How to attract women
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#howtomeetwomen #teethwhitening
"When you pursue excellence, you repel those who don't pursue excellence."
having finally divested myself of being around losers and mediocre people, I really relate to this statement.
Great ego talk
He mentioned being the friendliest guy in the room
Not really, because if you are not surrounded by non-excellent people, then you have no one to contrast with and you can't really appreciate any of your excellence, which is what really matters because you want to feel special. Wanting to do things right is fine, but pursuing excellence or being constantly perfectionist, shows typically a defensive state against an inferiority complex or low self-esteem, that ends up usually bringing arrogancy and stuff such as the Dunning-Krueger effect, which will ultimately isolate you from everyone, including but not only, the people who is smart enough to embrace chaos and mistakes. Just think about it. I don't think you realize the amount of things that you can get just by looking stupid... Yeah, the fancy woman there? She might get laid with the excellent one, but also with the stupid looking one. And she will stick to the careless one, because she feels more comfortable. But up to you.
When you pursue holiness/ righteousness, you repel those who don’t pursue holiness/righteousness.
Come from a place of abundance? BE WEALTHY! Hey, dude, this is not news, genius.
As you get older you realize you don't have to have a relationship, have fun be happy and make those around you feel good about you and themselves . Everything is going to be ok !
The older I've gotten, the more I've realized that for me, women have always been a net negative. I've gone mgtow and am finally content and happy.
Yes, the pressure is off for the "need" to have a relationship to see you through your older years. I'm not exactly in the "If you want a @itch, get a dog." category, but I'm close.
With age comes wisdom
100% correct!
Yeah, Im trying to keep useless eaters away
This is very true. Whenever I went out and the goal was to have fun and just danced, the girls come to me. But when you’re in a state of need and constantly scanning the dance floor, you’re putting out needy energy
Fax
@@NashBenzotv fact.
Same thing happened with me the moment i stopped being desperate, and only to dance and have fun girls came to me. Many times girls would grab me and start kissing.
I was such a beta male that i didn’t even know what was happening.
used to go clubbing in Central London all by my lonesome self. Zero alcohol, zero smoking. I just smiled all the time, and danced and gorgeous women came up to me, competed to dance with me!
I was such a beta male that i didn’t even know what was happening.
I never got the number of any of the girls. I was shit scared scared of women. This happened in 2002, yea, 21 years ago when i was only 30. And i never bought any drinks for anyone ever. Whole night without alcohol, only water.
2002 was a great year for clubbing. Especially in London. The Ministry of Sound golden years.
If you chase something it will run away from you, leave it alone, it might come to you…thats a fact of life, not just with women….
From a lost 27 years old boy, thank you for sharing your wisdom, cheers from Spain.
Any plans of becoming a man at 28?
@@johnbeard7252 my comment was to be taken as joke, i didn't think it would attract one.
Hey man, saludos desde barcelona:) I'd be happy if you could share your story, maybe there's a chance i could help you out since we live in the same country:)
This is my email: javier@mentormen.es
Cheers
-Javier
@@johnbeard7252 Hahaha good one
John Beard 🤔
My friend who was overweight and in his mid 60s and not particularly attractive would attract women super easily just by striking up a conversation. He would say hi to nearly everyone even complete strangers and he usually would start with a quip or a joke or a comment about their appearance. He sometimes ended up chatting for like 15 to 30 minutes with women on a regular basis l was amazed.
He did it with confidence. They pick up on confidence they like when you make decisions,, without the arrogance.
But an overweight 60 year old is just socializing. Not picking up hot women, sorry!
He made them believe he had money,,my cousin does the same
“Enjoy = In Joy”
Authenticity never goes out of style.
Spells spelling. 528
"Come from a place of joy." Absolutely pure. Thanks Bruno!
instablaster.
1. Come from a place of joy. 2. Be content from the inside. 3. Be your best (be yourself = being by your self) 4. Have fun regardless of the outcome. (Decided before you attend). 5. Pursue excellence. 6. Attitude can't be conveyed in ONLINE dating.
I totally agree. The losers are those on a mission to get the girl. The winners are just outbto have a good time. Make memories and friends worth having. Focusing on the “mission” makes you a stick in the mud that no one wants to know.
I find joy in just seeing HUMOR, AMUSEMENT in everything.
@@kthx1138 Does that include selfish, manipulative, controlling, deceitful, "always right", negative people?
@@pouglwaw5932 that’s a whole box of demons to itself.
Yes, when I was out having fun, truly enjoying myself, the women just happened to be there?
I have fun in a waaay too hard way for regular people to not be terrified. So now that I'm entering late 30's I basically have no one to thang out any more. I once was told "Ron I would ask you out to the bar, but your the kinda guy that's like, let's see if we can get arrested tonight. Not the guy who says let's see if we can catch a buzz and laugh awhile". He was right. I like to get WILD! Haha
Not sure why I (77 y/o lady) watched this, but glad that I did. This is not only good advice to men but to all people who encounter others every day in ordinary situations. I feel sorry for those who are unable to do this, but maybe my doing it will inspire others? Thank you for this post!
What is your name?
@@ListenMySon Patricia (Pat). I use "oldegoatee" b/c I used to have a pet goat named "Missy" when I started doing this Google stuff. I certainly don't need advice on how to meet women :) but I will tune in again as I enjoy your personality very much!
Nice to meet you Ms Patricia. Welcome aboard. Stick around.
Hi Pat! These days, what kind of music make you want to dance?
