Stalker Psychology and Understanding BPD?!
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The relationship between stalking personality disorders and understanding BPD are more common than you would think. Stalker psychology is a complex issue that can often be linked to personality disorder types. In this video, Dr. G provides detailed insight into how different personality disorders can actually lead to stalking behavior and what a victim of stalking can do about it.
People who are being stalked, often times feel helpless because it is a scary situation. To learn more about stalker psychology and personality disorders, please watch the following videos:
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Personality disorder cluster A is an odd and eccentric type of disorder which has 3 personality disorders in it: Paranoid personality disorder(PPD), Schizoid personality disorder(SPD), as well as schizotypal disorder (STPD).
Personality disorder cluster B. Cluster B personality disorders are characterized by dramatic, overly emotional or unpredictable thinking or behavior which has 4 personality disorders in it: Anti Social Personality Disorder (APD), Borderline Personality Disorder (BPD), Histrionic Personality Disorder (HPD) as well as Narcissistic Personality Disorder (NPD).
Cluster C is called the anxious, fearful cluster. Obsessive-Compulsive, Avoidant, and Dependent personality disorders share a high level of anxiety.
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Ok, so I am on the UK police website. Four signs of stalking.
FIXATED
OBSESSIVE
UNWANTED
REPEATED
I would personally add VINDICTIVE to that list?
This constitutes a criminal offense.
Anyone who is inflicting anyone else with their vile behaviour, in this manner is a common criminal, same as a thief, murderer or rapist. Please remember that if it is happening to you. You are the victim. See yourself as a victim. No one deserves to be targeted by these common criminals. The law in any country should be all over it, be able to access the perpetrators emails, social media, phone calls, texts etc. to verify that it is going on. Next, the sentences need to be harsh as a deterrent. I know from my own experience and I can see from many on here, the criteria for this sort of behaviour, to be a crime is mild to what many people are going through. These are very disturbed people who indulge in it because they can. So, nothing will change unless the authorities take it seriously and victims do not blame themselves. Remember this is abnormal behaviour and no one deserves it or should have to live their lives on the recieving end of it. A crime is a crime. ♥️
A maddening fact -- the more insane the stalking, the less the target will be believed ("Why would anyone do such a thing?").
People have no idea.
Are they blind to all the things a person can do?
Absolute thru - people have no idea haw crazy other people can be.
yes
They are mentally deranged
@@mazadancoseben4818 right, but people can't bare the thought that this "crazy things" could happen in their social circle.
I feel for anyone going through this. You are NOT alone.
Thank you. These stalkers are childish and losers. No need to have them be understood as victims.
😂 that is correct you are never alone they watch everything you do
They act all deranged, obsessed, possessed, paranoid, irrational, delusional, narcissistical, diabolical, compulsive, etc.
They sure do, and it doesn't matter to them if they're in a relationship with someone else. They hate rejection and when they are of celebrity status, you will never be believed because most women would jump at the chance to be with a celebrity. I'm not sure it will ever stop. They can go for months even longer until they get to that point where the dopamine needs to be re-ignited. It was horrible for me and no one really cared or understood me.
I'm STILL being stalked & watched, 24/7, LITERALLY EVERY SINGLE DAY. Been going on for YRS (4,5 OR 6yrs now that I KNOW of. Literally EVERYWHERE I GO. Home, shower, sex ...which I now take my showers in the dark with my bra and panties on, when I don't just wash my hair in the sink and wash off with washcloth in the dark, I quit having a "relationship" with ANY man once I realized my FEMALE enemies sent 1 of THEIR dicks to humiliate me & trash my name in my "hometown" & surrounding areas. At least they can't "stinky pussy" attack me in the shower (telling me that's whar I get!" (20 men & women with at least one public official present at ALL times is what I found when I googled what an "attitude adjustment was) at my lowest point when I was already traumatized by something else.You wouldn't believe what they called me & my daughter, and my son ... comparing us to my own sister & her kids (saints & so much better than us..said I was an "embarrassment" to THEIR family & that I was a "bitch" & even called my underaged sweet daughter a "bitch, just like her mother (because she doesn't like them anyway)...I couldn't hold a job, find housing or survive in my "hometown" in good ole Kpt, Tn. I was stalked, physically tortured & ran out . Doesn't matter what state or city I go to, I'm still stalked & harassed everywhere I go, including work & church. I stopped going to church because it was a disgrace & I realized "church" wasn't a safe place or a place of PEACE where I could feel the Holy Spirit, the "stalkers" want their presence to be known & felt, even in church, they are the God. I struggle through work, each & EVERY day I go. I have literally missed several days because of the mental abuse & torture was so bad the hour or two before I went in, that my nerves & mental state were worthless at work & I would of had been in more danger GOING to work & losing my job than actually calling in because they push so DAMN hard to literally BREAK someone, cause nervous breakdown...CULT treatment & fear, 24/7 nonstop! Can anyone help???
I had been stalked and it’s scary. I felt like that person knew everything about me but I only knew this person by their first name. It’s hard to express because the problem is so insane. This person is well liked but I never attempted a conversation with this person. I work with this person and it makes it even harder on everything or be believable on telling the truth.
Please document everything. I deeply deeply regret not doing that at work. I literally make a note of every social interaction at work now. Normal until they NOTICE YOU. edit....I notice this was posted a while back. I sure hope this ended for you. But seriously I learned my lesson. I now document interactions with people I trust at work. In other words, I no longer trust anyone. Not really.
Co workers will stalk you even if your not at your old job anymore. Mental illness is a huge problem and it’s glorified
It kind of makes you wonder if like this person you had a conversation with one time or something is crazy and got a bunch of other people to stalk you or something it's so weird
Hey, the same thing happens with me exactly as what has happened to you!!! A married male pig with 2 piglets that has been stalking me for a decade, it knows everything i watched and commented on youtube, what i wrote on quora under pseudo name, what i saw on internet, what i wrote on my computer, what i talked with people offline, what i wrote on whatsapp, it even knows when i took shower and named its second piglet similar to my legal name!!!! Really disgusts me to no end!!!!!! Even until now, it still shamelessly posts all ideas it has illegally stolen from my computer and youtube watch history on his social media, claiming everything as its own!!!!!!!!!
