George, This was perhaps the most poignant, truth telling, and important video concerning the subject of divorce and breakups that I've ever come across. I wish this was available back in the early 90s (*sighs)....Anyways, having lived through an extremely bad relationship a few decades back, I feel it necessary to tell anyone that trying to fix a leaky boat (bad marriage) for too long will find oneself at the bottom of the sea feeling bewildered and bitter. Heed this sage wisdom George here has imparted upon all of us. He truly gets it!!! I've shared this with my son and some young lads as a precursor to potential pitfalls in matters of the heart. An ounce or two of proven prevention, is preferable to a pound of cure.
Gentlemen, this is very valuable information, George’s content I found when my 11 year relationship ended, I was 44, now I am almost 48 and life is so much better because of this man. Thanks again George 👍
I am 41. I am still young. I am a homeowner again in a great part of town. I am successful. I will bounce back after my 20 years of marriage. I have always been introverted, but have found myself being confident with NOTHING to lose in dating. Like he said, date LOONGG…but I don’t think I want to do the marry thing again…
@@warrenhaven2216uh yeah buddy nice comparison. This dude doesn’t love fish romantically like you do pal. Worst comparison I’ve ever heard lmao. Also, I do get your “point”, it’s just bad and irrelevant. The quality of women and relationships in general has dropped drastically. I agree that there’s little point to pursue something that’s likely (and proven to based on experience and every metric known to man) FAIL.
"your never going to have your world revolve around a woman again are you? you're going to create a mission and she will join your mission." ...literally felt such encouragement from that one statement. Thank you George.
Sir thank you, I’m 32 and going through a divorce after ten years. This felt like my older self giving me a message from the future. And I mean this in the most respectful way, wisdom passing down. Thank you
@@eddys.3485just the beginning. Seperation initiated amicably last week. Have a child and home. Going through the expected emotions and peaks and valleys. I hope i make it through
@@bretteidem6248in no way shape or form do I say this as a haha moment. But being 23 and seeing you guys say you’re getting through a whole divorce when I had a simple 3 year GF break up is relieving in a way. Puts my perspective differently that a ring won’t mean shit it’s about the person the ring is on and I’m glad I didn’t hold on to someone who wanted to leave. Good luck fellas
Thank you I’ve recently discovered you. I to am going through a divorce after 20 years married and 3 kids! 27 years together! HS sweethearts and all! Everything you spoke about is exactly the same experience I am having! The last 3 months I have completely uprooted and moved bought a new home with all new things nothing that we acquired together I took. Wiped the slate clean. Started to work out lost 51 pounds and gained so much confidence in myself and started to self love. I too tired to hang on only to get burned and set back. I was a door mat and am priority LAST on anything that doesn’t have to do with our children. When something like that happens the first thing any man needs to do is move forward. When a woman checks out they check out and no convincing otherwise. Don’t waste your emotions and time 💯 It is painful, you feel abandoned, empty, confused and frightened to face the world by oneself, you are not alone as others are going through the battle. Thank you for the video I will watch them all.
I'm glad I read your post, I'm going through the same thing right now and we need as much strength and support we can get. I got totally lost in this shitshow of a marriage and knowing that I'm still in there somewhere is encouraging. Thanks Brother.
Im glad i read this to.. im ther. Rite now.. 27 years together.. She has checked out a long time ago. I fought for years to make it rite.. to no avail. Im a broken person. Shes laughing.. laughing on phone with friends/family.. who tell her to leave me. All these women today thinkin they are bettr off alone. ..?.. Some days im just lost
I was stuck in a rut after my divorce.. doing exactly what you said not to do. It's difficult. Then I rekindled my fly fishing for trout, started mountain biking, road cycling, hiking, camping, partying, investing time in myself.. and of course concentrating on income.. and after a while my ex didn't feature anymore. I was doing my own things.. what a revelation. .. thinking back on it now 20yrs back.
Amen brother. I think it’s because we take time to retreat into our caves and reevaluate. Woman, however, keep craving the attention of whatever comes their way for a short term fix
I discovered last year that my wife of 18yrs had an affair. A year later and now she has decided she wants a divorce. I’m watching this video over and over trying to accept what I already know, but damn this is gonna be hard. Thanks for this video and the honesty, George. My dad is telling me the exact same and I guess I just have to keep watching to get this mind of mine right.
I might not know you, and I know I'm too young to even imagine what you're feeling right now, but as a younger man I am with you and your peace is at hand. Be kind to yourself and know that she lost you and you didn't lose her.
My wife did the same. I was glad she did. That was a great excuse to could get rid of her. Life post divorce is great for men. Eventually you get that money back, and can begin to enjoy life again. My new girlfriend is begging to move in together, and I’m like “ nah, I enjoy my peace and freedom “. Man she’s pissed about it, but I won’t budge. Good luck brother 😎.
@@sontodosnarcosI gave her every opportunity to be truly sorry and I never saw empathy. I forgave and tried to work things out. Love makes you do strange things, and even more so after lots of years, and even more complicated with children involved. Still going through hell in the divorce process but I am stronger every step of the way.
