the worst thing for me about having conversations with people is that i just randomly run out of stuff to talk about and it feels really really weird and cringe, im really jealous of people who can hold a convo without if having awkward silences
He just expresses himself so fluidly, he is gotta do a vídeo on that. Wish i could. Its like when i talk to someone who is “popular" in school and stutter just a bit i loose all his attention which is kinda of undecent from his part but thats what they do when they feel more important
Some basics: - Smile - Maintain eyes contact about 80% of the time - Let them finish their sentences - Listen for the topics you can relate with and talk about it - Don’t criticize (except for close friends) - Giving lots of compliments (but don’t flatter, compliment on what is genuinely impressive to you) - Learn to crack jokes on the right time
for everyone who thinks they are boring, your not boring you’re just used to yourself. For example, I find my daily routine boring, doing school work, working out, writing for my book and drawing for my book. I’ve just listed 4 things that could spark a conversation. What you find boring could be someone else’s passion and that’s what you two have in common. When it’s your turn to talk no one said you have to keep everything hidden
You actually turned my life 180 degrees. I went from an unapproachable cold boy into a warm and welcoming man that attracts people that i want to attract. I went to a party the other day and if it was three months earlier, i wouldve sat in the corner and cried for my mom. Instead, i made a list on your videos, and found the consistency to become one of the main energy points in that party. It was the most fun i think ive evwr had in ny life and its all thanks to you. Thank you.
@@dildodiggins1341 I grew a pair so I could get out of an unhealthy relationship and lifted heavy circles and did a bunch of self care stuff, watches a bunch of shimon Davis videos and took some notes on how to talk to people and here we are
This is my personal opinion, everybody is gonna have awkward or dry conversations at sometimes. If either of you aren’t on the same page, not in the mood, or not really feeling it then they become awkward, but that doesn’t mean you make a big deal about it. Now if that keeps happening, then maybe it’s a problem, but if it happens occasionally then you come back the next day and you click then your good to go you got nothing to worry about. (Sorry for the long paragraph)
One thing that blew me away when talking to a guy I like…is when he remembered something I already told him. I’m so used to people never fully listening to what I’m saying. But a guy that actively listens to me and then engages with interest…it’s honestly such an attractive trait to have.
I'm an introvert and I wanna try coming out of my comfort zone, I find talking with someone awkward because I can't reply or talk about something on my mind because I'm too embarrassed. Thanks for this! If I didn't watch this I'll probably just become interviewer to them lol.
You can do it.. I went from not talking a few days in a row, to basically leading a podcast sometimes😂 Now I have to hold back every here and there lol
If you ever find that special someone that you can talk to seemingly forever, it feels like bliss. With an ex of mine, it was a joke between us that we'd talk way too late and drag on dates far later than expected, but those never ending conversations are some of the best I've had. Getting someone who reciprocates the same conversational energy is RARE, but it does exist.
Me and my ex was tight but ppl told her to break up with me most the main person who convinced her to was her best friend who like me i could tell cus she would smile at me and warm up to me all the time @kay123destiny4
Dreaming about being artist, having a really tuff job and losing friends, getting a lot of bad feelings deep inside, your channel is being the light at the end of it all for me, thank you king, you're keeping me strong! Love and peace, friends ❤
Planning on watching you every morning since every video feels like its talking about my exact predicaments😭🙏 Definitely my favorite youtuber for just talking and i dont even mess with channels like this. Thanks Shimon
I have so many older siblings, but Shimon Davis is definitely the best one. Hes taught me how to be a better sister to my brother. Watching him makes me realize what a dick I am, fr. Im so glad that watching him has helped me change.
yo man i just wanna say i’ve been watching u for quite some time now. Your videos have helped me be more accepting of myself. So thank you. I wanna be like you when i grow up.