@@dst1311 Anything with a funky beat - but hard to do these days with a fake ankle and pins in my hip! 😁
*Trifecta of masculinity*
- Looks: body, swag, posture, aura
- Wisdom: knowledge of human psychology and competence in other areas
- Finances: stability and ownership of life
You forgot fun
The only thing i agree with you on is knowledge on psychology.....that and a decent grasp of existential philosophy. Which these two compenents i can figure out that you are a try hard.
Wtf dude i see you everywhere
@@nonenothing4412 LMAOOOOO
Actually the number one thing is to be in your own masculine frame and never be moved by any emotions whatsoever
This is true Alpha. It's NOT what most people think. The guy on the dance floor. Alpha. George is spot on. Confidence with a mind set of abundance and be funny/joyful and finally be unconcerned of the outcome. She likes you, she doesn't like you. Care not.
Notice the scenario though. He's a guy out there by himself with music playing. The women want to dance, yet where's their dates? They have none? Are they there to pick up guys? It don't matter a lot, but he looks "available", plus, if there are other men about, apparently they aren't dancing. If this was all about his allure, no damn way these same women gang molest him if they already have dates and were dancing. He's just the fool dancing like Mr. Bojangles and people think him strange. Another interesting thing, if that guy was such a girl magnet, then why did he come in alone? Where's the mob of women chasing him in? If this was "the complete guy" all joy, and all of that, he's not that all the other times of his life? I think that whole scenario is a lot more fluke than this joy thing. Sure, the joy aspect has some validity in other scenarios, but not this one from my perspective here. He's seeing what he wants to see, to probably back up a long-sustained notion, and doesn't see the problems with it. IOW, he needs to find something less subjective to what he already thinks.
The be yourself equals being alone is complete nonsense, for one thing, wasn't that guy being Mr. Bojangles being himself? One can only guess. I would presume so, so certainly just on that view alone, the being yourself equals being alone is complete nonsense. It CAN be true, and it cannot. I don't recall the guy taking any of them home, but presumably George didn't hang around that long to find out. They might have felt sorry for the guy (quite the opposite from this joy radiating) and one thing led to another. And where were all the guys these girls could have been dancing with? if the guys don't want to dance, if any were there, and he's acting the fool, well, might as well dance with him, right? It would be a nice way to also make a possible date with them jealous. And yet, all this time, George didn't realize he told them all something like he was a rock star😂 or a famous dance instructor trying out some new moves (yet had to come there to do it).
@@charles2241 Long post. lol. There is certainly more to this, more angles, motives..etc.. Who are these women, their ages and the "need stage" of their lives? The "game" needed for a very desired 23 yo, is not at all needed for a 43 or 53 yo, for example, dancing or not.
The OP is up front though in writing what works for HIM, and these women that are in whatever life stage he is in.
@@eQuariuz I just think it's mostly nonsense, but there are indeed a lot of details missing. It depends on the person, whether they think about this or not, but if I were him, I would be heavily analyzing it, trying to figure out just why that really worked (although I understand this wasn't the guy that made the video), because joy isn't it, although I'm somewhat sure it's at least a contributing factor. If I see somebody like that, male or female, I stay away from them, just as simple as that, and then stay away from the women who fall for that, but then I'm more introverted anyway (I never trust drunks, and as I see it, he behaved as a drunk). In fact, this is rather remarkable, because when I wrote that post, I hadn't concluded my social experiment I was running at the time, which is precisely on the same subject - stand by (yes another long post).
I'll try to condense this as much as possible. I started an experiment about 3-4 years ago, and did this because I was mystified why after working with many girls for decades, I not only could talk to them easily (unlike my former self) but that they liked it. But there were about 10% of them I couldn't talk to at all, so I had to know the difference. I concluded the difference was in my head, that is romance. I had given up dating maybe a decade before I started this, so my interest in learning about that failure peaked. I decided to do the experiment to prove to myself that once I knew that was the hangup, I could talk to ANY of them any time I chose.
I never trusted the extrovert method of approaching a girl, so I did it an introverted way, or to be frank, just do what I did when I talked to them very well. That amounted to keeping romance out and seeing them as my friends (because I like girls) - that's it. As well, introverted doctrine, if you will, never has you approaching a strange girl, but I said to hell with that, I know I can do this. I had about 100 cases total, and I would approach each girl from behind, tap them on the shoulder with one finger, say "Excuse me", make sure to pause two seconds to let them gather their wits, and then spoke. Success in it was determined by if they were joyful I interrupted them. I figured with modern women allegedly rejecting so much, I wouldn't see that 90% I spoke of, but only 70%. Instead, I got 100%, because to me, even them being neutral was failure.
Like I said earlier, this success was astounding to me, like Mr. Bojangles was, and while I have no idea how he managed it exactly, I've been poking this experiment to see what it's real cause was, and as you might guess, part of it has to do with men keeping their distance from women these days, so I think girls are ripe for guys talking to them, just as long as they don't come across as some horny perv (or a simp). Naturally, going the non-romantic route I did, I was just a regular guy to them, and they loved it. I didn't ask for a date, their name, give them my name, or was particularly joyful, just wanting to see if something that struck my curiosity, they might have an answer for. IOW, I just shattered not only that girls don't want men approaching them, but that an introvert could approach women. Naturally, not asking for a date, you're probably not going to get one, but this is intended more for the girl you will doubtlessly see a few times, such as at school or work. You're trying to, over time, get you both more used to each other, and this would be the precious first step.
