Hey there everyone I finally got around to doing a full-on analysis on Blaire White. I had been asked to do one on him for awhile now and at first I wasn't sure I should since I felt like his issues were obvious to those who have listened to him. But I then saw how he was being treated as someone who is "true trans" and it was then that I decided to go ahead and do this video as I felt like maybe it would help coming from a feminine gay man who does understand some of what Blaire has gone through. Again, this is not an attack on Blaire, it's just meant to show that he really isn't "true trans", no one is. Whether it's someone like Blaire White or someone like Chris Chan, the simple reality is that they are both men who think that they are women for the most arbitrary of reasoning. And to those who say that Blaire never calls himself "female", it doesn't matter because he is still trying to insinuate that he is one by calling himself a "transwoman" which there is no such thing as the only way to be a woman is to be 𝐚𝐧 𝐚𝐝𝐮𝐥𝐭 𝐡𝐮𝐦𝐚𝐧 𝐟𝐞𝐦𝐚𝐥𝐞 which he nor any other trans-identifying man is not and never will be. So Blaire not calling himself a female is meaningless when he is still in fact, inferring that he is one by calling himself a "woman" anything. And even though Blaire may call out the more socially unhinged men, this by no means means that he is any different than them and must be held to the same standard, the line must be held. For some more thought-provoking commentary on Blaire, I highly recommend checking out A Slightly Twisted Females' 4 part livestream special on him >>> ruclips.net/video/gMylxByDh5E/видео.html Anyway thank you for watching and until then, I'll catch ya in the next one😊
@@ivydark9741 Yep, he's just an effeminate gay man who's had a few face surgeries (that didn't really do anything) and a pair of chest implants while taking wrong sex hormones. Still a man, will always be a man, and is no woman of any kind.
@@KaiDecadence And yet she has a brain sex structure like that of a woman. She still has done everything she could to transition. IE get hormones, face surgeries, breast implants etc. Now of course we can't do fully biological sex changes yet like how certain species of fish can naturally do. However in the future as science evolves we may be able to do this and be able to change a xy man into a xx woman. Blaire is a transwoman and has the discordant brain to body sex that grants one dysphoria. Because science shows that contrary to what you feminist Commies say Gender is not a Social Construct but is based on brain structure.
Your videos on the LGB and trans ideology has really been eye-opening to me(and this is coming from a Christian, who, for a long time, has been open to at least the LGB part(which I still am), but not so much the TQ+ part), so thanks for that! ^^ The whole “changing your gender” concept, always kinda made me uncomfortable, but I never really spoke up about it, since I’d of course be labeled a “transphobe”, and because I just wanted to come off as “nice”, you know. But after coming across the VERY ANNOYING TRA’s like Ethel Thurston from EssenceLacksThought(who for one, claims to be “trans”, yet goes by both he/she(and maybe even “they” as well, I don’t quite remember)pronouns, two, claims there’s a link between Christianity and abuse(this one should be obvious, of course some Christians are bad, but there’s no need to lump all of us together, just because you personally had a bad experience with us), and three, attacking REAL women like Maria MacLachlan, Rachel Oates and etc.), I’ve grown more and more resentful of trans ideology, and especially annoying activist like Ethel, Jammidodger, and ect. I don’t even like Harry Potter, and I still agree with JKR’s tweets on women’s rights(as I’m also a real biological one), and of course believe the hate for her is out of control. Last year, I even lost a subscriber on here, after I posted on my Instagram story, that I no longer believe in nonbinary ideology, or that kids under 18 should be able to transition(never really thought too much about either of those, when I was brainwashed by the woke mob), and that people like you had opened my mind. I wonder why?🤔 Anyway, sorry for the long comment, just wanted to get this out there, since your videos helped me, and keep up the good work!🖤
You're not a Christian if you're open up to abominations like the guy making the video and ppl like him. Christians need to rebuke him and call his sin out. He needs to repent just like you. Bible says not to justify wickedness.
"Ideology". I didn't know changing your gender was a religion? By the way, it's called the LGBT community, not "LGB", the T is a queer identity whether you like it or not.
@@Spectre-69 There’s a difference between ideology and religious beliefs, and wanting to change your biological sex(which you CAN’T, btw) is NOT a sexuality.
@@Spectre-69 How does one change gender, considering the fact that gender is not real? There is only biological se x. Also, the T is not a sexuality. LGB is. As per the actual definitions, they do not belong in the same category.
It also just wouldn't be true. As I said in the video, Blaire doesn't have anything I'm interested in and he can continue doing all the cosmetics that he wants to himself but that doesn't give him the right or special privilege to enter spaces he has no business being in.
@@KaiDecadenceI know it's not true. Right now, Blaire's ideology is being recognized as the dangerous semi-religion that it is. This kind of stress coupled with the wrong hormones injection must be harming his body tremendously. We're talking about a very poor quality of life. As far as love life goes, his relationship with his boyfriend is very bro-like. I don't believe Joey (?) loves him as much as he fetishizes feminized men.
@@dadeusfortunae Oh for sure. Blaire might not be as forthcoming about the health problems he more than likely is dealing with but to anyone who has looked into how prolonged usage of wrong sex hormones effect the body, we know there is more going on than these people will admit to. It's like how Samantha Lux was caught in his little web of lies when he admitted that he was facing complications with his penovag but then switched it up and said he was facing no complications with it. You can't count on these people to be honest until sh-t really hits the fan. As for his relationship with Joey, I won't say if Joey truly loves him or not but I think the fact they were engaged for like a year or two only to break it off, I do have the thought that I wouldn't be surprised if Joey has no intention on marrying him.
@@KaiDecadence Blaire has transitioned and done all the work she can to be a simulation of a woman she can enter women. Also how do women think they have a right for exclusive spaces when many feminist women have been fighting to tear down all male exclusive spaces.
How GOOD it feels to know you are not harming your body and not tricking anyone. It's so wonderful to live in reality and that's why Blaire and Buck don't have 10% of your inner peace, Kai.
Thank you. Yeah I will acknowledge that it can be hard at times but at the end of the day, I know it's the right path because you keep your health and sanity in relative tact.
Kai, great video. You should also consider doing a video regarding feminine gay male acceptance in the gay community. I was honestly a bit surprised there was a distinction or these were issues in the gay community. I viewed all gay men as having slightly "feminine" characteristics, even the masculine ones. Basically, for heterosexual people, all gay men are feminine in some way so its confusing they have a hard time dating and finding love within the gay community. I don't think the general public understands the difference or what the challenges are in the gay community. Doing a video on this would help explain why some gay men are so devoted to gender ideology; and it would help those gay men considering "transition" to take a step back. Also, I think Blair White and Dylan Mulvaney will end up detransitioning if gender self ID laws end up being overturned. This will have a huge impact on the gay male and lesbian community. Also, I still think it is important to remember that irregardless of the person's race, biological sex, sexuality, personality or how they dress, issues such as love and sex, dating and relationships, and marriage and families are extremely hard and challenging. No one has perfect a love life or life in general. We are all struggling in some way.
Cool. Just remember it's not just Blair White and Dylan Mulvaney who have been pushing gender ideology. It is also well known transwomen/feminine gay men like Kim Petras, Tommy Dorfman, Laverne Cox, Samantha Lux, Eden the Doll, Lilac Gibney, Blossom Brown, Nikki Dragun, Eli North, Jeffrey Marsh, and Rose Montoya and more who are pushing this ideology in the gay community and in the public.
No, the majority of gay are traditional presenting gay men that are represented of gay men gay men don't like feminine gay mainly because most of them are annoying 😤
I do like Blaire, but Blaire would DEFINITELY have lost to Magdalen. Most people would. She was an intellectual heavyweight. There's honestly no one else that would be a better debater for Blaire, because we all know how quickly Magdalen would shut that shit down, and she would do it calmly and wittily. Such a missed opportunity.
For sure, Magdalen was a force to be reckoned with and it's why so many TRAs hated her because she didn't care what you thought about her and would check you if need be. I do think that Brittany (A Slightly Twisted Female) would be a good debater for him. I also think Karen Davis of You're Kiddin' Right would be great as well lol.
@@ireriramirez9330 Magdalen Berns was a radical feminist RUclipsr. She passed away in 2019 from cancer but her videos are still up. www.youtube.com/@MagdalenBerns
@@ireriramirez9330Yes, look up Magdalen Berns. She was a big Gender Critical figure back in 2016ish, but unfortunately she passed away in 2017. She was fucking brilliant and influenced a lot of the current GC people, though imo she was one of a kind.
You made an excellent video here. This needed to be made. Really appreciate you speaking out against Blaire’s ideology. Too many people are blinded by Blaire and believe the hypocrisy. There is hardly any videos debunking his views. It’s quite shocking that so many people give him a pass. hope people start to see him for what he really is.
Thanks a lot. I, too, was tired of the blind praise he was getting when he was is as pr9blematic with this ideology. More importantly, there have been a small few videos made on him that ended up getting taken down. A slightly Twisted Female had her original video on Blaire taken down, but she went on to make some livestream responses to him that haven't been taken down, so that was nice to see. It's just important that Blaire is held to the same standard and not given special treatment. No one is saying that he can't dress how he wants, but he just needs to stay out of women, only spaces njst like any other trans identified man.
Gonna post a bunch of comments with my thoughts on this. I've seen Blaire interact with his mom before on a video and it gives me a weird feeling that I can't accurately describe. It's like uncanny but it's more....like, it doesn't feel like a genuine mother daughter connection, it feels more like a spectacle. It's more like she's just supporting her son as a son who's hyper fixated on something, because she should support him because she's his mom. Idk if that makes sense. Its not the same kind of natural acceptance between mother and daughter. Similar with Blaire and Joey. While Joey appears to he have a more romantic and natural acceptance of Blaire... I can't help but feel there's an underlining feeling of things being unnatural between all parties. It's not just isolating to watch, but it must he alienating to be them. They're not naturally a heterosexual couple and they don't fit together like one. They don't even fit together like a gay couple because of that denial Blaire holds so strongly within himself. I think it's that denial of reality that makes it feel so off putting. I'm not trying to say there's a world in which this could ever be natural. It never will. I'm just postulating that this goes beyond Blaire and this is how all "allies" treat their trans friends and/or family. It's not natural. It's forced and uncanny. You're only "accepted" on principle, not because you are who you claim to be.
First off, Hey! Long time no see, nice to see you're doing alright ☺ Yeah I totally get what you mean, the relationship between the two does feel off and awkward. I think you're right that deep down his mother doesn't actually think he's her daughter but is simply going along with it so she doesn't lose her only offspring. I feel like deep down she also grieves seeing her son go down this path.of self-delusion but can't say anything. He did mention that when he was very young, his mother didn't really accept him and she didn't come around until he was in high school. so that could be another reason why she's going along with it as a way because she might feel guilty for how she treated him when he was very young. As far as Joey goes, he's a closet-case and even if Blaire is in denial of him thinking he's any kind of woman, being with a closet-case is never a great thing to do. Don't be distracted, they are still a gay couple and deep down, I'm sure Blaire knows this whereas Joey is fighting to keep the delusion alive. We've seen how he can't even handle looking at pictures of Blaire when he was young. It's because he doesn't want to break the delusion that's he's not dating a "woman" which gets triggered if he sees photos of Blaire before he started dressing like a bimbo. The off-putting feeling you mention, I believes it's you picking up on how their relationship's foundation is built on a lie. And I get you, deep down the "allies" know that trans-identified people aren't the opposite sex but they go along with it just to be nice.
I have seen videos of Blair without the filters and editing and Blair's body looks like a biological man. Blair has extremely narrow to no hips, broad shoulders and low body fat. Its very obviously a biological male's body. Also Blair looks like Olli London to me but more feminine than Olli. The facial plastic surgery is obvious without filters. I have seen a lot of transwomen in person and the look remarkably and noticeably different from biological women. Plastic surgery and HRT does very little to make biological men look feminine. Also glad you brought up rhe point about what biological women wear, how they style their hair or whether those things make you a woman or feminine. Halle Berry has been called the most beautiful woman in the world for decades and her signature look throughout her 20s 30s, 40s and 50s has been a short pixie cut. No one thinks she looks like a man or looks masculine. In fact, people believe her pixie cut enhances her facial beauty as a woman and femininity. This trans ideology about clothes, hair and makeup is completely illogical and medieval thinking.
Omg, I've mistaken Oli London for Blaire a few times on thumbnails. They really do look alike! If Oli got a long black wig I honestly wouldn't be able to tell them apart, Lol. Blaire used to look more feminine when he was younger and had more fat around his face, now that he's lost weight and had plastic surgery his face looks a little harsh. I wonder how he will look when he's 50. I don't think he will be able to handle getting older.
@sallynopalmolive2384 Yeah, I am not trying to make fun of Blair, but I see Olli London mixed in with little Nikki Cox (after she got plastic surgery) when I see Blair. I don't think people are aware of how severe and noticeable plastic surgery is in person. It changes the person's skin texture and their facial harmony and you can see the scarring in person. All those photos and videos you see of Blair, the Kardashians, Olli are heavily filtered, photoshopped, and retouched.
