Yandy is moving forward with OR without Mendeecees' support 👀
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Yandi checked out when mendeces said he wont stick by her if she was locked up
Exactly! He said this right AFTER she held him down his whole bid. Smh
Lmao 😆 Or when he told the world that he put his mom up for ransom with some d... rug dealers 😂
THANK YOU!!!
Most men won’t, Women need to up their standards, They chose to stay on their own
Oml i just commented this f him fr hes an opportunist obviously now ahe supposed to care how he feel
The moment Yandy decided she didn’t care how Mendecee felt was when he said in front of everyone that he wouldn’t have done for her what she did for him while he was locked up. I’m convinced.
I said the same thing. I think that incident made her realize she's always been on her own anyway when he said that. So now she's taking it out on him a little
Yeah that was fucked up
That statement is on top of the constant disrespect from his mum. When your man shows you he doesn't have your back the way you have his. You start to mentally advise yourself.
I remember when he told her that! But women think they can change men’s minds when that’s not the case. Look at Erica & Safree, he told her he didn’t want another baby with her because she “got fat” when she was pregnant only to back door and have another baby with him right after that! Like girl, you wasn’t listening the first time??
Exactly,as a woman I can't imagine how much that hurt her. People only see one side tho
Him being concerned about her health and well-being is supportive
. Not agreeing when it's not safe is supportive.
Bro this man has a whole mistress lol he's not concern with her mental health he just doesn't want their cousin to be half siblings
This cousin ain't shit either knowing the damage it will cost and not choose a different option, she ain't no friend
It seems like the cousin is doing this on purpose to break them up 🙄😬
Especially with that sneaky grin on her face 🥴
@@AM-Boluke1210 I agree, the entitlement when she was telling Mendeecee "You will not deny me this" Yandy should have checked her then
Facts
FACTS!!
It's her sister
She could've paid for a surrogate for her.
That would have solved both of their problems I agree but the problem is I think the cousin wanted yandi eggs with her selfish self
@@VIRTUOUSWOMAN73wow why she want her eggs though a baby is a baby what’s up with the sisters eggs?
The sister can’t use her eggs because of some kind of medical condition that’s why Yandy is giving her, her eggs. She is getting a surrogate to carry the baby but Yandy egg will be used. I hope that clarify things for yall.
@@lionishathomas4383 thank you so much cause I was lost. I haven’t been watching the show working working work and finally got my house but thank you.❤❤❤❤
THEY HAD A REASON TO USE YANDY 🙄 YOU OBVIOUSLY AINT WATCH THE EPISODE
In a marriage, never make a lifetime decision without the support of your parter
exactly 💯
For someone to ask you to do something that goes against your spouse or marriage doesn't love or respect your vows/commitment to your spouse.
Many Men Have Done It.
Whether They Lost Their Wives, Families, Wealth, & Health!
Some Spouse Won't Condone Some Decisions, They Are Deal Breakers!
Whether They Are Immoral, or Illegal.
But, They Play The % of Error or Being Caught Up.
Some Power Couples Go Thru Things Like That.
😳🤔🧐🤨🥴🙅♀️🤷♀️🤦♀️💁♀️🙏
I love that she loves her family but her husband is her first family and those babies. If something happens to her, then what? She’s NOT 25 years old. Her husband is 100% correct by being concerned. You mean there was NO other option?!? Your wedding vows and immediate family over everything….in my humble opinion (and I love Yandy and Mendecees, together).
Welp he failed many times already prison outside babys ect no job i wish he would gtfo
This man committed a whole life of crime went to prison, left Yandy to fight his baby mamas, deal with a bad mother, put money on his books, still support his other kids, waited on him to get out of prison, she moved from NY to Atlanta, then here goes ragety Judy with her bad attitude, following him to Atlanta. Yandy brought this man some land, put him in a position to make money but yet this self centered dude was so ungrateful that he couldn't support HIS wife in something as positive as this? Some other man in this world would cherish her and be there with her to protect and love her through no matter what just like she did him! It's a shame but I support Yandy!
You definitely said a lot. 😳
I don't follow the show, this was needed @shoeaches
This is so.sad that this happened to her. What would you call this male individual??? This woman did it all for that male.
Well said!
Better off without him I agree!
The marriage was over to me when he said he wouldn't wait for her if she went to prison.
