My Spouse Cheated! Where Is The Remorse? Infidelity Recovery
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Cheating spouses are never remorseful. Their overriding concern is being found out and then when they are it's damage limitation to their reputation.
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bangkokstevie incorrect. I and my wife grew apart and in doing so I did what I knew was wrong. There is not one single day that goes by, where I do not feel remorse, guilt, sadness and shame. That was 16 years ago. My wife forgave me because she relied upon God during that time. We now have a STRONG marriage. Boundaries are NOT crossed and I no longer entertain opposite sex friends.
bangkokstevie I agree. Maybe a drunken one night stand. But a long term affair: consistently choosing another over your partner.... there is no remorse. Only attempts to minimize the affair.
@@JeffreyStrader Happy to see your encouraging comment and happy for you and your spouse. Thank you. Thank You God!
7 reasons for no remorse:
1) They didn’t know they were being unfaithful
2) They engage in an exit affair in order to end the marriage
3) The cheater has huge grievances against their spouse and wants to hurt them
4) They are still in the affair
5) They still have feelings for the affair partner
6) Sign of self preservation and a denial of truth
7) showing remorse keeps the issue of shame alive and they don’t want to deal with the consequences
If you’ve hurt someone and are ridiculous enough to tell yourself or your spouse “I did it, just let it go” you are severely lost. If you are willing to truly admit and change yourself for the better, work everything out if the spouse that was hurt is also willing to work on the relationship.
My husband's affair was seven years ago. Just found out a week ago that it was a full blown romantic sexual relationship, as he told me it was just emotional. That was hard enough! But he lied that he didn't sleep with her. I really truly never thought he would ever do that to me. But when I found out, he was angry at me and almost violent when I locked myself in the bathroom with his phone. As the weeks went on, we fought so much. He wasn't even sorry. Basically asked me if I wanted him to quit his job, like he didn't care either way. Told me he wanted to work on it and then was still talking to her. He would look at me like he pittyed me and get irate when I asked questions etc. We had three kids and had been together for 13 years. He wasn't repentant until many months later. And just told me the truth seven years later and is extremely guilty and repentant now.. but I am still bewildered that he was such an asshole and made me feel like I had done something wrong when he was out screwing a 19 year old 🙄 😠
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God help you guys. 🙏
I hope you leaved him.
Many, many years ago I and my wife were struggling in our relationship and we unfortunately at that time, grew apart. Why, neither of us knew why. I gave into a situation that I knew I should have never allowed to escalate. Allowing an opposite sex friend to enter into my safe zone, and in doing so, I did what I knew was wrong. There is not one single day that goes by, where I do not feel remorse, guilt, sadness and shame. That was 16 years ago. My wife forgave me because she relied upon God during that time. We now have a STRONG marriage. Boundaries are NOT crossed and I no longer entertain opposite sex friends.
Jeffrey Sasquatch I need some advice 💔😩
How long did it take for you come to your senses?
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@@nunyabizness32 not quick enough....:-(
@@jessicadeville8951 there is NO ONE worth destroying a marriage/relationship over, NO ONE!
Question!! Why does it seem like people get wrapped up in adulterous relationships so much deeper and like "I love them!" and all even if the affair only lasted a short time when if it were a regular relationship, they would be not that interested in the person and certainly wouldn't claim to love them. And after a breakup, wouldn't be that upset either. But when it comes to the same individual partner in an affair, they are totally blinded and believe they feel all these things for someone that they wouldn't feel for them in a regular relationship. They have such a hard time letting go and are willing to lose their families for this person who likely isn't even as awesome as their spouse. Why is that?!
Please look up the term reminence.
Quantum Explorer: In response to your 2 blogs, The worst part of discovery of an affair isn’t limited to the discovery. Often the worst damage done to the betrayed is how the offending spouse fails to “show up” afterwards. Their miserable behaviors, more lies, minimalizations, more secrecy, more coverups, lack of remorse, lack of compassion and failure to end the affair or “own” what they’ve done or face the consequences of their bad choices is what leads to divorce. The second blog; They’re living in a fantasy world. They believe the affair was so much better because of how it made them feel. They didn’t have to be real or honest or deal with daily reality. It was pure fantasy. Total self absorption and feeding their own ego! They love the admiration of someone that really doesn’t know them. It’s like getting an award you didn’t earn. Some shallow people think it has the same value as being rewarded for something they actually accomplished. The only thing they actually accomplished was to value an illusion more than the real thing! They love the counterfeit more than actual gold and worse, they don’t know the difference! They don’t value hard work. They want the easy way. When it becomes hard, they just dispose of that person and find a new supply to feed their shallow ego. I think they’re used to someone else to clean up their debris. No consequences to them. They become angry if you try to show consequences or anything that makes them feel uncomfortable. Easy way people don’t like to be uncomfortable! It doesn’t make them feel good! And feeling good is what they’re seeking in these affairs. If they refuse to learn, refuse to grow into an adult, please, wipe your feet and move on. They’ll never be enough for you. I’ve been in the same boat. I wish you well on your journey.
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Limerence @@davidsoom1551
Thank you so much for getting back. I appreciate your feed back. May God keep blessing you and your family and give you more wisdom for the work you are doing!
#8 she is completely nuts! My wife filed six weeks after we separated. Started shopping for rings one month later. BF is completely BSC too!
I've suspected my husband of being unfaithful with our next door neighbor!! He's always staring at her house but denies it every time & says it's not being a good "christian" if he ignores her completely! There's so much more to the story!