I also find this line of thinking very regressive. So if I am a woman that never wears make -up, does that now mean that I am a trans man? Bring back the 80s. Prince and David Bowie.
Yes. He definitely has plastic surgery face. He must be seething with jealousy when he says all the "just regular" men around who do have wide hips (for a man). I live abroad and every time I visit the US, it strikes me how many American males have a pear-shape...it's way more prevalent than where I live (South America).
@@erichamilton3373 I live in the US, and I’ve never noticed pear-shaped men. I can think of one or two men that I know who are overweight, and carry a lot of fat around their legs and bum, but that alone doesn’t make them pear-shaped. A man’s shoulder width alone excludes him from being categorized as truly pear-shaped. As for the men I’ve seen who carry more weight on the bottom than most men, it’s really more of an even distribution throughout the body, whereas most men just get big bellies when they’re overweight. And I see that in men from various countries, and of various races and ethnicities.
15:00 I find his constant hair flicking, pouting and boob jiggling really offensive. I do none of these things. I don't do anything to attract male attention. I don't have to. I'm an actual woman and that kind of attention is really irritating. I, and women who are secure and confidential in who they are, just want to be left alone. We don't need constant attention and affirmation. Blaire seems to need that attention all the time. Therapy would be really useful for him to build an internal resource of self confidence so he wouldn't need it from outside of himself all the time. 🤷🏻♀️
Yeah the hair flicking, pouting, and moob jiggling is so unnerving but I know why he's doing it, it's his way of sexualizing himself to the "chaser" members in his audience. And to add, Blaire (and frankly the other HSTS who do this) revel in being ogled because before they "transitioned", they would get next to no attention in the gay scene. As I said in the video, contrary to popular belief, feminine presenting men are not seen as all that attractive and desirable to majority gay men, we tend to be ignored to be honest. So when these feminine gay men "transition", they get a high from the attention because they were used to not getting much of any prior. It's why they don't understand why women do not find this kind of attention appealing because they didn't go through the female experience to see just how uncomfortable it really can be.
I've watched a lot of his content and this is actually new information to me. This is so sad, I hope he will be able to face the reality of who he is, and stop taking hormones which he has admitted has had some negative effects on his body.
Yeah I had watched Blaire in the past during his early years, the whole "anti-sjw" trend and he divulged a bit of his personal life in weekend livestreams he'd. It was just that at the time, I believed in trans ideology so I didn't really question the things he said in them only to realize once I peak transed, there were so many red flags denoting his trauma. And yeah, I really hope he gets off the HRT because he's already been taking them for a decade now and it's really gonna do a number on his physical health when he gets older.
@@KaiDecadence that fake estrogen has really done a number on him already. Isn't it starting to cause problems with chronic fatigue for him? I'm not sure, but I remember but there was already a pretty big difference in his demeanor between the time I started and stopped watching him. It's like he's gone a bit loopy.
@@twocanplay7976 Ah no, I didn't notice but it would make sense because he started them at 23 and is now 30 so that's a long time of taking wrong sex hormones.
@@Spectre-69 If you believe men can become women and vice versa, or that sexuality(LGB) and identity(TQ+) should be lumped together, I’d suggest taking a look in the mirror, before calling others dumb.
Great video Kai....very perceptive....I think you hit the nail on the head with the superficiality of Blair White's schtick....the whole trans ideology of recent years is a house of cards ....you only have to push against it a little bit and it comes tumbling down
Exactly. Once you start asking the hard questions and challenging the trans ideology, it begins to topple over like dominoes and as you keep doing this, you simply cannot believe in the lie anymore.
This was a great video, Kai. I absolutely know I am a woman when, as you said, I take off my makeup, tie back my hair, and put on comfy clothes that aren't sexualized. Yup, fully a woman through and through. I really resonated with the way you phrased that! Hope you keep making content❤❤
You can pretend that you're a woman all you want but not everyone has to play along with your delusion. So as long as you understand that and you are staying out of women only restrooms, locker rooms, and just overall women only spaces, I have nothing to say.
@@KaiDecadence who cares? As long as we look fabulous, something you’ll never achieve. And have you looked at your color? What kind of guy would be into you? I will use the female restrooms. Try me.
@@KaiDecadence boot licker. I don't have to pretend anything because men are genuinely attracted to me and I'm able to sleep with them without disclosing. You think that by kowtowing to cis women you will get something in return? poor little fffffff*****ggggggg
In many videos Blaire talks about being abused and even r@ped very early in life, which, if true, could've caused dissociative disorder he calls being trans. He also claims being Autistic which alone would explain the trans as Autistic people are more susceptive to this trend and there're statistics showing most "trans men" being just Autistic girls, unironically 😢
I didn't know that he claimed to be autistic but I mean, it certainly tracks (speaking from experience as a fellow autistic). That makes even more sense how he hyperfixated on all the negativity that he was dealing with in his life growing. Though yeah, autistic people, in this case autistic gay and lesbian youths who are gender nonconforming can be very susceptible to trans ideology and this is is why it's important to raise awareness on this.
he seems to be also possibly implying csa from his dad in a recent interview, he didn't explicitly say it but he kept saying things like he did a "specific kind of abuse" and that he "doesn't want to say it fully", + that his dad was "a demon, evil, a monster, etc". whenever he's talked about issues with his dad before from what ive seen he's said pretty clearly what he did i.e like verbal/emotional stuff, but in this specific situation he seemed to really want to avoid specificying what the abuse was which makes me think it was probably more severe than things like verbal or physical abuse. i haven't finished this video yet so i dont know if it was mentioned here edit: wait yes im at the end now and it was mentioned
Excellent video! I've seen a recent short here on RUclips from Blaire where he says that he believes trans women are a "type" of man... but I'm not sure he actually believes that🤷 you can't help but feel sorry for young Blaire and all the bs his family put him through😢 Also I definitely remember him saying he didn't want to debate someone with brain cancer, that's how I found out about Magdalene in the first place!
Yes I have seen that clip and like I said to others, it's a load of bullsh-t mainly because 1, they aren't a "type" of man, they just are men period. And yeah, not even he believes it because if he did, he would stop calling himself a "woman" anything ("Transwoman" is just saying "I'm a woman" without directly saying he's one). If he called himself a "trans-identifying man", that would be one thing but he doesn't and this is why his little concession is pointless. And right on, nice to hear someone else remembers that
27:27 - 27:38 about this, in the jubilee video that featured blaire, other trans-identifed or transsexuals were present who wanted to make it clear that women spaces ARE for biological women, and i felt that by them saying this would only make women sympathize with them more enough to want to allow them in female-only spaces. one going by Jessica saying "i choose to use the men's bathrooms to protect women." As heartfelt as it was, this made me realize just how dangerous allowing this feeling of pity and empathy is because it contradicts all of my morals. I understand it was very respectful, but this decision to now allow and accept any man identifying as a woman to enter as long as he can say the bare minimum is just as insulting. on top of that, blaire also said that she was "more emotionally intelligent" after taking estrogen. I'm not too sure how i feel about that, even though Blaire was saying women are emotionally intelligent, i don't think taking hrt makes you understand what being a woman is like or see through the lens of a woman just because you more emotional i guess. it just reminds me of those misogynistic twitter posts from tims saying "estrogen made me so airheaded and a crybaby" and... yeah. well, maybe not on the same level, but, u get it. it's all so tiring.
Right, I watched the Jubilee video (rolling my eyes the whole time lol)/ I've been round this block long enough to know emotional manipulation when I see it. That "Jessica'" dude would not get bothered in a men's restroom, I guarantee it. So long as he's not acting like a pervert and minding his own business, most dudes would just leave him alone. At most he'd just get a few stares but that is not violence. And you're on the right path, don't fall for the emotional manipulation, no one is forcing him to dress the way he does and if he feels that unsafe being in the men's restroom looking like he does, he can take off the wig and makeup. As a feminine presenting man myself who uses the correct bathroom, I would just tell him to own it but it's all choice at the end of the day. I remember that comment Blaire said and I too, thought it was BS. It doesn't take taking artificial estrogen to gain emotional maturity, it's a matter of just sitting and listening to what it is others are saying and and self-analyzing to process and respond. Most men are socialized to develop pride and ego which is why they don't typically have emotional intelligence out the gate but with time, patience, and learning, men can totally be emotionally intelligent as well. Men like Martin Luther King, Eleanor Rossevelt, David bowie, and Barack Obama are some examples of men who possess emotional intelligence so Blaire can miss me with that silliness lol. And if he means understanding wmen better? Again no. Us feminine men can relate to women on a slight social level but even if a feminine man does take HRT, that doesn't make him get the lived experience of what being a woman is really like, all they have to go on are stereotypes and what they've seen in media.
I doubt that BW was "more emotionally intelligent" after taking estrogen, but he's certainly more prone to various forms of cancer/chronic illness after ingesting that laundry list of hormones and other affiliated drugs.
I'm so happy you posted! There are many issues involving the community, I sure it stems from people being insecure about their bodies and what you stated in your past video, I think people call Blaire White a true trans is because they are right wing so more conservatives only respect him for that aspect.
I'm glad you enjoyed the video and I think that's true to an extent. There have been gay men and lesbians who call him "true trans" as well though so I don't think it's all conservatives who are doing this.
@@KaiDecadence I remember going through a phaze in middle school and early high school about myself being trans, I have accepted my gender but there are parts of me that haven't come to the reality and live in a fantasy of being a gender I desired, when really it wasn't the gender, it was a whole new identity. The weight of being perfect for my parents but when I failed made me feel like I failed at life so I wanted a whole new identity to restart. I hope that many other trans or non-binary people who feel the same as I do, will overcome the need to escape, to love themselves because no one loved them until someone could get something from them, I just hope the best for them since mental health comes first before making life changing decisions.
@@Elmooo8283 Well part of what can help is realizing that "man" and "woman" are not "gender", they are states of biological sex. "Masculinity", "femininity", and "androgyny", that is "gender" and that accuracy can partly help unravel it. And I hope the same as well but in the meantime, they need to stay in their lane sorta-speak by not entering spaces that they should not be in.
@@KaiDecadence You do realize that gender is not a social construct right but are based in our brains and our literal brain sex. Hell humans aren't even the only species with discordant brain to body sex we also see it in other animals like mice. In fact that is where we discovered it.
I learned a lot from this video, thank you! I didn’t know he had agreed to, then backed out of, an interview with Magdalen Burns. That would have been a cakewalk for her. What annoys me is that GC people are now arguing among ourselves about the concept of true trans and also the “good trans” identifying men who acknowledge they’re men, like Debbie Hayton and Katy Jon Went. It strikes me as more centring men and using our intellectual energy on them; the opposite of what we say we fight for.
Oh yeah ,the Magdalen Berns debate was something many of us were looking forward to back in 2019 and were totally bummed when it didn't happen but when Blaire made that spineless tweet of an excuse on why he never followed through with the debate, it was so obvious what happened, that he chickened out 3 times and waiting for the perfect opportunity to scapegoat out through Magdalen's worsened cancer. It was absolutely shameful. Hm I hear that there are a lot of GCs who are arguing for "True trans" but I personally haven't come across any and the GCs I do follow do not entertain that nonsense at all. But either way, it's just important to remind these people that if we want to see this trans mess go away (or get out of legislation and children's schooling), they need to be critical of it all and stop thinking about the person themselves but the principles that their ideology stands for.
Great video, Kai! I've really appreciated seeing your comments pop up in the gender critical sphere. I was also a big fan of Magdalen's (RIP) so it's nice that others still remember her too. And yeah, she would have wiped the floor with Blaire lol
Hey, thanks! Yeah Magdalen is so so missed and I'll never forget her and her memory lives on through all of us who were touched or awoken (by her content. And for real, that debate would've been epic on Magdalen's part. I remember seeing an old debate that was done between an HSTS and Cathy Brennan and Cathy was saying so much common sense like when she called him out asking him why he couldn't just wear makeup and a dress as a man which gave the HSTS a mild meltdown. It's just these HSTS getting the smack down of reality from a woman that really sets it in for them and I would've loved to see Magdalen give that to Blaire, a woman saying "no" to him and it not having to do with conservatism or traditional values.
Great job on this deep dive. I really hope your channel thrives and your voice is heard. The voice of gender non-conforming gay men is of the upmost importance.
Totally agree with your assessment. I also want to add, not sure if you've seen his recent video about doing therapy to figure out why he's trans but it's super obvious that being trans is a trauma response, and he rationalizes it so much by only saying it is at least PARTLY a trauma response (no, it's FULLY, not PARTLY) and also says that just because it's a trauma response doesn't make it less valid....so he can justify what he's done to his body and keep up the facade. It comes off as super delusional and out of touch with reality. If you do something drastic like transitioning because of trauma, that's actually an awful coping mechanism because the motive is unhealthy.
