I'm blown away to see two men be men and love thier family and be responsible I wish more men were like the two of you men. it's a beautiful moment to see a son love his dad.
I agree with you, if more men were like this than the world would be definitely better, but unfortunately, lotta deadbeat dads and a lot of single moms and I’m sure there’s single dads too. Not at all men are bad I’m just saying, we have an epidemic of boys being raised without fathers.
@@lisalambert1465 Melissa and Jeremy are bringing their kids up to be better women and men that is rare these days. Children need a parent one or two that care Jeremy's dad is the real deal even if he made mistakes we all make parental mistakes but he owns it and he should be a proud dad.
@@risanch I know that as well,and we can teach our kids right and wrong,live by example , share Christian beliefs and they still going to make mistakes some choices cant be done over.
His dad was me. I was mad, angry and not a great father. I'm so disappointed in my past and am a much better father today. My sons, thankfully, turned out to be outstanding fathers and husbands.
I’m a mush. Jeremy made me tear up. My husband and I got married after 3 months. I was pregnant. Married 48 years! Life’s a roller coaster! Good men are hard to find. We are all lucky!
This was a great podcast. I was a single Mom and my son tried to take the potion of man of the family. My 2 children came to my office and did their homework than played Cave on my mini-computer until I left work. He and I were very close as the 3 of us walked through those rough times. We went camping and fish both on Mt Hood and the coast. But the rough time made us closer. And the night before he died of a massive heart attack at 57, he called me and told me how much he loved me and he was the man is was because of how we never give up. It was like listening the similar things that single parents go through raising their children. My son & his wife were pregnant and got married and that marriage lasted 40 years before he died. What a wonderful podcast!
Wow! My condolences on the loss of your son. It appears that you all made the best of a bad situation & triumphed. So sorry that you lost him. My heart goes out to you 🙏
We’re a police family and my husband is retired from the LAPD. He had a very rough time with retirement and became depressed. It’s such a demanding job that it’s a huge adjustment to just stop. And my husband was real strict with our kids. I understand this dynamic so well. I love that Jeremy has such a tender heart. My son, who is also named Jeremy, is the same and it’s the best trait for a big strong man. Be grateful that those emotions are at the surface and not buried and closed off.
It was awesome to meet Jeremy’s Dad! It was heartbreaking at moments, and so very sweet throughout. He is so interesting and genuine. I hope having him on the podcast was helpful for you, Jeremy. 💕
Once your kids, always your kids, until you leave this life. Wait until your 70s. In our society, older people are ignored or even abandoned. It's sad because even though the experiences are old, the lessons and wisdom can be a priceless resource.
I became a Mama when I was 15, my husband was 17. We married and raised that baby girl together. She just turned 50. Our lives have been amazing. We are still married and enjoying these grandbabies. You can do it. You can love one another through the worst of times.
I learned at 66 who my father was.....I never met him, and nobody knows where he is buried. I found out that I have a brother too, Life goes on and God directs us to things to what we need to know or do.
The raw emotion from Jeremy had me weeping. I'm a couple years older than his dad, growing up in the same era. My dad died before I was 2, so I was a fatherless child, as were my brothers. Our mom was the opposite of Melissa, not for us, always working away from home, and never trying to be a part of our lives and showing interest in us or our extra-curricular activities. One of the reasons I enjoy watching GSL is because Jeremy and Melissa seem to be the perfect parents that any kid would love to have had, including me. I think their kids are the most blessed because of who their parents are. Seeing Jeremy struggle about Nevaeh's possible "leaving the nest" is touching. I think that transition home above the garage and even the tiny home in the barn are both potential stepping stones to keep the kids closer and safer while they're testing their wings, so to speak. I wonder if they have a clue about the depths of their parents' love for them and protections for them in regards to these accommodations. As a parent myself, I admire you guys for bucking the "system" and taking the challenge to build a life and future truly with your children's best interests in mind and at heart. Having parents showing them love and favor and interest is truly a blessing that many children never know. I love it for them, and I know how fulfilling it is to be able to bless your children as you two are doing. God bless y'all !❤
Your mom was a very young widow raising many children on her sole income. She had all of the stress to feed, house and pay for your extracurricular activities. Of course she couldn't be a doting homeschooling sahm. Go call your mama and tell her thank you
@@DearestDawn please don't misunderstand what I did and did not say. Her mother and sister kept us, all 3 of us, while she partied with her friends nights, weekends, and holidays. My grandmother used to tell people on the phone -yes, in front of us- how our mom didn't give us a thought, all she cared about was partying with her friends. And no, we didn't get to do the extracurricular activities because when we wanted to, she didn't take us, pay the fees, or buy the scout uniforms, dance shoes, clothes, and baton. She always agreed to, but wouldn't follow through. And yes, she did get a small amount of Social Security for us, because our dad was a veteran. She paid nothing for housing for the first 8 1/2 years, living with her family. Back then, women didn't make much money, and to be able to work, she had to have help, but her sister shouldered the housing and house bills alone. But the choices she made to behave like she was single when we were very young, and living emotionally distant, were harmful to her newly fatherless children, and her family resented her for taking breaks that they couldn't, because we were very young and needing someone with us. I never said or implied that it was easy for her, and you try to make me out to be ungrateful, but you're missing all of the rest of the story, that couldn't be here for its length and sensitivity. I always gave her the credit she was due, and also took care of her every day for years, following failing health, stroke and alzheimers, while her other two children rarely saw her, still feeling the distance she kept us at all of our formative years. I really do know the differences between "can't" and "can, but won't", and I know that you're out of line.
Mrs. Richards here...My brother was a single father of 2 (girl and boy) and they're both very level headed kids (now adults with their own babies). Jeremy never apologize for your soft heart. I'm the same way and that just show's the kindness of our hearts for others. So much love it overflows.
Oh my goodness! I thought I was the only one who felt this way when you said that the empty nest was like a death. My 15 year old son left home to go live with his dad and although I understood that a boy needs his father, I was crushed and mourned as if he had died for about a year! I understand your broken heart dad! Parenting is the most difficult job on the planet. Thank goodness I have God in my life to lean on because otherwise I don’t think I would have survived emotionally!
I couldn't agree more! My son is married and they come to visit me every now and then but,everytime they leave I feel a part of me leaves and feel a deep sense of loss and grief for days.I am currently going through that.
My husband told people he worked with that you have to have a hobby before retirement. We both do. He has taken wildlife pictures since he was a teenager, he's 72 and still takes really good pictures.
It was Beautiful to hear from Jeremy’s Dad & to see how close they were & are! I raised my daughter as a young widow from age 29 alone. I had no help & I don’t regret doing it alone although besides loosing my husband it was the most difficult thing & the proudest thing I have done! Cudos to Jeremy’s Dad for raising his son!🙏🙏🙏Blessing’s
I was forced into disability retirement from law enforcement. It took me 5 years to become more comfortable with retirement! I couldn’t perceive myself as not being able to do much of anything, let alone my career choice. It’s hard to go from the excitement of law enforcement and the diversity of circumstances that you’re facing, to doing absolutely nothing! There are so many different stories in everyone’s lives. Enjoyed the video. I was lucky enough to be able to work with both my father and brother in law enforcement.
What a great pod cast. I’m glad Melissa addressed the skin color, I guess I assumed Jeremy’s dad was dark like him. What an awesome dad you have Jeremy. I loved watching your dad and seeing that you both have the same features and mannerisms…guess the apple didn’t fall far from the tree. And a great big shout out to Mr.Souza for finally agreeing to be interviewed…way to go dad! Hope we get to see him more often along with Melissa’s dad. I think the two of them together would be interesting and fun. I never knew my biological dad so I don’t know what mannerisms I have from him all I know is I look like him. That’s hard sometimes.
