how to deal with toxic family members the right way!

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  • Опубликовано: 3 фев 2025

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  • @sakshisingh8338
    @sakshisingh8338 Год назад +174

    it becomes a problem when blood realtion makes you bleed

  • @henzy9808
    @henzy9808 Год назад +22

    The way she speaks the way she explains is just amazing what I really like is that we don’t have to think that are family members are bad people we are just distancing ourselves bcuz they are not good for us
    Period!

  • @bellybell9776
    @bellybell9776 Год назад +7

    Thank you girlie I was going down a hole thinking I’m the only one who’s dealing with a entire house of toxic unhealthy mentally unstable family members trying to help them only hurts you I had to take a huge step back! Pray for my journey and thank you so much for this video

  • @angel11.11
    @angel11.11 Год назад +6

    I live with my parents, it sucks to have a toxic mother!!

  • @taranpreetkaur8692
    @taranpreetkaur8692 Год назад +31

    Needed this video today, nimeshaa! You don't even know how much i needed it! ❤😭

  • @saniyashaikh3791
    @saniyashaikh3791 Год назад +12

    you have no idea how much i needed this video at this moment of my life 😭
    tysm❤

    • @Nimeshaa
      @Nimeshaa  Год назад

      So glad you found it ❤️

  • @woffee_8
    @woffee_8 8 месяцев назад +3

    The timing is literally perfect 🤍🥲

  • @saraeditz6909
    @saraeditz6909 Год назад +3

    Hi Nimi. Thanks for the video 🥺💗. I'm also in this kind of family. Not about my mom. She is so kind. But it's about my sibling sister. I'm 20 years old and she is 29. We have 9 years different. But I'm so mature compared to her. She blames me for everything I do. She doesn't support me. She just used me for her needs only. I don't talk too much with her. She always judges me. She doesn't trust me.she wanted me to do what she said. Because of this kind of problem. I can't handle this situation. Bcz we are at the same home. I don't want to talk with her. I'll not talk with her anymore. I'm jealous of other siblings. I need a sister like you. 🥺💗.

    • @Nimeshaa
      @Nimeshaa  Год назад +1

      Hope you get out of this sitation glad it was helpful ❤️

  • @monicascott4226
    @monicascott4226 Год назад +5

    Thank you for this video.
    I actually got a toxic parent.
    This is really gonna help endure this hardship.
    At times, it feels like I'm walking in a maze as if I'm lost with no destination.
    Also ,it feels like I'm walking into a land of minefields to survive from being physically drained.
    Even though, I'm happy we've had the privilege of RUclipsrs to help in a tough situation , like these.

  • @yoyo-jt6yp
    @yoyo-jt6yp Год назад +7

    I JUST NEEDED THIS..OMGGG..NIMESHAA BABE, YOU ARE SUCH A HERO ❤

  • @tanishkavlogs718
    @tanishkavlogs718 Год назад +5

    I am currently dealing with the issue so much and this video came Thankyou so much ❤

  • @mahira2368
    @mahira2368 Год назад +4

    Look at my destiny my own elder sister is way too much toxic and my mother always take her side and this thing hurts me like hell💔they don’t understand me and my feelings that why I’m silent they just blame me that you don’t have innocence you look so weird in this silent kinda face etc etc💔😭🙂

  • @Studylife224
    @Studylife224 Год назад +1

    Also make a video on toxic office people and make a series on it… I am currently going through a difficult phase in my life both professionally and personally and I am really mentally exhausted yesterday was my birthday but also the worst day of this year maybe I cried whole day also had a big fight with my longtime boyfriend and broke up with him but i know I am a lioness I am a queen and I am strong and only thing that is helping me keep up are your videos nimesha and I love you

  • @sakshipatil6183
    @sakshipatil6183 Год назад +26

    This is really difficult to create boundaries with brown parents 😢 like , I can't say my father that you have no right to body shame me or disrespect me 😢, if I would say that then he'll say that I know you're getting this stupid courage bcz of interest and you're learning such things from internet 🤧 and if I'll argue more , he might snatch my mobile phone from me 😢

    • @hemskembo2722
      @hemskembo2722 5 месяцев назад

      Ohhhw That's very bad 😢My mom ( Im Black) think is a " White things " to understand his children or have compassion for his own children anyways I hope you will be independant and get out of your toxic family, btw dont try to talk to them because know they ignore me because talk to them is direspectful

