As always.. I loved this. I get so excited from true men’s fashion and prestige style. It exemplifies their values, expertise, their lifestyle and list goes on. There is nothing more exciting then to see a man wearing textured clothing and hats. True elegance.
My father was voted best dressed in school. He had many admirers. Later in life after his military career he would still wear his military dress blues and would often be the center of attention. He would satirically threaten my friends girlfriends if they were ever rude he would wear his Tartan to their wedding and upstage them. Style can bring joy and opportunities just wear them well.
When you dress great, you feel great. Buy three to four different suits. A black, a gray, a blue and any other option you’d like. Then two to three dress shirts, three different ties, dress socks and finally a pair of black and brown dress shoes. Make sure they are fitted, not lose or too tight. You’ll feel like a million bucks! Trust me
This is how it was back in the day. You should hear how they spoke back then. Videos of women in the 50's and 60's. It is waay different. More feminine.
After watching a lot of your topics on Sartorial Talks I must conclude this: you not only understand the art to explain things like a skilled professional teacher would do (I know, Im a professional teacher 😉). You give just enough detail without losing the main goal of the explanation. You speak in a very pleasurable way, with lively intonation and emotion. You don't read a pre-written text, you tell us your stories. But most of all, I absolutely love your voice! It has a warm and cosy timbre, calms the listener down and opens him up to the content of your story. You're also always a joy to watch. Sonya, I could listen to and watch your vids for days! Keep them coming, please.
As you are coming from a related background, of course I respect and cherish your words. Please accept a heartfelt "thank you" for the time you gave to relay this message (with such a staying power). With gratitude, ~Sonya
I was blessed with beeing the first to see this video. Absolutely wonderful. Hugo and Sonya remain classic and better dressed than 90 percent of "celebrities" who are trying to reinvent the wheel. Keep going and teach men and women about elegance! Best regards from Croatia!
Part pragmatic and part dashing. Absolutely. I can’t tell you how much I’ve enjoyed this particular video. Everything makes absolute sense. Thank you Sonia.
I love the number 9...so I'm glad I am called "1800"; I like the term "composed" as we do have music that plays when we enter a room. In the 80s I dressed in "Futuristic" style, and yes I had a WW2 coat
I can't really say if I'm 3, 4, 5 or 7. But luckily one doesn't have to choose. I am still at the beginning of my style jurney and I am open to everything!
@@justcaused6182 You can go with a 2 piece suit or a double button suit for everyday too. You can go to the opera buy the 500$ seats and go in white tie or little less formal black tie.
You definitely can. But sadly it's not the golden days of man's style so everybody is wearing joggers and T-shirt. If tomorrow they were to start wearing suits as casual clothing, I'd be the first to jump on that train. I love suits. Sadly I feel alienated whenever I dress up for an event, because I will most likely outdress everyone.
@@justcaused6182 It's same for me too. I really enjoy wearing suits but if I were too much overdressed than other people in my class (I'm high school 20yrs old) I'd would look weird. I wear casual, sometimes business casual - button down and still outdress most of the classmates. But I've reached a level where I would feel extremely uncomfortable wearing sweatpants, nikes and hoodies. It would be as uncomfortable for me as if I were only dressed in swimming trunks. But when you walking outside you can dress in a suit and you will look good, no one will make fun of you. In class I've seen professors take me for more mature and respect me more than others. I like to be 2 levels dressed up than others. For example if someone is wearing hoodie I'll be wearing a polo shirt or a dress shirt, if people around me will be in casual suits with no neckwear, I'll go more formal and wear a tie. I always try to be well dressed but not over dressed because that would not make me look well dressed, but weird. What do you think?
One of the best coverage of men style. I really appreciate and enjoyed how you tied the inner us and our struggles to reveal and express ourselves to others through style. A few are naturally gifted, however, for many of us it is coaching such yours is how we can find our way. Thank you indeed. This was well presented.
My environment requires minimalist or dashing, but my heart is at the circa 1800; countryside elegant; and dandy. She and I will follow our own path, and these little big details can make it all the more enjoyable :) Thank you for the nice video.
Sonya you have such an Elegant way of speaking, I love all the video's you and Hugo produce, you are making the world a more Elegant place. Keep up the fantastic work. from your Sartorial disciples in British Columbia, Canada
This channel has given me so much insight and I was inspired by the immense passion you radiate in every video. I also have great respect for your efforts to reply to so many comments which demonstrates and strengthens the sense of community. As someone just starting his sartorial journey (and a german on top of it), it greatly encourages me to be warmly invited, independent on "where I am on this personal journey" as Sonya put it in one of the videos. If I may request a topic, it would be pants. It is an important part that often seems to be overlooked. Best regards
I feel that I may be a mixture of the dashing, circa 1800 man and the countryside gentleman. I tend to make my own style. Mixing the silver pocket watch with a modern suit and waistcoat. But always warm. Always joyful.
This is the best video that sartorial talks have done for a long time..... and defiantly the button boot is my favourite footwear out of all of these....
Another gem from Sonya. Thank you. Have coincidentally just been in a work session about introverts, extroverts and ambiverts. Like those categories, I think most of us have elements of more than one archetype. Love the research from Ariel and Men's Health. A lot of women I know would simply like men to shower and shave on a regular basis!
I could not stop smiling wachting the video. The shoe recoment-ation of Hugo absolutely nailed it. Me and my bro's very often "judging" men by the type of shoes they wear- with more or less the same result. Good job!
So nice of you to say, and I have to agree in regard to the power of a great pair of shoes to transform a man's appearance, no matter what garments he is wearing. But the greatest thing is to see a person feel better when he feels good about his shoes. I can't explain it but have seen the phenomenon repeat itself. ~Sonya
@@SARTORIALTALKS thank you for taking time to answer! I totally agree with you. Ps: the most inspiring part of the "parisian gentlemen" was definitely chapter3 "of shoes and men" -Peter
I am not a scholar in this field but based on my experience, women notice when you „just“ take care of you and your wardrobe. I don‘t need to wear a suit at work or when I go out; but I want to. Just to make me feel good, have a good time and of course, people notice that you feel good. I can dress more than decent with a pair of jeans, a shirt and a pair of derby shoes or Chelsea boots (which I love). I would say, that I fall in the minimalist category. I am 6‘4“. So I stand out physically, so regarding wardrobe, watches and shoes I try to keep it simple.