Not sure if you watched towards the end of the video but I do and share my thoughts there. I think it's safe to say that while we knew he had been SA'd, we had no idea that he dealt with "that" growing up. Just added another layer to his trauma that undoubtedly wrecked his mental state.
@@KaiDecadence And again not all trans people were molested or raped though but still have dysphoria because it is an issue with the biology of their brains.
Kai I know its fucking 2 AM But I am so glad I discovered your channel, however by the gods will the youtube algorithm worked and I found this video and this has been the best video I ever watched ever! My name is Carlla J.B I am now a Bisexual Ladyboy, I identify as a Ladyboy not because I am a Lady but because a lot of my friends I have are immigrants from Thailand and the Philippines they taught me its okay to just be effeminate gay male so I adopted their culture out of respect and sincerity. To be honest, this whole idealogy of being trans lied I was fed to after I was fed the first lie I couldn't be black and gay if I was a black gay male then I was selling out to the white man, so then when I ran away and went affirmations the very same gay community pretty much told me I couldn't be gay cause the fact I wore femme clothing and had a feminine voice and persona meant I was perfect to be a girl, so I went to identify as genderfluid at 15 and nonbinary at 17 it took 18 for me to solidify being trans even then when I went to therapy my therapist just told me I'm a normal healthy male is just different, so despite my therapist wishes I was so convinced I was a woman so I spent 1 whole year living as one then when I turnt 19 I decided to start HRT despite being on HRT I quickly realize as an adult as if it was layers of shards breaking away I realized I couldnt be a woman like if wearing dresses, taking pills and pretending meant I was a woman then im a miserable one, I went back to my therapist told him maybe I been holding my homosexuality back and reality is im just gay male on hrt, then he opened up that his straight guy on hrt however it makes him more masculine because its testosterone he never scolded me for going behind his back to get hrt which allowed me trust my therapist build geniune connection that I still have today I feel that when you have people that care, they wont scold you but they will let you know that their happy you came to reality instead of creating more damage more permanent decisions. So what im saying is I just wish when I was 14 experimenting with various amount of clothing I liked and at 13 when I found out I was gay instead of being told I was not my mom son or my dad son these are my bio parents that wanted me, I just wish they wouldve told me son we love you and if this is how you feel then thats okay We disagree with it for various reasons that we know primarily one is religious but were able to look past religion to love our son and reality is you will always be our son and you always be a man. except I was told by my very own fucking parents Im less than a man and if I continue to be gay I will never be a man and I never be their son so you have imagined the mental trauma that scar my brain and led me to this fucking rabbit hole of trans idealogy when your told as kid you less than what you are then you believe anything to make amends with being less than. P.S My Mom apologized and I have beautiful relationship with my Mom now and rest of my Family they eventually had to come around and accept im still their son no matter what but damn I always joke to my mom you shouldve just accepted the fact i was going be different this wouldve be alot easier.
@@KaiDecadence Ironic that you decry conservative traditionalism when Gender Critical feminism has always aligned itself with Conservative Traditionalists. In fact the Feminist/Christianity alliance gave us such things as prohibition, The Hollywood Hayes Code, porn and prostitution bans etc. Really Feminism is a very conservative ideology. If the Repubs came around to supporting abortion honestly that would be the last barrier for feminists to vote Republican.
@@twocanplay7976 It hasn't stopped them from working together in the past or present however. Even JK Rowling the TERF Empress has even worked with homophobic Christians even though she claims to be for LGB rights atleast and feminists and Christians have both always been puritanical moral busy bodies.
Thank-you! We need more of you RUclipsrs with a platform to keep talking about this. You, Brittany Roux, Kellie Keen, Karen Davis, ect are much needed right now. I've been talking to quite a few people who are still falling for that narrative. I think one of the worst is Marcus. She goes on about how she's all for mental health, yet acts like the biggest hypocritical mean girl lol. "If you're not like me, you can't sit at the cool kids table" 😂. Again, thanks for being another voice of reason, because like you've said, as an effeminate gay man, you understand better than a lot that there's nothing wrong with not conforming to "gender" roles. Like many young girls, I was a Tom boy growing up, and it didn't make me a boy or any less of a girl. I just wish instead of telling kids you have to be one or the other, that it's ok to like what you like and be yourself. Nothing will change who we are, and physically or mentally hurting yourself should never even be a thought. It makes me sad what some people will put themselves through 😢
Oh no problem and thanks for the encouragement. It's not easy continually speaking out and being called every name under the sun for it but it's very important to do this while holding the line and pushing back when not many people will do that. There's no denying that living as a gender nonconforming effeminate man is hard but it's better than poisoning your body with wrong sex hormones that lead you to premature health problems and worse if you dare get the butchering disguised as "surgery". So as tough as it can be, we will continue to push back.
@@KaiDecadence you are incredibly strong and I will stand with you because you deserve the encouragement. Obviously people are going to hate no matter what, but if they'd stop being so ignorant to what these extreme leftists are pushing, and the harm they are causing to so many of us, our world would become a much safer place. I can't wait until people start seeing the truth. I am so glad you didn't go through all the experimental disasters that are being pushed so hard right now, because you are incredible the way you are and have amazing fashion sense too I may add. All the best and I'm looking forward to watching more videos. Take care 🫶
its good to see im not the only one who's grown critical of blaire. he makes it surprisingly hard for enablers and handmaidens to let go of the troonally mentality since he tries so hard you feel bad for him (before completely getting outta the handmaiden or enabler mentality, that is).
Oh for sure, I've had this view of him for years now lol If anything, I'm just glad to see more people finally pulling the rug off of him and taking him to task (even if he won't engage back). But yeah, he has the court of public opinion and I get it, he's not a creepy AGP but he still is a man who essentially believes women are a set of attributes that a man can buy and become and I do think he genuinely likes to fetishize himself to men so nah, he's toxic but in a different, less obvious way (at least to men, women seem to be more privy to this for obvious reason).
Really, really well done! The world (including Blaire himself) needs to hear these truths from men like yourself, Kai. You're the example that young gay men need.
A guy that wears women's clothes? Why do young homosexual men need different examples from young straight men? Do women benefit from having Kai influencing other gay men?
@@kaura678 Why do young homosexual men need different examples from young straight men? I don't understand your question. I'm not saying that all gay men have to be like me, that all gay men have to be feminine. My voice in this pushback against trans ideology is just a means of trying to reach other feminine gay men in that they don't have to fool themselves into believing they are something they are not in order to be themselves. Masculine leaning gay men, I'm not trying to change them and they wouldn't be getting anything out of my content anyway so I don't understand your problem.
@@kaura678 Maybe she just means that me just being myself and not pretending to be something I'm not is what she finds useful to gay youths? In no where did she say that they have to be exactly like me. You're making a mountain out of a molehill.
Can you make a video about Brad Polumbo? While i still watch him, he does give me Trans Activist vibes. He's basically what you call a "True Trans" advocate. Like Blaire and Buck, most people overlook his semi-woke tactics due to him not being as aggressive as most TRAS. But he still advocates for using correct pro-nouns for Trans-Identifing people as respect. Thus proofing the fact that unlike being Gay or Lesbian, Trans is all about playing a game with the entire world. Whereas for homosexuality other people's participation and affirmation just simply isn't required. Another thing is that on one of his Damage Control episodes, he said he was gonna interview Chloe Cole (a Detransitioner) but he just simply never got around to it. (Which is very similar to what Blaire did with Magdalen) That has raised my concerns with him.
Yes I'm aware of Brad Polumbo, only watched one of his videos but I get the idea of him and that he, like Thai Rivera are "true trans" gay advocates which obviously I don't agree with and don't support. I don't know if I'll get around to doing a video on these two, just gotta be honest but I'll take it into consideration.
@alexrusso788 Your right both GNC boys and girls are being preyed upon by the idealogy, but it's mostly girls that are being influenced by the idealogy the most, with most trans identifying people today are Trans-Identifing Women, this is also evidenced by the fact that most Detransitioners are women.
@@melvinlopez3251I've heard the female minors being transitioned are not even tomboys. Their parents are mostly Munchhausen by proxy or these girls are influenced by ROGD. Among real GNC kids, it seems that both boys and girls are being transed by homophobic parents in more or less equal numbers.
Wow, thank you, Kai, for boldly speaking the whole truth. I used to buy into the true trans narrative, and was an avid follower of Blair’s since when he was doing videos with that South African/Canadian tyranny (purposely misspelled), Theron. My eyes have been since opened.
No problem. I'm glad you enjoyed the video. And I remember Theryn Meyer, he was the original Blaire White before be stopped making videos and became Contrapoints' writer.
Great to see you back on this channel Kai, I don't see you in my videos uploads list nearly enough! Great video with based and well thought out points.
As a gay man, my heart goes out to Blaire. I’m very grateful to have always been at least mostly accepted by my family, and to nowadays be fully accepted by them. I can see how much Blaire is still hurting from his past trauma and lack of acceptance by his dad’s side of the family, particularly in the midst of his untimely death. I think he’s a good person who was swept up in this ideology and thought that transing himself would solving his problems, and while I think he is an intelligent, introspective person, and while his “trans”-formation has benefited him in that it’s garnered him fame and success, I’m not so sure that it’s actually made him happy in the way he’d hoped.
Definitely agree. I do feel for him too as a fellow gay man, a fellow feminine presenting gay man (Those pics of him before he got into his modern day pseudo-Kardashian clone, I totally got it.). But I don't think the "trans" stuff helped him at all and the HRT is slowly poisoning his body and he's now entering his 30s. It's not going to be surprising if he starts noticing the health declining side effects when he gets to his late 30s, early 40s.
Your family needs to repent for accepting you. You need to repent of your lifestyle. God hates sinners, Psalm 5:5. The lifestyle you two are living makes you guys evil. REPENT!
I'm not sure if he's extremely ignorant and careless or just a liar. What he said about Tate made me lose any sympathy for Blaire. Like this man has admitted on camera to doing criminal and vile things, and yet Blaire is defending him and spreading lies. Also, he keeps getting more unnecessary cosmetic operations, looking more and more botched, and supposedly he's one of the sane ones.
I haven't heard what he has said about Tate because I have no patience for that toxicness anymore but if Blaire supports anything that guy says, just no. And yes, blaire might not see what he actually looks like but he's one more botched surgery away that he will truly see. It's Pete Burns all over again
@@patsysaffron9321 Oh yeah, I've seen a little of that. What is up with that? It's very strange how borderline obsessed he comes off with him. Then again, I heard that Alex Jones was found to have gay porn (not calling it "trans") so maybe there's something going on there...
I have never been a very gender typical child ore young man, ore the social great in person. 3 things I have learned: First: Stay to yourself and what you like and you are good in. Stay even to that, your body is made to be good. Second: Just get older. 3. Time will bring you people that like you, even say you are "cool". That will make you more strong in what you are. And that will bring you more people that like you for what you are. --- I think many very young men are under big presure, not strong enough for that, and dont see that they are good as they are. So they choose problematic ways to feel better ore have more sucess in social life, many of them to fast, easy ore good to be true. p.s. Of course its often more easy beeing a non typical type, in a not typical scene like gothic, punk, metal, rock etc... Sooooo... dark greetings from northern germany and stay a cute guy 🎉.
Hi Kai! I am glad I found you. Really appreciate your insights. I am a "regular" straight guy, whatever regular means. I do enjoy occasional non gender conforming gender expression I don't really like words like crossdresser and non-binary. I feel I have evolved past being a "crossdresser." And I am clearly straight man. I have shared running into you with two advisors. They both like what they have heard. I really appreciate what you have to say. Your words speak truth and reality for me.
I saw a comment on a RUclips Video that said something along the lines of this "i said years ago the moment we start moving on to Trans Causes is the moment where were running out of causes"
Even if Blair DOES accept himself for who and what he is somewhere down the road, he still will have to devote the rest of his life undoing all of the harm and damage that he's done over the years, the people and children thta he influenced. If Blair broke any laws along the way, he'll have to do the jail time that he managed to avoid earlier in his life. Also, even if Blair does make sincere efforts to make amends for past harm done, some people will never forgive him no matter what. There really is such a thing as doing too much harm and damage to be forgiven and Blair has likely done this over the years. Blair will need to accept this. In some ways Blair has done things that he can never get any real redemption or absolution for. This is another hard reality that he will have to accept - provided he ever decides to accept the reality of who and what he is in the first place. There are plenty of people who've been WAY worse about this than Blair has, and many of them have committed crimes that they need to do the prison time for. This is the debt that they need to pay to society. And they need also to deal with their bad karma.
I think the thing that really gets me is when he wears the hip pads, I don't think he realizes how cartoonishly disproportionate they make him look. He has a skinny man's body and it really does no favors for him...
