I still think you should make that video where Calvin pretends to be your pathologically jealous boyfriend and you go to a gay bar and he sounds off. He's so funny.
People are messed up. A lot of times they are unconsciously projecting their own weaknesses, biases, and fantasies on you. And falling easy just means you have a bigger heart. 😘
Looking Handsome Chris. You are a beautiful human inside and outside. Don't worry about people's assumptions. You are perfect just the way you are. Keep Swinging 💪💪🌈🌈
Dude, negative people are always trying to bring you down to there miserable level. Be attached to the light not distracted by the darkness of unhappy people. The size should apply to your heart and soul only they are the only aspects of humanity that matters.
Many guys in the gay community are quick to say you're picky or have high standards about men if you respect yourself, don't sleep around or are not attracted to them.
I haven't watched he video yet. "Answering your rude assumptions". I like how bold you are becoming. Everyone deserves to feel this strong within themselves. ❤
Some things that were asked are invasive (my judgement) the reveal is your call - you answered from - what seemed to me - a generous place. Peace-Love!
You answered these questions thoughtfully and not one Rude comments was made even though many were made towards you. You definitely a old soul. Awesome replies Stan ❤
You talked about " People's Assumptions " ... something I remember being told, and it is still true, To " Assume " makes an " Ass out of You and Me " Ass+U+Me = Assume
Don’t pay attention to their assumptions. To assume is to make an ASS of You and Me. You are very well spoken and you share a positive message. Keep it up.
Dude, I have been watching your vlog's for a couple of months now (subscribed) and making it through all of them. I love the music videos and wish I could pay to download them in your merch. section. lol. You are an amazing talent! I love you. As an older person my advice is - don't let anything/anyone hold you back, and if you can do that, I know that in the future I'll be sayin' "I knew him when"... Sincerely.
Keep doing you, Chris. We all enjoy the content or we wouldn’t be watching. I don’t like that people are saying you and Calvin aren’t just friends. You two have great chemistry so I can see why people want to see the two of you together but to say that you’re hiding a relationship is crap. What they’re really saying is that straight guys can’t be friends with gay guys unless there’s “something going on”. Calvin seems like a great dude, you two have a great friendship and that’s all that should matter. Your videos together are fun. Please keep making them. PS- from what I’ve seen, there’s no way Calvin is even your “type”. 😁
You are not conceited. If you were I wouldn't follow you, because I can't stand narcissistic people that think they are "perfect." I would definitely say what's up to you if I ever saw you in public! ✌❤
Also, I appreciate it that you can have a preference for chubby but be about the attraction itself. I like younger guys (like yourself) and I am an older guy. However, if a guy touches my heart and soul then they are a “wow!” to me no matter their age or appearance.
I suspect Chris has been spotted by a fan that was either caught off guard or too shy to approach Chris and say hi. I might hesitate myself in the moment. 😯✌
I just started watching your videos... And I love the authenticity and straight forward talk... I see people all the time but your for real... I could just see the authenticity in you
You gave sensible answers. I'm pretty old (76), and lately I've noticed many young gay guys have their heads screwed on right. I'm not sure why that is...maybe the pandemic has given us all (not just the young) a chance to slow down and think about our life choices. Anyway, good job. This video was enjoyable.
For your under eye circles, try Gold Under Eye patches. They are a crescent shape which you put under your eyes for a period of time. All the actors who are 28 but playing 18 use them. It’s not being vain, just putting your best face forward. Try them out! You can get 30 pair for $11.
While Calvin and Chris have great chemistry I trust Chris when he says they aren't dating. Calvin doesn't seem to like weiner enough to cozy up to one or cuddle with another guy in a romantic way. Maybe as a goof but not for real.
@@drewwho4512 Who knows but definitely strikes me as the type who has or will at least try something with a dude at least once. Many do so wouldn't be unusual.