I really won't be able to live in peace until i see it dies with my own eyes!!!!!!!!!!!
Curse those who had brought such abhorrent disgusting animal to this world!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Currently dealing with two stalkers and I can’t tell you how much I just want them to go away. One I met at work and he’s so delusional! He will text me claiming I broke his heart when we had no romantic relationship whatsoever. He’ll text me very vulgar things knowing I’m married. He threatens to kill himself if I don’t respond. He knows too much about my whereabouts that it’s scary. He’s managed to find out where I live, my last name, my parents first and last name and where they live and just tons of other personal information. I’ve already called the cops on him and he still harasses me. The other guy I’ve been with for 2 months then broke it off and he’s been obsessed ever since. He’s delusional also. Id block him several times and he’d text me from different numbers. He told me he will never leave me alone and that he wants to kill my husband. I feel so unsafe between the two men. My husband has spoken to one of them men several times to leave me alone. The police have spoken to one of the other men. I just wish I could change my name and just move to a different state.
Whatever you do, don't respond to anything or else in their mind, that method WORKED. That's a tip directly from someone who gave me feedback on their actions.
@@LuxMeow"don't respond to anything" thanks for this reminder. I have a stalker who gives me threats to kill my husband, it makes me want to tell the stalker to stop, but my husband reminds me that the stalker wants to hear me. thank you for the reminder
@@NoNo-pd5dd There are different types of stalkers, have you considered contacting a psychologist (who specializes in abnormal psych) for advice?Maybe bring in these threats & other evidence, as well as inform police along with your collection of evidence. Incase the person is actually coming up with a plan of action. Better to overestimate people when it comes to protecting yourself & loved ones, than to underestimate them. Bottom line is there is no polite way to deal with a stalker, they are dangerous because they intend to cause harm. They are not always delusional or 'crazy' either, meaning they know right from wrong. Often they are aware of the effects their behaviour is doing to you. You can't be logical with an irrational mind. That's where most people go wrong. Abusers have issues with control & that's essentially what they are trying to do, control you & get a reaction which probably makes them feel powerful.
Wow, I'm so sorry. That sounds so similar to what I'm going through. I've had a stalker for nearly a year. We never had a relationship, but were friends in a group of friends. He knows I'm married, but is hyper sexually aggressive towards me. He uses threats of suicide and self harm to try and coerce me into a relationship. My being married just drives him harder since he has this "lifelong dream of cucking a guy" to use his own words. I know how stressful it is and I hope the best for you.
My wife had this guy who went to her job every day to buy pizza from more than once she found him following her from work luckily she told me and let me tell you, we beat this guy we threatened him we did everything these people are sick nothing stopped him to the point i had to go take my wife from work every day then we got sick of it and just paid someone who took care of the situation (if you know what i mean)
Dealt with this bs for 3 years by a neighbour...ppl dn believe you unless they see it for themselves. I was laughed at...so crazy making
You are so not alone. Many of us have been targeted by these individuals. God Bless you
Literally dealing too. It is literally like being slowly killed insidiously like by a disease. And that's exactly what this person wants and only wants. And it is my damn neighbor.
same here. this stalker is trying turn this on me when it IS this nutjob weirdo who will not freaking get a life and get lost!
Yeah I am sure that our neighbors were targeting Us 2
I live in Los Angeles, where we have some of the heaviest stalking laws. However, I've been the victim of a civil stalker for a year, and I can't get law enforcement to care. It's so lonely because nobody can help me. She continues to vandalize my car and use procedural abuse to harrass me. She pulled an Amber heard, painted a bruise on her face and filed a restraining order on some guy whose girlfriend she's also stalking. I don't know what to do.
omg! these people are totally unhinged. i am being stalked online and has hacked me and now accuses me of it!
I'm sorry to hear you're going through this yeah these stalkers they're mentally unstable people for sure who knows why they do it I'm not sure if I attracted some borderline that thinks they romantically love me or something cuz I said hi once or something or if it's like revenge cause stalking or what's going on
Sad that the law are condoners/enablers to such sadism tactics ."This is what "big boys " like me so to "big girls" like you, Holly. It is literally soul & spiritual sickening @ who ALL is actually involved in the nasty sadistic behaviors. :(
Oh my gosh. Oh my gosh. Oh my gosh. I try not to panic. I use every technique that therapists have to offer. I use Heartmath. You name it. This is really difficult to separate. My stalkers - most of them do not have social skills. They confuse what is normal with what they want. They ignore more gentle clues. You can video tape them all day long. They come back for more as a challenge to normal autonomy. They alienate the other people that I could have healthy friendships with. Thank you for this information. I did not know that some of them haven’t been taught average social skills. I study on the subject of narcissism quite a lot. I have over 20 books on the subject. I have read them all. Thanks again
Some people know who my stalker is but won't leak it these people actually help my stalker which makes them an accessory
same here! she has people covering up for her crazy ass! who are just as guilty as she is!
100%
Thanks for sharing this information. I find that the more I learn about Stalkers is helping me deal emotionally with the torment ,fear, frustration , invasion of my precious privacy that my stalker has inflicted upon me. I feel helpless to stop it. I want to call the police and FBI.....but what happens if they are caught ? Are they given a slap on the hands ,a few years in prison or a restraining order ? Restraining Orders can get you killed. I think that makes them angry and they need to prove that they can still stalk you. So they just get sneaky in their stalking . It seems like a game to them , to break the law and not get caught . Is it a felony? If they are put away for a couple of years ...what are they doing in prison?They have built up a rage and want to get even .When they get out....You better hope you have changed your name , moved to another state and or married or gotten a boyfriend that looks like "Bigfoot"...BTW...I'm looking for "Bigfoot".
call the fbI
Call the police and start documenting. A restraining order can protect your life... stalking gets worse not better usually unless stopped. Start telling neighbors, your family and police.
Thank you for providing valuable information for people suffering from this. As someone who is, I can offer that victims of this need information and support to fight it and manage the daily stress. We do nothing with them but we can fight them.
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How do you deal with it when you work around them? How do you deal with the daily work stress and the stress of that?