“I love you son! I am VERY proud of you ♥️” Seeing Jeremy GLOW was, for me, the sweet spot of this video. I am very proud of all of you that you can show us what adulting and being raised with strong values and character is like. This is a keeper and an indication of the amazing content yet to come in 2024. Watch out Chip and Joanna - there might not be any guest slots left on New World Old Soul!
Wow! I'm blown away. Your Dad just shared my family story. I live in La Center, WA and have been watching your channel since before you left Battleground. I knew Jeremy that your family history was from Hawaii but listening to your Dad's story I was so surprised. Our family history's are the same. My ancestors are also from Azores Islands to Hawaii. They left there to Sonoma, CA. We still have our family homestead in Sonoma but the town became a tourist town and too expensive for my siblings and I to remain. We all came up north. So I'm left thinking your Dad's ancestors and mine might of been friends and maybe even traveled together. You guys have a great channel, always enjoy. Thank you :)
Oh my heart! Love how Jeremy gets choked up talking about life with Dad. That is so precious! I was not single parent, however most people thought I was, because my other half did not leave the house, nor go to church with us. Our oldest two moved out; one unexpectedly, the second after she planned ahead...but it was when the youngest had an argument with Dad and moved out shortly after. Haven't seen them much since. I think they would all come home regularly if he wasn't there. I hate being an empty nester. I'm so lonely. So now church is my life. And I go to my parents every week, because now I know the importance of being there for them. Hopefully some day my kids will do the same for me.
I was raised by a single dad after our mom passed he was military and had to fight to be able to keep us with him wherever he was stationed Germany mostly He had 4 girls and one son younger than me the middle child The oldest was 12 youngest 6 mos. We had a very good life. He was strict part dad lot of.military. No grandparents. I truly admire Single dads. He made our life as normal and happy as possible. Love love hearing this❤❤❤
As a couple, you two pressed on through so much , keep going , you not only survived but thrived with such a doubtful support. Watching you two has been so inspiring and refreshing . You built major infrastructure on all levels ; nice to peek back once in awhile like this but keep going ... you have love and support in each other and us .Thank you for being a family to all of us on you tube .
My daughter is half Filipino, I`m white, she looks completely Asian and her friends would say (every time!) they met me for the first time that they did not know she was adopted, I would say to them, oh no, she is mine, I have stretch marks to prove it ! Mixed babies are so beautiful 😍
Living in Hawaii my two boys had similar experiences. Omg the latch key, swap meet shorts, shirts and rubber slippers was a thing for sure. Hawaii during the late 80’s and 90’s was the best place to grow up for kids back then. Lots of sports programs, parks and places to be that created a safe place to become independent.😊
This is the best Podcast ever. Brought back a lot of memories raising my kids. The heartbreaks of them leaving. My oldest son died at 27 yrs old of a heart attack. All the roads in life seem to be same for us all. Love this podcast. The most real time of life we can share with each other. Keep up the good work. Love to you all.
This was really good! I love when families can sit down and discuss life without blaming and yelling at each other. I love Jeremy, he just loves his family so much and wants to protect them. Jeremy, you honestly picked the best wife for you. She’s right there with you to help you shoulder all the responsibilities. Remember it’s the two of you together! I’m Portuguese but was born in the US. My dad was born in the Azores and my mom’s parents were both born there too. I commend your dad for raising you and doing his best to bring you up despite what happened. I can’t help but wonder if you saw your mom or if she just went away for good. No matter what, Jeremy has worked hard to be the man that he is. I love your family! ❤️
I was a single mom raising two sons and can understand so much of what your father was explaining. I was not easy on my son's but I did what I had to do. My son's turned out good men. My youngest is a Veteran he did 3 tours very proud. It was a honor to hear about Jeremy and his father. They are so similar just listening to them talk. Like the new name it definitely represents your podcast. Continued blessings to your family.
Iam glad they talked about single dads Iam one of those guys had two wonderful kids and it was hard but you love your kids and do what you have to do and both my kids came back to me as adults and said thank you ❤
Howzit great people!!🤙🏼🙏🏼❤️ Been watching your channel for a couple years now. I use RUclips mostly for fixing stuff, DIY ideas, and anything homesteading/gardening. As you can see for the last one, your channel popped up as one of the first ones. The first video I watched, I immediately knew that Jeremy was a local boy. I am from the Big Island. Born and raised. Born in 1978. Very very Similar upbringings. Except I grewup with a single mom. Eventually moved in with her boyfriend. I call him my stepdad though. Great man. Love him to death. But the man in my life that was the most impactful was my Papa. Dam…. I’m tearing up typing this. He was my best friend. My mentor. My role model. He taught me everything I know. From tying a fishing hook, to growing food, to fixing a car, to treating a person with respect and Everything in between. Everyone in my family says that I am a mirror image of him. From my mannerisms to how I am with the kids to helping family fix stuff. I take that as a MASSIVE compliment. With that being said, it truly is the single most important and impactful part of a young mans life, is to have a man in their lives. A man of structure and a strong foundation. A man of integrity and character. Hardworking. That was my Papa. A simple man that gave to others more than himself. Jeremy, you are your father. Just like I am my Papa. The way you carry yourself and how you handle life, is how your dad did it. One foot in front of the other. Keep moving forward. Absolutely beautiful. You have a beautiful family. Always stay grounded and never over do it. Keep it simple. Especially when it comes to money. Keep yourselves focused on integrity and morals first. Kids are like sponges. Just like how you and I were with our men in our lives. Much love and Aloha to you all!! ❤🙏🏼🤙🏼
Jeremy reminds me a lot of my son, with the expressions especially. I'm his Dad's age (64). It broke my heart when Jeremy emotionally choked up 😥. I wanted to reach in the phone and give him a hug! 😊. I really enjoy your talks. Great new name also!
What a great guy! Lovely to hear your Dad, it reminds me of the old saying “like father like son”.i really look forward to these podcasts as well as your weekly videos.
Well now I know why you are the man that you are Jeremy. Your father is not only awesome but pretty wise. I totally understand the whole empty nesting thing, and he is right. It is gut wrenching. He is also right that you have to let them fly. And I always wonder in the back of my mind if I did a good enough job getting them ready. You guys have done an amazing job so I have no doubt they will be just fine. Excellent podcast. Really stirred up a few things in me. Thank you!
My daughter was pregnant s at age 17. Her and her boyfriend( who we knew all along would be her husband) had their son on May 7,they both graduated high school on June 6th. She turned 18 o Sept 15 and they married on the 18th. They will celebrate 25 years of marriage this year. They had three children and adopted the 4th. Their two oldest children are married. I couldn't be more proud of them. The beginning was hard,family members would rather shamed us than support us. But we made it through!
Jeremy I wish there were more dads like you and your dad through good and bad. My daughter a few years ago told me she now understands why I did and being strict on her and her siblings. You will know them by their fruit. My grandkids continue to say thank you, please and think of others. While it was hard look at your family dynamic. Your family is truly Blessed. 🕊🙏🏽🔥
Mahalo Souza ohana for sharing your roots. I get your dads ways of doing things. He did the honorable duties of being a dad with no manual to look at. Moving to Washington then to Idaho and losing the connections to this aina and your kids connection to Hawaii is hard. I get it. Almost moved off island due to pandemic but stuck it out. Life is expensive here and we pay for it. If I were younger I believe I could have built like you guys. Moving to a conservative state like Idaho has itʻs benefits, living in Hawaii, although not conservative yet family oriented does as well. "You do you", nice quote, and mahalo for being a blessing to us on RUclips. Jeremy and Melissa you both rock and continue to grow. Even though, "life is not fair we all have to get used to it." Growth never ends. God bless.
Watching all three again. My son’s Dad was not a Dad. I raised my one son with three fosters ( one boy my son’s age and two girls. Full family. Taught them to sail and raise animals. My parents only wanted each other so they never attended activities or encouraged me in any way. I am just so impressed with the three Dads in your family. Loved it beyond words. Just tears.