@@ivydark9741 True, he could but it would still look comical because he doesn't work out his legs and will just risk having what people call the "Diaper butt" where when one gets a BBL but it starts to sag because the person doesn't workout their legs
I think when people say “true trans” they mean they are 1.) not creepy 2.) gay ( or bi) 3.) gender conforming to the opposite s*x 4.) (the most important one) likable. It’s really all just a popularity contest.
I can see a case for that but let's be real, how many AGPs have you come across who don't come off creepy, unnerving, or unsettling? This is why I think that gays and lesbians are thought of to be "true trans" because a lot of the time, gays and lesbians who tend to be GNC don't give off the same creepy vibes that a fetishist tends to.
My grandmother still won't forgive me for when I was an addict. The Christmas after my grandpa passed, she shunned me. I know for a fact, being their only granddaughter, he wouldn't have been happy about that, but alas it's been 11 years, and she still hasn't reached out. I know the hurt of being shunned, maybe not to his extent but I know how much it breaks your heart
I'm so sorry to hear about that and I hope that your grandmother does come around eventually. But yeah there's no denying that the estrangement from his family has worsened his mental health but as sad as it is, he still needs to be held to the same standard as any other trans-identifying man.
@@KaiDecadence absolutely he does and thank you for your kind words. I mean we all go through things but we can't use that as an excuse to push negative things into others either. Btw, finally saw your video with Brittany and it was great. I know I'm a bit late for it but I enjoyed it. Again, thanks for being a voice that is so desperately needed now more than ever 💖
What really gets me about all this is how Blaire's signs of trauma are so abundantly clear, yet people willingly choose to ignore it. His fans (like some of the people in the comments here caping for him) say that they are against homophobia, are pro gender-nonconformity, etc., but think that what Blaire has done to himself is perfectly fine. It's pure cognitive dissonance.
Very astute point here. I agree 100%. You can't claim to be supportive of gender nonconformity and pro LGB and then think that this obvious victim of homophobia, abuse, and trans ideology is all well and good.
you're welcome.!☺️👍🏽 Blair like you mentioned has internalised homophobia so thought pretending to be what he thinks a woman is would be his best outcome. Now he gets to go to the top of the Trans CONservative pyramid and get the attention/validation he has always wanted! Blair was born into a very CONservative family, they hate LGBT+ the most. Let alone a effeminate gay guy pretending to be a woman! I personally think CONservative's are worse than 'Lefties', and there is deffinetly some crazy talking points coming from that camp! CONservatives think they are the true authority when it comes to society and how everbody should live.🤦🏽♀️
Blaire is ok with men like him using women's spaces. And that's not ok. We're not here to protect him or for him to hide behind. Would he protect us with his superior body strength if need be?
@@KaiDecadence I'm interested to hear more from you on GC topics. I think you could make a successful video series doing this psycho analytic content on other popular figures. You could do the same for Buck Angel who is often referenced a counterpart to Blair. Alternately, I'd love to hear you talk through figures like Contrapoints, or Philosophy tube.
@@umwha Aw thanks you though I'm not entirely sure if I would want to continue doing more topics on GC content because the stuff can be tiring lol I'm not too sure about Buck Angel because she's a trip and many have already done great commentary on her laying out her issues,. I'm not sure I can really add anything more to that. As for Contrapoints and his skin-walker PhilosophyTube (Seriously, the dude "transed" out after he met him and his persona shtick reeks of Contrapoints lol), these two are the worst when it comes to trans ideology, they are word salad in video form, bring up questions about the ideology only to then either not answer them or use circular logic and you leave their videos either confused and/or having even more questions. I'm not sure if you're aware of him but check out King Critical's (he's a youtuber) videos and livestreams on them, he really helped exposed just how dense their videos reallly are when talking about "trans". And I just don't have the patience to watch their content again, I gotta be honest LOL Same with Jessie Gender and Lily Alexander, just awful brainless (and fake outrage on Jessie's part) stuff. But yeah, I just gotta be honest about my feelings there on why I more than likely won't be making a series out of this. The main reason why I did this video on Blaire is because every other critique video on him that called him out tended to disappear. A Slightly Twisted Female's video on him was taken down, Vanessa Vokey's channel was taken down, and Karen Davis' channel got taken down. It's like anyone who made a video on him that wasn't validating his non-existent womanhood were taken down but it's important to have something out there take him to task and I also felt like I could add more since I'm a feminine nonconforming gay man who could've turned out like Blaire so I felt like I could contribute some more personal analysis regarding him.
Oh boy, one of my favorite GCers uploading today? AND its a long video?? Must be my lucky day 😁 Edit: getting real sick of RUclips deleting my GC comments, ugh. Maybe more people would deprogram from this trün lunacy if they were actually allowed to see our arguments
@@twocanplay7976 Oh shoot, I didn't realize it. Freaking censorship... But I understand, sometimes my comments get deleted as well, it's part of why I decided to just make a few videos on this because I was tired of it lol
Yeah I'm aware but I was referring to before that. Blaire would be mostly silent (and try not to get into that topic)_ a lot prior to that Jubilee video but even then, he's still implying that he should be able to use the women's restroom because of his looks and that is just wrong, he shouldn't be accessing them period. It doesn't matter whether he "passes" or not.
@@ShadowsMasquerade That's what he totally does. If he can't get around it, he'll try to word it in a way that gives inference that he should be the exception because he "passes". And this is wrong and it's why I wish that he would debate with a gender critical woman who would call him on that nonsense and lay down the law on why.
@@KaiDecadencegender in itself is a purely social concept. We go into the restrooms because of our presentation, not our chromosomes. That is an objective reality.
30:35 Oof - I had always suspected that there was something very much like this in Blaire's early history, as it would explain so much, but wow. 😞 That poor, poor little boy. With any luck, he has given someone who's following him now and has a similar history the courage to finally reach out for help. This kind of trauma cannot just be ignored safely imo. I also wish Blaire all the best in working towards finding some peace. x
my other reply didnt show up for some reason but i hope he can find peace as well, that was extremely disturbing and sad to find out. it makes sense that he wanted to escape/alter his body so badly because experiencing something that horrific from someone who was supposed to protect you, care for you, etc. had to have been incredibly traumatic, its bad enough coming from anyone but for it to be from your own father seems like a whole different level of betrayal
Yeah I mean, I already had a very good feeling he did experience this but the therapy video helped confirm that the assumptions (the bullying he received in his small town) were correct.
Hey Kai did you hear about the Cass Review/Report that the NHS released in the UK on trans children a few days ago? Its getting a lot of attention in the UK.
Just read up on it and they came to the conclusion that puberty blockers have been viewed as not a truly conclusive way to deal with gender dysphoria. I think that is good that they're taking a step back from this.
I’m so glad I came across this video. I do t think Ive ever seen a gender critical content creator criticize Blair. Thank you! 🖤 Edit: 14:17 👏🏽 Holy 👏🏽 sh*t 👏🏽 No way. *NO way…* 😨
No problem though A Slightly Twisted Female also did a mini series on Blaire White though it was through live stream. Either way, it's definitely worth checking out if you haven't, she makes good observation on him. > ruclips.net/user/livegMylxByDh5E?si=6PrpzhEsf3CRTrW-
I think lots of people latch onto Blaire and claim him for their side is so they can hold him up as a token to say "See I'm not transphobic". Acknowledging that you can't change sex is really the bare minimum. Blaire agreeing that terfs are apparently the worse tells me everything I need to know about how he views women's rights/spaces. What you said at 16:49 is exactly right
Yeah you're totally right. It's really just the people who haven't accepted the reality that "trans' is not a real thing because in the court of public opinion, it is and these people don't want to risk social rejection by being "transphobic" (which doesn't exist) and so they latch onto men like Blaire White and women like Buck Angel for the reason you highlighted. But if we want to see change, you gotta hold all to the same principle standard, that sex change is impossible and men and women are not defined by arbitrary stereotypes.
@@KaiDecadence There are quite a few like Blaire and Buck as you’ve mentioned that kind of get it but only up to the point of their own comfort. Debbie Hayton recently wrote an article called “JK Rowling is playing with fire” where he sort of reprimands JK about her “tone” on twitter. So he’s allowed to call himself a man but when JK does it, she needs to do it in a nicer way so as not to hurt feelings. I don’t go to any trans-critical groups but I have heard that Hayton receives a lot of pat on the backs from many women in those circles more than just your average woman who speaks about this stuff. Like you said, there should be far more critique about actually calling yourself “trans” even if you don’t claim to have changed sex.
@@feechi8719 Yeah and those people, I've got absolutely no time for. They pat Blaire and Buck (and Rose of Dawn back when he was more active) on the back for criticizing the more socially unhinged trans-identified people but I'm just sitting there like "yeah, and?" Those two are just as delusional as the trans-identified people they call out on pure principle that they think they are "true trans" when that doesn't exist. So I've got no patience for the people who are essentially picking and choosing who they decide who is "true trans" or not when the point is that trans doesn't exist period. I'm aware of Debbie Hayton but I wasn't aware of what he said about JK Rowling which is just a load of sh*t. I've never liked "Debbie" from the start tbh because by the time I discovered him, I had already fully peaked trans when I saw how manipulative people like Blaire and Buck were/are and Debbie just gave me the same vibes that they give only even if he calls himself a man. And that's not even bringing up how it's obvious that he put his wife and kids through the ringer with his fetish.
@@KaiDecadence What do you personally think would be the best way to treat Transpeople? im not aware of other ways to reduce "gender dysphoria" without transitioning that seem effective. Sadly its like one of the most complicated topics to research on like ever.
@@koalakultofficial Here's the deal. If these people want to continue (foolishly) believing that they are the opposite sex then fine, that is their own prerogative. But they should not be allowed accesses to spaces that they should not be in. No exceptions, no excuses. And they have to accept that not everyone is gonna play into their delusion, that's just the blunt truth. But if they still want to continue taking health destroying drugs and even get quality of life destroying "surgeries", fine so be it. In an ideal world I would want these things outlawed because these things really are life destroying and I would say these people need to go to intensive therapy (not "gender therapy") but I know that at the end of the day people will still do these things so fine, they can do it but these things but they still should kept out of spaces they don't belong in.
I Suggest You Make a Video About Marcus Dib, You Know, The "Trans Men" Version of Blaire White from Denmark Who Proclaims Herself a "Gay Man" How does this Woman say wants to Fight Trans Ideology by Proclaiming Herself a Gay Man? And if I'm not mistaken, she says to use gay men dating apps and that gay men might like "Trans Men."
@@KaiDecadence Yes, she was the first person who opened my eyes to this TIF. Although since I had been following Marcus Dib Videos, seeing that she declared herself a Gay Man already made me a little suspicious, I just needed an awakening.
No one forced Blaire to get chest implants, he did that of his own (fetishitic) volition. No one forces Blaire to get lip and cheek fillers, he does that of his own volition. And finally, no one forces Blaire to dress the way he does, he does that of his own volition. And you know the thing about that? All these things can be undone. He can get the silicone balls removed, he can stop getting his lips overdone, and he can stop wearing women's clothing. Just because Blaire has done all these things 𝐨𝐟 𝐡𝐢𝐬 𝐨𝐰𝐧 𝐩𝐞𝐫𝐬𝐨𝐧𝐚𝐥 𝐜𝐡𝐨𝐢𝐜𝐞(𝐬) doesn't entitle him to women only spaces. If he's that scared of being hassled using the correct restroom and locker room, that's on him, not women. He can either stop looking the way he does, suck it up like any other gender nonconforming man who continues to use the correct private spaces, or simply not enter any at all and wait till he gets home to do whatever it is he needs to do. In summary no, he has no right to women only restrooms and locker rooms for the choices that he himself made.
As I said, if Blaire wasn't using women-only spaces and was not calling himself a "woman" anything, I wouldn't have much to say about him aside from the obvious that he has internalized homophobia but that's just not the case and the line must be drawn on him to show that he is not above calling out and being told that he is no exception to the rule, the rule being no men in women-only spaces. And I don't foresee myself doing a video on Buck, at least not any time soon.
@@KaiDecadence fair, but I guess the thought is that she passes well enough that she isn’t distressing any women that go in and might see her because she does pass pretty well and probably because she’s not attracted to women really. I respect your opinion because it’s pretty unique to hear a take like this from a gender noncomforming man like yourself who- from the thumbnail- I assumed was likely to be nonbinary or some sort. I can understand some of your worries about it too, and it’s nice to see another person willing to understand why women might not be keen on ANY bio man in women’s spaces. I think it’s just hard to keep nuance in a lot of these situations sometimes.
@@sheanartisthunty there's no "nuance" to it (that word is being overused and wrongly used so much these days). Blaire White was born male and remains male because no one can change sex. Therefore, he needs to stop using women's bathrooms, and to stop thinking it's up to him to say which men can and cannot invade women's spaces based on how well they "pass".
