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  • Опубликовано: 2 ноя 2024

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  • @alisaatwater12
    @alisaatwater12 2 года назад +165

    I like how Marcus convinced himself that he’s still a “man of few words” 😂 while you may be that IRL, when the camera is on you have a lot to say. Gone are the days where you are considered “quiet” to us

    • @epiphany1900
      @epiphany1900 2 года назад +7

      Bc this man can talk!! 😂😂

    • @DJ-wl9iw
      @DJ-wl9iw 2 года назад +6

      Right??? I’m watching the podcast thinking “man of few words where??” 😂😂😂

    • @godsgift6
      @godsgift6 2 года назад +8

      Angel and Marcus have worked hard to get him to get comfortable in front of the camera, and to ensure to turn it on, when having dialogue so that it can be engaging to watch.

    • @JM-qg9bo
      @JM-qg9bo 2 года назад +3

      Lol I just commented on a different video that I remember when Marcus barely said a word. Yeah long gone are those days. I'm here for it because when he did talk it made sense. He spoke firm, said what he said, and that's that.

  • @Drm386
    @Drm386 2 года назад +133

    Greg said it best, men assume women make an emotional connection in order to cheat. The reality is, anything you can do, we can do better 🤣🤣🤣 women are more than capable of being emotionless in these situations

    • @Kbatl1997
      @Kbatl1997 2 года назад +24

      Lol yeah its just selfishness as a human no gender to it!

    • @justmissjamey
      @justmissjamey 2 года назад +3

      @@Kbatl1997 facts

    • @ArinsSecret
      @ArinsSecret 2 года назад +7

      Exactly, if I had a dollar for every time I’ve been called a cold hearted bi*ch….😏

    • @lacretiaglenn2786
      @lacretiaglenn2786 2 года назад +4

      Preach Sis!!! At the end of the day as a grown ass person you are making a decision to cheat!

    • @nunayodangbizness8403
      @nunayodangbizness8403 2 года назад +1

      My friend is a lesbian she stay getting cheated on. 🤣🤣🤣🤣

  • @miranda2216
    @miranda2216 2 года назад +24

    These are the type of black men im always open to hearing. Honest yet respectful and mature!!!

  • @deedeeg.7519
    @deedeeg.7519 2 года назад +74

    Dad's doing their kids hair is definitely a cookie night!! Helping with chores is one of my love languages!!

    • @heatherrushing5506
      @heatherrushing5506 2 года назад +2

      Definitely! My husband looks like a snack when he takes braids down 😂

  • @kaywisseh
    @kaywisseh 2 года назад +25

    It’s not just sex to me!! Men can save that. I don’t care if emotions are not involved or if they are. That’s the most intimate thing you can share with another person. Don’t give away something we share. Period. Cheating is cheating. I don’t care how you slice it.

  • @anthonywilliams1833
    @anthonywilliams1833 2 года назад +52

    As a single 30 year old man, I am really enjoying the conversations between Tank and Goose! Insightful, educational, and entertaining! Much appreciated, fellas 🙏🏿

  • @queenlex4138
    @queenlex4138 2 года назад +8

    LOVING that there’s a podcast featuring balanced and chill/down to earth black men.
    1. Women don’t need an emotional connection to be intimate.
    2. We seriously love our men’s bodies, most of the time we have no idea what you’re talking about when you’re criticizing yourself 😂
    3. When my husband notices my appearance (hair, new nails etc) it completely makes my day 💞💞

  • @amaris1008
    @amaris1008 2 года назад +24

    Men please stop thinking that women only cheat if there is an emotional tie to the other person… We are VERY capable of having meaningless sex with someone without feeling any type of way. We can be just like men and it can just be a physical thing..

  • @juanla5243
    @juanla5243 2 года назад +23

    The Bearded brothas are back! As a 34 yr old black man I love this show!!

  • @DivineDivaDee
    @DivineDivaDee 2 года назад +23

    Angel is still very much in love with Marcus😊. She still gets googly eyes and all. Still look at him through loving eyes

  • @SingleWomanChronicles
    @SingleWomanChronicles 2 года назад +9

    Thank yawl for being men of maturity and common sense. It’s so refreshing.