Finally, what was the main ingredient? Not only was I used to talking to girls this way, but it was TONE. Like Bojangles and his joy (perhaps) I kept them with tone. I explain this as the tone you would use with a best friend, but on complete strangers (there's a real semi-tone difference). If I like girls, and I do, why should I bottle that up? So that tone comes out (it just reflects my heart), and I can turn it off and on a whim. In fact, I have used it accidentally on a guy or two too, and they love it as well. It's just that conversations are so much easier, when you get a tone coming back to you that says, "We're friends". I'm not kidding. I never try to deceive them that we were friends long ago or anything like that, they just know, I'm interested in them, albeit very temporarily in the experiment's case.
I have more or less a monotone all the time, but this tone only slightly is more joyful than my usual self. I could read them the Gettysburg address and I think they would be fascinated, because the words I use aren't as important as that tone. And since seemingly almost no other guy has that locally, I think it's at least a bit fascinating for them. I never use small talk either, just right to the question or statement, and then I'm gone after they respond, and I thank them. This was completely at random, and given the hours I did this, I think none of the women were under thirty (too bad because I would like a larger age sample), but then I was sixty when I started this. If only I knew about this when I was young, but sometimes it just takes time to pile up this stuff. Perhaps the main point, is that if you offer up nothing rejectable, no sane woman will do an obvious rejection, because nothing is on the line. No asking for a date, no romance, not even names, what's to reject? And yet you get to talk to her on even terms. Thanks for your reply.
This guy is gold. After my years of red pill rage, then black pill, then deciding to do it all for me. Quit drinking, got into RN school and met a classmate. Out of the gate used what I learned in the manosphere to set boundaries and expectations. Turned a “dominant” female (without much effort) into a submissive follow-me-to-the-ends-of-the-earth type girl.
She offered to literally be branded by me. (Good family, not trashy, no tattoos). That’s the type of dedication I like.
She was actually relieved to get off social media/apps as well. And I’m at peace with female nature now. I fully understand it.
This relationship DID antagonize me to process all that female stuff and GROW out of MGTOW4Life. The personal pursuit of excellence brings abundance into my life.
Men.
Don’t give up the female race. They’re tired. They’re lost. It’s up to us to set higher standards on the women by putting higher standards into ourselves. They are weak and can not do this without us. They must be properly instructed and groomed. BUT, they must always know, if they don’t comply: theres the door.
If you’re on your path to excellence, they’re not going to walk. Too many weak men out there posing. They’ll hold on for dear life to the power you posses.
One final word: It gets better...much better...scary better.
WideOpenChange Amazing Comment ‼️
That fact remains that you are at a severe disadvantage if you enter into a legal contract (marriage) or have children with this woman. Do either of these things and you hand her a loaded gun that she can or use or not. I wouldn't want to live under those conditions myself.
@@fahey6797 yes she shit tested me and tried to put me in a beta position as well as started bringing up kids and marriage. I told her the shit test compromised the trust, however, I'm not going to get emotional and dump you but I am going to down grade you. I told her I respect her right to leave if she wants but that Im going to see other females and if she stays she will need to earn back my trust over time.
R Cruz Of course she’s a Chameleon and hypergamous. She use to walk on all her other partners. Her last one was a doctor. Their weakness made her mixed up and all over the place. None of them calmly stood up to her and told her there’s the door if she doesn’t like it.
Always be bigger than the situation. And walk. Don’t listen to that nice guy voice that says “that would be rude”...” I would feel bad”...
It all starts in the pursuit. I firmly believe the female needs to pursue you. And then after multiple rejections from you they learn you can reject them and will leave them for good if they don’t meet your standards. They see you have overcome the female influence which builds automatic trust and security that you’re above running arround. That your too busy perusing your purpose.
And that’s just what you do. Better yourself. Ignore females. Reject them all in an indifferent type of way. And the ones who are ready will climb over your car for you.
That won’t happen until you’ve grown.
They’re essentially all the same. You just have to create your own hoop only a few will jump through.
Once they jump through it and hit the grown below you. That’s when you can stay in frame. Break her and rebuild her. The harder you are on her the deeper the emotional bond becomes. As she betters herself reward her with some affection. Txt her sparingly. Never use emojis. Imagine how cold her father would be to her and his expectations for her. Treat her like a kid sister. A little bit of a pain in your ass. But endearingly.
You have to train these women if you’re looking for a long term deal.
And no I won’t marry one. Why would I give up my power? I may let her barrow a nice expensive engagement ring that she will agree to pay me back in cash if it ever gets “lost”...but that’s about it.
Don’t date single mothers. It’s unnatural for any self respecting young man. Let her know if she gets fat you’re going to leave her. She should never not want to sexually please you unless she is ill.
Don’t be afraid to resort to physical confrontation with other men if need be.
Be the gentleman with the apex predator self waiting behind your eyes.
Get in touch with your dark side society shames you from discovering. That will make you whole and strong against females and men.
@@WideOpenChange how were you able to do this?
From a female, this is such beautiful advice! Great story and analogy with the guy who was dancing and spreading joy. And yes, as a woman I'm much more attracted to a man like that. He feels safe to approach. I'm from Australia.
Thank you for sharing
Do you feel it was the joy that inspired the women to join him or his display of confidence?
Yes this is 100% true. My husband always the smiling joyful type of man, he knows how to make himself joyful wich helps me get myself out of my head.. and be comfortable 😌
Nothing like an older man's advice, and what an advice, just gets me I'm a peaceful mood.
No competition, no stress on "what they gonna say", no "objectives", no "girls are like this or that".
Just be calm and enjoy, do the things you do, you'll find her on the way.
I know my wife is around the corner, thank you sir for this positive message, God bless.
Nailed it. In my 30s I seem to be more attractive by default to women and without more effort than when I was in my 20s. It is simply a matter of having a level of contentment, and not feeling that I have to prove anything.