I’m Jeremey’s Dad. I only have 1 son (21), it was just him and I from when he was 3yrs old. He, ironically, went to college in Hawaii. I was so proud of him and happy for him. I was also devastated. I had to pullover in the rental car driving back to the airport alone because I was sobbing. It’s everything you want as a parent, your child to spread their wings. It’s so hard at the same time. I really enjoyed listening to this. **Jermeys dad is spot on, it is like a death. I feel seen & heard**
Thirty eight years law enforcement, and I'm retired now. Salutes to your dad.... You butt heads with the criminals, the public, your supervisors, and even your spouse. After 3 divorces myself, I had to work harder to maintain the work which kept me from going broke, paid my child support, and housed and fed me. Worked three jobs to make up for the low income police work is famous for. If your dad seems "hard hearted" or distant most of the time, it is because he has the "beaten dog syndrome". I am the same way. Our life experience has hardened our outlook on life and people. Glad he is "off the leash now". I can tell he is still hyper-vigilant, and still in his head. Just let him know, he is not alone out there... I, and hundreds more, are just like him.
It’s still there, especially when I’m out. I see things, actions, people that most wouldn’t notice. You know. My wife has learned even when we go to restaurants etc. that I always face the entrance if possible. My head is still on a swivel.
I agree that RUclipsrs are not influencers. What have they've done to influence? Sitting behind a camera for 2 hours, talking gibberish while doing makeup is not reality. People need to wake up. It's not about material things, expensive cars, or going to parties. As a wife, I barely have time for myself. So, to see these youtubers getting plastic surgery, partying, drinking, and leaving their children with family members is nothing to look up to. I'd rather watch channels like this one.
Thanks for this Podcast! My Dad was left to raise for young children (5, 3, 21 months & 3 months old) on his own when my mother decided to walk away. Times were very hard... We moved from southern Georgia to Washington DC right after she left for a new job. The people that surrounded us shielded us from knowing how poor we really were. I wish that my Dad had not felt the need to give us a 'mother' figure as our stepmother was cruel and abusive. He married her when I was eight and life was never the same again...and not in a good way 😢 The experience did, however, make me into a better wife and Mom for my own children 😊 Great broadcast!
I swear to the good lawd above that Jeremy has the softest heart known to men. Melissa you don’t know just how lucky you are 🍀!! You have a REAL man as your husband and alot of women envy what you have so continue to be thankful for what you have sweet girl. Yall always bring a smile to my face. 😇😇
My son always called me “old school” and I always said your right son… I AM! I knew when he said that so when he realized I did my job… when he thanked me for not giving into his antics growing up and he said, I’m glad you were “old school”, my friends parents wanted to be their kids friends instead of their parents and it was not good for them!! I was grinning every time he said that… I did my job!! ( I was single parent to boot!!) He turned 30 years old, this year!
You guys do a great job. Prayers for more subscribers. Love today's content. Real life. Hold your family close. Life throws curve balls. I lost my husband on Dec 14th. He had dreams for our bird rescue.
I think this was the 1st time I saw Jeremy's dad. There was a definite likeness when he was younger. I can't relate to the single parent thing, never married, no kids. My parents devoiced when I was 14, that was rough. So, I saw some of what it is like. From what I see now, you all did very well, and I think the LORD would agree. Keep up the hard job of being good at what you do. Melissa is still the one that softens the rough spots, I could see that in this podcast. I will pray you get people to like and subscribe, we need more like this content. 🙏💯
All I can say is how INCREDIBLY IMPRESSED I am with Jeremy. Young man, you exhibit every single virtue that I hold in high esteem in a man. Honesty, integrity, doing what is necessary without complaint, not whining, and God and family first. My dad was a depression baby from a broken and dysfunctional home and one of his early mentors in the military told me after he died that “Your dad made more of himself coming from less than any other person I’ve met.” I see the same in you. Well done!
I’m 60 I know exactly where your Dad is coming from. Baby Boomers are tough and resilient. People look at our era as old and Alien. Lol. We are tough and focused. No BS
"Priced out of paradise" I remember when various states recruited police officers. I lived in California for 16 years before returning home to Hawaii. It is outrageously expensive. The decisions we make when we approach that fork in the road is life changing. Mahalo for sharing your life stories. 🤙🤙♥️❤️♥️
My husband walked to school every day of his life, no matter the weather. Jeremy love your dad, your voice is just like your dad, so sweet. I miss my dad so much.......
Wow....GREAT podcast! It was so great to finally hear from Jeremy's dad-what a guy!! Thanks for doing this interview guys...it really was interesting to hear more about Jeremy's side of the family and learn more about what makes him "tick." WELL worth the time spent to listen! Love from MN
I’m halfway through-the word heartbreaking when your kid moves away is absolutely true. My oldest daughter moved to WY in the middle of nowhere and my only grandchild too. Now she’s pregnant again with our second grandchild. It just makes me so sad they are so far away. And now her dad (my ex) and my middle son are moving to WY. My youngest (they are all adults) just graduated high school and isn’t into moving to WY as he’s just started his adulthood. Like how do you even deal with all that without being torn apart inside? Ugh. Now I’m crying. My mom also just moved to southern Idaho from CA. My husband and I bought our first house only 2.5 years ago. We love our place and tried to make it a home for all of us, but it just seems like it was all too late 😢Different things have happened through the years and we both have great jobs but it’s kind of a bummer that we don’t make more money to be able to easily travel. But-I don’t spew problems unless I have solutions in mind. Am I sad, yes. But I’m a problem-solver and this year I’m going to figure it out. I know everything works out, it’s just different for every person. Those “one decision away from a whole different path” moments. ❤
Ps-I love your dad! My husband is also a single dad of a son as well (my stepson). It is so difficult watching him go through things like your dad has as his son has had a lot of struggles that trickles down from his absent mother. I was in a relationship with his dad for three years before I ever saw his mom, and it was the day after his birthday and she walked right past him in Starbucks and didn’t even recognize her own son. So that’s what he’s dealing with-so hard. I have to remind myself to only be strategically critical as he gets older to remind him and his dad that it’s absolutely not ok for people to do what she has but in a way she has blessed him by staying away, as hard as it is. Watching your mother become an addict (although she always was), would be harder, IMO. Anyhow, I just truly value single dads raising their children. Of course moms too but we are different creatures. While sad, it is definitely true that while two loving parents can be better than one, you really only need one good parent. One person that can keep you on the straight and narrow and the dependable one that you know will always be there. The one that eats last, the one that buys the diapers 😊, school uniforms, takes you camping (you mean everyone doesn’t do that?), celebrates you everywhere they can, and teaches you what matters most, in the end. PS-remind me not to watch your show while I’m supposed to be working 🤦🏻♀️-I write too much! #deardiary lol
I came across this channel by accident but quickly became hooked! I feel like I was a bad Mom for working as much as I did when my children were growing up. I have turned your channel on to my 19 year old daughter because I feel like you both have better life advice for her, than I do! Crazy but you two are like parents to my youngest child-offering better life advice than her Father or I ever could. Thank you, for that!!
More parents should do this with their children. A conversation with each other. I'll definitely do it. Makes many things clear how and why. A nice vlog and respect for your father.
Hello my dears, I am a single mother of 3, the youngest is 25 years old, it was very difficult but today it is very rewarding to see that it was worth it. Hugs from Portugal ❤🥰🙏🇵🇹
Jeremy, thanks for bringing your dad on. I was one of his dispatchers when he lateralled to WA (I was the dispatcher the night Bachmeier did his deed). My husband was LEOFF 1 so I didn't need to worry about it, but I related to the 60+ hr weeks, and how hard it must have been to make sure he got the high 5 in before hitting retirement. Raising a son while doing that? Impossible, and yet he succeeded. Congrats on retiring, surviving, and being such a good parent to an amazing son.
