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I'm a postpartum/newborn nurse. First of all you got some good stuff! A word of advice, use the darker colors of PJ'S for the first week (childbirth is a messy thing). Second, take care of yourself. Let Josh flex his dad muscles and help take care of baby. Babies have an incredible sense of smell (if they can smell mom, they want to be with mom). If you're desperate for a nap, have Josh take baby into a different room. Baby should be calm and you can get a power nap. Next, lanolin cream will be your friend . Baby blues are a real thing. If you want to cry, do it. Your hormones will be going crazy.I hope you and Josh have a wonderful experience!!!
And if you do get a bad case of the blues increase your B vitamins, I took twice the normal amount twice a day (water soluble of course so what you don’t need just goes out) for two days then took normal dose. It was a God send! I had been literally sobbing all the time before that.
I concur on the lanolin cream because ouch. I liked button up pj's for breastfeeding. I didn't take pj's to the hospital just a big rob and inexpensive slippers that I threw away afterwards. I only wore that ugly hospital gown, but wore ist front side open buttoned up and my robe on top. After hospital any pj's will do, but when visitors came I used button pj's because that is what made me more comfortable and less exposed. Heating pad for postpartum cramping is awesome. You and baby will need an outfit to come home to and since it is going to be cold make sure baby is bundled up, but watch winter car seat safety tips. Puffy jackets or puffy blankets in a car seat are a big no no. Happy delivery!
I was going to say the same about the darker pjs!! So excited for you!
Oh, and your nipple cream (lanolin) will also make an AWESOME lip balm. Teeny tiny amount goes a long way. :)
Also sleep with baby blanket for Josh to use while you rest. Babies have an acute sense of smell.
Old labor and delivery nurse here - everyone always forgets chapstick and wants some when they are in labor, so this is my reminder to you:))
💡👍
Oh 100%
Also big no to the cold packs for breast comfort - decreases milk production.
Here is what I would suggest: look up perineal ice pads- you can make them ahead and have them in your freezer (pad with water on absorbing side, witch hazel, then freeze flat), snacks, chapstick, ice pops, adult pull up diapers (sounds weird but helps you from bleeding through onto clothes and is more comfortable then the disposable underwear), your own pillows and comfortable throw blankets, and shower things (shampoo, soap, lotion, etc).
This is truth right here!
Exactly omg thank goodness
Just wanna say that the way you spoke about your child "possibly" having limb differences (Like with his hand) so calmly and accepting is truly a freaking wonder.
It's easy **I think*** to catastrophize situations like this, but the way you speak about it with so much love and calm uts a really good example.
I'm certain there's people in the audience with limb differences or disabilities that can hear somebody speak about things like this not as a tragedy is really good.
My son was born with microtia. No left ear canal. We had no idea until he was born. He’s perfectly normal and him wearing a hearing aid on left side of head is also normal for us. He is 6, in 1st grade and excels in school. I so miss those newborn baby days! As exhausting as they were 😮
My aunt didn’t have fingers on her left hand and I grew not noticing it most of the time.
My parents were told when I was born that one leg was going to be longer than the other resulting in a substantial limp. I'm perfectly fine. 🙂
It certainly spoke to me. I wish I would have received the love & compassion Becky is showing & feeling towards her baby. But like most, I was a freak, a burden, a mistake, abandoned. Becky you keep showing that your love knows no bounds. That you for loving your baby so very much.
Yes, it warmed my heart how tenderly she spoke of it. My daughter has a limb difference and she's absolutely amazing in every way!
From a four time mother and this is not a joke, when you have Bub get Josh to buy a cabbage and put it in the fridge, when your milk comes in and your breasts are engorged and painful place cold cabbage leaves on your breasts to give you relief. It’s a common practice here in New Zealand and believe the relief you get is amazing. All the best to you and Josh for your upcoming birth. Much Aroha (Māori word for love)to you both at this exciting time ❤
THANK YOU! Yes, yes, yes on the cabbage!
Cabbage is actually something they recommend at the hospital to dry up your milk.
Cabbage is great for drying up your milk so I would be cautious about doing this. There are some great cooling packs for engorgement online.
Yessss!!!
@@EarlyMotherhoodGuide While true indeed, it's also great for engorged, first time titties. It's wonderful for preventing mastitis. I had way too much milk, long story and it was a godsend! I never had any fear at all of "drying up".
All the experienced moms on here thinking back to labor delivery postpartum is so sweet. ❤ I'm also that mom. Becky no one can really prepare you fully, because this is the biggest life game changer and it's different for each of us. But some things are universal. You're on the right track and you're going to do so well! Some things I wish I was told: you'll bleed post partum, a lot. Have lots of pads and assign Josh to bathroom trash duty. Put multiple layers of sheets on the crib with a moisture barrier between. You'll see why. Music. Always music. Accept the help offered, but also tell people it's a burden to assign tasks so they can just do what they see needs done. Most importantly, whatever you feel in the first two or three weeks after birth is normal. Joy fear elation depression, sleep depravation plus a massive hormone shift. And it's ok. It's all going to be ok. The house may be messy, dinner may be late, clothes furniture walls will get dirty. It's all good. Take the time off you need. We're not going anywhere. ❤
Love your reply. So true that everyone is different. I remember my SIL having a go at me about why no one told how lonely it would be after the birth - I thought nothing of it as I just got on with it in my loneliness. I guess, in what you said about feelings are spot on, but I want to extend on what you have said is to make sure to see the GP if anyone is feeling like they have PND symptoms. Don’t listen to people that just say it’s hormones (in many cases yes) but I just want to make sure that PND isn’t stigmatised ❤❤❤
Also Josh may see it before you do, listen to him
Everyone is different, because you were talking about bleeding...i hardly bled at all after having my babies. I think I may have bled for 3,4 days, and it was a little more than spotting..... so i guess everyone is different. Also I never had the bit of depression, hormonal changes ,..that I could feel... I agree to accept help and yes, tell them whatever they see that needs done. One thing I was so tired after having my babies, so I slept every day for about a week, then was fine.
My husband took care of the house, my mom offered to do dishes, wash, for the first week on my 3rd baby. The first 2 babies, I was on my own and hubby helped out marvelous.
Why did your furniture, walls get dirty? serious question.
Angelina sounds like you had amazing postpartum experiences. That's wonderful! I do wish that for our Becky as well. To answer your question, our babies both had some serious reach when spitting up! Over the shoulder meant down the back and onto the rocker, facing out meant onto the carpet, even the walls once. At least they never puked on the dog! Few near misses though. 😬😂
@@heatherbare3198 my daughter was older, probably about 18months, and threw up in bed. My husband and I tag teamed, one bathed her.the other took care of her bed. We settled her down and were ready to go back to bed. Sitting in the hallway was our cat covered in vomit! We tackled the cat together! 🐈
I really hope you know that there is no huge pressure to get back to video creation after the baby is born. Take your time, savor the moments with your husband and newborn. If it's even like a year or more before you feel like making videos again, don't rush it if you don't feel like it. These are YOUR special moments and you don't have to share them if you don't feel like it.
Wishing you a smooth, safe delivery and a happy post partum.
And that goes for the rest of your followers too. This is all about the three of you. We’re not going anywhere, maybe waiting with baited breath, but we’ll all be here. Take your time. Wallow in this love and experience. We can ALL wait for you to reconnect ❣️☺️
I second, third and fourth this. We just want you to have a happy, healthy baby and a happy healthy mom and dad. Please don't rush back to videos even if you run out of pre-recorded content.