Obviously guy!
Women like older men
So George I have always had insecurities about my self, looks, etc. I was in a place of self pity and anger. I blamed the world for not giving me what I wanted. However since last year when I discovered your channel I finally decided to focus on myself and focus on being happy and joyful. It was really difficult but slowly I could see improvements. Overall I now attract so many people, men and women! I am 19 year old male and honestly you have been a sort of father figure to me. Sending positive vibes from south korea
Bro I'm 21 and I'm 6'9ft, what i realize is that I'm looking way better than before. Trust me some people looks get better with time. Just eat healthy and hit the gym. Be the best version of yourself.
God bless you
best line ...l I finally decided to focus on myself and focus on being happy and joyful
I'm happy for you man.
Also remember that you are very young. 19 years old at the time of this comment. When you’re that age, you can see people around you making strides and it’s easy to feel left behind. What people your age sometimes fail to realise - myself included - is that we have time to work things out. I remember feeling hopeless at that age and for most of my 20’s. I just felt like a conventionally unattractive person. Very slim, not the best looking, etc. I didn’t hit my stride until my late 20’s. I started to get in to skincare and taking the gym more serious. These 2 things alone were huge for me. Until I looked back, I never realised how bad my skin was. I started to gain a healthy amount of weight at the gym and took on an athletic build. All of a sudden, women started staring at me and giving me signs of interest. It’s the first time in my life women would notice me and literally stare me out and smile. It was so foreign to me that it took me about 6 months to realise that they weren’t doing it in a negative sense. So, it took a while for my mentality to catch up. I also want to touch on the importance of things like character and confidence. You HAVE to be comfortable in your own skin. If you’re not confident, find what it’s challenging your confidence, and build on that. For me: I was underweight, my skin wasn’t very good, my posture was bad, etc. So I found ways to resolve them. Take your time and enjoy the process!
When I've behaved this way I've attracted more women!!! You are Exactly right! Never occurred to me! Thanks George!
Roland Rodriguez well it shows confidence, women love confident men because it shows he knows how to lead.
I don’t want you to be alone, I want you to be happy. Been 20 years and never had that said to me. Thanks
Young, 22 year old, man who has been cruising through a lot of your videos recently, this is brilliant advice. Definitely experienced this situation. I don't drink or do anything like that and people at university always wanted me to, thinking I wouldn't have a good time without it. Then i would dance, badly, but all night and just have fun as soon as I arrived. People couldn't believe i could do it with only cranberry juice to fuel me haha. As soon as it became about what I might find when I got there, I wouldn't enjoy myself. Anyways, thank you sir for your videos, its reassuring to us young men to have somebody looking out for us. God bless
I went out last week and there’s nothing sexier than an attractive nice looking man who clearly is enjoying dancing (and can keep a beat) and isn’t desperate for a woman - it’s 🔥
Most men aren't gay dear
Im going through a divorce right now. 7 yrs with a toxic person who was a toxic co dependent peroson. Im 44 yrs old and i really needed to hear this right now. I started back into crossfit and im just working on me. I want to be happy with myself and i just want to enjoy life. I want to be complete!!!
Yes, come from a place of joy. That's true. Never thought of that.
Fun is the secret to life. Girl just want to have fun. When your having fun that when your the most happiest.
You just destroyed pick up artistry with a simple true way of meeting women, you are for real 🔥
Those singles group pics are savagé!!
Nav V - I somehow doubt that kiddo
Bro, look at those pictures! No wonder the other men wanted you out, they were jealous!!
Absolute legend.
He straight flexed on us all i love it 😂
As soon as you said, “come from a place of joy.” It was clear that you know what your talking about. It was, is, and will always be an inner game. And the only opponent is ourselves.
Perfect words of wisdom, Man. Thank you! It works all the time, no ulterior motives or intentions. I do this in my office and around me all the time. It not only helps me to be on top of my game, but it also draws people to me.
Great video on attracting women! Love the focus on inner happiness and self-improvement instead of pickup tricks. Key points:
1. Come from a place of joy and contentment
2. Pursue excellence in all areas of life
3. Take care of your appearance and always smile
4. Be friendly and approachable
5. Focus on real-life interactions over online dating
The dance floor story really drove home how genuine happiness attracts others. Solid advice on building confidence and living a life others want to be part of. This approach seems way more authentic than typical pickup artist stuff. Thanks for sharing these insights!
"If you wish to control others, you must first control yourself" - miyamoto M
Quite simple thoughts, but the way George delivered it made me goosebumping and feel so much joy and love. Thanks a million, Sir!
1. Cash
2. Good look (optional if 1st requirement was not met)
3. All above
4. Be as big a douchebag as possible
Looks,Money,Status.These attract women. Dominance,anti -supplication,resourcefulness and being unfazed by female emotional behaviour (passing shit tests): this keeps them attracted and submissive aka in love.
Joe V. Couldn’t have said it better. The only thing I would change is, “Money comes before anything. I’m speaking from experience
Screen shot this comment as it’s succinct and accurate af.
Since status is superficial and was invented by our dumb plastic society, you kind of have to exaggerate your status. As dishonest as that sounds. It's the only way!
One of the best self help videos ive ever seen, not just for meeting people but just a nice way to see life!! thnks for the good vibes!
George I'm a 38 year dold male . Gone through divorce and I truelly apreciate your videos. Thank you
Best video I've seen on the subject 100%. Thank you.
I fully agree ti this!