@@ambermarchand1419 I'm in grave danger of being gangstalked and have just been warned by a total stranger my death is around the corner. Police think I'm paranoid and won't help, do you know how I can get immediate help
I'm in grave danger of being gangstalked and been going on four years and have just learned my time is about up. I need immediate help, can anyone help me. My number is 385 465 0195
Hi, what's the best tool to protect yourself against the stalker, because police don't protect you unless you get physically harmed or dead.
True but if you have family members that's in law enforcement that's a plus. Or if you are friends with someone who has connections that's good to keep track of all the behavior. Dates times if you don't you will be caught off guard and possibly get hurt or harassed. Then you could be dealing with some people who are supposed to be flying Monkeys and turn on the person they are reporting to keeping things hidden , with their own agenda. and want the target and become Psychopathic. This is really sick behavior. This video is on point. it's a reason why I stumbled across this God is good and strategic.😊
Buy a gun. Shame I live in the UK. I would buy one myself. The UK Police are useless...
I agree with you. There are not laws to protect us!
@VA idem
@@mariapilarme mesmo que exista lei, ela é inútil
Currently being stalked by my crazy neighbor
Erin Averyt me to like wtf?! 🤷🏾♀️
Isnt that strange that if you live in an appartment where there is very little soundprofment, that often seems to happen ? The neighbour being totally obsessed with constantly eavesdropping in your privatelife, to the point of total obsession, for the purpose of bullying. It cant just be me who has experienced that.
#metoo
@@SMH-vi4ht I am currently experiencing it and it is madness
Thank you so much for this, it really helped shed some understanding on my current situation
You are very welcome, Raven! We're so happy it was helpful to you. If you have any follow up questions, please feel free to let us know.
Loving all of Dr. Gs videos, I could listen to you all day :) Thank you so much!
Thank you for the compliment! :). Is there a specific topic you'd like us to talk about?
I would love to hear you talk about mood disorders, where you think they come from, your advice in general, and if personality disorders really get diagnosed as mood disorders sometimes. (Sorry if you've already done that and I'd missed it)
Thank you for the great suggestion! We will work on covering this topic soon, so stay tuned! Please always feel free to reach out if there are any other topics you feel we should cover :).
I am beeing stalked by my ex boyfriend since almost 10 years, I moved 3 times. I am getting emails with death threats, violent fantasies and insults mixed with declarations of his love. He was at my job and defamed me, so much that I lost my job. He harassed my neighbors and threatened them to stop having contact with me. He insulted and harassed my parents. He once befriended with a school friend of mine and instructed him to make contact with me to get informations for him.
The Police is doing nothing, because "nothing" has happend. But the saddest part about this is that most people don't take that serious. "just ignore it" or "don't take that serious" are phrases I heard like a thousand times.
It's exhausting. you never feel save, you are in a constant scare and worry, it's minimizing my social circle cause I have trust issues, panik attacks and anxiety.
@@imnobody115 exactly. Like it's my fault that he is not letting go or aggressive. It's not like I could do something about it.... I mean I could, but then I would end up in prison.
Same with me too, over 10 years with threats and abuse, feel like Iam in hiding all the time and my nerves are gone from fear of him finding me.
THE BEST explaination yet explaining stalking. Thank you. Hopefully, someday, I'll be rid on my decade long female stranger stalker. Nothing helps. It is encouraging at least, to see someone in the world understands. Keep up the vids. TY.
Ew. Lol!
Quick reminder that not everyone (or even most) with a personality disorder is a stalker.
I am an Avoidant type of stalker. I have never stalked a person by my physical presence, but I do stalk the person I am interested on, on their social media. I need to know every detail about their life, so that I minimize the possibility of being rejected when I ask them out. Of course, whenever I get rejected, I step out of their lives at the very moment. I have no intention to harm anyone, just need to be secure before I get to know them in real life. I am painfully shy. I do accept no for an answer. Just try to prevent it from happening, by learning a person's likes and dislikes. My insecurity.
Have you ever thought about getting a therapist to help you, along with a psychiatrist (to gauge if you need meds for this compulsion)? Before it does escalate with other forms of stalking? You’re sure to be rejected if a possible dating partner figures out the SM stalking. Stalking doesn’t invite healthy relationships. It destroys them before they even begin.
@@macnchessplz I have kept it under control so far. I am about 34 years old and have never crossed the line or deteriorated. Always the same pattern, I watch what kind of things my romantic interest likes on facebook and what kind of people he or she befriends. Nothing more than that.
Are you capable of commitment & marriage with you being an avoidant ?
@@tuberose8607 i absolutely crave commitment and getting married someday. but it is difficult, because i feel rejected all the time, little things make me feel unwanted, jealous and then, he or she must chase me, otherwise i disappear from one moment to another.
@@komatsu8169 we need people to show us that they still love us every day, to shower us with tons of love and affection. probably because we feel that we are not likeable at all. in my case I grew up with abusing and neglecting family, I learnt from them that I should not ask for love because they can't give it and I don't deserve it. Secretly though we are thirsty for even the smallest manifest of love and care.
Sometime you geth paranoid after you be stalked for 3 years.
That you are paranoid dosen't mean that there is nobody there who is going after you.
Very informative, thank you 🇬🇧
Thank you for this information.
My wife has a friend from high school who has been in love with her for 20 years, she has no contact with this person but he still texts, writes letters and
sends gifts . She has allways tried to ignore him but he wont go away.
I think he could be dangerous but she just ignores it.
Eric look after your wife this losers think they are inlove or 1 day reunite in their weard mind tell him stop writing to my wife call the cops even stalkers are sick low selfsteem who hate rejection watch out for her make sure he is not hacking you guys spyware and phone listenning believe me there are creeps out there it happend to me still being stalked till this day
It’s so disrespectful when people do this and totally self oriented. You’re married so who does that? It’s unbelievable. I would just give the gifts away….send them my way lol
I am currently being stalked by a relative who suffers from a multitude of personality disorders to say the least, and even schizophrenia.The mass majority of her stalking is online. But I have come to learn, after dealing with this for 12 years, there is no reasoning with someone like that. The main thing is get the law involved and allow that to its course.
Its good that we have people like you in the world that can break down the human conditions based on their psychology and their behaviors..