I agree 100%. That being said, Today I went to the grocery with old sweats, although they were pressed with a crease (I was moving stuff), a white t-shirt and a Ralph Lauren denim shirt worn as a jacket, clean white tennis shoes, my hair is curly and neat, my hands are manicured, a wood bracelet watch and wearing two wood rings (middle and pinky.) An attractive woman my age flirted with me. Bottom line, sometime if everything else is tight they see through the other stuff.
I'm def a Dandy with a mix of Dashing. I like mixing unusual colors and I wear vintage wristwatches and vintage sunglasses in my outfits... I just can't do hats in general though.
I'd like to see her use photos of men wearing sneakers to describe how to use various types of pants like light blue, dark blue, grey, light brown, dark brown, white, burgundy, olive, denim, joggers paired with various shirt types, and extremely importantly, how to make decisions related to complimentary colours, analogous colours, triadic, earth tones, pastel, monochrome, textures, patterns vs. solids. I'm 35 and I'm fairly advanced, but I need extremely accurate and precise information about how to extend into the next levels of sneaker expression. As an example, I'd love to hear her talk about Nike Blazer Low GT, Nike Blazer Mid, Nike Air Max 90, and Nike Air Jordan 4... I consider those shoe silhouettes to be art pieces, and they are in my opinion fabulous starting points for some outfits, but I'm not sure how to decide if I want to aim for 2, 3 or 4 colours, and where, because splashes of colour in the watch, belt, socks, hats. My hair is blond, so I want her to talk about hair colour as well. I hope my "request" is sartorial-grade. Any videos over time will be much appreciated. I would love her to take a deep dive into those above mentioned shoe models and figure out what makes them tick for the female mind.
Also your videos are a must see for young men focused on building our image and understanding who we really are and Will be once again in Black America.
in a very professional way, as a fashion lover and photographer, I cant stop listening to you and taking my eyes off you.. Very well spoken and great information relayed over. Thank you so much. I'm learning quite a bit. Keep up the videos please.
As every painter has his own palette of colors even though he uses the same basic colors as other painters. So your "basic colors" that you present here Hugo and Sonya, are really interesting and original! Thanks for the great podcast!
What a brilliant and beautiful woman. Spot on! ... I have been saying the very same things for few years now. I would add to that: Work on refining your persona and make sure that your personality is even better. That would simply be: unique brilliance!
Very kind, and thank you for the reminder to keep it in perspective. I agree with you, the type of person you are outweighs 'what you wear' for sure, yet the combination of doing both in a thoughtful way can create a sort of unique brilliance, indeed. Cheers! ~Sonya
My daughter is 5 and I've already told her if a young man asks her on a date and is wearing tracksuit bottoms, to walk away 😂 setting the bar high now. Ps she can date at 30 😜
Sonya seems like a lovely lady and it was so pleasant to hear her talk. I don't fit in into any of the categories. I'm definitely very casual but deliberate in the way I dress. I guess I just charm the ladies with my vibrant personality because it can't be my clothes.
I try to avoid wearing business suits daily through fear of misrepresenting myself but whenever I’ve worn a tie say a shantung with a denim shirt it seems to signal to women that I have a desire to appear elegantly and they seem to respond to this with favourable looks and makes some of them appear to be safer as to what my personality is! They let you in just a little bit more!
I appreciate your reply and am happy to know you have an appreciation for the (original) soundtrack composition by Justin Melland just for ST. Cheers to you! ~Sonya
Beautiful video, and I love the beautiful insights. I never knew men's clothes meant THAT much to women. "The More You Know.." I was wondering which archetype the very dressy glam/Savile Row rockers like Bryan Ferry, Paul Weller, or Robert Palmer, Marvin Gaye, would be considered, more a Futuristic or a Panache?
Thank you very much for your feedback. I would say more "futuristic" to the latter, if only for functional purposes (with the occasional dandy moment). Cheers! ~Sonya
Loved the insights, especially with the nod towards psychology. As a photographer, colour theory is something that always fascinates me and where you mention red, I agree 100%. It's the same reason that red lipstick is popular in women, or you see lots of reds in flamenco dresses to really bring out the passion! Rich colours in general work well I think (golds, browns, orange, the colours of autumn for that 'snuggle by the fireplace' feeling) and are, perhaps, a subject for a whole video or book of their own! Great episode! Loved it!
Now I am inspired to try a splash of more color and see what happens. Thank you--and the red in your thumbnail does relay a nice energy, so bravo! ~Sonya
I’m only on the second archetype and all I’ve got to say is tear it *ALL* up and give me the *RISK*. I want to feel the creativity flowing on the edge of madness. While everyone else is wearing blue give me RED. A thought is that this may be a part of the composition that brings me the mysterious crowd I’m looking for..
Thank you Sonya, I had to watch this video twice, if only to hear and see you talk but also to get a better idea of who I am and who I would like to be. Simply beautiful video.
Because of your kind message, I can tell you that I was nervous about making this talk, but a sincere spirit apparently came through, and now I'm happy to read your perceptions--and glad you took the time to write. Cheers! ~Sonya
Good day Mr Jacomet and Ms Nicholson. I can't recall how I've come across your videos but it has been extremely educational. Such a different way to view men's clothing in this fast fashion, throw away culture. If possible I would appreciate your opinion and advice. I live in a warm climate which makes dressing well difficult from a practical perspective. Added to this is that the standard manner of men's dressing here (South Africa) is extremely casual. When one aims to dress well one is perceived as trying too hard, you certainly stand out from the crowd. There are many who dress well, but sadly sacrifice so much to do so. Many go into debt to acquire good clothes . Many guys come across as focusing solely on clothes and appearance. Which is why some guys don't aim to dress well as they do not want to appear vain/proud(sadly that was my perspective). What I appreciate about your channel and approach is that vanity and pride do not come across at all. What are your best suggestions for dressing well in warm climates? What would be a good start for a young man aiming to dress better? It would be great to afford the best but that is beyond many budgets. Grateful for your work and long may it continue. God bless
A high twist open weave summer blazer could change a person's life for the better in a warm climate ! God bless you and sorry the the very late reply. Yours, Sonya and Hugo
Most men that I know who happen to have a deep knowledge of gentlemen's clothing style(s) simply do not care what women think of our dress code(s) and associated archetype(s). We wear our clothing for our own personal enjoyment. If, as an ancillary resulting effect, my dressing style communicates that I am unapproachable, then it is excellent that poaching women stay clear. Such an outcome translates into clarity and prevents any misunderstandings which in the current social climate is tantamount. Should I see a woman that I happened to be interested in, she would know and understand in perfect time...
