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  • @nknighton70
    @nknighton70 Год назад +332

    That not pretending to be gay thing is so true. I get kinda upset when my coworkers do that and I'm usually the only one who doesn't participate in it.

    • @pk_n6066
      @pk_n6066 Год назад

      When I was at camp,(I didn’t know that I was gay) the people in my cabin said they wanted to smash and I thought it was the grossest thing.

    • @user-zu1lu3dh6c
      @user-zu1lu3dh6c Год назад +53

      Fr whenever my straight brother pretends to be gay i feel kinda sad because he sees gay men as something to joke about but I'm the one who actually has to live with that

    • @crunchnmunchsweettreats
      @crunchnmunchsweettreats Год назад +6

      Fr, it’s annoying honestly cause it’s like mocking gay people but in reality, a regular gay person wouldn’t act like that

    • @itsaj2404
      @itsaj2404 Год назад

      @@crunchnmunchsweettreats 😂 fr, i act just like any other men, not tht I'm hiding it, but just how i act

    • @lamasmart3468
      @lamasmart3468 Год назад +3

      For reallllllllllll

  • @tetchuma
    @tetchuma Год назад +259

    Number 1 way to tell??
    Homophobic behavior
    I can’t tell you how many of my school bullies have hit me up on Grindr!

    • @octoberboiy
      @octoberboiy Год назад +32

      So true, it’s the best way to hide it.

    • @Marvin-dg8vj
      @Marvin-dg8vj Год назад +1

      In my experience a lot of closeted bi men are homophobic. It is protective.If you are clearly gay it isn't going to be credible. If you are bi you mostly pass for a straight guy. That's my experience.

    • @roygreen9890
      @roygreen9890 Год назад

      ...and they are sad, closeted RepugniKKKans.

    • @johniii8147
      @johniii8147 Год назад +31

      Yeah it's a rather obvious tactic. They are just too stupid to realize how obvious it is.

    • @crazybabuskaman3923
      @crazybabuskaman3923 Год назад +27

      Literally there is this dude at my school and he acted homophobic and stuff towards me, whenever I did gay shit or when I told him I was bi. (We have been friends for years now) but sometimes he randomly touched my hair in class, he sat way too close to me and Literally our hands were touching. And one day I was talking to a friend and he came from behind me and HUGGED me, it was such unexpected behaviour from him, nit to mention he was smirking and just made conversation with me before he left to his friend group or whatever. All my friends think that was into me, but I highly doubt it. And even if he was, he's got a girlfriend now, and we haven't talked as much. Idk what to say about it, it was a weird lol

  • @drobs7279
    @drobs7279 Год назад +362

    You have to be careful with the eye contact thing. I was in straight bar and this guy just kept staring at me. Totally thought he was into me until I realized he was watching the football game on the TV right behind me.

  • @gman7774
    @gman7774 Год назад +305

    If they breath sometimes. . . Gay

  • @mgj167
    @mgj167 Год назад +204

    For older guys (30+) sometimes just asking direct & straight out (pun intended) if they are gay will give a good indication. If there is a pause before the answer, you know they are evaluating the risk of the answer. Straight guys say no immediately. I would suggest that if there is any pause, then the guy is not straight. Might be bi, might be gay, might be in the closet, etc.

    • @rayrothermel4861
      @rayrothermel4861 Год назад +17

      Frankly, it's none of your business!

    • @lexirubycutie
      @lexirubycutie Год назад +28

      It is someone's business if they are interested. Do u want them never to talk tou

    • @shiiyang
      @shiiyang Год назад +8

      @@lexirubycutie it’s none of your business because it’s up to them to decide. If they tell you they tell you and they made it your business. If they don’t then it’s definitely none of your business. Nobody owes anyone an answer to that question.

    • @the_epipan
      @the_epipan Год назад +4

      Damn... totally true for me, I'am there. In that pause I evaluate who I am responding to and how many contacts we have in common. HELP! O_o

    • @peterfowke7818
      @peterfowke7818 11 месяцев назад +3

      Understand it.

  • @treadahl
    @treadahl Год назад +39

    Hi Chris, I’m a 74 gay man who drives a truck and listen to country music. Had partner of almost 24 yrs before past away of heart problem. Love you

    • @owenedwards118
      @owenedwards118 Год назад +9

      I’m so sorry about your partner.

    • @xKarenWalkerx
      @xKarenWalkerx 3 месяца назад +3

      Young gay guys are no where near that masculine.

  • @mikenagoda
    @mikenagoda Год назад +112

    As a queer metalhead, the thing about music just isn't true. There are lots of us who are gay/bi/queer who love rock and metal, and other music that people associate with straights - just because I love heavy metal doesn't make me straight (look at Rob Halford!!!! Metal God, gay af!!)

    • @sheikah55
      @sheikah55 Год назад +15

      Couldn't agree more. Metal, punk, hard rock are both surprisingly accepting and have a pretty big lgbtq presence. If I remember correctly all the members of green day are bi (I know they are a bit more pop/punk but still a decent example in my book)

    • @mikenagoda
      @mikenagoda Год назад +5

      @@sheikah55 Didn't know that all of Green Day are Bi!!! Cool shit!