The holy spirit told me in meditation "pain is inevitable, but suffering is a choice" and hearing you say this is undeniably very refreshing for my young man brain. Thank you so much for opening my eyes to what men of all ages have to go through, it's so confusing when we lack mentors like yourself nowadays with all these broken down or even, feminine controlled homes. Thank you for sanity, clarity and reason. Knowledge, wisdom and understanding🙏🏽🙏🏽
36 year wife went straight from the sweetest woman in the world to the cruelest. Either she is 2 ppl in one or the first one was just a lie. At this second, I REALLY DO HATE HER. She ruined EVERYTHING and stole my kids from me to boot. Now I am supposed to somehow start over.
After 23 years I got kicked into touch, I did hate her with a passion for a long time, like you say from sweet to a venom filled witch in the blink of an eye. I am ok now, it was beyond painful for the first 2 months, mental torture, away from the family you love and care for especialy that first Christmas but I will tell you something Chuck, I realise now what a miserable existance it was with her, she wasnt real, an act for the white picket fence fantasy. I
@@Nestor-jx8nw amen to that. sounds like the same situation with me. im almost 2 months out and im transitioning from wanting the old life back to now seeing I deserve much better and that this is a blessing in disguise
@@JakeBlack_Official Jake my man, welcome to the free world, one where your mind is free of that constant female drama. Its tough and you will have bad days but you will be fine and a day will come when you will think of it as silly for letting another human have that much sway over your feelings.
26 years for me. I'm in the same place. Never wanna see this person again, she thinks she is so superior to me. The only thing she did was lie, conceal and cheat
Man, I share your videos in my mens divorce group. This is so real; I watched my neighbor go through this to the point where he killed his exwife boyfriend a month after she kicked him out and had the new guy in. Keep us men sane!!!!
That can happen unfortunately and women don't know how some men will react when they've been done wrong. She's blessed to be alive and it's sad that the boyfriend lost because of that. It happens more than you think and it doesn't always make the news
Love George and his sage wisdom.... he knows his stuff. I've been through this cycle a couple times. Once not long ago after losing my wife of 23 years in 2017... then a horrific breakup with a younger woman a year ago. Two totally different forms of loss... but similar in many ways... the grief and sorrow and the self pity is the worst... the solution is the same. Appreciate the good there was and don't ever focus on the negatives and move on... because life doesn't ever stop. Keep moving forward... as Disney used to say. As Aaron Clarey writes in The Menu, get comfortable being alone and with yourself or no one will ever want your company. We all come into this world alone and leave the same way. Just fill your days with fun and memories.
George... I respect you man. I've been through some shit... I've been doing what you have been saying... I'm loving life, the freedom, my motorcycle, my gym training, I and my red wine...
I went through it 20 years ago. Everything you said in this video is 100% accurate. What a pathetic man I was during that time. But it changed me into the man I am today. My girlfriends brother-in-law is going through this right now. I am sending him this video.
Love you videos. Going through a divorce after 14 years - with three little ones. I have been watching your videos like crazy! Not sure how I am going to get through this mess!!
Don't worrie, Bruno said it exactly! Is only a storm it will pass... I have gone through it a couple times and always feels like the end of the world until you look back and regret waiting so much energy for nothing. Have fun with it, now you are not responsible for disappointing anyone. Invest in your self you only live once..
This is really good advice...especially the mindfulness exercises. I was married for 20 years..5 kids...and have been divorced for 7 years now. You will have days of complete hopelessness...but you will get through...and day by day...that deep wound, will heal and you will find peace again...perhaps even more peace, than you ever imagined possible 🙏
Going thru a difficult break-up it has been months. Just last week something incredible happened I started to get myself back. Just a very small amount for now but none the less a tiny bit of hope. I think I am going to make it. Thank you, Sir
My wife left me 3 months ago at the drop of a hat. No discussion, no argument nothing. I can home to a note on the table that wraps up to "sorry, goodbye" Im digging through everything i can trying to help
Same here, bro. She left the same way, almost 6 months ago. Still plenty of tough days but getting better. Little by little. Leaning on good friends and making it through.
I just want to say that today after 5 years my marriage is done, this video has really helped me out, and I know one day I’ll come back and see this comment, and to my future self, I’m proud of you.
I'm an Orthodox Christian, and I love your icon. I have the same one. My wife of 21 years up and left. I never abused her or cheated on her. She'd gone. Everything you are saying is on point. Thank you brother.
I also noticed the ICON. My wife has been dishonest and completely uncaring to the point where she is removed from our relationship. Conversations like this are great. Thank you.
Very good video. I'd say the worst mistake I made after my divorce was to jump back into the dating market really quickly. I hooked up a lot to try and replace what I had lost. It was not good and I had caused a lot of hardship for those short-term partners. Best to just take a break, let yourself process the break-up/divorce, and then re-enter dating after enough time has passed. When you no longer think of the ex, is when enough time has passed.
Lol, this really came just in time, I definitely feel more vulnerable and doubt my value as a man and a partner after the whole breakup happened but I think after some thinking and meditation I have started to finally accept it and move on.
You saved my life in this dark times bro. Thank God I found your channel. She just left me and took our 3 kids, I didin't know she's been having an affair for 2 years now. She is still in denial of the affair until now and making-up stories against me to justify why she left me. I was so blind that I didin't see how manipulative she is in our 23 years of marriage. I wish I can still see my kids again, I don't know where are they now. 😢
Thank you sir! All your wisdom is on point. I'm 9 months into my separation/divorce. She stonewalled & keep the kids from me for 2.5 months including Thanksgiving, Xmas, New Years. I'm letting her make all the mistakes. My patience will pay off in the long run. Coach me.