But her told the truth 😢
That part 💯
@@patriciabrown-by7dj That doesn't make the truth any less messed up 😒
Omg I missed that episode, did he really say that? 😔 Wow. I do think us as woman are obviously stronger all the way around, like a man wouldn't stay faithful like us especially for a long period of time and it's sad. This is why I give so much respect to papoose cause he actually stood faithful for 8yrs waiting for Remy cause that's true love but it's more rare for guys to do so and it's just sad.. blessings to u Hun your beautiful BTW 🙏💜
@@antoinettehorning476 He said it on a Show called Marriage boot camp i think
These lacefronts are KILLING ME 🤦♀️
I agree. These BLACK WOMEN should try doing something with their OWN NATURAL HAIR, and STOP pretending to be anything other than AFRICAN. ☝🏿🖤✨️💯
Why was I glued to the forehead too when the camera zoomed in 😂
😂😂😂😂
It's a great quality lacefront though, i must say.
For real. Especially blk women. Please wear your own hair
From a fake marriage to a real divorce.
That part smh
Yandy is a control freak, very bossy, self centered, and treats Mendecees like the hired help.
I saw this coming from a mile away
👏🏽 👏🏽 👏🏽 well said 😂😂😂😂
Girl please it’s not just you you have a husband you took his right away and made him seem like he crazy for saying he isn’t okay with it he did try to get more information but I don’t understand why she has to control everything
She is really willing to put everything on the line a end up in divorce just crazy I bet if he does leave he is going to end up with Erica baby mama #2
This marriage was over years ago. He was not always a saint in this marriage !
He sure not a saint. He has put Yandy through so much. She has dealed with the cheating, and let's not forget the drama of his baby mama and her parent.
And Yandy knew he wasn't a Saint & still chose him. Stop trying to highlight a man's faults when the woman who still picked him was privy to those faults way before you!!!
@@ckd0680absolutely 💯💯💯
@@ckd0680What u mean just the B's he probably sold her or that he wasn't the MF he claimed to be orrrr the fact that he knew who tf she was too before he got involved with her?
@@ckd0680 riiiiight && Yandy is human && haven't her "FauLTSSS" as well!!¡!!...,,but,,they choose each other and seem to be happy despite their current issues!!¡!!...
When there’s an objection to this type of invasion of privacy, the filming should have stopped. This type of family information should have never been shared with the public.
And this is not her cousin baby. She need to adopt. Usually woman use their eggs and someone carry. This is not her cousin case. I wouldn't support this if I was him. It's Yandy baby. I hope I'm not being insensitive. Go adopt!!!!
ITS CALLED REALITY TV - CATCH UP🙄
@@tinajennings5635 I AGREE!
Those ppl do not care about them, they come on TV and ruin their lives for what they think is fame….smh
Yenda could have gone through the process privately and not revealed it on the show and no one would have known. It’s not like she was going to be filming while pregnant- she gave the story line to producers to share publicly
Yandy looks TF good. Hasn’t aged a BIT !
Read my comment.
She disrespected her husband
It's called plastic surgery
She had multiple surgeries
With all that work done, she SHOULD look TF good 😂😂.
She must not want a husband
Exactly 🎯
The same could be said about you....
That’s not her real husband all fake for the show
If you value yourself you can always have a husband . Those who do not marry but want to be are not married because they stay to long in toxic relationships and are not listening to a man when he is nicely telling them that he is not deeply vested. Do not give a man wifely attention without a contract otherwise you will never marry or you will end up marrying someone old enough to be your father and having funny looking children and stressing your life out 😊❤. They have known each other for a while so they will get through this together. If not she will level up either way it's all good.
That Part 😂
Let's be real.....if she Loved that man this wouldn't even be a issue
Yandy is WRONG WRONG WRONG. He's gonna leave her.
Is that why the “cheating allegations” coming up because of this!? Inquiring minds wants to know..
That would be very dumb of him
Why if he’s not happy? She treats him like he’s the maid.
@@themfingmfer maybe because she's the breadwinner 😂😂
@@ninaowusu8157 no reason to treat someone like their opinion doesn’t matter
Married ppl: if ur spouse is against something that affects the entirety of your lives together, then you are NOT supposed to do it, thats why marriage is so hard thats why divorces are so high, ppl think what the individual wants reigns over everything and it doesn't. Some ppl are not suited for marriages
Does this same mindset go for women who get abortions against their husbands wishes? Or is it her body her choice? 😂
@@Alyssa-kg7mqa woman has Right to do what she wants to her body , a man have no say in that ☠️☠️
@@helenaotoo7954 then talk to the women who are saying Yandy shouldn’t be doing this because mendeecee doesn’t want it. It doesn’t matter what he wants because Yandys body is her body. She can do what she wants with it 😁
Facts and if you never been married, you cannot even relate to this statement
Someone gets it. SMH. She moves like she’s not married
I’ll never go against my husband when it comes to serious life altering decisions.
