Why is this so cathartic. As a woman in engineering surrounded my men, I agree they really don't ask little questions. Some guys can go all day talking about themselves and never ask one question back but more often I know guys will learn about you just from interacting. So they'll actually pay attention and learn your likes and dislikes over time but gosh darn it they really don't just ask
It's pretty important to men that they're able to figure things out on their own. Asking questions reveal a vulnerability that men do their best to conceal, and rightly so. People are drawn to someone who looks like they really "have things together."
Since you are a woman of equality, why does the group of coworkers matter? I've seen MANY that rose through the ranks via affirmative action then become useless in a crisis. Talking is more of a distraction from observations. I can hear my wife in the kitchen during a movie pause and instantly tell her the ice cream scoop is in the dishwasher. Or, I can smell a frozen pizza in the oven and instantly clear off a place to set it down. Men don't "just don't talk". Men speak when there is something to say. men do care about appearances; that's what a hair cut is for.
Whenever I ask a woman how they are, they always say fine albeit in different mystery tones. If I ask if they want something, they say no, sometimes coyly. These are the only 2 answers I ever get, I don't need to ask anymore.
@@lunatik9696 Primo, I see this all the time. Talk TO them instead of AT them. You know how to speak with your buddies, right? Women can not resist when guys are laughing having a good time and she is not involved. Walk up to ANY woman you like, and have your small chat. When you walk away, mention to her "thanks for the eye candy". It will work wonders as you are confirming her CHARACTER in trying to improve herself.
@@johnconway9882 “People”? Which people? You know 100% of the human race are not attracted to the same things right? Also never asking questions doesn’t make you look like you have your stuff together, it makes it look like you don’t care.
Men ask questions. Questions like, "You like a .38 or a 30.06?" "You want a flat head or a Philips head?" and "How much RAM did you add when you upgraded?"
What time is the show? Which club? Are you going by yourself or with some friends? What kind of knots do you use when you tie the kids to f-@#!ng radiator?
This makes me more sympathetic- women's lives must be exhausting. Pro tip- the information nuggets are self-contained and the words given contain all pertinent information. If any meaning is intended, it will be stated. Though I admit the sandwich text is weird- that sounds like a guy trying and failing through lack of understanding to imitate female modes of conversation. I have never initiated long distance communication to so little purpose.
men say what they mean and mean what they say. "Tom is going to the Comedy Club" means just that. No hidden agenda, or underlying meaning. Women just can't wrap their heads around how simple men are.
you missed the part before that, around 0:44 where the husband is planning on going to the comedy show. he and his friend both are. so when he gets home and says that Tom is going to the comedy club, she correctly interprets that as his way of telling her his own plans. so it's frustrating for her because his plans raise a lot of questions (what to do about the kids, dinner) that he hasn't addressed
Paul, I think you are the prime example of why mothers say "of you don't have anything nice to say don't say anything" because it can make people like you say stupid shit and think you made a valid point.
true... women talk to too much about small stupid things, men do not ask questions that is good actually, women ask questions silly, irrelevant questions why???? some a building a case on you in case something happens, others are tasting the waters and many do not mind their own business as for men tend to mind their own business
It’s in the biology, men and women are hardwired differently for a reason and I think we complement each other well, just need to work on the communication 😅. I think generally women were designed to be more detail oriented and our instincts are right on if we feel something feels off or dangerous. There have been many many times as a woman where my attention to detail and asking seemingly “irrelevant” questions later turned out to save the situation and served me well. I do wish like men we could sometimes put the thinking on “pause” and think about nothing but it’s not really how we work and that’s ok ,
Funny. Men take things at face value. Women keep trying to find hidden meanings that are not there. And men are not interested in hidden meanings..unless it's a map to a gold mine...
Actually on average women tend to have better social and verbal intelligence than men. Experts in a field tend to be able to find hidden meanings and larger patterns (a mechanic isn’t “over complicating it” when they notice details, ask clarifying questions and delve deeper in their field even if others don’t understand.) It could be if you feel lost talking to women that you need to develop your social and emotional intelligence.
@@blythetaylor4063 very true. But in the end it comes back to you. Others are smarter, more intelligent than I am. Better verbal skills stronger egos. But my bottom line never changes. And if I'm not erudite or sophisticated as they are, in the end I won't accept their position regardless of how they present it. I don't "agree to disagree". Right is right and wrong is wrong. I leave them with their wrong and move on. And I'll never concede when I know I'm right. If I'm wrong then time and circumstances will let me know. That's life.