@Haley Hompstead the problem is that this is a source of income for her, so no videos mean no money. I hope she does pre record some videos like she mentioned so that she can enjoy her precious time with her son and husband. (I'm guessing boy by the clothes hung up lol)
@@lindouglass4115 yes. I understand that. However, time bonding with your child is more important than making money.
No want to see baby
Sweetie, I gave birth to eleven children. In my hospital bag, I would pack pajama, bras, underwear, toiletries, something to wear home, an outfit for the baby to come home in, and a baby blanket. Everything else the hospital will provide for you. You and Josh are going to be wonderful parents. I'm excited for you both. 🥰
Wow! Eleven children?! 😳 You're a super woman! 😊
I had 7 by C-section
@@leahweeks4272 OMG I had 2 c-sections you ARE the superhero lol
I had 7 children and I would say less is more. I overpacked for my first. Lol 😆 robe not needed. If you're cold they give you warmed blankets!
Thry will provide sleep stuff for daddy too.
I got hooked on Lorna doone cookies from having my babies! Love them! ❤️ good lucky lady. You got it!
Oh fyi, get a premie sized baby outfit to come home! They are smaller than you think they will be! A newborn size is for like a 8 to 9 lb baby! All my babes were 6 lbs. And needed premie size for 1st outfit!
And this retired postpartum nurse and breast feeding counselor agrees ...
Pack a couple of PJ's, a robe, your slippers, nursing bras, sports bras, a change of clothes to go home, toiletries, baby clothes and baby blankets. Everything else will be provided to you. Including peri ice packs if needed. Leave complete postpartum kit at home for extra supplies for when u get home. Remember you will only be in the hospital a couple of days if it's a vaginal delivery and three days for an uncomplicated C-section. So pack light! Don't forget your phone charger....and don't forget to take it home....it's the most common item left behind in hospital. If there is a natural oil scent that you like that calms you then bring that to sniff.
But MOST importantly....know that you are NOT in control of this process as much as baby is. Let go and let your nurses and doula guide you through your labor. They HAVE done this before...and the have you and your baby's best interest in mind! You're gonna do great Becky. KNOW THAT!! ♥️😘
I’m a midwife in the UK. I’d go button down pjs if you plan to breastfeed, button down is also easier for other people to help you get changed. Wear a hospital robe to birth in, it’ll get messy.
Take your own pillow as you’ll rest better and it’s nice to have your own from home so it smells comforting.
Good luck!! You’re going to be such a lovely Mummy 😊
Great suggestions. I ended up bringing a black robe just in case of accidental leaking, & was surprised how much bleeding there was postpartum. So thankful I had it.
@@bbraskey8521 after vaginal births I was expecting lots of blood. Thought of it as 9 months of periods at once. I was really surprised at the amount of blood after a section. I bled for longer, 10 weeks. I was already pregnant again by then after my 1st! Thought they would have sucked it all out lol
Having my own pillow was the best thing ever!
3.43 please tell me someone else saw the look of love on Josh’s face when Becky was updating on the baby 🥰 xx
Josh’s smile was the best! What a great dad he is going to be.
Agreed, he’s ever excited to see his new baby…boy I’m thinking
That was so sweet!
It was beautiful ❤️❤️❤️
@@tamaleenyouknowwhatimean777 I think boy too xx
Just a tip from a Mom who's "been there" - In preparation for baby's arrival, it's a good idea to ensure you have a car seat for each car or at least 2 bases for the car seat and install one in each vehicle. (Also, practice putting the car seat in it and taking it out again before baby gets here. We strapped in a 5 pound sack of potatoes in the car seat for practice.) Practicing using the buckling mechanisms is also helpful, since each car seat is a little different. Also, a "just in case" diaper bag should be in each car. Think of it as a baby bug-out kit - at least a couple burp cloths, change of clothes for baby, diapers and wipes, and a small blanket in each bag. A bonus would be a bottle of purified water in each bag. This way, if you forget the main diaper bag at any time in the early weeks, you still have baby items for short trips. I also kept a comfortable change of shirt and bra in my emergency bag I kept in my car as long as I was nursing my children, along with some cleansing wipes just in case leakage caught me by surprise.
EXCELLENT info...
HIGHLY agree, I built boxes and refilled them weekly for both cars till all my kids were in K.... diapers swapped out for pull-ups to underwear... it was amazing how often that box 'saved' our bacon, just as we would be pulling into some family's or friends house... or mud puddle on the way out of a store LOL.
This!
Don't forget some kind of sealable bag for dirty clothing! You don't want to have to drive around with smelly clothes in the car. A towel for emergency cleanup is a good idea, too.
I remember once we packed the entire car diaper bag, sleep bag, stroller, car seat, play pen for a family event. (baby was only a few weeks old ) then wonder what we had forgotten the BABY! We also had once they were older a bag with a full change of clothing, wipes, etc we called it the Go bag.
Mom of 5 here-- my hospitals (I delivered at 3) always told me to wear nightgowns, not pj pants, until headed home. They will be checking on you down there often, before and after birth, so pack one or 2 nightgowns, just in case. And even better if it's a nursing nightgown with easy access, or at least buttons on the front. Best wishes to you!
Yes! I splurged on a maternity gown and robe and never regretted it!
Very true!
SOOOO... true!!
lol - They hated me cause I wouldn't let them check as often as they wanted to...
When they would insist, I'd say "Bring more Against Medical Advice" forms then. I wouldn't let them do a lot of things they wanted to do and me and my baby came home just fine.
He's now 22 years old.
@@JanicePhillips They didn't check me much. I had my last child at 3 am and went home the next day.
My postpartum advice: it really is the 4th trimester. Give yourself lots of grace and realize your body and hormones will be making lots of changes. Rest when you can and let others help you. I struggled with letting others do my laundry and clean my house but it really was the best thing I did for myself.
Becky, as a 70 year old mom, you made me think back 51 years when I went to the hospital to deliver my daughter. My bag was a small suit case with a nightgown, my toothbrush and other toiletries, a set of clothes and cloth diapers to bring the baby home in and a receiving blanket. I had a big baby shower and was given everything else I needed. My water started leaking 6 weeks before she was born. Now, I would have been closely watched by a doctor, but back then they did nothing. I had a dry birth with our daughter and had a long labor. Because she was in the birth canal for a few weeks, she came out with an elongated cone head, but to us, she was the most beautiful baby girl we had ever seen. The nurses showed me how to massage her little head and within only a few days, her little head was just normal. I was in the hospital for 5 days and by the time I brought her home, her poor little skin was shedding like a snake. I was 19 years old and was dumb as dirt, but my baby and I got along just fine. Thank you so much for sharing this video with us. I also follow Kim and watched her prepare for her precious baby boys birth and as any grandma out there, I was just as anxious awaiting his birth. You and Josh will be wonderful parents. Just take a big breath as you get into this last few weeks and just enjoy each other. Your life is about to change in was that you can’t even imagine. Sending Blessings and so much love your way.💕💕🙏
I don't believe for a second you were 'dumb as dirt', you sound so compassionate and wise and I thank you so much for sharing your experience ❤️
You sweet woman, you were not dumb...stuff happens to us that we've never experienced before. Hell, my youngest son (who is now 20) was born with all of his internal organs on the wrong side of his body...completely reversed! That's actually a thing and it doesn't affect him, but we can't be prepared for everything my friend.