  • @ArchangelAdrian
    @ArchangelAdrian Год назад +3

    I shared this video to my mom, and my sisters, and my nieces!!! ❤😇👍

    • @Nimeshaa
      @Nimeshaa  Год назад +1

      😂😂😂

    • @ArchangelAdrian
      @ArchangelAdrian Год назад +1

      @@Nimeshaa Happy Thanksgiving Nimeshaa!
      🦃❤🍽

  • @victoriaalexandraavadunken9632
    @victoriaalexandraavadunken9632 Год назад +4

    Queen has posted ❤️ Thanks.. your advice work like magic ✨

  • @noblediaries
    @noblediaries Год назад +2

    I needed this so badly

    • @Nimeshaa
      @Nimeshaa  Год назад

      Glad you found this video

  • @bandhoodrishty3346
    @bandhoodrishty3346 Год назад +2

    My girl , thank you ❤️

  • @archangelyoonah2198
    @archangelyoonah2198 Год назад +1

    thank you..I needed this😓💓

  • @mahira2368
    @mahira2368 Год назад

    Omggggggggggggggggg I was asking you for this and you answered me that you will😩🥺🥺❤️thankuouuuuuuuuuu I love you I canttttttt uhhhhhhhhh💘🥺❤️🙌🏼😭😭😭😭😭😭😭

  • @Kpopies_GotNoBrain
    @Kpopies_GotNoBrain Год назад +3

    I hate my mother from the bottom of my heart I envy people with good mother

  • @bobaluvr_
    @bobaluvr_ Год назад +2

    definition of my mom 🥲

  • @naimnaeemchauhan5753
    @naimnaeemchauhan5753 Год назад

    Nimeshaa
    I was manifesting this video from ur side and I have commented a lot on ur videos
    Thank u gurl ❤

  • @Devil-rw7hw
    @Devil-rw7hw Год назад +3

    thank you nimesha!!!❤❤

  • @Shorts1700p
    @Shorts1700p Год назад

    This video is much needed for brown girls 👍👍 thank you so much my lovely angel 💖

  • @mahira2368
    @mahira2368 Год назад

    Thankyouuuu so much that’s what I needed😔❤️

  • @tbdadmin6724
    @tbdadmin6724 Год назад +4

    How to make money by my self😢If today I could make it I would have get freedom then😢How to show them that yes I can do it?

  • @drewpape4557
    @drewpape4557 Год назад +2

    I love this so much. You are so on point

  • @ANU-pz5bx
    @ANU-pz5bx Год назад +3

    I became rude day by day for that toxic family pain😥

  • @preetidas4911
    @preetidas4911 Год назад

    I love you bro, i remember I live a comment in one of your videos, that what if your family wants you to get down and here you are making video on this topic, I just love you @nimesha 😊🎉❤

  • @dollysherrychaudhary
    @dollysherrychaudhary Год назад +1

    it means my whole family is toxic 😢😭

  • @eyuuabebaw
    @eyuuabebaw Год назад +1

    The right timing. Thank you so muchhh❤

    • @Nimeshaa
      @Nimeshaa  Год назад

      You’re welcome 😊

  • @Sagittarian146
    @Sagittarian146 Год назад

    nimesha pls make a video on how to have that magnetic personality Infront of people who dont like you.

    • @Nimeshaa
      @Nimeshaa  Год назад

      Already on my channel ❤️

  • @shafina3228
    @shafina3228 Год назад +1

    I was waiting for this like forever thanks 👍 alot

  • @VlogsChronicles
    @VlogsChronicles Год назад +1

    Thank you for sharing !

  • @vaishnavi_mohite
    @vaishnavi_mohite Год назад

    Best big sister ever❤️✨... needed this video so badly ❤️🥺,you always give the best advice.. love you so much❤️❤️🥺

  • @stephiekabumbay7123
    @stephiekabumbay7123 Год назад +3

    I was living to Belarus but I’ve moved to France and here I met toxic family members even my father is toxic. So I had to move out far from them cause I was getting depressed

  • @Priyalsoni7
    @Priyalsoni7 Год назад +1

    Hey nimeesha i love all these content of your but really missing your beauty challenges workout challenges videos those are super fun and this as well ❤

  • @sanjenijadhav
    @sanjenijadhav Год назад

    It's getting more relatable now 💔💔💔💔💔

  • @muskaanid7204
    @muskaanid7204 Год назад +12

    After watching this video I felt like my whole family is toxic 🤣🤣

  • @Icebingsu
    @Icebingsu Месяц назад

    Gaslighter and anger prob is a no game, but then again....

