Getting a "professional" massage (GONE WRONG)
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- Опубликовано: 26 июн 2024
- Storytime about that not so professional "professional" massage I got in Wilton Manors Florida
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I love massages, of all types. It’s too bad that sexual massages are illegal. Being up front about the services you’re getting would eliminate the awkward situations like this - both for client & therapist.
They are? Ooops…
You just need to find the interests of the right guy I own a massage table but am not professionally train. I help out some friend and Family. I have been invited to come to a frat house because most girl just don't have the strength to get the muscles to relax and some hot guys I have offered to give a massage. It is only illegal if money changes hands.
@@JCinLapel Different countries, provinces, states, and cities have their own rules concerning unlicensed massage therapy and what's illegal and/or criminal.
@@ewellford I do not claim to be a massage therapist. The state I am in is nudity and compensation before or after is prostitution.
@@Galaxie500IN Only when they're commercial sex (money changes hands)
I know a few people that have received massages like that. I've just had the regular ones myself. I think I would have felt uncomfortable as well since I'm not a fan of strangers touching me in any situation. My favorite massages are the ones I get at the chiropractor. They pick really good people that do a great professional job.
It's like a haircut: the more you communicate before it starts the more at ease you'll be at the conclusion. As you describe the event it doesn't sound that far off the charts. Massage is a spectrum.
I've never had a massage before. I've even been given gift certificates for a massage, and then never used them. Since you were in a gay or gay-friendly area, at a gay-friendly resort, going for a massage and asking for a male (masseur) to do the massage, there may have been an assumption that you wanted a little more than a standard, professional massage. Well, at least he didn't do the whole happy ending thing without asking.
If you are in a gay area you really don't have to ask for a male masseur its automatic. Its ok just say no thanks...no big deal :)
It is called a happy ending !!
Of course the guy thought you were cute. That's because you ARE cute.
I too love all gay places. It’s the only place where I feel I can be myself completely and without hesitation. I still struggle with accepting myself 100%. I’m trying. That’s why I love hearing you @StanChris and others. It helps me. Thank you.
I agree
4:15 "he's clearly shown what he's capable of" 😂
😂😂😂😂
Not with that lil angry inch.
I’ve gotten tons of massages and even went to massage school and I’ve never had anyone do anything inappropriate except one time this small Asian lady pulled my towel off and did my whole massage while I was completely naked but I never got the vibe that she was trying to check me out or was trying to get me to pay for “extras” it felt more like she just didn’t care about nudity and found sheets and towels as a inconvenience. Being naked in front of people has never bothered me so it was no big deal but I know a lot of people would have been super uncomfortable. Just gotta find a therapist that you like and stick with them. Most of my friends just use me lol.
LOL women can be pervs too
In California pretty much everywhere people don’t care if you’re gay. EXCEPT don’t assume everywhere. If you’re in somewhere like Barstow or Stockton or anywhere except along the coast it’s best to apply caution.
JUST FABULOUS!! I NEEDED THAT LITTLE STORY..STAY HAPPY!!
Surprise at how uncomfortable you were but said nothing, I would have immediately spoken up. I also remember other situations that you have shared with us, your crazy first “boyfriend”, when you saw signs yet did not act. I think that you have good judgment, I like you, please speak up in all situations so that you will always be respected and people will treat you with the respect that you deserve. Is your body and only you decide what is ok, if not sure, say NO. Thank you for sharing. Be strong and speak up!
Got a professional massage one time with no sexual overtones from the guy giving it whatsoever. He didn't touch or brush up against me in any inappropriate manner. I did get an erection under my towel. Wasn't looking for anything more to happen and neither was he. Just was an embarrassment for me. 😬
Hi, Travis!
Don't be embarrassed it's a physiological thing all men gay or straight gets an erection while getting a massage without matter if man or woman is giving the massage. It really doesn't mean you want sex, its like morning wood, doesn't mean you want sex, (well for most guys).
So, go on and pay it no additional attention. Also it means you are human and alive.