You're not dumb! You're a beautiful strong woman💗
Wisdom…..this was lovely to read and pure words of wisdom. Made me think way back to my first born and our journey. Thank you 😊
Ha Ha Debbie! I am 69, and was 19 when I had my first! I had no problems, but giving birth was so different back then. I had a Saddle Block, so it was a breeze. I wanted to ask you, did they use a "peri lamp" to dry your stitches? LOL! Those are so archaic now! LOL!
Enjoy these last few days of couplehood. It all changes soon. Don’t be scared. It’s less scary than using a pressure canner the first time. I promise. ❤
Lol I laughed way too hard at this!!! Its very true!!
@@reallifehomesteading lol
😂😂😂 I love this comment! 🤣🤣🤣
So very true, 😆
i think im too hormonal because i cried reading this, haha!
As a recent-ish mom, I have a couple of thoughts about your hospital bag! You can TOTALLY take a suitcase. In fact, it might be helpful to have a rolling bag for your husband, who will be carrying in and out a ton of stuff. I didn’t change clothes all that much while I was at the hospital, so you don’t need a bunch of options there. I also didn’t eat any of my snacks, but my husband sure did! Take some shower shoes. Take your own pillow, hair ties, phone chargers, and chapstick. I think those are the most important things.
Congratulations love on your new blessing
great suggestions on what to take!!!
I agree. Not much is needed. A change of clothing is pretty much all you need. And, one outfit for the baby. The less stuff you bring the better. It's just more stuff Josh will have to carry back to the car. The hospital supplies gowns and launders them for you and the baby.
I also recommend a big bag so that Josh can find what you need easily and quickly for you. Too small a bag is tricky.
Definitely bring a robe to the hospital, and socks and slippers since you won't know how hot it cold you may be. Bring a good headband and lots of scrunchies to keep your hair up and also get some Lanolin for nipples. Safe for baby and great to prevent cracking.
Look into "pad-scicles" for healing. Disposable or reusable cloth pads (my favorite, order on Amazon) with witch hazel and aloe poured on and then frozen in a ziplock. Great to have at home, but bring your preferred type of pads for at the hospital so you have options other than just the hospital ones.
I yes you don’t need to take much along to the hospital they supply most of what you need
Hi Becky! I am a mom of 4 and I saved my list from my hospital bag in my notes on my phone and I like to share this with my new mom friends! I hope this finds you and will be helpful!
Hospital Bag
Clothes-
- [x] nursing bra
- [x] Nursing cami
- [x] Nursing night gown
- [x] cotton robe
- [x] comfy loose pants(going home outfit)
- [x] sweater
- [x] fuzzy socks
- [x] Slippers
- [x] Toiletries
- [x] Old underwear(ones that are larger and you don’t care if you have to throw them away)
*you don’t need to bring pads the hospital gives you a bunch of them while you are there!
Nursing supplies-
- [x] Nursing pads
- [x] Nursing cover
- [x] Boppy
Baby supplies-
- [x] Going home outfit(appropriate for weather)
- [x] Cute hat
- [x] Receiving blanket
- [x] Warm blanket
- [x] Car seat
- [x] Car seat cover( protect baby from wind-we took Gloria home in a blizzard so I was so happy I had this!)
*you don’t need to bring a bunch of diapers or wipes the hospital provides you with a bunch and I kept baby naked and just swaddled for maximum skin to skin time to establish good breastfeeding in the hospital!
Stuff for dad-
- [x] Change of clothes
- [x] Sweats
- [x] Shorts for helping in tub or shower
- [x] Slippers
- [x] Socks
- [x] Toiletries
Miscellaneous-
- [x] Change for vending machine
- [x] Phone charger
- [x] Head phones
- [x] iPad/ laptop
- [x] Thank you candies for nurses :)
- [x] Insurance papers
- [x] Snacks for dad/ after you have baby
- [x] Granola bars
- [x] Gatorade
Also I would highly recommend putting together a nursing basket to keep next you where you want to nurse at home.
-nursing supplies
-nipple cream
-breast pads
-pump
-Bottle of water
-chapstick
-snacks
-something to read
-diapers and wipes
-burp cloths
Also maybe a photo as a focal point if you're doing LaMaze.
Great list!
I love this list. I would add a few extra baby outfits just incase you have to stay more than a day or 2. And an extra outfit for you for rge same reason.
My niece took a small basket for those who bring cards or what have you for you and the baby
Just a tip, put no pressure on yourself to return to pre-pregnant size in a specific timeline. Each person (and sometimes each pregnancy) has nuances. Just maintain healthy, don't push hard for a particular size/timeframe. Your mental health is worth way more than a few pounds and extra stress, let your body adjust to your new role :)
I was shocked by how little I lost during the birth (lol, 8.5 lb baby I guess I thought some miracle was going to happen) and with some swelling and such hadn't really changed sizes that much in the beginning.
The one thing that I always tell expecting moms is to get a stool softener and start it a week or 2 before your due date. The first poop after giving birth is almost as bad as giving birth itself. You want to be prepared 😂❤
Pack prunes! First time moms always look at me skeptically, but really! 🤣
@@marcidevries5515 people don’t want to talk about it, but man you learn fast after the first time. OW
But seriously.
That first poop. 😱 Especially if you have to get stitches!
My first poo was so stressful. I was trying to take it slowly because stitches...and my baby started crying, then screaming hungry. My husband had just stepped outside to do something and he couldn't hear us. Poor man came back in to both of us in hysterics. Me, because I wasn't done but I needed to get to my baby and her because she was alone in her bassinet and hungry. 😭 I can *almost* laugh about it now, nearly 12 years later.
As a first time mom, bringing disposable underwear (depends) were a lifesaver! It was so nice having coverage the whole way from front to back so nothing would leak any where. They also helped because my water broke at home and I wore one to the hospital.
Yes!!!this
Yes. The bleeding is way more than a period. Depends are a lifesaver!
Yes!!! My daughter has used these with her last 2 births and said they were a total game changer!!!
Depends are the best!!
I’m a grandma of 9 and I still remember the best advice I got back when I had my first baby. For the hospital bag, pack the softest cushiest toilet paper you can find because we all know hospital toilet paper is ridiculous 🤣 AND get some big pads like Depends for the first few days afterwards. Believe me, they make a difference. This is an exciting time and I wish you all the best. 😊
😳 that is positively brilliant!
So excited for you! Just a note I wouldn’t bring those white Jammies to the hospital. I’d save them for maybe a week after birth once things are a little more….settled. You’ve got me wanting #3 already!!!
So true ! I was thinking the same. They will be best for when as you said things are “settled” as a mom of 3 I know!
I honestly recommend getting nursing nightgowns . Totally worth it. Bring whatever you want to the hospital and for the first few weeks post baby, but keep in mind you may decide to toss those items after the first 6 weeks because they will get blood on them . I just washed them but I know everyone feels different. Also please do not take this the wrong way but do not take those white ones with you to the hospital and I would honestly not wear them postpartum for the first couple weeks
U can bleach white tho…
you can also spray hydrogen peroxide on blood stains...it works wonders
I love this video! I'm 70 and this brought back so many memories of how anxious I was when having my first baby. Enjoy whatever you need to do to make yourself feel comfortable and less anxious. When/if you have a second child, you will find that your hospital bag will be much lighter! lol 😊 Blessings to you and your family! 🙏
Beck, one more thing…Don’t worry about forgetting anything. If you need something after Baby arrives, Josh can get it for you.