Man first of all, your voice is so calm, I couldn't help to not mention it, second of all Imma be honest with you in my daily life, I thought I was the one who couldn't keep the conversation going, when in reality, people just don't wanna listen, not that I am talking too much, but people just don't wanna listen to be honest, and listening to this video, i kind of figured it out, so thank you for that. Keep up with the same content man :)
This man’s videos are a breathe of fresh air, after a long stressful day of work I feel agitated scrolling on tt aimlessly. There’s something so comforting and intimate about these conversations. AirPods in, drowning out everyone. I don’t usually ever comment but there’s something so unique about him
Just discovered your channel a few days ago. I'm so glad I did. I'm 26 and I am boring to talk to. I know I'm boring to talk to because I have an inability to create bonds with people. I've found your videos very helpful. Now I just have to go out and use these tips you've dispensed. Thanks a lot for all these tips.
Man, thank you so much, I haven’t made any friends after I was in a camp last summer, I felt so freaking lonely, but then I stumbled across your channel, and watching this vid reminded me, how to simply talk to people, thank you so much again bro. Love.
These videos are great, really great. Super helpful, even little things explained calmly by a charismatic guy. Keep up the fantastic work man, much love
bro idk if you remember me but I first commented when you had 2000 subs , I love how you kept the Chanel and yourself the same way ,much deserved brooks ,love from Germany
THANK YOU FOR THIS!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! love this video. sometimes we get so caught up with impressing someone or being 'perfect', that we forget to LISTEN to the person. once you shift your energy from focusing on yourself, and focus on the person and get to know them, conversation really gets easier. because you don't talk from a place of 'LIKE ME' but rather 'what can I learn about you?'. also good point about trying to be interesting in conversation- you should really go out and experience interesting things rather than try to come up with interesting questions or conversations lol. it really comes down to a shift in focus.
u are a blessing G thank u so mush ive been having a problem with this , i thought people were dry and im not saying some are not but think its because im always quick to talk and slow to listen its just the why ive always been im an out going person but i guess i tend to not give them a chance to speak and be invested in the convo this made me realize that people like to be listened to and its the same with me too thats y i speak to much i dont know how it took me so long to realize that people might be like me, starting now ill try to implement this again thank u
your ability to tell stories is almost fantastical, yoou have some of the best potential ive seen on youtube, granted that opinion is one of many but please keep doing what you are doing, if not for people like me then for yourself.
My brother. I shit you not, I used all of your advice and got a gf yesterday. I’ve had been talking to her for a while and we’ve known each other for a while. I finally shot my shot and it worked. Thank you man, she’s awesome in many ways.
when i started improving my convo skills i literally learnt that that talking about little dates together, talking about people make em mad and mainly asking theqm questions was a great way to learn if you like a person and they like you
Great words of advice! I love you too brother. Thank you for the enlightenment. I’ve always been a passionate and caring man, but sometimes that can be a bit much for girls. These thought’s invoke a bigger picture in my mind to not just love a woman, but keep her interested and engaged with a sincere purpose.
Question statement conversation. This is golden! Another point I'd like to add is that instead of focusing on having a long conversation, try to focus on having a good short conversation. Quality > Quantity.
Thank you man. It's heartwarmong watching this video and I've really learned alot useful stuff from it. I know nothing would happen if i just keep on watching these videos so I'm gonna apply.
W video , this si fax. Whats also great about this advice is that yea we are so good at asking mad questions, we just don't go more in depth and do the other steps mentioned in this video , which are statement, conservation
This is the first video I watched by you because I was searching for a video on how to have better conversations and now I can’t stop watching your videos 😅
This is hands down one of the most influential channels (for me) that I've come across. Hoping for many subscribers to come. never change bro (in a type of channel u are not in a dont grow way)
when i was younger i used to be really good at conversations with people and genuily making them intresting for the other person but now not really im more awkward and shy but thanks for telling this information to people who need it or have forgotten how to communicate with others
We better would learn some life lessons like this (like talk bout exp. like from videos from you) in school man… I can solve so much problems or points where i can’t get any further. Thanks a lot 🤝
same man.. what helped me the most was just trying to talk to as many people as i can. if i see someone ik outside? try and spark a conversation. on the bus, at school, at the park, practice makes perfect. i still feel very awkward most of the time but i dont let it get to me. if u dont let urself think its awkward then it isnt.
