Covid sent us to couples therapy... and it changed our relationship!
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- Опубликовано: 5 мар 2023
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Here is a CLIP from the NEW EPISODE of Beautiful and Bothered with Johnny Ross where he and his fiancé Casey, answer all of your questions polled from Instagram and RUclips! They discuss how they met, how they knew each other was "the one", their relationship, careers, their upcoming wedding, going to couples counseling, and their (borderline unhealthy) obsession with food! In addition, how they deal with homophobia as a gay LGBTQ couple, and so much more! Get to know Johnny and Casey better on this heartwarming and hilarious new episode!
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If you survived the Covid isolation together, it means your relationship is authentic and you are meant to be together. I feel you are so compatible and look great together. Wish you the best❤️
I'm a family therapist and I am so glad you both went into therapy. You are so correct that individuals can heal and grow through relationship therapy.
Everyone would love a part 2!! I've been married to only one man for 37 yrs..one of the secrets to a successful marriage is NEVER forget your spouse is human and WILL make mistakes. Forgiveness is everything. Life is supposed to be a rollercoaster because if there are no ups and downs then you've flat lined and are sitting still. The only time you should sit still is on a lovely beach somewhere warm. 😁 Love ya!❤
Wise words! And so true
@@richardjamesrochardt7573 Why, thank you so much! 🤗
I second this, been with my man for 12 yrs and as you said remember they are human too, when you fight (because it happens to everyone once in a while) talk to each other before going to bed, my saying is 'never let the sun go down dark' forgive eacho ther AND sometimes compromise when necessary.
And also honesty is THE most important thing in a relationship, on both sides!! not just one side!
Single and convinced I'm not made for a relationship. I have lived alone for so long that it makes it very hard to share my space. Glad you are okay. Love your channel.
I love so much that you both are helping BREAK THE STIGMA that something has to be wrong or you have to be broken to go to couples therapy. It's so dang refreshing thank you for that. You don't have to wait until things are bad to improve/have a deeper understanding/insight of what you already have. ❤️❤️❤️
Thank you!! ❤
@@JohnnyRoss no thank you it really is refreshing and helps me to remember to have hope in humanity as someone who loses that from time to time. You're a friggin awesome human being 😊❤️
Early 2020 destroyed me. I had worked so hard in 2019 to improve my health (physically and mentally) but now I am just so muddled and lost. My hubby and I run a business and spend 24/7 together anyway, but being locked up in the same house for that period really took a toll. Maybe we need to look into this too
Do it. You won't regret it.
Excellent idea - good luck !
My bf and I went to couples therapy, but not due to COVID; I think it’s good to have that accepted by people to seek help in this way! Love that you guys did it and it’s helped you both ❤️
You two are off to a great start!
My hubby and I have been married for 32 years in July, plus four years dating before that (we met in high school band camp, lol, seriously), and you are absolutely right. It takes honest and kind communication above all else, respect and trust, and it does take work. Its an investment. You have to take the time to learn how to do it, to practice it, fail once in awhile and try again. Just like anything else you learn, it takes time, practice and commitment. Own your mistakes, and be gracious with your partners mistakes. It changes over time, too, in a long relationship, you're both growing older and come into different stages of life. The daily grind is different, sometimes your goals change or shift, there are different responsibilities or needs, etc.
Some people say love comes first, or love solves everything, but there is not room for love without trust and respect first. Friendship first. You are so fortunate to be learning these lessons with help, and so young, and early in your relationship. You're doing great.
I never expected to find the man I married 25 years ago. We make it work and never give up on each other. I tried to say goodbye to everything and this man saved me , loved me, let me greive . Johnny. Thank you. You have a spark that brings joy. Keep it up.
COVID broke families and friends. Those who got through it you can get through anything.
Relationships are work. But my husband and I have been together 15 years.
Water your own grass. The grass is greenest where you water it.
If you don't wanna water it anymore, you're probably done. Also grass watering is a 2 person job.
For anyone entering a new relationship, remember this. You have to look inward, individually and as a couple, before you can look outward. Know thyselves.
I’m so very glad that you & your partner weren’t afraid to go to therapy. Could never get my ex to go; “Because there’s nothing wrong with me!” 🤦♀️
So right! Hubby and I have been married 17yrs this month and have worked at our relationship since the day we started dating.
We still love each other so much but our relationship is not perfect. We do disagree with each other often but we never go to sleep angry because we make a point to work it out first. The next day is always a new start when we can both do better than the day before.
