Attracting Her Back After You Chased Her Away

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  • @sleepconcentrationmeditation
    @sleepconcentrationmeditation Год назад +194

    Please don't let people treat you disrespectfully. If they still do, walk away and don't look back.

    • @LulaRoberts
      @LulaRoberts 9 месяцев назад +3

      🧐🤚👌💯👍🫵. Well spoken Sir.

    • @dmace81
      @dmace81 6 месяцев назад

      I can't tell if she's disrespectful or just that shy. She hardly answers my texts back. Yet she cames into where I work with her dog after my last text was a picture of my dog. So I think she's interested. So I'm going to try to talk in person. Texting seems terrible.

  • @Ll999-c2m
    @Ll999-c2m Год назад +134

    "The strongest negotiating position is to be able to walk away and mean it"

  • @modernman7576
    @modernman7576 Год назад +88

    Do not ever accept friend zone if that's not what you want. Do not put your life on hold for anyone.

    • @breathlessdynasty9928
      @breathlessdynasty9928 8 месяцев назад +1

      I’m going through something similar, I got complacent and she left with another guy over night tho they are just “friends” Ik they are hooking up however she has still come to my place and had sex a month after the break up and made another date for for next weekend what should I do after we hook up again.

    • @modernman7576
      @modernman7576 8 месяцев назад +2

      @@breathlessdynasty9928 that's up to you. Make sure you read the book and 7 principles to get an ex back. It helps. Good luck.

    • @Happy-Me.
      @Happy-Me. 5 месяцев назад

      Never ever accept the friend zone regardless!! Especially if you were previously intimate with them!

  • @timnichols7760
    @timnichols7760 Год назад +64

    Corey's last words to guy #1 was, " Have some self respect." That would solve most of our problems with women.

    • @jonnyvelocity
      @jonnyvelocity Год назад

      To deal with most women you have to bend over backwards and treat them like spoiled children.

    • @pre38
      @pre38 Месяц назад

      Guys, we need to remind ourselves that there’s another bus every 15 minutes…but we need to stand up for ourselves first

  • @draggerbrown1937
    @draggerbrown1937 Год назад +70

    What Corey mentions at the end it's so true. Once you get back into focusing on your purpose better women tend to appear and you start caring less and less. Turning off and getting rejected by girl I really liked made me realize I was getting complacent so got back into the book, got into best shape ever and hopeful and happy about the future overall. She still sees my stories and even liked my post the other day but whatever. I'm focused on myself and my future. Thanks Coach

    • @mattb7450
      @mattb7450 Год назад +9

      Thats the mindset, be her plan not her plan b.

    • @leafsfanmax
      @leafsfanmax Год назад +4

      Clearly ur thinking about her if youre talking about her

    • @skyWalk02470
      @skyWalk02470 Год назад +4

      Keep going, King.

    • @torhkarambit5728
      @torhkarambit5728 Год назад +3

      of course u thinking it fucks up ur ego a lil :) but if u keep going n more women comes it slowly fades away and usually when it completely fades away thats when they pops up :D @@leafsfanmax

    • @DeronGordon
      @DeronGordon Год назад +2

      That was you?

  • @zaurmedzhidov
    @zaurmedzhidov Год назад +75

    Coach, I love the longer videos. Perfect for my cardio sessions!

  • @samsmith6279
    @samsmith6279 Год назад +56

    I've been dating a woman for over a month now, she had high attraction at first, i never texted or called in between dates but we work together and see each other every day. I didn't act dopey, see seems like a structured woman with rules. We've had sex 3 times over 2 dates. Out of 4 made dates she cancelled last minute on two of them, last time this past weekend. "Not feeling hot can i let you know if I feel better or reschedule for next week?"... I said "no worries, well do next week" I decided to pull back, on Valentine's day she hinted at how people buy flowers and how Valentines is a day about "love" and "flowers"...i simply responded with "oh is that how that works?" And left it at that. I'm sure she expected flowers or something. Na woman, not after a month and not after a cancelled date.
    If she asks me about this weekend, im telling her I'm busy, as i am going to be.