  • @JaiNanette
    @JaiNanette 2 года назад +9

    Most of the women who I know that cheated did not like the men they were cheating with AT ALL!!!! He could literally fall off the face of the earth and she could care less UNLESS that thang was 🔥🔥🔥

  • @roslynjones5886
    @roslynjones5886 2 года назад +3

    As a married woman in the late 80’s, my husband cheated and then I cheated as pay back. After the second time, I knew it was a wrap because it is too dangerous out here in these streets.
    This is just a no-no for me!!!! I know I cannot tolerate this.

  • @larettawilliams5295
    @larettawilliams5295 2 года назад +21

    🤣🤣🤣🤣this hair convo is so adorable lol. The hand gestures 🤗I love it.

  • @p.lissade8016
    @p.lissade8016 2 года назад +6

    YES......Women are visual! We just are tactful and focus on other attributes.

  • @deeh2553
    @deeh2553 2 года назад +15

    I think there needs to be a distinction between cheating incident(s) and an affair. I think it’s possible for both sexes to cheat without emotions. However, an affair is a relationship. I’ve seen men eventually end up with their side chick. I think you start to gain feelings for someone you frequently return to. Another great episode guys!

  • @naomiluxe0
    @naomiluxe0 2 года назад +27

    I think it goes both ways for cheating, usually it seems like an emotional tie. Most people who be cheating it don’t be a one time fling. Men usually have to pursue a woman and go through this and that to get the draws. Probably been messin with each other for months. To me that’s an emotional connection. You might not care about that person as much me but don’t act like it’s nothing

    • @JaiNanette
      @JaiNanette 2 года назад +7

      So true! Most of the times when I was pursued by a married guy…it was NOT sex only…they wanted emotions too…

    • @naomiluxe0
      @naomiluxe0 2 года назад +5

      @@JaiNanette exactly I’m also just sick of the narrative that it’s a woman or man thing. It goes both ways. The stuff my girl friends be doin, men will throw up by listening to our conversations if they think everything is peaches and cream around here

  • @needa5000
    @needa5000 2 года назад +8

    I pray you (Marcus) and Angel never break up. The level petty between you too is diabolical 😂

  • @DIVA21217
    @DIVA21217 2 года назад +3

    As a woman cheating from my point of view would be the same as described for men. There is not always an emotional connection it could just be time and place. He/she was fine for the moment. My spouse pissed me off , or I’m missing something at home and after communication it’s not changing so let me get this void filled really quick. Then go home and cook dinner like nothing happened. You can Compartmentalize sex and people. … not speaking for all women just myself and the women in my circle

  • @aboachie1
    @aboachie1 2 года назад +17

    This is the man content that dudes need to be looking at, not them other weird dudes out here.

  • @mrscapricorn
    @mrscapricorn 2 года назад +11

    Yayyyyy.....you guys used my question as the topic. You pronounced my last name correctly the first time😁

  • @WrapsslingsandHarmony
    @WrapsslingsandHarmony 2 года назад +7

    It is a common assumption that women have feelings for the next. There is sometimes truth to that. However consider this, more often than not a woman maybe feeling so neglected in her relationship that the next man just giving her the attention/emotion/support and it can pull her in. It's not that she cares for him it's getting the missing piece and it can be very attractive

  • @val287
    @val287 2 года назад +21

    I look forward to hearing what these two are going to say in every episode. Love this podcast!

  • @tracygraves7025
    @tracygraves7025 2 года назад +1

    This is great to hear!!! Because I really didn’t think men cared if they gained weight. Women aren’t hard on men when they gain weight but men are harder on women when they gain weight!!!

  • @Reeses710
    @Reeses710 2 года назад +29

    I'm literally smiling from ear to ear, just listening at y'all talk about doing hair, noticing nails etc....lol! Yes, my thoughts exactly Goose, I just want to look good naked...having sex, that is my reason lol!! Another great episode from beginning to end!

  • @shardayb
    @shardayb 2 года назад +12

    Are we asking questions in comments for potential future episodes?
    What are your thoughts on work “husbands/wives”? Is it just a way for people to flirt at work? Have any women ever tried to give either of you the title of work husband, whether it have been while single or married to your wives. How would you feel if your wives told you a man at work was trying to claim she was their work wife?