Thanks so much Sonya for the amazing way you continue teach and share from a womans point of view on mens fashion. I continue to learn alot from your video and look forward to the next one. Have a great day. Mike
I would suggest that you do an episode or series on each archetype. I especially would like to see the circa 1800’s and dandy unpackaged a bit more. Great video!
Now I can tell you, this video was difficult to do, as coming across as an authority on the matter didn't seem possible---but Hugo insisted. I will reflect on your suggestion and a heartfelt thanks for the encouragement! ~Sonya
@The Vest Practice Yes AND I am curious about your vests as well. We recently recorded an episode on waistcoats, but I would really like to understand the story on the knit vest too. Thank you for your support here and on Patreon! ~Sonya
Thanks for the video Sonya. Very informative and interesting. Your delivery and presence are almost hypnotic for me... really enjoyed listening and watching you talking...too bad there aren't videos of you and Hugo coming out more frequently...but the quality of the ones you put out are of the highest I've seen on the internet. Thanks again!
Hi Sean, Among other things, we do a small talk show for our Patrons on our Patreon site, which is helping us increase productions. But most of all, thank you for all this encouragement---without it our job would be MUCH less fulfilling. Cheers! ~Sonya
Such great advice and wisdom bringing clarity on what persona someone would like to portray. It’s always a pleasure to learn from you and Hugo. Thank you very much and God bless
Wow, that Carl Jung was ahead of his time with these 7 stereotypes, pardon me archetypes. Had he been a woman, he might have simplified it to three types: sunglasses men, after-shave men and whiskey men. When Sonya said that Hugo might be more of a "minimalist", I thought that actually he has too much "dandy" for minimalist. On a levels. I mean, "a gentleman never wears brown" and shoes have to be a shade darker than the suit. And outside the countryside we don't wear green. The minimalist - 50 shades of dark blue, white shirts, a red accent and black Oxford shoes.
I think, it is hard to say how important clothes are during that moment when a man meets a woman for the first time. I would say, take care of yourself and your clothes. Wear something, that makes your comfortable and reflects who you are and what is important to you. I wore a suit, a blue shirt and black shoes, when I met my girlfriend for the first time. I still do from time to time, but mostly I wear a suit when I go to a museum, go shopping or sit in a coffee shop alone. I am 6‘4“ and slander and wear dark blue suit, blue shirt and black shoes. I would just say: keep it simple.
6:18 The Pragmatic 8:09 The Minimalist 9:18 The Dashing Man 10:54 The Circa 1800 12:52 Countryside Elegant 14:15 Futuristic 15:53 The Panache / The Dandy
+SAPTORIAL TALKS - Sonya and Hugo, you two make an awesome/dynamic couple. Brilliant subject with examples, indeed! 'Thank You' much for all that you both present in life with style. Blessings to you both! ~ Benjamin G. / NYC, USA
Bikinis look good because men like to see skin. Suits look good because women like to see symbols of wealth and status. Women will make up a bunch of shit about how it makes a man look “put together” or “highlights the body”, but we know what how really is.
Very well explained the „problem“ the dashing man has, unfortunately I’m speaking by experience! But also this goes both ways, I more often than I like subconsciously seek women who match this „archetype“ and overlook other women’s companionship.
Hi FG, I find your comment to be intriguing and haven't considered like attracting like, in this category. Thank you for your reply and for triggering new thought! ~Sonya
The Circa 1800 seems to be inline with who I am - approachable and cerebral. But I just can't imagine myself dressing like this in the office. And a fob watch, lol... 1800's indeed. Although I do like the Vass Oxfords, but they're out of stock. This was a great video; has given me a lot to think about in terms of my personal style and brand.
The pearls of wisdom that comes out at 17:50 must be the first 'guideline' everything else is trivial and dare say superficial without that 'inner self relaying itself'. Here is my take on what I would like my daughter to assess a man on 1. Clarity of purpose in life. 2. Natural confidence that comes off of 1(never comes off brash or arrogant and always grounded). 3. Personal grooming 4. Body language- fidgety or steady poise and posture(body reflects the mind, mind reflects the body). 5. Dressing appropriate to the occasion. The beauty of the list is it is genderless. Same goes for what a man should look for in a woman. To add on 5, I cringe at men trying hard to imitate the English gentleman in sweltering 40+ degree C in Indian weather. Buffoons in uniforms that have sold their identity. So being sharp is a relative thing based on time, place and occasion.
I’m definitely the circa 1800 style. I’m also little bit into country elegant style....love both, but my personality is definitely more to “circa 1800”. I also loved the recommended button shoe at the end , and would say that this boot is for circa 1800 style ideal as well. The next pair of shoes I want to buy.
@@SARTORIALTALKS Merci de votre réponse! The problem is that even now it’s quite difficult to buy high quality secondhand clothes in Prague. There is just one vintage secondhand for men. It’s possible to order things from eBay or Etsy. The big problem, is that because of brexit and no agreement between the UK and Europe I will have to pay a tax and duty for every piece of clothes for more than 22 euros I order there from the 2nd February. So it’s gonna be even more difficult to buy sartorial clothes in quality I want. And I really hate it.
@@vonvildenschwert3045 Regret for your difficulties ! This is (fairly) new information for us which we will need to check into--just in case you have a link with the specifics about duties and taxes between UK and Europe, it would be nice to have the latest. Thank you for your remarks! ~Sonya & Hugo
@@SARTORIALTALKS Merci!. Firstly i want to say I didn’t realized that you answered me at both of my comments that I wrote at your videos, so it now looks that I wanted to complain from nothing even though I just wanted to write something more about buying vintage clothes at your second video about biggest faults which I commented :-D. Unfortunately I didn’t find any article with conditions dedicated to this issue but what I know, the Uk should be considered as every out EU and Schengen area country. That means you will have to pay a value added tax in hight which is in your country/region plus duty that should be around 10-12 percent. But I don’t know exactly. In every case it makes everything much more complicated and expensive.