Lies and Infidelity is a very serious issue to deal with and it has become a major threat to most marriages and relationships.Scars left behind from a narcissist husband is hard to erase from the mind. I was reluctant at first about finding the truth about my cheating husband but I’m glad I finally took the courage for it .I got help from Cyber Hack Solutions as he helped cloned my cheating husband’s phone and I got access to all his phone call logs, emails, text messages both deleted texts and also social media chats; whatsApp , Facebook, Instagram without having access to his phone because he is mostly out of town due to the nature of his work , all I provided was his phone number to this wonderful hacker. This was very revealing for me as he’s a serial cheater until I got into his phone and ended things.I’m glad to uncover his, lies, secrets and Infidelity. You can contact this great Hacker David via gmail (cyberhack003) or text and speak to him directly on his phone and WhatsApp : +15303784744
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i believe my wife had a physical affair but she claims it was not physical. i am dealing with a ton of pain and everytime i try to talk about it or ask a single question about her and him, she blows up and starts saying things like " arent you just such a victim" or "woah is me" or "its your fault i started talking to him" or "you deserved for it to be even worse than it was". I feel no closure. i have no information about any details. so not only does she not show remorse but she refuses to share any details. this makes me think they did have sex and she will never admit it. ive been praying hard for my wife and my marriage but this is so painful. when her affair isnt the topic though, we are better than ever. i just dont know how i can get over it and truly have closure if she wont be honest. any advice. p.s we are in counseling. he says give it to God
Do u have an email? I'm not from the US
When your married and get separate but still married, and your partner finds some else is that conceited unfaithful?
What? Did you proofread your comment? Read it out loud and see if it makes sense to you.
@melanier7309
Seems like spelling and grammar are not your ,his, or my strong suit. But it seems easy enough to comprehend.
What were your marriage vows? What were the expectations of the marriage vows or promises? Did " till seperation do we part" enter your mind ?
Not remorseful....that is a nonstarter.
It's been a few months now and my wife he's mostly only blamed me. She says it's because I was a bad husband.
He was not remorseful after a year. Nor did he end the affair. He continued to lie.
What do you do about #3
WoW WoW this is amazing. Especially the part of the greaving phase. I knew it when they are having those thoughts afterwards and then deny how they feel until they come out of that “Stuper”. I believe that so much. But it is extremely hard to wait until they get there. #5 and #7 are killers 🤦🏽♀️🤦🏽♀️
Its been over 6 months and she still has not come clean, how many partners, last time u were with AP, r u still talking to them, social media ect......trying to hang on but slipping fast
Give her an ultimatum and be prepared to walk if she doesn't come clean. Remember it can be painful for her too, but an ultimatum can jolt her to face up to their actions. She must be made to understand that this is ABSOLUTELY NECESSARY if you are to heal from this.
Brian Hernandez I'm in the same boat. My wife never deleted anything from her phon so I was forced to see hundreds of vulgar messages and pictures exchanged with three other men.
I had a issue with testosterone and she blames me.
I'm in the same situation, if she only knew what is possible. Reconciling is always an option but you gotta see.
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What about when you've been separated for over a 1year? No remorse of anything and the affair it's been going for the past 5yrs? Can I still believe the marriage can be saved?
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Why do you still wanna stay with a person like that? The marriage was over from the day he cheated. He gets aroused by other woman, he gets all those good feelings when he is with "her"..NOT YOU...and you still want him? Hell no! He didn't think about you or your kids...cheaters are selfish. They have no remorse. Get a divorce and find a new person for you. The world has 7 billion people... There is someone out there waiting to meet you.
Lies and Infidelity is a very serious issue to deal with and it’s a major threat to most marriages and relationships.Scars left behind from a narcissist husband is hard to erase from the mind. I was reluctant at first about finding the truth about my cheating husband but I’m glad I finally took the courage for it .I got help from Cyber Hack Solutions as he helped clone my cheating husband’s phone and I got access to all his phone call logs, emails, text messages both deleted texts and also social media chats; whatsApp , Facebook, Instagram without having access to his phone because he is mostly out of town due to the nature of his work , all I provided was his phone number to this wonderful hacker. This was very revealing for me as he’s a serial cheater until I got into his phone and ended things.I’m glad to uncover his, lies, secrets and Infidelity. You can contact this amazing Hacker David via gmail (cyberhack003) or text and call on his phone and WhatsApp : +15303784744
16:30 This is my wife. I took to apologizing to me for her, out loud. I would say "Husband, I'm sorry, I was wrong" and explain to her that I understand she lacks the character to admit fault. Now considering I caught her in 2 emotional affairs at the same time, I'm not sure how to apologize for her for that.. I'll have to think on it.. :)
Great information! Please, I beg you leave politics out of it. (Using Trump to illustrate was very inappropriate)
Agree! Big turn off.
Were you saying that about President Trump? That he would never admit that he was wrong about anything? If so, I do not like that. Please refrain from talking about My Beloved President! Other than that , I love y’all!!❤️
😂 I will admit... That totally caught me off guard. I had to play it back 2x to make sure that's in fact what he said. I really enjoy their content but this remark was unexpected and imo quite unnecessary, in order to make the point. I wonder how he feels about him now... in 2023 as the entire country is burning down.
Wish you could keep your politics out of this. Trump has some major flaws, but so does biden , Clinton, and your hero Barack. Throwing your politics where it does not belong only puts your honesty and bias in question.