    • @petershort8997
      @petershort8997 Год назад +8

      Exactly!! I'm gay and I'll take rock & metal over today's vapid and forgettable pop. \m/

    • @lifestyleschannel8508
      @lifestyleschannel8508 Год назад +8

      Couldn’t agree more as a straight man I actually like Pet Shop Boys and musical taste does not define one’s sexuality

    • @dogsrcute691
      @dogsrcute691 Год назад +2

      That's literally me 🤘

  • @StanChris
    @StanChris  Год назад +35

    guys this vid is for fun. take it all with a grain of salt please 😂

    • @fullversion1092
      @fullversion1092 Год назад

      Aight bet

    • @fullversion1092
      @fullversion1092 Год назад

      Time to get a grain of salt

    • @Abitibidoug
      @Abitibidoug Год назад

      I figured that, but thought what the hell. Why not?

    • @lexirubycutie
      @lexirubycutie Год назад +1

      I took it as fun right away. It's cute

    • @xKarenWalkerx
      @xKarenWalkerx 3 месяца назад +1

      Gay men are just more feminine but it's on a scale. Even if they're more on the masc side. Theres still things they will do that no straight man will ever do (music, mommy obsession, voice, sitting positions etc)

  • @cadeparish3857
    @cadeparish3857 Год назад +122

    I think mine have to be:
    1. Talking with your hands ^^ Chris thats you 😏
    2. Making physical contact… usually awkwardly but that could just be a British thing
    3. Having lots of girl friends but not dating any of them
    4. Know a lot of show tunes
    5. And my personal favourite when your straight friends ask I if they can “experiment” with you…. That one a bit of a give away though

    • @coolboss999
      @coolboss999 Год назад

      That last one 💀. Read them for FILTH GIRL

    • @andresequeira4461
      @andresequeira4461 Год назад +12

      The experiment one tho might just be because they are curious and you're probably the only person they'll feel comfortable with. Or what you said. It's a shot in the dark XD.

    • @andreaz4247
      @andreaz4247 Год назад +8

      I'm bi and I have a lot of girl friends except that some of them are really attractive and not that many boys want to be friends with me because I'm too feminine I guess... But I don't like being seem or act feminine, it doesn't suit me 😭

    • @Luboman411
      @Luboman411 Год назад +5

      Other than the show tunes, you're describing a typical Italian guy. LOL.

    • @obxurity
      @obxurity Год назад +2

      what about a guy (a coworker actually) who asks me what my preference is? it just took me by surprise when he asked me that considering he was my big crush before lol

  • @wolfpacva
    @wolfpacva Год назад +49

    I am gay & have driven trucks my entire life and you are so cute.

    • @jamescam04
      @jamescam04 Год назад +5

      I wondered whether anyone else had noticed how *extremely* hot Chris is LOL.

    • @wolfpacva
      @wolfpacva Год назад +5

      @@jamescam04 I am sure everyone knows how sexy he is wish i could know him better.

    • @jamescam04
      @jamescam04 Год назад +4

      @@wolfpacva I know. It’s really annoying when there are really good-looking gay men on YT, but none in one’s own life LOL 😂😅

    • @williamtaylor8221
      @williamtaylor8221 Год назад

      Ditto....

    • @mrtrolly4184
      @mrtrolly4184 2 месяца назад

      Straight guy here and gotta agree. He's fine af

  • @aaronbynum8968
    @aaronbynum8968 Год назад +28

    The best way to tell if a Guy is Gay without having to ask him; is if hes awkward around You, straight men are uncomfortable or very comfortable but Not awkward, rather he out or still in the closet, a guy whose Gay/Bi around a another gay/bi guy usually is awkward because theyre not comfortable with showing that theyre Gay so you have let them know its ok by just being yourself and chill theyll eventually get comfortable and break.
    My Gaydar is excellent I have 97% of being correct about a guy being Gay/Bi havent been wrong yet even if they dont come out right then they always do eventually.

    • @aaronbynum8968
      @aaronbynum8968 Год назад +1

      @@Halfscotboy_39 because out of all the guys I liked or ever dated only one turned out to be actually openly Gay, the rest were either Straight identifying or Bi but in the closet, I don't pursue these guys however They usually present that way so I Notice a pattern.

  • @seawyatt
    @seawyatt Год назад +156

    What about an older guy that wears mostly t-shirts and shorts, likes a ton of different music, and drives a beat up old Jeep? 😂

  • @Agriking
    @Agriking Год назад +75

    You have me wondering if I'm actually straight now.