I'm 2 with a bit of 3. Not a fan of too many/flashy accessories. But there is a lot of thought that goes into my socks, pocket square, belt, watch, and shoes. I like to think about what I am going to wear the day before, and lay it out. During the evening, I will make many changes. I've driven home to change...my watch. Is that bad?? If I am out all day, I carry evening wear in the trunk of the car plus shoes with matching belt, a different blazer, but the pants can stay. I also carry a neutral pant and shirt in case something bad happens, like a spill.
Great video. Where or how can I find inspiration and examples of how to dress the pragmatic and minimalist way? I am drawn to these styles, but I've no idea of how to begin.
Hi Melvin, welcome and I hope you will find Hugo's video on "buying your first suit". It has been a great success so far, and you may find it of interest. Cheers! ~Sonya Glyn
Minimalist for sure. Sonya! Hugo! Can you do a video on shirts!? Like the video series you did for the best shoe brands or something? Teach us how to find the right shirt, please!
As always.. I loved this. I get so excited from true men’s fashion and prestige style. It exemplifies their values, expertise, their lifestyle and list goes on. There is nothing more exciting then to see a man wearing textured clothing and hats. True elegance.
I'm really happy to read a passionate response like yours. Thank you so much. ~Sonya
Doesn't change the fact that I hate suits (unless it is a wedding, funeral, or for a cosplay)
I couldn't have said it better. Thanks for your smart words, Sandy ! ~Sonya
Literally had to wear a suit for a presentation in college, that day I knew what it felt like to be famous/millionnaire😂😭
I had to wear a suit for a presentation in college, that day I knew what it felt like to be famous/millionaire.*
That's awesome ! Sonya
'Literally had to wear a suit' as opposed to?
@@castelodeossos3947 metaphorically
My father was voted best dressed in school. He had many admirers. Later in life after his military career he would still wear his military dress blues and would often be the center of attention. He would satirically threaten my friends girlfriends if they were ever rude he would wear his Tartan to their wedding and upstage them. Style can bring joy and opportunities just wear them well.
sounds like an attention seeker
Sounds like he had panache!
Like the song says, “every girl’s crazy about a sharp dressed man.”
Guess ZZ knew their stuff, haa! ~Sonya
Meaning sharp as a razor? ~S
LOL, so true. I love that song.
...yeah but don't forget that in the end " diamonds are a girl's best friend..."
Cas Hau LOL
I'm literally a dishwasher yet I wear suits when I'm out of work. People always think I'm a lawyer or something
Yes, you have an apt point. Congratulations on your noble efforts. Cheers ! ~Sonya
I'm a lawyer and I used to look like a dishwasher out of work.
@@joesilvas4299 your are a gentleman sir
Class and character cant be bought
When you dress great, you feel great. Buy three to four different suits. A black, a gray, a blue and any other option you’d like. Then two to three dress shirts, three different ties, dress socks and finally a pair of black and brown dress shoes. Make sure they are fitted, not lose or too tight. You’ll feel like a million bucks! Trust me
This woman has the beautifulest way of speak I've ever heard
This is how it was back in the day. You should hear how they spoke back then. Videos of women in the 50's and 60's. It is waay different. More feminine.
After watching a lot of your topics on Sartorial Talks I must conclude this: you not only understand the art to explain things like a skilled professional teacher would do (I know, Im a professional teacher 😉). You give just enough detail without losing the main goal of the explanation. You speak in a very pleasurable way, with lively intonation and emotion. You don't read a pre-written text, you tell us your stories. But most of all, I absolutely love your voice! It has a warm and cosy timbre, calms the listener down and opens him up to the content of your story. You're also always a joy to watch. Sonya, I could listen to and watch your vids for days! Keep them coming, please.
As you are coming from a related background, of course I respect and cherish your words. Please accept a heartfelt "thank you" for the time you gave to relay this message (with such a staying power). With gratitude, ~Sonya
I was blessed with beeing the first to see this video. Absolutely wonderful. Hugo and Sonya remain classic and better dressed than 90 percent of "celebrities" who are trying to reinvent the wheel. Keep going and teach men and women about elegance! Best regards from Croatia!
You are generous K---thank you very much and I do appreciate the encouragement a lot ! ~Sonya
@@SARTORIALTALKS You apsolutely deserve all the praise. Cheers!
Only 90 percent?
@@krunoslavkovacec1842 So kind, much appreciated. ~S
@@timmymorris91 This is when I need an emoticon [throwing my arms up in the air]. Cheers, ~Sonya
Man, Dandy guys are like from another dimension
This genre is fascinating, I agree! ~S
Panache my dear, Panache 😁
@@showmethewater2160 hahaha True, I love her level of sophistication :)
Part pragmatic and part dashing. Absolutely. I can’t tell you how much I’ve enjoyed this particular video. Everything makes absolute sense. Thank you Sonia.
I just read your comment and it gives me a lot of joy. Thank you ! Sonya
I love the number 9...so I'm glad I am called "1800"; I like the term "composed" as we do have music that plays when we enter a room. In the 80s I dressed in "Futuristic" style, and yes I had a WW2 coat
I can't really say if I'm 3, 4, 5 or 7. But luckily one doesn't have to choose. I am still at the beginning of my style jurney and I am open to everything!
it is important to dress differently. I always dress like Tommy Shelby from Peaky Blinders, makes you feel unique and comfortable.
Three peice suit everyday?
@@justcaused6182 Yes correct.
@@justcaused6182 You can go with a 2 piece suit or a double button suit for everyday too. You can go to the opera buy the 500$ seats and go in white tie or little less formal black tie.
You definitely can. But sadly it's not the golden days of man's style so everybody is wearing joggers and T-shirt. If tomorrow they were to start wearing suits as casual clothing, I'd be the first to jump on that train. I love suits. Sadly I feel alienated whenever I dress up for an event, because I will most likely outdress everyone.