Michael, thank you! You get it! Praise God! I still pray for her as she is and will always be the mother I my children but she put me away 16 years ago and the lady therapist was a spiritual lady and knew that the trUth would Make/create me free! This is how the Holy Spirit works to assist in our suffering as He teaches us the peaceable things of The Kingdom of God peace and blessings brother Michael . . .
Hey Trailboss! Thank you for the refresher. I am almost 3 years post-divorce and your steady hand and calm voice still center me. I look forward to meeting you sir. Godspeed!
Just came across your channel thank you brother. I'm recently divorced from a wife of 14 years married and five children together ages 14, 11,9, 7 and 4 four girls one boy. My son is the youngest. It hurts so bad. She filed a few days after my birthday. 12/17/2023 we even went out and had a nice time. Then I was served. I stayed with this woman during her infidelity I should have been left. But I wanted to keep my family together. My divorce was final April 29th. Through a Zoom call court meeting. This is the most worst pain ever. Plus I'm still at the house untill I get on my feet and I'm able to move out
Going through a rough breakup, my ex dumped me 2 weeks ago we met in our condo gym. We had a hot n heavy relationship but I would always call her out on her abrasive personality. One day we had an episode where I called her out.. she dumped me right then n there. I have a strong gut feeling there was another guy in the picture lurking around. It's been hard lately, just trying to rebuild myself.
I know how you feel brother. Around the time you made this comment I dodged a paternity fraud stunt. My ex and I had our problems and she used our problems as an excuse to find another man and she was cheating on me to the point where he got her pregnant. Only a few months went by and she became engaged to the same man she cheated on me. We are all alone in this together
Just been introduced to Listen my Son podcasts and thank you for sharing the knowledge and wisdom that you have been through and learnt the hard way. Catching a wake up here. Thank you👍🏼
Bro I love your vibe, currently 3 months into a break up, still only slightly better than before but its things like this video that help me through, create a positive mindset and just let me move tf on. Ps you look and sound like you'd make up for an amazing dad/granddad. Thanks pops
Replace her immediately. There is no other way. Mindset, gym, etc are all good things to do, BUT you need to mitigate the loss, just like when you put an animal down. Get a new animal or at least start looking at new ones. That's EXACTLY what she did, even before she left. Cold hard truth you don't want to hear. Trust me.
My story will blow minds! 47 years, 7 children, 7 grandchildren . . . Set out to the curb 14 years ago and heard the very best line and truth from my VA therapist right at the start of my unknown new single life . . . She said; “David, what would you do if your wife died? “ I was floored at that question ! I pondered it for a minute and answered, “I would need to learn new coping skills” . . . Her reply saved my life as she said; “David, your wife died!!!” . . . PRICELESS! George Bruno your truth will bless many who are not pussies who don’t need pussy! I believe this is your best moment as you have and are DOing the work! God bless you brother, this is epic! This video should go viral! Many would be blessed beyond measure to believe your truth and choose to live and love their lives! I have become a prolific ice skating dancer and entertain those who see me at 63 and I am getting better each time I write my story with my feet! Designing a new stretcherscize as I dance in the sand dreaming on ice . . . It is time for for boys to make noise!
Thank you. I needed to hear from genuine men that have been threw it. I will get threw this. The only thing that i see positive in our son. I love our child however the love i had for my ex wife has died
Thanks George, I am in the beginning stages of this right now. I am quietly now planning my next step, in regards to where I will land, live and begin resetting myself. At the moment, I am trying to do the aforementioned under the radar and once the time the next step (for me) is setup/solidified, then its time to bring her up to speed and let her know that we are officially done.
33 years married. My one goal in life was to grow old with her and enjoy our grandchildren together. She used me all those years then walked away. I can’t see the other side. Seven years now and life has no meaning.
The first time I heard of Mr. Bruno, I was sent a link to an interview about his divorce. Specifically, how the congregants turned on him- and supported and uplifted the wife who initiated the divorce- in the Presbyterian church he and his then wife had attended for years. It helped many men over the years. It is OLD. Wish I'd saved the link.
It happens a lot to men. I was treated like I had the plaque at my church when my divorce started. The singles, especially the single parent groups, are dating pools and usually not good ones. I stopped going. I read my Bible at home.
I’m so thankful to learn these lessons with girlfriends at 24 rather than trying to figure it out in divorce court with my wife at 40. That can still happen but I will hopefully have better wisdom navigating that situation. I am going to hold these truths close. I am going to get me back after 2 1/2 years.
Hi . Great advices. In my case Ive asked for divorce after 2 y of sexless and complicated marriage. It wasnt easy to maked that call but there wasnt any dialog between us . We did mane family and marriage therapys but there wasnt any improvements. So the divorce is in progres . Its not easy because we have 2 small children. I love smoking my piepes too and my go to is capstan blue . Thank you for all you advices. I was really trying to save that marriage but i think she decided long time ago and was trying to force me to make that decision. I need to get to the shape too . God bless you
I am really glad I found this channel. Man, smoking a pipe and having a drink with you sir would be awesome. You give good advice after this divorce crap.