  • @Suparnaroy05
    @Suparnaroy05 Год назад +2

    I have the whole family toxic 😅

  • @ArchangelAdrian
    @ArchangelAdrian Год назад +1

    Hey i missed you 😘❤🌹
    And WOW!!.. You talking about some real stuff.. AWESOME! 👌💯👍

    • @Nimeshaa
      @Nimeshaa  Год назад +1

      💪🏽💪🏽💪🏽

  • @simransharma1787
    @simransharma1787 Год назад +1

    ༎ຶ⁠‿⁠༎ຶ I need this.. thank you ❤️ ilysm

  • @shapiqueen
    @shapiqueen Год назад +1

    Loveyou Nimeshaa. Hope to see you soon❤

  • @Sutta123
    @Sutta123 8 месяцев назад

    I can't wait to leave my toxic environment. When i do that i will try restarting my life from zero and fix my mental illness that environment caused to me . I will rebuild my social life again . But will i really be able to forgot the pain and the stress i lived in ..? because evrytime i look at the mirror i see that pathetic fake smile on my face ..

  • @sibilaminnu2241
    @sibilaminnu2241 Год назад

    Good topic dear 👍

  • @Zeff444
    @Zeff444 Год назад

    I loved your video I needed to hear this thank you

  • @ShikamaruNara-s7f
    @ShikamaruNara-s7f 3 месяца назад

    I live with my uncle once I start setting boundaries he tells me that he will kick me out of the house and he doesn't care were I go , and he is mentally abusing us ,am leaving with my him and my younger sister and we are in school we have no were to go

  • @shapiqueen
    @shapiqueen Год назад +7

    I really like your energy girl!❤

  • @annuz1735
    @annuz1735 6 месяцев назад

    my mother choked me and hitted my head against the wall several time. my nose was bleeding... she still does'nt feel a bit guilty about that

  • @padmasri_1207
    @padmasri_1207 Год назад

    Best Sis ❤🛐

  • @halecasity339
    @halecasity339 Год назад

    I already tried to set boundaries but no one will listen. What do I do about that

  • @Muna-yf3op
    @Muna-yf3op Год назад +2

    Love your videos so much
    Love from Bangladesh 🇧🇩

    • @Nimeshaa
      @Nimeshaa  Год назад +1

      🥺❤️

    • @Muna-yf3op
      @Muna-yf3op Год назад +1

      @@Nimeshaa aww you made my day❤️🥰

  • @bindukk2592
    @bindukk2592 11 месяцев назад

    If when a toxic family member disrespect me (even they cross the boundaries) in front of a person who I consider as a important person in my life just like best friend. If I say anything back I thought that she will feel uncomfortable because of me. For her sake, I didn't say any thing back
    So how we handle this situation?

  • @AnkitasDreamQuest
    @AnkitasDreamQuest Год назад

    Lots of love♥️♥️ first here🎊

  • @meghnasharma3785
    @meghnasharma3785 Год назад

    What if have toxic mom who not let you sleep in other room n because of her childhood trumas she is 24*7 shouting n flighting

  • @sivasakthithangaiah596
    @sivasakthithangaiah596 Год назад

    Thank you❤️

  • @lopamudrachetia2886
    @lopamudrachetia2886 Год назад

    Omg👍you are amazing 😇

  • @revatisatpute2042
    @revatisatpute2042 Год назад +1

    Trust me or not but this video make my day like from many days I am dealing from it like I make myself unhappy and I m not able to do my work so it's a must needed video for me thank you so much nimeshaa ❤

    • @Nimeshaa
      @Nimeshaa  Год назад

      Glad it was helpful ❤️

  • @Withmaruaa
    @Withmaruaa Год назад

    What about if they're your parents i want to move out but im still 17 yo and i live in Morocco so pleaaaaaase make a video about this

  • @Palak9999
    @Palak9999 Год назад +1

    This things happens with me ..nd I feel so depressed 😔

    • @Nimeshaa
      @Nimeshaa  Год назад +1

      I hope you feel better

    • @Palak9999
      @Palak9999 Год назад

      @@Nimeshaa ❤️

  • @maheshbiswal3907
    @maheshbiswal3907 Год назад +1

    Hey i'm new to your channel just watched your applying rice water for 7 days sorry i have a Q.does rice water increase facial hair I have heard somewhere ??I have facial hair and my mom dont let me use razor and all so is it ok ??

    • @manilabista4330
      @manilabista4330 Год назад

      Use authentic facial razor...but do follow some proper steps before u do like cleansing ur face,put on some thin layer of moisturiser or gel & razor must b cleaned & shave on proper angle.Trust me,growing hair thicker after using razor is a myth.Use facial razor.Hair grows in a natural way & in normal too.