Hey, I'm David, I just recently started watching your videos. I think you are a cool outgoing guy and you defiantly inspire my self-confidence. I have hit a rough patch in my life so watching your videos is helping me. I am gay also...but it's hard for someone like me to like get out there and meet someone. I don't feel like I have attractive features as most gay guys do. I know I'm stereotyping but seeing you be yourself and openly liking what you like without any shame is inspiring. I have always been a chubby guy and have always unnoticed in the gay crowd. I don't blame them or take it as prejudice I just take it as maybe I'm not their type. I'd like to talk sometime and maybe you can give me some tips. You just seem to have some experience and know more about it than I do. I have never been really social and have a lot of afflictions that have hindered my ability to put myself out there but I am working on rectifying them. Thank you for being yourself.
A bazillion years ago, Maria Muldauer (sp?) had a hit tune whose lyrics went: "It AIN'T the meat, it's the motion, that MAKES your mama wanna ROCK! It AIN'T the meat, it's the MOTION, it's the MOVEMENT that GIVES it the SOCK!!! 😱
It's funny. When I was younger, in my 20's and early 30's, all of my friends' friends were attractive. The most common reason is because they usually slept at least once with all of their friends. I don't know how it is today, since I stopped going to clubs and bars in my late 20's, but it was common to see everyone grouped up, just like a high school movie, with the handsome jocks, the drag queens, the leather queens, the less attractive all huddled in cliques with little mingling except on the dance floor. It was also sad to see how many in our community enjoyed tearing couples down when they thought one was too cute for the other, especially if one of them was fat.
Your online life has been [and I hope will continue to be] amazing and cool to follow. We have watched you grow up. The fact you are so open, and with a great Mum, and you a handsome young man...I sit and wonder why you don't have a b/f! Without giving away personal info, it would be good to do a vid on your education, school, subjects you like, want you wanna be when you grow up [joke...] what your school mates think about you. Stay cool. Ziggy.
You look super cute with those dark circles under your eyes. Honestly, if I were around your age I would madly and hopelessly fall in love with you. Since I'm closing on 40 I guess I have some internal block with falling for such young guys. Still, I think you are great in lots of aspects, not just looks and I just subscribed. All the best!
Someone watches a few of your videos, and all of a sudden they know you and are experts on you. Ridiculous. For those that think you're not being forthcoming about your preferences in men, maybe we should dissect THEIR preferences for all to see and critique. Attraction is such a difficult thing to explain, justify, or quantify. I think most people could more easily describe what they're NOT looking for, than be pinned down on what they ARE looking for. Like you said, it's so depends on the man: attitude, confidence, humor, humility, one or all those things to varying degrees can sway us one way or another. Sometimes there's no logical reason for the attraction, but it just feels right: comfortable, easy, not forced, just makes your heart beat a little faster. Oh, and those of us that subscribe to your OnlyFans know what you're packin'. Thanks Chris for your content both here and on OnlyFans. Have a great day. :)
Take your time finding the right guy. You have plenty of time. You are a good looking guy and I know that whoever he ends up being, you both will be incredibly happy. Hipe you do not find yourself on the path I landed on, nothing but rejection and eventually giving up. Which I did 4 years ago.
I discovered your channel today. It popped up. I watched your videos. You keep being who you are. That is the best you can be. You are telling people who you are. They should believe you. It was informative watching your videos. Are you in Texas? you mentioned Austin in one if your videos. I thank you for sharing. Please take care.
Please make a video to describe some negative personality traits that turn you off when looking for a guy. We would like to hear them so that we may avoid acting out these traits in any social interaction we may be in. Instruct us with your perception of proper socialization, a lot of us would like to hear what you have to say.
Chris I really enjoy your content, I find it very entertaining, versatile, and I look forward to more of your videos, especially the collaboration's with you and Calvin . You guys play well off of each other, it reminds me of 2 over protective brothers with a very strong comical vibe, and underline serious side mixed. Honestly watching you together, you give thoughts of the sitcom "2 Broke Girls", but of course the male version.
Chris, love you and your channel. Love your personality . You are so handsome and have a beautiful soul. I love to get to know you better. Even if not to go out. But to have you as a friend. I be so honored to know you
I don't know why people are so nasty in their assumptions about you and/or rude. It says a lot more about them than anything else. I think that you are a genuinely nice guy. I wish I was 20 years younger. Just keep being who you are. You are such a nice person from what I have seen in your videos (other than shocking your Mom!), I just hope you never change your attitude.