  • @pandapirate25yearsago33
    @pandapirate25yearsago33 11 месяцев назад +15

    What I learnt: just because they randomly look at you/ in your direction every once in a blue moon DOESN'T MEAN THEY'RE INTO YOU😭😭😭😭

  • @alanpotter8680
    @alanpotter8680 Год назад +36

    #5 is probably the only one that is always true. I've seen it myself in countless situations. High school, football (soccer) practice, locker rooms, the beach, parties.. Even though I've always been super social and always pushing others to do stuff, when they start acting gay, I pretend I'm talking on the phone or whatever. Well, that was until I came out, of course. After that, my male friends just started asking me stuff about what's it like to be gay (with details).. For a moment there, I started questioning their heterosexuality :D
    And in our teenage years, they were all ready to experiment with another guy.

  • @chrstphjgr
    @chrstphjgr Год назад +14

    Correction: If He drives a Subaru, then He is actually a She and a lesbian. Doofus!

  • @j_squared5ever543
    @j_squared5ever543 Год назад +22

    I remember my college lgbt club president telling me to Watch the Eyes. Only time I find this wrong is later I find the guy was eyeing me cause he recognized me from some place else😂😂😂

    • @pictobloxer5412
      @pictobloxer5412 Год назад +8

      idk when I look at a guy's eyes there's this psychic feeling and most of the time i'm right

  • @johniii8147
    @johniii8147 Год назад +24

    Now in my early 50s, things have become a lot more complicated than they use to be. There are now a lot of "curious" guys out there that are not really ashamed of it. The bi thing is real so you can get a lot of mixed signals

    • @matthewdeitch7336
      @matthewdeitch7336 Год назад +2

      If you sus a bi-curious guy make it easy for him; make the first move and talk alittle and your gaydar should kick in. If you're wrong just tell him he's hot!

    • @Luboman411
      @Luboman411 Год назад

      This is a great problem to have. The youguns, they're doing it right. ;)

    • @johniii8147
      @johniii8147 8 месяцев назад +1

      @@matthewdeitch7336 I havn't been in the market for the last 10 years ( now happily married) but that's good advice. The few situations I was in with the "curious" type it was all about vibe if you wanted to go there and make first move. That was 50/50. The worst though were the "curious" making the move and you were just NOT into them. Those they tended to get all pissy about it when I wasn't receptive.

  • @joehan8355
    @joehan8355 Месяц назад +3

    I had a roommate while in college, who liked to dress himself in clothes of knock-off brands of Dior. It turned out that he was straight.

  • @nadienadie6335
    @nadienadie6335 Год назад +7

    Here are my evidence,
    1. He stares at me a lot
    2. When we sit he leans towards me
    3. He talks to my close friends for some reason,( Im a detective If I can create a trap in less than 5 seconds.) And he fell for it today,
    4. He is constantly touching me.
    5. He always wants to know more about me
    6. The way he talks to me is the kind of way I would talk to a girl.

  • @renekabigting8873
    @renekabigting8873 Год назад

    You just outed me with number 3. 😂😂😂

  • @pedroguzman511
    @pedroguzman511 Год назад +8

    I have a friend who always wants to go out with me, invites me to eat and he always pays for everything. I'm not gay. But I've noticed that whenever I talk to him he looks at my lips and I've never said anything to him because it's uncomfortable but it leaves me thinking

  • @erikfast4228
    @erikfast4228 Год назад +12

    Funny enough, I only know 4 people with a Subaru, 3 are gay guys and one is a straight guy.

    • @octoberboiy
      @octoberboiy Год назад +1

      I never heard that lol I thought it was a Prius lol

  • @auzzpanda3497
    @auzzpanda3497 Год назад +7

    what if I told him I liked him and he sends me pictures in boxers to "show his gains"? is he in the closet or is he just a narcissist?

  • @greggkimball4110
    @greggkimball4110 Год назад +4

    3. CORRECTION: If he drives a Subaru, he's a lesbian. Gay guys drive Minis or Fiats.

  • @alisarsour8552
    @alisarsour8552 Год назад +37

    I had to train myself to be on guard 24/7 growing up. I had to train myself not to look at people. Some people think this is a sign of disrespect not looking into the eyes of another person whom you were talking to. I had to be super cautious I would deliberately look out what was supposed to be a hot female when talking to my straight friends cuz if they found out they wouldn't be friends with me and it would probably resort to some type of violent act upon me. I had to deepen my voice talk slower learn how to be more manly and my parents send me to Korea and had me trained to be more manly to walk more manly to move more manly to even write more manly. I had to stay there for 3 years. Since I no longer live with my parents and don't even live in the same area and they're too old they claim to visit me I know right like I want to write talk like I want to, act like I want to and be myself. . I'm here living with my family and their neighborhood and where they come from being gay was like the worst thing you could possibly be. At age 12 they bought me a woman who is age 21 for me to lose my virginity to and then I had to go into 2 hours of debriefing my parents to make sure that I actually did the deed. That was what I call child abuse. Things should come naturally and not force upon you but my parents said I was unnatural and their job was to make me natural. I was also at a young age prayed upon by an adult pervert who convinced me and made me doubt my own feelings to not tell anybody that if I told anybody the family would disown me all he was worried about was saving his own ass and the best groomer are the one groomers that you can't tell that they're grooming you they're so secretive and stealthy where it almost seems like to the point where they can say you wanted it you wanted to do that. He grinned me for 5 years when I was a child. When I was 20 I hooked up and had a 43-year-old boyfriend a bear type we were together for 3 years. He is Russian a Ashkenazi Jew. He was brilliant and nice and caring and affectionate. I don't get jealous usually I've only been jealous with two people in my life who I am had a romantic relationship with. Yes and one of them was a woman. I told her about my history and my baggage and she was accepting and we had 5 years of being happy of course she moved on to someone who could feel the relationship who didn't have these issues that I had but I'm glad that I had those few years together and her family was very nice to me and they also knew about my history to a certain extent of what was mentioned and that was the first time in my life I was able to ever have a peaceful holiday where was her family I used to really like going to her family's house for holidays and the weekends and have barbecue or out for dinner it was very peaceful but is she needed more than I was willing to give and a relationship of course trend bitter and she found somebody else. Bookwise she was brilliant. My parents were told by my sister that I was deceased and they were okay with that and didn't even check to make sure if the deceased individual was me and I don't have a picture of me in their house but they want my servitude and they want me to take care of them as they grow old and to move in with them and be their servant that's not happening. I need some investments and now I am I can only rely on myself there's no safety net. That's awesome means people who I don't want to control me can't control me