    • @sethgyan
      @sethgyan Год назад +8

      Love that you aren't attached

    • @samsmith6279
      @samsmith6279 Год назад +11

      @@sethgyan slightly but I'm committed to changing my old ways. Why should I want to spend time with her if she doesn't want to spend time with me? I will never demean myself like that. I definitely have some self respect 😅

    • @mw5451
      @mw5451 Год назад +10

      This why you need to try to date multiple women. I use to be a oneitis guy. I am not calling you one. I don't know you, but I would keep trying to speak to, flirt with, and date as much as possible. The one right now may work out over a period of time, but she isn't feeling it right now. Seeing each other everyday at work isn't helping. It's just how it is. Be cool and fun. Keep conversations light. Stay busy on your purpose at work and not on her. You are correct in creating a little space and let her wonder.

    • @sethgyan
      @sethgyan Год назад

      @@samsmith6279 I'm happy for you. I hope you stick to this. Great mindset

    • @samsmith6279
      @samsmith6279 Год назад

      @@sethgyan thank you!

  • @justincurtis2933
    @justincurtis2933 Год назад +25

    It really behooves you to understand that any situation that does not benefit you, walk away from it. You don't need to be upset and give verbal ultimatums. Literally just disappear. It's the only way to demonstrate your confidence and value.
    If you truly were confident, you will be indifferent with any woman. You will shrug your shoulders and exit with no response to it. You will still feel an emotion, but you will control it.
    I'm not saying this stuff is easy to do.. but once you start you will literally start leveling up. It takes some emotional fortitude but once you develop the habit you will feel resilient to a lot of lifes rejections. This will help you find situations that benefit your life (including dating and women).

    • @ChadOliver-b7y
      @ChadOliver-b7y 8 месяцев назад

      Completely agree. I was like the first guy and was completely acting like a bitch and trying to please and it blew up in my face three days before Christmas when she told me she was sleeping with another man. I knew I had to walk away for good after that. I also immediately got Coach Wayne book and started learning to become a better man and stop acting like a beta male to women. More guys need to follow his work. It's soo worth it.

    • @Destinyzx
      @Destinyzx 4 месяца назад

      Another way is to communicate your perspective and needs in a loving, non-needy and respectful manner. People do come from different perspectives and may see and feel differently. Make yourself heard, help them understand where you're coming from in a loving and respectful manner and if they don't, ask them to get in touch with you if they ever change their mind.

  • @motorcycleguy73
    @motorcycleguy73 Год назад +39

    Why do guys waste their time trying to get back together with women like this

    • @ivanrodriguez781
      @ivanrodriguez781 Год назад +14

      Exactly ex is an ex for a reason. Move on

    • @justincurtis2933
      @justincurtis2933 Год назад +14

      It's because of a fear of not meeting anyone else. Also as men we generally have to do the approach or make the first move. Whereas women know all they have to do is walk around and some dude will be interested in her. Women naturally have a more abundant mindset, men have to learn their abundant mindset.
      Once you start approaching women, you will quickly notice you have more options than you think.
      If you're good at meeting new women you will have more options than the average woman. The super hot babe working at McDonald's is still going to have more options than a male celebrity. That's just how nature works.

  • @fereyal
    @fereyal 2 месяца назад +4

    She has taken this sucker of a man for a ride! You stay faithful to me while I go out and date other guys!! And, I am a woman!

  • @zraebiel1673
    @zraebiel1673 3 месяца назад +3

    Don't forget you have to have character to attract a woman with character. That means sleeping with them should not be the end goal. Finding someone for serious relationship, marriage, and making a family is the end goal

  • @nickhilbrich3991
    @nickhilbrich3991 Год назад +5

    The second email could have been from me. It was pretty much my exact situation that caused me to stumble on Coach’s work. Changed my life. My ex never came back but it doesn’t matter anymore, nor has it for some time now

  • @IdExCS
    @IdExCS Год назад +9

    Thank you very much for your work mate.
    I'm going through a similar situation with my ex-girlfriend, which I lived together with. We broke up a month ago, and, even though she's not currently seeing anyone, that I know of, I don't feel respected or valued when we text each other. She wanted to remain friends, but I'm ending this situation.
    I'm also going to buy your book, so I can learn how to put my act together with women, and live a life worth living.
    God bless you, big hug from Brazil

    • @micdonallls8853
      @micdonallls8853 Год назад +2

      How have you been since then and after reading?