The amount of energy Becky still has while this pregnant is so inspiring!!
I was exhausted, ftm in 2021
@@rossicastellanos1333 Don't see how that's relevant but okay.
I was the same way. I had enormous energy my entire pregnancy. Felt like I could have built a house right by myself.
I was exhausted the 1st & 2nd trimester but the 3rd I was a buzzy body & couldn't sit still.
She is so out of breath all the time.
The simple miracle of birthing a child still blows my mind.Just think, you and Josh just grew a baby human and brought it into the world ! That is a miracle every time..
Get Tucks! Mainly made of witch hazel, and will help if you end up with hemorrhoids and also you can make what is called a padsickle, and it helps reduce swelling! A game changer! Also you will definitely appreciate a bathrobe in the hospital. I recommend bringing Jammie’s that look like sweats to wear home or loose fitting sweats. You probably won’t use half of what you pack.
Tucks so wonderful! I was so thankful to have them after each delivery.
One random hospital tip I have for you is to pack your own tea bags. You can ask for hot water at the hospital and I found tea to be so calming & comforting during labor.
Brilliant!
My advice on the breastfeeding is to call the La Leche League before baby comes . Those women are incredible. They will answer all of your questions, and tell you what you need before baby comes and also what you might need in the future. Without them I don't think I could have successfully breast feed my children. Back when I had my children they had a book titled "The Womanly Art Of Breastfeeding". 🙂💕
I second the La Leche League. I have a friend who is a part of it and she loves it! Also, playlists- labor, delivery, post-partum, etc for whatever you like- TV shows, podcasts, music, etc! All my Love, Light and Prayers for you Becky and Baby! 💜🙏💛
The Womanly Art of Breastfeeding 🤱🏻 it was my source of encouragement, I didn’t know anyone who had breastfed, and that little book had all the answers.
Great book!
Yes, yes, yes! I didn't have the problems the other mother's were having because I followed their advise before birth.
I agree!! My mom was a Chapter Leader for Le Leche League. Rode around in our station wagon with a bumper sticker announcing it😳. She helped so many mommas. I specifically remember a mother she helped who was blind and another mother who had twins. So excited for you!!
Mother of 5 here, who breast fed every one of my children. I relied heavily on La Leche League for all my questions, concerns and overall helpful hints. There's a chapter in the Portland area if you're interested. They've been around for decades and are extremely knowledgable and helpful. Sending you and Josh good thoughts. This month is quite the exciting unknown for you both!
Back in the day, they were our salvation. My daughter was born at the Calgary General Hospital in Calgary Alberta Canada in 1980, when breastfeeding was basically a crime. I wanted to nurse her immediately at delivery. They literally stole her from me out of the delivery room, gave her two bottles, and wouldn’t let me see her for seven hours. If it weren’t for Le Leach, I would have been snowballed into bottle feeding. I ended up nursing until my children self-weaned around 3ish.
So much has changed.
Yes. Mine came to see me in the hospital. Back when they kept you longer.
You are going to need more than you think. Kim on the wads is definitely someone I would trust to know what you need for babies. When in the hospital grab as many of the big pads as you can. You will need them along with anything they have for the baby like the bulb syringe and diapers. You paid for it. White is probably not the best choice to wear right after having the baby. 🩸 Most of what’s needed is for mom. Baby just needs diapers. Milk. A place to sleep. Car seat. Some clothes - mostly pjs. Footies with snaps or zippers all the way to the feet. Sheets. Three is a good number with pads. You can layer them on the bed that way any accidents in the middle of the night you strip them off and throw in the wash. Quick and easy. You will learn quickly and be a great mom. Congratulations and many blessings for all of y’all.
Fed is best! Whatever way you choose and is best for y’all is what you should do. I tried breastfeeding with all 3 of mine. I contacted everyone for help including la Le he league with no help. My son was 7.7 at birth and lost till 5.10. We were both miserable. Finally formula is what saved us. My middle one got jaundice. Formula got him through that quickly. My third I had post eclampsia. High blood pressure after birth along with mastitis. It never worked for me. Don’t put extra pressure on yourself if you have any problems. Fed is best! All 3 of my kids are healthy! 23, 19, and 12. Good luck. Breastfeeding is hard. People make it look easy. I even took classes. It’s really hard.
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Get a portable & a stationary “white noise shoosher”! As a new grandma, I was SO IMPRESSED by how much this helps our new grandson settle down. It blocks out noise & imitates womb time & momma’s heart beat! Trust me on this! So excited for you & Josh. Loved your shopping trip tour today! ❤
I totally second this. Probably the best investment we made to make naptimes and night sleeps better.
I agree, my daughter used this along with a baby monitor and it works sooo well. At first she used the heart beat sound, then on to other more white noise which seemed to soothe the babies for some time.
Except when your daughter puts the volume so high it drives me nuts! To me it can't be restfull or good for the child's hearing!
@The Aussie Family I used the classic station on the radio!
Absolutely! Also had a clip that attached to crib or blanket, etc., that vibrated. One of the few things that put my daughter to sleep.
When I had my son, I brought my own pillow from home and made sure to have it in a non-white pillow case, so it dodn’t get confused with the hospital ones 🥰 It was so nice to have something familiar. Also, my robe and slippers from home too. My advice, being a first time mom myself, is to know this will be a big change, your whole world will change in ways you never even expected, good and bad, but truly, everything will be alright. I promise. ❤️❤️ You got this Mama ❤️
Don't forget a take home outfit for your new bundle of love!! I wouldn't wear white, but I had a very heavy flow..bled through too many times. Can't wait to hear of baby's arrival, prayers and many blessings!
Oh my goodness, Josh looks so incredibly happy. Pure joy when Becky is talking about the ultrasound.
I nursed my 2nd baby when I was 35 YEARS old. When I got home from work, I stripped my work clothes off , wrapped turban style in. A soft sheet I took soft washcloths abndassaged my areolas. When the baby arrived, the nurses rolled me on my side. The baby began nursing immediately; the workers were amazed.
Lanolin nipple cream!!! Nursing our oldest was supppppper hard for me and no one in my life nursed so I was clueless and had to learn on my own and it was a PAINFUL process! Praying for you and yours!
LORD JESUS IS KING OF KINGS!
THIS !!!!! oh my this many won't tell you but nursing CAN be painful, and dry cracked nipples only make it so much worse, best part is this doesn't hurt the baby... so if you have one like my first born that wanted to eat every hour for less than 10 minutes at a time, you can swab this on, then if it hasn't completely soaked in by the time they want to try again it's ok.
That cream and Witch-hazel pads on my pads were my best friends with every birth.
If you are nursing best things are shirts that button, or have the hidey holes to make it easier to get the baby to the boob with out having to feel like you are completely getting undressed each time they are hungry.
FYI- there was Lanolin cream right next to the washable nursing pads you picked up at Target. (I saw it and was screaming "don't forget lanolin!"- LOL)
The nipple cream is a life saver!! I was cracked and bleeding dreading the next feed and ready to give up after 3 days then the midwife gave me a sample and then this was literally my best friend it worked wonders !!