May I soften the conversation about Jeremy in school…. Without a mom in the home to remind the kids to take their homework to school & turn it in… as well as take their lunch with them, etc…. Kids need gentle & loving reminders & encouragement.
Jermey I beg to differ. You are a prime example of a patient, kind, loving father. I have watched your family build your dream home from day one. Melissa is also the perfect Mother and supporting wife. Thank you for your time in making your channel a joy to watch!
NWOS: Great beginning and extremely emotional, Seeing all of you getting choked up by reminiscing over the years the law enforcement, the careers, just one of the most touching heart, wrenching, emotional filled podcast and a beautiful way to start off New World, old souls, and NWOS and Way to go Melissa and Jeremy and great to have your father Mark Jeremy with you to reminisce this is such a touching episode to be sitting here watching I wish the entire Souza, Family and GSL the best of the new year and congrats on the new name and NWOS New World old souls take care and God bless from Regina Saskatchewan 🇨🇦🇨🇦🇺🇸🇺🇸🇺🇸🇺🇸🙏🏻🌹😎
Now it is easier to understand Jeremy’s heart and commitment to family!! He had a wonderful, strong and supportive foundation! It is apparent that Jeremy, you are blessed to have the father you have that led to you being the father you are!! The parental blessings are generational!! Thank you to the three of you for sharing your inspirational story!
Great podcast. Felt intrusive when Jeremy was talking about his past life. Really felt for him. His Dad is such a lovely man and obviously cares deeply for his son. I really admire your bravery in tackling difficult subjects. Thankyou for inviting us along for the ride.❤❤❤
I was a single Father and raised my son from the time he was 11 until he moved out at 20 years old. My son has told me that he is the man he is today (married with two sons) and is very similar to Jeremy. I raised Jacob in the same vein you were raised. Real love has no boundaries. Great podcast.
Look at the husband and Dad you are today. A million skills to teach your children and a super support to your wife and children. Love shows up loud and clear. It is nice to see men share feelings and understand where they are today. The positive of their lives. Everyone wins.
This is a awesome podcast. Jeremy didn't fall far from the apple tree. Melissa, Good Simple Living comes from a very loving mother (you) point of view! It's spectacular ✨️.
I have three sons from 30 -35.... I am your fathers 'vintage'. I agree that you never stop worrying, it's our job to do so, but also agree you can't tell them what to do, they are on their path in life and I am on mine. My philosophy is that - I may have given birth to them but they are not MINE, my/our job is to set them up in life so they can cope on their own but always be there if they need me/us. I taught our sons HOW to think, not WHAT to think which i think is a big mistake of a lot of parents, they try and tell them what to do and the course they should take or in some way project their dreams for them on to them rather than allow them to find their own path and encourage them. As long as they are not breaking the law, have good manners and are respectful to others I will be proud of them...and I am...VERY proud. Someone said once that you only have to teach children 4 things "Please, Thank You, I am sorry and I give you my word" once they learn those fundamental things you have a good person standing in front of you. And re where they live...."roots and wings" teach them to value home but encourage them to fly.....do that and you will never lose them. I think you are doing an awesome job, from what I can see. And I like your Dad, and Jeramy would make any parent proud, so he did a great job and can take come credit for how you turned out, but it's credit to Jeramy too. I would be very proud of you if you were one of my sons.
Wonderful podcast!❤️ I was a single mom of four, 3 boys and 1 girl (after 13years of marriage, not a good one) I had to be the mom and the dad, disciplinarian with love early on. God put on my heart early on that they would all be bigger than this 5’4” mom and I needed them to know respect goes both ways, because of God’s guidance my kids turned out great despite all the odds against them. And I agree when your kids grow up and move out it is a time of you rejoicing for them but mourning for you. It’s my greatest joy when they all come home to visit at the same time!❤️
YOUR DAD IS A WISE MAN. I LEFT THE ISLANDS IN '89. THE CHANGE IN EVERYTHING WAS A SHOCK FOR A WHILE. ONCE I FIGURED OUT HOW TO STAY DRY AND WARM AT THE SAME TIME LIFE IS GOOD. MAINLAND HAS BEEN GOOD TO ME AND GOOD FOR ME. SINCE 1990 I HAVE NEVER QUESTIONED THAT DECISION.
My first retirement was like dropping off a cliff. After 40 years at a newspaper with 50-60 hour weeks, I figured I’d sleep for three months, then play forever. Wrong. Six months in, the assistant dean in mass comm emailed to ask if I would teach a course. I answered immediately with “yes.” She replied almost as quickly with “you’re bored, aren’t you?” Me: “OMG. Yes.” That was 10 years ago and I’ve been teaching full time for five years. Not stopping unless I have to. Your Dad is awesome!
Really excellent. So glad to hear from your dad. My parents wisely always "let us go". The result was that we always wanted to come back for vacations, etc. I came back and took care of my mother for 7 years. I now own the 5-acre property where I grew up and care for it.
Great podcast! I have said it before, I love that Jeremy wears his emotions on his sleeve when it comes to his family. My guy is the same way and I find it very endearing. Happy New Year and I love the name change!
Jeremy... my heart totally understands your childhood divorce hurt. I'm so sorry that has to be your story. I get it. As a kid it wasn't as hard for me during my parents divorce... but now that I'm in my 40's... the bitterness about the situation .... is such a battle for me that I struggle with letting go of and healing from.
I was a single mom of two Jeremy. It was really hard. I have regrets; however, I know I fought like a lioness to give them a stable life. Your dad sounds the same. I’m so glad you and your dad survived! ❤❤❤❤❤
Jeremy and his dad are like brothers. Expressions and mannerisms and all.😂
I'm blown away to see two men be men and love thier family and be responsible I wish more men were like the two of you men. it's a beautiful moment to see a son love his dad.
I agree with you, if more men were like this than the world would be definitely better, but unfortunately, lotta deadbeat dads and a lot of single moms and I’m sure there’s single dads too. Not at all men are bad I’m just saying, we have an epidemic of boys being raised without fathers.
@@lisalambert1465 Melissa and Jeremy are bringing their kids up to be better women and men that is rare these days. Children need a parent one or two that care Jeremy's dad is the real deal even if he made mistakes we all make parental mistakes but he owns it and he should be a proud dad.
There are a lot more good men out there than you think. Sadly, a lot of them are taken for granted by their wives and even children.
@@risanch I know that as well,and we can teach our kids right and wrong,live by example , share Christian beliefs and they still going to make mistakes some choices cant be done over.
Thank you very much for this video 😊
His dad was me. I was mad, angry and not a great father. I'm so disappointed in my past and am a much better father today. My sons, thankfully, turned out to be outstanding fathers and husbands.
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I really appreciate Jeremy’s Dad coming and open to any questions!
Tough love is not easy but necessary.
It was enl8ghtening and beautiful! Thank you!! I wish that I could have done this with my father. It was too late! God bless you!
I am fascinated watching Jeremy’s dad talk & seeing how much Jeremy is like his dad in mannerisms & voice. I would love to see a picture of his mom
I’m a mush. Jeremy made me tear up. My husband and I got married after 3 months. I was pregnant. Married 48 years! Life’s a roller coaster! Good men are hard to find. We are all lucky!
This was a great podcast. I was a single Mom and my son tried to take the potion of man of the family. My 2 children came to my office and did their homework than played Cave on my mini-computer until I left work. He and I were very close as the 3 of us walked through those rough times. We went camping and fish both on Mt Hood and the coast. But the rough time made us closer. And the night before he died of a massive heart attack at 57, he called me and told me how much he loved me and he was the man is was because of how we never give up. It was like listening the similar things that single parents go through raising their children. My son & his wife were pregnant and got married and that marriage lasted 40 years before he died. What a wonderful podcast!