  • @successartistry3023
    @successartistry3023 Год назад +17

    "Women vote with their feet" - Doc Love: The System

    • @Ace.0.0.0.
      @Ace.0.0.0. Год назад

      This is true for all people.

  • @benjaminjones4008
    @benjaminjones4008 Год назад +3

    These titles are so relatable 😂

  • @couchmayne4351
    @couchmayne4351 Год назад +2

    I’m gonna donate to your Patreon after work , you saved my relationship many times off just cherry picking off your videos I can’t imagine what that book will do for me once I sit down and read it completely 10-15 times

  • @Ahahahhaaah
    @Ahahahhaaah Год назад +28

    I remember coming across your YT about 4 years ago and saw your book online for free. I was star struck for this Polynesian girl in the South Pacific. Lived with her family and helped run some businesses. I ended up being a door mat and the strong attraction she had for me originally had highly diminished. Read your book all day in my free time and immediately implemented your strategy. I pulled back HARD, made her feel “powerless or useless” per say. She literally changed in a snap and the roles were reversed. I was like wow, I’ve been thinking so wrong for so long. All in all it didn’t work out due to her being an alpha female who put her father on a pedestal (he was for sure a dominant alpha) and they were very successful.Anyways, moved back to the states and have reverted back to my “friendly/ non combative” persona. I bought your book hard copy and I’m going to read it again. Thanks coach. Corey speaks truths and it works, but you have to follow it.

  • @tacticaldagger
    @tacticaldagger Год назад +2

    You're looking good, coach.

  • @MagickYoga
    @MagickYoga Год назад +8

    Seems like everything in your book can be applied with finesse and ease, when the women is not abusive/toxic. Learning to identify that before giving your energy to her is a huge part imo.

  • @hemenwayhaulingllc1783
    @hemenwayhaulingllc1783 8 месяцев назад +1

    I like your information I have been learning it .I have read your book 3 times on my 4 .i would never take a girl back after she leaves and sleeps around ! No way!!

  • @expatgringo7538
    @expatgringo7538 Год назад +1

    I get what you're saying , it's entertaining and rounds me out,. I've been schooled the hard way. Maturity is key, and you need to realize when enough is enough, when she comes on telling her life story but resents successful guy and your worth, financially too. She's too busy, has visitors, doesn't reach out , don't waste your energy , walk away and forget.

  • @ouss-ama
    @ouss-ama Год назад +1

    You change my view on life i really appreciate your presence man .keep up this kind of content . I really own you my life

  • @LorenPhilippe
    @LorenPhilippe Год назад +14

    For the 2nd guy, I pity the girl's "new BF", Imagine still being that attached to your ex whilst dating, tbh bro is getting shat on

    • @johnbingaman3645
      @johnbingaman3645 10 месяцев назад +3

      Yup, that's what happens. They're still in contact with the ex and you become the rebound. Eventually they go back. And you're done...... I got the T-shirt.

  • @ruby-rose5729
    @ruby-rose5729 Год назад +10

    You get one chance to break my heart, after that there is no going back.

  • @thomaswooldridge6033
    @thomaswooldridge6033 Год назад +2

    Coach, you are my Buddha!!!

  • @kvs7876
    @kvs7876 Год назад +10

    Using techniques never works. Be like Bond and you will have success

  • @LulaRoberts
    @LulaRoberts 9 месяцев назад +1

    How many times I could have wished I had this vedio on standby 😮.