How many times does a car need to be DRIVEN before it is called a rental? Man, that was profound! Even if it may not yet be driven, it has been in my mind so onto workin on ME and being the BEST thing that happens for the next woman in my life.
Good advice. I am going trough divorce. The most thing I have problems is our 2 kids. And the disappointment, lies from my ex. She turned it like I was the bad guy. I just want to go to an island for 1 year ...without Internet or phone. God and Jesus helped me. God showed me a lot of miracles in this time. He spoke to me. He told me that HE loves me. 🙏♾️ Amen
@@Detroitswagg28 There are 150 Psalms in the Old Testament. David wrote a large portion of them, some when he was hiding in caves when King Saul put a bounty on his head. Psalms 22, 31, and 35 are my favorite. Jezebel, one of the evilest women in the Bible, 1 Kings and 2 Kings. Her death, she was thrown out of a 2nd story window and eaten by dogs.
The ruminating on the vows was a big deal for me. I finally realized that women just aren’t measured by integrity, as are men. A woman breaking her word is no big deal to society. Fight hard for your money through your attorney, and take the high road regarding co-parenting duties. Then work on creating your new life.
Ok it works! Got triggered by the let her go tried the awareness sense exercises. I have calmed down and starring to think... it's control over self! He'll yea!!! I will definitely be watching more. I'm at the very beginning. Paperwork is coming... I will be honest heartbreak is an eclipse of pain. And it comes and goes. In short, I'm listening.
The more I accept she's gone and to do the things you say the better I feel. The storm is passing for me. I'm finally ready to start the process of the divorce instead of waiting for her. She gets to have what she thinks she wants why am I suffering?
Hey George... thank you for this. You and I are a similar age and I've been through some shit. I found this video full of such wisdom and encouragement. I've recently gone through a break up and maybe because of my age and experience I'm doing well, what you spoke about I have done instinctively... thank you man, I feel like you are a brother. As a side note, I've decided to grow out my beard... 3 months in.
"We just celebrated our anniversary now there's another car in my driveway.."...wow. this is almost exactly what happened. She changed the security cameras so that I couldn't see a car in the cul de sac
George, This was perhaps the most poignant, truth telling, and important video concerning the subject of divorce and breakups that I've ever come across. I wish this was available back in the early 90s (*sighs)....Anyways, having lived through an extremely bad relationship a few decades back, I feel it necessary to tell anyone that trying to fix a leaky boat (bad marriage) for too long will find oneself at the bottom of the sea feeling bewildered and bitter. Heed this sage wisdom George here has imparted upon all of us. He truly gets it!!! I've shared this with my son and some young lads as a precursor to potential pitfalls in matters of the heart. An ounce or two of proven prevention, is preferable to a pound of cure.
Well said friend
Gentlemen, this is very valuable information, George’s content I found when my 11 year relationship ended, I was 44, now I am almost 48 and life is so much better because of this man. Thanks again George 👍
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Yes sir!!! Gentleman speaking truth!!!
I am 41. I am still young. I am a homeowner again in a great part of town. I am successful. I will bounce back after my 20 years of marriage. I have always been introverted, but have found myself being confident with NOTHING to lose in dating. Like he said, date LOONGG…but I don’t think I want to do the marry thing again…
I honestly are completely done with relationships and women, after 30 years of disappointment and hurt I’m simply done.
They're just good for pump and dump. It's sad
If the fish don’t bite blame the fisherman not the fish
@@warrenhaven2216uh yeah buddy nice comparison. This dude doesn’t love fish romantically like you do pal. Worst comparison I’ve ever heard lmao. Also, I do get your “point”, it’s just bad and irrelevant. The quality of women and relationships in general has dropped drastically. I agree that there’s little point to pursue something that’s likely (and proven to based on experience and every metric known to man) FAIL.
"your never going to have your world revolve around a woman again are you? you're going to create a mission and she will join your mission." ...literally felt such encouragement from that one statement. Thank you George.
Sir thank you, I’m 32 and going through a divorce after ten years. This felt like my older self giving me a message from the future. And I mean this in the most respectful way, wisdom passing down. Thank you
Same. 31 here
@@Amk4792 hanging in there?
@@eddys.3485just the beginning. Seperation initiated amicably last week. Have a child and home. Going through the expected emotions and peaks and valleys. I hope i make it through
41 here. On my second divorce. God, when will I learn to discern good women from toxic ones?
@@bretteidem6248in no way shape or form do I say this as a haha moment. But being 23 and seeing you guys say you’re getting through a whole divorce when I had a simple 3 year GF break up is relieving in a way. Puts my perspective differently that a ring won’t mean shit it’s about the person the ring is on and I’m glad I didn’t hold on to someone who wanted to leave. Good luck fellas
Thank you I’ve recently discovered you. I to am going through a divorce after 20 years married and 3 kids! 27 years together! HS sweethearts and all! Everything you spoke about is exactly the same experience I am having! The last 3 months I have completely uprooted and moved bought a new home with all new things nothing that we acquired together I took. Wiped the slate clean. Started to work out lost 51 pounds and gained so much confidence in
myself and started to self love. I too tired to hang on only to get burned and set back. I was a door mat and am priority LAST on anything that doesn’t have to do with our children. When something like that happens the first thing any man needs to do is move forward. When a woman checks out they check out and no convincing otherwise. Don’t waste your emotions and time 💯 It is painful, you feel abandoned, empty, confused and frightened to face the world by oneself, you are not alone as others are going through the battle.