  • @paulhooton5976
    @paulhooton5976 Год назад +132

    Watching Theses types of videos I’ve learnt I fit none of the stereotypes at all, probably why I got through school without being outed 😄

    • @johniii8147
      @johniii8147 Год назад +6

      It's not an honor to not be "outed". It's actually kinda sad you even worried about it

    • @jon9719
      @jon9719 Год назад +8

      I’m literally in a homophobic group lmao and bi. I think I’m safe for a bit

    • @teams3345
      @teams3345 Год назад

      Learned

    • @tamaruautumn5325
      @tamaruautumn5325 Год назад +3

      And I'm the opposite, I fit every stereotype. Even wearing girls clothes but I'm straight. Don't know why I am like I am but I'm just vibing.

    • @tamaruautumn5325
      @tamaruautumn5325 Год назад +2

      And I'm the opposite, I fit every stereotype. Even wearing girls clothes but I'm straight

  • @anomonyousguy5625
    @anomonyousguy5625 Год назад +113

    Number 5 isn’t necessarily true, at least from my perspective. Because as someone who is a closeted bi, I also find it funny to act gay around the boys even tho I actually kinda am. Yeah I guess there is a higher chance that guy who doesn’t act gay is actually gay but fyi, a lot of closeted guys would do anything to fit in with the boys that even included acting sus. But again, don’t always suspect them to be gay just because they don’t act like it.

    • @abmindprof
      @abmindprof Год назад

      The closet is really a slow horrible burn that slowly destroys you. I know. I was there. I understand if you're in danger from family or society, and you have to be closeted, then really you have to suffer it. But otherwise, if it's fear of rejection keeping you in, know that by not coming out you'll die a death by a thousand little cuts.

    • @octoberboiy
      @octoberboiy Год назад +10

      I disagree man but I’m bi and I used to be loud and hate on gay people or pretend with a group of straight guys but now I don’t because I don’t like hating on LGBT people or making fun of them anymore.

    • @yarnickgoovaerts
      @yarnickgoovaerts Год назад +14

      I’m bi and I used to act gay around the boys and make them all really uncomfortable but since I came out I pretty much stopped doing that

    • @johniii8147
      @johniii8147 Год назад +7

      Life is too short to be closted in 2022. It's just not worth worrying about if your a financially independent individual.

    • @octoberboiy
      @octoberboiy Год назад +17

      @@johniii8147 easier said than done bro. A lot of us have homophobic families and would be disowned.

  • @alfredbonnabel7022
    @alfredbonnabel7022 Год назад +17

    Ahhhhhh...God bless youth! They know everything ♥️

  • @robertfTrent
    @robertfTrent Год назад +15

    IDK about the whole grey sweatpants thing. I mean, not everybody is packing a semi all day.

    • @ojtheaviator1795
      @ojtheaviator1795 Год назад +3

      I mean I think the concept holds in a more general way too. Like I'll sometimes notice a guy walk by even just wearing normal stuff but looking good, then realize no one else glanced

    • @raymonddavis1370
      @raymonddavis1370 Год назад +2

      Sometimes people don't need to have a semi to show a package (also going commando tends to show you off better-if that's not your thing they have a new kind of underdrawers that let's you wear draws and still put something nice in the store window. It's called SHEATH .)

  • @johnporter8640
    @johnporter8640 Год назад +2

    Always count on you for good advice. Thanks

  • @Gryffen75
    @Gryffen75 Год назад

    Dude, that chart tho! Lmao! LOVE your channel!

  • @daddybearlv
    @daddybearlv Год назад +15

    I am gay, and I have no idea the music artist you mentioned. Of course, my age might have something to do with it.