  • @anthonyjacksonjr4812
    @anthonyjacksonjr4812 Год назад +1

    Much needed advice, Coach. 💪🏾

  • @mr.official115
    @mr.official115 Год назад +1

    Same situation I'm in as the first guy. Currently friend wit benefits right now and I'm not trying to get her back, although my heart thinks it does lol

  • @expatgringo7538
    @expatgringo7538 Год назад +2

    I get what you're saying , it's entertaining and rounds me out,. I've been schooled the hard way. Maturity is key, and you need to realize when enough is enough, when she comes on telling her life story but resents successful guy and your worth, financially too. She's too busy, has visitors, doesn't reach out , don't waste your energy , walk away and forget. Maybe i should write a book too......

  • @johnbingaman3645
    @johnbingaman3645 Год назад +7

    Women want to know their future with you and men want to know her past

    • @bobbyzamora2012
      @bobbyzamora2012 9 месяцев назад

      I’ve never given 2 fucks about a woman’s past.

  • @bixumbi
    @bixumbi Год назад +1

    It's over for the first guy. If she does ever go back to him, it'll be because she didn't find someone "better", he will never be her first choice, and she'll probably grow to resent him and the relationship again in the future

  • @daveblackman816
    @daveblackman816 Год назад +5

    This is a guy who doesn’t respect himself at all. Can’t believe he agreed to that

  • @mattkiebach6506
    @mattkiebach6506 Год назад +1

    Literally sounds exactly what happened to me. Seemed like we were doing fine saw another homeboy hit her up crushed me and then went ice cold after that

  • @viper619ful
    @viper619ful 7 месяцев назад +3

    What if she cheats on you while y’all on break. It takes a few hours for wanted women to get into bed. And by the time things get fixed between them. She’ll be back with body counts you’ll never know so giving her the same energy is never a good idea for men

  • @paceyourself5652
    @paceyourself5652 Год назад +8

    Not interested. Next

  • @tacticaldagger
    @tacticaldagger Год назад

    This is a good one

  • @sebastom123
    @sebastom123 3 месяца назад +3

    i dont get it at the end of this video the moral is "move on" ?

  • @TheColtonStreeter
    @TheColtonStreeter 3 месяца назад +1

    Never got her back, she passed around 8/9 months after this video

  • @bruhman8005
    @bruhman8005 Год назад +5

    I’m still in disbelief we have access to these videos. No wonder every one of my friends I’ve told about CCW they write it off as another “say THIS ONE THING” typa guy

    • @ItSpooling_
      @ItSpooling_ Год назад

      or "everyone has different personalities"@@VoiceOfThe

  • @TChalla-yg8bl
    @TChalla-yg8bl Год назад +2

    waiting for 3% in the mail!!

  • @Sonyman2000
    @Sonyman2000 Год назад +2

    I'm went through the same first email. I chased and then she asked for space. Now I focus on me and I am dating other women now. If my ex contacts me and says I still want to be friends. I'm going to tell her nicely to fuck off and get back to me when she wants to have a romantic relationship with me.

  • @bestlifemartialarts5558
    @bestlifemartialarts5558 Год назад +1

    No action for 3 months! He dating Angela from the office?

  • @Calluma22
    @Calluma22 Год назад +13

    I just had a girl I dated for 2 month who wasn’t treating me right after 1 month of no contact she deleted me at the end of Valentine’s Day I think she was expecting a message 😂

    • @lilmelo300
      @lilmelo300 Год назад +2

      You was in your feelings??

    • @Calluma22
      @Calluma22 Год назад +4

      @@lilmelo300 nah I’m okay with it tbh I was asking her to hang out and would always get excuses after a few dates, it’s just confused me

    • @torhbakalit908
      @torhbakalit908 Год назад +1

      @@Calluma22 had the same I told her I'm not doing these pointless bs gimme a call if she will be interested in dating normally but till then it's pointless she thanked my honesty n wished good luck to eachother n I have no clue ssup w her she wrote to me one day can she rent out one of my room , I wrote I having no room sorry that was it ,😂 too many women if one isnt interested don't bother u can't fix pls feelings bout u just check out the next

    • @Calluma22
      @Calluma22 Год назад +3

      @@torhbakalit908 yeah I definitely agree with you I think a lot of women just try to waste guys time and want attention and if you walk away I think it might bruise their ego and they get mad or upset but that’s not our issue to fix, hopefully your situation works out the way you want 💪

    • @ParkourEh
      @ParkourEh Год назад +5

      @Callum A Oh dude I got a very similar thing happen to me last year. Some women can't communicate ever to save their own lives. It's ridiculous. They'll ghost, delay replying, or just hide away hoping you never reach out until their feelings about you change. Doesn't matter if you've made plans. They would rather stand you up than be respectful and tell you they're bailing.