@@justcaused6182 It's same for me too. I really enjoy wearing suits but if I were too much overdressed than other people in my class (I'm high school 20yrs old) I'd would look weird. I wear casual, sometimes business casual - button down and still outdress most of the classmates. But I've reached a level where I would feel extremely uncomfortable wearing sweatpants, nikes and hoodies. It would be as uncomfortable for me as if I were only dressed in swimming trunks. But when you walking outside you can dress in a suit and you will look good, no one will make fun of you. In class I've seen professors take me for more mature and respect me more than others. I like to be 2 levels dressed up than others. For example if someone is wearing hoodie I'll be wearing a polo shirt or a dress shirt, if people around me will be in casual suits with no neckwear, I'll go more formal and wear a tie. I always try to be well dressed but not over dressed because that would not make me look well dressed, but weird. What do you think?
Great video. Always look forward to a new episode of Sartorial Talks in my inbox! Cheers
Glad to read this and thank you! ~Sonya
I really enjoy how this video talks about natural aspects of how women interpret a man's presentation. Extremely informative.
Thank you. I attempted a level of objectivity and am appreciative of your comment. Cheers! ~Sonya
One of the best coverage of men style. I really appreciate and enjoyed how you tied the inner us and our struggles to reveal and express ourselves to others through style. A few are naturally gifted, however, for many of us it is coaching such yours is how we can find our way. Thank you indeed. This was well presented.
I value your thorough comment so much. Thank you ! ~Sonya
I've been attending on RUclips for a while the "Satorial School of Fashion", and my style has been elevated by a thousand miles.
My environment requires minimalist or dashing, but my heart is at the circa 1800; countryside elegant; and dandy. She and I will follow our own path, and these little big details can make it all the more enjoyable :) Thank you for the nice video.
Flexible and diversified---these are desirable traits for sure. Cheers! ~Sonya
Sonya you have such an Elegant way of speaking, I love all the video's you and Hugo produce, you are making the world a more Elegant place. Keep up the fantastic work.
from your Sartorial disciples in British Columbia, Canada
We do not take these words for granted, so thank you for writing. Cheers from Bourgogne, ~Sonya
This channel has given me so much insight and I was inspired by the immense passion you radiate in every video. I also have great respect for your efforts to reply to so many comments which demonstrates and strengthens the sense of community. As someone just starting his sartorial journey (and a german on top of it), it greatly encourages me to be warmly invited, independent on "where I am on this personal journey" as Sonya put it in one of the videos.
If I may request a topic, it would be pants. It is an important part that often seems to be overlooked.
Best regards
Hi and I want you to know that it is comments like your which push us forward. I read and appreciate every word. Cheers! ~Sonya
I feel that I may be a mixture of the dashing, circa 1800 man and the countryside gentleman. I tend to make my own style. Mixing the silver pocket watch with a modern suit and waistcoat. But always warm. Always joyful.
Still a gentleman none the less.
Don't stop doing what you're doing. Us dandies are a dying breed.
This is the best video that sartorial talks have done for a long time..... and defiantly the button boot is my favourite footwear out of all of these....
This reply means a lot as I complained a bit during the production out of self-doubt, haha...so thank you for writing. Cheers! ~Sonya
Another gem from Sonya. Thank you. Have coincidentally just been in a work session about introverts, extroverts and ambiverts. Like those categories, I think most of us have elements of more than one archetype. Love the research from Ariel and Men's Health. A lot of women I know would simply like men to shower and shave on a regular basis!
Great point regarding correlating outward dress styles with levels of "outgoingness", for lack of a better term. Thank you. ~Sonya
You and Hugo have such pleasant dispositions. Thank you both for the very informative videos.
Our pleasure Glen! Hugo and Sonya Glyn
One of my favorite episodes... Thank you Sonya
I could not stop smiling wachting the video. The shoe recoment-ation of Hugo absolutely nailed it. Me and my bro's very often "judging" men by the type of shoes they wear- with more or less the same result. Good job!
So nice of you to say, and I have to agree in regard to the power of a great pair of shoes to transform a man's appearance, no matter what garments he is wearing. But the greatest thing is to see a person feel better when he feels good about his shoes. I can't explain it but have seen the phenomenon repeat itself. ~Sonya
@@SARTORIALTALKS thank you for taking time to answer! I totally agree with you. Ps: the most inspiring part of the "parisian gentlemen" was definitely chapter3 "of shoes and men" -Peter
I am not a scholar in this field but based on my experience, women notice when you „just“ take care of you and your wardrobe. I don‘t need to wear a suit at work or when I go out; but I want to. Just to make me feel good, have a good time and of course, people notice that you feel good. I can dress more than decent with a pair of jeans, a shirt and a pair of derby shoes or Chelsea boots (which I love). I would say, that I fall in the minimalist category. I am 6‘4“. So I stand out physically, so regarding wardrobe, watches and shoes I try to keep it simple.
Fun - and educational. This is a great topic that is deeper than first meets the eye. Great video.
I agree 100%. That being said, Today I went to the grocery with old sweats, although they were pressed with a crease (I was moving stuff), a white t-shirt and a Ralph Lauren denim shirt worn as a jacket, clean white tennis shoes, my hair is curly and neat, my hands are manicured, a wood bracelet watch and wearing two wood rings (middle and pinky.) An attractive woman my age flirted with me. Bottom line, sometime if everything else is tight they see through the other stuff.
Is she tight?
@@labrat5262 I meant right but yes, turned out she was tight as well.
As always your voice and comments commands respect and absolute attention .👍
I'm def a Dandy with a mix of Dashing. I like mixing unusual colors and I wear vintage wristwatches and vintage sunglasses in my outfits... I just can't do hats in general though.