    • @spaRKLES88604
      @spaRKLES88604 Год назад +4

      They r super popular with the young gays, Especially Ariana and Doja

    • @dennisjones44
      @dennisjones44 Год назад +3

      never heard of them either !!!! ala BARBRA STREISAND, JUDY GARLAND, OR ADAM LAMBERT !!, LMAO !!

  • @damienmuncy7855
    @damienmuncy7855 Год назад +7

    I wont lie, I do agree 97% of the things you're saying some stuff just are really not true or just hard to tell. This is coming from someone as myself is gay. All men are different but me I act feminine and masculine and I dress up in ALOT of different styles comes to, cross dressing, make up, nails, or gothic stuff to furry and normal clothing. Also what I mean by feminine and masculine is my personality and how I move and talk and ect. I also listen to those singers to but I also listen to what people say "straight people music" I listen to Da baby, Juice Wrld, Polo G, Eminem Ect.

  • @carltwidle9046
    @carltwidle9046 Год назад +21

    Yes eye contact can mean alot It can show his interest in you. I had an experience recently, where a guy said hi to me when passing on the street. I said hello back. But generally guys don't say hello to one another. And later on in the day I thought it might have been because he fancied me. But it may also have been just a friendly hello. Sometimes we gay men can tell if some other guy is gay. Gaydar I call it.

  • @derekpearce4987
    @derekpearce4987 Год назад +6

    The 100% accurate thing listed is when all the guys are acting purposely gay and there's the one guy who won't and he's the gay one (because he's panicked people will figure out he actually is). Ding ding ding correct.

  • @waynenubile5
    @waynenubile5 10 месяцев назад +7

    I think maybe this is related. I was in my early 20's and I had a idea that I might be gay but I wouldn't even call it a complete thought, it was just to threatening. I had a large group of friends and for the most part we all went to high school together and at the core of the group was a straight couple that were married. They would have a "Buffy" night where we all headed to the married friend's house to drink and watched TV shows including "Buffy the Vampire Slayer". It was the highlight of our week. Eventually, the show "Queer as Folk" was introduced for all of us to watch and I was told it was about gay people. The show was about gay people but in a soft porn format. I was completely dumbstruck with my group of friends watching this show and I could barely look at the TV. My friend were fascinated by everything about the show but I became flush, started sweating and terrified if I look at the TV I would get aroused. I barely made it through the first episode without having a full panic attack. I felt like everyone was looking at me and reading my mind (they were totally clueless of what was going on with me, I found out years later). Back in the day we did not have access to anything remotely close to gay porn (no internet) and I had never experienced or seen two men having sex. I never went back to "Buffy" night but I developed a private obsession to "Queer as Folk" while watching it in the privacy of my own home. Later that year, I moved 3000 miles away from my home town (graduate school) and ended up nearly living in a gay bar for 5 years. I got over being uncomfortable with men on men sex surprisingly quickly.

  • @joaocarvalho3343
    @joaocarvalho3343 Год назад

    this is so true, i relate so much

  • @jason8445
    @jason8445 Год назад +2

    So, if a guy at the gym keeps working out next to me, looks at me when he thinks I don’t see him, and looks away the moment I catch him looking at me, could he be gay?

  • @inkedvamp
    @inkedvamp Год назад +4

    Type of music? I am gay and I have an eclectic taste in music. I enjoy music from every genre. Rap, country, pop, rock, metal, dance; it just depends on what I am doing and the mood I am in.

  • @vwd3437
    @vwd3437 Год назад

    Not the Subaru 😂😂😂

  • @PS.LynchArt
    @PS.LynchArt Год назад +4

    Actually, there is only one way to tell if someone is gay... They tell you they are. Otherwise, it's ALL just assumptions, stereotyping, or hear say!

  • @walkwalk_fashionbaby
    @walkwalk_fashionbaby Год назад +4

    Honestly about the last point I use to act gay with boys in a slightly exaggerated way to kinda tease it's not all just a game. I would suggest it if you're really trying to escape silence about it but it feels too hard to go from totally straight behavior to coming out just like that

  • @pslgreg
    @pslgreg Год назад

    Lucas Cruikshank, after coming out. I mean, I thought everyone knew. I drive a Mini Cooper. 🤣

  • @beastscooter
    @beastscooter Год назад +1

    Chris: Have to go back to P Town to get more footage of the bears in their natural habitat. They’re so playful with their cubs.
    Us: Sounds li,e nature is calling!

  • @melody1459
    @melody1459 Год назад

    Your right about the music taste stuff lol ...
    Those you mention are my favorite artist😂....

  • @laluna424
    @laluna424 9 месяцев назад

    Subaru thing was spot on to the T!!

  • @thomaswilke6312
    @thomaswilke6312 Год назад +10

    I know this really hot athletic guy who was always hanging out with the good looking girls all through high school and I was so surprised that he ended up coming out of the closet in his senior year

    • @williamtaylor8221
      @williamtaylor8221 Год назад +1

      I hung out with girls in high school cause they talked about doing the guys and how big they were...the guys thought I was a stud

  • @gregbuster4187
    @gregbuster4187 10 месяцев назад +6

    I agree with the ways you described but for being a gay man myself, I’ve never been into fashion. I appreciate fashion but I’m a bad dresser. Lol. Also can’t dance and I’m messy. My gay card is in danger of being revoked.