Greatings from Stockholm
Hans Fredrik of Sweden
The Royal Kingdom of Sweden
Terrible video on the subject even worse than most of the rest. I saw many gurus preaching hot to do it and they are wrong. This dude is just one of them. I lost 15 years trying to implement this kind of advice with pathetic results before I find out the truth about meeting women.
@@tongobong1 send me your video link with your best method and philosophy of said subject!
@Ton Bong
Step 1: having Libido
Step 2: Be yourself, be loyal to yourself.
Step 3: Good posture, it will save you from many back problems when old.
Step 4: Stay calm, manage your emotions, he who knows how to control his emotions has control over anyone.
Step 5: Have a touch of character, touch of aggression in you (I'm not talking about physical or verbal violence).
Step 6: Be a good listener, because a man who is too confident, the woman will run away from him because she will think ("He's a narcissist, too good to be true, or he's hiding something")
In the end, women want to be safe, to have healthy children, they want a masculine man.
@@jeffcauthen6434 I don't produce videos and I didn't find a guru that would tell us the real truth about meeting women for s.. and relationship. Notorious Andrew Tate is probably the closest to the truth but he is still far from it. I found the truth from my experience trying to meet women.
I can tell you here how to do it the right way - the natural way. It is quite different than what most gurus propose.
You shouldn't laugh when you approach her. Laughing is a terrible mistake because they perceive you as a weak man and they are s....ly repulsed by weak men. The other big mistake is talking to women. Don't talk much beyond few short sentences like "let's go" or "sit down". Use your body language to communicate with her. Think how your ancestors were doing it when they had no language.
Go to a woman you find attractive and is stationary standing or sitting and touch her lightly by her hand so you get her attention. Seriously look her deeply in her eyes thinking how you are together doing it. Be a REAL man - strong, SERIOUS, masculine egoistic because you want her.
She will look at you, feel your masculine energy and desire for her and she will respond. If she will submit to you by smiling or give you a pleasant warm look or a deep look like she wants you too then you proceed touching and watching her - without saying anything and you can slowly hug her and go for a kiss or if the place is not "right" then tell her "let's go sit there" and take her hand and lead her. If her response is cold or moves away from you when you touch her then just say "I mistaken you for someone" or just mistake and leave her alone.
The key to success is your facial expression when you approach her. You should look deadly serious like you just fought for her with a strong man and you risked your life to get her. This is what your ancestors were actually doing before they claimed woman. When woman sees such a man she feels strong desire to submit to him. This is how to do it the right way - the natural way and it is very different from what gurus are teaching us.
I would say self-confidence (*) is essential. Know who you are, be content, as you mentioned it, have a well-groomed apearance but better expressed would be: appropriate appearance - this depends on the environment you are in and what type of women you want to attract. Looks does help, definitely, but is not crucial. Be able to be funny, have some smirk, but also have some dominance, a gentle dominance.
(*) have no fear of women and rejection; that comes along with self-confidence.
🧢 Looks is VERY crucial! Don't tell anyone that it's not 😅
@@mikeprice8307agreed. To many, it’s the difference between a creep and a confident guy.
Man you couldn’t have laid that out any better. I have tried to explain to my friends this very thought and nobody ever gets it. Go out with no intention but to exude good energy and even if the night ends with just awesome conversations with beautiful people, he’ll thats an awesome night. You go out with that mind set, 9 out of 10 times, night won’t just end with great conversation. Your insight in life is the very thing boys that want to be men need to live by. Your positive energy is very motivating. Keep it up brother from another mother. Love ya.
Hey Georgie! I agree with you and am attracted to a guy who is content on being himself and is happy in who he is and also content. I really appreciate your words of wisdom. They mean a lot to me.
Why they mean a lot to you ? I am assuming you have had problem with finding men because of similar reasons that are described for men who may not be able to find a woman
what im hearing is Be confident in who you can be and then just have fun with or without others. good words of wisdome.. now time for me to figure out how to get that confidence in myself lol
sasha daygame on youtube can be helpful .
Sasha daygame is pretty good to follow !
sorry for writing the same thing twice. the reply button wasn`t showing the first time. peace..
My take on this video is that if you want happiness, you become that happiness even when there is none. Throughout my life I have failed and succeeded. However I discovered that nobody in life is going to provide you with the tools for what you desire the most. When it comes to women, I completely agree that you have to have a positive mental attitude. I have failed many more times then I have succeeded.However I have realized that whenever I become an embodiment of the emotions that I want to receive(without asking for anything in return), I end up receiving those emotions. What I’m trying to say is that I don’t even think about hooking up with women, I have a fun time regardless of what the outcome is, that’s life. Plus, I would rather live my life then swiping my phone screen. Mr. Bruno I would really like to thank you for your videos and I am really appreciative.
This has been my experience... I go out just to have fun and enjoy myself... picking up women is never my goal. If I do, sweet, if I don't, I still had a great night... great video, thanks man.
I like your spirit, and what you are teaching here. ❤️The good woman that men really want will be attracted to the man that exutes joy and happiness without thinking about it. It will pour out of his skin naturally, and be magnetic. You can't fake that though. People need to do their self healing work first, before they can think of going out and meeting a woman of their dreams.
This type of 'beauty' from within, is far more handsome than outer "good looks".
Strong work George 💪❤️😘
Keep the wisdom flowing George. Several generations of men need to hear it.
A well kept man, may not look like beach body Ken-Barbie, but it shows he cares, and that is attractive. You are absolutely right- as I’ve heard said ‘I just want to be accepted for who I am.’ Then the question begs to be asked-Well then who are you?-Honestly evaluating your own good, bad, & ugly. Would you be attracted to yourself? It’s important to hold yourself to a higher standard than others do, not hold others to a higher standard than you hold yourself -while expecting to be accepted for who you are. It’s easier to respect and be attracted to someone who passionately wants to be the best version of themselves. I love what I learn from you, thank you for giving me inspiration to be the best ME I can be.