Facts, Yandy is really trying to be single hey🤣 I just don't get it. Her sis can find a different way but nope, she said "to hell with Mendeecees"
🔥🔥🔥much respect to you 💪🏽💪🏽
O please....mandeeces a dog 🐶 😂
I feel a husband should have some say on this like his wife baby is going to have a different daddy.he got to feel like as a and husband he don't have any say.. she didn't think about him..
you shouldn't go against your husband at all love
This girl should have seen what a problem she causing in her cousin marriage and not ask her, sometimes friends don't care about messing up your life. But I would think about my husband first. This is so stupid of her to not include her own husband.
Yes I agree 👍 and then wants his support without even telling him about this in the beginning 😮😮😮😮😮😮😮😢😢😢😢😢
@@user-di5jb2zy1d Plus it's not his Baby someone else's.
This is the thing though. The husband should have supported his wife. Y'all always think about the man and what he wants first. think about you and what you want first. Your man should be in service of that. But yall don't care about ever getting your needs met in your relationship. The only thing you need is to have a man next to you, the character and quality of the man? Y'all don't care
@@ineedhoez Maybe he would have if she had discussed it with him, marriage is also a partnership, or maybe he's thinking that a child will be born with his wife genes and another mans. His wife will have a baby with another man.
She's getting ready to lose her husband
Bye 👋🏾 to many good ones still out there. 😎
I think that’s fine. He let her know what he really was about and so that’s when she checked out.
What woman would want a man that wouldn’t make the same sacrifices for her that she’s made for him.
He's not going no where this is for tv
@@colors5778 Incorrect. There are very few men who want to shack up with an independent woman who wears the pants in the relationship. Don't fool yourself. She's NOT marriage material.
@@AmberColeman-gq1wn Lmao 🤣 Like what?
She will be divorced by next season 😂😂😂
Their marriage is Over 😔
It never started they not even married fr yal must haven't seen lnhh
@@pettyaf960they are legally married but it was after the fake wedding was exposed. They got married LEGALLY in 2015
They aren’t legally married 😂
@@KewanaNedd they most definitely are it’s public record
Oh well, he started the ink on the divorce papers. He spoke real loud, and Yandy took a double take. A spoken word or words is hard to take back. Yancy has always been strong and courageous, so game on. ❤
Yandy is doing her, she's dealt with jail visits, raising children that are not even hers and he's in his feelings. Prayerfully it will get better
I agree bout time somebody give her credit she held him down and his son as well.men need to be ok this is her body her temple.
Yandy, signed up for the package deal! I never liked her she's always been sneaky.
Exactly
No it won't. He's selfish. It never gets better for those men
Never say never anything can change. With prayer
This is so sad . At the end of the day having a conversation about children and taking the steps to be secretive about it . . It's never going to end well.
She doesn’t deserve to be a wife. She moves and makes decisions as if she’s single.
That’s because they are not married. She does what’s best for her and will find herself soon without Mendeeces.
Girl bye
It’s not that she doesn’t deserve to be a wife that’s weird to say. She doesn’t deserve her husband her husband bc I am sure there’s man who accepts this type of behavior
@@prettyblack7697 that’s what he want. He always messing around on her before this even happen.😮
To be fair she's basically been single for awhile she held it all down without him he should be supporting and decision she makes
Yall saying yandy is wrong but remember Medence said he wouldn’t have held her down like she did when he was in jail 🙄 like yall be fr she’s helping her family
Exactly like did everyone forget she held him the family and business PERIODT just like some men now she needs him to support her and look he’s ready to WALK BOYEEE BYEEE
@@mcnorriell Exactlyyy like you wanna leave BYEEEE✌🏽🤣
THANK YOUU !!! like they bms in these comments she’s helping HER family . He is doing the absolute most about this whole situation
@@rayiekai5135 I’m so glad we’re the smartest of the bunch 😭💯
It was okay for her to be completely selfless when it came to him and his side babies.... but wrong when she is selfless for her people???? He only cares because his sperms has nothing to do with it. Didn't she already put her adopted child out when he came back? She not listening to his entitled behind on this one.
Don’t get mad because of his honesty, the average man wouldn’t devote their life to a woman in jail.
Ofc that's why the average men are all crap
But women are expected to support their men?? Lmao that's them double standards, yeah if I were here I'd be fkn pissed too, look how long she supported him while he did his bid. Mendeces is selfish for that. That's not love, that's selfishness bc when it came time for her to support him in jail she had his babies up there, visiting him every visiting hour, so come on, bc I'm so over the double standards.
😅 l agree and any women that don't is delusional
One of the worst things you can do in a marriage is make a major decision of any kind without the support of the other spouse. This is wrong on so many levels. She’s concerned about her husband not understanding. She needs to be concerned about how much she doesn’t understand how detrimental this is to her marriage.