I would also suggest the Lansinoh nipple cream- it was a life saver for me. It’s all very tender the first few weeks and the cream helped from being super sore and cracked/dry and prevented scabbing/infection. Plus it’s safe to put on and immediately feed baby if necessary- no need to wipe it off before feedings. The cold/hot packs you got are great for when your milk comes in! There’s a lot of pressure and those are surely going to come in handy. Also if there’s long periods between feeding/pumping for any reason, it will relieve the discomfort of engorgement. Also when you wean your baby- those are going to be amazing. Just don’t forget to get some of that cream and throw it in your hospital/baby bag! I swore by it when I started breastfeeding! ❤️ so excited for you! Praying for a smooth and safe delivery and happy healthy baby and Mom ❤❤❤
Thank YOU! Yes on the Lansinoh nipple cream and cold cabbage leaves! I was a member of La Leche League and ran a breastfeeding website for years.
I’m not sure what kind of ingredients are in that cream, but when I had my babies 20+ yrs ago my pharmacist recommended vitamin E capsules. You can poke a hole in the end with a safety pin and squeeze the insides out and OMG that was the best thing ever for sore nipples learning to breastfeed.
Thank you for baby update. I have 2 pieces of advice for when baby comes, the two that really saved me personally…#1, sleep when baby sleeps. This transition will feel monumental but if you are rested it will help.. #2 advice…keep what works, throw the rest away. Everyone will have advice, some will work, some won’t. Don’t feel obligated. Just Do what works and give yourself grace ( especially with breast feeding). Only advice that is failsafe is sleep when baby sleeps.
soooooo many don't really understand or do that... with my first I put the baby down and laid down with him... he woke up and I would get up... it was the ONE piece of advice I followed to the letter... mine was up and wanting to feed every 1.5 -2 hrs... so those constant cat naps became my best friend... Hubby did the laundry, hubby did the dishes, hubby did the cooking.... my job was to care for the baby, feed the baby and SLEEP... I cleaned house when baby was 2 months cause by then he miraculously started sleeping through the night and I could function again.
A fun tip is to bring your own pillow with a special pillow case. A lot of the first pictures will be of you in the bed with baby. The pillow is a fun backdrop. A different pillowcase for each baby also helps distinguish the pictures for each baby if that makes sense.
Such a wonderful idea!!
That is such a good idea Mama T!
Yes. I always take my pillow with me to the hospital. Those plastic ones they have don’t breath and I sweat.
I dont know if anyone has suggested this yet, but I always like to bring my own shower stuff. That first shower after delivery is the best shower you'll ever have and it's nice not to be forced to use the junky soap and shampoo at the hospital.
(Also I'm also pregnant, and today is my due date, so I love all the pregnancy content🙂❤️)
Very exciting. Best wishes for a safe birthing. It’s a magical moment.
Oh yes!
This
Congratulations!
Thank you!!
I came home without ANY knowledge of the sitz bath care. After nearly a week, I was screaming the first time I had to go. A friend asked me had I been using it, I had no idea what she was talking about. Had no creams or anything back then. She came right away and showed me what to do and aaahhhh! what a relief! So please, ASK! So excited for you. Praying for you, Josh and precious baby!
Yes. Definitely sits baths!
Tucks Witch Hazel pads were absolutely life saver for me when I had my son! It really helped the healing process!!
While you have time I recommend baking a few loafs of banana bread, slicing them up and freezing individual slices. You can thaw out a piece at time, toast it up on butter or just microwave and it’s a great source of energy in the morning or during night feedings. You could even do it with oats to increase milk supply!
Also, I liked having a bowl of treats for the nurses to grab and go, while taking care of us. Just a little token of appreciation.
I have a feeling you have had your sweet bundle of joy! If so hope all is well with Mommy and baby!
Based on how Becky post videos, she is more than likely here!! Praying for a safe delivery and recovery. Many blessing to you and your family 💜💜💜
The best thing about this entire video was the look on Josh's face at the doctor's office. He looks so sweet!! It brought tears to my eyes to see his joy. Great job Josh!! Prayers for you both and wishing you both the best as the baby will be here soon!
I agree, the love he has for Becky is so precious. And her love for him. That baby is so lucky, he or she will see what true love looks like.
I’m sure we all can’t wait to turn on your video sometime soon and see that you’ve had your beautiful baby! You’re in our prayers! God bless!💗
Just know that this baby will have a bunch of loving virtual aunties and uncles, what a blessing!! So excited for you both 💓
One thing that was super helpful was to have my husband pack my bag! He was the one who was getting everything in and out of bags. It was really helpful for him.
I would recommend old slippers if you have them, a nursing bra for each day you plan to be there and snacks on snacks! You’ve got this! This little babe will be here before you know it and all that baby needs is love and you!
For your breasts, you can also use cold cabbage leaves to reduce inflammation and pain.
Your PJs look so cozy. I would keep the white pair at home, and use the darker pairs for the hospital. Typically the bleeding is heavier at the hospital, and it would be a shame to leak on those pretty new white pair.
I loved my nursing pillow for the hospital. It was so helpful. Nursing tank tops can also be comfortable and helpful postpartum. Your hospital bag looks perfect. But just so you know, I've absolutely brought a rolling suitcase in 🤣.
We are praying for you, for a quick and easy delivery and the same for recovery. ❤
Things get very messy down below. Best time to use the old sweats, underwear , etc for the first few weeks.
Bumpdate?! I couldn't click fast enough.
So excited for you both! My husband and I have a surprise 10mo baby girl after 12 years of infertility. It's an incredible adventure. Congratulations!
For post partum.. got ALL of the fridamom stuff. You won't regret it!
Edit: Thank you, everyone! God is so good.
Congratulations🎉🎉 I had my baby last year after 8 years of infertility. I’m v happy for you
Aww congratulations on your miracle baby ♥
Congratulations I don’t know you but I’m so happy for you guys
Congratulations! My miracle baby girl just turned 3 😢. We struggled for 10 years. God is good!
A suggestion I would have for postpartum is getting adult diapers. I find it so much easier than using pads and it made me feel way more confident. I wish you safe and healthy delivery!
⚘Just use the disposable baby diapers. They are cheaper!
100% adult diapers! It's a must. I felt odd about them at first but well worth it.
I second that. My daughter thought it was a weird thing but thanked me after. So much better. They make nice pull on ones.
As a Grandma , one of the things advised when I had my little ones , was to organize the shower gift clothes by size . That way , they are readily available as the babies grow ! Hope this is helpful to you ! Wishing you all good health and much joy !!!
They sell sizers for your closet like in clothing stores which helps with this as well. Good suggestion, Kaye!
Don't wash or take tags of larger sizes until you are close to needing them. No need to wash 12 month clothing now while you are already so busy with prepping. And sometimes these items end up being regifted as you learn what you like and what your baby feels comfortable in.
And don’t wash all of your newborn or little ones right off the bat… Just because your ultrasound says you will be having a 7-7.5lb baby, don’t go off that, wait until you meet face to face! The day my nephew was born all three babies in the nursery that afternoon were 2+ pounds larger than the ultrasound had suggested they would be ….They were all from different drs, different offices, different US techs …. Needless to say, my sister had already washed a lot of newborn clothes {onesies, diapers, booties, etc} that my nephew was never able to wear. My mom had to run to the store and see if she could find the same ‘going home’ outfit in a 3-6/6-9 months because he was 10.13.
You are a true mom. What you said about the missing hand/fingers is amazing. 💜 Most people would be crazy with worry. I'm sure baby's fine. God will take care.