Wow! My condolences on the loss of your son. It appears that you all made the best of a bad situation & triumphed. So sorry that you lost him. My heart goes out to you 🙏
I am so sorry for your loss . I hope his family lives near ! 🌸
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We’re a police family and my husband is retired from the LAPD. He had a very rough time with retirement and became depressed. It’s such a demanding job that it’s a huge adjustment to just stop. And my husband was real strict with our kids. I understand this dynamic so well. I love that Jeremy has such a tender heart. My son, who is also named Jeremy, is the same and it’s the best trait for a big strong man. Be grateful that those emotions are at the surface and not buried and closed off.
WOW ... Jeremy looks, sounds and has mannerisms like his dad.
That's what I thought.
It was awesome to meet Jeremy’s Dad! It was heartbreaking at moments, and so very sweet throughout. He is so interesting and genuine.
I hope having him on the podcast was helpful for you, Jeremy.
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Once your kids, always your kids, until you leave this life. Wait until your 70s. In our society, older people are ignored or even abandoned. It's sad because even though the experiences are old, the lessons and wisdom can be a priceless resource.
I became a Mama when I was 15, my husband was 17. We married and raised that baby girl together. She just turned 50. Our lives have been amazing. We are still married and enjoying these grandbabies. You can do it. You can love one another through the worst of times.
Emotional baggage can alter your ability to love others. This was a good one!!
I so agree!👍🏻
Emotional baggage also alters how you can accept love too
I learned at 66 who my father was.....I never met him, and nobody knows where he is buried. I found out that I have a brother too, Life goes on and God directs us to things to what we need to know or do.
I love your dad he is so cool. You can see it in his eyes of how proud he is of you Jeremy.
The raw emotion from Jeremy had me weeping. I'm a couple years older than his dad, growing up in the same era. My dad died before I was 2, so I was a fatherless child, as were my brothers. Our mom was the opposite of Melissa, not for us, always working away from home, and never trying to be a part of our lives and showing interest in us or our extra-curricular activities. One of the reasons I enjoy watching GSL is because Jeremy and Melissa seem to be the perfect parents that any kid would love to have had, including me. I think their kids are the most blessed because of who their parents are. Seeing Jeremy struggle about Nevaeh's possible "leaving the nest" is touching. I think that transition home above the garage and even the tiny home in the barn are both potential stepping stones to keep the kids closer and safer while they're testing their wings, so to speak. I wonder if they have a clue about the depths of their parents' love for them and protections for them in regards to these accommodations. As a parent myself, I admire you guys for bucking the "system" and taking the challenge to build a life and future truly with your children's best interests in mind and at heart. Having parents showing them love and favor and interest is truly a blessing that many children never know. I love it for them, and I know how fulfilling it is to be able to bless your children as you two are doing.
God bless y'all !❤
Your mom was a very young widow raising many children on her sole income. She had all of the stress to feed, house and pay for your extracurricular activities. Of course she couldn't be a doting homeschooling sahm. Go call your mama and tell her thank you
@@DearestDawn please don't misunderstand what I did and did not say. Her mother and sister kept us, all 3 of us, while she partied with her friends nights, weekends, and holidays. My grandmother used to tell people on the phone -yes, in front of us- how our mom didn't give us a thought, all she cared about was partying with her friends. And no, we didn't get to do the extracurricular activities because when we wanted to, she didn't take us, pay the fees, or buy the scout uniforms, dance shoes, clothes, and baton. She always agreed to, but wouldn't follow through. And yes, she did get a small amount of Social Security for us, because our dad was a veteran. She paid nothing for housing for the first 8 1/2 years, living with her family. Back then, women didn't make much money, and to be able to work, she had to have help, but her sister shouldered the housing and house bills alone. But the choices she made to behave like she was single when we were very young, and living emotionally distant, were harmful to her newly fatherless children, and her family resented her for taking breaks that they couldn't, because we were very young and needing someone with us.
I never said or implied that it was easy for her, and you try to make me out to be ungrateful, but you're missing all of the rest of the story, that couldn't be here for its length and sensitivity. I always gave her the credit she was due, and also took care of her every day for years, following failing health, stroke and alzheimers, while her other two children rarely saw her, still feeling the distance she kept us at all of our formative years.
I really do know the differences between "can't" and "can, but won't", and I know that you're out of line.
Mrs. Richards here...My brother was a single father of 2 (girl and boy) and they're both very level headed kids (now adults with their own babies). Jeremy never apologize for your soft heart. I'm the same way and that just show's the kindness of our hearts for others. So much love it overflows.
Oh my goodness! I thought I was the only one who felt this way when you said that the empty nest was like a death. My 15 year old son left home to go live with his dad and although I understood that a boy needs his father, I was crushed and mourned as if he had died for about a year! I understand your broken heart dad! Parenting is the most difficult job on the planet. Thank goodness I have God in my life to lean on because otherwise I don’t think I would have survived emotionally!
I couldn't agree more! My son is married and they come to visit me every now and then but,everytime they leave I feel a part of me leaves and feel a deep sense of loss and grief for days.I am currently going through that.
My husband told people he worked with that you have to have a hobby before retirement. We both do. He has taken wildlife pictures since he was a teenager, he's 72 and still takes really good pictures.
Awesome podcast! Now I see where Jeremy got his got to do what I got to do attitude.
So are Melissa's parents next? Or her sister?😊
I’d agree. Something you’re passionate about. My wife and I love boating, but as I stated the winter in the PNW isn’t conducive with it.
It was Beautiful to hear from Jeremy’s Dad & to see how close they were & are! I raised my daughter as a young widow from age 29 alone. I had no help & I don’t regret doing it alone although besides loosing my husband it was the most difficult thing & the proudest thing I have done! Cudos to Jeremy’s Dad for raising his son!🙏🙏🙏Blessing’s
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I was forced into disability retirement from law enforcement. It took me 5 years to become more comfortable with retirement! I couldn’t perceive myself as not being able to do much of anything, let alone my career choice. It’s hard to go from the excitement of law enforcement and the diversity of circumstances that you’re facing, to doing absolutely nothing! There are so many different stories in everyone’s lives. Enjoyed the video. I was lucky enough to be able to work with both my father and brother in law enforcement.
What a great pod cast. I’m glad Melissa addressed the skin color, I guess I assumed Jeremy’s dad was dark like him. What an awesome dad you have Jeremy. I loved watching your dad and seeing that you both have the same features and mannerisms…guess the apple didn’t fall far from the tree. And a great big shout out to Mr.Souza for finally agreeing to be interviewed…way to go dad! Hope we get to see him more often along with Melissa’s dad. I think the two of them together would be interesting and fun. I never knew my biological dad so I don’t know what mannerisms I have from him all I know is I look like him. That’s hard sometimes.
“I love you son! I am VERY proud of you ♥️” Seeing Jeremy GLOW was, for me, the sweet spot of this video. I am very proud of all of you that you can show us what adulting and being raised with strong values and character is like. This is a keeper and an indication of the amazing content yet to come in 2024. Watch out Chip and Joanna - there might not be any guest slots left on New World Old Soul!
Wow! I'm blown away. Your Dad just shared my family story. I live in La Center, WA and have been watching your channel since before you left Battleground. I knew Jeremy that your family history was from Hawaii but listening to your Dad's story I was so surprised. Our family history's are the same. My ancestors are also from Azores Islands to Hawaii. They left there to Sonoma, CA. We still have our family homestead in Sonoma but the town became a tourist town and too expensive for my siblings and I to remain. We all came up north. So I'm left thinking your Dad's ancestors and mine might of been friends and maybe even traveled together. You guys have a great channel, always enjoy. Thank you :)
Oh my heart! Love how Jeremy gets choked up talking about life with Dad. That is so precious! I was not single parent, however most people thought I was, because my other half did not leave the house, nor go to church with us. Our oldest two moved out; one unexpectedly, the second after she planned ahead...but it was when the youngest had an argument with Dad and moved out shortly after. Haven't seen them much since. I think they would all come home regularly if he wasn't there. I hate being an empty nester. I'm so lonely. So now church is my life. And I go to my parents every week, because now I know the importance of being there for them. Hopefully some day my kids will do the same for me.