I think if you need to go to therapy for help, then do so!
Never put it off!
I absolutely heard everything you guys said! I’m in therapy now and love it! I’ve actually been in it on and off for years. I get exactly what you meant when you said you don’t have to wait for something to be “wrong” to go. I hope people benefit from listening to you to. Thanks for sharing this intimate part of yourselves❤️❤️❤️
If more friends, parents and children, etc would go to therapy SO much healing could take place ❤️
Love how when you finish and your fiance starts to talk, you pick up your phone.... 🤦😅💜
Johnny, I love how open you are!! I so wish my ex-husband and I, would of done it. I'm 100% sure we would still be together now. It makes me happy when I hear about other couples, who work on their relationships. It makes me happy, that someone else won't have to go through the pain of a breakup/divorce.
I started dating my husband a week before Christmas!
I met the whole family on Christmas!
We were married for 39 years when Matt died from Early Onset Alzheimer's!
I learned a deep love connection ❤
So sorry about your loss. So happy for you that you had the love of your life by your side for 39 years. I only wish that in my next life time (if there is one) I get to experience that time of love and happiness. Hope you’re doing good and happy.
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Thank you so much,Robin!
I am doing well.I have a whole new appreciation for life!
I became a better person because of Matt's journey.
I love the ending when you are on your phone while he is still talking, you checked out, but it was funny. I love your show and hope to see more of your fiance...relationship advice and aha's are always welcome. Much love from AZ
Love seeing these extra videos. This was great topic
I'm happy to see your cold is shifting, an you are more cheerful, I understand why you want to stay in Liverpool, it has given you a job, an you are happier there mentally. Hold on there, love to fur babies 🫂🐾🐈🫂🐈🫂🫂 💜💜💜💜
You're very wise..Thank you for the insight
You guys make such a beautiful couple God bless and have a happy life together
What great advice in a 3 minute video! 💜💜💜
Therapy is the greatest thing ever! Love the idea of going with a friend. ❤
Every relationship is hardwork! It’s like you another job !!!
Great informative video! Thank you
It’s so cliche and “ick,” but you CANNOT love anyone else they way they deserve, until you truly love yourself. Also, on the flip side, you will NOT receive the love you truly deserve from someone who doesn’t love themselves.
Wow you guys are such a great couple ❤
Right ? They’re there such a real couple no clout just authentic I love it
@@1232lyft exactly I feel you don't see that often
I'm starting couples Therapy pretty soon. I hope my therapist is as awesome as yours!
O man if you got through Covid you can get through anything 😂❤❤❤❤
I've been with my husband almost 34 yrs we as a couple have learned to walk away and let each other calm down 😂😂( we are both type a personality)but also with age comes wisdom and you do get calmer the older you get..And he has learned to sleep with 1 eye open😂😂😂
Couple of cuties right there!
One says- “….talking to one another and communicating…”
as the other one picks up phone and starts reading…😂😂😂
Seriously tho, great idea! I have found that my bff of 20+ years is actually my “person”. It’s like a whole new relationship tho bcuz we never talked and touched like this before. It’s perfect and like a dream right now, but we ALL know how things can change no matter if it truly is your real life, made specifically for you, soulmate so I love this idea! I’m bringing it up. I actually feel he will respond well to it bcuz his parents (never divorced) are very loving ppl and have taught their children how important communication is with your partner. Thanks gays!!!! I mean…”thanks guys!!!!!”
Most marriages would survive if they did a check in during therapy. You should talk to a therapist every six months like having your teeth cleaned. I've been married 25 years and it has been a lot of ups and downs to get here. Relationships are hard work.
I need to do couples Therapy with my 3 kids
My 2 cats
& Myself
Sometimes when the world gives you a bad mess of blad Sometimes you need help. It's always great to talk to someone on The outside to help with your inside problems. It's just good to share and get those things off your chest so I agree theory on any level is a great tool to use. I'm so glad that you guys have your relationship on track keep using the tools she gave you. Love you my Cutie patootie always many blessings to you and Casey. Smooches 😘 😘
Therapy is like exercise, it’s just there to keep things running well. There don’t have to be huge problems, and therapy can help it not get to that point.
Both look good
you look cute together
Jonny, let him talk please. You keep interrupting and dominating the conversation. Did you seriously pick up your phone and start scrolling while he was talking? That’s a huge no.
Listening is so important. I’ve been happily married 50 years. I know what works.
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