledge. I then helped keep the company I work for afloat. After that, I was able to get married and keep that working even in these challenging times.
Imagine what the world could do if we all try as hard as he asks us to?
Those who have disliked the video are going to struggle in life very bad sorry for them
I'm a simple man, I see a Jordan Peterson video and I like it.
The prodigal father is back..
Maybe that was the kids way of getting his twenty minutes 🤔
That is exactly what I thought
Because if your child doesn’t get good attention they will get bad attention from you
*Listens to **3:53**-**5:01*
*Looks at people outside*
*Sees more and more riots and escalation*
Yeah, that about makes sense right there.
Do dogs like routine or have pets been separated from their natural instincts and rhythms? Animals in the wild have patterned daily and seasonal rhythms. Perhaps people could optimize behavior according to their natural circadian rhythms, best attuned by exposure to sunlight and shaped by the timing of eating (and/or fasting) and the quality of sleep. In other words, does the impulse to socialize like the drive to monetize reflect separation from nature and the unnecessary creation of needs? Are cognitive structures of prediction and control based on materialistic assumptions about causal relations which disregard synergetic potential and synchronicity?
When my kids were young, I rubbed their heads, for 10 to 15 minutes, they used it as a que to go to sleep, 10 12 now still go to sleep, 12 most of the time no anymore,
but once and awhile, it still works,
Why add the music??????
How is this not another rabbit hole?
It is no measure of health to be fully adjusted to an insanely sick society
What does he mean by the problem of sanity?
Can someone please explain this to me?
Trying to be sane in an insane world
Uncle Jordan
Moulding to and being shaped by a society that creates an environment for a parent-child relationship where the child resorts to fighting to get 40 minutes of undivided attention, is the problem in itself.
Dr P contradicted himself here, since he presented the child/bedtime example as the problem, and the shaping to-fro our social norm a solution.
So if that 5% deviation window drives change, it's worth asking ourselves which way we're driving it. It's also worth asking what the consequences are, and how that bedtime story may play out.
Wow is this new material, or some of his older stuff?
That's the problem we don't find anyone trustworthy to talk about our insecurities.
i learned routines DO NOT make me a healthy person. work when I'm awake, sleep when I'm tired. way healthier
Your ideology sounds slightly Japanese Zen Buddhism. And of course I mean that in the most flattering way
Vaas would be proud
I am such an idiot who can’t do this damn things by sticking to the tomes , routines consistently. I am still learning don’t know if i will be successful.
Now imagine if people decided that something was more important than societal structure and changed it all. How many would lose sanity?
*Psychiatry & psychology has largely failed to provide an adequate definition of what "Sanity" is.*
Oh, Sanity. You were such an iron maiden.
too much sanity vs too much insanity . is there a difference ?
The fact that you never answer the question intrigues me. I’ll answer the question as it applies to me. I need an optimal level of stress. Not too much. Not too little. Take time aside to process the craziness of the world. Help others. Help myself. Limit time with narcissists and other people with personality disorders.
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Is it wise to outsource our sanity? Look at society right now with the restrictions and lockdown. We do not have predictability or structure anymore because of a few health officials and governors.
So again, is it wise, when you cannot predict what those who can affect your structure will do? We outsource sanity at the cost of predictability and control.
“Sanity is like the stock market.”-Jordan Peterson
Me-“I’m short biased. I begrudgingly buy for short periods of time and I prefer to sell. Because in my mind I like to pretend it will hurt more.”
“That’s just not okay. You’re nuts man…You’re…you’re full blown nuts. Couple of lobsters will set you straight.”-Jordan in my mind
I kinda followed him up to 04:05, then what he described were other people with serious antisocial attitudes, predicated on the detrimental capitalist system; I don’t agree with anyone giving me a “cuff” if I appear “stupid” by their opinion, this is precisely why capitalism and the success illusion is bad.
He doesn't mean actually cuffing someone. We get nonverbal cues from society that either reward or reject our behavior
I wonder If Jordan would wanna go to edc with me
Sanity
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The Power of "How are you doing"
Thanks Dad! Oh wait...
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*Explain* things to children such as why they need to go to bed, eat fruit and vegetables and go to school. Explain the importance. Explain what happens when they don't do those things. Instead of arguing and forcing bad habits onto others.
Dude WHAT?! 😫
There isnt a single sane person on this planet!
lol this is why i walk around giving everyone nasty looks. Because i dont approve of anyones behavior. Your all insane planet killing ignorant morons!
@@jimbob-jn6jz It seems far more likely you're just nuts and the rest of us want nothing to do with you. Lol.
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Jordan saved my life but I don't believe routine is a thing. Did the humans a few thousand years ago had routine??? Indont think so. It was more about moments. For example a lion will hunt but won't hunt same time same day same month. They hint when hungry OR if the opportunity comes to them sooooo being an animal is not a valid example
Is that all the time the child got?
I'm Not An ANIMAL!
This guy is not the God you think he is
@Samual C. He's no god but he caries much wisdom. What insight do you have about who or what JP is?
@@petepeet5174 this guy told people that nonone will take you seriously if you cant tidy your room, then gave 12 rules for life, got addicted to benzos and wants to give us another 12 rules as if he knows what hes doing.......
@@samuelecongiu6828 So getting hooked on Benzo's invalidates the validity of ones words? He should have known they were so addictive but apparently he didn't.
@@petepeet5174 well mr Peterson claims that having a messy room invalidates ones words, and id say getting addicted to benzos is probably worse, so yes by his logic it does
@@samuelecongiu6828 You may be right. I don't think any of us know the full story though.
Jordan Peterson is very disappointing and incoherent: he sees through Trudeau who is a complete disaster for Canada but he is very harsh towards Trump who did such a good job for his country and the US citizen. Usually Jordan Peterson is poised and balanced, rather fair, but in Trump's case he is very biased, I wonder (a hunch) if this is not coming from his wife: many men are influenced by their wives' liberal standpoint and just parrot them (keeping relative peace at home). This is the proof that someone can be highly intelligent but limited in some aspects.
can you please just show the speech, cut the motivation stock video bs and just let the maestro talk
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Its a very poor definition of sanity he proclaims here. Basically saying:
"Insane is the one, who doesn't adapt to the desires of those around him."
He conflates sanity with agreeableness.
If you are socialized properly, you will know what is acceptable from a cooperative standing point.
You don't need to be like others want you to be. Soon enough they will accept your behavior for what it is,
under one condition: It has to bear fruits. And that's exactly the point. of everything. Sanity bears fruits. Or at least, doesn't spoil them.
I could speak for hours about how people tried to alter me more to their liking, tempting me to do stupid stuff,
criticizing me for everything meaningful I had to say or do. Of course you will be spit out and isolated by people who are deeply confused themselves.
For them, your behavior is a constant reminder of what they have lost, a reminder of the high ideal which looks just hostile to them, due to their own incapability to fulfill it.
So before you think "oh yeah lets please everyone, and then I will be sane" better look around yourself, and who it is, you seek approval from.
"Its a very poor definition of sanity he proclaims here. Basically saying:
"Insane is the one, who doesn't adapt to the desires of those around him."
That's not what he said at all. It's got nothing to do with being agreeable. Sanity is dependent on structure and order being in your life while avoid tyranny.
". Soon enough they will accept your behavior for what it is,
under one condition: It has to bear fruits. And that's exactly the point. of everything. Sanity bears fruits. Or at least, doesn't spoil them."
*That's* closer to what he said. The people around you send out sanity signallers and tolerate you if you pick up on them.
I spent 2 years listening daily to this noble believer - but “you’re an animal”. Hmmm yes and no.
Directionless chatter.