I was raised by a single dad after our mom passed he was military and had to fight to be able to keep us with him wherever he was stationed Germany mostly He had 4 girls and one son younger than me the middle child The oldest was 12 youngest 6 mos. We had a very good life. He was strict part dad lot of.military. No grandparents. I truly admire Single dads. He made our life as normal and happy as possible. Love love hearing this❤❤❤
Tenderhearted dads, what a wonderful trait. ❤❤❤❤
Oh Jeremy your emotions just made me burst into tears. It is so nice to see your dad.❤
As a couple, you two pressed on through so much , keep going , you not only survived but thrived with such a doubtful support. Watching you two has been so inspiring and refreshing . You built major infrastructure on all levels ; nice to peek back once in awhile like this but keep going ... you have love and support in each other and us .Thank you for being a family to all of us on you tube .
My daughter is half Filipino, I`m white, she looks completely Asian and her friends would say (every time!) they met me for the first time that they did not know she was adopted, I would say to them, oh no, she is mine, I have stretch marks to prove it ! Mixed babies are so beautiful 😍
Living in Hawaii my two boys had similar experiences. Omg the latch key, swap meet shorts, shirts and rubber slippers was a thing for sure. Hawaii during the late 80’s and 90’s was the best place to grow up for kids back then. Lots of sports programs, parks and places to be that created a safe place to become independent.😊
This is the best Podcast ever. Brought back a lot of memories raising my kids. The heartbreaks of them leaving. My oldest son died at 27 yrs old of a heart attack. All the roads in life seem to be same for us all. Love this podcast. The most real time of life we can share with each other. Keep up the good work. Love to you all.
This was really good! I love when families can sit down and discuss life without blaming and yelling at each other. I love Jeremy, he just loves his family so much and wants to protect them. Jeremy, you honestly picked the best wife for you. She’s right there with you to help you shoulder all the responsibilities. Remember it’s the two of you together! I’m Portuguese but was born in the US. My dad was born in the Azores and my mom’s parents were both born there too. I commend your dad for raising you and doing his best to bring you up despite what happened. I can’t help but wonder if you saw your mom or if she just went away for good. No matter what, Jeremy has worked hard to be the man that he is. I love your family! ❤️
I wondered this too. Did mom play no role in his life? And if not why?
I love your dad, Jeremy. He's a cool dude. I can see where you get it from way better now.
Jeremy your father shaped who you are. I understand it could be hard. But you seem to be an amazing man! God bless you and your family.
I was a single mom raising two sons and can understand so much of what your father was explaining. I was not easy on my son's but I did what I had to do. My son's turned out good men. My youngest is a Veteran he did 3 tours very proud. It was a honor to hear about Jeremy and his father. They are so similar just listening to them talk. Like the new name it definitely represents your podcast. Continued blessings to your family.
Iam glad they talked about single dads Iam one of those guys had two wonderful kids and it was hard but you love your kids and do what you have to do and both my kids came back to me as adults and said thank you ❤
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Howzit great people!!🤙🏼🙏🏼❤️ Been watching your channel for a couple years now. I use RUclips mostly for fixing stuff, DIY ideas, and anything homesteading/gardening. As you can see for the last one, your channel popped up as one of the first ones. The first video I watched, I immediately knew that Jeremy was a local boy. I am from the Big Island. Born and raised. Born in 1978. Very very Similar upbringings. Except I grewup with a single mom. Eventually moved in with her boyfriend. I call him my stepdad though. Great man. Love him to death. But the man in my life that was the most impactful was my Papa. Dam…. I’m tearing up typing this. He was my best friend. My mentor. My role model. He taught me everything I know. From tying a fishing hook, to growing food, to fixing a car, to treating a person with respect and Everything in between. Everyone in my family says that I am a mirror image of him. From my mannerisms to how I am with the kids to helping family fix stuff. I take that as a MASSIVE compliment. With that being said, it truly is the single most important and impactful part of a young mans life, is to have a man in their lives. A man of structure and a strong foundation. A man of integrity and character. Hardworking. That was my Papa. A simple man that gave to others more than himself. Jeremy, you are your father. Just like I am my Papa. The way you carry yourself and how you handle life, is how your dad did it. One foot in front of the other. Keep moving forward. Absolutely beautiful. You have a beautiful family. Always stay grounded and never over do it. Keep it simple. Especially when it comes to money. Keep yourselves focused on integrity and morals first. Kids are like sponges. Just like how you and I were with our men in our lives. Much love and Aloha to you all!! ❤🙏🏼🤙🏼
Jeremy reminds me a lot of my son, with the expressions especially. I'm his Dad's age (64). It broke my heart when Jeremy emotionally choked up 😥. I wanted to reach in the phone and give him a hug! 😊. I really enjoy your talks. Great new name also!
I was a single parent and now retired. I totally understand. You do the best you can.
What a great guy! Lovely to hear your Dad, it reminds me of the old saying “like father like son”.i really look forward to these podcasts as well as your weekly videos.
Well now I know why you are the man that you are Jeremy. Your father is not only awesome but pretty wise. I totally understand the whole empty nesting thing, and he is right. It is gut wrenching. He is also right that you have to let them fly. And I always wonder in the back of my mind if I did a good enough job getting them ready. You guys have done an amazing job so I have no doubt they will be just fine. Excellent podcast. Really stirred up a few things in me. Thank you!
It is SOOO obvious that they are father and son!!!! They even sound alike.
When Jeremy chokes up I lose it every time. I love you two so much! ❤️
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My daughter was pregnant s at age 17. Her and her boyfriend( who we knew all along would be her husband) had their son on May 7,they both graduated high school on June 6th. She turned 18 o Sept 15 and they married on the 18th. They will celebrate 25 years of marriage this year. They had three children and adopted the 4th. Their two oldest children are married. I couldn't be more proud of them. The beginning was hard,family members would rather shamed us than support us. But we made it through!
Jeremy I wish there were more dads like you and your dad through good and bad. My daughter a few years ago told me she now understands why I did and being strict on her and her siblings. You will know them by their fruit. My grandkids continue to say thank you, please and think of others. While it was hard look at your family dynamic. Your family is truly Blessed. 🕊🙏🏽🔥
Mahalo Souza ohana for sharing your roots. I get your dads ways of doing things. He did the honorable duties of being a dad with no manual to look at. Moving to Washington then to Idaho and losing the connections to this aina and your kids connection to Hawaii is hard. I get it. Almost moved off island due to pandemic but stuck it out. Life is expensive here and we pay for it. If I were younger I believe I could have built like you guys. Moving to a conservative state like Idaho has itʻs benefits, living in Hawaii, although not conservative yet family oriented does as well. "You do you", nice quote, and mahalo for being a blessing to us on RUclips. Jeremy and Melissa you both rock and continue to grow. Even though, "life is not fair we all have to get used to it." Growth never ends. God bless.
I am 58 yrs old, the baby of the family and my Dad raised 4 girls when my mom walked out when I was 6 yrs old. Credit to Dad’s. ❤❤
Watching all three again. My son’s Dad was not a Dad. I raised my one son with three fosters ( one boy my son’s age and two girls. Full family. Taught them to sail and raise animals. My parents only wanted each other so they never attended activities or encouraged me in any way. I am just so impressed with the three Dads in your family. Loved it beyond words. Just tears.