Thank you for the video I will watch them all.
I'm glad I read your post, I'm going through the same thing right now and we need as much strength and support we can get. I got totally lost in this shitshow of a marriage and knowing that I'm still in there somewhere is encouraging. Thanks Brother.
Im glad i read this to.. im ther. Rite now..
27 years together..
She has checked out a long time ago.
I fought for years to make it rite.. to no avail.
Im a broken person. Shes laughing.. laughing on phone with friends/family.. who tell her to leave me.
All these women today thinkin they are bettr off alone. ..?..
Some days im just lost
I was stuck in a rut after my divorce.. doing exactly what you said not to do. It's difficult. Then I rekindled my fly fishing for trout, started mountain biking, road cycling, hiking, camping, partying, investing time in myself.. and of course concentrating on income.. and after a while my ex didn't feature anymore. I was doing my own things.. what a revelation. .. thinking back on it now 20yrs back.
She wanted to leave and I opened the door and helped her out.
I was planing my future before the door closed.
“Suffering is a school, trauma is a teacher” - Robin Sharma
A red flag is a red flag 🚩
Women move on quicker initially, but men are happier in the long run. That was the case with me anyway!🙂
Amen brother. I think it’s because we take time to retreat into our caves and reevaluate. Woman, however, keep craving the attention of whatever comes their way for a short term fix
Amen brother. Always
TACB-they always come back. As a man, never allow it
I needed to read your message. I look forward to when I'm able to say I'm happier. Thanks for the hope.
@@Savvynomad225is that true?
I discovered last year that my wife of 18yrs had an affair. A year later and now she has decided she wants a divorce. I’m watching this video over and over trying to accept what I already know, but damn this is gonna be hard. Thanks for this video and the honesty, George. My dad is telling me the exact same and I guess I just have to keep watching to get this mind of mine right.
I might not know you, and I know I'm too young to even imagine what you're feeling right now, but as a younger man I am with you and your peace is at hand. Be kind to yourself and know that she lost you and you didn't lose her.
Sorry to hear that man. The faster you accept the reality the better off you'll be. Feel what you feel there's no shame in that.
My wife did the same. I was glad she did. That was a great excuse to could get rid of her. Life post divorce is great for men. Eventually you get that money back, and can begin to enjoy life again. My new girlfriend is begging to move in together, and I’m like “ nah, I enjoy my peace and freedom “. Man she’s pissed about it, but I won’t budge. Good luck brother 😎.
So you've known this for a year and waited all this time just to have her leave and divorce you?
@@sontodosnarcosI gave her every opportunity to be truly sorry and I never saw empathy. I forgave and tried to work things out. Love makes you do strange things, and even more so after lots of years, and even more complicated with children involved. Still going through hell in the divorce process but I am stronger every step of the way.
The holy spirit told me in meditation "pain is inevitable, but suffering is a choice" and hearing you say this is undeniably very refreshing for my young man brain.
Thank you so much for opening my eyes to what men of all ages have to go through, it's so confusing when we lack mentors like yourself nowadays with all these broken down or even, feminine controlled homes. Thank you for sanity, clarity and reason. Knowledge, wisdom and understanding🙏🏽🙏🏽
I’ve skipped these videos because I never thought it would happen to me, but here I am. Thank you for being here in the dark times.
Never contact anyone who leaves you. Then go and smash every glass ceiling in your life
36 year wife went straight from the sweetest woman in the world to the cruelest. Either she is 2 ppl in one or the first one was just a lie. At this second, I REALLY DO HATE HER. She ruined EVERYTHING and stole my kids from me to boot. Now I am supposed to somehow start over.
After 23 years I got kicked into touch, I did hate her with a passion for a long time, like you say from sweet to a venom filled witch in the blink of an eye. I am ok now, it was beyond painful for the first 2 months, mental torture, away from the family you love and care for especialy that first Christmas but I will tell you something Chuck, I realise now what a miserable existance it was with her, she wasnt real, an act for the white picket fence fantasy. I
@@Nestor-jx8nw amen to that. sounds like the same situation with me. im almost 2 months out and im transitioning from wanting the old life back to now seeing I deserve much better and that this is a blessing in disguise
@@JakeBlack_Official Jake my man, welcome to the free world, one where your mind is free of that constant female drama. Its tough and you will have bad days but you will be fine and a day will come when you will think of it as silly for letting another human have that much sway over your feelings.
@@Nestor-jx8nw I appreciate the encouragement bro. Thank you!!
26 years for me. I'm in the same place. Never wanna see this person again, she thinks she is so superior to me. The only thing she did was lie, conceal and cheat
Man, I share your videos in my mens divorce group. This is so real; I watched my neighbor go through this to the point where he killed his exwife boyfriend a month after she kicked him out and had the new guy in. Keep us men sane!!!!
Holy sh*t is there a news article on this? Also how much time did he get?
That can happen unfortunately and women don't know how some men will react when they've been done wrong. She's blessed to be alive and it's sad that the boyfriend lost because of that. It happens more than you think and it doesn't always make the news
I could see how that happened.