Thank you!.
Ive been stalked at work by a co worker. Human resources said that this person has every right to be wherever he wants in the building as well as in the parking lot as an employee. So he gets to follow me around and do whatever he wants. Makes me sick!!!!
That is so unfair
I literally have between 15-40 people in the woods and around my house any time it gets dark. They don't seem to be up to any mischief, I think they are playing some sort of sneaking game. This wave reaches a radius of several neighborhoods! They are REALLY GOOD at it, Totally Silent & keeping at least 30 ft from each other without ever speaking except for a nearly inaudable wisper. ive joined them for a few nights and learned so much that I feel it's impossible for it to be imagined.
No one I told believes me, but I've seen 100+ people simply show up an walk through the woods without making a sound. I even threw a corn husk at one but I don't think I hit him.
I'm going to go talk to doc monday
bahahahahaha xxx its a nice place here
This phenomenon is known as gang stalking. I am a victim as well...
The real term of this is abuse by proxy. It is when someone, usually with some kind of personality disorder, send his|her agents to keep tabs on you or create scenarios which abuse is inflicted upon an individual. "gangstalking" has a lot to do with drugs. Whatever the case, stalking isn't normal and is usually perpetrated by someone with a cluster b personality.
I have been dealing with cyber stalkers for over ten years. My sons who are now adults were pulled into this mess as well. I think cyber stalkers are far more dangerous than in real time stalkers simply because stalkers in first person can be identified and captured on smart phones and with eye witnesses. Cyber stalkers hide in the virtual world and could be your next door neighbor or at large and trying to report it to the local authorities, or to your ISP is near to impossible and costs way to much time and money., Also to go through all the legal processes and trying to collect evidence with screen shots and how to identify hijacked browsers and sneaky software that was installed but unable to find it in all your computer files and much of it goes undetected by even the most advanced anti spyware and anti spyware and malware. ALL CYBER STALKERS WANT IS MONEY and greed has consumed them to the point they are no longer a human being but a parasite in human flesh. They are not lonely people, they are cowards that should be in prison paying back their debt to their victims and society for the rest of their life. People like that do not change EVER.
Vronel Blocker I’m cyberstalked for four years. Remote hacking. He hacked me remotely when I friended a fake Facebook account. From that second he invaded my life. Is a trauma that I live nonstops. I don’t know this human being. He’s in the phone or laptops all the time. He followes only me from all my family. I’m a woman. He knows everything that can be known about someone because he can hear, see through the camera of the phone on both sides ( I covered my side with paper and tape, same laptops), reads my text, emails, hear my phone calls, see my pictures, what videos on utube I watched every hour in the day or night, what recipe I cooked, etc. Knows the birthdays numbers on my visa and my debit card for four years never steal a dime, never called, never emailed, never texted. Sits there behind the screen and watch and listen absolutely everything that is going on in my life. He let me know that he’s there. I know he’s there spying. Nothing make sense. Or he can be very lonely or mentally ill because what he does to me doesn’t make sense. He’s a sadistic narc I believe. I going to a therapist because I couldn’t take the trauma that this psychopath put me through. I think this is his only happiness. Please write to me back if you know some IT people that can help me to remove the hacker from my life. I install a strong firewall. Remote hacking can’t be stopped with firewall antennas. I don’t have any idea what to do. I changed phones, phone numbers, internet companies, passwords. Nothing works. I went to police . They don’t believe me. I need some very professional IT people. I didn’t find anything when I googled. Please help me if you can.
@@cloudy1164 You must take back your life. There is a worldwide problem with this stuff. It will start with you realizing that people who do this kind 😠 of STUFF. NEED YOUR FEAR. DENY THEM THAT!
P
S. There is a de-G**gle your phone guy on You Tube, might be a starting place. Maybe you can find the information. It came in awhile back.
agree!! they are hiding in their momma's basement like losers just listening and watching what we do all day! these people who will try to blame others for what they are doing!
How do I know if I'm being cyberstalked? Wouldn't it be hard to know?
I have BPD and I would never stalk anyone. I’ve had an encounter with someone very obsessive and scary though.
me 2 i was stalked 181 rue regnault sept-iles quebec canada
I am a borderline woman who has been stalked by different men my entire adult life. I'm starting to think its part of the diagnosis.
Lol.. Did you get the answer as to why this is so?
merci...I have been thru this...🙏💛
Great video
I love your videos! I filed for divorce, that he drug out, and am still being cyber stalked. Has been a lot longer.
stalking by the group is real and exist. I'm afraid
What groups are you being stalked by
I have been stalked. it is a nightmare of biblical proportions. great help.
Hi, I stalked a guy for years. I wonder if you could recomend therapy? A psychatrist. I live in Barcelona Spain. I would really like to solve this situation because although I don,t stalk this man anymore, the thoughts persist and I am quite obssessive about the guy. I really do need help
Hi Cristina, Yes, I could certainly recommend therapy. Now, if you are open to searching online, I'd recommend you google the term 'therapists in [location]' with [location] being your geographic area. Google or Bing both work equally well and could give you a listing of databases that provide full profiles on therapists in your area."
You can search those listing and try to find someone you could get along with and work with based on what they post on their website. Then, I'd give them a call and ask for a 30 min. free consultation, state your case, and ask for how they would help you. After having talked to a few of them, give one or two of them a chance and meet for an initial one-on-one consultation. That way you can get a feeling for their approach and strategies before you decide to continue with them long term.
If those tactics don't work, feel free to contact us direct and we will try to find someone for you.
Thank you very much, I will follow your advice , thanks again
You are so welcome. Best of luck and we are always here if there's anything else we can offer or create helpful videos for :)
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Yes please get help I'm stalked by a loser who even copies me i know sick right i hate him 24 hours stalking me so get help people hate people like u
It’s hard to deal with a stalker as they can manipulate the situation - I was here on business whilst your gut instinct tells you differently 😮
So this guy. I known for year. I have already rejected his advances before but ia like he doesnt get it. Ive been single 2 years and i think he thought that maybe i could be so desperate i would give him a chance (not my case) he called me and asked me if i wanted to have a baby. And he said his daughter was going to be like me when she grew up. And i said i want to have a kid but im single and im not dating anybody😶.he called me once more same thing brought up me having a kid i said again... im not seen anybody. After that he change drastically. Now is like he hates me and he text me just to not answer back. And he called me few days ago to ffer me work. I refuse making an excuse. I senced something off in his demeanour. Now i know i can not see him again. I feel like he is vengeful. Why? I habe never flirted i have never been sujestive in any way. And the main reason i dont want to date him is i know he is a sex offender.