Nobody but papoose
Yall make me LAUGH this man cheated and cheated and cheated, had babies on her and then went to PRISON for FOUR YEARS
FACTS AFTER FACTS !!!
Yet she married him 🤷🏻♀️ She should’ve valued herself & never married him.
So that gives her the right to disrespect their marriage. She deserves whatever she gets cause what becomes of the broken hearted
I'm confused what babies he had on her???
And she decided to stay and marry him..
My sister was diagnosed with BREAST CANCER 🎀 I WAS WILLING TO DO THIS FOR MY BIG SISTER BC SHE DESERVES IT❤❤❤
What did your husband or partner think about it?
Was your partner supportive of your decision?
Did your husband support your decision?
Some people don't understand that other people struggle with personal things and they never will. Somethings people just won't get
Finally, someone in the comments with REAL LOVE AND SENSE. People are heartless. WHAT IS HIS REAL ISSUE WITH THIS??? Why can't he support her. I would do this for my sister, cousin, and best friend if this was something they were going through FYI HEARTLESS PLL: MY husband would DEFINITLEY support my decision., (why wouldn't he) He would give them a hug & more than likely say "We don't know what you're going through but we are with you and support you. What he is doing, is very selfish with no compassion for someone HIS wife LOVES and care about. I need men to give me a REAL REASON on why they wouldn't agree to this
What’s the point of having a partner when you don’t take anything they say into consideration when your mind is already made up. You don’t need a partner then
She out here operatoring as a single person
Operating... don't feel bad, 35 people agreed with you. 😂
Not respecting your husbands view on this is BRAZYYYYY
Insane
Yea mean crazy right?
He not married she lied remember
One can respect another view and still not agree with said view. In her eyes, she doing something selfless for a family member but he is thinking that she/ they will be responsible for the baby which is not true and a selfish way to view it. He has proven his selfishness in other ways so I didn’t expect him to understand this one
It's her damn body, her selfish ass husband who went to jail and left his family behind but wouldn't do the same stfu
Choosing to do this against your partners wishes is a major slap in the face
It’s her body it’s her choice… IDYOT
The fact that she’s doing that, and he doesn’t approve is WILD
The fact yall believe in a man telling u what to do with your body when he do wtf he want with his IS WILD. Stop gettin permission from these mens to do wtf yall want to do
But yea he asked her if we was being offered bread to sell his sperm she said no he couldn't so what's the difference@@quetta561
@@quetta561 🫶🏾‼️
At least you have some sense @@quetta561
The fact that he does not support his wife in anything she’d like to do is wild after she held him down while he made bad decisions.
If I was in a similar situation and I knew my sister was jeopardizing her marriage to help me, I would immediately decline her help. Imagine if Mendeeces had “donated” sperm to help a friend become a mother!! There would be outrage and hell to pay with Yandy- she is so selfish she needs to always be the savior. This is what Kimbella was talking about when she accused her of having ulterior motives for taking in Alger foster daughter. She’s acting kindly but it’s almost like it’s more about her 🤷♀️
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Oh wow that’s what’s going on….I need to tune in cause you make a valid point. She having a baby without his DNA is wild. I need to watch now
The bad part about it is that's not even her sister buy a cousin. And Yandy is paying for everything. Her cousin is a miserable bum.
The fdiend would need to find her own family to gobr her soerm not a friend, its different
Spot on
She's beautiful and her husband is very handsome and they have a handsome son together.
She is so stupid for doing this against her husband's wishes he will leave her for sure
She's so disrespectful see this is the Nonsense rite here about relationships like this 🤔🤔😤
He’s so stupid to have a go getter wife and he never support her wishes. Straight buster move.
Why it's her body? He should be supporting her it's not his baby!
Y’all need to look into Yandy if mndc leaves she will be a ok.
It's not the point rather it's her body or not.. she's in a marriage. It's not about her and only her anymore. In a marriage 2 becomes 1 and she and her cousin is dead wrong for disregarding disregarding,better yet dismissing her husband's feelings about it..She definitely could've went about it differently. They just did it, finalized it as if there were no other options. Dead wrong and selfish. I bet she wouldn't be ok if mendeece offered his sperm to impregnate another woman. Not cool. And I'm a woman
It's one thing if she was just going to carry the baby if it was her "sister's"egg, but it's another situation when it's her own eggs. Her husband has every right to feel the way he does. It's clear that this marriage is not a union, but two individuals doing their own thing regardless of a license and a vow.
Would Yandy allow Mendeecees to donate his sperm to a family member who was infertile?
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I know this is for a storyline, because ain't no way... this woman... like she can't find her cousin a surrogate and donor?😂 wtf? I guess they can be single moms together?