My boyfriend of 7 years did initially admit to me that he was attracted to older people. I am attracted to younger. He was very young when we first met. I was 45, and he was 20. Regardless, and this is my point, we all have things that make us initially attracted to other person but, for me, and I guess for most people who care, it comes down to more compitablity.
And one last think... I'm in my late forties and I finally found my gay COMPATIBLE... It's ok to not be with someone... But when you find your compatible... You'll know you found each other... Remember LAW OF ATTRACTION
Do you find intelligence attractive? An average-looking person who is highly intelligent or a highly physically attractive person who is dumb, which is preferable? For a long-term relationship, obviously the former, because the latter are just for sex.
Hey stanchris, I just watch your video tonight and I have a good question for you, do you love Italian food or Asia food during romantic relationships? ❤
Don't ever react to assumptions. That is where the making an Ass out of U comes into the cliche, ASSUME- Make an Ass out of U and Me. Assumers make a statement about you, rather than ask you a question about you. If they don't ask, don't tell.
what are the odds of you liking the video before even watching?
110%
first dislike for making me wait so long why do u not gamble anymore?
very good
👍
101.5% because it’s a Thursday
I still think you should make that video where Calvin pretends to be your pathologically jealous boyfriend and you go to a gay bar and he sounds off. He's so funny.
Definitely
@StanChris yeah that video would be awesome…you really should do that with Cali 🌈🐻 52 Texas
Lol
Calvin is especially funny around Chris, great sense of humor!
I’m gonna be doing a pool livestream tomorrow on RUclips who’s gonna be there? Around 7-8 PM EST
Me! What time?
what time
Let's get soak'n wet 👁🙏🏼👁
Depends on the time - but would like to.
Fahshour of course
Who cares if your a bottom or verse ,just enjoy yourself with whoever
People are messed up. A lot of times they are unconsciously projecting their own weaknesses, biases, and fantasies on you. And falling easy just means you have a bigger heart. 😘
Looking Handsome Chris. You are a beautiful human inside and outside. Don't worry about people's assumptions. You are perfect just the way you are. Keep Swinging 💪💪🌈🌈
Dude, negative people are always trying to bring you down to there miserable level. Be attached to the light not distracted by the darkness of unhappy people. The size should apply to your heart and soul only they are the only aspects of humanity that matters.
Many guys in the gay community are quick to say you're picky or have high standards about men if you respect yourself, don't sleep around or are not attracted to them.
I haven't watched he video yet. "Answering your rude assumptions". I like how bold you are becoming. Everyone deserves to feel this strong within themselves. ❤
Some things that were asked are invasive (my judgement) the reveal is your call - you answered from - what seemed to me - a generous place.
Peace-Love!
Thanks Robert ❤️
A best friend is more important than a boyfriend but it's great if it's the same person.
"I'm handsome all the time, never ugly." Lmaoo
He is not a power bottom. He is a bareback power bottom.
"I'm waiting for the right guy."
No one ever gives me a chance 🥺
🤣🤣 Mario Adrion 🤣🤣 I’m not shook.
Long or short, thick or thin, just so long as you stick it in. Been saying that for decades.
Gahaha
Best comment I’ve seen on all of RUclips today 👍🏻😂
Rain isn’t sad! It helps life grow… it’s beautiful 🤩
facts!
How could rain ever be seen as sad? Without rain, no water - without water, no mankind. 🙄
You answered these questions thoughtfully and not one Rude comments was made even though many were made towards you. You definitely a old soul. Awesome replies Stan ❤
You talked about " People's Assumptions "
... something I remember being told, and it is still true,
To " Assume " makes an " Ass out of You and Me "
Ass+U+Me = Assume
Don’t pay attention to their assumptions. To assume is to make an ASS of You and Me. You are very well spoken and you share a positive message. Keep it up.
Rain is sad but refreshing. Because after it rains everything is just so beautiful. The trees the ground. Rain is the best.