Hugo does not have a "hat head" as well...so great you can unleash yourself and enjoy expressing who you are through your clothing. ~Sonya
I'd like to see her use photos of men wearing sneakers to describe how to use various types of pants like light blue, dark blue, grey, light brown, dark brown, white, burgundy, olive, denim, joggers paired with various shirt types, and extremely importantly, how to make decisions related to complimentary colours, analogous colours, triadic, earth tones, pastel, monochrome, textures, patterns vs. solids. I'm 35 and I'm fairly advanced, but I need extremely accurate and precise information about how to extend into the next levels of sneaker expression. As an example, I'd love to hear her talk about Nike Blazer Low GT, Nike Blazer Mid, Nike Air Max 90, and Nike Air Jordan 4... I consider those shoe silhouettes to be art pieces, and they are in my opinion fabulous starting points for some outfits, but I'm not sure how to decide if I want to aim for 2, 3 or 4 colours, and where, because splashes of colour in the watch, belt, socks, hats. My hair is blond, so I want her to talk about hair colour as well. I hope my "request" is sartorial-grade. Any videos over time will be much appreciated. I would love her to take a deep dive into those above mentioned shoe models and figure out what makes them tick for the female mind.
You presented excellent categories to help men find their own styles. Thank you.
Hey Sam---thanks so much !! Sonya
Also your videos are a must see for young men focused on building our image and understanding who we really are and Will be once again in Black America.
I have a real appreciation for your comment. Thank you so much. ~Sonya
Would be very interesting to have the same conversation again today after the pandemic/working from home has driven forward a 'dress down' culture.
Very good point ! Sonya
in a very professional way, as a fashion lover and photographer, I cant stop listening to you and taking my eyes off you.. Very well spoken and great information relayed over. Thank you so much. I'm learning quite a bit. Keep up the videos please.
Hi PPM, You message fuels me to push further and do better. Thank you so much. Cheers from Bourgogne! ~Sonya
SARTORIAL TALKS thank you ! Michael
Thank you for telling us the numbers who took part in the survey.
A fellow "analytical". Nice to have you here and thank you for your reply. Cheers! ~Sonya
As every painter has his own palette of colors even though he uses the same basic colors as other painters. So your "basic colors" that you present here Hugo and Sonya, are really interesting and original! Thanks for the great podcast!
You're welcome and lovely comment which is much appreciated. Sonya
Well done Sonya. Original content, great presentation, very impressive!
Really appreciate this kind reply, Dan ! Sonya
What a brilliant and beautiful woman. Spot on! ... I have been saying the very same things for few years now. I would add to that: Work on refining your persona and make sure that your personality is even better. That would simply be: unique brilliance!
Very kind, and thank you for the reminder to keep it in perspective. I agree with you, the type of person you are outweighs 'what you wear' for sure, yet the combination of doing both in a thoughtful way can create a sort of unique brilliance, indeed. Cheers! ~Sonya
My daughter is 5 and I've already told her if a young man asks her on a date and is wearing tracksuit bottoms, to walk away 😂 setting the bar high now.
Ps she can date at 30 😜
Hahaha, I'm sure she'll remember this ! Cheers, Hugo
@Armando Sturzenegger calm down.
At 30 ? Sounds overly possessive of your daughter
Omg 🤣😆🤣😆😆You sounds like mom and I am 24. She is crazy like you.
lol you should be careful of doing that, kids doing the opposite of what you say :)
Sonya seems like a lovely lady and it was so pleasant to hear her talk.
I don't fit in into any of the categories. I'm definitely very casual but deliberate in the way I dress. I guess I just charm the ladies with my vibrant personality because it can't be my clothes.
I feel like little bit of all these on occasion. Great breakdown!
Thank you, Jay. Why not embrace variety in this way? Cheers! ~Sonya
I try to avoid wearing business suits daily through fear of misrepresenting myself but whenever I’ve worn a tie say a shantung with a denim shirt it seems to signal to women that I have a desire to appear elegantly and they seem to respond to this with favourable looks and makes some of them appear to be safer as to what my personality is! They let you in just a little bit more!
Beautiful gestures; I hope you continue. Cheers from Bourgogne, ~Sonya
Thank You for sharing your knowledge. Greatly appreciated. Enjoyed the music and back ground blended smoothly with the conversation.
I appreciate your reply and am happy to know you have an appreciation for the (original) soundtrack composition by Justin Melland just for ST. Cheers to you! ~Sonya
Beautiful video, and I love the beautiful insights.
I never knew men's clothes meant THAT much to women. "The More You Know.."
I was wondering which archetype the very dressy glam/Savile Row rockers like Bryan Ferry, Paul Weller, or Robert Palmer, Marvin Gaye, would be considered, more a Futuristic or a Panache?
Thank you very much for your feedback. I would say more "futuristic" to the latter, if only for functional purposes (with the occasional dandy moment). Cheers! ~Sonya
Loved the insights, especially with the nod towards psychology. As a photographer, colour theory is something that always fascinates me and where you mention red, I agree 100%. It's the same reason that red lipstick is popular in women, or you see lots of reds in flamenco dresses to really bring out the passion! Rich colours in general work well I think (golds, browns, orange, the colours of autumn for that 'snuggle by the fireplace' feeling) and are, perhaps, a subject for a whole video or book of their own!
Great episode! Loved it!
Now I am inspired to try a splash of more color and see what happens. Thank you--and the red in your thumbnail does relay a nice energy, so bravo! ~Sonya
well done, at first i cringed at the title, then I watched
You made me laugh for sure; thank you for noting your approval. Cheers! ~Sonya
Haha. “Geek suave”. Digging this. Thank you and Hugo for sharing. Great media and tips for us geek/pragmatic guys
Glad you liked, ha---I think your style could even be defined as a culture ! ~Sonya Glyn
I’m only on the second archetype and all I’ve got to say is tear it *ALL* up and give me the *RISK*. I want to feel the creativity flowing on the edge of madness. While everyone else is wearing blue give me RED. A thought is that this may be a part of the composition that brings me the mysterious crowd I’m looking for..
Then I hope you go for this approach---the artist's way...superb! ~Sonya
Excellent, I'm new to the channel and I like this video
I'm so glad to read this. Thank you ! ~Sonya Glyn
Thanks for the insights Sonya. Was hooked hearing Carl Jung mentioned 1 minute in.
I'm glad you replied David and we will try to add more outside references of this genre in the future. Cheers! ~Sonya
Because of Jordan Peterson?
I love the intro to these videos!
Thank you Sonya, I had to watch this video twice, if only to hear and see you talk but also to get a better idea of who I am and who I would like to be. Simply beautiful video.