  • @rubyrai4619
    @rubyrai4619 Год назад +1

    Now they think I'm the rebel one😂

  • @NoorAtika-kx3of
    @NoorAtika-kx3of Год назад +3

    Love from India

  • @TheMeghajoshi
    @TheMeghajoshi Год назад

    How old u r, I learnt about toxic people nd how to handle them very late , your defination of toxic I liked much nd your attitude.

    • @Nimeshaa
      @Nimeshaa  Год назад +1

      It’s never to late to learn ❤️

  • @GarimaArora-r4w
    @GarimaArora-r4w Год назад

    Nimeshaa what about toxic parents??

  • @SnehaGaikwad-f5j
    @SnehaGaikwad-f5j 7 месяцев назад

    Thankyou❤

  • @attiazohaib491
    @attiazohaib491 Год назад

    How to deal with toxic husband's and his family ...

  • @Shinus_Mamma1111
    @Shinus_Mamma1111 Год назад +1

    Di can you make a video on sugar wax?.

  • @EliZa-q4v
    @EliZa-q4v 5 месяцев назад

    It is my unfortunate to call that person " My father"
    I hate that person

  • @khadijanasir290
    @khadijanasir290 Год назад

    Hey I commented twice but I don't know where they gone😢

    • @Nimeshaa
      @Nimeshaa  Год назад

      About what

    • @khadijanasir290
      @khadijanasir290 Год назад

      @@Nimeshaa I requested u to wish me on my birthday today 🙃

  • @CHRISTELLA-e7j
    @CHRISTELLA-e7j 12 дней назад

    Thank u

  • @sapnabachle07
    @sapnabachle07 Год назад +1

    first ❤️

  • @shalenijohnson7034
    @shalenijohnson7034 Год назад

    Hey, nimeshaa I don't you can read this or not but i think i really going through break up do you have anything to move on

    • @Nimeshaa
      @Nimeshaa  Год назад

      Already on my channel ❤️

  • @chamainjayesekara5387
    @chamainjayesekara5387 Год назад

    Much fr brown family nimeshhaa

  • @sanjenijadhav
    @sanjenijadhav Год назад

    I guess ur gonna start a podcast

  • @kimy6450
    @kimy6450 5 месяцев назад

    I don't understand English very good 😭💔

  • @geethaanjali44
    @geethaanjali44 Год назад +2

    How to deal with toxic parents 🥴 need suggestion

  • @shanika444
    @shanika444 Год назад

    I am 19 and I live with 6 toxic family member 7/7 (what you described as toxic) which i didnt notice until i watched your videos😢they would do things to me and i couldnt say anything because i would be labelled as being "disrespectful" ....and they be like "bible said if you must honour your mother and father ..." Like bitch if the Bible say that and I am going to hell for standing up for myself well I guess I will see you in hell because the Bible also said that parents shouldn't provoke their children...and you manipulating me (only know me when you want me to do something for you!!!?? Use mind games to control me because she is my "mother"???) Because I grew up with these toxic people i lower my standard and think low of myself and people always over shadow me because I was afraid to say "NO" i never use the word NO to my family so i didnt even learn to use it or when to say it which make alot of person in my life walk over me, look down on me, be like "make shanika do it because she wont say no" omg i hated myself for this but this year 2024 is still fresh since its january and I will take control of my life and set boundaries after all I'm soon 20 (oh yeah and I got kicked out for trying to stop the manipulation that y mother was doing to me!)
    -6/1/2024🎉

  • @rt.y111
    @rt.y111 Год назад +1

    🥰🥰🥰

  • @archangel2503
    @archangel2503 Год назад +1

    Hell ya 😼

  • @hyysup
    @hyysup Год назад

  • @lost.artist
    @lost.artist Год назад

    How you got to know about this babygirl??? Telepathic feelings or something!😂🙂💭

  • @eccentrictopics5270
    @eccentrictopics5270 Год назад +1

    Does anyone else think she copies Tam Kaur?

    • @Nimeshaa
      @Nimeshaa  Год назад +1

      yes. even tho I don’t know who she is but yea you’re probably right

    • @Suryavanshishi
      @Suryavanshishi Год назад +1

      😂😂😂😂😂😂😂 who's she...

    • @Melodramatic_Girl
      @Melodramatic_Girl 7 месяцев назад

      ​@@Nimeshaa😂😂😂 Damn, u were savage with this one..

  • @navdeepkaur9895
    @navdeepkaur9895 Год назад

    👏

  • @aadtiyavaruma5347
    @aadtiyavaruma5347 Год назад

    Yeahhhhhhhh,

  • @angel11.11
    @angel11.11 Год назад

    It could be ur pet😭🤣

  • @nimisha7468
    @nimisha7468 5 месяцев назад

    Blood isn't thicker than your mental health :)