Dude, I have been watching your vlog's for a couple of months now (subscribed) and making it through all of them. I love the music videos and wish I could pay to download them in your merch. section. lol. You are an amazing talent! I love you. As an older person my advice is - don't let anything/anyone hold you back, and if you can do that, I know that in the future I'll be sayin' "I knew him when"... Sincerely.
thank you ring ♥️
Keep doing you, Chris. We all enjoy the content or we wouldn’t be watching. I don’t like that people are saying you and Calvin aren’t just friends. You two have great chemistry so I can see why people want to see the two of you together but to say that you’re hiding a relationship is crap. What they’re really saying is that straight guys can’t be friends with gay guys unless there’s “something going on”. Calvin seems like a great dude, you two have a great friendship and that’s all that should matter. Your videos together are fun. Please keep making them.
PS- from what I’ve seen, there’s no way Calvin is even your “type”. 😁
hahahaha so true
To the person who said Chris is small…. Doubtful…. Is he huge no but it’s nice
I’d say It’s more than just nice…😊
i assume he is cut
@@ddowell3190 he sure is 😊
@@larinoriani :(
You are not conceited. If you were I wouldn't follow you, because I can't stand narcissistic people that think they are "perfect." I would definitely say what's up to you if I ever saw you in public! ✌❤
thanks jeremiah!
The new chain looks really good.
You’re you and unique.This is the thing that I love in you,the most(along with all the other things like “you’re manly gay,which is sooo hot).
Also, I appreciate it that you can have a preference for chubby but be about the attraction itself. I like younger guys (like yourself) and I am an older guy. However, if a guy touches my heart and soul then they are a “wow!” to me no matter their age or appearance.
I appreciate all the love you give out with positivity! All sizes Rock! :)
I love how grounded you are. You are unapologetically you. You’re going to make someone a very happy man someday. Carry on young one.
I suspect Chris has been spotted by a fan that was either caught off guard or too shy to approach Chris and say hi. I might hesitate myself in the moment. 😯✌
I just started watching your videos... And I love the authenticity and straight forward talk... I see people all the time but your for real... I could just see the authenticity in you
You gave sensible answers. I'm pretty old (76), and lately I've noticed many young gay guys have their heads screwed on right. I'm not sure why that is...maybe the pandemic has given us all (not just the young) a chance to slow down and think about our life choices. Anyway, good job. This video was enjoyable.
For your under eye circles, try Gold Under Eye patches. They are a crescent shape which you put under your eyes for a period of time. All the actors who are 28 but playing 18 use them. It’s not being vain, just putting your best face forward. Try them out! You can get 30 pair for $11.
Looking through all the ads for you. You better get some good cash 😌🙏🏻🙏🏻
hahahaha thanks william 💀
86 likes before the video starts! Love you Chris!💛
Chris I just found your channel and can I just say I really love your chill energy!
thanks man 😁
look I'm 9months late but my name is jude too
While Calvin and Chris have great chemistry I trust Chris when he says they aren't dating. Calvin doesn't seem to like weiner enough to cozy up to one or cuddle with another guy in a romantic way. Maybe as a goof but not for real.
Who knows we never will. But Calvin seems like the type that would open to some experimentation in the right situation.
@@johniii8147 Perhaps Calvin will come around to our way of life.
@@drewwho4512 Who knows but definitely strikes me as the type who has or will at least try something with a dude at least once. Many do so wouldn't be unusual.
If that's the case I volunteer to help him out.
@@drewwho4512 Well let him know on his chanel But i expect it's already a very long list.
Chris, I wish you didnthave to deal with a lot of these assumptions. I like your posts. Your straightforwardness is attractive.
Really well explained, and honest answers, with your witty relaxed style, well done
The Mario Adion comment is spot on.
"Waiting for the right guy" Good for you mate.
Have you tried a retinol for your eyes if you dont like them. I honestly didnt even notice until you said something.
I love rain so much too!!
Wow you used one of mine! You are so cute. On behalf of us chubby guys, I thank you!
You just reminded of a quote today. The expression, "No offense" is offense 100% of the time!