I’m Jeremey’s Dad. I only have 1 son (21), it was just him and I from when he was 3yrs old. He, ironically, went to college in Hawaii. I was so proud of him and happy for him. I was also devastated. I had to pullover in the rental car driving back to the airport alone because I was sobbing. It’s everything you want as a parent, your child to spread their wings. It’s so hard at the same time. I really enjoyed listening to this.
**Jermeys dad is spot on, it is like a death. I feel seen & heard**
Thirty eight years law enforcement, and I'm retired now. Salutes to your dad.... You butt heads with the criminals, the public, your supervisors, and even your spouse. After 3 divorces myself, I had to work harder to maintain the work which kept me from going broke, paid my child support, and housed and fed me. Worked three jobs to make up for the low income police work is famous for. If your dad seems "hard hearted" or distant most of the time, it is because he has the "beaten dog syndrome". I am the same way. Our life experience has hardened our outlook on life and people. Glad he is "off the leash now". I can tell he is still hyper-vigilant, and still in his head. Just let him know, he is not alone out there... I, and hundreds more, are just like him.
It’s still there, especially when I’m out. I see things, actions, people that most wouldn’t notice. You know. My wife has learned even when we go to restaurants etc. that I always face the entrance if possible. My head is still on a swivel.
I agree that RUclipsrs are not influencers. What have they've done to influence? Sitting behind a camera for 2 hours, talking gibberish while doing makeup is not reality. People need to wake up. It's not about material things, expensive cars, or going to parties. As a wife, I barely have time for myself. So, to see these youtubers getting plastic surgery, partying, drinking, and leaving their children with family members is nothing to look up to. I'd rather watch channels like this one.
As a single mom .. I needed to this talk.. My dad passed away young 12 years ago . so this was like a talk w my own dad. Such a good podcast !!!
As a single Dad raising my daughter I can relate to this podcast, thanks for sharing! Happy New Year to all! God Bless!
You are awesome! 👏🏻
Thanks for this Podcast! My Dad was left to raise for young children (5, 3, 21 months & 3 months old) on his own when my mother decided to walk away. Times were very hard... We moved from southern Georgia to Washington DC right after she left for a new job. The people that surrounded us shielded us from knowing how poor we really were. I wish that my Dad had not felt the need to give us a 'mother' figure as our stepmother was cruel and abusive. He married her when I was eight and life was never the same again...and not in a good way 😢 The experience did, however, make me into a better wife and Mom for my own children 😊 Great broadcast!
I'm so sorry you went through that ❤️
I swear to the good lawd above that Jeremy has the softest heart known to men. Melissa you don’t know just how lucky you are 🍀!! You have a REAL man as your husband and alot of women envy what you have so continue to be thankful for what you have sweet girl. Yall always bring a smile to my face. 😇😇
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My son always called me “old school” and I always said your right son… I AM! I knew when he said that so when he realized I did my job… when he thanked me for not giving into his antics growing up and he said, I’m glad you were “old school”, my friends parents wanted to be their kids friends instead of their parents and it was not good for them!! I was grinning every time he said that… I did my job!! ( I was single parent to boot!!) He turned 30 years old, this year!
You guys do a great job. Prayers for more subscribers. Love today's content. Real life. Hold your family close. Life throws curve balls. I lost my husband on Dec 14th. He had dreams for our bird rescue.
I'm so sorry you lost your love ❤️ I hope you can continue on with his dream.
I agree with you. I pray for this podcast grow 2024 at least 3 times todays number of 38.2K.
I think this was the 1st time I saw Jeremy's dad. There was a definite likeness when he was younger. I can't relate to the single parent thing, never married, no kids. My parents devoiced when I was 14, that was rough. So, I saw some of what it is like. From what I see now, you all did very well, and I think the LORD would agree. Keep up the hard job of being good at what you do. Melissa is still the one that softens the rough spots, I could see that in this podcast. I will pray you get people to like and subscribe, we need more like this content. 🙏💯
All I can say is how INCREDIBLY IMPRESSED I am with Jeremy. Young man, you exhibit every single virtue that I hold in high esteem in a man. Honesty, integrity, doing what is necessary without complaint, not whining, and God and family first. My dad was a depression baby from a broken and dysfunctional home and one of his early mentors in the military told me after he died that “Your dad made more of himself coming from less than any other person I’ve met.” I see the same in you. Well done!
I’m 60 I know exactly where your Dad is coming from. Baby Boomers are tough and resilient. People look at our era as old and Alien. Lol. We are tough and focused. No BS
The way things happened for your dad is what we call , "A GOD THING!"
"Priced out of paradise" I remember when various states recruited police officers. I lived in California for 16 years before returning home to Hawaii. It is outrageously expensive. The decisions we make when we approach that fork in the road is life changing. Mahalo for sharing your life stories. 🤙🤙♥️❤️♥️
It is lovely to see such a great relationship between father and son. As a parent, it is important to show example, and be tough at times.
Great podcast today. Enjoyed getting to know your dad a little. Tell him for me; Yes Sir, you did a good job raising your son.
Take care
My husband walked to school every day of his life, no matter the weather. Jeremy love your dad, your voice is just like your dad, so sweet. I miss my dad so much.......
Dad shows are the best it can tell both Dads did a great job. You too Jeremy😊
It takes a heart full of Love to be able to shed tears. It’s a sign of strength, not weakness.
Wow....GREAT podcast! It was so great to finally hear from Jeremy's dad-what a guy!! Thanks for doing this interview guys...it really was interesting to hear more about Jeremy's side of the family and learn more about what makes him "tick." WELL worth the time spent to listen! Love from MN
I’m halfway through-the word heartbreaking when your kid moves away is absolutely true. My oldest daughter moved to WY in the middle of nowhere and my only grandchild too. Now she’s pregnant again with our second grandchild. It just makes me so sad they are so far away. And now her dad (my ex) and my middle son are moving to WY. My youngest (they are all adults) just graduated high school and isn’t into moving to WY as he’s just started his adulthood. Like how do you even deal with all that without being torn apart inside? Ugh. Now I’m crying. My mom also just moved to southern Idaho from CA. My husband and I bought our first house only 2.5 years ago. We love our place and tried to make it a home for all of us, but it just seems like it was all too late 😢Different things have happened through the years and we both have great jobs but it’s kind of a bummer that we don’t make more money to be able to easily travel. But-I don’t spew problems unless I have solutions in mind. Am I sad, yes. But I’m a problem-solver and this year I’m going to figure it out. I know everything works out, it’s just different for every person. Those “one decision away from a whole different path” moments. ❤
Ps-I love your dad! My husband is also a single dad of a son as well (my stepson). It is so difficult watching him go through things like your dad has as his son has had a lot of struggles that trickles down from his absent mother. I was in a relationship with his dad for three years before I ever saw his mom, and it was the day after his birthday and she walked right past him in Starbucks and didn’t even recognize her own son. So that’s what he’s dealing with-so hard. I have to remind myself to only be strategically critical as he gets older to remind him and his dad that it’s absolutely not ok for people to do what she has but in a way she has blessed him by staying away, as hard as it is. Watching your mother become an addict (although she always was), would be harder, IMO. Anyhow, I just truly value single dads raising their children. Of course moms too but we are different creatures. While sad, it is definitely true that while two loving parents can be better than one, you really only need one good parent. One person that can keep you on the straight and narrow and the dependable one that you know will always be there. The one that eats last, the one that buys the diapers 😊, school uniforms, takes you camping (you mean everyone doesn’t do that?), celebrates you everywhere they can, and teaches you what matters most, in the end. PS-remind me not to watch your show while I’m supposed to be working 🤦🏻♀️-I write too much! #deardiary lol
Really enjoyed Jeremy’s dad, nice to see they have a good relationship and support, God bless you and your family!
I came across this channel by accident but quickly became hooked!
