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How to be a better Father, Husband, and Boyfriend: The Man Talk | Brett Ullman
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- Опубликовано: 18 авг 2024
- I have a new 10-part series called Men: Navigating Everything online now. Here is the link to the first video - • Navigating Life as a H...
One of the most searched terms on my website and my youtube channel is How to be a better father, and how to be a better husband. There are also many searches for Christian husband, Christian men, Christian parenting, How to become a high value man, and many other similar searches. This talk goes through a ton of content to hopefully help you in this area.
This is my full presentation of my talk called The Man Talk. I present this talk in churches and conferences challenging guys to be better fathers, husbands, and boyfriends. I do come from a Christian worldview but this talk is good for anyone.
The Man Talk is what it sounds like - a discussion about what it's like to be a Man today. It's a real talk, a meat and potatoes approach to issues pressing us from all sides:
Being the best Father I can be.
What it's like to be a Husband and a Servant.
Christian men and sex.
Christian dating - A how to.
Boyfriend. Father. SON. Husband. Lover. Fixer. Buddy. Servant. Sexual. Boss. Hero. Boys Adrift. Friend. Guide. Daddy. Courageous. Loyal. Theirs. Mine.
Everybody needs a good talk at some point. And, this is one for you. Everyone's welcome to the man talk - ladies, no jeering. We're working on a talk for you too ;)
Real Men who aren't afraid to talk about Man stuff, and who are better for it.
As Christian men, we need to look at all aspects of our lives. We need to ask what the Bible says about these issues as well. We can get better in our marriages and in our parenting.
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📖 Links to my book Parenting: Navigating Everything
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📖 My Amazon Storefront with links to all the books I suggest on each of the topics I speak on.
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🖥 All of my talks below are now available as online courses. You can find them on my course page - navigatingever...
1. Parenting: Navigating Everything
2. Media.Faith.Culture - the disconnect
3. Mental Health Talk (Hope for The Walking Wounded)
4. Dating.for.life: the questions
5. The Porn Project
6. The Sex Talk
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I have a new 10 part series called Men: Navigating Everything online now. Here is the link to the first video - ruclips.net/video/uQleqCg1CpA/видео.html
Brett, how I wish I could of seen this video years ago when I still had my family at home, it's like you said there is no do over in life. I hurt my wife to the point of no return not physically but emotionally I have scared my wife and broke her heart many times. If there was anything I could do to bring my family back to be the husband and father they deserved I would do it with out thinking twice and hold them ever so tight and never let go. I'm lost and alone I pray God hears my prayers and gives me a miracle
I’m fighting for my family back . I had a ex parta filed against me last Thursday . I’m lost miss my kids n wife. I have 4 weeks till court . I plan to change my attitude. And not emotionally call her names and break her heart. I’m on my wife’s RUclips
This ~ i was looking around for a video regarding fathers because I had seen a small clip I wanted to share with my husband, & I found your videos. I sent my husband this video last night & today after dinner he asked if I wanted to watch it with him. When it got to the part on fathers ~ especially regarding boys ~ he realized it’d been exactly what I’d been trying to get him to hear over the past 22 years while being married. (Our boy is his step son) when you stated to send your kids an “I love you” text ~ he sent our daughter one and then actually sent our boy one ~ as he admitted that he didn’t think he ever told him he loved him. And if THAT ain’t a Miracle tonight ~ Nothing is. Just absolutely Amazing what God has done through you. And I thank you for stepping up to the plate of being willing to teach men how to be better themselves. In a godly manner. ❤
Thanks so much for posting. So great to hear,
God is speaking through you! Thank you for this incredible talk 🙏🏻 I can’t believe some people disliked your video. What sad humans they must be!
Thanks you for your comment. Appreciate the encouragement.
Thanks... hit me badly. I'm letting my wife and kids down daily... heading for a crash. Please pray for me and my family.
Prayers for sure. Try to make daily decisions to be better. I have a few other videoed for men on this channel and many more on my website brettullman.com
Brett Ullman could you call me at 6366965787 thank john
@@nurseangie2009 hi, you are welcome to send me a message. brett@brettullman.com
All I can say is I wish I'd watched this a couple of months ago. Thank you for all the value you added. Appreciate it.
+daryoush mm your welcome. Glad you enjoyed the video
Thank you Brett. This message is illuminating and very timely for me. God bless and keep you. Cheers
This was truly amazing. I'm trying to become a better & improved husband/father for my wife & my daughters and listening to this actually helped me see the flaws that i've heard my wife express over the years. Thank you for this truly.
+K1DCAL1GRAPHY S.M.E your welcome. Glad you enjoyed the presentation. There are a few other videos for men on my channel.
Oh man this video is making me cry. You're so right. The woman in my life had to live without a father.
The Good Lord is everywhere fighting for us. And I thank God for people like this because I was literally getting so many answers and what I didn't know I should have been looking for. Thank u friend I have a long journey ahead of me.
Your welcome. Glad the video helped.
I just want to say thank you Brett this is a great help to me and really has opened my eyes and heart not only to my wife but towards my children and I want to say thank you
Your welcome. Glad you enjoyed it
I have to say the first hour and 30 minutes was inspiring. I'm not religious and still on the fence on whether Jesus even existed which inevitably can be argued on both sides but the information you shared goes far beyond religion even though I know your message is directed towards that. over the past few days I've been listening to a lot of audios about how to become a better father not questioning on whether I am a good father or not but just the kind of teach me things that I don't know. And with that said I thank you
I am so glad you enjoyed the talk and are listening to talks about being a better father. My newest talk for men is called Men Navigating Everything and you can find it on my channel. Here is a link as well - ruclips.net/video/5r_2VA_sgKs/видео.html
I wish I had been wise enough to seek this guidance before I married my wife. This is very eye opening to my shortcomings being the partner my true love needs me to be.