Why would you want a complete stranger doing this for you if you have the option of family?
@@ithinkicanmakethat6294cause that’s weird 😭that would be her cousin/son if we are being technical
@@nyaakikoliterally
Hopefully not thought, I do
Like her and Mendesses together.
@@nyaakiko Only if Yandy's eggs are being used
Why is the cousin putting yandi in this situation? Seems like the cousin wants to break them up🤔
Well said!
yandy putting herself in this situation.
Goes to show some women when they hold you down feel like they can do whatever. Nada wrong with someone having your back but don't go extreme. Respect factor.
He not leaving her. He know where HIS BREAD IS BUTTERED.
He already left. They are not living together and it’s not because of this baby damn streets of Atlanta be talking from my understanding they don’t even live together anymore
Right he's not leaving her
Hell! He wasn't faithful nor ever will be. ATL is not a healthy place for relationships and marriage. Sodom and Gomorrah and all sorts of ungodly mess. What people will do to be society news.
Keyword BREAD!!
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Why would she consult with him. He didn't consult with her before selling drugs and getting himself locked up for years. Mendecees is no prize, he can go.
That was a whole different era and she CHOSE to deal with that . I learned in therapy that once you decide to forgive and move on, you cannot keep throwing up the past …… She can go …and good luck to her finding another that she can act single with.
If you think Yandy didn't know that man was a drug dealer when she got with him or before he went to jail you are just as delusional as she thinks the tv public is. Her cousin is not only being financed for having a baby by their family; but Yandy is going against her husband's wishes. Her cousin could have gone another route to have a baby. If he leaves Yandy, that's it for their marriage.
Exactly
It's her body she can do whatever she chooses. He could go outside!
I'm sure she knew what line of work he was into. She was going to have him regardless so, she needs to learn how to be a man's woman.
Hes not gonna love the child as he loves the others. Hes going to treat it just like he does his adopted daughter.
Oh dear...this wont end well
At all!!
Yandy, is it okay to help your cousin, but you have a husband, Yandy? I hope this doesn't cause more tension in your marriage. I wish you guys luck. 🙏🏽🙏🏽
Can't get a divorce if you ain't married
She said she is convinced she is doing the right thing. How can that be when your other half that you are one with is not for it? By my ladit is pay attention when you're in a marriage. You have to consider your spouse.
Exactly. He is in the order according to marriage the head. The wife is supposed to be the covering and if he didn't agree to this then she should listen to her husband. Yandy is so wrong for this.
@@jadebotan83 Correct and when he jeopardized their relationship and stability by leading them to a 4 year prison sentence that he was unwilling to do for her...this created an imbalance where he could not protect her and nor support her. So this man sacrificed his duties as head of household and now he must reap the consequences. She may be not be right but she for damn sure isn't the one in the wrong.
@@user-jk4tq5sq7nYou're twisting it. Mendeecee had already committed the crime before he was with Yandy. He just received his consequences once they were together. And he never jeopardize his head position in the family because they weren't married.
That goes both ways. He never considered her when he got outside kids that she sacrificed for, even when he was in prison. He's married to her, he doesn't own her. He shares his body cause he still cheats. Yandi is making the ultimate sacrifice for unselfish reasons. Sometimes you have to support even when it's hard.
@@debrahudson6324If that's true and if that's the way she's thinking then file for a divorce but if she still wants her marriage she should respect her HUSBAND'S wishes and her cousin would just have to understand that.
Smh... she did all that to have him, know she is making problems in their😢 marriage
YANDY YOU HAVE SUCH A BIG HEART!!! YOU ARE AN ANGEL!!!YOU GIVE THE GREATEST GIFTS A HUMAN CAN GIVE!!!A GIFT OF LIFE!!!YOU ARE THE LIGHT!!!!
Shut up you sound dump
Marriage is sacred. NOTHING and NO ONE comes in between husband & wife! Seems she cares nothing abt it anymore. I see Yandy differently now!
Weirdo
She's doing a miracle for her FAMILY that's her choice. She's helped with his son and Yandy go for it
FINALLY a comment that makes sense !!!!! 🙌🏽
Thought I was the only one thought of it like that ❤❤❤❤
If you're married, you and your partner have to come to an agreement no matter what.. If not, stay single simple as that
Yes it's understandable.... but she is married
@@cookiethomas8069 Im married. I understand how it works. you agree to disagree and you move on for certain things. If this causes a divorce then what was the point of vows. I’m sure he didn’t ask her can I have a baby on you, can do dumb things and get locked up?