damn i really gotta stop asking people if they own a giraffe
😭
😂
😂😂😂
I thought I was the only one asking that! Feeling relieved
I have a date Sunday and this is the first thing i'm gonna ask them
the worst thing for me about having conversations with people is that i just randomly run out of stuff to talk about and it feels really really weird and cringe, im really jealous of people who can hold a convo without if having awkward silences
Im glad im not alone on this one. Even when im with my parents and it gets quiet it just feels awkward for me
@@6LTD6bruh i know right 😭😭 its like super uncomfortable, like i get so annoyed at myself and wish i was just normal
real
study conversations. if u have a friend that does all the talking with other people pay attention
appreciate the silence you're in. If u cant love yourself or others in silence why would you care if u only love them for their doings
im ashamed i gotta watch this😭😭😭😭😭😭
Lmao
Real 😭💀
I feel you, sometimes I feel like alien learning to be human when searching this kind of topic
@@acecream8568 omg frr
@@oompaloompa24dont be, some people (including me) need this😅
I've never seen someone as emotionally intelligent as this guy, bravo
Much love fam
Yo instead of tips he actually gave a full example
bro is too smooth to be real, qualityy..!!
He just expresses himself so fluidly, he is gotta do a vídeo on that. Wish i could. Its like when i talk to someone who is “popular" in school and stutter just a bit i loose all his attention which is kinda of undecent from his part but thats what they do when they feel more important
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Some basics:
- Smile
- Maintain eyes contact about 80% of the time
- Let them finish their sentences
- Listen for the topics you can relate with and talk about it
- Don’t criticize (except for close friends)
- Giving lots of compliments (but don’t flatter, compliment on what is genuinely impressive to you)
- Learn to crack jokes on the right time
Don't criticize,condemn,or complain
why would u smile lmao that just makes it seem like u either think they are funny, or something else is funny and it just makes the convo feel weird
@@hen618 it's a comfort sign. It subconsciously makes people feel safe-r, compared to going and talking to someone with a blank/another expression.
Just do a half smile withiut your teeth @@hen618
I need this thank you I’m literally taking notes 📝
this man fr helping me outsmart my autism, stopping me from going nonverbal
Was looking for a comment to convince me the vid would be good ☝️ this is the one
i wish i could outsmart my autism i just cant hold conversations
@@andrewdrewandy Yeah, we are all in this fight together. Don't give up! We won't be perfect but we will improve.
Same.
It sucks when your putting in energy into getting to know someone and they other person doesn't reciprocate
its really frustrating but the best thing to do is to just let it go or speak about it
You gotta move on eventually
How I feel about my platonic friend
So move on bro, the person doesn't deserves your energy, simply as that.
@@milhouse777what if I'm scared of ending alone
for everyone who thinks they are boring, your not boring you’re just used to yourself. For example, I find my daily routine boring, doing school work, working out, writing for my book and drawing for my book. I’ve just listed 4 things that could spark a conversation. What you find boring could be someone else’s passion and that’s what you two have in common. When it’s your turn to talk no one said you have to keep everything hidden
Thanks bro! You really opened my eyes.
You actually turned my life 180 degrees. I went from an unapproachable cold boy into a warm and welcoming man that attracts people that i want to attract. I went to a party the other day and if it was three months earlier, i wouldve sat in the corner and cried for my mom. Instead, i made a list on your videos, and found the consistency to become one of the main energy points in that party. It was the most fun i think ive evwr had in ny life and its all thanks to you. Thank you.