THATS Actually a True Compliment when you get a hard on that means he's really a great massage!! Hey nothing to be embarrassed about it happens every day and night. 👍👍⭐⭐⭐⭐⭐
The first time i had a massage was in south india. It was an ayurvedic massage. Two men did it, one on the left side and one on the right. This went on for 20 or 30 minutes. After which i was so loose i could hardly stand let alone walk. No happy ending, but an incredible massage.
What did you 😳 expect I mean after all YOU WERE 😂 a gay location 😂😂😂😂
😳😳😳😳wow so they you know 🍆💦you damn, I would immediately leave because I'm not gay. sheesh
I always get THE happy ending. It sooo good. If you don't like it just say no. Treat it like a regular offer, nothing to be a big deal, If he really likes you, he will include himself to that ending, if he doesn't he's just gonna help you out, it's all about money.
Same here
I actually agree, too! It should definitely be OPTIONAL and CONSENSUAL! Those who DON'T mind a happy ending...CERTAINLY are getting a better deal there, if you know what I mean. 😏
I had a guy ask me to give him a massage once and I agreed. At the end, he asked for the happy ending and I gladly gave him one!
@bdpilot28 Hehe! Yaaays! 😃 Tell me a little bit more. 😌
Wait! You ARE a guy, right?
@@mvillegasv8 My roommate was sore from playing basketball, so I gave him a massage. I guess he enjoyed it so much he wanted the ultimate relaxation Massage. I didn't mind at all! Yes, I am a guy.
I’d have been like “yep…I do” lol
lmaooo
Hilarious vlog. I live about 20 minutes Notth of Wilton Manors and I used to work at a cell store right outside of Wilton. I am straight but 100% support the LGBTQ community. Wilton is a fun little town where you can just be you without worrying of being judged. I have never had a professional massage.
can't wait for this lol.. ooohh hott anndd spicy. I love Happy endings. im sure you catch the drift right? hahaha
Wilson manor? Very gay? Uh hello that's theeeee gayest city in florida!!!!!
Making a mental note 🤩....gayest city Florida... Wilton manor... Wallah.. next flight to Florida Hun ...I'm packing by bags 😍
Key West bitches!!😄🌴💋
@@Simmasoppanam me too
No im sure gainsville still has wilson manor beat
@@markgrange7786 Not even close. Come to Wilton Manors/Fort Lauderdale young man.
Chris, I enjoy watching your video content. You are very natural in front of the camera. Cheers!
Wilton Manors is my back yard! I can tell you none of this surprises me lol 😂
A professional massage never gets sexual. My guess is you got a "massage parlor." Where sexual release is the norm. These are not professional massage offices.
must have been. Because i was assuming professional but nooo lol
I LOVE a massage! 😍 but never had an experience like that 😂
I love getting massages they are so relaxing. And depending on the guy i wouldn't mind the happy ending. If both are ok with it there is no problem. If he would start touching me wrong without asking, then we have a problem.
I've had them before, and it's relaxing and enjoyable, The place I go to is known for that kind of thing, but it's not advertised. It's an all-men's spa. Plus there rates a bit high, but you know what your paying for.
I have had the same experiences as you. I do not mind a happy ending either. It just adds to the overall feeling of being fully relaxed. It is a shame it is considered wrong. Let me know if you would like to share experiences - I could send you my email. Take care, David
@@maypoman2 sure what’s yours?
thats sexually harassement.
He will give you signals for you to prepare, if you are uncomfortable just tell him right away on his first move, so he can adjust, just don't make a scene, they want extra cash its not because you are special.
Interesting story! Thanks ☺️ StanChris!😍
How can I contact the masseur? i want to book him
The earliest I can get a professional massage is months! I need one now!
You remind me of a friend I was infatuated with back then.
I had massage in London UK it was so Relaxing I got a bit excited I was so embarrassed xx
Primo Leahy It's normal to become somewhat aroused during a massage session. Especially, if your new and not accustomed to someone stroking your thighs in a nonsexual manner. This also occurs periodically as your body becomes more and more relaxed. This also happens when you are sleeping. Your therapist should provide you with a towel or sheet upon your request. We're not mindreaders! You can also ask for a blanket if you get too cold.