  • @p.lissade8016
    @p.lissade8016 2 года назад +3

    I love that two men care and are talking about doing a little girl's hair. Listening to the conversation was truly aspirational. Keep up the willingness to learn and be better.

  • @YoutubeNameHere
    @YoutubeNameHere 2 года назад +2

    You guys are a breath of fresh air. With all the negativity and men vs women content that pushed on social media I enjoy hearing your stories and perspectives as family men. I’m also sure your wife appreciated that act of you doing your daughter’s hair and letting her sleep in a little more the morning. Keep it up and I’ll keep listening and telling people about it!

  • @vonniesimmons4909
    @vonniesimmons4909 2 года назад +9

    I can honestly say you guys channel is the best! The topics discussed others would probably have a fear of discussing. Especially coming from two married men point of view is profound...and I am here for it! Keep putting out great content.

  • @annyetta890
    @annyetta890 2 года назад +10

    Kudos to fathers who are willing and able to do their children's hair👏🏽🙌🏽 My spouse tries...I'll give him credit for effort.
    Regarding the different perspectives on cheating from men and women:
    Some men feel as if their partner is a possession, so they won't forgive her for allowing someone else access to "their property" even though they are or may be cheating on her also. Some simply can't handle the blow to their ego. Some men do forgive their partner (although it seems more likely to occur if they were cheating first).
    Some women don't forgive cheating necessarily, but remain in the relationship because it provides financial stability or because they feel like they have already invested too much into it to leave (e.g. having children with the partner). Some women are convinced somehow that they can't or won't find someone else/better, so they would rather be in a hurtful relationship than be alone.
    We certainly can't generalize an entire group, however, women *tend* to cheat because they feel neglected or there is some emotional need not being met in the relationship. Men *tend* to cheat because they can, not necessarily because something is wrong or missing in their relationship.

  • @angelacapehart3599
    @angelacapehart3599 2 года назад +1

    I think cheating for women does involve emotions... very true... but not for the next man.. usually to gain an equal and opposite reaction from a man knowing this... especially if she remains.
    If a woman is cheating with another man without a need for revenge, she is not fulfilled and is looking for something better but remains with you until better comes along. So that is typical of a cheater in general.

  • @danaabercrombie8336
    @danaabercrombie8336 2 года назад +8

    I just think it's a messed up way the way men think about sex. I mean i know yall talking real, but still. Women feel the same way when yall step out on us. We think about how you do when when guys cheat on us. We think about is he doing her like he doing me? We are hurt deeply when cheated on.

  • @sherryb3107
    @sherryb3107 Год назад +1

    I am a rare finding,a unique finding, Dimond in the rough ,a needle in a hay stack so...the way I am and the way I think is so different from other's
    I don't care about the body as long as I'm loved properly .
    I think I'd want him to be healthy but if he's overweight, or handicap it wouldn't matter as long as we're mutually feeling one another and enjoy one another's company
    I don't care about Diamond rings,furs,houses lands cause I can't take any of it with me when I die

  • @SuperChristy79
    @SuperChristy79 2 года назад +2

    I be asking questions in my head and start talking to people like they know the wholr convo i had with myself lol. Working on it

  • @radiance4923
    @radiance4923 2 года назад +1

    “If you can dish it, you can take it.”!

  • @TribeofSuns
    @TribeofSuns 2 года назад +4

    There is a body type for everyone! Somebody is gonna love it, hopefully it’s your spouse if you have one

  • @MoneBee
    @MoneBee 2 года назад

    Love the content guys! It's so refreshing. Please don't stop. Push against the toxic black man narrative. 🔥🔥🎉

  • @lovelyIberia
    @lovelyIberia 2 года назад

    the conversation about styling kids hair was sooo cute 🥰🥰🥰

  • @eshortsax
    @eshortsax 2 года назад +9

    And we’re back with another great one 👍🏽 I was happy first time I did my daughter’s hair back in 2017 (she was 3) but we got into a car accident and I haven’t done it since (I just wash it now) 😕

  • @nataliehurd2532
    @nataliehurd2532 2 года назад +5

    There was a stint where my dad did our hair growing up. We hated it cuz it was way too tight. 😂😂😂 but we was fly though

  • @zelloresharrison7035
    @zelloresharrison7035 2 года назад

    Exactly...thank you for speaking up for Lori ❤ so much double standards among when and men

  • @kimberlykeels8883
    @kimberlykeels8883 2 года назад

    ‘If you can’t take it, don’t dish it!’