Because of your kind message, I can tell you that I was nervous about making this talk, but a sincere spirit apparently came through, and now I'm happy to read your perceptions--and glad you took the time to write. Cheers! ~Sonya
Good day Mr Jacomet and Ms Nicholson. I can't recall how I've come across your videos but it has been extremely educational. Such a different way to view men's clothing in this fast fashion, throw away culture. If possible I would appreciate your opinion and advice.
I live in a warm climate which makes dressing well difficult from a practical perspective. Added to this is that the standard manner of men's dressing here (South Africa) is extremely casual. When one aims to dress well one is perceived as trying too hard, you certainly stand out from the crowd.
There are many who dress well, but sadly sacrifice so much to do so. Many go into debt to acquire good clothes .
Many guys come across as focusing solely on clothes and appearance. Which is why some guys don't aim to dress well as they do not want to appear vain/proud(sadly that was my perspective).
What I appreciate about your channel and approach is that vanity and pride do not come across at all.
What are your best suggestions for dressing well in warm climates?
What would be a good start for a young man aiming to dress better? It would be great to afford the best but that is beyond many budgets.
Grateful for your work and long may it continue.
God bless
Look at what works in Miami
A high twist open weave summer blazer could change a person's life for the better in a warm climate ! God bless you and sorry the the very late reply. Yours, Sonya and Hugo
Most men that I know who happen to have a deep knowledge of gentlemen's clothing style(s) simply do not care what women think of our dress code(s) and associated archetype(s). We wear our clothing for our own personal enjoyment. If, as an ancillary resulting effect, my dressing style communicates that I am unapproachable, then it is excellent that poaching women stay clear. Such an outcome translates into clarity and prevents any misunderstandings which in the current social climate is tantamount. Should I see a woman that I happened to be interested in, she would know and understand in perfect time...
Thanks so much Sonya for the amazing way you continue teach and share from a womans point of view on mens fashion. I continue to learn alot from your video and look forward to the next one. Have a great day.
Mike
This message means a lot, and I appreciate the time you took to say you learn from our talks, and will continue to listen. ~Sonya
That red-polo finding was a big surprise. Must ditch those pastels!
Good video.
I would suggest that you do an episode or series on each archetype. I especially would like to see the circa 1800’s and dandy unpackaged a bit more. Great video!
Now I can tell you, this video was difficult to do, as coming across as an authority on the matter didn't seem possible---but Hugo insisted. I will reflect on your suggestion and a heartfelt thanks for the encouragement! ~Sonya
@The Vest Practice Yes AND I am curious about your vests as well. We recently recorded an episode on waistcoats, but I would really like to understand the story on the knit vest too. Thank you for your support here and on Patreon! ~Sonya
Thanks for the video Sonya. Very informative and interesting. Your delivery and presence are almost hypnotic for me... really enjoyed listening and watching you talking...too bad there aren't videos of you and Hugo coming out more frequently...but the quality of the ones you put out are of the highest I've seen on the internet. Thanks again!
Hi Sean, Among other things, we do a small talk show for our Patrons on our Patreon site, which is helping us increase productions. But most of all, thank you for all this encouragement---without it our job would be MUCH less fulfilling.
Cheers! ~Sonya
Yet another great video Sonya. Love Hugo’s shoe recommendations as well.
So glad you replied! ~Sonya
Such great advice and wisdom bringing clarity on what persona someone would like to portray. It’s always a pleasure to learn from you and Hugo. Thank you very much and God bless
You are really generous. Thank you for your specific reply. God bless you! ~Sonya
Absolutely fascinating! Where have you and Hugo been all my life? I so look forward to all your videos.
Wow thank you !! ~Sonya
This is so good, love to you guys from Chicago
Wow, that Carl Jung was ahead of his time with these 7 stereotypes, pardon me archetypes. Had he been a woman, he might have simplified it to three types: sunglasses men, after-shave men and whiskey men. When Sonya said that Hugo might be more of a "minimalist", I thought that actually he has too much "dandy" for minimalist. On a levels. I mean, "a gentleman never wears brown" and shoes have to be a shade darker than the suit. And outside the countryside we don't wear green. The minimalist - 50 shades of dark blue, white shirts, a red accent and black Oxford shoes.
A milion dollars advice, I'm putting a smile on my face, no more pocker face, I love this channel, so helpful and informative, keep it up.
Wonderful video that was very well delivered.
Another great video. Thanks.
Thank you so much for watching! ~Sonya
I like dressing in 19th century clothing... my style is on par with Wild Bill Hickok and Doc Holliday
Edwardian/Western Victorian is pretty greart. I'm a big fan too, always wear suspenders and waistcoat.
I think, it is hard to say how important clothes are during that moment when a man meets a woman for the first time. I would say, take care of yourself and your clothes. Wear something, that makes your comfortable and reflects who you are and what is important to you.
I wore a suit, a blue shirt and black shoes, when I met my girlfriend for the first time. I still do from time to time, but mostly I wear a suit when I go to a museum, go shopping or sit in a coffee shop alone. I am 6‘4“ and slander and wear dark blue suit, blue shirt and black shoes. I would just say: keep it simple.
Thank You Sonya, it was an excellent and such an engaging video.pleasure listening to you and Hugo as always.
Adore the encouragement; thank you so much. ~Sonya
6:18 The Pragmatic
8:09 The Minimalist
9:18 The Dashing Man
10:54 The Circa 1800
12:52 Countryside Elegant
14:15 Futuristic
15:53 The Panache / The Dandy
Every time I watch these I'm inspired to collect my true taste
...which translates into inspiring us to keep going. Much appreciated. ~S
Really interesting! And breezily entertaining. Tank you.
I'm grateful for your dashing man recommendation, thank you Sonya!
Thank you Sonia, this presentation is very informative!
Thanks for your reply Luvensky ! Sonya
+SAPTORIAL TALKS - Sonya and Hugo, you two make an awesome/dynamic couple. Brilliant subject with examples, indeed! 'Thank You' much for all that you both present in life with style. Blessings to you both!
~ Benjamin G. / NYC, USA
God bless you Benjamin -- you encourage us and we are thankful. Hugo and Sonya
Great content and very nicely delivered Sonya!