She’s deserves an Oscar for her fakeness
Yandy is not understanding mandeecee smh she not respecting him 💯
Honestly she never took him seriously
Remember, she brought a foster child home when he was about to come home without his input. He put up with that disaster. She has Mendecees to play house with, meanwhile she can live life like she's a single woman. He’ll keep putting up with it.
You moving like your single,so you may get your wish ❤🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽
Real talk, she really wanna be single
I don’t care what nobody say….Yandy is so so so Beautiful ❤❤❤❤
Yandy isnt understanding what her husband is sayin shes making decisions wirhout him she keeps making decisions an not asking him how he feels about like the whole thing wit infinity she adopted him without asking how does he feel about it shes putting her family 1st B4 her husband that not right
Yandys cousin/sister is extremely selfish to do this. I would love and respect my cousins marriage and get another donor. Yandy has no respect for the marriage, Mendecee should leave.
Facts 💯
Yes I agree. The cousin wants to be Yandy.
The cousin is single and needs everything. She not bringing nothing to the table
@@brittany3312this is probably y MDC has hesitation. They r going 2 b paying 4 this kid til college
I would have done the same for my cousin shiii they’re probably close
First she did the Infinity “Imma take her in” and now my niece/my daughter “Imma be an Auntie”
Well if she gotta take care his other kids, I guess he gotta take care of her other kids too….
She should have asked someone else to be a surrogate. The cousin is wrong for asking her knowing how her husband feel.
That's big facts
She is so wrong
YANDY IS DONATING HER EGGS...
NOT CARRYING THE CHILD.
DID YOU NOT HEAR THE COUSIN SAY, "... FINDING A DONOR AND THEN A SURROGATE"?
What kind of cousin is this? Mendecee has valid feelings and a legitimate concern for Yandys motives.
It’s her fucking body, he has no say on what she does with HER BODY!
@@shavonnastucks6529we know.. but like this person said his feelings are still valid this process can lead to complications as well and that’s his wife ofc he gonna feel some type of way
This was not a wifey move, but a strong black independent woman decision. She isn’t wife material.
I think she needs to live her life for HER when you have been with a man for over 10 years or 15 years years you KNOW what is BEST FOR YOU YOUR LIFE👁️.
She had so much time to take control and run everything when he was locked up that she cant seem to embrace the fact that her husband is present and able to run things with her. She probably doesn't feel she can depend on Mendecees because of his bad decisions in the past that got him locked up, so she's making life changing decisions concerning their family without him.
Nah, she has always been one who "knows everything," and since LHH, she has been doing the most. Her "strong black woman mess", has been emasculating Mendeecees throughout their relationship, this is no different.
She doesn’t care
Yandie, is not being submissive to her husband at all..I see that she trying to help her cousin in this case Yandie should of married her cousin....
She doesn't respect her husband. 😢😢
The same man who said he wouldn’t hold her down if she was in jail? That man?
Yup and he didn’t respect her when he had that son months apart from her son😴🥱
He doesn’t respect her either. They’re done.
@@ithinkicanmakethat6294 If that's the reason file for a divorce but if not respect your husband's wishes.
And what have you achieved from respecting yours?? Unhappiness and bitterness for sure 😂😂😂
Never been a Yandy fan but I’ve gained so much respect for her….
May Gods Favor and Grace follow her for the rest of her days….🙏🏾🙏🏾stay strong Yan…..
Yall don’t support her marriage anyway…..
This was the dumbest decision Yandy could have made and the fact that her cousin was willing to tear apart a marriage for her own benefit is wild to me .
The killing Part is…. that’s not HER SISTER😂😂 Yandy is so wrong on all levels. She basically saying F how her husband feels she makes the final decisions. So she doesn’t need him and he will divorce her. She waited for him while he was in jail all those yrs, to lose him helping a cuzin with a baby. WOW WOW WOW
YEA CUZ WOMEN SHOULD HAVE NO CONTROL OVER OUR OWN BODIES - A MAN HAS THE FINAL DECISION ON A WOMENS LIFE 🙄🙄🙄 PLEASE WAKE TF UP ITS 2024 AND WOMEN HAVE LESS RIGHTS THAN BABY BOOMERS.
It honestly doesn’t seem like she would be losing much
She said losing his isn't a option.. but will make a decision like this knowing he's doesn't agree with her decision..
She isn't wrong. This man literally told her, if the roles were reversed and she did a bid in jail, that he WOULD NOT hold her down, after she did ALL that and more for him. Fuck him forreal. Hopefully after this, she can get started on a divorce from his bitch ass. What kills me is that yall still feel she should cater to him...foh...only a weak bitch...🤨
It’s her body and clearly, she cares deeply for someone who can’t bring a life into this world. If your relationship is better than hers with her husband, then I understand you. If not, you have control over your body and no man will ever understand a woman’s desire to have children.