  • @valjean9581
    @valjean9581 Год назад

    I know this was a year ago, but I love these guys. Your wives are very blessed!

  • @Tgallager2742
    @Tgallager2742 2 года назад +3

    Loved this topic: (Cheated) I loved how you guys were so pointed about the male point of view , most of the male podcast today are fake I feel they really feel the same as you guys but will not say it. I was thoroughly impressed to say the least

  • @Passion84GodAlways
    @Passion84GodAlways 2 года назад +4

    This podcast is so entertaining and educational! ❤️ it!

  • @roslynjones5886
    @roslynjones5886 2 года назад +1

    Can I just say that as a woman, it made me smile to hear the conversations that started this video😁😁😁👍🏾

  • @sheenaphillips9955
    @sheenaphillips9955 2 года назад +2

    I just want to say I just love yal and this podcast! I appreciate the insight!

  • @janicepowell813
    @janicepowell813 2 года назад

    The quote is "If you can't take it, don't dish it out" or You can dish it out, but you can't take it". 🙂 Thanks for sharing from a man's perspective.

  • @eklctc
    @eklctc 2 года назад +4

    1- we all have different. I’m an Acts of Service type of girl so you can skimp on the compliments. However, I have the issue with my dude who’s a Words of Affirmation type. I’m, like Tank, a person of few words so I have to do better.
    2- I think because women are allowed to explore and embrace our entire emotional spectrum, we have a broader range near the surface. Which makes us more dangerous. Sex is just that for many women without issue.

  • @doubleedgedsword2800
    @doubleedgedsword2800 2 года назад +1

    Good subject ! In my experience , a woman in a committed relationship who decides to cheat has usually mentally and emotionally checked out… we are emotional creatures … same way a man says , it’s just sex to “justify” his actions, a woman pushed past her breaking point, her finding comfort in another dude will be “justified “ … it’s not right, but 🤷🏽‍♀️

  • @mikemack7247
    @mikemack7247 2 года назад +2

    I had a girlfriend that got emotional if you gave her too many compliments in one setting. I had to space them out enough to where it’s not overwhelming for her.

  • @LoniLoni11
    @LoniLoni11 2 года назад +1

    Plaits or braids are three strands away from the scalp. Braiding or cornrows is three strands along the scalp. Differentiate by saying plaits or cornrows - both are called braids

  • @CousinChloe
    @CousinChloe 2 года назад

    I am very visual. I don’t care about whether or not you’re “in shape” but I care about how you present yourself-clean, ironed/proper-fitting clothing, a decent cut/line up, etc.
    My husband don’t care what I say about his appearance. 🙄

  • @eyairah
    @eyairah 2 года назад +1

    Marcus said he's "a list, some pictures, & 2 videos" petty!😂🤣😂🤣

  • @TribeofSuns
    @TribeofSuns 2 года назад +2

    My husband was a string bean when we met, but when I was pregnant with our 4th son he put on his papa belly. I still found/find him attractive. Wrapping my arms around him from behind is nice! He now weighs more than he ever has, and I love it. He’s slim thick now 😝 Triceps poppin and i love his thighs! Now when he start looking homeless because he let his bald head fill in I draw the line. Keep it bald! lol

  • @newyorkdiva3
    @newyorkdiva3 2 года назад +1

    Great conversation guys!

  • @rubykat718
    @rubykat718 2 года назад +1

    I have fond memories of when my dad use to do my hair when my mom was too tired.