  • @victorb3612
    @victorb3612 8 месяцев назад +1

    It hurts a lot today

  • @fruitloops3718
    @fruitloops3718 Год назад +1

    If a woman like this is deceitful you shouldn't give her a second chance. Like cory says past behavior is a good predictor of future events.

    • @phil1353
      @phil1353 16 дней назад +1

      What I’m up against is

  • @realestintheroom3577
    @realestintheroom3577 Год назад +1

    I’m going through something like this. I been dating this girl I work with for 5 months now. She started missing dates and then I started acting weak. She told me she just need time to herself and that she gets like that sometimes. Then hits me with the “it’s nothing you did” I asked her so does this mean we done with this little situationship? She says Probably not. Then she started to tell me all the problems she was dealing with.
    I haven’t contacted her through text or phone since. I small talked with her at work but she just had a little attitude so I kept it short and kept it moving.
    Its been 6 days since we seen each other. Not sure if I see her this week or not since we both part time. But i’m not sure if I should get a clear answer from her or just leave her be & say hello in passing, give her space and move like i’m single?

  • @jboy4023
    @jboy4023 8 месяцев назад +1

    Where did you learn this stuff or did you just figure it out in yer own?

  • @TomS-o9y
    @TomS-o9y Год назад +2

    I disagree. When he breaks up with her for good because she's with someone else....dont say "if things change give me a call". I'd tell her im moving on and not to reach out. Click. Done and done. Because this way she thinks she can explore this indefinitely and you'll still be there waiting.

    • @johnbingaman3645
      @johnbingaman3645 10 месяцев назад +1

      You've got a good point there. The whole thing is, do you really want her back? After another guy has beat her pelvis up. You become the consolation prize or sloppy seconds.

    • @Ustinmitchell
      @Ustinmitchell 11 дней назад

      No, YOU would still be there waiting. Even if you said that, because you didn’t mean it.

  • @ocho33
    @ocho33 16 дней назад

    The trick is just be masculine. It’s not a game just be a man.

  • @derekshort3428
    @derekshort3428 5 месяцев назад +1

    Alpha male one woman’s loss another woman’s gang

  • @diesel8869
    @diesel8869 Год назад +4

    When is your quote compilation coming out?

  • @dylansanchez505
    @dylansanchez505 Год назад +2

    Bro, you kinda remind me of Michael Rosenbaum 😅😂

  • @mickielnurse9018
    @mickielnurse9018 Год назад +2

    no more kissy poo for him

  • @hunterpaper6212
    @hunterpaper6212 25 дней назад

    Hey correy have you seen urban cowboy

  • @stingray9126
    @stingray9126 Год назад

    My ex is super sensitive. She'd walk away and want to disappear if we got into an argument... Yeah, my ex wasn't normal. She had hyper sensitive emotions. Definitely wasn't fun, loving and drama free at times lol

  • @wolflifewild3244
    @wolflifewild3244 7 месяцев назад +1

    Coach. What do you advise for suspicions of another male in the picture? I want to ask her for proof and see her phone(which I haven't done in our entire 8 year relationship), but now she is suddenly weird, so I want to know if it's due to somebody else in the picture.