  • @jamesedwardkruger7258
    @jamesedwardkruger7258 3 месяца назад

    Spot on! Great work!

  • @blattman13
    @blattman13 Год назад

    As a concierge in Vegas, my test is to bring up the show Naked Boys Singing. You can always tell by the reaction

  • @le_petit_renard
    @le_petit_renard Год назад +3

    My straight best friend has a much better gaydar than me...he always can tell if someone is gay while I was completely oblivious, he even won couple of bets against me 😭

  • @josephkavanagh5221
    @josephkavanagh5221 Год назад

    I got the description. I feel proud!

  • @scottobrien963
    @scottobrien963 6 месяцев назад

    “Subaru” 😂

  • @tomasmundo3367
    @tomasmundo3367 Год назад +5

    I'm beginning to think you might be a little gay. No judgement here, I love you.

  • @sho942000
    @sho942000 Год назад +2

    The grey sweats would be my biggest giveaway. My eyes wander A LOT

    • @lexirubycutie
      @lexirubycutie Год назад

      Omg, def am with there. I look a lot

  • @jayvos6226
    @jayvos6226 Год назад +13

    Great vid, but my gaydar is mostly off (I’ve fallen
    In love too easily with disastrous results.) I’m drawn to gentle, caring, and sensitive guys. Chris, your video was wonderful. Thanks.

  • @Michael-dg6ep
    @Michael-dg6ep Год назад +1

    You Got me on the Subaru!
    I've got a '19 Forester Touring (and next month - 8/25 - my husband & I will be together 26 yrs [married 5 yrs on 9/10])

  • @rjcarter2904
    @rjcarter2904 Год назад +26

    Love the video--the laser locked eyes are a dead giveaway! Straight men (almost) NEVER hold eye contact with another man. Gay men always do (unless they're really turned off--sadly). Chris, Love the new haircut.

    • @johniii8147
      @johniii8147 Год назад +7

      Yep eye contract has always been key. That' is absolutely nothing new. Back in the day where most were hiding, it was always how you could tell.

    • @rjcarter2904
      @rjcarter2904 Год назад +6

      @@johniii8147 agree

  • @kentmccoy592
    @kentmccoy592 Год назад +1

    Shorts below the knee, straight. Shorts at the knee, maybe bi. Shorts for inches above the knee, gay. Short shorts, flamer.

  • @spedoclctr
    @spedoclctr Год назад +6

    Drive a truck, no fashion sense and like classic country and blues. And just act like me mostly. I must not be stereotypical.
    Love your videos, you have a great look and an awesome voice 😀. Thanks

    • @treywest268
      @treywest268 Год назад +2

      Right there with you my friend! I'll do one even better and say I have a 100 year old car

  • @stevenecarrier
    @stevenecarrier Год назад +7

    I’m gay and none of these apply to me 🤣🤣🤣🤣

  • @pure1068
    @pure1068 Год назад +4

    As a gay guy my music taste is definitely not the stereotype lol. I prefer other genres over pop

  • @JimmiAlli
    @JimmiAlli 4 месяца назад

    I love how you see a guy with painted nails driving a Subaru and you think the Subaru is the giveaway. 😂

  • @bgreen2272
    @bgreen2272 Год назад +1

    You’re hair is fire! 🔥

  • @jacktruhlicka750
    @jacktruhlicka750 10 месяцев назад

    TY Chris-love you❤

  • @LtexprsGaming
    @LtexprsGaming Год назад +10

    "He's driving a truck, especially one with big wheels then he's most likely straight" (and compensating for something)

    • @williamtaylor8221
      @williamtaylor8221 Год назад

      I drive a truck and it was the one wayi could be my gay self back in the 70s without having problems

    • @volka2199
      @volka2199 Год назад

      I'm 20 and Bi and drove a truck since I was 16. Until recently when I got a subaru so I'm in both camps. I actually enjoyed driving the truck for various reasons and wouldn't mind owning one but I don't really need one at the moment.

    • @lexirubycutie
      @lexirubycutie Год назад

      @volka2199 def nothing wrong with a truck. I love them because I sit up higher. I do have a vette too, but that's not my everyday driver

  • @benjaminhunter6216
    @benjaminhunter6216 Год назад +1

    I love the intro 💖

  • @romelgonzales2754
    @romelgonzales2754 9 месяцев назад +1

    Oh gosh theres a few things on here that i kind of do its actually overwhelming thinking about the last one though really angers me cause alot of my male colleagues do this and i dont participate so alot of them have indicated that im gay not just by that but theres other things that i do as well i have always tried to block it out but lately since ive gone through a heart break it's bought back those feelings

  • @alialhamza2950
    @alialhamza2950 Месяц назад

    the last piece of advice makes sense

  • @nadiathearmyandcoastguardw6423
    @nadiathearmyandcoastguardw6423 Год назад +21

    As a Lesbian Woman the 5 ways are
    1 if she is flirty
    2 she is touchy
    3 she gets red
    4 she is attractive to you
    5 her body language

    • @treywest268
      @treywest268 Год назад +1

      Um....you forgot the flannel shirt.
      (Only being funny, no offense meant. I am gay and one of my sisters is a lesbian. I have the better sense of humor but she would laugh.) Fellow Coastie here too.
      I thank you for your service!!!