I really missed hearing your thoughts everyday & look forward to the daybreak show again in September.
100% TRUTH! I watched this video with skepticism: How would a guy know what a woman REALLY wants? But you nailed it. So true. I think what people mean when they say “Be YOU,” is to be the REAL you. The deep inside of YOU that wants to have fun and meaning. Everybody has an authentic self, that wants authenticity. But we feel too scared, too unworthy, too vulnerable to show that side, so we hide it under inflated ego of pickup artists or deflated ego of “shy” person. Both are too scared of what people will think if they got up and danced! Let your true self shine. Nothing is more attractive than a heart-felt smile and a twinkle in the eye. Pick up artistry only works on people who are trying to find validation in other people.... Instead be a life-artist, and you can’t go wrong.
When a woman says "just be you", what she really means is just be your natural self so I can dismiss you as quickly as possible. Everything a girl wants is exactly what shes screening out. Think reverse girl logic and it makes sense.
Nicholas Dorsey That sounds like victim thinking....if you are being the REAL you, and are authentically joyful, you won’t care if you get “dismissed” or not. Find your happy-self and don’t hide it. Nobody can take that away from you. All the best. :)
Delivered in a really non-condescending, genuine way. Refreshing. Great attitude. Great work.
Great video great guy
Uncle George, damn that was wisdom 🤔 As you spoke, I was reviewing the IG of a buddy of mine that has increased his life a 100 fold just by smiling. His IG followers increased 1,000x by creating that image of joy! And he pulls lots of women doing so.
Bro you are cooler than the other side of the pillow 😎👌🏾
True story. I don’t do pickup lines. If I speak with a lady, I just want to smile and get them to smile. Nothing corny. Just happy. I couldn’t throw out a pickup line with a straight face.
Wow out of all the relationship advice channels. you are the only one who really makes pure sense. Not taking anything away from the other channels but your advice made me sit up and listen. Thank you ❤
Very excellent advice! I’m 64, and have been listening to various “dating coaches” about how to meet , attract, follow through the steps, get the phone number, etc. trying to remember and apply all that advice is too much. I think your advice is real to the core. Thanks for your sharing this and your sincerity.
I have tried to live with the same attitude of being joyful and content. I am trying to be grateful for what and where I am at in life. I was in an accident 20 years ago and had a spinal injury. I then found out after that I had hypothyroidism, then 4 years ago I found out I was diabetic. I spend the first hours of my day walking and exercising and getting my head straight to deal with the pain. I avoid people who sit around and smoke and then complain about their poor health. I am determined to make the last years the best ones. Thanks for this video my good man.
I live as he said , not saying to brag about but to confirm what he's saying in video. Joy atract joy not the opposite . The greatest filter ever . Natural,innate.
I'm 63, a number of women 10 and 15 years younger have been major flirting with me. I'm single, content, got a day job, an artist on days off.. just need to lose some of my belly before jumping in... thanks for the confidence 🙂 never been married, been busy most of the time, a late bloomer.
Pearls of wisdom, thank you George.
That Was Straight Up Legit . No Faking , But Pure Honestly From The Heart. Love The Way , You Kept 💯
I just love the way you break things down and make it simple.💯
Thanks for the elucidation, and reminder. I've been that guy dancing. It's amazing. All the other men are standing around nursing beers, half-scowlling, and you're out there dancing with a dozen women. And yet I didn't realize I was "there" already.
Dancing is where it's at George. I love seeing couples dance together. Especially the ones who have been together a long time. And keeping your mind free of outcomes will go a long way towards contentment.
Very good point. "Keeping your mind free of outcomes"'
100% agree, don't be yourself. Be your own best version, be authentic and feel complete. Connect to the flow... and let it happen. Don't plan. Don't choose. Be happy with any outcome. Lovely
"Two people that are coming from a place of joy, bumping into each other, meeting for the first time. Wow."
Wow. (Really, Wow.) That hits deep.
Thank you so much for your words of wisdom, you're helping me in many ways. Sir, you're a real inspiration.
It probably works if you are a good dancer: John Travolta in SNF. The average dude doesn't dance, doesn't smile randomly, can't talk to women especially in a dating world dominated now by Tinder. But yes, I agree, let the women come to you and if they don't no biggy, we've got plenty of options to still have fun out there.
Be very good at at least one thing, and you'll be attractive to women, it doesn't have to be dancing.
Thanks George for all the advise and wisdom you offer us! You helped me a lot!
Greetings from Germany
"Being yourself = By yourself." That's scary, George.
Only if you fear yourself💯
@@None_of_your_business666 Why what works? George was saying, in effect, don't be "yourself" around women or you won't get any. He seemed to put it out there as a rule of thumb: Hey guys, don't be so stupid as to be yourself around women, you'll end up alone. It sounded like a call to be inauthentic.
@@vortexpilot5096 i thinks this apply only if you search a fuck. But if you want a relationship is more complex than not being yourself.
I am 69 years old and all I do is treat women like I would a good friend, if they show interest then I decide if I want to change things up AFTER I see what their MORALS and VALUES are ... even before sleeping with them ! Know yourself and allow them to KNOW you. Just be yourself and friendly then let Nature take it's coarse.