@@sheanartisthunty Again, it doesn't matter how well he "passes". "Passing" is subjective. One person may think he "passes", others simply will not (and after seeing the candids, I don't see how anyone can think he does). The point is, the person themselves knows they are a man and that they are entering a space they should not be in. And I just feel like the best course of action is to ban all men out of women-only spaces and let it be known to men like Blaire to question if he really wants to risk being punished legally by entering a space he has no legal access to. Who knows, maybe it will get him to campaign for third spaces even though he would be just fine in the men's restrooms. I've used men's restrooms as I am and nothing hasn't happened, the fear is all in their head. Just don't be a creep. And it's not like he lives in a backwater like Nebraska. And yes I do worry. In that stream I shared in the video, I forgot to show it but he had gotten comments from young people who discovered him as teens and thanked him for helping them realize they were trans.
Why didn’t you talk about Buck Angel or focus on any FtMs in the way you focused on Blaire? Isn’t this a potential obvious lacking in your argument in a similar way as how you pointed at Blaire for not having debated a Terf?
Hello, Kai. Do you actually believe Blaire was SA'ed or is he just playing the victim now? Lots of these HSTS are tooning out for guys... Homophobia isn't even the biggest motivator anymore.
To be completely honest, yes I have thought about the possibility that he could be lying to make his personal story be more dramatic and I remember in reading in Blanchard's study that some trans-identified men do tend to lie or exaggerate their own stories to be seen as more legitimate ("true trans" for lack of better phrasing). And you raise a good point that most HSTS troon out for guys, like it's no secret if you listen to what they say in their "how I knew I was trans" stories or observe how they present themselves which tends to be more on the sexualized side, especially when you compare what they look like before trooning out . But still, I'm gonna try to give Blaire the benefit of the doubt that he's not lying because it would be insane if he did and while I think Blaire can be disingenuous, I would hope that he would not stoop that low to lie about something like this.
i honestly feel like he's really telling the truth about this, that type of severe trauma & betrayal from his own dad would explain part of why he wanted to escape himself and his reality so badly
@@ratdog6317 I don't disagree with that, it would make things make more sense on top of the things I mentioned in the video. But it's just Blaire has shown himself to be a tad deceitful and opportunistic at times so while I want to give him the benefit of the doubt, I can understand why others might be suspicious.
@@KaiDecadence yeah i get that. it does make sense that people would be hesitant, i guess i just dont expect that he would stoop as low as lying as something as serious as THAT, but then again i don't know him so i really don't know
Hi, I’ve been subscribed to both of you for years and I enjoy both your guys’ content. I’m sure if you’ve been keeping up with Blaire for the last few months, but he has taken some stances on bathrooms and locker rooms. He doesn’t go into women’s locker rooms and believes that other mtfs shouldn’t either. He believes that trans people should go into the bathrooms of the gender they pass as-which I know you don’t agree with but he’s made his stance clear on that. More recently, he’s been comfortable admitting that his dysphoria is as probably a direct result of abuse from his father, and he’s comfortable calling himself a man in videos (while still living as a woman irl). And he states that trans women are men. I for one find him more grounded in reality at 30 than he was at 25. Idk if you’ve kept up with him recently or feel like he gotten more in tune with it reality.
I'm just gonna be honest here. Just like I said in my video, do you honestly believe that he doesn't use women's restrooms when he's out and about? Really think about that because the truth of the matter is that a lot of these men lie. This was already the case when it was found out that he uses women TSA lines at the airport to be get patted down by a woman TSA agent (that he deleted when people started commenting on that). And back on the bathroom, he thinks that he "passes" so again, think about that. And I already commented on his therapy video. The therapist was still calling him a "girl" and "woman" throughout it so er, sorry but no dice there neither. Here's the frank reality about my view of him as far as I'm concerned. Until he starts calling himself a man and absolutely stops calling himself a "woman" or "trans" anything (this includes him stop saying things like "transwomen are men", stop using "transwomen" altogether) and he actually starts talking with a gender critical people (Arielle Scarcella does not count, she still believes in "true trans" which is nonsense), my view of him being an opportunistic grifter will not change. With where we are now in the social sphere with this "trans" crap, I have no patience for people who play the middle ground. You either believe n it or you don't, none of this "true trans" stuff and none of using the bastardized terms neither ("Transwomen", "transman" etc).
Blaire really does like to speak out of both sides of his mouth. He says he doesn't mind people calling him a male or man but then gets offended when they use the correct male pronouns on him (same with Buck Angel when you call her a she). Make it make sense! Lol. What are your thoughts on Nikkie Tutorials? He has an unnerving amount of influence on young girls. I remember when he "came out" a few years ago as trans. I was shocked by the reaction by so many people saying they thought he was a real woman. Even though I didn't know much about trans back then, it was obvious to me that he's a man.
Exactly, please make it make sense. That's why I see right through it and see that they're both Trans Privilege Activists but they go about it in a covert and manipulative way as opposed to the outright aggressive way that we usually see. And my thoughts on Nikke Tutorials? The truth is I never actually heard of him until he "came out" (I think that was 2017 or 2018?). I can understand why people thought he was a woman because he had only shown himself done up to the nines in makeup with not much pictures of himself not in makeup or showcasing just how tall he really was. So like Blaire, he relies on parlor tricks to mask his true appearance that you know for a fact are more obviously male. Though I will say that I don't buy that his boyfriend didn't know he was a man. Assuming that they had been dating a good while and had sex, he totally knew (ridiculous lol).
I have seen Blair White chastise some trans women using the ladies’ room. She tends to talk about very volatile individuals (eg Jessica Yaniv) using the women’s restrooms. She also attacks individuals who look very unfeminine
It's a case of pointing the fingers at everyone else while 3 are pointing right back at him where in his case, he can moan and mock other men like him who don't "pass" and say they shouldn't use the women's restroom but he himself shouldn't be using them neither. Women are not costumes that are based on how they "pass"". Blaire is a man, he should no be accessing women only spaces, that's just the reality.
@@KaiDecadence Great video. Agree with every word. Thanks for the work you've put in to this. It's a wonder I don't have RSI from all the head nods throughout 🤣🤣🤣 Why can't Blaire and others like him just be like you??? 🤷🏻♀️🤦🏻♀️🤦🏻♀️🤦🏻♀️
@@ellie698 Haha no problem lol And I dunno, if Blaire just accepted himself for who he really is, I think he'd find true happiness instead of feeling the need to hold up a lie.
I enjoy blaires content and i don't think Blaire is some awful unethical person. But you offer some fair points. Blaire could have been just a feminine gay male. What Blaire and buck push for is returning trans back to a medical basis and that basis is rooted in biology they know your only changing appearance not sex. The TRAs want it to be a identity choice. As for gender critical fems. Some are truly hateful either towards men or trans people. I just don't rock with ideology be it from the right or left. But I also enjoyed your content over the years i like alot of your goth videos😊 that being said Blaire is not for everyone. I don't give those that come from a place of malice the time of day waste of energy. But your video was fair. No one's perfect. As for adults getting medical reassignment. That is where it needs to be for adults only to go threw with it or not.
I mean in the grand scheme, the FFS didn't do as much as people think. The difference is that he changed his makeup style, change his hair to something more conventional, and uses lighting to his advantage.
No, I don't think he would. He already tries hiding from gender critical women and I especially don't think he'd be up for debating someone like me, a fellow effeminate gay man who's gender nonconforming in appearance and can see right through him lol.
@@Ellington3 He is. Because if he truly believed in his beliefs, he would debate a "terf" and put us in our proverbial place. But nope, he just continues to do the same old thing of dunking on TikTok teens, low hanging fruit.
Hello. I actually made a community post about it but to give the cliff notes, it's absolutely shameful. Both of those men are cheats and never should've been allowed to compete in women's sports. I really hope that Khelif gets his gold medal revoked and goes onto the proverbial wall of shame alongside with Lia Thomas, Fallon Fox, and Laurel Hubbard.
@KaiDecadence oh cool. How do I check out your community post? Yeah agree with you. I think they both knew they are men. I was told that coaches actually go around looking for biological men with DSDs who they can tout off as women in sports. These gender self ID laws and gender passport laws in lot of countries allowed this to happen.
@@9395gb If you go on my RUclips page, click the "community" tab and you'll see it. The IOC tested positive for them being men last year and disqualified them but for some reason they let them compete in the women's sports this year, it's just messed up. And yeah I heard about that as well and it can make sense why they'd scout them in less developed countries that they can use to sneak them in.
@@KaiDecadence Well I know people in the boxing world and they said there were multiple complaints about Imane Khelif and Lin Yu-Ting for years even before the International Boxing Association did their investigation. The IBA actually had no choice but to do a test because there were so many complaints and a few of the women boxers were basically ending up badly damaged and injured. I don't think people really appreciate the physiological differences between biological men and biological women. There are some great biological women boxers, but they will never have the power in their punch or ability to withstand a punch from a biological man long-term. Male boxers have 2.6 times the punch force of a female boxers. You're talking about the difference of something like getting hit with a light softball bat and a solid metal 2x4. Hopefully that makes sense. Some woman is eventually going to end up severely injured or killed if this keeps going.
@@KaiDecadence Also Khelif was saying that they appealed the IBA's decision, but dropped it, but couldn't afford to appeal or something of that nature. Well, I looked up the cost of appealing the IBA's decision to the Court of Arbitration for Sports and it's $1000. That is chump change compared to what Khelif would have lost by not being allowed to fight and losing key career matches. Do you know how much female boxers get for participating or winning boxing matches? Tens of thousands up to hundreds of thousands of dollars and necessary titles to build their boxing portfolio/career. So it would make no sense that Khelif was willing to lose that much money and their boxing career over a $1000 appeal, which I guarantee Kheli had, Khelif's coaches had or boxing organization/club in Algeria had? Khelif's net worth was at least up $500,000 from participating on the woman's adult boxing circuit and people think this person is broke? They will be making even more money now from the Olympic win and sponsorship deals that will probably come their way. The IBA even offered to help with the cost of Khelif's appeal and another genetic test. So Khelif's story doesn't make sense. Khelif's failure to appeal likely had nothing to do with money. And the fact that Khelif still have not sued the IBA for lost wages and damages make no sense. It's not adding up. They literally banned from boxing in most competitions (with the exception of the Olympics for now) so it would not make sense to not appeal or even sue for damages over the potential loss of their boxing career and future earnings. Not sure how people can't see this whole story is suspicious.
I don't like Blaire White at all. He is miserable and wants to tear others down to cover up whatever childhood trauma he's going through. It sucks that other queer people do this to eachother and hopefully he does change for the better. Blessed be Kai!
The only way I see Blaire changing for the better is if he stops with his LARPing, accepts that he's an feminine man who has trauma from his family and gets prolonged therapy.
I agree. BTW, because of your music recommendations and knowledge of the subculture I started making friends in the goth scene and feel like I have found a new side of me. We are lucky to have people like you, Angela Benedict and Black Friday. Keep up the good work.
@@9395gb Samantha Lux is definitely just as bad mainly for how he lied about the reality of his penis inversion. In one video he was making it very known how painful the recovery was and the numerous revisions he had to get done all while still experiencing occasional pains. But then in another video he lied and said that he never had any problems with it. It's just dangerous and deceitful.
Even as someone who's very pro-trans (I've gone back and forth on many things in my life, including this very subject), honestly, I think you did a really good analysis here. Not everyone needs to transition. It's shocking that that's a controversial sentiment. Blaire seems like she'd be happier as an effeminate, gender non-conforming man, and her transition seemed a last ditch effort to retain her sanity. I think that it's really depressing, that she's had to suppress such a large part of herself in order to fit into the world today. Everything from being mistreated for the way she behaved throughout childhood, to sexual assault, to her lack of success in the dating landscape, it's all so sad. Regardless of how she behaves now, or will behave forever, I hope the best for her. That's all that anyone can do, after all.
I vehemently disagree with the "not everyone needs to transition" statement because "transition" does not exist, no man can become a woman ever and no woman can become a man ever. We human beings are a sexually dimorphic species where our biological sex is immutable and cannot change. And all that this "transition" does with the taking of wrong sex hormones and the mutilations (getting your penis surgically inverted and getting your breasts amputated for purposes of trying to be something you're not) do not improve one's life, it destroys the quality of life what with the irreversible health problems that come with it. But as I said before, so long as "trans-identifiyed people stay in their lane by not entering spaces they've got not business being in and they're not pushing this nonsense onto children through school curriculum or media content directed at them, I don't have much else to say about it. If these people want to jeopardize their health, that is their right to do so as much as I disagree with it.
After he answered Blaire's question of if he was ever attracted to men "like you" (like Joey). Instead of following up and asking him "Okay, what about feminine men? Y'know like "drag queens", guys who had long hair and wore makeup, guys who just didn't like looking masculine and dressed more femininely?" Instead Blaire jumpcuts to the next question that was unrelated. No follow-up. And the "delusion" is Joey thinking he's straight even though he's literally in a relationship with a man. Straight men don't date other men no matter how feminine the man chooses to look.