    • @nadiathearmyandcoastguardw6423
      @nadiathearmyandcoastguardw6423 Год назад +1

      @@treywest268 lol well that also and the rip Jeans. the haircut. and thank you i volunteer for the Coast Guard. is a program called the Auxiliary Coast Guard.

    • @nadiathearmyandcoastguardw6423
      @nadiathearmyandcoastguardw6423 Год назад +2

      @@treywest268 oh my yeezzz i love flannel shirts. i own about 7 of them lol. oh hey Chris i just started to follow your Instagram Account. stay safe and positive. and wishing everyone else abunch of Positive Vibes.

    • @ChrisPBacon-ok7ir
      @ChrisPBacon-ok7ir Год назад +3

      I think these all work for guys too. I like your list better than Chris'. Sorry, Chris.😊

    • @elijahofmalachi45-67
      @elijahofmalachi45-67 Год назад

      Lev. was translated wrong billy graham. Refering to pedophilia. "Men shall not molest young boys."
      Delete or reject the messages sent from the messenger of Malachi 3:1 and you reject Jesus Christ Herself and choose to die with the wicked.
      Malachi 2 proves Malachi 3:8 is prophetic instruction for the thieving church leaders to bring back the money they were never supposed to take for ministering and God will end Covid. Every major church around the world knew this since August of 2020 but they LOVE MONEY so much they chose to kill everyone with Covid instead of returning it!
      James 5:2 Rich people are NOT Christians and the wealth they selfishly kept to themselves will only be used as evidence to burn them.
      The 2 witnesses are righteousness and judgement, not actual people. There is no ONE antichrist; it was made up by people that worship money.
      Stay out of the fake churches or you will die with them and their lies. In order to be a church, the place must house people inside it. Otherwise it's another private money-making business serving satan and part of Babylon.
      There is no such thing as rapture. Jesus comes back to rule. God's people are caught up spiritually...
      Romans is not referring to Eunuchs where one partner is transgender.
      🏳️‍🌈 Eunuchs that are born that way are transgender. It's even in the Bible. Yes, the bible was written by bigoted men and is way outdated and was changed and should be thrown out. But even Jesus spoke about transgender people. Eunuchs made that way by others were abused (it doesn't happen to everyone that is abused). Those that choose to live like Eunuchs FOR THE SAKE OF THE KINGDOM OF HEAVEN are bisexual people that choose partners of the same sex characteristics but opposite in regards to gender. Notice, God PREFERS for people to be in LGBT relationships.
      Eunuchs are same sex couples. One partner is transgender. Transgender is when someone is born with a gender opposite the sex characteristics normally associated with that gender. God made us male or female, determined by gender, located in the brain.
      Your gender is located in your brain and determined at birth. I have an identical twin sister that is female in gender. I am male in gender.
      I am Elijah of Malachi 4:5-6 and that means any discrepancies in the bible are ultimately decided by me. Plus, it states in Deuteronomy that nobody was castrated back then. And that doesn't make sense anyhow. No one is born castrated and no one is born making the decision to be celibate. But, that is what God wanted the lying preachers to think so they wouldn't take it out of the bible. Intersex people still have one gender or another because gender is located in your brain.
      And Acts 3:22-23 says it will come to pass that anyone that fails to listen to me will be utterly destroyed from among the people. So anyone that says different than this won't be here much longer. It's everyone's choice.
      Anyone teaching the LIE of monetary tithing or getting paid in any way to minister will also die with the wicked.
      Peter 2:9 says we are ALL ministers . . . .
      Jesus was transgender and will return as a woman.....
      Remember, Malachi 3:8-12 is talking to the thieving church leaders. It's the answer to end Covid and every major church around the world has known this since August of 2020 but they LOVE MONEY so much, they INTENTIONALLY CHOSE to kill everyone instead of returning it. My preaching will lead to a universal monthly income for everyone. If church leaders dont repent, they won't be here to see it. Their choice........

  • @davidemerald7690
    @davidemerald7690 Год назад +3

    Bro your right on some of the points you highlighted except music.I listen to chrisbrown, usher , rick ross ,drake songs and it dosent mean am straight.🤷‍♂️

  • @Simon-zl6ek
    @Simon-zl6ek Год назад

    The last one is SOOOOOOOOOO RELATABLE

    • @volka2199
      @volka2199 Год назад +1

      Wasn't expecting that tbh but yeah it is.

  • @marktegrotenhuis
    @marktegrotenhuis Год назад +3

    Number 1 and number 5 feel kinda legit, but the other 3 points I think are just stereotypes.