That's the father's Iecture I wish I had long ago
One thing I've gleaned throughout my interactions with women, it is vitally important to feel comfortable and confident. As soon as you try to introduce some kind of read 'pua' strategy that has not yet been practiced and integrated, a woman will give you a look to let you know she is sensing some kind of inconsistency. I find this fascinating, because it really does show how different men and women are.
Interesting perspective, have your life together and women will want to be a part of that together life- and the women will have it together, like attracts like.
That guy on the dance floor is what my adult daughter would call "The Mayor." He's the guy at the party that checks on people, connects people together, and keeps the spirits light. He knows exactly what he's doing, and he also knows that it'll work to his advantage every time.
Being yourself in the sense that he explained is more being comfortable and giving into fear. I would argue truly "being yourself" is coming from abundance because you have the confidence to do what you want to do no matter what the world gives you.
I am in India. You have a powerful voice. That’s one of the main things that attracts women. I need such a voice.
This is how you get anything. But beware of attachment. It's about being present, not actively wanting anything to be different than in that very moment you're in.
Peace, brothers and sisters
Deprived of calm genuine content like this these days
Can’t wait for The Daybreak Show to come back on. Love watching on the weekends with a boiling hot cup of coffee
Me too.
Me too. It's the only videos of his I watch every day!
The vortex method!
Yea boiling coffee is so much fun to drink
I am battling depression and anxiety but i started going to the gym and really focusing on myself. Ive seen a shift on my life. Im happy and content because i know now that im only responsible for my happiness and no one wants to be with you or talk to you if youre a person that is not welcoming
Think of it this way. You're discouraged, not depressed. What is the answer? Courage.
Coming from a place of joy has so many advantages in life, I wonder how anyone could think differently?
This is the most solid advice on RUclips. Be your best internally and externally and just enjoy yourself and have fun . The rest will fall into place but if it doesn’t you had fun anyway. Woman will always choose a man that is truly just enjoying himself and not caring about outcome .
Holy shit you just changed my entire perspective thank you so much I will be applying this to my life
While i was listening to your advice, i related to the quote by sun tzu, that every battle is won or lost before its fought and you telling that walk in a room with a winner mindset and with contentment really gave me a new perspective about this. Love what you said, come from a place of joy. Thank you for this video, much appreciated by a boy on his journey to be a man ❤
Wow, he just explained ‘inner game’ in an honest and organic way. Wow!
I've been there and I know how it feels. this is a feeling of true inner freedom.
Agree pretty much with everything you said, but I would say that you can definitely convey "joy" in an online dating setting - it's all about the profile/statement, pictures, and interaction. I'd recommend the "joy" approach both in-person AND online.
Everyone I share this video with loves it. You are spot on, and ever man I share this with finds something to take away from this.
Bless you George
Outstanding! Love the mindset! Everything else is procedural. This is definitely different from what I've been doing...and I've been successful at it.
I will definitely implement your suggestions.👊👍
If you didn’t gleam that pearl, joy comes from self acceptance, self acceptance requires a lot of self reflection. Reflection and acceptance can be quite hard, especially when you realize you are something that you never thought you were. I felt serenity for about a week, compounded realizations and acceptance, I was completely at peace and joy came from that. People were just gravitating to me, men and women, strangers, a lot of deep conversations while sitting at bus stops and even on curbs. This guy seems to have experienced some great many things in his life.
Hard to come from a place of joy when you had 2 narcissist, selfish, deadbeats for parents. I had to claw, grind, bleed, and cry uphill to be successful and it definitely shows 😔
Its your responsibility to deal with that matter
Check up Richard Grannon.He is specialised psychologist in abusive relationships and good fun too 😃
People rarely want to blame their parents, but in certain instances it's better to face the pain and grow than hideaway and just don't.
I have always been dancing alone and still does despite being married! Even today I get more attraction than before. I totally agree with what you say!
God Bless you Mr Bruno. I love your message man. The manosphere is often far too cynical. Theres is much wisdom and encouragement being shared but its often tinged cynicism. The genunine positivity always comes through
So I guess true inner and complete happiness is the ultimate confidence.... !!!
That is unshakeable. All the other bullshit foundations can be rocked...this is one of those that can’t be touched.
Partner dancing is fun. Love a man who knows how to dance. Confidence is attractive. I have a suggestion for you guys. No cologne. Just shower with soap and water and put on deodorant.
No masking cologne needed. A woman can be attracted to your real smell. Pheromones are an attractant. Thanks!
George...why are you still single?
This video is the only video men should watch PERIOD
If they want to stay single.
~ 🦋
Yes fact's being a man ♂️ at the end of the day is all about Enjoying yourself no matter what and eventually everything else will fall in place I mean how do you expect to show the lady's a wonderful if your not showing or having a wonderful time yourself always remember if you can have wonderful time by yourself the lady's wouldn't mind having wonderful time with you and always remember guy's don't take relationship's to seriously it's all about having fun in we all know all the lady's just want to have fun. Hope that helps keep it up family 🙌💯
*Facts.*
I don’t listen to people who don’t know how to spell or knows how grammar works.
Women say confidence is paramount. The guy you talk about in this video had paramount confidence. As you said when you come from a place of joy and abundance, you exude confidence. The thought of failure doesn't cross your mind, because it is irrelevant to your contentment.
"I'm kind of obsessed with my parking." Guy chases excellence even in parking...