Hey, I'm David, I just recently started watching your videos. I think you are a cool outgoing guy and you defiantly inspire my self-confidence. I have hit a rough patch in my life so watching your videos is helping me. I am gay also...but it's hard for someone like me to like get out there and meet someone. I don't feel like I have attractive features as most gay guys do. I know I'm stereotyping but seeing you be yourself and openly liking what you like without any shame is inspiring. I have always been a chubby guy and have always unnoticed in the gay crowd. I don't blame them or take it as prejudice I just take it as maybe I'm not their type. I'd like to talk sometime and maybe you can give me some tips. You just seem to have some experience and know more about it than I do. I have never been really social and have a lot of afflictions that have hindered my ability to put myself out there but I am working on rectifying them. Thank you for being yourself.
How do you manage (emotionally, mentally) having so many fanboys crushing on you?
Why is it such a long time to wait?🤣🤣🤣🤣
You nailed Mario and his posse!
A bazillion years ago, Maria Muldauer (sp?) had a hit tune whose lyrics went: "It AIN'T the meat, it's the motion, that MAKES your mama wanna ROCK! It AIN'T the meat, it's the MOTION, it's the MOVEMENT that GIVES it the SOCK!!! 😱
I've found pictures from pre-highschool where I had dark circles under my eyes. You're definitely not alone.
I don't like to label people and put them in a box people are more like a river than a statue
OMG LMAO not the Mario Adrian call out yooo in dead ahaha
Having a boyfriend is a complicated deal
Um...? Are you wearing a string (actually TWO!) strings of pearls, MIZZ JULIA CHILDS? You GO GURL!!!
Major thanks..:your sharing helped me. Many thanks!!! Have an AMAZING WEEKEND &!LIFE
I watch your channel all the time I think ur a awesome young man no matter what you do in life you will always find someone to talk shit
love u (i didn´t know what to say but i wanted to be supportive cause i´m a fan so there u go)
Chris you got to take social media as a constructive feedback. Your audience can provide postive and negative feedback.
It's funny. When I was younger, in my 20's and early 30's, all of my friends' friends were attractive. The most common reason is because they usually slept at least once with all of their friends. I don't know how it is today, since I stopped going to clubs and bars in my late 20's, but it was common to see everyone grouped up, just like a high school movie, with the handsome jocks, the drag queens, the leather queens, the less attractive all huddled in cliques with little mingling except on the dance floor. It was also sad to see how many in our community enjoyed tearing couples down when they thought one was too cute for the other, especially if one of them was fat.
I don't need a new puppy, but I wouldn't leave you at a shelter.
The boyfriend one is easier said than done and that's not really fair
9:18 is thay they both die at the end by Adam Silvera?? (In the backround) it's such a good book and impacted me so much in a emotional level
It is!
Your online life has been [and I hope will continue to be] amazing and cool to follow. We have watched you grow up. The fact you are so open, and with a great Mum, and you a handsome young man...I sit and wonder why you don't have a b/f! Without giving away personal info, it would be good to do a vid on your education, school, subjects you like, want you wanna be when you grow up [joke...] what your school mates think about you. Stay cool. Ziggy.
thanks ziggy!
You look super cute with those dark circles under your eyes.
Honestly, if I were around your age I would madly and hopelessly fall in love with you. Since I'm closing on 40 I guess I have some internal block with falling for such young guys. Still, I think you are great in lots of aspects, not just looks and I just subscribed.
All the best!
You are a amazing guy I love watching you videos have a great day
Not conceited... but definitely very confident, which is good.
I think you're a kind hearted person
Someone watches a few of your videos, and all of a sudden they know you and are experts on you. Ridiculous. For those that think you're not being forthcoming about your preferences in men, maybe we should dissect THEIR preferences for all to see and critique. Attraction is such a difficult thing to explain, justify, or quantify. I think most people could more easily describe what they're NOT looking for, than be pinned down on what they ARE looking for. Like you said, it's so depends on the man: attitude, confidence, humor, humility, one or all those things to varying degrees can sway us one way or another. Sometimes there's no logical reason for the attraction, but it just feels right: comfortable, easy, not forced, just makes your heart beat a little faster. Oh, and those of us that subscribe to your OnlyFans know what you're packin'. Thanks Chris for your content both here and on OnlyFans. Have a great day. :)
I just started watching you and I think you’re super fricken cool! People do say some dumb shit don’t they. 😂
Thanks for this. As a slightly chubby guy, I always assume thin/fit gay guys would never be interested. I guess there is hope haha.