Lol "hidden meaning" lol knowing if we are going , should I cook dinner. Do you think your mom will babysit are NOT hidden meanings SMH it's basic info jeez
@@anniesue4456 nope! He just mentioned Tom was going to the comedy club. Like "Bob was going fishing". Gossip or news of the day. He never said "would you like to go." He never said "we're going". She just went off in her head that they were going and never asked him if they were. And would she jump to the conclusion if it had been about fishing? And while it's a slice if life as comedy it does point out how women get squirrely in their head. And complain men aren't paying attention when they tell them the same thing and he just takes it as face value. Like n"Stella is going to the comedy club" and he says "hope she has a good time" and doesn't ask her if she wants to go too because it doesn't occur to him she's hinting she does. Most people aren't mind readers and have no idea if that's just gossip or has a hidden meaning. And the more she does that and doesn't get the response she wants based on her expectations the more pissed she'll get at him and he'll haven't a clue as to why and she's not smart enough to simply talk to him and tell him. She's playing games in her mind and he has no idea he's part of her game he knows nothing about. Ok? Then she starts playing around because he doesn't understand her or nonsense like that. Been there. Screwy girls!
I think I just figured out why men are reluctant to.say anything.
Why is this so cathartic. As a woman in engineering surrounded my men, I agree they really don't ask little questions. Some guys can go all day talking about themselves and never ask one question back but more often I know guys will learn about you just from interacting. So they'll actually pay attention and learn your likes and dislikes over time but gosh darn it they really don't just ask
It's pretty important to men that they're able to figure things out on their own. Asking questions reveal a vulnerability that men do their best to conceal, and rightly so. People are drawn to someone who looks like they really "have things together."
Since you are a woman of equality, why does the group of coworkers matter? I've seen MANY that rose through the ranks via affirmative action then become useless in a crisis. Talking is more of a distraction from observations. I can hear my wife in the kitchen during a movie pause and instantly tell her the ice cream scoop is in the dishwasher. Or, I can smell a frozen pizza in the oven and instantly clear off a place to set it down. Men don't "just don't talk". Men speak when there is something to say. men do care about appearances; that's what a hair cut is for.
Whenever I ask a woman how they are, they always say fine albeit in different mystery tones.
If I ask if they want something, they say no, sometimes coyly.
These are the only 2 answers I ever get, I don't need to ask anymore.
@@lunatik9696 Primo, I see this all the time. Talk TO them instead of AT them. You know how to speak with your buddies, right? Women can not resist when guys are laughing having a good time and she is not involved. Walk up to ANY woman you like, and have your small chat. When you walk away, mention to her "thanks for the eye candy". It will work wonders as you are confirming her CHARACTER in trying to improve herself.
@@johnconway9882 “People”? Which people? You know 100% of the human race are not attracted to the same things right? Also never asking questions doesn’t make you look like you have your stuff together, it makes it look like you don’t care.
She just keeps getting more hilarious as the bit goes. Keep up the good work. You're funny.
Lynne is one of the best!
Who is this? OMG she is hysterical
Lynne Koliptz
Men don't ask questions
She's a Joanne Rivers protege
She’s been around a long time… her early stuff is gold! Always in gorgeous clothes and 😂
Men ask questions. Questions like, "You like a .38 or a 30.06?" "You want a flat head or a Philips head?" and "How much RAM did you add when you upgraded?"
More of Lynn Koplitz, please!
Are you high?
This special was so funny! I love her
She's one of the best!!
He means Tom's going to the comedy club tonight.
I love this.😆
Hilarious. Love it!
She's a handful
That outfit, there has to be a bit of this routine where she starts singing...
omg yes tammy wynette -stand by your man comes to mind but its probably something closer to these boots are made for walking -nancy sinatra
:) This is funny! And interesting to hear this perspective.
Talent.....
She’s funny & right.
She is NOT funny
@@aJones-hv5ny to you
Going to the comedy club to see her.
What time is the show? Which club? Are you going by yourself or with some friends? What kind of knots do you use when you tie the kids to f-@#!ng radiator?
@@beholdiamglamdringsbane89 😂
Tell them sistah
She was on that show with Joan and Melissa Rivers and I think she might have help write some of it??
OMG ……..Who is this ………Love her……..
Very good bit about married people. This is exactly why I am not married.
This makes me more sympathetic- women's lives must be exhausting. Pro tip- the information nuggets are self-contained and the words given contain all pertinent information. If any meaning is intended, it will be stated. Though I admit the sandwich text is weird- that sounds like a guy trying and failing through lack of understanding to imitate female modes of conversation. I have never initiated long distance communication to so little purpose.
Wish you could give more examples of information nuggets that give pertinent info” 😅 it still is hard to figure out what it has to do with us
@@Marina-em3cr it's a way of sharing with your loved one.