George I just discovered your channel and I subscribed because you speak the truth. I was laughing so hard soon as you talked about the crazy guy looking happy full of joy dancing by himself on the dance floor because you described me. I'm 48 years old now and I been a really good dancer since 1989 in high school. Everything you said is true 100%. The first club I went to was a underage no alcohol dance club called No Daddy's (seriously lol) and soon as I started dancing alone on the dance floor looking my best in nice well dressed clothes smiling and dancing with confidence two very pretty girls immediately left their table they was sitting at with a guy also sitting with them and they both danced with me front and back and I mean full contact dancing with me in the middle and I was 17 lol. Every time I dance alone smiling with confidence enjoying myself dancing with the music women usually two or more always come and dance with me and they are pretty and hot with confidence themselves. Like that woman singer Cindy Lauper song, "Girls Just Wanna Have Fun" is so true : ) To the guys reading this, George is right guys will get jealous of the happy confident guy dancing on the dance floor getting all the women's attention and from my experience the younger guys under 21 can't control their jealously and wanna start a fight with you just because you got the women's attention. I remember back when I was 21 with my two sisters and some of my friends at my local skating rink dancing on the dance floor on the back corner stage during spring break and the place was packed that night. I was dancing alone putting on a show and I was in a circle of people both boys and girls all watching me and cheering me on. A lot of girls was starring at me watching me dance even with their boyfriends next to them. Well one 17 old jealous boyfriend got mad that his girl was starring at me and not paying attention to him so he puts on brass knuckles out of my view as he was on the side of me in my blind spot and he sucker punched me as hard as he could on my cheek bone sideways and knocks my glasses off but he didn't knock me out. I put my glasses back on and went looking for him and he escaped out the back emergency door then I realized I completely lost my memory and didn't know who I was or my name, age, year etc and all I know is that my two sisters are there. Someone called the ambulance and the more questions they asked me the more scared I got because I lost my memory and they took me to the hospital then finally 12 hours later my memory started to come back but I had a very swollen cheekbone from the hard punch and they sent me home. A day later I became so sick I thought I was gonna die and I couldn't eat or drink water without puking and I became so weak I couldn't even stand or walk by myself. I told my parents to take me back to the hospital that something is very wrong. They did a MRI on my head and found out I was bleeding internally from a broken cheek bone which is my skull. I was in the hospital for 2 weeks on IV and they did a 8 hour plastic surgery thru my gum line inside my mouth to put my cheek bone back together using a metal plate and metal screws without a scar. When it fully healed my face looked normal again like nothing happened. Someone turned in the 17 year old trouble maker punk that sucker punched me because he was bragging about putting me in the hospital and we went to court and he went to juvenile jail and had to payback my medical bills. I was married once for 7 years but I got fed up and divorced my gold digger wife in year 2005 and luckily I didn't have kids with her and she quickly remarried 2 months later to another guy. When I was married to her in the beginning we used to still go to dance clubs and have a few drinks and dinner because after all we first met at a dance club lol. Well one time I was dancing alone on the dance floor and my wife didn't feel like dancing so she watched me dance alone while she was sitting at a table. Next thing happened is two beautiful hot women wanted to dance with me and I knew my wife was watching and I knew she would be jealous if I was dancing with them so every time I moved away from the two hot women dancing they followed me desperately trying hard to dance with me and I made those women look like fools and they was dumbfounded to why I was rejecting them thinking I was gay or something and hot women are not used to being rejected lol. I was always faithful to my wife when I was married and I even turned down three beautiful hot model type women driving in a convertible that pulled up to me in my nice show car when I was talking to a guy about cars at the gas station pump and they asked me if I wanted to join them and party and I raised my hand and showed them my ring and said sorry I would if I was single but I'm married. The look on the faces of the hot women was priceless because they too probably never been rejected. I'm 48 years old now and I still know how to dance but I haven't been in a club in years because I don't care for the newer crappy music these days compared to the awesome 80's and 90's music I grew up with plus I don't like crowded dance floors and I don't drink alcohol no more. In year 2019 before the corona virus pandemic I decided to go to a club reunion that my favorite DJ was hosting playing the old school music from the 90's so I went alone just to enjoy myself dancing to the music of the songs I love from the 90's. I was 47 years old with gray hair and I went well dressed looking my best and I danced with confidence smiling having a good time by myself then two young beautiful women started dancing with me and it made me even happier because at 47 years old with gray hair, I still got it attracting women : ) In case your wondering I'm 6' 2" tall white guy with an average face (not a male model) and slim at 147 pounds but muscular especially my chest and V shape back, imagine a white Bruce Lee but taller lol. I worked out with weights on and off since 8th grade and I have a super fast metabolism so I will always be slim no matter how much I eat. I used to be super shy before age 17 but working out with weights building muscle and dancing made me have confidence which attracts women. Sorry for the long comment but I think you will find it interesting. George is 100% right it works! Just Do It! My Grandfather Danced Till His 80's! Everybody Dance Now! Bust A Move! : )
Excellent advice man!!
@@Demour77 Thanks man : )
Excellent talk George. Thank you.
Be content with yourself. Come from a place of completeness and joy, content, and abundance. What you are inside projects outside especially since the female imperative is coming from an emotional base and is effected by it. Life is best at its simplest form. He was going to win before he got there. Thank you sir
How about being confident in your everyday life and please dont assume that just because a women talks to you or asks you for directions or furthermore is being nice doesnt mean shes personally interested in you. That just might be your ego talking to you. Every teacher store clerk cashier parking lot attendant i have to ask a question or run a quip by is necessary because their there. HELLO ?
I'm 50 and still doing what the weirdo u talked did every weekend and I love it... Last weekend I met two ladies dancing with them, drinks, phone number ect ect.. I really enjoy this. And of course... Even the youngest women of course approached us .. no cap
Yes! Joy! You smile with your eyes!
I agree with him completely if you look happy and confident about yourself women can see that about you.