Fun video!!! Good to know some young guys like ghe dad bod, even chubby!! ❤❤❤
Can’t believe all these a-holes give you so much crap! You seem like a really nice person to person. Hang in there bro, love ya! 👍
Take your time finding the right guy. You have plenty of time. You are a good looking guy and I know that whoever he ends up being, you both will be incredibly happy. Hipe you do not find yourself on the path I landed on, nothing but rejection and eventually giving up. Which I did 4 years ago.
You sound like you just have morals and class! Hang in there, the right guy will come around when you least expect it!
Your a catch, the right guy will come around. be patient don't rush it.
I discovered your channel today. It popped up. I watched your videos. You keep being who you are. That is the best you can be. You are telling people who you are. They should believe you. It was informative watching your videos. Are you in Texas? you mentioned Austin in one if your videos. I thank you for sharing. Please take care.
So about you looking for the right guy with a dad bod… Can i up the stakes with free health care? 🤣🤣🤣
Please make a video to describe some negative personality traits that turn you off when looking for a guy. We would like to hear them so that we may avoid acting out these traits in any social interaction we may be in. Instruct us with your perception of proper socialization, a lot of us would like to hear what you have to say.
Chris I really enjoy your content, I find it very entertaining, versatile, and I look forward to more of your videos, especially the collaboration's with you and Calvin . You guys play well off of each other, it reminds me of 2 over protective brothers with a very strong comical vibe, and underline serious side mixed. Honestly watching you together, you give thoughts of the sitcom "2 Broke Girls", but of course the male version.
hahahaha thank you!
Chris, love you and your channel. Love your personality . You are so handsome and have a beautiful soul. I love to get to know you better. Even if not to go out. But to have you as a friend. I be so honored to know you
I don't know why people are so nasty in their assumptions about you and/or rude.
It says a lot more about them than anything else.
I think that you are a genuinely nice guy.
I wish I was 20 years younger.
Just keep being who you are. You are such a nice person from what I have seen in your videos (other than shocking your Mom!), I just hope you never change your attitude.
hahahaha thank you
been watching your vids for a while. would love to be the first person to see you for real. Is it true you live in new england?
My boyfriend of 7 years did initially admit to me that he was attracted to older people. I am attracted to younger. He was very young when we first met. I was 45, and he was 20. Regardless, and this is my point, we all have things that make us initially attracted to other person but, for me, and I guess for most people who care, it comes down to more compitablity.
That is great!!! My husband is 28 yrs younger than me. Love is ageless
45 and 20 is pretty sleazy though. Mid life crisis so decides to go out with someone fresh out of school. Gross
@@kenjiyamaha2879 There is a limit before it gets creepy
@@davidcarr9772 Age is important, I agree! But everyone travels this planet in their own way. Blessings to you!
Chris is so cute and adorable !!!
You do you and ignore all of these barking dogs.
And one last think... I'm in my late forties and I finally found my gay COMPATIBLE... It's ok to not be with someone... But when you find your compatible... You'll know you found each other... Remember LAW OF ATTRACTION
I must say...Chris u handled the questions quite well. ..ur more my type than u were b4 the post...lol
Take care
Id say I dont enjoy sadness but it is comfortable.
😂 the dude is clearly str8
I was fat at 15 ...
:(
Chubby !
I hated my fat!
5'9
180lbs
Do you find intelligence attractive?
An average-looking person who is highly intelligent or a highly physically attractive person who is dumb, which is preferable? For a long-term relationship, obviously the former, because the latter are just for sex.
You are so cute and smart. These people are nuts
Hey stanchris, I just watch your video tonight and I have a good question for you, do you love Italian food or Asia food during romantic relationships? ❤
Love the video 💖
Don't ever react to assumptions. That is where the making an Ass out of U comes into the cliche, ASSUME- Make an Ass out of U and Me. Assumers make a statement about you, rather than ask you a question about you. If they don't ask, don't tell.
Want more storytime content 💞
Your young live everyday and have fun
No assumption, just a question. What color are your eyes???? Just would like to know.