You’re honestly the most unique person I’ve ever seen. There’s something so calming about you. It sounds cliche I know but seriously!
Agree
Agree!!
Love George and his sage wisdom.... he knows his stuff. I've been through this cycle a couple times. Once not long ago after losing my wife of 23 years in 2017... then a horrific breakup with a younger woman a year ago. Two totally different forms of loss... but similar in many ways... the grief and sorrow and the self pity is the worst... the solution is the same. Appreciate the good there was and don't ever focus on the negatives and move on... because life doesn't ever stop. Keep moving forward... as Disney used to say. As Aaron Clarey writes in The Menu, get comfortable being alone and with yourself or no one will ever want your company. We all come into this world alone and leave the same way. Just fill your days with fun and memories.
George... I respect you man. I've been through some shit... I've been doing what you have been saying... I'm loving life, the freedom, my motorcycle, my gym training, I and my red wine...
The pain is incredible..
It seems unending too
I went through it 20 years ago. Everything you said in this video is 100% accurate. What a pathetic man I was during that time. But it changed me into the man I am today. My girlfriends brother-in-law is going through this right now. I am sending him this video.
toughens you up quicksmart
Love you videos. Going through a divorce after 14 years - with three little ones. I have been watching your videos like crazy! Not sure how I am going to get through this mess!!
Don't worrie, Bruno said it exactly! Is only a storm it will pass... I have gone through it a couple times and always feels like the end of the world until you look back and regret waiting so much energy for nothing. Have fun with it, now you are not responsible for disappointing anyone. Invest in your self you only live once..
This is really good advice...especially the mindfulness exercises. I was married for 20 years..5 kids...and have been divorced for 7 years now. You will have days of complete hopelessness...but you will get through...and day by day...that deep wound, will heal and you will find peace again...perhaps even more peace, than you ever imagined possible 🙏
How could someone leave after three kids?
That's crazy
Years of practice bro. Just dont take on another woman untill you completely heal or it will be same turd all over again...
@pauld8580 - can you give an update? Has the mess subsided? Are you happier?
“They’re all temporary problems”
I'm at the point of stress where i'm tempted to tell her to Fu%k off!!!
thank you for this. I was hung up on the vows. when you said, "the covenant takes two" that really hit me.
Going thru a difficult break-up it has been months. Just last week something incredible happened I started to get myself back. Just a very small amount for now but none the less a tiny bit of hope. I think I am going to make it.
Thank you, Sir
How you doing now?
My wife left me 3 months ago at the drop of a hat. No discussion, no argument nothing. I can home to a note on the table that wraps up to "sorry, goodbye" Im digging through everything i can trying to help
Same here, bro. She left the same way, almost 6 months ago. Still plenty of tough days but getting better. Little by little. Leaning on good friends and making it through.
You have great value even though she is blind to see it.
I just want to say that today after 5 years my marriage is done, this video has really helped me out, and I know one day I’ll come back and see this comment, and to my future self, I’m proud of you.
I'm an Orthodox Christian, and I love your icon. I have the same one. My wife of 21 years up and left. I never abused her or cheated on her. She'd gone. Everything you are saying is on point. Thank you brother.
I also noticed the ICON. My wife has been dishonest and completely uncaring to the point where she is removed from our relationship. Conversations like this are great. Thank you.
Very good video. I'd say the worst mistake I made after my divorce was to jump back into the dating market really quickly. I hooked up a lot to try and replace what I had lost. It was not good and I had caused a lot of hardship for those short-term partners. Best to just take a break, let yourself process the break-up/divorce, and then re-enter dating after enough time has passed. When you no longer think of the ex, is when enough time has passed.
Beautiful awesome advice
Lol, this really came just in time, I definitely feel more vulnerable and doubt my value as a man and a partner after the whole breakup happened but I think after some thinking and meditation I have started to finally accept it and move on.
Man this dude is smooth as silk
You saved my life in this dark times bro. Thank God I found your channel. She just left me and took our 3 kids, I didin't know she's been having an affair for 2 years now. She is still in denial of the affair until now and making-up stories against me to justify why she left me. I was so blind that I didin't see how manipulative she is in our 23 years of marriage. I wish I can still see my kids again, I don't know where are they now. 😢
I feel you nigga
@@Dignified32😂 dead ass
As you said Mr. Bruno: "Save the man, not the marriage" Thank you as always
"stop driving by the f*** apartment or house" I had to laugh so hard... that's exactly what I wanted to do.
Thank you sir! All your wisdom is on point. I'm 9 months into my separation/divorce. She stonewalled & keep the kids from me for 2.5 months including Thanksgiving, Xmas, New Years. I'm letting her make all the mistakes. My patience will pay off in the long run. Coach me.
Michael, thank you! You get it! Praise God! I still pray for her as she is and will always be the mother I my children but she put me away 16 years ago and the lady therapist was a spiritual lady and knew that the trUth would Make/create me free! This is how the Holy Spirit works to assist in our suffering as He teaches us the peaceable things of The Kingdom of God peace and blessings brother Michael . . .
Hey Trailboss! Thank you for the refresher. I am almost 3 years post-divorce and your steady hand and calm voice still center me.
I look forward to meeting you sir. Godspeed!