I have a tracker, next door neighbor, not interested in seeing me as a human being just however they see me in their disturbed minds through their screens they are glued to 24.7, and listening and hacking devices. He MUST know what or where I am at all times. Doesnt give a shit at all about me though in any way and just wants to harm. From a distance. Keeps elevating. Hacks, takes over my yard and destroys my property... actually I think he thinks I AM His property but he wont do any connection other than it started by false reports while showing up trying to ask me to go out, but over time, now, he aggressively targets me and waits with a drone that he tries to hit me with, he has hacked into my phone lines and dumped his own waste and other things outside under my bedroom window at night or even left it smeared etc. I had been having an issue with my phones, cell started breaking up so I would need to walk outside, then it just started NOT connecting randomly to a signal or cell tower, but if I drove down the street, worked perfectly. I live in a city area so yeah. Each of these things by themselves, might not seem too bad.... but this is now everyday, ALL DAY, and over the last month I would say, it has gone balls to the walls. I cannot or do anything, it is like every single item from the checklist of domestic violence HE DOES to me, the only problem is, I DO NOT KNOW HIM, AT ALL, we talked as neighbors 3 years ago in the street and that was all it took to start this bullshit. I was very nice. I WISH he was aggressive aggressive instead of this insane hiding he does While hurting me in a million ways and knowing and recording and watching me knowing that HE is the reason I am upset or sick or whatever in his mind. I have been expecting a violent encounter for a very long time and am exhausted now. But he has been hurting me just in insidious ways that aren't as obvious and fast acting as a bullet or knife attack. AND YES, I have tried ignoring and everything else., maybe it is why i am still alive, I also know he has done something to my car now. He wants to own me and control me. There is a video on youtube of a movie review of a movie where the apartment maintenance worker becomes obsessed with a woman there and starts targeting her, it is the ONLY thing I have found that shows exactly how he behaves or used to behave (about 1-2 months ago, he is now off the walls with this shit to me) ... I dont know the name of the movie but the characters name is Cesar and he sneaks in her place and messes with her and enjoys seeing her life fall apart knowing he is the reason etc. I have NEVER hung out with or "dated" him. Somehow websites about stalking seem to focus on this, but I think people have no real interest in seeing you as a human, I am His property, and he cannot talk to me in any actual way. Wont verbally respond to me now or anything at all . But will around and urinate in my bird bath or leave whatever else disgusting for me or hack and send my EMF lines to be insanely way too high etc. And I am so tired. and here we go again. I am sure he is somehow reading this right now and I have been terrified of even using my own social media sites or anything else because he seems to know every single thing I do. It is ssome serious demonic shit. He has used a cell phone jammer on my phones at night randomly, I even finally figured that out and saw he was going around and trampling my plants under all of my homes windows and messing and ripping screens etc. I think he hacked into th e wifi stuff to disable me from being able to call for help or anything else. I have gone through 8 cell phones in the last 5 months. He also cut yes CUT my wifi cable few months back and I had to have people here to repair, now in retrospect i am pretty sure this was a setup to get into th e wifi as it all started right after this and the ability to HEAR me and alter his behavior even. I know I SOUND CRAZY .... I actually feel now like I am because for a very long time I have had to push this to the side, i kept focusing on trying to just ignore or that maybe things weren't as bad as I thought or that he was just having a hard time and I didnt want to get someone in trouble unless I was sure. Now of course it is 24.7 and I am totally consumed and I just feel sick . Also because he lives next door, I didnt want to make things even worse by him getting picked up only to be sent home after a day or whatever else. I have a security company I was trying to get through too but he keeps breaking or disabling my phones *cells and home line now and my wifi* I am usually on them all the time with headphones for the last few years so i guess that is why he has had to hack into this as i had assumed wrongly that he just did not like me and it was "enough" for him to see my comings and goings when i was outside. I am positive now that he has video cameras or whatever else on ALL of my doors and vantage points. It is very very obvious but he thinks he is so slick and smart. I have a few older videos from awhile ago on here but they really dont even compare to how insane this is now. Yes I am stupidly in Florida and I would get the one guy who works in Alaska but now doesnt leave and pretends he is not even hone (but he is, and his compulsion betrays him every time) ... I was trying to sell the house and LEAVE ... maybe that is why now I am a prisoner in my own home. Oh and I am very happy th at I do NOT have a dog right now as this guy leaves poison and other things around my yard and is the type of personality to secretly hurt the dog especially if i was not hear or by sending some loud signals at his poor ears. I am sure I have forgotten a lot. And now this phone is jamming up .
Thanks , I have been and am being stalked by someone who is also using his friends to stalk me , they have moved into the villlage that I moved to , they live in a location where they can see my residence from where they live , I have been followed on many occasions , my car vandalised , they bang on my window in the middle of the night , that's just the stuff I can tell you without grossing you out, It has been going on since 2005 and I can see no end in sight , I'd say he has a narcissistic personality disorder , I live in fear .
I don't agree with the paranoid. The paranoid can lead to them using that to attack. They aren't just paranoid about people attacking them but other things that require them to spy on you and stalk.
I am really interested in the link between extreme childhood abuse and paranoid schizophrenia and stalking. There doesn't seem to be a lot of information around. Can anyone recommend a source? I would be very grateful.
I'm not sure about that. I think stalkers are more likely just narcissists and anti social.
People who allow them to continue are the issue and must solve it not the victims of it.
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Would a person with ocd have kind of a erotomaniac approach?
Or would it sounds more confused because it’s a tick they can’t stop?
My neighbor is bipolar everywhere i go she keeps stalking me and sending people to stalk me its so annoying because she is not even hiding that she is sick and stalking me. I dont know whats wrong with this girl because I have never had a conversation with this girl to say i have ever done anything to her yet she keeps doing this. Only mentally sick people would even think to do something like that.