I do share many opinions with Blair White however I don't agree with Blair going into women spaces but also don't believe Blair should go into men spaces at all I believe that they should be in third spaces trans ideology I notice that for the past 11 years is rotted in homophobia misandry when it comes to the trans ideology males and misogyny when it comes to the trans identifying female they are both problematic leftist try to also try to tell to focus on Samantha Lux and he has deeply internalized homophobia Samantha trys to use gay liberation to support trans ideology but he never debate a women conservative or right leaning gay men who don't pro reality-based this is coming for right leaning gay man like myself
I'm telling you, if Blaire uses the men's restrooms and doesn't act like a creep or perv, he's gonna be fine. Just get in, get out. I've used the men's restroom as a feminine presenting men and I've been fine. The fear is all in their heads and it's not like he lives in some backwater town. And Sam Lux is worse since he tries to peddle to kids the ideology while lying about how botched his genital mutilation really was/is.
@KaiDecadence third gender natural restroom like family restrooms 🚻 are where Blair and other trans identifying people need to be using because man don't like disburse like that in our restrooms Blair is a feminized man so Blair doesn't behind in the men restrooms either Also Samantha Lux is homophobic because he stay bashing gay and lesbians who disagree with him trans identifying people need gets they own spaces instead trying to assess to spaces that they don't belong in like gay and lesbians spaces they don't belong in
@KaiDecadence i I didn't said any of these but it also not men jobs to manage Blair problems that is his own responsibility and because you are OK with Blair using the bathroom doesn't mean all men and boys are okay with that he should not should be using women restrooms at all because he is not a women he is a gynomorphic gay man if he really care about not causing problems men and specially women he should advocate for his own restrooms and changing rooms there is nonething stopping him and comparing yourself to him does not help your fine because you cause no problems pluse if you try anything you what to happen to you for looking like a goth freak
@patriciadiamond399 I do think that there are gay men who can lean conservative but with Blaire, he doesn't come off very genuine in his being conservatism and it does come off more as a way to pander to a certain degree.
I disagree, I heard her say and many others say, that they did not use the bathroom until they fully passed and did not cause any stress to woman of a man being in the bathroom. As well, I agree with many trans that if one fully wants to be a woman yet does not feel the need to actually try to be one, is not indicative to gender dysphoria. Sports, seriously? The strength and size difference is NOT an even playing field...PERIOD! How does a guy go from ranked 542nd place to FIRST place in woman's category????? Even a bad swimmer can beat woman! In every category of sports, the men hold a way better, faster record. Why is that? Please explain. Like or not, Katlyn Jenner said she has been invited to play in woman's golf tournaments many times, but will not. When asked why, she said " Cause I'm a man, come on, I hit the ball 100 yards further than woman". Respect! When you mention it doesn't effect those trans because they are not an athlete, yet there is ZERO respect given to ALL the woman ATHLETES. They worked hard for years, and do not even have a chance against a male. I would not be opposed to trans competing in woman's if it was a fair playing field but it is obviously not! The division to me in trans opinions is that given 100 woman- 99 woman and 1 trans woman, the one side looks at and considers the trans woman ONLY! The other point of view, looks at facts, what is fair, and considers all 100.
It doesn't matter whether a man subjectively "passes" or not. Women are not a costume, they are not something you have to have "effort" to become, you either are one or you're not and no man is a woman no matter what they look like. Blaire is a man, he shouldn't be using women-only spaces and if he continues to do so, he should do so knowing that he's breaking the law by doing it and will have to face legal repercussions for doing that. That's just the objective truth. If you let one man into a women's only space, you have to let all of them in. "Passing" is subjective and it's irrelevant to the principle of "woman only space".
I am looking at the fact the laws have changed and my view is based on Okay, then at the very least, if you are going to claim you are a woman and force me to share a bathroom, changeroom then AT LEAST do the work to fully appear to be a woman and just blend in rather than freak woman out "seeing a man" in a their space. Which is what I have heard "real" trans state. That if you do not appear female then don't use a woman's space, do not make woman ever feel uncomfortable, do not disrespect their feelings etc... and that a obvious man should not be able to simply put on a dress and go into woman's space. @@KaiDecadence
That was a complete and utter lie. Blaires been using the women's restroom since before he popped estrogen pills. There is photographic evidence of this. He lies constantly. I watch him and even like him but hes not always honest,okay.😂
I have no clue why and/or how he doesn't see the irony in the concept of believing you are the opposite sex (when you objectively are not) vs someone who believes they are different age and/or race when they objectively aren't. Truly funny stuff there but er, that's your brain on "trans" logic for ya.
Hey there everyone I finally got around to doing a full-on analysis on Blaire White. I had been asked to do one on him for awhile now and at first I wasn't sure I should since I felt like his issues were obvious to those who have listened to him. But I then saw how he was being treated as someone who is "true trans" and it was then that I decided to go ahead and do this video as I felt like maybe it would help coming from a feminine gay man who does understand some of what Blaire has gone through. Again, this is not an attack on Blaire, it's just meant to show that he really isn't "true trans", no one is. Whether it's someone like Blaire White or someone like Chris Chan, the simple reality is that they are both men who think that they are women for the most arbitrary of reasoning. And to those who say that Blaire never calls himself "female", it doesn't matter because he is still trying to insinuate that he is one by calling himself a "transwoman" which there is no such thing as the only way to be a woman is to be 𝐚𝐧 𝐚𝐝𝐮𝐥𝐭 𝐡𝐮𝐦𝐚𝐧 𝐟𝐞𝐦𝐚𝐥𝐞 which he nor any other trans-identifying man is not and never will be. So Blaire not calling himself a female is meaningless when he is still in fact, inferring that he is one by calling himself a "woman" anything.
And even though Blaire may call out the more socially unhinged men, this by no means means that he is any different than them and must be held to the same standard, the line must be held.
For some more thought-provoking commentary on Blaire, I highly recommend checking out A Slightly Twisted Females' 4 part livestream special on him
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Anyway thank you for watching and until then, I'll catch ya in the next one😊
Which basically makes Blaire White a feminine gay man who has simply had several surgeries done and is taking estrogen?
@@ivydark9741 Yep, he's just an effeminate gay man who's had a few face surgeries (that didn't really do anything) and a pair of chest implants while taking wrong sex hormones. Still a man, will always be a man, and is no woman of any kind.
@@KaiDecadence And yet she has a brain sex structure like that of a woman. She still has done everything she could to transition. IE get hormones, face surgeries, breast implants etc.
Now of course we can't do fully biological sex changes yet like how certain species of fish can naturally do. However in the future as science evolves we may be able to do this and be able to change a xy man into a xx woman. Blaire is a transwoman and has the discordant brain to body sex that grants one dysphoria. Because science shows that contrary to what you feminist Commies say Gender is not a Social Construct but is based on brain structure.
@@mariaavalon3730 are these feminist commies in the room with us right now? )
@@ivydark9741 I mean KaiDecadence is a gay male TERF praising feminist communists like Magdalen Berns so yeah there are lots of Feminist Commies here.
Your videos on the LGB and trans ideology has really been eye-opening to me(and this is coming from a Christian, who, for a long time, has been open to at least the LGB part(which I still am), but not so much the TQ+ part), so thanks for that! ^^
The whole “changing your gender” concept, always kinda made me uncomfortable, but I never really spoke up about it, since I’d of course be labeled a “transphobe”, and because I just wanted to come off as “nice”, you know.
But after coming across the VERY ANNOYING TRA’s like Ethel Thurston from EssenceLacksThought(who for one, claims to be “trans”, yet goes by both he/she(and maybe even “they” as well, I don’t quite remember)pronouns, two, claims there’s a link between Christianity and abuse(this one should be obvious, of course some Christians are bad, but there’s no need to lump all of us together, just because you personally had a bad experience with us), and three, attacking REAL women like Maria MacLachlan, Rachel Oates and etc.), I’ve grown more and more resentful of trans ideology, and especially annoying activist like Ethel, Jammidodger, and ect.
I don’t even like Harry Potter, and I still agree with JKR’s tweets on women’s rights(as I’m also a real biological one), and of course believe the hate for her is out of control.
Last year, I even lost a subscriber on here, after I posted on my Instagram story, that I no longer believe in nonbinary ideology, or that kids under 18 should be able to transition(never really thought too much about either of those, when I was brainwashed by the woke mob), and that people like you had opened my mind. I wonder why?🤔
Anyway, sorry for the long comment, just wanted to get this out there, since your videos helped me, and keep up the good work!🖤
You're not a Christian if you're open up to abominations like the guy making the video and ppl like him. Christians need to rebuke him and call his sin out. He needs to repent just like you. Bible says not to justify wickedness.
"Ideology". I didn't know changing your gender was a religion?
By the way, it's called the LGBT community, not "LGB", the T is a queer identity whether you like it or not.
@@Spectre-69 There’s a difference between ideology and religious beliefs, and wanting to change your biological sex(which you CAN’T, btw) is NOT a sexuality.
@@Spectre-69 How does one change gender, considering the fact that gender is not real? There is only biological se x. Also, the T is not a sexuality. LGB is. As per the actual definitions, they do not belong in the same category.
it’s so sad to see people fall into propaganda
Thanks for making this, Kai. I rly appreciate the critical thinking notes. Reality is best as you say;)
Thanks!
Saying Kai must be envious of Blaire is such a nasty strategy to silence his strong arguments against transgenderism.
It also just wouldn't be true. As I said in the video, Blaire doesn't have anything I'm interested in and he can continue doing all the cosmetics that he wants to himself but that doesn't give him the right or special privilege to enter spaces he has no business being in.
@@KaiDecadenceI know it's not true. Right now, Blaire's ideology is being recognized as the dangerous semi-religion that it is. This kind of stress coupled with the wrong hormones injection must be harming his body tremendously. We're talking about a very poor quality of life. As far as love life goes, his relationship with his boyfriend is very bro-like. I don't believe Joey (?) loves him as much as he fetishizes feminized men.
@@dadeusfortunae Oh for sure. Blaire might not be as forthcoming about the health problems he more than likely is dealing with but to anyone who has looked into how prolonged usage of wrong sex hormones effect the body, we know there is more going on than these people will admit to. It's like how Samantha Lux was caught in his little web of lies when he admitted that he was facing complications with his penovag but then switched it up and said he was facing no complications with it. You can't count on these people to be honest until sh-t really hits the fan.
As for his relationship with Joey, I won't say if Joey truly loves him or not but I think the fact they were engaged for like a year or two only to break it off, I do have the thought that I wouldn't be surprised if Joey has no intention on marrying him.
Because they are recruiters and want LGB to hate ourselves like they hate themselves.
@@KaiDecadence Blaire has transitioned and done all the work she can to be a simulation of a woman she can enter women. Also how do women think they have a right for exclusive spaces when many feminist women have been fighting to tear down all male exclusive spaces.
How GOOD it feels to know you are not harming your body and not tricking anyone. It's so wonderful to live in reality and that's why Blaire and Buck don't have 10% of your inner peace, Kai.
Thank you. Yeah I will acknowledge that it can be hard at times but at the end of the day, I know it's the right path because you keep your health and sanity in relative tact.
@@KaiDecadence 💯💫
Kai, great video. You should also consider doing a video regarding feminine gay male acceptance in the gay community. I was honestly a bit surprised there was a distinction or these were issues in the gay community.
I viewed all gay men as having slightly "feminine" characteristics, even the masculine ones. Basically, for heterosexual people, all gay men are feminine in some way so its confusing they have a hard time dating and finding love within the gay community.
I don't think the general public understands the difference or what the challenges are in the gay community. Doing a video on this would help explain why some gay men are so devoted to gender ideology; and it would help those gay men considering "transition" to take a step back.
Also, I think Blair White and Dylan Mulvaney will end up detransitioning if gender self ID laws end up being overturned. This will have a huge impact on the gay male and lesbian community.
Also, I still think it is important to remember that irregardless of the person's race, biological sex, sexuality, personality or how they dress, issues such as love and sex, dating and relationships, and marriage and families are extremely hard and challenging. No one has perfect a love life or life in general. We are all struggling in some way.
Thanks and yeah, I actually plan on doing a video talking about the struggles and all that in the next upcoming video.
Cool. Just remember it's not just Blair White and Dylan Mulvaney who have been pushing gender ideology. It is also well known transwomen/feminine gay men like Kim Petras, Tommy Dorfman, Laverne Cox, Samantha Lux, Eden the Doll, Lilac Gibney, Blossom Brown, Nikki Dragun, Eli North, Jeffrey Marsh, and Rose Montoya and more who are pushing this ideology in the gay community and in the public.
The so called bears look hyper masculine.
@@9395gbJeffrey Marsh is a whole new level of pure evil.
No, the majority of gay are traditional presenting gay men that are represented of gay men gay men don't like feminine gay mainly because most of them are annoying 😤
I do like Blaire, but Blaire would DEFINITELY have lost to Magdalen. Most people would. She was an intellectual heavyweight. There's honestly no one else that would be a better debater for Blaire, because we all know how quickly Magdalen would shut that shit down, and she would do it calmly and wittily. Such a missed opportunity.