Man, that happened fast! I swear pregnancy is so much faster when it’s not you pregnant. It felt forever when I was pregnant. I can’t wait till you get to meet your little one! So exciting
The hospital provides almost everything you need but when you are home, you're going to want several comfy outfits. :) So glad you watched Kim's video...she knows what's up. Suggestion for hospital bag - chapstick! Also, as beautiful as it is and soft, save the white jogger for later at home :) Just my thoughts :)
Thats what I thought as well! Becky I own that blk 2 pc set from target and you will LOVE how soft and comfy that is! You might want to wear it home from the hospital!
As you prepare for the hospital, be sure to pack toiletries for Josh. He will want to stay close to you and will be better able to spend more time with you if he can stay fresh himself. Toothbrush, shaving stuff, change of clothes will allow him to use the facilities in your room easier. Also, take reading materials as well as chargers for phones. Sometimes your eyes just can't look at the phone any longer.
Just the way Josh was looking at you while you were talking to us was pure love and was beautiful to see. Thank you both for bringing us along on your wonderful road to parenthood, you are going to do great!! ❤️
I noticed his looks as well. So much love and admiration for his love!
Sweet girl, you always brighten this old lady's day! Prayers for you and Josh and lovely little Angel!
Don’t forget to pack things for Josh for the hospital. In case you call him at work he needs to be comfy too.
Or he can pack his own bag! :)
Mama of 3 here - I don't know if it's the same where you are, but in my area (North Texas), all of the post partum care stuff is provided and sent home with you from the hospital. My sweet nurses would come in and tell my hubby to unload supplies from my care cart with a wink and then go refill it so I would have plenty of the hospital undies (unattractive, but hey... they save you from making a mess of your nice ones), big pads, peri ice pack/pads, peri bottles, etc. The nice ones you bought will be a lovely luxury when you get home.
The biggest surprise (for me) was how fast they want you on your feet. I had a v-birth and epidural. As soon as they were done with initial "clean up" and ready to transfer me from my delivery room to my postpartum room they told me to stand up (with people there to help me in case I was unsteady) and move myself into a wheel chair. I remember looking at them like they were nuts. Ha! And then they want you to walk the halls a little bit once you get settled. It will sound like the worst idea ever, but it really helps!
Loved seeing your excitement for the upcoming birth of your baby. As a labor and delivery nurse, here is my advice. Relax and breath. Enjoy these last few weeks. Don’t take the white sleep set, you will just bleed through on it. They will feed you. They will give you pads and disposable undies. They will also give you a squirt bottle for peri care. You will only need ice for 24 hrs. The washable breast pads were well worth the money, get more. The breastfeeding bra is very cute. I suggest that you order some breastfeeding tops from Amazon. They are worth the money. You are going to rock this labor and delivery thing. Praying for you to have a safe healthy delivery for you and your baby. Have a blessed week.
They feed u garbage. Bring food.
Bad tears, alot of stitches need ice longer than a day. I was swollen several days.
I couldn’t even walk upright after my 1st, from pushing 3 1/2 hrs (sunnyside up baby), for 48 hrs. I doubled over n walked hunched up. I did it again my 2nd baby for a day but the babies after that, I was ok within a few hrs.
@@YeshuaKingMessiah so sorry you had such a rough time and so many stitches. I wish I could have taken care of you. We could have done ice filled gloves and placed the fingers of the glove right on your stitches. We also could have done iced site baths for the first 24 hours. That would have gave you a deeper pain relief for a longer time than an ice pack. After the 24 hours of ice; I would have switched you to warm site baths. these increase the blood flow to the area. This increased blood flow will pull the fluid causing the swelling back into the blood stream and out of the interstitial spaces. There is a anti-inflammatory foam that can be used 3 times a day, and when placed on a tucks pad can help tremendously. Praying you have a much better delivery and recovery on your next go around. God Bless!
Beckie…the birth is beautiful. Your baby is going to be introduced to you. What’s better than that!? My second baby came one and a half months early. The day before we moved house.I decided not to sort anything until we’d moved house. I turned up at the hospital with not a thing. Not a nappy. Not a nightdress. It was just fine. People were so kind. My mum and sister sorted my new house. They put a Christmas tree up for me because they knew this is what would matter. I got out Christmas Eve at 7pm. I had not even a turkey for Christmas Day. Family all helped. I look back and it was the best time. I am the most organised person you will ever meet. At the end of the day I had a real Christmas tree and family to help. It was perfect. Sending happiness and prayers your way.😊 ps. The way Josh looked at you at that scan. You don’t need anything else.❤
I know you aren't going to expose your child to this social media and I know folks have given their opinions .. that they love your channel for what it is.. I respect all of that but I'd love to just see the baby here and there. That child is part of your family! I think it's cute to see how folks teach their kids without banking on thier kids. Best of luck to you all! God bless all!
Ikea has the best high chairs. They’re great because they don’t have all the fabric and cushion which is hard to clean in the folds. I put one in the kitchen and one in our master bath so I could have a nice long shower and do hair makeup etc when needed. My bubs were very happy sitting in there with me watching a baby show on my iPad.
Everytime she says hey friends I wave my hand and say hiiiii. My mom always asks me who I'm talking to and I reply by saying my friend Becky!
Oh my thought only I waved....lol guess we all are just a friendly bunch😉😉😉😉😉my Hubbie says hello friend back to her too!
I do the same thing. My husband asked me who I was talking to. I told him Becky. He said you know she can't hear you right.
Hey Becky! I just want to tell you you are doing an amazing job through this pregnancy! I'm 35 and I have had 4 kids. What I have learned is don't bring a bunch of stuff. You won't need it no matter how you have your baby. Bring your robe, bring pj's that is more of a dress so Dr can access your biscuit 😉, and you don't need slippers for the hospital. You get socks with grips at the bottom from the hospital, buy your own for home too. When you go to the hospital they give you so much supplies. Save your money and just ask the nurses for extra supplies. They are typically very generous and happy to give you what you need. Bring things that will make you feel good like essential oils. I brought my diffuser since I could not burn a candle. Bring a music play list and bring snacks. I had my favorite lotions and butters with me so my husband could so small rubs on my back feet legs. They give you items for the baby like diapers, formula if you decide to use it, just bring blanket, clothes, and a car seat. Bring your postpartum tea. I did and was thankful for it. Bring your pillow and favorite blanket to help you sleep. You don't have to if you don't want to it is extra but I recommend it. Bring snacks for the both of you.
It's your first baby. You will see what you don't need and what you do need later on but who cares. Get what you want and bring what you want. This is your time so do what makes you feel comfortable! Everyone has their opinion on what you should bring but you should bring what you want the 3 biggest pieces of advice I can tell you is 1. However, you have your baby is how God has intended for you to have your baby. There is no wrong or right way! Don't feel like a failure if you don't have your baby the way you planned. You are winning already and when baby comes you get to eat your cake too! 2. Don't stress about breast feeding sometimes it takes time for your milk to come in ( sometimes 4 to 5 days) there are a lot of lactation resources in and out of the hospital if you really want to breastfeed. Don't stress it will lower your supply. 3. This is all a blessing from God. Be in the moment! Don't worry about what you are doing right or wrong because you are doing what is right for you and your baby. It may not be the way I do it but that's okay. It's the way you do it. I swear something will come over you and give you everything you need to take care of your baby.
Sorry this was long but I just wanted to encourage you! Last tip......sleep when the baby sleeps😉 ps this never happens🤣.