Hahaha! Your take is great about how it sounds like a guy failing to imitate female communication.
men say what they mean and mean what they say. "Tom is going to the Comedy Club" means just that. No hidden agenda, or underlying meaning. Women just can't wrap their heads around how simple men are.
you missed the part before that, around 0:44 where the husband is planning on going to the comedy show. he and his friend both are. so when he gets home and says that Tom is going to the comedy club, she correctly interprets that as his way of telling her his own plans. so it's frustrating for her because his plans raise a lot of questions (what to do about the kids, dinner) that he hasn't addressed
Omg so true bahahah
Iam a gay man and 🤣can relate so much
Women and gay men? They go from ‘ my new best friend gay poodle - not responding correctly must be a misogynist. No in between’
Paul, I think you are the prime example of why mothers say "of you don't have anything nice to say don't say anything" because it can make people like you say stupid shit and think you made a valid point.
I am not a homosexual.
Most individuals are not a homosexual.
Your comment fails.
WOW, they really hate us.*
U must be from another plant, yeah they hate men.
Her name is Lynne Koplitz.
Thank you. I was trying to figure out how to look her up.
😂🤣😂🤣😂
😅💖
Love your work . Let’s do lunch .
What do you mean ?
Funny!
It's true, guys assume A LOT!
Why did I find that so stressful
She is Not Wrong.
She asked a question:
When men say something, what do they mean?
Answer:
Nothing. We're just reporting to you on our day. Carry on. Nothing happened.
Who is this?
Lmao! I was gonna ask the same shit. She is so funny and crazy.
Lynne Koplitz
Yes, we do! For example: Why do women get irritated about everything?
true... women talk to too much about small stupid things, men do not ask questions that is good actually, women ask questions silly, irrelevant questions why???? some a building a case on you in case something happens, others are tasting the waters and many do not mind their own business as for men tend to mind their own business
That is , actually , a piece of useful information.
It’s in the biology, men and women are hardwired differently for a reason and I think we complement each other well, just need to work on the communication 😅. I think generally women were designed to be more detail oriented and our instincts are right on if we feel something feels off or dangerous. There have been many many times as a woman where my attention to detail and asking seemingly “irrelevant” questions later turned out to save the situation and served me well. I do wish like men we could sometimes put the thinking on “pause” and think about nothing but it’s not really how we work and that’s ok ,
unfortunately, some men do not want to talk at all which makes their relationship goes South and things start to happen.
Men don't care about BS
Lol wtf planet do you live on?
Say this: "I'll be in the garage. Call me when dinner is ready and you calm down."
They LOVE that.
American women like to handle their men...the only solution is to make a lot of money and have a good lawyer.
Yeah she single
Yikes!
Funny. Men take things at face value. Women keep trying to find hidden meanings that are not there. And men are not interested in hidden meanings..unless it's a map to a gold mine...
Exactly!
Actually on average women tend to have better social and verbal intelligence than men. Experts in a field tend to be able to find hidden meanings and larger patterns (a mechanic isn’t “over complicating it” when they notice details, ask clarifying questions and delve deeper in their field even if others don’t understand.) It could be if you feel lost talking to women that you need to develop your social and emotional intelligence.
@@blythetaylor4063 very true. But in the end it comes back to you. Others are smarter, more intelligent than I am. Better verbal skills stronger egos. But my bottom line never changes. And if I'm not erudite or sophisticated as they are, in the end I won't accept their position regardless of how they present it. I don't "agree to disagree". Right is right and wrong is wrong. I leave them with their wrong and move on. And I'll never concede when I know I'm right. If I'm wrong then time and circumstances will let me know. That's life.
Lol "hidden meaning" lol knowing if we are going , should I cook dinner. Do you think your mom will babysit are NOT hidden meanings SMH it's basic info jeez
@@anniesue4456 nope! He just mentioned Tom was going to the comedy club. Like "Bob was going fishing". Gossip or news of the day. He never said "would you like to go." He never said "we're going". She just went off in her head that they were going and never asked him if they were. And would she jump to the conclusion if it had been about fishing? And while it's a slice if life as comedy it does point out how women get squirrely in their head. And complain men aren't paying attention when they tell them the same thing and he just takes it as face value. Like n"Stella is going to the comedy club" and he says "hope she has a good time" and doesn't ask her if she wants to go too because it doesn't occur to him she's hinting she does. Most people aren't mind readers and have no idea if that's just gossip or has a hidden meaning. And the more she does that and doesn't get the response she wants based on her expectations the more pissed she'll get at him and he'll haven't a clue as to why and she's not smart enough to simply talk to him and tell him. She's playing games in her mind and he has no idea he's part of her game he knows nothing about. Ok? Then she starts playing around because he doesn't understand her or nonsense like that. Been there. Screwy girls!
I would blow my brains out if I had to listen to that woman for more than a few minutes.
So… don’t?
Fill that mouth?
She's hysterical. I've seen this show enough to mouth along with her. So good.
Women just like being complicated so they have something to do.
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