Bipolar Disorder has nothing to do with stalking. It is simply a mood disorder not a personality disorder. It may have been misdiagnosed or they could also have a diagnosed or undiagnosed personality disorder. Please avoid tarring people with bipolar with the brush of people who are narcs and borderlines it's a totally different thing.
Cluster b's make life a nightmare by using things like Bipolar as an excuse. But people with bipolar each have different personalities unlike People with a personality disorder. It is called a personality disorder for a good reason. Because that's their personality.
Oh and cluster b's aren't mentally sick. There's no excuses for their behaviour. They know what they are doing and it could be as small as they THINK you looked down on them. Because they think everyone notices them.
jod Understandable
Stalkers are very desperate, lonely, weak, insecure, typically unattractive people who seek to harass and cause upset to those whom they envy, and cannot conquer sexually or mentally.
They know they are nothing more than worthless bags of rotting flesh. They know you are superior to them in every way, and your existence is a constant reminder.😊 #YesImSmugAboutIt. #YesMyStalkerIsReadingThisRightNow. #HeHangsOnMyEveryWord. #ImHisWorld🌍😂😊
I’m going through the exact same thing. My neighbor next door has been following watching and spying on me since she’s moved in back in 2017. This person is a malignant narcissist which is a person who has NPD along with psychopathy which is two disorders in one. She and I guess her older boyfriend who’s old enough to be her father are both doing it and they both have 2 kids. It’s the most sickest thing I’ve seen before in my life ! Never spoken to her since shes moved in and she is overboard with this sick obsession! These people are demons from Hell! They are the sickest of the sick!
I have been stalking for the past three year now, and nothing has been done by the housing department or the police Scotland.what can I do now my cable has been cut all sort of thing that I can’t even figure out what the issues is all about
In the end the only thing I answered to myself was "I just run"
There is a special ring of hell for stalkers. Evil people.
I have stalkerish tendencies and I recognise that it can be burdening, frightening or even traumatic for the other person. However, I do not find my motivations to be evil, nor do I wish to cause anyone distress. I just want to fight my loneliness and lack of joy and unfortunately the last person who makes me happy is not available to me. I don't want them to know about the stalking because I wish them the best, no matter what us getting to know each other resulted in.
@@TakingTramssome are not as open about the rationale or are as introspective as you are.
they sure are !
I was polite and firmly told him to leave me alone and he tried to kill me.
Me too. I'm polite with everyone they take it wrong. The last one sexually harassed me. The only way is to punch them in the face. Or get a restraining order. Issue is that restraining orders are hard to obtain. The easiest thing is to avoid them.
Thank you Dr Ehsan it was very help full information my boyfriend stalked me and I thought cause of his trust issues he dose that but finally I have find out he have a bpd or maybe narcissist personality disorder, thanks again for your valuable videos .
thank you
Hey, you got the cluster B/C confused in the video! (19:07, its cluster b :) )
I stalk my crush on inst. Should I be worried
My cousin was just telling me he think my ex nArcsisistic has anti social personality disorder too .. he has beaten me so much in the past I have press charges against him was able to be left alone for six years and then he comes back in my life to hurt me again by beating and cheating on me and I’m totally done I realized people like that dnt change . He been stalking me for years so many people that I dnt kno that he knows knows so much about me I’m getting my second order of protection out against him and he violated already and now he facing criminal charges . I’m hoping this time around he be done with me and leave me alone for life ... I pray he doesn’t hurt me and my kids cuz he has threaten me and beaten me so many times where I literally fear him
Hi Peace Love, Thank you for sharing your experience. I am deeply saddened to hear this! I hope you and your family remain safe.
TherapyCable this my first time in life I’m super scared for me and my children life do u think he leave me alone for good now
It's horrible to hear what you are experiencing. No one should be going through this. I truly hope it is all over for you now. Please continue to keep law enforcement involved during this very difficult time.
Timespamps would be very useful. :)
"I can explain the mind of a stalker.... FOR ONE MILLION DOLLARS!" (pinky on lips)
Yes exactly!! Thank you for this
You are so welcome! I'm glad it was helpful to you!
Brilliant. Thank you.
Thanks so much for saying that, Monica! Are there other topics like this that would be helpful to you?
How do you deal with someone who knows everywhere you are and can listen to everything you do also watch you while inside your home somehow?
So let’s say they actually try to act like be like me mimic you too the fine print . Down to destroying memories we can’t get back . Example my stalker who is now 31 I’m 28 she blacked out a signature me and my good friend (who is gone now she took her own life) it was from a stage production we did together and one of the last times I remember her being happy. This “woman” marked it out like a teenager. And made a point to show she did it . I lost this friend a year after I had my son she was an amazing person and now that memory is gone . She was told to never come back she should have never touched the wall (you are asked to sign it by the owners no more no less that was when I was 17 years old) she’s tried to be me and it’s still freaks me out. I’ve filed stalking charges nope nothing , she threatened me and my child because she lost my ex because she cheated, filed charges had all the evidence they told me get out . And yes I did go to find her after she threw my child into it because she herself had to throw a child in it for my ex to respond to her my son lives with me only not him for good reason . But good lord we moved into a new home she sure did break in and ruin the walls carpets appliances ect and she said it was me . She still does this nonsense she’s over 30 I didn’t understand the obsession. She now claims she’s Irish (lie) was. Dancer (lie) I still get texts and calls no matter what I do . So please explain to me why she wants to be me ... I’m not great . So I don’t see why . Maybe that’s my denial or me shielding myself. But truly I can’t do this anymore. She claims to have cancer (lie) a memory issue(lie) she’s a washed up ex prostitute who saw dollar signs in a man who beat me and her and wanted to be his no clue why I have drs bills from past beatings . I’m completely away from this man I have no desire for him I haven’t in so long . So tel me and I that crazy she keeps getting at my personal friends family past ex’s and more ..
Thanks
You're very welcome Jaleh! We hope this was helpful!
why do i watch these so much?
Why do I feel like I am losing myself. People tell me that I am no good. I am afraid that I feel doomed and that everyone is looking down at me. I have been insulted a lot. Everyone wants to say that they are the best one.