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Good advice! Actually I did take naps when my son slept, I was so blessed....he slept from midnight to 6am every night in his bed but at 6am you had to have the bottle ready for him. Unfortunately I had no milk of my own, and even though I was 30, was so stupid....ugh. Well not stupid, uninformed and naive. Lol God blessed me with an amazing son! I don't think I thanked Him enough for blessing me like that! 🤗🙏
After you get home = stay home for 10 days. go nowhere! Except doctor visits. Sleep when the baby sleeps! (for the 10 days). Just do baby and you!
If you don't have any already, I highly recommend velcro swaddles! I have a 2 month old and it is such a game changer. Also want to say, maybe don't bring the white pajamas to the hospital 😂 there's quite a bit of blood and fluids going on postpartum and you don't want to stain your new white pj's! Keeping you in my thoughts these last few weeks of your pregnancy, you're going to do great! ❤
Let the waiting begin! Just relax!!!!! Your time alone with Josh is precious!
Hi Becky! I am a mom of four and have a few suggestions for things you may want to have with you after you get home from the hospital 😊 Witch hazel (Tucks pads) are a godsend. Also, button down shirts for the first few weeks you are nursing, it make it easier for you to see when you are getting baby to latch. One thing I had wished that someone had told me was how uncomfortable nursing is at first. I think people are afraid that it will scare moms and they won’t want to try it…but it takes about two weeks for your body to get used to it. Keep going, it will get easier for both of you. My oldest is turning 18 tomorrow, so watching you has been like a link to my past ❤️. I am praying you have a safe and healthy delivery and can’t wait to see you with your new little one!
great advice, when I had my babies there wasn't nothing like this for new mothers & then the drs told you to clean your nipples with alcohol & that is a big no no, that made them crack & made breast feeding a horrible experience, until I figured out that alcohol was not good lol, now they know better lol
I agree 100% @canaltownstitchet9663. With your 1st labor could take a while. Music or podcast may help you through the contractions.Those ice pads were super comforting for me.The nurses will usually send you home with extra. Breastfeeding is tough in the beginning. Lean on the lactation consultant for help. Stick with it. It is such a rewarding bonding experience with your child. An extra botton down blouse, bra, and nursing pad with you at all times is a must when your milk comes in. You never know when a random baby will cry (while you're out) and cause your milk to let down. You will learn what's best for you & your baby as you go. Good luck on this next chapter. You will be a great mom and your baby will love no matter what.
@@tammydreamkowski484 -AND, I found in a pinch, you can stuff your bra with menstrual pads if your milk lets down.
Alcohol!!! OMG!!!
I would definitely get a long night gown with buttons down the front for breastfeeding. Mom of three here, my go to items you definitely need a lot of are cotton burp cloths and lambs oil nipple cream. Also don’t worry about having all the baby stuff on time because you will find you won’t even use all of it. Congratulations I’m sure you will have a healthy lovely baby.
The way josh looks at her, wow, just precious 😊
Reading through these fantastic tips brings back memories of my friends - padsicles doused HEAVILY in aloe, witchhazel and dermaplast and a peri bottle for each bathroom after a 2nd degree tear! 😢
Amen to the lansinoh and chapstick 👌🏽 Amazing how little things like this make such a huge difference in providing relief and peace just when you need it!
Baby girl was LPI and didn't latch until her due date and I was getting discouraged. Hubby and my Mom were my biggest cheerleaders and I needed that encouragement to help me focus on relaxing and letting that process happen naturally...she latched and didn't let go for 3 years!!! Did a number on my hormones but I'd do it all over again in a heartbeat!
Savor every moment Becky! It all flies by so quickly! I was so blessed to be able to quit working 10 years ago and prepare for our darling little girl's arrival soon after we found out we were pregnant. And it made all the difference as I committed to cuddling, singing, nursing, smelling, examining, napping, staring at her...all day! 😊 Nothing is more important than your rest, health and peace these first few weeks/months.
Setting a rhythm in your home that works best for the 3 of you is crucial. We're Southern so there was no going out of the house for me besides ck ups and no visitors for at least 30 days. My mother saw to that! It didn't go over well with several relatives and friends but again we did what was best for us and it set the precedent for our family going forward. Our 9 yr old knows more about healthy boundaries than the average adult because of the work we did on the forefront in this regard - I digress, but when the time comes, just as others I'm sure have suggested, accept the help....let the dishes stay in the sink....let the laundry stay in the basket.....remember Josh will parent your baby in a unique way and he has the right, just as you do; and allow it ALL to be well with your soul! 🙏🏾
Peace and blessings!
***been on the tj whipping cream tip for some time but learned the hard way to keep at least 2 in the fridge at a time so it'll actually whip properly 👌🏾
Currently pregnant with my 3rd and I just want to say to not stress so much about the hospital bag and having everything little thing in it. Most of what you'll bring you'll be surprised to learn you don't need. The hospital truly has nearly everything you could need. I usually make sure to have a change of clothes for myself to come home in, an outfit for the baby to come home in and my showering/hygiene items. Also worthy to bring would be a phone charger, flip flops for the shower and walking around (don't walk barefoot in a hospital 🤢), and glasses if you wear them. I bring a backpack and don't pack much for my hubby. Also if you happen to forget something, your hubby can always run home and get it. Even with my first my husband still went home for a while to shower, nap and let the dog out. You've got this!
As a mother of eight I can tell you that you don’t need very much! As a new mother you often buy too much stuff! My hospital bag for the last kids has been so small 😂
Mom of 7 here. I packed minimally too. The most important thing I packed was my favorite smelling lotion. You bring home so much you don’t want to be overloaded.
Yup, even with our triplets, being our fourth pregnancy, we had not much at all with us, just the essentials. I guess the more kids you have you figure out the things you just don't need.
I HIGHLY RECOMMEND investing in NURSING TANK TOPS or shirts. I had some nursing bras and never used them because I had to pull my shirt all the way up in order to get to the bra, leaving my stomach completely exposed. When I had a nursing tank top or shirt I could just detach the one side I needed at a time and remain discreet. The ones I got were cute enough they could stand on their own without needing another shirt on top which I had to pull up. I am so excited for you and Josh, congratulations 🎉!!
I bought some from motherhood maternity for my daughter-in-law and she loves them!
Postpartum depression wasn't a thing yet, so looking back, was the reason why I didn't want to see anyone and felt overwhelmed and cried a lot. But no one saw it or really didn't know it was a thing. Thank goodness issues like these are not being swept under the rug anymore. Mothers are now realized for being human.
Take a deep breath Becky you got this you're going to be a wonderful mother! You and Josh are going to be wonderful parents God has truly blessed you
Does anyone else thinks Becky has actually had the baby and these vlogs are just pre-recorded for us all so they can settle in if so congrats to both of you xx
I wish lol
@@AcreHomestead 🤣🤣
No.I don’t think Becky is deceitful.
@@AcreHomestead Any day now! Wishing you and baby an easy birth and fast recovery. ❤
Yep! Me too coz they’re not in order..we’ve already seen the thanksgiving 😊 but I really don’t blame u Becky! You really need to rest ❤
I really loved my postpartum belly binder. After baby, your stomach feels so soft and jiggly. It just feels nice until your belly goes back down. I even wore it at home.