I'm really proud of you man, keep going like this God bless you brother
What exactly have you done, tho? I need some pointers maybe.
@@dildodiggins1341 I grew a pair so I could get out of an unhealthy relationship and lifted heavy circles and did a bunch of self care stuff, watches a bunch of shimon Davis videos and took some notes on how to talk to people and here we are
Lmao me when I lie in the internet😂
Dang !!!🎉😂❤
This is my personal opinion, everybody is gonna have awkward or dry conversations at sometimes. If either of you aren’t on the same page, not in the mood, or not really feeling it then they become awkward, but that doesn’t mean you make a big deal about it. Now if that keeps happening, then maybe it’s a problem, but if it happens occasionally then you come back the next day and you click then your good to go you got nothing to worry about. (Sorry for the long paragraph)
Certainly
This guy is literally so chilled . I'd like to just sit with him and have a cup of tea and just talk.
One thing that blew me away when talking to a guy I like…is when he remembered something I already told him. I’m so used to people never fully listening to what I’m saying. But a guy that actively listens to me and then engages with interest…it’s honestly such an attractive trait to have.
tried talking to her after watching this, im still cooked
Don't be persistent, but don't give up. You got this.
This comment made me giggle
“Conversation is just instructions, but it’s up to you to find the Manual” man 👏
I'm an introvert and I wanna try coming out of my comfort zone, I find talking with someone awkward because I can't reply or talk about something on my mind because I'm too embarrassed. Thanks for this! If I didn't watch this I'll probably just become interviewer to them lol.
You can do it.. I went from not talking a few days in a row, to basically leading a podcast sometimes😂
Now I have to hold back every here and there lol
If you ever find that special someone that you can talk to seemingly forever, it feels like bliss. With an ex of mine, it was a joke between us that we'd talk way too late and drag on dates far later than expected, but those never ending conversations are some of the best I've had. Getting someone who reciprocates the same conversational energy is RARE, but it does exist.
I can relate. It def exists
I relate so much to this comment 💯
Me and my ex was tight but ppl told her to break up with me most the main person who convinced her to was her best friend who like me i could tell cus she would smile at me and warm up to me all the time @kay123destiny4
“ Do you have a giraffe “💀
i was lookin for this😭
what i’ve learned before watching this is asking more questions is better than answering them
Mr. Davis, you single handedly just improved my communication skills almost 10 fold
everything you talk about is so personal and relatable, youre so real
Dreaming about being artist, having a really tuff job and losing friends, getting a lot of bad feelings deep inside, your channel is being the light at the end of it all for me, thank you king, you're keeping me strong! Love and peace, friends ❤
start working out bro
Planning on watching you every morning since every video feels like its talking about my exact predicaments😭🙏 Definitely my favorite youtuber for just talking and i dont even mess with channels like this. Thanks Shimon
I appreciate you fam
You're a special young man glad you're choosing to help others
I have so many older siblings, but Shimon Davis is definitely the best one.
Hes taught me how to be a better sister to my brother. Watching him makes me realize what a dick I am, fr. Im so glad that watching him has helped me change.
yo man i just wanna say i’ve been watching u for quite some time now. Your videos have helped me be more accepting of myself. So thank you. I wanna be like you when i grow up.
Ngl bro this my second vid I watched of yours and you’ve taught me accountability and patience so far🤝🏾💯keep grinding Brodie you changing lives !
Man first of all, your voice is so calm, I couldn't help to not mention it, second of all Imma be honest with you in my daily life, I thought I was the one who couldn't keep the conversation going, when in reality, people just don't wanna listen, not that I am talking too much, but people just don't wanna listen to be honest, and listening to this video, i kind of figured it out, so thank you for that. Keep up with the same content man :)
I probably don't need this but the content is just top tier
W YOU
Then you need it lol. Tis top teir for sure!