Thank you very much, John. ~Sonya
Thanks A lot ST 🇭🇹!!!
TD nan kay la🙌🏽 !!!
Cheers from Bourgogne! ~Sonya
The second she said archetype you know she likes Carl jung
Busted...I guess...He just helped me get started with this one. Cheers from Bourgogne. ~ Sonya
Very nice video, it will help many people to find a style that suits. thank you, it is helping me!
I'm glad Israel, and really appreciate you saying so. Cheers!. ~Sonya
How dare they not love me for my inner self!! At least that’s the crap I’ve heard from women my entire life. See, it goes both ways.
Bikinis look good because men like to see skin. Suits look good because women like to see symbols of wealth and status. Women will make up a bunch of shit about how it makes a man look “put together” or “highlights the body”, but we know what how really is.
@MullyShaves the duplicity of women I'm not surprised you end up being a cat lady
Very well explained the „problem“ the dashing man has, unfortunately I’m speaking by experience!
But also this goes both ways, I more often than I like subconsciously seek women who match this „archetype“ and overlook other women’s companionship.
Hi FG,
I find your comment to be intriguing and haven't considered like attracting like, in this category. Thank you for your reply and for triggering new thought! ~Sonya
The Circa 1800 seems to be inline with who I am - approachable and cerebral. But I just can't imagine myself dressing like this in the office. And a fob watch, lol... 1800's indeed. Although I do like the Vass Oxfords, but they're out of stock.
This was a great video; has given me a lot to think about in terms of my personal style and brand.
Such a wise, beautiful and elegant woman! Great video!
Very generous, thank you so much, Hermes ! ~Sonya
In my experience, I can be all these types mentioned depending on my mood.
Versatility is a great characteristic. Cheers ! Sonya
This is such an open ended subject, but very helpful.
Indeed, yet I'm glad your happy. ~Sonya
@@SARTORIALTALKS always enjoy sartorial talks.
The pearls of wisdom that comes out at 17:50 must be the first 'guideline' everything else is trivial and dare say superficial without that 'inner self relaying itself'. Here is my take on what I would like my daughter to assess a man on 1. Clarity of purpose in life. 2. Natural confidence that comes off of 1(never comes off brash or arrogant and always grounded). 3. Personal grooming 4. Body language- fidgety or steady poise and posture(body reflects the mind, mind reflects the body). 5. Dressing appropriate to the occasion. The beauty of the list is it is genderless. Same goes for what a man should look for in a woman. To add on 5, I cringe at men trying hard to imitate the English gentleman in sweltering 40+ degree C in Indian weather. Buffoons in uniforms that have sold their identity. So being sharp is a relative thing based on time, place and occasion.
This is a very reflective response and I enjoyed reading it very much. Hope to hear more from you in the comment section. Cheers ! ~Sonya Glyn
I’m definitely the circa 1800 style. I’m also little bit into country elegant style....love both, but my personality is definitely more to “circa 1800”. I also loved the recommended button shoe at the end , and would say that this boot is for circa 1800 style ideal as well. The next pair of shoes I want to buy.
Thank you T for sharing your thoughts. Hugo & Sonya
@@SARTORIALTALKS Merci de votre réponse! The problem is that even now it’s quite difficult to buy high quality secondhand clothes in Prague. There is just one vintage secondhand for men. It’s possible to order things from eBay or Etsy. The big problem, is that because of brexit and no agreement between the UK and Europe I will have to pay a tax and duty for every piece of clothes for more than 22 euros I order there from the 2nd February. So it’s gonna be even more difficult to buy sartorial clothes in quality I want. And I really hate it.
@@vonvildenschwert3045 Regret for your difficulties ! This is (fairly) new information for us which we will need to check into--just in case you have a link with the specifics about duties and taxes between UK and Europe, it would be nice to have the latest. Thank you for your remarks! ~Sonya & Hugo
@@SARTORIALTALKS Merci!. Firstly i want to say I didn’t realized that you answered me at both of my comments that I wrote at your videos, so it now looks that I wanted to complain from nothing even though I just wanted to write something more about buying vintage clothes at your second video about biggest faults which I commented :-D. Unfortunately I didn’t find any article with conditions dedicated to this issue but what I know, the Uk should be considered as every out EU and Schengen area country. That means you will have to pay a value added tax in hight which is in your country/region plus duty that should be around 10-12 percent. But I don’t know exactly. In every case it makes everything much more complicated and expensive.
Thoroughly enjoyed this one.
I am so glad you wrote. Thank you! ~Sonya
This is the number 1 question for men on most anything.
You're probably right 😁
As Sonya described mulitple personas, I literally thought about some of my friends lol.
I'm 2 with a bit of 3. Not a fan of too many/flashy accessories. But there is a lot of thought that goes into my socks, pocket square, belt, watch, and shoes. I like to think about what I am going to wear the day before, and lay it out. During the evening, I will make many changes.
I've driven home to change...my watch. Is that bad?? If I am out all day, I carry evening wear in the trunk of the car plus shoes with matching belt, a different blazer, but the pants can stay. I also carry a neutral pant and shirt in case something bad happens, like a spill.
You do sound like a minimalist at heart. Thank you for your reply. ~Sonya
I think most men. Like me myself have aspects of some or all of these archetypes.
In a lot of cases, I think you are right, but I do see some purists from time to time. Cheers! ~Sonya
Damn! Like all them tbh. My favourites are futuristic and Dandy.
Great video. Where or how can I find inspiration and examples of how to dress the pragmatic and minimalist way? I am drawn to these styles, but I've no idea of how to begin.
Hi Melvin, welcome and I hope you will find Hugo's video on "buying your first suit". It has been a great success so far, and you may find it of interest. Cheers! ~Sonya Glyn
So I'm somewhere between dashing and futuristic, but mostly futuristic. I think both can be heavily casual (mostly the futuristic).
Very well presented... and a unique perspective. Thanks for sharing!
Thank you for your reply! ~S
Minimalist for sure. Sonya! Hugo! Can you do a video on shirts!? Like the video series you did for the best shoe brands or something? Teach us how to find the right shirt, please!
I will try to remind Hugo to do this--good suggestion! ~S