That happened to me at a 5 star hotel in Beijing. I had a haircut and the lady asked me if I wanted a massage. It was only after she started that she raised the idea of a happy ending. It was so awkward!!
Same thing happened to me here in NYC and of all places on the UES. He didn't even ask just went for it LOL
That masseuse watching this video like 😳😳😳
This things never happen to me... 😭😅
You're so innocent. I love massages as well. They're actually good for your health.
Hi Chris,hope you have a great weekend 😊
Awwww..... you are so sweet and innocent (or at least good at pretending innocence!!) . You have so much to yet discovery about this big scary world. Thank you for taking up on your journey through life. I enjoy your video and your outlook on all that is happening in your life. Sending love and support from Canada!
I’ve had several massages, and many of them have ended interesting experiences. However, I refer to those as a massage gone right. I’m such a tramp. 🥴
As a Wilton Manors resident, yeah....sounds right....except for us older residents. Lol
Yes. I have had and like massages. I have even given them. Once in my home state, Arkansas, but not my hometown, sorry that remains privileged, I booked one with the intent to have a happy ending. I chose this particular place as it was recommended and was know to occur regularly. It didn't happen and we were disappointed.
Sorry that happened to you, Chris. I am a licensed massage therapist, and what your massage therapists did would definitely be grounds for them loosing their licenses.
Men are men these things happen and as gay men, we are still stuck in the days of liberal and unfiltered sex, especially in gay areas. Maybe things will change now that we legally can get married and show a little more restrain on freewheeling sex
@@pepsiq11965 Sounds like you think its ok when men get sexually harassed. Just stop. nothing about this is ok.
@@bleedinggreen2518 To continue my story. He went for it as I said and I quickly pushed his hand away got my ass up and left. I'm laughing because an adult male would remove himself immediately...he wasn't tied down. Let's get real here
@@bleedinggreen2518 This guy is making light of his own story, doesn't look traumatized. Your more upset than he is. Can't really trust these RUclipsrs
Professional, appropriate, moon rising, mood established vs. illegitimate advances implied and awkward moments when the masseuse goes farther than what you invested in. Could've been fun given the setting and who was involved....I have never exposed or subjected myself
So I live in south Florida and those places are everywhere. They used to be more obvious with completely dark windows and open until 4 am. Those are mostly gone now but what you described is everywhere.
So, it didn’t really go wrong. He asked, you said no, nothing happened. Your choice was respected. And the way you grin when you tell the story you clearly weren’t traumatized.
the “gone wrong” was me assuming it was going to be a normal massage. but yeah?
@@StanChris rightfully so. Its not ok for him to do that.
Wow this amazing Chris .
looking forward to tomorrow handsome Chris🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉
I have never had a professional massage. I have to do that one day.
humble bragging
You're the best 💖
I've been to several gay places in Florida, and my consistent experience is that people down there don't have any sense of boundaries. Several bars are very thinly veiled ho-houses, which is fine for those who want it, but the "waiters" were so aggressive, I spent the whole time tipping them to leave me alone. I was in Ft Lauderdale, Miami, and Key West at different times, and I can't say I'm rushing to return.
Mike! the waiters were hitting on you? or the bartenders? I live in Miami! And yes there are no bounder's and people here are very rude! I do not live as they do! I was raised respectfully in California and planning to go back! I have been here six years now! What a mistake!! This place Miami, they are making its own Cuba. I was sad to hear that Ft Lauderdale was on your list! On my way home to Cali! I was going to stop by there and check the city out! I was told it would be better to be there FTL and not Miami because I am white! I am sorry & I will say something when I am out and about visiting and will talk to the Bar Managers I know!
True experience: I was looking for a new hair Barber after my Barber retired after 30 yrs of patronage. People suggested I take a look at Hair Salons since Licensed Barbers are few and far. At one such Hair Salon I visited, it turned out to be a front for appointment scheduled men’s pleasure massage. The female hair stylist was aggressively fawning all over me and I was feel uncomfortable aa I didn’t understand what was going on until she started pressing her buxom chest onto my muscular shoulders and back. “Oh, you very handsome” she’d say. I told her, “Lady, all I want is a hair cut and nothing else”. She went so far as to accidentally drop her comb to the floor in front of me and then bend over showing me her tight backside suggestively. My Barber never did that.