Thank you for sharing your experience. My 25 year marriage is ending and your wisdom is helping me more than words can explain.
Just came across your channel thank you brother. I'm recently divorced from a wife of 14 years married and five children together ages 14, 11,9, 7 and 4 four girls one boy. My son is the youngest. It hurts so bad. She filed a few days after my birthday. 12/17/2023 we even went out and had a nice time. Then I was served. I stayed with this woman during her infidelity I should have been left. But I wanted to keep my family together. My divorce was final April 29th. Through a Zoom call court meeting. This is the most worst pain ever. Plus I'm still at the house untill I get on my feet and I'm able to move out
I hope you were able to get out man.
yes I did thank you. It still sucks though miss being around my kids daily.@@AppleSunbee33
Going through a rough breakup, my ex dumped me 2 weeks ago we met in our condo gym. We had a hot n heavy relationship but I would always call her out on her abrasive personality. One day we had an episode where I called her out.. she dumped me right then n there. I have a strong gut feeling there was another guy in the picture lurking around. It's been hard lately, just trying to rebuild myself.
I know how you feel brother. Around the time you made this comment I dodged a paternity fraud stunt. My ex and I had our problems and she used our problems as an excuse to find another man and she was cheating on me to the point where he got her pregnant. Only a few months went by and she became engaged to the same man she cheated on me. We are all alone in this together
Once she’s gone get yourself back not her ! Best advice I’ve heard especially being a young man who grew up without a Father…
Just been introduced to Listen my Son podcasts and thank you for sharing the knowledge and wisdom that you have been through and learnt the hard way. Catching a wake up here. Thank you👍🏼
Bro I love your vibe, currently 3 months into a break up, still only slightly better than before but its things like this video that help me through, create a positive mindset and just let me move tf on. Ps you look and sound like you'd make up for an amazing dad/granddad. Thanks pops
I’m glad I got the lesson through my skull. I’m never getting attached again.
Its been 2 years and i still haven't moved on. I still base every new relationship off the best of that previous relationship
Good stuff, man! Was married for 20 years and divorced for 7...Spot on advice...and love the Christ icon too 👍
Did you see it coming?
Take care of yourself
People think you are selfish
Greetings from south africa 🇿🇦
I’m going through a divorce and I’m loosing it. I don’t know how to let her go .
Replace her immediately. There is no other way. Mindset, gym, etc are all good things to do, BUT you need to mitigate the loss, just like when you put an animal down. Get a new animal or at least start looking at new ones. That's EXACTLY what she did, even before she left. Cold hard truth you don't want to hear. Trust me.
@@ListenMySon thanks for the advice I’m trying my best to
Keep going. There are a lot of women wishing they could meet someone who cares like you do.
Find peace in life. Nice dog that loves being with you, fly fishing, some hobby that you love or always wanted to learn
Sell that ring and buy a bitcoin or some books. That’s the value she put on it. No more ruminating about her.
Thanks!
Victor hang in there my friend!!!!!!
My story will blow minds! 47 years, 7 children, 7 grandchildren . . . Set out to the curb 14 years ago and heard the very best line and truth from my VA therapist right at the start of my unknown new single life . . . She said; “David, what would you do if your wife died? “ I was floored at that question ! I pondered it for a minute and answered, “I would need to learn new coping skills” . . . Her reply saved my life as she said; “David, your wife died!!!” . . . PRICELESS!
George Bruno your truth will bless many who are not pussies who don’t need pussy!
I believe this is your best moment as you have and are DOing the work! God bless you brother, this is epic! This video should go viral! Many would be blessed beyond measure to believe your truth and choose to live and love their lives!
I have become a prolific ice skating dancer and entertain those who see me at 63 and I am getting better each time I write my story with my feet!
Designing a new stretcherscize as I dance in the sand dreaming on ice . . .
It is time for for boys to make noise!
💜💪be strong brother!🤟
Did you see the divorce coming ?
“She died” is a great framing.
Nothing to wonder how to fix. And the good and bad can be placed in a box called the past.
Thank you 🙏🏽
Thank you for being here in my hour of need, Sir.
“Good cheers attract good things”
Read me like a book. This was therapeutic, George. Thank you.
I'm glad I found you, sir...
Thank you. I needed to hear from genuine men that have been threw it. I will get threw this. The only thing that i see positive in our son. I love our child however the love i had for my ex wife has died
Came for the beard trimming videos.
Stayed behind for this 🙏🤣🤣👍
Thanks George, I am in the beginning stages of this right now. I am quietly now planning my next step, in regards to where I will land, live and begin resetting myself. At the moment, I am trying to do the aforementioned under the radar and once the time the next step (for me) is setup/solidified, then its time to bring her up to speed and let her know that we are officially done.
Best you tube video of 2022 by a mile. George Bruno Legend. Jonathan 🇬🇧
Man. Powerful. This really spoke to me, thank you!
This came at the perfect time George. Thank you.
Some of the best advice I've ever heard. You're godsent, George.
Thanks for your time. I'm not going through a breakup now, but I'm applying a lot of what you said to the situation I'm going through.
33 years married. My one goal in life was to grow old with her and enjoy our grandchildren together. She used me all those years then walked away. I can’t see the other side. Seven years now and life has no meaning.