For sure, Magdalen was a force to be reckoned with and it's why so many TRAs hated her because she didn't care what you thought about her and would check you if need be. I do think that Brittany (A Slightly Twisted Female) would be a good debater for him. I also think Karen Davis of You're Kiddin' Right would be great as well lol.
Who is magdalen? I'm interested to look up more of her work? Is she a youtuber?
@@ireriramirez9330youtube.com/@MagdalenBerns?feature=shared
@@ireriramirez9330 Magdalen Berns was a radical feminist RUclipsr. She passed away in 2019 from cancer but her videos are still up.
www.youtube.com/@MagdalenBerns
@@ireriramirez9330Yes, look up Magdalen Berns. She was a big Gender Critical figure back in 2016ish, but unfortunately she passed away in 2017. She was fucking brilliant and influenced a lot of the current GC people, though imo she was one of a kind.
You made an excellent video here. This needed to be made. Really appreciate you speaking out against Blaire’s ideology. Too many people are blinded by Blaire and believe the hypocrisy. There is hardly any videos debunking his views. It’s quite shocking that so many people give him a pass. hope people start to see him for what he really is.
Thanks a lot. I, too, was tired of the blind praise he was getting when he was is as pr9blematic with this ideology. More importantly, there have been a small few videos made on him that ended up getting taken down. A slightly Twisted Female had her original video on Blaire taken down, but she went on to make some livestream responses to him that haven't been taken down, so that was nice to see.
It's just important that Blaire is held to the same standard and not given special treatment. No one is saying that he can't dress how he wants, but he just needs to stay out of women, only spaces njst like any other trans identified man.
Gonna post a bunch of comments with my thoughts on this.
I've seen Blaire interact with his mom before on a video and it gives me a weird feeling that I can't accurately describe. It's like uncanny but it's more....like, it doesn't feel like a genuine mother daughter connection, it feels more like a spectacle. It's more like she's just supporting her son as a son who's hyper fixated on something, because she should support him because she's his mom. Idk if that makes sense. Its not the same kind of natural acceptance between mother and daughter.
Similar with Blaire and Joey. While Joey appears to he have a more romantic and natural acceptance of Blaire... I can't help but feel there's an underlining feeling of things being unnatural between all parties. It's not just isolating to watch, but it must he alienating to be them. They're not naturally a heterosexual couple and they don't fit together like one. They don't even fit together like a gay couple because of that denial Blaire holds so strongly within himself. I think it's that denial of reality that makes it feel so off putting.
I'm not trying to say there's a world in which this could ever be natural. It never will. I'm just postulating that this goes beyond Blaire and this is how all "allies" treat their trans friends and/or family. It's not natural. It's forced and uncanny. You're only "accepted" on principle, not because you are who you claim to be.
First off, Hey! Long time no see, nice to see you're doing alright ☺
Yeah I totally get what you mean, the relationship between the two does feel off and awkward. I think you're right that deep down his mother doesn't actually think he's her daughter but is simply going along with it so she doesn't lose her only offspring. I feel like deep down she also grieves seeing her son go down this path.of self-delusion but can't say anything. He did mention that when he was very young, his mother didn't really accept him and she didn't come around until he was in high school. so that could be another reason why she's going along with it as a way because she might feel guilty for how she treated him when he was very young.
As far as Joey goes, he's a closet-case and even if Blaire is in denial of him thinking he's any kind of woman, being with a closet-case is never a great thing to do. Don't be distracted, they are still a gay couple and deep down, I'm sure Blaire knows this whereas Joey is fighting to keep the delusion alive. We've seen how he can't even handle looking at pictures of Blaire when he was young. It's because he doesn't want to break the delusion that's he's not dating a "woman" which gets triggered if he sees photos of Blaire before he started dressing like a bimbo. The off-putting feeling you mention, I believes it's you picking up on how their relationship's foundation is built on a lie.
And I get you, deep down the "allies" know that trans-identified people aren't the opposite sex but they go along with it just to be nice.
I have seen videos of Blair without the filters and editing and Blair's body looks like a biological man. Blair has extremely narrow to no hips, broad shoulders and low body fat. Its very obviously a biological male's body. Also Blair looks like Olli London to me but more feminine than Olli. The facial plastic surgery is obvious without filters.
I have seen a lot of transwomen in person and the look remarkably and noticeably different from biological women. Plastic surgery and HRT does very little to make biological men look feminine.
Also glad you brought up rhe point about what biological women wear, how they style their hair or whether those things make you a woman or feminine. Halle Berry has been called the most beautiful woman in the world for decades and her signature look throughout her 20s 30s, 40s and 50s has been a short pixie cut. No one thinks she looks like a man or looks masculine. In fact, people believe her pixie cut enhances her facial beauty as a woman and femininity. This trans ideology about clothes, hair and makeup is completely illogical and medieval thinking.
Omg, I've mistaken Oli London for Blaire a few times on thumbnails. They really do look alike! If Oli got a long black wig I honestly wouldn't be able to tell them apart, Lol. Blaire used to look more feminine when he was younger and had more fat around his face, now that he's lost weight and had plastic surgery his face looks a little harsh. I wonder how he will look when he's 50. I don't think he will be able to handle getting older.
@sallynopalmolive2384 Yeah, I am not trying to make fun of Blair, but I see Olli London mixed in with little Nikki Cox (after she got plastic surgery) when I see Blair.
I don't think people are aware of how severe and noticeable plastic surgery is in person. It changes the person's skin texture and their facial harmony and you can see the scarring in person.
All those photos and videos you see of Blair, the Kardashians, Olli are heavily filtered, photoshopped, and retouched.
I also find this line of thinking very regressive. So if I am a woman that never wears make -up, does that now mean that I am a trans man? Bring back the 80s. Prince and David Bowie.
Yes. He definitely has plastic surgery face. He must be seething with jealousy when he says all the "just regular" men around who do have wide hips (for a man). I live abroad and every time I visit the US, it strikes me how many American males have a pear-shape...it's way more prevalent than where I live (South America).
@@erichamilton3373 I live in the US, and I’ve never noticed pear-shaped men. I can think of one or two men that I know who are overweight, and carry a lot of fat around their legs and bum, but that alone doesn’t make them pear-shaped. A man’s shoulder width alone excludes him from being categorized as truly pear-shaped. As for the men I’ve seen who carry more weight on the bottom than most men, it’s really more of an even distribution throughout the body, whereas most men just get big bellies when they’re overweight. And I see that in men from various countries, and of various races and ethnicities.
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I find his constant hair flicking, pouting and boob jiggling really offensive.
I do none of these things. I don't do anything to attract male attention. I don't have to. I'm an actual woman and that kind of attention is really irritating. I, and women who are secure and confidential in who they are, just want to be left alone. We don't need constant attention and affirmation.
Blaire seems to need that attention all the time.
Therapy would be really useful for him to build an internal resource of self confidence so he wouldn't need it from outside of himself all the time. 🤷🏻♀️
Yeah the hair flicking, pouting, and moob jiggling is so unnerving but I know why he's doing it, it's his way of sexualizing himself to the "chaser" members in his audience.
And to add, Blaire (and frankly the other HSTS who do this) revel in being ogled because before they "transitioned", they would get next to no attention in the gay scene. As I said in the video, contrary to popular belief, feminine presenting men are not seen as all that attractive and desirable to majority gay men, we tend to be ignored to be honest. So when these feminine gay men "transition", they get a high from the attention because they were used to not getting much of any prior.
It's why they don't understand why women do not find this kind of attention appealing because they didn't go through the female experience to see just how uncomfortable it really can be.
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I've watched a lot of his content and this is actually new information to me. This is so sad, I hope he will be able to face the reality of who he is, and stop taking hormones which he has admitted has had some negative effects on his body.
Yeah I had watched Blaire in the past during his early years, the whole "anti-sjw" trend and he divulged a bit of his personal life in weekend livestreams he'd. It was just that at the time, I believed in trans ideology so I didn't really question the things he said in them only to realize once I peak transed, there were so many red flags denoting his trauma.
And yeah, I really hope he gets off the HRT because he's already been taking them for a decade now and it's really gonna do a number on his physical health when he gets older.
@@KaiDecadence that fake estrogen has really done a number on him already. Isn't it starting to cause problems with chronic fatigue for him? I'm not sure, but I remember but there was already a pretty big difference in his demeanor between the time I started and stopped watching him. It's like he's gone a bit loopy.
@@twocanplay7976 Ah no, I didn't notice but it would make sense because he started them at 23 and is now 30 so that's a long time of taking wrong sex hormones.
Blaire will never get off the hormones. Let’s be real.
@@KaiDecadence Oh wow, I didn’t realize he was an adult when he started. I don’t know what I assumed he was much younger.
wonderful break-down, kai. i really enjoyed this.
Lesbian separatists are promoting discord between the sexes and making straight people antagonize GNC males.
I'm glad you enjoyed the video 😊
Again, a brilliant and courageous video. Thank you very much Kai !
Thanks!
wow this was very well put together I completely agree with what you are saying 👏🏻
Thanks!
Then you're dumb.
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If you believe men can become women and vice versa, or that sexuality(LGB) and identity(TQ+) should be lumped together, I’d suggest taking a look in the mirror, before calling others dumb.
Great video Kai....very perceptive....I think you hit the nail on the head with the superficiality of Blair White's schtick....the whole trans ideology of recent years is a house of cards ....you only have to push against it a little bit and it comes tumbling down
Exactly. Once you start asking the hard questions and challenging the trans ideology, it begins to topple over like dominoes and as you keep doing this, you simply cannot believe in the lie anymore.
That was a very well done and fair video. Props to you, Kai.
Thanks!
This was a great video, Kai. I absolutely know I am a woman when, as you said, I take off my makeup, tie back my hair, and put on comfy clothes that aren't sexualized. Yup, fully a woman through and through. I really resonated with the way you phrased that! Hope you keep making content❤❤
I'm glad it resonated haba sometimes it's important to keep perspective on these things
I tried to live as a gay man and it was a hellish experience. I prefer to be a trans woman. You are bitter because you’re “differently beautiful”
You can pretend that you're a woman all you want but not everyone has to play along with your delusion. So as long as you understand that and you are staying out of women only restrooms, locker rooms, and just overall women only spaces, I have nothing to say.
@@KaiDecadence who cares? As long as we look fabulous, something you’ll never achieve. And have you looked at your color? What kind of guy would be into you? I will use the female restrooms. Try me.
@@KaiDecadence u are revolting, u are just a bootlicker
@@UterineBlackmail You're entitled to your opinion
@@KaiDecadence boot licker. I don't have to pretend anything because men are genuinely attracted to me and I'm able to sleep with them without disclosing. You think that by kowtowing to cis women you will get something in return? poor little fffffff*****ggggggg
In many videos Blaire talks about being abused and even r@ped very early in life, which, if true, could've caused dissociative disorder he calls being trans. He also claims being Autistic which alone would explain the trans as Autistic people are more susceptive to this trend and there're statistics showing most "trans men" being just Autistic girls, unironically 😢
I didn't know that he claimed to be autistic but I mean, it certainly tracks (speaking from experience as a fellow autistic). That makes even more sense how he hyperfixated on all the negativity that he was dealing with in his life growing. Though yeah, autistic people, in this case autistic gay and lesbian youths who are gender nonconforming can be very susceptible to trans ideology and this is is why it's important to raise awareness on this.
Not to confuse with a dissociative identity disorder - an extremely rare condition.
he seems to be also possibly implying csa from his dad in a recent interview, he didn't explicitly say it but he kept saying things like he did a "specific kind of abuse" and that he "doesn't want to say it fully", + that his dad was "a demon, evil, a monster, etc". whenever he's talked about issues with his dad before from what ive seen he's said pretty clearly what he did i.e like verbal/emotional stuff, but in this specific situation he seemed to really want to avoid specificying what the abuse was which makes me think it was probably more severe than things like verbal or physical abuse. i haven't finished this video yet so i dont know if it was mentioned here
edit: wait yes im at the end now and it was mentioned
@@KaiDecadence And again not all people who are trans are autistic or sexually abused they have a discordant brain to body sex.
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Excellent video! I've seen a recent short here on RUclips from Blaire where he says that he believes trans women are a "type" of man... but I'm not sure he actually believes that🤷 you can't help but feel sorry for young Blaire and all the bs his family put him through😢
Also I definitely remember him saying he didn't want to debate someone with brain cancer, that's how I found out about Magdalene in the first place!
Yes I have seen that clip and like I said to others, it's a load of bullsh-t mainly because 1, they aren't a "type" of man, they just are men period. And yeah, not even he believes it because if he did, he would stop calling himself a "woman" anything ("Transwoman" is just saying "I'm a woman" without directly saying he's one). If he called himself a "trans-identifying man", that would be one thing but he doesn't and this is why his little concession is pointless.