This man’s videos are a breathe of fresh air, after a long stressful day of work I feel agitated scrolling on tt aimlessly. There’s something so comforting and intimate about these conversations. AirPods in, drowning out everyone. I don’t usually ever comment but there’s something so unique about him
I love how you keep the advice in a positive direction, while remaining calm, comforting, and funny. It's sexy.
Bless your soul, brother. Keep doing what you're doing because it's working, I have so much respect for you
Just discovered your channel a few days ago. I'm so glad I did. I'm 26 and I am boring to talk to. I know I'm boring to talk to because I have an inability to create bonds with people. I've found your videos very helpful. Now I just have to go out and use these tips you've dispensed. Thanks a lot for all these tips.
dude you are one of the most genuine and wise person on the internet, sending love
Man, thank you so much, I haven’t made any friends after I was in a camp last summer, I felt so freaking lonely, but then I stumbled across your channel, and watching this vid reminded me, how to simply talk to people, thank you so much again bro.
Love.
These vids been helping recover from the social hell I've been living since covid
These videos are great, really great. Super helpful, even little things explained calmly by a charismatic guy. Keep up the fantastic work man, much love
This is as real as it gets. Respect for you! Looking for more content from you!
bro idk if you remember me but I first commented when you had 2000 subs , I love how you kept the Chanel and yourself the same way ,much deserved brooks ,love from Germany
THANK YOU FOR THIS!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! love this video. sometimes we get so caught up with impressing someone or being 'perfect', that we forget to LISTEN to the person. once you shift your energy from focusing on yourself, and focus on the person and get to know them, conversation really gets easier. because you don't talk from a place of 'LIKE ME' but rather 'what can I learn about you?'. also good point about trying to be interesting in conversation- you should really go out and experience interesting things rather than try to come up with interesting questions or conversations lol. it really comes down to a shift in focus.
Sucks when they just respond with one-word answers.
If they give you 1 word answers they probably don’t wanna talk
@@jonathancena5223 yeah I figured that a while ago
dude...this guy just changed my whole perception of life, thanks bro
wow he really explained this shit so well, genuinely tysm ur the first person who actually knows how to explain it, godly video lmao
u are a blessing G thank u so mush ive been having a problem with this , i thought people were dry and im not saying some are not but think its because im always quick to talk and slow to listen its just the why ive always been im an out going person but i guess i tend to not give them a chance to speak and be invested in the convo this made me realize that people like to be listened to and its the same with me too thats y i speak to much i dont know how it took me so long to realize that people might be like me, starting now ill try to implement this again thank u
Bro you are an absolute Guru. Thanks, I have been watching a lot of your videos rescently
The best Video ever. Simple strait to the point, and easy to follow. Made me relies how simple communicating can be.
Bro I love this channel, discovered you 2 days ago and love ending my day with your video 😎
your ability to tell stories is almost fantastical, yoou have some of the best potential ive seen on youtube, granted that opinion is one of many but please keep doing what you are doing, if not for people like me then for yourself.
this video helped me realize so much of what i was doing is wrong, thank you so much
My brother. I shit you not, I used all of your advice and got a gf yesterday. I’ve had been talking to her for a while and we’ve known each other for a while. I finally shot my shot and it worked. Thank you man, she’s awesome in many ways.
First Video I’ve ever watched by you & I’m already loving your channel. Droppin’ GEMS!
when i started improving my convo skills i literally learnt that that talking about little dates together, talking about people make em mad and mainly asking theqm questions was a great way to learn if you like a person and they like you
Brother you are helping so much! God bless you bro!
Thank you.
Thank you for this knowledge, I really appreciate people like you teaching us life lessons.
Much love from Australia
I am always thankful that I found this guy!
Great words of advice! I love you too brother. Thank you for the enlightenment. I’ve always been a passionate and caring man, but sometimes that can be a bit much for girls. These thought’s invoke a bigger picture in my mind to not just love a woman, but keep her interested and engaged with a sincere purpose.