Agreed! I have birthed 5 babies and definitely recommend a belly binder. It allows you to cough, sneeze, clear your throat without feeling like your insides are going to fall out lol. It helps support your abdominal muscles while they move back into place
Hopefully, the Daddy beds in your hospital/ center are comfortable. As a seasoned mom of 7, we bring my husband a cot from home. It’s just easier.
Something else I asked family & friends was that if they wanted to send flowers, to send them to the house. Carrying the new baby in the car seat, the diaper bag, nursing pillow, other pillows & blankets, luggage, cooler with homemade healing bone broth & nourishing foods, AND multiple cases of flowers with water was just too much. It was much more fun to come home to a house full of flowers from the people we love.
You are going to be a wonderful mom Ms. Becky.
I agree. She is so thoughtful about everything.😊
She already is and I can't wait to watch her blossom into it more and more!!
Friends, we’re about to have us a baby! I can’t wait to watch you grow as a mom Becky! I’ve watched you from day one and I’m just so excited for you and Josh! Good luck and know we’re all here waiting to hear all about your magical day! ❤
Wishing you a beautiful birthing experience. I can’t help but imagine baby arriving, taking one look at you and Josh with eyes going full on Becky style 👉🏻👀👀 like…”I scored the jackpot!” 🎉🎉
You got a great haul of stuff!! As a momma of 4 who only discovered this with my last baby...of course lol...I highly recommend getting some adult diapers for the postpartum bleeding!! Especially for the first week or whenever your bleeding is heaviest. I personally used the always discreet boutique ones and they were definitely a lifesaver, as I didn't have to worry about pads over flowing and leaking onto my clothes. Good luck and I wish you the best during labor delivery and postpartum recovery! 💞
As a L&D nurse I think you have a lot of great ideas so far! (Comfy robe, pyjamas etc). One thing I would suggest to bring to the hospital is your favorite *clear fluids* incase you end up getting induced (and just in general)… Such as your favorite teas, broths, pops such as sprite, gingerale .. jellos etc ! It can be a long process and a long time to only be on a clear fluid diet ! Also ALL the snacks for afterwards postpartum!!
Some clinics must be different. I was induced with 3 out of 4 and I was eating and snacking without a care in the world. So I'm confused as to why they wouldn't let her eat? She will be in labor and really needing that fuel.
@@jessmonroe6951 I was going to say the same
@@jessmonroe6951 I was induced, on an I.V. and catheter. They were concerned they'd have to do a c-section so I couldn't even have ice chips!! But, I had pre-eclampsia and toxemia and my blood pressure had skyrocketed.
Here, once in the hospital, you can’t have anything to eat or drink except ice. In case emergency surgery happens. No if ands or buts about it. That’s CFVH in Fayetteville NC
@@suekeane right. Mama's need that strength and fuel to power through literally the most grueling effort of their lives.. the miracle of birth
Best bit of advice I was given for packing a hospital bag was to put a lollipop in there. When you are labouring you can be nauseous but need some fuel and something to boost your blood sugar and you can just pop it in your cheek between contractions. Life saver! ❤️
Becky I remember how nervous I was about labor as well. Just remember this one thing...its only one day out of your life and goes by really fast. It is worth every second because you will have this beautiful awesome human you and Josh created!
You are absolutley GLOWING in the best way!
I hate to say it but you might not be able to eat anything past a certain point in your delivery.
I'm so excited for you and Josh!
May your delivery be blessed and as smooth as possible 🙏🏽
I’m not able to have children and living this experience vicariously is a blessing ❤
I love how confident you are vlogging in public. I hope you have a safe and happy delivery. My first baby turns 14 soon but I remember that season of life, it was so blissful. Soak it in because one day you'll blink and she'll be grown.
Me too
She’s having a girl?
@@MaryDavidson911 Not sure if Becky has announced that, but I think there is a baby girl in there. :)
@@MaryDavidson911 Yes, not sure which video she shared it in though.
Becky, keep in mind that breast milk is pretty miraculous. And a great lactation consultant is priceless! You have a great selection. The ice pack pads are such a great helper! I am praying for a smooth delivery and recovery. Don't count on early or on time. 2 of 4 of our grands were over a week after due date.
I can't believe you're already almost done! It's gone by so fast. From the scan that baby looks absolutely adorable 🥰 sending positive energy for a healthy safe delivery as well as healthy baby and mama.
I'm so excited for you Becky, nesting, shopping for baby and yourself, and being at home is so good for your soul! I am praying for you guys, this next season of life is the best, whether you realize it or not in the moment. These moments are so precious!
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Well said ❤
My biggest suggestion from birth till they sleep through the night is buy nightgowns that tie on the bottom and have built in mittens! It makes diaper changes when you're delerious sooo much easier. It also keeps the baby's top half warm so they dont scream as much if cold bothers them. They are also much easier to put on and take off than outfits that have to insert little legs that want to stay tucked up. Then you can swaddle them or put them in a sleep sack and they are nice and comfy. Also nipple cream is life if you breastfeed/pump... congrats!
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Becky, you're so sweet to always say "we" like we're right there with you. Or to thank us. It's we who should thank you for sharing. First babies can be a little frightening- just so many unknowns. I hope you can lean on family members with experience to help you through. It will all work out and be worth it when your bundle of joy debuts.
I so love Becky! She is a kind, wonderful human being and can be so vulnerable she hurts my heart.
Add also pampers for adults because you will be in one along with baby. They're lifesaving trust me I know
Becky, I don’t know if you’ll see this or not, but I wanted to tell you this. Don’t be afraid, you will be fine and do great during delivery. You’re so active and strong and healthy. What I really wanted to say though is to relax and enjoy this time in your life. A baby reveals in you an entirely new way to love. There’s nothing like it. My son is now 29 and raising him was the best most fulfilling thing that my hubby and I have done in our lives. You’re gonna be an awesome mom and you’re gonna fall in love with that baby. Just breathe deep and prepare yourself for your heart to overflow with love. Praying for you! ❤️🙏🏼
The robe and slippers are a great idea. People have suggested lip balm and nipple cream. You can save a lot by just ordering pure lanolin. Nipple cream is just lanolin, but packaged in a tube, rather than in a small jar, and it makes the best chapstick that won't actually dry your lips out in the long run.
I wish you a wonderful birth experience and a great time for the three of you getting to know each other.
OMG!!! You're going to be a MOMMY in about two weeks.
I don't know why I'm so excited but I really really am. It probably has a lot to do with the fact I know what amazing parents that little one is going to be raised by.
Maybe 4 weeks. I went to 42 weeks! 😮
I think this was filmed a couple weeks ago, she mentioned at one point it was the day before Thanksgiving so she may be a mommy already now!
@@bleechrcreechrr I can't wait to meet the little one.
@@bbraskey8521 I did with my first as well. She waited until she had pretty much ran out of amniotic fluid before she finally decided to make her grand entrance.
I can't believe your so close to baby coming!!!!! Time flies. I am a mother of three and grandmother of seven. The youngest was born last year and my daughter had me buy 2 boxes of those Frieda cooling pads. She had to have stitches and said they were a life saver! I would use the dark pj's until your flow slows down. Take some long overnight pads with you to the hospital. The ones the hospital uses can be very uncomfortable. Take some Lanolin cream, for your nipples, if your thinking of breastfeeding. And for baby, the hospital provides pretty much everything baby will need but for home A&D ointment works wonders for preventing diaper rash. I pray for a healthy and safe delivery. God Bless you and Josh!