  • @dgrayman43
    @dgrayman43 8 месяцев назад

    Impressive

  • @wade3217
    @wade3217 Год назад +1

    This information is only a guide. If a woman isn't into you, nothing in this book can make her want you lol.... And don't call over and over. Only ONCE and wait for a return call if no answer. Dont text over and over

    • @ItSpooling_
      @ItSpooling_ Год назад +1

      this isnt true, ive had many women trying to return after applying the book. read the book

  • @perfectjays
    @perfectjays Год назад

    Guy do not propose to anyone at 20 years old lol no matter how much you think she’s the one.. you’re 20 years old! An especially after only 2 years? Like come on, you guys both are so dam young you have no idea what you want in life and who you are yourself as a person. You don’t know someone enough to make that commitment in just a couple years. It takes like 4 years before you truly start to see who your significant other is and how they act when no one else is around! Or once they get board, you’ll find out who they are. If you or her can’t communicate about keeping that spark alive or making things fun. It’ll never work and she’ll start looking elsewhere. Learning how she receives communication/love/criticism is important, also her sexual fantasies. Need to make her feel comfortable enough where she feels safe to tell you that without being judged.

  • @gymleaderdj9102
    @gymleaderdj9102 Год назад

    I am in this situation

  • @verinakareem3562
    @verinakareem3562 3 месяца назад +1

    Ar 11 go to neighbors for asking ....😅

  • @2AMpodcasts
    @2AMpodcasts Год назад +3

    To all you guys out there please listen and learn just leave and don’t look back it’s way to many women out there and tbh most of them liars and please don’t get married paperwork wise

  • @HikeWithIke
    @HikeWithIke 13 дней назад

    Blue Balls😂😂😂😂

  • @As-vt2ds
    @As-vt2ds 6 месяцев назад

    Note @7:25

  • @guidofarage7457
    @guidofarage7457 Год назад +5

    I’ve been in a complete mindfuck of a situation recently. Started dating a girl just under couple months ago and first two dates were great and she was chasing. Then we went for a drink third date and it was alright I guess though not as good as first two dates as we did an activity those times too (the third time it was a Friday eve and a drink just worked for both of us.) Anyway, 1 week later she tells me the day before we’d plan to meet again that she isn’t feeling a “romantic” connection with me but is feeling a connection, I’m an “amazing guy,” and she really wants to be friends and continue to hang out, bla bla bla. So, reluctantly I give her the benefit of the doubt because we have the same views about the world (being conservative and anti all the covid BS is rare in millennial women it seems these days and meeting her has been a breath of fresh air.) Anyway, after I tell her Im not looking for a friendship really but fuck it we can try it out for the time being, she then suggests loads of things we can do together and invites me to fucking dinner to meet her parents! I don’t know what to think but if she wants to play the long game of hanging out as it seems she may be conflicted, I’m not sure I have the patience or ability to do this as I’m fundamentally attracted to her. So, I don’t think I’ll contact her for the time-being. Bleh 🤷🏼‍♂️

    • @tmac326
      @tmac326 Год назад +3

      Bad idea.
      Sounds like she views you as a “gay best friend” type.
      She may genuinely like you and think you’re great but as long as you entertain what she wants, that’s all she will likely view you as. I’d bet she keeps you around while she dates other guys too which will only make things awkward for everyone all around.
      Probably don’t need to full on tell her you’re done with her but do a pull back and cut contact. Just wait for her to contact you exclusively and tell her you gotta run if she tries to chit chat on the phone or text.

    • @guidofarage7457
      @guidofarage7457 Год назад +1

      @@tmac326 Thanks for your response, and I agree with your advice, for the most part. Still....I’m really not sure to be honest. When do girls inv guys over to meet their parents, if they just want to be friends?
      It’s a weird one. Since I posted that - a bit has happened. I went to her parents for dinner and things went well. I got on with them a lot. One week later she reached out with a flirty text and we made plans. We then went out, there was some physical escalation (no kiss) but she seems content for me to touch her whether her legs, neck etc. She also said I “passed the test” with her parents. Wtf?
      We have hung out twice since then, there’s flirting, sometimes we hold hands etc. It doesn’t feel like we’re “just friends.” I’ve prospectively inv her to my parents and also my place; this was tentatively agreed. We’ll see. But for now, I’m just gonna play it cool and limit contact. I’m gonna focus on my purpose and other women in the meantime.