  • @JustUdoro
    @JustUdoro 2 года назад

    OMG!!! The opening was ALL MANLY!!! Kiddos y’all both!! Go head with doing some hair!!! 🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾 Okay, still watching…

  • @zelloresharrison7035
    @zelloresharrison7035 2 года назад

    Then they would call her a gold digger...again thanks for having that young ladies back

  • @soposh5671
    @soposh5671 2 года назад

    New Subbie here. Love this podcast. Very informative and balanced. I love the topics and views..it’s not bashing one gender over the others and that’s refreshing

  • @ladytaylor4299
    @ladytaylor4299 2 года назад +1

    #Tanks Riders #Gaggle Gang ❤️ that's right G let the baby rock the afro puffs. Proud of you 👏🏽

  • @leejohn_bns
    @leejohn_bns 2 года назад

    18:40 I go to the barbershop for myself. It feels good for me mentally. I go weekly as self care.

  • @janaegarrett1886
    @janaegarrett1886 2 года назад +1

    This episode came right on time, spoke to me! Dope perspectives

  • @monniedee1999
    @monniedee1999 2 года назад

    Braids are three strands. Cornrows and plaits are subsets of braids

  • @jessicascott.83
    @jessicascott.83 2 года назад +3

    Tank you are right. Plaits are three strands, twists are two, and braids are to the scalp. ☺️

  • @nataliemoore9965
    @nataliemoore9965 Год назад

    The honeymoon phase should never be over gentleman. I think you should compliment each other daily'. That could make your day.

  • @erinwilliams6201
    @erinwilliams6201 2 года назад +2

    Men be getting cheated on, they just talk less about it. Women be telling everybody they got cheated on 😭

    • @kiaracouch9315
      @kiaracouch9315 2 года назад +1

      🤣 😂 🤣 😂 🤣 😂 😭 the whole city know they ain't shiz..........

  • @LoniLoni11
    @LoniLoni11 2 года назад +2

    Greg little baby is so freaking cute

  • @daniellemitchell3118
    @daniellemitchell3118 2 года назад

    I like how he said that women do the same thing with their men whether they are in shape or not in shape. That's because historically and usually women are not as shallow as men are. Men are visual creatures and for some reason it is important to them that they find their wives beautiful. So if their wives gain weight even though they're the ones who carry the children and sometimes gain weight and it stays. Men don't suffer the same criticism when they gain weight or change that women do.

  • @niqueysim5306
    @niqueysim5306 2 года назад

    If you can't take it don't dish it. Don't dish it if you can't take it.

  • @keishasiggers252
    @keishasiggers252 2 года назад

    The saying is "you can dish it but sholl can't take it."

  • @beverlycrittendon4495
    @beverlycrittendon4495 2 года назад

    I enjoy this podcast guys!

  • @MargaretEllen
    @MargaretEllen 2 года назад

    "Cheat back and leave" 🤣🤣🤣

  • @danaabercrombie8336
    @danaabercrombie8336 2 года назад

    Good talk though. Love this.

  • @camilliachatman5657
    @camilliachatman5657 2 года назад +1

    This was a good podcast!!!💯💯🔥🔥🔥

  • @thekaerichtexas
    @thekaerichtexas 2 года назад +1

    There's no reason why a man today can't do his kids hair...maybe back in the day. But today there are so many hair tutorials and hair channels on youtube. Yes every man should at least know how to detangle, part a straight line, and do basic pony tails, plaits, and puffs. I'm a woman and have never been able to braid to the scalp. So I wouldn't expect a man to be able to naturally do that but yeah a man out to be able to do a few styles on his kids hair

  • @oldskooltwil
    @oldskooltwil Год назад

    Nice Greg!

  • @smiab1
    @smiab1 2 года назад

    Remember in the Eddie Murphy special Raw, he said that men can go out and cheat and think their women would not do the same thing and do it better.

  • @izmane
    @izmane 2 года назад

    Marcus, you are right about the plats..It is with the three. Not sure who is doing hair and what they are calling them but in the Florida south it's called plats.

  • @tboogie38
    @tboogie38 2 года назад

    Great poddy! I couldn’t find it on Apple Podcasts, though…

  • @tswanigan69
    @tswanigan69 2 года назад

    When the corners go let it go or get you some Donna's Recipe! :-)

  • @JasmineFieldsESQ
    @JasmineFieldsESQ 2 года назад

    That's a great question.