I am in the same boat with you Richard this is an awesome video and I wish I had the guidance that this man is giving long before I got married this is a great eye opener.
Preaching to the choir. I doubt men who do these things or abandon their kids will look for how to be a better man or father videos on RUclips. Was hoping this would actually for men who want to be the best they can be for their families after not having good examples from their fathers or father figures. Too few videos on RUclips actually helping men and not blaming men.
I personally enjoy being told how useless I am. I don't know about yourself but its what makes life bearable.
I wish I had seen this video before my wife and I started dating. It could have helped me understand more of what I’m doing wrong as a husband in my eyes. God bless you for this powerful message
You need yo challenge the 84 perrcent. Women , couples need to communicate if there is some aspect of unhapines. s. Dont wait till a survey
i wish i had sought out this self examination of myself years ago before my son grew to hate me for not being a good father to him and a family on the precipice of falling apart, is it too late? i don't know , however it doesn't meen i cant try
It’s never to late. You can always move forward the try and repair any damage that has been done.
Hitting home already
I'm pinned in the ring taking punch after punch to the face from Brett in the first round. It's soooo much I have to pause the video. I'll need to go back a frew times with my pad of paper to recall all of the things it points out that I can do better. I have spent months watching narsasistic videos trying to figure her out and why she is the way she is, but I finally found the video that just hit hard.. turns out, she's a damn good catch. Thank you for posting this free video.
+Steve DeMello your welcome. So glad you enjoyed the video.
I like your thoughts. But should a relationship/ marriage be 100%, 100%
Because nobody is the others boss.
Those stats on rape and domestic violence are incorrect
Sauce?
@@tylercarter8459 barbeque
Tracy Stephens perfect 👌
Why didn't include being better Sons in your Agenda?
Thank you
Thanks
Your welcome. Many more similar videos for men on my channel.
Left out two bits. More men in prison are raped than women as a whole but people throw those men away in those statistics. Also you left out a generation which is the role of sons . People start young sometimes, the helplessness and anger starts early. A society that doesn't have a strong sense fial piety misses that. The nuclear family is a mistake, bring back extended families so other than your parents other adults are looking out and smacking you - especially important for those without a one or both parents. Lastly Wait til your married to have kids the statistics will show that is the greatest determining factor for ending up in jail, crime, and everything else. Boys need their dads.
Good points
Every man's battle is porn? Every man battles against porn? No sir. Not every man. Not the men who love their wives and girlfriends. For them there is no battle. What does the Bible say? What does the Bible say about love? When you are in it for real there is no temptation from any place. Love is so strong that you see nothing but her. What does the Bible say about love?
Your information is misinforming women rape men alot. It isn't reported and or taken seriously
You lost me with all this toxic masculinity in the beginning.
Help me understand what you mean by toxic masculinity. This talk challenging men to be better fathers, husband, and boyfriends does not fit into what I would call toxic masculinity. love to hear your thoughts. Did you watch the entire talk?
@@BrettUllman1 gladly. This is just how it comes off and I accept it may not have been your intention. You start your discussion with basically saying that violence, rape, and all manner of evil is the domain of men. The stats you give seem to say women don't have these issues. All of that combined sends the message that men are bad and women just put up with us. Ergo, toxic masculinity
@@23tracy91 This is a talk I am doing for men usually so I am only talking about men's stats and not women's. I fully agree that women do all sorts of evil things as well but the stats (that I read) show men doing them at a much higher rate than women. Stats aside the goal is to challenge me to be better men. I apologize if the start came off in a different way to you.
@@BrettUllman1 I don't want to belabor this because I'm sure you're intentions are good and I hope some men can benefit from this. My point is this, you are addressing all men as if they are represented by a statistical minority of criminally violent men. A majority is men are nice and don't bring harm to others. Why then do you wish to reduce the safe and legal outlets for Male energy while telling us we're all already too violent? Don't you think it's that same attitude that has led to the mass drugging of our boys with ADHD meds starting in elementary school. Stop telling us we're detective girls, ya know? We here this same message a thousand times a day and all it's doing is making us turn our back on those who espouse those views.
@@23tracy91 This is not the same anti men message. This is a man who is identifying some challenges for men. I am a Christian, engineer, boxer, ballroom dancer and chef. I believe the Bible teaches gender roles but also believe being a man whom a wife would submit to is not being domineering (which as a fighter I recognize as weakness). As a man I never get bothered by toxic masculinity talks because I don't view them as an attack on me. I see them as a learning oppurtunity about other people's experiences and as a way to be better.
My brother, I challenge you to reconsider why you felt so uncomfortable listening to this video. I have females friends who have been raped and I believe this is especially important for young men who don't have fathers.
Good material but leave the bible out more & talk slower because you look nervous & that does not convey security it shows you in a rush of something. In a nutshell love yourself first , respect yourself & then you can love & respect others or at least begin an attempt to know which direction you need to go ..
Marco Osiris why leave the Bible out??? Why??
@@universecreator7051 because.. the human mind will reject what it is not familiar with. Thus other people that might find this enlightening yet have different beliefs religion wise will automatically partially dismiss it a comfort zone excuse see?
You lost me with the religious nonsense. On to a better video.