I told this story to some ladies at a nearby Bakery and they all knew about it stating, “It’s funny how all the men enter through the Salon’s front door, but always leave by the back door”.
😂 back 🚪 door
I've never had a happy ending massage but a friend of mine has. It caught him off guard when they just reached in and went to town. He said he didn't know what to do but he was uncomfortable with it
❤️ stay kind
For butt massage the forearm must be used. If anyone touch you directly with the hands it is illegal. Also you can refuse for it before it starts.
I finally understand now what a full body massage is 😂😂😂 and I’m never getting one I love being the one in control: power bottom vibes over here 🙋♂️
I've had the same experience. But I've also booked massages where I wanted a "happy ending." But in that case it was an excellent massage an then it went to the good place WITH my consent. But understand I was nervous, it was at a massage therapists home studio. He does all types of massages, I knew what I asked for, he confirmed that was what I wanted-I did and off we go. I also got just plain massages from him an he was cool. We became friends and have kept in touch. So there are all types of massages an this was in West Hollywood - Gay Central in LA County. The masseur makes all the difference.
We love you chris , you're amazing
Aaaaand thats why I don't go for a massage while on vacation. Thank gawd for my str8 massage therapist back home 😉
I have had several massages and they were great. No complaints. I believe that a massage can be uncomfortable if that is how feel and should immediately say something to the therapist. But don't make an issue of it just get up, get dress and leave. This is how massage started out to be. Enjoy it!!!!!!!!
Maybe it wasn't part of the normal customer experience there, and maybe the guy was just coming onto you in his spare time? You're pretty cute, after all. But, yes, probably not very professional and maybe he'd have lost his job if you'd complained - or maybe you'd got the wrong vibes about the place? When I was younger, I once had a massage in a big tourist hotel abroad. The masseur was an Arab bodybuilder in his late 40s, I'd guess, no great beauty, but very well built and very affable. I found it difficult not to be turned on by him. I hadn't expected anything, but was a bit sad in a way that he was completely professional.
Welcome back with another video.🤓❤️
Great post. It made me laugh. Thank you
i have never gotten a massage before would love one
The Asian man that massage me he massage me all over . It don’t bother me . In China 🇨🇳 their is bath houses and naked massages so I am use to it .
sounds great, where is it!
I'm not sure I'd ever want a massage now. Thankfully he at least asked you, instead of just going for it.
Good massage therapists will have you sign a waiver of what they will not do. During the massage, so the client is aware that if the boundaries are crossed the massage will end.
So, do not pass up getting a massage because of Chris's experience. Professional massages in all states don't include happy endings.
The ratings probably good because of the extra special treatment
lol true
Man I love your glasses. What is the brand?
Actor/actress, steward/stewardess…. masseur/masseuse. Your ‘masseuse’ was a masseur…. the French language has masculine and feminine forms for many occupational nouns. In English, people are generally removing the use of feminine noun forms. They are not necessary.
What massage parlor was it?
You got 2 for the price of one: buy 1 get 1 free massage 😂😂😂😂😂😂
Never had a professional massage but would love one
As soon as he said Wilton manors i was like figures
I have been getting massages for almost 30 years and never one where I was nude. I always wore my underwear from day one and never even had anyone ask me to remove it so am not sure why you think you have to be nude LOL in many beach resorts they give them on the beach and you wear your bathing suit :)
I'm there all the time on weekends, just drinking. Never had a massage.
It's one of those funny things you'll always remember.
Yes I love to go to a place that they don't care about that and just live it up. No I never had a message like that but I love to to give one.
“No thanks, just the massage.” ……… WOW!
Glad. That you can laugh this off.
I got a happy ending at a fricken 5 star resort in key west, didn't even ask🤷♂️
I’m a certified massage therapist in California, and I have my own practice. But mine is legit. I do deep tissue and sports massage… no happy ending. The happy ending is when done, your muscles are relieved! Ahhh those massage parlors… yup. 😅
Omg your face at 3:07 🤣
He wasn't able to resist your charm. 😃
I took a trip to thailand years ago and went to get a massage at a regular shop. I swear that older woman beat the hell out of me.. your lucky...