The first time I heard of Mr. Bruno, I was sent a link to an interview about his divorce. Specifically, how the congregants turned on him- and supported and uplifted the wife who initiated the divorce- in the Presbyterian church he and his then wife had attended for years.
It helped many men over the years. It is OLD. Wish I'd saved the link.
It happens a lot to men. I was treated like I had the plaque at my church when my divorce started. The singles, especially the single parent groups, are dating pools and usually not good ones. I stopped going. I read my Bible at home.
This was a great video that I needed to watch and hear in my life at this time. Glad I came across it. Thanks so much!
I’m so thankful to learn these lessons with girlfriends at 24 rather than trying to figure it out in divorce court with my wife at 40. That can still happen but I will hopefully have better wisdom navigating that situation. I am going to hold these truths close. I am going to get me back after 2 1/2 years.
Omg u are so right about my situation and I'm hurting so bad but I am getting alot better slowly.
Hi . Great advices. In my case Ive asked for divorce after 2 y of sexless and complicated marriage. It wasnt easy to maked that call but there wasnt any dialog between us . We did mane family and marriage therapys but there wasnt any improvements.
So the divorce is in progres . Its not easy because we have 2 small children. I love smoking my piepes too and my go to is capstan blue . Thank you for all you advices. I was really trying to save that marriage but i think she decided long time ago and was trying to force me to make that decision. I need to get to the shape too . God bless you
Sanity is what I needed to salvage. Enough said...
I’m done grieving and moving forward.
I SURVIVED DIVORCE AN LIFE IS GOOD .. GREAT TALKING POINTS SIR .. SALUTE 👍🏾💯
This channel is so spot on
This Man Iz Droppin' Gems / Jewels!!!
I am really glad I found this channel. Man, smoking a pipe and having a drink with you sir would be awesome. You give good advice after this divorce crap.
George, Your sharing and insights are a gift to us Men dealing with this s**t. (My 6yo son is George). Thank you from New Zealand
As they say in TEXAS: "She's a HANDFUL: Grab your Heart and Go"!
Man , you're amazing . Really appreciate you giving advice .
God bless you George. God bless you.
I really appreciate your podcasts George.👍🏿🙏🏿😎
How many times does a car need to be DRIVEN before it is called a rental? Man, that was profound! Even if it may not yet be driven, it has been in my mind so onto workin on ME and being the BEST thing that happens for the next woman in my life.
Good advice. I am going trough divorce. The most thing I have problems is our 2 kids. And the disappointment, lies from my ex. She turned it like I was the bad guy. I just want to go to an island for 1 year ...without Internet or phone. God and Jesus helped me. God showed me a lot of miracles in this time. He spoke to me. He told me that HE loves me. 🙏♾️ Amen
Reading Psalms was the one item that gave me comfort during my divorce. I was dealing with Jezebel spirit. It really got ugly with the ex-wife.
@@racebannon96Do you remember the chapter and verse it was?
@@Detroitswagg28 There are 150 Psalms in the Old Testament. David wrote a large portion of them, some when he was hiding in caves when King Saul put a bounty on his head. Psalms 22, 31, and 35 are my favorite. Jezebel, one of the evilest women in the Bible, 1 Kings and 2 Kings. Her death, she was thrown out of a 2nd story window and eaten by dogs.
@@racebannon96 Yeah I'm know about Jezebel and her weak Husband Ahab. . Thanks for the verses
The ruminating on the vows was a big deal for me. I finally realized that women just aren’t measured by integrity, as are men. A woman breaking her word is no big deal to society.
Fight hard for your money through your attorney, and take the high road regarding co-parenting duties. Then work on creating your new life.
Thank you for saving my life.
LEGEND
smoking up with gramps this helped a lot for real. i appreciate stumbling across your channel. respect.
"That is a tough debt to collect'" --- George, this one is brutal. I wish you would have elaborated on this what the therapist said.
Thanks George! I really needed to hear this video. Perfect timing in my life.
This makes the most sense of anything I’ve ever heard.
Ok it works! Got triggered by the let her go tried the awareness sense exercises. I have calmed down and starring to think... it's control over self! He'll yea!!! I will definitely be watching more. I'm at the very beginning. Paperwork is coming... I will be honest heartbreak is an eclipse of pain. And it comes and goes. In short, I'm listening.
The more I accept she's gone and to do the things you say the better I feel. The storm is passing for me. I'm finally ready to start the process of the divorce instead of waiting for her. She gets to have what she thinks she wants why am I suffering?
I needed to hear this today. Thank you George!
Thank you George.
Wish there was a channel like this for women...
Hey George... thank you for this. You and I are a similar age and I've been through some shit. I found this video full of such wisdom and encouragement. I've recently gone through a break up and maybe because of my age and experience I'm doing well, what you spoke about I have done instinctively... thank you man, I feel like you are a brother.
As a side note, I've decided to grow out my beard... 3 months in.
Hey man, this video really helped me, i desperately needed to hear some words like yours. Thank you for your wisdom, Christ Is Risen.
George, I am thankful for you and your channel
Thank you for this video!
You are absolutely George
God bless you George, thank you for sharing your wisdom
24:51 - U Know it, bro 👊❗
"We just celebrated our anniversary now there's another car in my driveway.."...wow. this is almost exactly what happened. She changed the security cameras so that I couldn't see a car in the cul de sac