Put yourself FIRST! BOUNDARIES. SELF VALIDATE!😎
I have Cluster C stalker for almost a year now. 😔
I didn't realize Cluster C's stalk! I'm sorry to hear that
The tea is hot ☕️ my ex has been doing it for awhile. And other folks have been involved.
I need help in houston texas I am being stalked for 2 years now
Dylan Million what's the name of your alleged stalker? I can probably help you.
Thank you. I’m being stalked for 6 months by a celeb young rap artist cause I rejected him. All cyber thank god & Jesus in this day in age not being online, my phone or even my car is hacked is so f annoying. ❤ HE DEF SEES ME AS PROPERTY. I’ve contacted the FBI so many times.
Allow my perspective. First allow me to be clear- BPD will destroy any connection in EVERY relationship- That's part of the illness (duh). From my experiences, this video has hit the nail exactly on the head. Maybe not all, but many of the points are highly valid.
I had a bipoloar manic depressive mother whom I care for till she died. I learned a lot about diseased minds, reckless behavior and betrayal.
Now I have a BPD lady in my life and daily kick myself in the ass. Where was my valued intellectual instincts when I truly needed it? She managed to hide her illness for 10 months of dating and managed to convince me that she fit my values . I didn't think it was possible to fool me or I was not watching carefully enough. After connecting with all of her family in the last 6 months they have finally opened up enough to tell me a history filled with pain, betrayal and an absolute lack of accountability of my now partner.
I am going into survival mode by arranging my life on a need to know basis, keeping everything private that may be used as a weapon against me, constantly telling my young adult children that they are a VERY important part of my life and always will be, changing my passwords and locking my identification in the safe every night. I am wary of leaving my partner in the house when I go to work.
I have changed my Will to warn my executors about what they have to be aware of with a BPD person in the household. I cherish and will honor the underage child who entered my life with the BPD personality.
I learn, (thankful for the internet) , I strengthen the walls, (both emotional and household, and stay totally focused on my needs and those close to me. BDP'ers try to be the victim and always will. Do not play that game with a broken mind.
Leave if you can or become the emotional warrior that is impervious to the mantra of poor me that the BDPer craves. Peace be with those having to deal with these crazy as bat shit personalities. (Hmmm.. crazy as batshit? I'm going to have to look that one up).
And lastly a message to all those who have the disorder- Don't blame those around you- get help, get well or get lost in the wilderness. It just occurred to me - Why am I writing this?- you CAN"T do any of these things. You are BROKEN....
Why are you still with them, i didn't catch that part?
Going through one..
I am being stalked and this person is using infrared and thermal imaging to watch me in my house , even when I go to a hotel this person ends up in the room directly above me .
Facts .... above, in the room next door (either or both sides). It's SICK & DISGUSTING! DO THEY MAKE YOU LISTEN TO THEM HAVING EXTREMELY LOUD SEX....YOUR WORST ENEMIES?
Can you help me. I’m being stalked by a person who is hiding in and around my house
Stacy, be calm. Get "camera-ed" up too. Get careful about "whom" you tell about this. "Gang-Stalking" can begin like this, escalated into "other people joining in on, ganging on you, once you've been sufficently "worked up!" Trust my advice, as far as it helps you, that is. But avoid too much delving into it (stalking.) Or gaining sudden new friends. I had everything nice and good about me used ON ME! Lisa Rae Rousseau 🤗💯
What about having multiple stalkers of the criminal kind.. I would estimate at least 20.. and it’s not a joke..there on foot in cars of all types and models.. I live in a skecky area as of late all most over night.. everywhere I go there around.. getting more intrusive.. watching my home..too many situations to count.. I need more info.. do u have anymore info.. please thx..
Please confide in a therapist about this. They will be able to help you with your specific situation. Only trained professionals who know you and all the details can help with such a complicated situation. Good luck!
Ku Klux Klan (Christian Extremists who had begun stalking …in CYpress Fairbanks ISD..have now minimized their violence).
I feel negatively about counseling. The only thing I ever got from that was messed up on psych DRUGS that mostly hurt me in many ways & held me back, also got diagnosed by 1 "therapist" as being "bipolar", another one diagnosed me with MDD (major depressive disorder) YRS AGO 17-18 YRS AGO. Everybody got their paychecks there, but I never got help. Just pill pushers & maybe they be wanting to put you in a mental ward or Jail. I don't trust them at all with my & my families WELL-BEING. If they had to me more careful about their diagnosis & treatments & the only way they would get paid was if they really truly did help people & had the true intelligence to correctly diagnose people....Then there would be a lot more mentally healthy people living life happily & peacefully, I believe
Dude is informed
This is happening to me
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I've been stalking my ex for 3 days. I'm looking for help before our court date.
In Australia whispering at camping areas and test areas to homeless people happens everyday to drive people away torment and torture
It's probably like the "scarecrow affect"... Kind of like the "scarecrow" method they use @ airports to keep the birds away. They did this to me in Kingsport, TN to run me off from my "hometown". I am now in Knoxville TN, still being stalked & harassed EVERYWHERE I GO. Work, Church, home etc. They are EXTREMELY DEBILITATING 😢
Stalking is horrible terrible, hacking someones internet watching people ARE TRAITS OF FREAKS.
Sorry for commenting but I this is how I can communicate with a psycho who's been flooding my feed with violent content for a long time, many of which encourages suicide. Any recommendation? Anyone? I might not see replies because he turns off notifications, clears copyboard, deletes my comments... It's not a JOKE he's been STALKING me for years!
I should add l am an autistic adult and from what you say in this video a border line personality,
Is it me or he keeps talking about who wont stalk you. Wtf
I have been gangstalked for four years and am now learning that I'm a subject they have plans on torturing and killing. I live in constant feat and alienation, scared to walk outside or go to stores. Have neighbors all over who have been recruited by deception. I am constantly under surveillance and police think that past drug use is causeing paranoia and they haven't taken me serious, I have documents I've been keeping for four years which are in safe hands and if and when something does happen to me, it will be investigated and all the names who I know have taken part included and many more who I don't have names but enough to have them investigated. Im hearing my times up anyway and I'm scared. Need help
In conclusion,the negative people only will get punishment from their wrong doers in this temporary world actually.
