Answering your assumptions about me & exposing my secrets
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- Опубликовано: 5 май 2022
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I've seen a lot of people on social media talk about how unrealistic the relationship is in Heartstoppers. Of course it is and so are 90% of all hetero romance/rom coms and dramas. It's a feel good tv series, that depicts a healthy, happy growing relationship between to two high schoolers, it doesn't need to be "realistic". Enjoy it, because it helps set the precedent and pave the way for more movies and tv shows with LGBTQ+ couples with happy endings and we all know growing up that shows like this HELP A LOT of us! Growing up as a millennial, we had very few representation in the media and even then, they were usually caricatures of our most used stereotypes. Shout out to 'Buffy the Vampire Slayer' for making Willow and Tara such an iconic gay couple. We won't even mention what or rather the lack of what Boomers had back in their days, I can only imagine. It's funny because so many people talk about how we have too few choices when it comes to gay stories with happy endings and then when we finally get some, they say they're unrealistic and unrelatable. Even if you can't relate to it personally, It is an incredibly cutesy and heartwarming series.
Agree 💯
I loved it❤️
Completely agree and well said. Being realistic is simply not the point of the programme.
because of the gay films and series i watched before, i was slightly on my guard if Heartstopper was gonna do a twist like Charlie's dad dies, Ben outs them, Nick is just playing him... 😅. I like how Heartstopper is just a straight forward show
As a Boomer a series like Heartstopper is just too unrealistic and outright hogwash. At that age sex is predominate yet these two characters bump kiss and gaze at flying birds over their heads. There is no hint of real intimacy. Ridiculous - lying to the viewer in this way creates a viewer who will never find real happiness because any relationship they ever have will never stand up to the twinkling stars and blue-birds they have been conned into believing should hover and flutter with every boy they meet. That isn't gay life, it is a gay rainbow fantasy. Again, ridiculous.
Heart stopper is amazing. Totally different from Elite. It is family friendly but will put tears in your eyes often.
hi, i'm not from the US. where can i watch it for free?
@@paige172 Netflix
I appreciate you for appreciating us bears and chubby guys. People usually make fun of us and treat us badly. I have found a couple guys like you who I didn’t believe at first till they actually hit on me.
I think you are a genuine person and kind hearted ❤
I would like to check out your only fans if it’s juicy. A lot of you tubers just do teaser butt pics no frontal etc. then want you to pay extra for anything good. How is yours?
I love how Chris is soo confident in this video, this is literally the first video I’ve seen him talk soo much 😂😂 and have red-bull energy
I can totally relate about the high school thing, it was completely uneventful for me, I didn't start dating until after I graduated and even now I don't have much going on
What you mentioned about high school is sometimes called delayed adolescence in the queer community, there is also a term for second adolescence for when you come out/figure things out and finally have those experiences that most people have in their teen years, it really messes you up sometimes, there are actual studies that suggest homosexuals who were openly gay in their school years are better adjusted as adults.
When you mentioned that I FELT SEEN, I'm 24 and I still have't lived some basic aspects of my sexuality because I live in a rural and conservative area, I also have some trauma from my first relationship and sexual assault later one, plus body image issues because I'm chubby.
I'm gonna cry in a corner bye.
💀
High school for me was endless terror, fear, humiliation.
At 55, I still remember the trauma.
Cuddle buddy or cuddle bunny?? Eother way that is a highly desired trait in my book. You cannot be clingy and cuddly enough in my book. That just ramps my kudos to you!!
Every time I watch one of your videos it puts me in a good mood. You're adorable and have such a pleasant voice to listen to. And you have that certain sparkle which is so appealing.
You gotta watch Heartstopper. It's such a cute depiction of what we all wished we had in high school. LGBTQ media needs to be more positive and uplifting instead of negative.
When I was dating, my guy payed for a lot of things, but he has a better job than I do. So, I got a better job, and now I pay for many things. Buying things gives you some pride and control, more than if one partner is buying everything.
I wished i had that as well. But thats why it slightly makes me salty to watch it now but i probably will
@@StanChris let us know what you think if you watch!
@@StanChris it made me salty too lol. Was it a cute good show? yes it was lol. But it’s also frustrating because it’s very unrealistic lol. Not hating on it. Just saying prepare yourself to be annoyed haha
Too much cuddling is a problem I’m ready for.
I’m 74yo, and had a bf starting my junior year of hs. That’s right, 1964. We kept it on the down low but it lasted three years.
OMG, you’re a champion cuddle buddy?!? I love that. And the thing about not being able to relate with high school gay TV, totally. Although I love the hope and positive outlook, and I think all the positive gays on tv and in film have really helped people of all politics and beliefs become for comfortable with us. So even though I personally can’t relate exactly, I applaud those being made.
You’re a great guy!! Agree with Jay Mason, very kind hearted!!
Thanks man!
I think it's awesome that a beautiful adorable shy guy like you likes us bigger shy guys.