She's wrong on so many levels and he's right she did not take him out his feelings into consideration... even after he said no.. to do it any way it's disrespectful
Did he take her feelings into consideration when he and his brother were drug dealers going to prison ?
Yandy always knew he was a drug dealer, and she still decided to be with him @@BluntressRojas
Oh please some men just want power for nothing. The same way she supported him he should support her period. Everything is not about him our a power trip get. And you can tell she's sad no one that truly loves a man want him to feel left out. I'm sorry but he's being selfish 😢
Yandy always looks like whatever happened to baby Jane 😂
Hubby told you how he felt from the beginning, so you can't complain.
He leaves you or starts cheating on you your own fault Yandy Smith 💯sad 😔
So is she gonna be a single mother with you when he leave ??😊
She was a single mom all that time he was in jail. He seems to like leaving anyways - how many baby mamas does he have again??
@@boogieoogie1727BLOOP
@@boogieoogie1727exactly the man cheated on her multiple times but because Yandy wants to help her family a lot of people find that a problem but didn’t find her husband cheating on her having multiple kids on her smh
@@DailyArtemis once he said he wasn’t sure he’d be there for her if she went to jail, their marriage was over. I don’t wish anything bad for either of them. Things don’t work out, but they can’t make it all her fault.
@@DailyArtemisno one support cheating and toxic men except black men....and you still see some women trying to seek validation from these black men smh
They need a show called " Single, but don't know it "
Yandy is wrong for going through with this against her husband wishes and her cuz is wrong too for not caring about Yandys marriage and pulling back seeing that Mandecee is uncomfortable. The cuz and Yandy are selfish.
Im confused what is she doing
@@jaclynvazquez6155 She's having a baby for her cousin
Exactly
What did she do im lost
@@laquitas4633 omg shes always doing too much
JUST IGNORING HER HUSBAND, TO PLEASE SOMEONE ELSE 😔 SHE DONE MADE HER CHOICE, I WISH SHE UNDERSTAND THE DIVORCE 💔💔💔
She’s done enough for her husband. Dam. Y’all
Can’t give your lives for these men! They wouldn’t do the same for you!
And he literally told her that he wouldn’t have done what she did!
Y’all care more about pleasing these toxic men and don’t want to keep any relationships with your family.
@@AmberColeman-gq1wni don’t owe my family a damn thing let alone my eggs. She chose this toxic man to marry so she should respect their union. Your husband comes before your family.
That's why you will always be bitter and unhappy bcz u always give your all to these black men and in return he doesn't even make an effort to keep you
@@rujekonyamande469 DON'T HOLD GRUDGES, ALWAYS BE REAL. IF SHE FELT SOME KIND OF WAY JUST LET YOUR WIFE, HUSBAND KNOW. HE DID WRONG, THE DIFFERENCE IS HE WAS HONEST ABOUT IT. SHE'S DOING IT FOR TV, I 🫶🏾 THEM TOGETHER. BITTER AND UNHAPPY NEVER THAT, I DISLIKE A THEIF AND A LIER, SHE'S A LIER. IM JUST STATING MY OPINION LIKE EVERYBODY ELSE. DON'T REFLEX YOUR BITTERNESS AND UNHAPPINESS ON ME. JUST LET GO BE BY YOURSELF, IT'S NOTHING LIKE A PEACE OF MIND.
Some people don’t realise to open their womb, sometimes all they have to do is adopt a child and the love, care and nurture provided to that child will bless their lives. Bless their union with a child.
Yandy is disrespectful for this. I wonder how she would feel if it was the other way around.
She has already experienced it. She and one of the baby mommas gave birth around the same time
Mendeecees should donate his sperm to Dabrat and Judy or other famous lesbian couples looking to conceive a child from a Black man!
Yanda has him turn down $100,000 pay for his sperm cause she didn't want him having children out here but then she turn around and does the same thing for free 😮
She couldn't get another egg from some one else, and she's selfish. She just thinking about her not that her sister about to Lose her marriage.
Mendecees has 4 kids by 2 other women & Yandy, so he's in NO position to criticize her decision. Yandy can use this as a way out of their relationship because he's ungrateful.
Girl forget to your family i bet yo family wouldn't do it for you. Real talk
Mendeedcees admitted he wouldn't do it for either so....
When youre Married your Body belongs to each other, thats in the Bible , you become one flesh... We must get ba k to how God says Marriage should be.. her Sister has other alternatives. I had breast cancer to.. you have to do what you got to do for yourself without causing problems in ither peoplw Marriage, dont be selfish..God Bless you Both according to Gods Will.