Can't hear you
...one MILLION dollars!
Also, pray for my angel on earth. He saved my life and my soul. Ima marry this one, one day!!😢
Im afraid of my neighbors i might not live to 38
The "Watchers" & an old enemy
Whew...
Tootttooooday ! Junior...
Can a person with BPD also be a NARC?
Alex Klatt yes
They pretty much need to be. BPD is built upon a foundation of narcissism. In many ways it's much worse than NPD. BPD needs to tick some certain boxes to set it apart from just NPD.
Alex Klatt yes
@@rikoliver7284 Never met someone with BPD, to my knowledge. I thought the suicide rate was higher, with remission rates also higher- middle age in women? Perhaps I should read up on the latest research. Thanks.
Most of the western world is like this..
Good grief talk about hitting the nail on the head! I used to be a stalker before social media and before people hadmobile phones, l did think l was above the law, got told off to stop stalking several times but l actually was too thick sooner and ignored the police !! I never got put away just warned by them l eventually told my doctor and went for day treatment for my mental health and got better this was 1986. Then l moved to another town and stalked someone else. This man did appear on TV but that stopped without treatment.1993 was the year that happend. Now l don't stalk anyone, l even collect autographs for a living! But the only time l will shout at security is if l have been waiting ages then security don't let me get the autograph. It is no longer the celebrity l stalk. I just get angry with security they stop me getting a photo from an a listed, even this has not made the police do anything because l end up having a normal chat with them.to calm things down.
I do NOT need to get even. Unfortunately that's already done. 😕 My Lord's vengeance is greater than my imagination could ever be.
Amen 🙏🏼
Wow what to do when the law enforcement agency Kiss ass with the wronger doer.
I had been contacting Columbus Ohio police department's dispatcher about a neighbor who letting a pervious landlord's African wife Carmen B Latham Phillips use their apartment to harm me with the intent to kill. My first time contacting CPD's dispatcher they send a cop out January 16,2021 about 10:00 AM concerning this neighbor up stairs from me doing something to harm me that they have to stand over me and the following me in their up stairs apartment. The CPD's cop came out went to up stairs neighbor knock on apt D door then it got quiet so I look up the stairs at the cop he turn around and say he getting the neighbor's phone number then left. But did not tell this neighbor and their visitors to stop what ever their doing to harm me. So I end up contacting CPD's dispatcher again two cops come out did not saying anything to this up stairs neighbor and their visitors who continued doing something to harm me but gives me a police report. I had been contacting CPD's dispatcher numerals of time. Plus explained to Columbus police department's dispatcher and Internal Affairs this neighbor letting a pervious landlord's African wife Carmen B Latham Phillips and her associates use their apartment and this African woman been stalking me since May 30,2016 using my neighbor's homes to harm me. The fucking Columbus Ohio police department's Internal Affairs calls netcare on me January 26,2021 of last year . And before that this neighbor's visitors tamper with my appliances that in Apartment's building basement furnace December 31,2020 electric breaker July 2,2021 gas meter September 6,2021 and hot water tang September 14,2021 all last year. Now end up tampering with the gas meter in apartment's building basement . Remind you the Hampton Court Apartment's building exits doors our lock out side. The appliances is always being tamper with in this Apartment building. I'm not safe here. While this pervious landlord's African wife Carmen B Latham Phillips and her associates using this up stairs neighbor apt D here in Hampton Court Apartment's building E Broad st Columbus Ohio. It make me feel uncomfortable. And advice. Remind you I'm being stalk by this pervious landlord's African wife Carmen B Latham, Phillips and her African associates who trying to use their African religion to harm with the intent to killing me. Plus this neighbor apt D and their visitors let me know they know gang members August 18,2021 who next door. This African people can pay a total stranger to do something to harm
That like telling this neighbor and their visitors to continued harassing me and harming me .
This neighbor apt D text me this who lives up stairs from me January 10,2022
If you don't stop calling police on me you will find out what is real
I stop contacting Columbus Ohio police department's dispatcher January 14,2021. Because Columbus Ohio police department's cops don't know what a person can do to get away with killing a person . And Columbus Ohio police department's cops don't know anything about prevention. One CPD's cop come saying THERE NO CRIME HERE THEIR NOTHING WE CAN DO ABOUT THIS NEIGHBOR AND THEIR VISITORS DOING SOMETHING TO HARM ME. SO I CONTACTED OHIO VICTIM OF CRIME JANUARY 22,2021 AND OTHER AGENCIES ABC6ONYOURSIDE@NEWS.SBGT.COM AND OTHER LIKE NEW AGENCIES.
I HOPE THIS person turn these comments to law enforcement agencies or something to help us out .
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I’ve been stalked for about 20 hrs. It leaves me NO CHOICE but to marry a random non black FOREIGNER just to get theeeee HELL out of America to flee my stubborn unrequited pursuers.
Food for thought, but they exist in other countries as well. I REFUSE to let ANYONE send me a d*CK or even take a chance, not even in another country. Seems like everyone is fake or half-assed these days. ALL the 💯 legit ones have been replaced by "sent humans"😢
people with BPD are not necessarily more likely to become stalkers.
GreyAlien〈 But they’re not less likely either. Their extreme emotional states that range from love bombing to flipping instantly to rage for no discernible reason, their black and white thinking (all good/all bad), their insane jealousy in addition to their acting out behavior is predictably unpredictable and out of control on the regular. BPDs are well known Crazy Makers who become bored very easily and crave attention whether positive or negative. They are utterly shameless and relentless in pursuit of their Target.
I have BPD but I don’t stalk people and never have. I like to be left alone a lot of the times. People need to start stalking Jesus and I’m not talking about that psychopath out there that thinks he’s Jesus I’m talking about the real Jesus. Lol!
Truth bpd don't it's psychopaths or sociopaths.
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See, even you talk about people stalking celebrities when i was stalked for years by one. Shame on you.
Zzzzzzs… 😴
Schizotypical people can stalk.... like a neighbor... and they do NOT want a real connection at all, it is just a way for them to "connect" and "release" whatever they have stored up inside their disturbed minds.
Terrible speaker .. just awful 😩