It's hard to say much about heartstopper without spoiling but I guess what I would say is that yeah, it's a feel-good love story on the surface. If you're looking for that then you'll find it, but if you're looking for more complex issues about LGBTQ+ identity and mental health then you'll find that too. The author herself said in interviews that she wanted to address those issues without compromising the positive representation of LGBTQ+ people that the show was meant to foster. Plus first seasons always kind of skim the surface - that's why I'm hoping they'll get a second one to further address the complexities of these characters.
I agree with you about the high school experience there’s defiantly similarities between both our experiences
High school was an eye opener for most ppl I think
You can NEVER have enough cuddles! I LOVE to cuddle, but by boyfriend doesn't. One, my torso gets super warm, but my hands and feet get cold lol. However, he really hates it because whenever we do, he falls asleep. No matter how wired he is. I've always done that to people. They always pass out. You NEED to watch "HeartStopper"!!!! I was worse than you in school. But the show is SUPER worth it!!!!
I love the way you say "out" like Canadians.
I always look forward to your videos. This one did not disappoint.
I seem to be away from my phone or laptop at the wrong time on Friday's...gotta fix that...because I like when UTubers have a consistent schedule...any way my brain is functioning today...and...you did not disappoint...particularly like the "Professional Cuddler" and "Secret Boyfriend" parts...You do seem more comfortable in front of the camera...your energy level - to me - adds drive that keeps me interested for what's coming! Peace-Love, Young man! You are a gem...💎
If you’re ever in Houston, TX, I’d love to show you our great city.
StanChris... from what can tell by your videos, you are generally compassionate, kind and gentle. Bottom line, I think you are equipped/gifted to somehow help a LOT of people in this world. I don't 'know', but that's what I sense overall. Stay safe/well man. 🙂✌
Stanchris you are so
Real! Love watching your videos! Wish you the very best!
I had boyfriends that would get sick of me for wanting to cuddle too much so I get that lmao
Killing it as always chris.
You are more relaxed, confident, upbeat and in charge in this one!
I don‘t know why but Heartstopper triggered me a little bit. I was always like „ochhh come on that would never happen in reality“ 😂
Really liked this one Chris ♥️🙂
I’ve heard lots of folks got jealous after watching heartstoppers because it was soo not their own experience. Made some of them sad because they missed out on the experience of dating and whatnot in hs.
yes this
Totally agree with you on guys that are hot. My boyfriend is a little chubby. I have a couple friends who have actually asked me why I am with him and not someone who weighs less. First of all...rude! Second, because he is kind, thoughtful, and so attractive that I can't get enough of him (and he knows everything there is to know about Star Wars, Star Trek and the Marvel super hero movies!). Some gay guys are so focused on the generic lean athletic body types, they miss out on great guys.
I like your vibe and sense of humor…
Hey Chris new subscriber but I've watched you a lot on Tiktok and I love your videos. I love that you have a RUclips channel with some great content and I am looking forward to watching it. I'm a bear and it's so nice to see guys like you out there that like bears, since I feel like it's harder to find someone as open minded as you. Thanks for being you. :)
Duuuude, rain and thunder is my all time vibe.
Heartstopper is a MUST watch!
Your not too shy. I think that you would be an awesome vers guy. Silver Daddies. Don’t doubt yourself. Enjoy who you are and what you like. PS don’t worry about what others think or want it’s your life. Your honest and a great talker. Love listening to your blogs.
Yeah, WE KNEW!! 😂😂😂 Love ya Chris ❤️
Gawd Heart stopper. I watched it in hopes of a light and happy kind of brainless show and it turned out to make me even more depressed so yeah I'm with you on that
Heartstoppers is really good, like you said about how beleiveble it really is, it isn't. I'm graduating high school on monday and it was nothing like how it is on the show no matter how much I wish it was.
I knew you were Italian 🇮🇹 😵😵because the videos your mother was in she gave me a vibe and she has that Italian accent when she says certain words♥️♥️♥️
Thanks for answering my question. You are awesome
You had me at professional cuddler….I could take that and run with it! ❤️
You could always watch QaF, Skins (UK season 1 & 2), and Kaboom, Undressed; and avoid Degrassi: the Next Generation
Like who you like!!!! Love that you are open and honest about who you like!
Great video Chris! I agree with the comment below. I think you are a genuine person and kind hearted.
Thanks man!
Damn, you're sooooo very special!! ❤️
watch the hands. he’s clearly italian
Heartstoppers is the best love it and this is the third video I'm staying here love ur videos
“I think heartstopper I bet is probably good but I just don’t want to watch it” my guy you are missing out
Caught creeping at the HD lol I really live this kid 😍 He is really funny, and makes allot of sense at the same time 👍 As long as you are little spoon when cuddling, we are all good 😌
Wow that was great Chris. Glad someone like bears.
Really like ur videos. Will follow u now. Keep happy!
I love your blue frame for glasses. I found something close, but where did you get those frames???
zenni.com!
love weather like this ...yes great cuddle time
Good one Chris!