Welp now I know where I wanna take a vacation and or possibly move to 😜
Being arroused does mean ur gay. Someone is rubbing your body it's a natural reaction especially being young.
Obviously in this case there was more to the massage desired..... But completely removing a sheet to flip over is normal. The trick is the massage therapist holds the sheet up in front of the client so they can flip in private on the other side without the sheet sticking to their body.
I find it hard to believe neither one of you had a happy ending.
Stay kind thanks chris ❤❤
Great story ❤❤
@stanchris you need to go "gay camping" there are gay- clothing optional campgrounds that are really fun really chill. All over the country. Freedom Valley in OH, Roseland in WV, Vitambi and Saw Mill both in FL, to name a few.
John Davis, I had heard of one in West Virginia, but thought they were kidding. Maybe time to check it or Ohio out. Thanks
@@mediumd1299 both fun. WV one is beautiful
Is there a vlogger who explores gay campgrounds can't remember their name, can you help me?
@@bryangagel433 i don't know but i should do that @stanchris let's do it
Hi Chris, my name is Frank, I am from New York. It's kind of funny about the message gone wrong? because on New York city, especially in the Greenwich village area massage parlor guys usually come on to guys all the time. PS I think you are a nice young man. and very sophisticated when it comes to being and understanding gays . I really like you:
I from the good old Stonewall days ,
and was an activist for many years .
I am 75 yrs old, and appreciate when young gay men are so very cool . FONDLY FRANK
God bless you and Stan Chris also
I wish I could find a good massage. So many are just rubbing me like they are putting butter on bread or they dig in terribly hard because they see I'm a big guy. I've only had one happy ending type massage. That was fantastic and I still remember the room, the guy, etc. I know what you mean though, to find a place rated well and then it not be what you expected.
I love your embarrassment talking about it….so cute!
Uh…if you had a male, he’s known as a masseur. Females massage therapists are masseuses.
I like your shirt
Hi Chris, I just stumbled across your channel. I just have to say, omg you are so cute. I just subscribed. Stay safe my friend.
RealMassage in WM: Spa at Cabanas
ofc it was in florida 😂
You can always end the massage if you’re feeling uncomfortable.😊
How much did you tip the guy?
i paid after but a normal tip like 20%
Growing up in SF I can tell you the Genl rule or expectation: if you’re getting a massage at an establishment (including some gay bathhouses) you should expect a fully professional massage. And fully nude. Never a suggestion of “happy ending”.
If you were hiring a masseuse to come to your home, I think you’d be surprised if you didn’t get the “big finish”.
You were lucky that the therapist asked you if it was something you might be interested in instead of assuming that that was what you were there for. Unfortunately, in the gay massage community there can be some "gray areas" between what is offered and what is expected. Your best bet would have been a recommendation from your spa hotel. Surprised that a spa hotel in Florida didn't have a therapist that worked there or was on call. They should have been able to direct to the kind of massage that you were looking for. Another safer option would be a therapist at a gym or hair salon. Also, Florida especially, is jam packed with professional massage schools and most of them need bodies where their advanced students can practice their new skills. Massage sessions are not usually free, but are offered at lower than market rates. FYI, the Certification of a Certified Massage Therapist(CMT) refers to their education in anatomy and techniques. It's only as good as the massage school that they attended and the number of hours of instruction and practice that that school required. Different jurisdictions:, countries, provinces, states, and cities have different requirements. I believe that there are 2 organizations of massage therapist in the US that offer a National Certification. Then the jurisdictions decide who is qualified to practice in their area and issue licenses to Licensed Massage Therapists(LMTs).
I recieved my Certification in 1989 and had a mostly private practice for nearly 25 years in a large city on the East coast that didn't offer individual licenses until much later after I started. They were using one of the National Certifications as their standard for licensing when I left. Now, I'm in Texas(I bumped into a former client at Pride here about 5 years ago) and they require graduation from a Texas School of Massage for licensing, so maybe there's another massage school in my future.