  • @Phantastic_pharmacist
    @Phantastic_pharmacist Год назад

    Omg the Subaru 🥲

  • @ArtIsMyTharapist2709
    @ArtIsMyTharapist2709 7 месяцев назад

    What if your you don’t know him that well, he says
    He is straight and you keep catching him looking at you and he keeps making eye contact with you and he doesn’t participate in acting gay with his friends?

  • @theflyingcandleguyme6144
    @theflyingcandleguyme6144 Год назад +4

    The most open minded guys you will ever meet are impossible to detect except his interactions with girls. The more closeted he is and the deeper he buries it, the more awkward and unnatural his moves on girls; because as he buries the one he represses his ability to naturally flirt. He will tend to be stuck in the freind zone of many girls.

  • @felipemaximo5021
    @felipemaximo5021 Год назад +1

    Last one i felt related

  • @vxvnw
    @vxvnw 5 месяцев назад

    WE ALL HAVE THAT 1 PERSON IN MIND LOOOLLOL

  • @patrickborro2000
    @patrickborro2000 Год назад

    None of the above. The ''If there's a hot guy passing by and they can't help but stare'' is for me the best way to tell if he's gay.

  • @DJ99777
    @DJ99777 Год назад

    You got me on the Subaru.

  • @gpicken
    @gpicken Год назад

    Spot on lol

  • @NeganJeff
    @NeganJeff Год назад

    Sounds like working in construction all kinds of gay horsing around.

  • @neat6539
    @neat6539 5 месяцев назад +1

    I opened this video to know what not to do 😂😂

  • @slayingg4418
    @slayingg4418 Год назад +2

    im like, my homies act gay with me and then get grossed when i do the same so im like, okay should i act gay or act straight? he doesnt know my oreintation btw
    also, the ones that does know when they act gay idk how to respond cause if i act homophobic then i feel its not very "homie" ya know, but when i act gay with them im afraid that theyre gonna be repulsed or think i might like them and get disgusted and not act like that anymore so im torn in between cause homies who act gay with each other turns out to be good friends you know?

  • @aisadal2521
    @aisadal2521 Год назад +9

    Move over Sherlock Holmes and Hercules Poirot, there's a new detective in town, and his name is StanChris 😆

  • @jfme8785
    @jfme8785 Год назад +6

    Number 5 is so freaking true cause in middle school during lunch time I would hang with 5 straight boys and they would always chase each other not trying to get slapped in the but and I myself was the boy who would never try to play this game cause I didn't want them to find out that I was gay lol because if I would've played with them I would act so gay!!! 😂

  • @265433432
    @265433432 Год назад

    2:04 I thought this was so good I took a picture lol

  • @Eli_is_so_cool_bro
    @Eli_is_so_cool_bro 3 месяца назад +1

    If he likes Cavetown or NOAHFINNCE he's probably at least queer. Trust me.

  • @bobf.5538
    @bobf.5538 Год назад

    So, crusin' rules....if he walks fast..
    Loves Showtunes

  • @georgesofield4596
    @georgesofield4596 Год назад +5

    I think you met someone in p town?

  • @brockowings4138
    @brockowings4138 3 месяца назад

    Gray sweatpants. 😂😂😂 These are actually some interesting tips. I swear I have NO Gaydar. A guy could be flirting with me and I'd just think, "Oh, he's nice!" Lol.

  • @keosh777
    @keosh777 Год назад +3

    Eye contact for sure. (Preface: I really tend to go about with blinders on and no doubt have missed many eye contact hints). At a gym once, this good looking guy kept looking at me ( I do a lot of elliptical - amazing for the glutes lol ) and would come and point out corrections when I was lifting weights I would say 'hey thanks' and thought 'Well, that's nice'. lol. That went on for about 2 weeks on say 4 occasions. Finally, he got right to the point as I wasn't getting the hint. Needless to say, I pay a lot more attention to eye contact and try to keep my blinders off lol. (Oh, the truck thing ... ya that's pretty hot. A good buddy drives a very cool truck and it looks pretty good in my driveway ha ha).

  • @Jacobmsan
    @Jacobmsan Год назад +17

    ariana vocalist of our generation with great music. Gay or straight, can't deny it.

  • @newagehero9605
    @newagehero9605 Год назад

    People always say contact but what if they are not attractive to you 😂😂😂

  • @CollinW93
    @CollinW93 Год назад +1

    Guilty as charged on 4 out of 5 :P

  • @dazrmorrison9558
    @dazrmorrison9558 Год назад

    Now listen here. Calvin and you and maybe ya bro need to paint the walls. Nicely. The walls. The walls. 🏆

  • @Mtch5469
    @Mtch5469 Год назад

    I can definitely relate to the Subaru and #5

    • @volka2199
      @volka2199 Год назад

      I somehow managed to relate to all but the music part.

  • @twinkapparel
    @twinkapparel Год назад +3

    i’m glad you were too busy to vlog

  • @norrv1763
    @norrv1763 Год назад +2

    Don't have much to say about your list, but your hair cut sure looks good.