I feel like I was a bad Mom for working as much as I did when my children were growing up.
I have turned your channel on to my 19 year old daughter because I feel like you both have better life advice for her, than I do!
Crazy but you two are like parents to my youngest child-offering better life advice than her Father or I ever could. Thank you, for that!!
❤️ give yourself grace. None of us are perfect parents, not by a mile. We love them and we try again every day. You're doing great mama
Me as well❤
More parents should do this with their children. A conversation with each other. I'll definitely do it. Makes many things clear how and why. A nice vlog and respect for your father.
Very emotional 😭 Jeremy your a great Dad❤ too
Great interview ! Your dad seems to be a really caring person. I enjoyed listening to him.
You never want your kids to grow up but you've prepared them to be independent , sufficent, self thinkers to survive this new world we live in.
Hello my dears, I am a single mother of 3, the youngest is 25 years old, it was very difficult but today it is very rewarding to see that it was worth it. Hugs from Portugal ❤🥰🙏🇵🇹
Obrigado!
Jeremy, thanks for bringing your dad on. I was one of his dispatchers when he lateralled to WA (I was the dispatcher the night Bachmeier did his deed). My husband was LEOFF 1 so I didn't need to worry about it, but I related to the 60+ hr weeks, and how hard it must have been to make sure he got the high 5 in before hitting retirement. Raising a son while doing that? Impossible, and yet he succeeded. Congrats on retiring, surviving, and being such a good parent to an amazing son.
Hope you’re enjoying life away from KCSO. Seems like so long ago to me. A lot has changed. Aloha!
@@malekodesouza7255 very much!! We're N Idaho folks now too. We keep in touch but it's not the same at all, never going back over there.
May I soften the conversation about Jeremy in school…. Without a mom in the home to remind the kids to take their homework to school & turn it in… as well as take their lunch with them, etc…. Kids need gentle & loving reminders & encouragement.
The interviews with both Grandpas and Jeremy were my favorites of all time. I just finished watching hung all three again. Made my day!!
It’s Tough. Raising kids on your own! Husband leaves you. And it’s just you & Kids!
Much respect for single parents. Great Topic.
Love the New Title!
Jermey I beg to differ. You are a prime example of a patient, kind, loving father. I have watched your family build your dream home from day one. Melissa is also the perfect Mother and supporting wife. Thank you for your time in making your channel a joy to watch!
NWOS: Great beginning and extremely emotional, Seeing all of you getting choked up by reminiscing over the years the law enforcement, the careers, just one of the most touching heart, wrenching, emotional filled podcast and a beautiful way to start off New World, old souls, and NWOS and Way to go Melissa and Jeremy and great to have your father Mark Jeremy with you to reminisce this is such a touching episode to be sitting here watching I wish the entire Souza, Family and GSL the best of the new year and congrats on the new name and NWOS New World old souls take care and God bless from Regina Saskatchewan 🇨🇦🇨🇦🇺🇸🇺🇸🇺🇸🇺🇸🙏🏻🌹😎
Thank you so much 💓 God bless 💓
I could watch you two visiting with Dad for days.
One of your best!
Now it is easier to understand Jeremy’s heart and commitment to family!! He had a wonderful, strong and supportive foundation! It is apparent that Jeremy, you are blessed to have the father you have that led to you being the father you are!! The parental blessings are generational!! Thank you to the three of you for sharing your inspirational story!
Great podcast. Felt intrusive when Jeremy was talking about his past life. Really felt for him. His Dad is such a lovely man and obviously cares deeply for his son. I really admire your bravery in tackling difficult subjects. Thankyou for inviting us along for the ride.❤❤❤
I was a single Father and raised my son from the time he was 11 until he moved out at 20 years old. My son has told me that he is the man he is today (married with two sons) and is very similar to Jeremy. I raised Jacob in the same vein you were raised. Real love has no boundaries. Great podcast.
Look at the husband and Dad you are today. A million skills to teach your children and a super support to your wife and children. Love shows up loud and clear. It is nice to see men share feelings and understand where they are today. The positive of their lives. Everyone wins.
This is a awesome podcast. Jeremy didn't fall far from the apple tree.
Melissa, Good Simple Living comes from a very loving mother (you) point of view! It's spectacular ✨️.
I have three sons from 30 -35.... I am your fathers 'vintage'. I agree that you never stop worrying, it's our job to do so, but also agree you can't tell them what to do, they are on their path in life and I am on mine. My philosophy is that - I may have given birth to them but they are not MINE, my/our job is to set them up in life so they can cope on their own but always be there if they need me/us. I taught our sons HOW to think, not WHAT to think which i think is a big mistake of a lot of parents, they try and tell them what to do and the course they should take or in some way project their dreams for them on to them rather than allow them to find their own path and encourage them. As long as they are not breaking the law, have good manners and are respectful to others I will be proud of them...and I am...VERY proud. Someone said once that you only have to teach children 4 things "Please, Thank You, I am sorry and I give you my word" once they learn those fundamental things you have a good person standing in front of you. And re where they live...."roots and wings" teach them to value home but encourage them to fly.....do that and you will never lose them. I think you are doing an awesome job, from what I can see. And I like your Dad, and Jeramy would make any parent proud, so he did a great job and can take come credit for how you turned out, but it's credit to Jeramy too. I would be very proud of you if you were one of my sons.
I was out of Post Office March of '19 - still feel like I am not accomplishing daily things. Nice to meet you Jeremy's Dad.
Wonderful podcast!❤️
I was a single mom of four,
3 boys and 1 girl (after 13years of marriage, not a good one) I had to be the mom and the dad, disciplinarian with love early on. God put on my heart early on that they would all be bigger than this 5’4” mom and I needed them to know respect goes both ways, because of God’s guidance my kids turned out great despite all the odds against them. And I agree when your kids grow up and move out it is a time of you rejoicing for them but mourning for you. It’s my greatest joy when they all come home to visit at the same time!❤️
YOUR DAD IS A WISE MAN. I LEFT THE ISLANDS IN '89. THE CHANGE IN EVERYTHING WAS A SHOCK FOR A WHILE. ONCE I FIGURED OUT HOW TO STAY DRY AND WARM AT THE SAME TIME LIFE IS GOOD. MAINLAND HAS BEEN GOOD TO ME AND GOOD FOR ME. SINCE 1990 I HAVE NEVER QUESTIONED THAT DECISION.
My first retirement was like dropping off a cliff. After 40 years at a newspaper with 50-60 hour weeks, I figured I’d sleep for three months, then play forever. Wrong. Six months in, the assistant dean in mass comm emailed to ask if I would teach a course. I answered immediately with “yes.”
She replied almost as quickly with “you’re bored, aren’t you?”
Me: “OMG. Yes.”
That was 10 years ago and I’ve been teaching full time for five years. Not stopping unless I have to.
Your Dad is awesome!
Really excellent. So glad to hear from your dad. My parents wisely always "let us go". The result was that we always wanted to come back for vacations, etc. I came back and took care of my mother for 7 years. I now own the 5-acre property where I grew up and care for it.
I am impressed at the topics you present, no holds barred. You put your all into everything you do.
Great podcast! I have said it before, I love that Jeremy wears his emotions on his sleeve when it comes to his family. My guy is the same way and I find it very endearing. Happy New Year and I love the name change!
Jeremy... my heart totally understands your childhood divorce hurt. I'm so sorry that has to be your story. I get it. As a kid it wasn't as hard for me during my parents divorce... but now that I'm in my 40's... the bitterness about the situation .... is such a battle for me that I struggle with letting go of and healing from.
I was a single mom of two Jeremy. It was really hard. I have regrets; however, I know I fought like a lioness to give them a stable life. Your dad sounds the same. I’m so glad you and your dad survived! ❤❤❤❤❤
It’s so wonderful and special the relationship Jeremy had with his dad❤