  • @heARTFlowPodcast
    @heARTFlowPodcast 2 года назад

    There is usually an emotional connection first before stepping out on our guy. I say usually because there are women who claim it’s just sex but I personally don’t believe that, unless it’s just a one off and there’s no more communication after that.

  • @adb9401
    @adb9401 2 года назад +1

    Please do a live on Patreon, IG or here where you do some type of follow up on topics. Even if you called each other on IG and had a couple callers for a few minutes, promoted the show, then got off the IG call. This gives a good stream of consciousness for two married men that show up in the world as decent human beings. Some people are just trash, period. They have learned to have layers over their trash, but trash nonetheless. It takes a certain discernment to navigate through being single and be early middle aged (30s to 40s). By this age some people are tied to others from past experiences. You all are bringing in questions and topics, but a balance between your view and your viewing community would take your show to the next level.

    • @stephnikkibb
      @stephnikkibb 2 года назад

      This is actually a really good idea.

  • @chrisbee83
    @chrisbee83 2 года назад +2

    I'm like Tank, woman of few words, forgetting to give words of affirmation to my husband cuz I be saying it in my head lol

  • @abl61994
    @abl61994 2 года назад

    Another great episode!

  • @MrReedGrantberry
    @MrReedGrantberry 2 года назад +1

    There are women that move like men & will cheat without any deep connection. Catch a body on lunch break & still keep her normal routine.

  • @justRandiE
    @justRandiE 2 года назад +5

    Ahhh... The 2nd question. My husband and I have had conversations about this. We have a 21 yr old daughter and I talk to her straight up.. From my view, a man will say the person was no one and expect forgiveness because he received something out of lack from surface level... He's not getting enough top, He's not getting enough at all, a Woman is gassing him up too damn much...With a man, 8/10 its surface... ( doesn't make it right)
    For women, we are receivers. Which mean we are easily used. And that's how it will look and feel. A man isn't going to quickly forgive a woman that has been entered and used by another man while "on his watch"... Period. (If he does, he don't care too much and you may be the side...) From the woman, the reason will be much more than a surface level search. Its attention, lust, short term affection. That man will get in that ear and tell her everything she just told him her husband doesn't.
    Both parties will still feel as though they are being sized up and compared to the outsider... It'll be a mess. My heart ain't built to easily forgive...

  • @PeaceLove77
    @PeaceLove77 2 года назад

    Awesome guys!!!

  • @christopherjackson7011
    @christopherjackson7011 2 года назад

    Tank I'm glad you didn't name that song my brother, lol! #bestofbothworlds

  • @pamk1967
    @pamk1967 2 года назад

    Plats and braids have 3 sections of hair crossing over to make it but as a natural, I do two strand twists which is a section split into two and platted to my head it stretch out the coils when it's taken loose. Cool to see me talking hair. GREAT job Goooosby on your baby girl's hair. Hope y'all have a Great 4th of July weekend!!!🎉🎉🎉👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾💕

  • @yvonne5889
    @yvonne5889 2 года назад

    As a woman, I'm very visual..must be physically fit ,& well groomef

  • @izmane
    @izmane 2 года назад

    Marcus coming through with the french braids....

  • @p.lissade8016
    @p.lissade8016 2 года назад

    I am a psychotherapist. I have found that women have relationships outside of their main relationship for a myriad of reasons.

  • @amakisi
    @amakisi 2 года назад

    The world needs more common sense. I enjoy this podcast. Good job, Brothers!

  • @jth026
    @jth026 2 года назад

    You better go Goose doing the hair!! Kudos!

  • @lisagreaves7370
    @lisagreaves7370 2 года назад

    Such a GOOD podcast

  • @godsbeloved03
    @godsbeloved03 2 года назад

    Angel just love her some Tank!

  • @Jess41-2U
    @Jess41-2U 2 года назад

    Wellll... in my experience, I've cheated for vengeance purposes. No emotional connection with the other man. At the time i didn't have strength to leave someone that I knew was stepping out so I just did likewise. never had the desire to be with the other guy. just my experience

  • @shellthomas6421
    @shellthomas6421 Год назад +1

    😂❤