Mendeecees have a right to his feelings God placed him at the head of his household and if you wanted a husband to be there for you and your children righteously and stick by you then you should have respect for his feelings. Because when ain't nobody there and you go through whatever you go through your husband going to be right there for you mendeecees has patience. Just like we've traveled these years with you we were traveling with mendeecee as well don't go against your husband or nothing. And if you do you will regret it because you won't have what you build up and it will be your fault because you tore it down because you didn't care enough about his feelings as well. And don't beat yourself up about not being able to provide something for your quote sister
At times in our lives as women yes we want to do the need for we want to do something extreme and I can understand it being on your heart to give your " sister a child but you don't realize you're doing it at the cost of your own children having a father and mother present in the homeif your husband is not for you he's against you and if you're not for your husband you're against him and it's valid feelings on both sides. You can always give your sister but not if it hurts your household and your husband and your own children not having their father around and your quote unquote sister should be able to respect that more than anything it should not be your sister over your husband it should be your husband over your sister and once you guys coming to agreement your sister should be able to be gifted an agreement. Yandy I hate this for you but you're going to lose a good man the father of your children because you went against the grain a marriage by not respecting his decision and it's sad because your children are going to suffer because of it and without him present its it opens the door for so much more especially with the Jim Crow law and everything he's a level-headed man that can teach his children much much much much much much and why he's president in the home keep him that way. Love and blessings to you both...👑🙏❤️🪽💯
Yandy so wrong for this and so is her cuzin how can you allow your cuzin to go thru the whole process knowing that she might get a divorce Kesha doesn't give a fuk about yandy or mendecee, mendecee deserves someone better that doesn't lie and treats him like shit
Her cousin don't really care about yandy cuz If she did she won't be begging her to do it
I use to love Yandy, but let's be real, it's about a story for ratings!! Never mind her husband is against it and I feel like he feels, but Yandy is all about money and ratings like Chrissy (Jom Jones girl) said seasons ago! She doesn't care about Mandeecees!! She cares about money and a story
She doesn't need Mendecees "approval" to do with her body what she wants, but using "y'all" money to finance it? Yeah, naw Yandy😩
Yandy is the breadwinner so she can do what she wants with her money
You must be single, and never married. She absolutely needs his approval. Sure it's her body and yet, it is their body. The two became one when they said I do. If she really goes through this, she will probably create a situation that will ultimately destroy their relationship..and the kids!
@@pvssologyI was just about to say, I’m sure it’s HER money she’s using
Yandy is not the breadwinner!! It’s weird how y’all have deluded yourselves into thinking that. A simple google search would show you that that’s far from the truth. So like the original poster said, she’s using THEIR money to finance something her husband doesn’t agree with.
@@moonchild9046 that simple Google search says mendecees net worth is only 250k and yandys is 12million on top of him having to take care of two other kids.. he is NOT the breadwinner. My statement remains ✌🏾
You can't make this one right, Yan! The only thing you can hope for is that Mendecees be merciful & forgiving and willing to fight for your marriage. In your mind, you've put up with enough that regardless how he feels he should have your back because you've had his in that same manner however this is the same man who said that if the shoes were on the other foot, he cannot say he would hold you down the same you held him down 🤷🏾♀️. That's an issue in itself. And at the end of the day, it's "forsaking all others!" Your cousin is being selfish and has disregarded your spouse and you the same. This time, the fumble is on you!
She don’t need a husband, cousin dead wrong for even asking
You're not thinking about him or your family... She is not your sister
Her and her family don't respect her husband. Sad.
Always respected Yandy. i was always her number one fan, but what she's doing is beyond me... This is why most marriages don't last...shes communicating with herself and not with her husband ...her cousin is only seen one way HERSELF...don't like her ..booòo
He’s always finding out after she’s made the decision. Now she wonders why he feels like he’s not involved and says she just does what she wants to do…because she does. Even if she felt that it was the right thing to do for her cousin, that’s a conversation that they BOTH have to say yes on.
Welp just like she had to find out about that son that is months apart from her son. Yandy is still holding on to that 🥱😴
Good for her. I wish more women put themselves first and do what makes them happy. Good for you, Yandi, and best wishes to you both.
Yes🎉💯
This should not be for public consumption.
She faking girl u could have used anyone to do this for u .. if u cared so much why not respect her husband wishes?? Respect your husband..
Mendeecees never mattered, Yandy will always do Yandy.
Yandy held him down no cap but now she act like he owes her something like if u wanted to go could have been left
She not a good friend to Yandi, if my sisters husband was not on board, I would've found someone else.
I feel the same way. Does it have to be yandy
I hope Yandy & her husband can work things out.
Definitely
Why? Why do y'all not want better for black women? There is not shit to work out with this this damn jail bird.