Yep, after seeing this, you’re definitely paying for our future dates 😂😉
And now I’m determined to get you to watch Heartstopper.
😂😂
Heartstopper's story is way better than Young Royals story.
Wish you would come to CA!
I don't remember subscribing to this channel but this was a cool vid. 😎
You really watch it. It’s really good.
I'm still here for you ❤
Cuddling rules!
The only assumption I make is you are gorgeous.
Thank you for liking 🐻!
cuddling = a+ let's go
I totally agree that jeans are not comfy, you have great taste in clothes, also I think it is great you have a unique taste in boys and not what a lot of people think, I think it is a unique trade which makes you attractive. I also find it cool how you calmly reply to all the comments.
Come to PTown this summer. Cape Cod is an awesome opportunity to be your true self and enjoy just meeting folks for who they are without any pretentious BS. Bring Calvin too as it will make an awesome video to get his awesome feedback on who should be hooking up with his Chris. You’ve got a free place here and a sponsor who wants the best for a fellow New Hampshire native. We Stan…
Ptown rocks. Will be there July 4th weekend
I would be so honored and humbled to meet you in person
Ah bless ya. You are adorable. Silver daddy bear here. Wish you the best out there.
Cuddle Buddy #1 needed :) time to Book You for the secret List
I love that you love 🐻!!!!!!
Chris. Keep up the good work. You are an inspiration to many. If you ever need a place to crash in Mass... :)
The only assumption is : you're out of my league why do I even bother lol
Hard to believe you don’t have a BF, you are so nice.
As a fat guy, not chubby I'm FAT, I HATE when fat guys will tell a chaser "I don't believe you, you have to prove it" its so dumb and rude.
About missing out in high-school. I not only missed out on that time but also my entire 20's, 30's and 40's.
But in my 50's I'm making up for lost time. With twinks in their 20's. Whe I've had my fill , I'll move on to guys in their 30's. And on up. So I won't feel like I totally missed out.
I'm still here for you though!!!
Where's my beer?
Where's my bear?
No such thing as too much cuddling 😉
Chris, Have you watched Heartstopper?
i mention that in the video actually
Beast did you watch the video?…😂
@@j_squared5ever543 Yup! Chris is not a player with sentimental high school twink fairy tales. I bet he'd change his tune if he got tackled by one of those rugby dudes! I remember sparks flying when I first touched a boy. It's real!
This Daddy bear from Dallas has always liked you. We even talked briefly about how a long distance thing could work via email. A good while back. Come to Dallas, and I will pay for everything. hahahaha Liked the video Chris. Stay well, PEACE! lol
As someone who's both read, and watched Heartstopper, I can say that it makes you feel *incredibly* single at some points.
Agree bout the highschool experience. Lol.
I'm 25. Still haven't been in a relationship, I've tried but guys either just want hook ups or end up ghosting you
Haven't watched you for a while. This is a good one and you're looking great, especially your skin . . . and your hands. (No fetish involved.) I've finally gone off most gay films, but I"m 85 and have seen an awful lot of them. Prefer the Scandinavian ones usually. . . or the British.
You are good at the tease with the commits. You keep us wounding what you really meant. This teddy bare would love the cuddle
wait i have a question. so like i remember years ago you used to have this remix of Boys by Charlie XCX as your intro, did you just make that segment or does that have a full version cause if it does i need to see it please
Chris has nice fingers they are amazing
A champion cuddler? Seufz 😍
Got your covered in KC
I think the word you're looking for is "reticent" - not shy or insecure.
I believe 🙂
I absolutely LOVE your hoodie... so adorably snuggly, you cute cuddle pup! 😍
Heartstopper is incredibly cute but highly unrealistic - for example, in English secondary grammar schools such as is the setting, as far as I can tell Nick & Charlie are separated a year apart, educationally...
16yo Nick is at least what used to be called 5th form, now known as Year 11, US Sophomore; maybe even Lower or Upper 6th/Year12-13/US Junior or Senior, if he's supposed to be 17 (maybe) or 18 (don't think so) years old.
14-15yo [as one episode makes 100% clear] Charlie is 4th form/Year 10/US Freshman.
As such, they would never be in the same classes unless Charlie was exceptionally academically advanced OR Nick was set back, retaking previous academic years, in which case he definitely wouldn't be captain of the school rugby team.
Regardless of any of the above, they would never be in the same "form group", not even just for daily "registration": just doesn't happen. Ever!
The closest you might get would be if they were both living in the same 'house' at a boarding school (think along similar lines of segregated dormitories for Griffindor etc. as in Harry Potter)
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I went to Home Depot today and purchased a new mower and did not see anything "usual". Except a dang 2x4 is now $7.22 each. Maybe NC is different.
Yay he likes bears! :)
I totally understand where you are coming from on Heartstoppers, but give it a try you actually might like it.
I like them
Nice glasses. You're adorable 🥰
chris if u come to neighboring massachusetts for pride month at all i’ll be singing for my local one and taunton too…come see and say hi 😁