I struggle with this sometimes so thank u for this video it’s nice to know that I’m not alone
i''m giving you an internet hug, shimon. you are the best you gave examples too i love it. very great video!
i've been trying to figure out how to talk to a guy a like. this worked wonders, thank you so much!
Your voice is so soothing. I’m laying here trying to pay attention but I could fall asleep at the same time 😂 I’m super relaxed
Question statement conversation. This is golden!
Another point I'd like to add is that instead of focusing on having a long conversation, try to focus on having a good short conversation. Quality > Quantity.
Thank you man. It's heartwarmong watching this video and I've really learned alot useful stuff from it. I know nothing would happen if i just keep on watching these videos so I'm gonna apply.
im so glad i found this video it gave me a whole new perspective on how to keep a conversation thank you for posting this👍
W video , this si fax. Whats also great about this advice is that yea we are so good at asking mad questions, we just don't go more in depth and do the other steps mentioned in this video , which are statement, conservation
Legitimately fixed my life with this one🙏
As a fellow wordsmith, I really appreciate the target practice metaphor. 👍🏼
Out of all conversations learning he’s one of the best explainers
Bro i watch your videos over and over! Taking notes 📝
you made look at one side i never done YOU reminded ME to LISTEN Ty for the advice gng i appreciate it hella
This is the first video I watched by you because I was searching for a video on how to have better conversations and now I can’t stop watching your videos 😅
Would love to see a video of you having a conversation with your grandfather, much love! Keep up the great work
Thank you
Fasho gang i appreciate u this girl been on my mind and imma
Work on the communication cause that’s how are conversations is going to get better
I love you bro, you really changing my life fr ❤️💯
Such a wonderful young man. I know your parents proud
Instructions unclear, she said she likes space and we are now on our way to mars for a date.
This is the best advice I’ve found in video form probably ever
This was super helpful! Cant wait to run into some people this week
This is hands down one of the most influential channels (for me) that I've come across. Hoping for many subscribers to come. never change bro (in a type of channel u are not in a dont grow way)
Same bro this guy taking us brodies to the STARS
I like how your just talking and laying out your point very clearly. Giving examples in the process and not just bombarding us with 100 tips😂😂😂
I really want to be friends with this guy. Good advice man. Keep it up.
that was a good video!! you got some good vibes☀️☀️☀️
thanks for the advice man
I don’t know what led me to this video. But I agree with this. And I love your energy + cool style bro.
great work on the video as usual my man. would love to see a video on the topic of sugar/sugar addiction.
This dude is so kind and awesome I’m in
ive been subbed to you since you had like 2k subs not even a few months ago good looks g congrats on 100k
Legend!
when i was younger i used to be really good at conversations with people and genuily making them intresting for the other person but now not really im more awkward and shy but thanks for telling this information to people who need it or have forgotten how to communicate with others
This guy's so cool, always great advice
Your really simple but intelligent mannn, thank you so much🙏
We better would learn some life lessons like this (like talk bout exp. like from videos from you) in school man…
I can solve so much problems or points where i can’t get any further.
Thanks a lot 🤝
Thx man you really help à lot of people
I'm hearing a million *DINGS* listening to you. This was great. Thank you!
Great video really nailed this topic
Thank you so much for this!
oh man... this is gold. bro, you are hilarious. I love it
As an autistic person i have trouble talking to people, now i have some sort of idea on how to talk to people. Thank you!
same man.. what helped me the most was just trying to talk to as many people as i can. if i see someone ik outside? try and spark a conversation. on the bus, at school, at the park, practice makes perfect. i still feel very awkward most of the time but i dont let it get to me. if u dont let urself think its awkward then it isnt.
I really needed this ❤ Thanks Man 👊🏻
thank you Bro youre advice actually help so much
This was an absolute masterpiece
this has to be one of the best vid ive ever seen
After watching this video I knew I had to subscribe , I learned a lot in this video lol.
Love your advices and your voice