And right on, nice to hear someone else remembers that
Magdalen, even suffering brain cancer would have put a debate with "blaire" to bed nicely.
27:27 - 27:38 about this, in the jubilee video that featured blaire, other trans-identifed or transsexuals were present who wanted to make it clear that women spaces ARE for biological women, and i felt that by them saying this would only make women sympathize with them more enough to want to allow them in female-only spaces. one going by Jessica saying "i choose to use the men's bathrooms to protect women." As heartfelt as it was, this made me realize just how dangerous allowing this feeling of pity and empathy is because it contradicts all of my morals. I understand it was very respectful, but this decision to now allow and accept any man identifying as a woman to enter as long as he can say the bare minimum is just as insulting.
on top of that, blaire also said that she was "more emotionally intelligent" after taking estrogen. I'm not too sure how i feel about that, even though Blaire was saying women are emotionally intelligent, i don't think taking hrt makes you understand what being a woman is like or see through the lens of a woman just because you more emotional i guess. it just reminds me of those misogynistic twitter posts from tims saying "estrogen made me so airheaded and a crybaby" and... yeah. well, maybe not on the same level, but, u get it. it's all so tiring.
Right, I watched the Jubilee video (rolling my eyes the whole time lol)/ I've been round this block long enough to know emotional manipulation when I see it. That "Jessica'" dude would not get bothered in a men's restroom, I guarantee it. So long as he's not acting like a pervert and minding his own business, most dudes would just leave him alone. At most he'd just get a few stares but that is not violence. And you're on the right path, don't fall for the emotional manipulation, no one is forcing him to dress the way he does and if he feels that unsafe being in the men's restroom looking like he does, he can take off the wig and makeup. As a feminine presenting man myself who uses the correct bathroom, I would just tell him to own it but it's all choice at the end of the day.
I remember that comment Blaire said and I too, thought it was BS. It doesn't take taking artificial estrogen to gain emotional maturity, it's a matter of just sitting and listening to what it is others are saying and and self-analyzing to process and respond. Most men are socialized to develop pride and ego which is why they don't typically have emotional intelligence out the gate but with time, patience, and learning, men can totally be emotionally intelligent as well. Men like Martin Luther King, Eleanor Rossevelt, David bowie, and Barack Obama are some examples of men who possess emotional intelligence so Blaire can miss me with that silliness lol.
And if he means understanding wmen better? Again no. Us feminine men can relate to women on a slight social level but even if a feminine man does take HRT, that doesn't make him get the lived experience of what being a woman is really like, all they have to go on are stereotypes and what they've seen in media.
I doubt that BW was "more emotionally intelligent" after taking estrogen, but he's certainly more prone to various forms of cancer/chronic illness after ingesting that laundry list of hormones and other affiliated drugs.
I'm so happy you posted! There are many issues involving the community, I sure it stems from people being insecure about their bodies and what you stated in your past video, I think people call Blaire White a true trans is because they are right wing so more conservatives only respect him for that aspect.
I'm glad you enjoyed the video and I think that's true to an extent. There have been gay men and lesbians who call him "true trans" as well though so I don't think it's all conservatives who are doing this.
@@KaiDecadence I remember going through a phaze in middle school and early high school about myself being trans, I have accepted my gender but there are parts of me that haven't come to the reality and live in a fantasy of being a gender I desired, when really it wasn't the gender, it was a whole new identity.
The weight of being perfect for my parents but when I failed made me feel like I failed at life so I wanted a whole new identity to restart.
I hope that many other trans or non-binary people who feel the same as I do, will overcome the need to escape, to love themselves because no one loved them until someone could get something from them, I just hope the best for them since mental health comes first before making life changing decisions.
@@Elmooo8283 Well part of what can help is realizing that "man" and "woman" are not "gender", they are states of biological sex. "Masculinity", "femininity", and "androgyny", that is "gender" and that accuracy can partly help unravel it.
And I hope the same as well but in the meantime, they need to stay in their lane sorta-speak by not entering spaces that they should not be in.
@@KaiDecadence You do realize that gender is not a social construct right but are based in our brains and our literal brain sex. Hell humans aren't even the only species with discordant brain to body sex we also see it in other animals like mice. In fact that is where we discovered it.
Great critique Kai! 😊👍🏾
Kai you have inspired me to call myself a non gender conforming straight man. This gives me peace and safe from being sucked into the trans ideology
Awesome to hear
I like your anime style background. Its really creative.
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I learned a lot from this video, thank you! I didn’t know he had agreed to, then backed out of, an interview with Magdalen Burns. That would have been a cakewalk for her. What annoys me is that GC people are now arguing among ourselves about the concept of true trans and also the “good trans” identifying men who acknowledge they’re men, like Debbie Hayton and Katy Jon Went. It strikes me as more centring men and using our intellectual energy on them; the opposite of what we say we fight for.
Oh yeah ,the Magdalen Berns debate was something many of us were looking forward to back in 2019 and were totally bummed when it didn't happen but when Blaire made that spineless tweet of an excuse on why he never followed through with the debate, it was so obvious what happened, that he chickened out 3 times and waiting for the perfect opportunity to scapegoat out through Magdalen's worsened cancer. It was absolutely shameful.
Hm I hear that there are a lot of GCs who are arguing for "True trans" but I personally haven't come across any and the GCs I do follow do not entertain that nonsense at all. But either way, it's just important to remind these people that if we want to see this trans mess go away (or get out of legislation and children's schooling), they need to be critical of it all and stop thinking about the person themselves but the principles that their ideology stands for.
Great video, Kai! I've really appreciated seeing your comments pop up in the gender critical sphere. I was also a big fan of Magdalen's (RIP) so it's nice that others still remember her too. And yeah, she would have wiped the floor with Blaire lol
Hey, thanks! Yeah Magdalen is so so missed and I'll never forget her and her memory lives on through all of us who were touched or awoken (by her content. And for real, that debate would've been epic on Magdalen's part. I remember seeing an old debate that was done between an HSTS and Cathy Brennan and Cathy was saying so much common sense like when she called him out asking him why he couldn't just wear makeup and a dress as a man which gave the HSTS a mild meltdown. It's just these HSTS getting the smack down of reality from a woman that really sets it in for them and I would've loved to see Magdalen give that to Blaire, a woman saying "no" to him and it not having to do with conservatism or traditional values.
Great job on this deep dive. I really hope your channel thrives and your voice is heard. The voice of gender non-conforming gay men is of the upmost importance.
Thank you, I'm glad you enjoyed the video!
Totally!
You only ever speak facts. Keep it up Kai
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Totally agree with your assessment. I also want to add, not sure if you've seen his recent video about doing therapy to figure out why he's trans but it's super obvious that being trans is a trauma response, and he rationalizes it so much by only saying it is at least PARTLY a trauma response (no, it's FULLY, not PARTLY) and also says that just because it's a trauma response doesn't make it less valid....so he can justify what he's done to his body and keep up the facade. It comes off as super delusional and out of touch with reality. If you do something drastic like transitioning because of trauma, that's actually an awful coping mechanism because the motive is unhealthy.
Not sure if you watched towards the end of the video but I do and share my thoughts there. I think it's safe to say that while we knew he had been SA'd, we had no idea that he dealt with "that" growing up. Just added another layer to his trauma that undoubtedly wrecked his mental state.
@@KaiDecadence oh wow, I literally stopped watching before the end so I guess I missed that.
Than how does that explain trans people who were never molested but always had gender dysphoria?
@@KaiDecadence And again not all trans people were molested or raped though but still have dysphoria because it is an issue with the biology of their brains.
@@mariaavalon3730 that could come from other things like societal pressure, bullying, alienation, homophobia, etc.
Kai I know its fucking 2 AM But I am so glad I discovered your channel, however by the gods will the youtube algorithm worked and I found this video and this has been the best video I ever watched ever!
My name is Carlla J.B I am now a Bisexual Ladyboy, I identify as a Ladyboy not because I am a Lady but because a lot of my friends I have are immigrants from Thailand and the Philippines they taught me its okay to just be effeminate gay male so I adopted their culture out of respect and sincerity. To be honest, this whole idealogy of being trans lied I was fed to after I was fed the first lie I couldn't be black and gay
if I was a black gay male then I was selling out to the white man, so then when I ran away and went affirmations the very same gay community pretty much told me I couldn't be gay cause the fact I wore femme clothing and had a feminine voice and persona
meant I was perfect to be a girl, so I went to identify as genderfluid at 15 and nonbinary at 17 it took 18 for me to solidify being trans even then when I went to therapy my therapist just told me I'm a normal healthy male is just different, so despite my therapist wishes
I was so convinced I was a woman so I spent 1 whole year living as one then when I turnt 19 I decided to start HRT despite being on HRT I quickly realize as an adult as if it was layers of shards breaking away I realized I couldnt be a woman like if wearing dresses, taking pills and pretending meant I was a woman then im a miserable one,
I went back to my therapist told him maybe I been holding my homosexuality back and reality is im just gay male on hrt, then he opened up that his straight guy on hrt however it makes him more masculine because its testosterone he never scolded me for going behind his back to get hrt
which allowed me trust my therapist build geniune connection that I still have today I feel that when you have people that care, they wont scold you but they will let you know that their happy you came to reality instead of creating more damage more permanent decisions.
So what im saying is I just wish when I was 14 experimenting with various amount of clothing I liked and at 13 when I found out I was gay instead of being told I was not my mom son or my dad son these are my bio parents that wanted me, I just wish they wouldve told me son we love you and if this is how you feel then thats okay We disagree with it for various reasons that we know primarily one is religious but were able to look past religion to love our son and reality is you will always be our son and you always be a man.
except I was told by my very own fucking parents Im less than a man and if I continue to be gay I will never be a man and I never be their son so you have imagined the mental trauma that scar my brain and led me to this fucking rabbit hole of trans idealogy when your told as kid you less than what you are then you believe anything to make amends with being less than.
P.S My Mom apologized and I have beautiful relationship with my Mom now and rest of my Family they eventually had to come around and accept im still their son no matter what but damn I always joke to my mom you shouldve just accepted the fact i was going be different this wouldve be alot easier.
11:10 Yes. Joey at the very least is bisexual. Which, he should embrace and be himself.
He is probably bi because of gynandromorphophilia, in his possible case. Many researchers believe bi men are bi because of some paraphilia.
He should but he won't anytime soon since he himself grew up in a conservative traditionalist background as well.
@@KaiDecadence Ironic that you decry conservative traditionalism when Gender Critical feminism has always aligned itself with Conservative Traditionalists. In fact the Feminist/Christianity alliance gave us such things as prohibition, The Hollywood Hayes Code, porn and prostitution bans etc. Really Feminism is a very conservative ideology. If the Repubs came around to supporting abortion honestly that would be the last barrier for feminists to vote Republican.
@@twocanplay7976 It hasn't stopped them from working together in the past or present however. Even JK Rowling the TERF Empress has even worked with homophobic Christians even though she claims to be for LGB rights atleast and feminists and Christians have both always been puritanical moral busy bodies.
@@mariaavalon3730no. Conservatives dont support women. Neither party does.
You know I was nodding along the whole video right😊
Well done Kai❤
Haha thanks!
I recognized that Heaven’s Night music immediately! Silent Hill 2 is a masterpiece.
Haha agrees
Thank-you! We need more of you RUclipsrs with a platform to keep talking about this. You, Brittany Roux, Kellie Keen, Karen Davis, ect are much needed right now. I've been talking to quite a few people who are still falling for that narrative. I think one of the worst is Marcus. She goes on about how she's all for mental health, yet acts like the biggest hypocritical mean girl lol. "If you're not like me, you can't sit at the cool kids table" 😂. Again, thanks for being another voice of reason, because like you've said, as an effeminate gay man, you understand better than a lot that there's nothing wrong with not conforming to "gender" roles. Like many young girls, I was a Tom boy growing up, and it didn't make me a boy or any less of a girl. I just wish instead of telling kids you have to be one or the other, that it's ok to like what you like and be yourself. Nothing will change who we are, and physically or mentally hurting yourself should never even be a thought. It makes me sad what some people will put themselves through 😢
Oh no problem and thanks for the encouragement. It's not easy continually speaking out and being called every name under the sun for it but it's very important to do this while holding the line and pushing back when not many people will do that. There's no denying that living as a gender nonconforming effeminate man is hard but it's better than poisoning your body with wrong sex hormones that lead you to premature health problems and worse if you dare get the butchering disguised as "surgery". So as tough as it can be, we will continue to push back.
@@KaiDecadence you are incredibly strong and I will stand with you because you deserve the encouragement. Obviously people are going to hate no matter what, but if they'd stop being so ignorant to what these extreme leftists are pushing, and the harm they are causing to so many of us, our world would become a much safer place. I can't wait until people start seeing the truth. I am so glad you didn't go through all the experimental disasters that are being pushed so hard right now, because you are incredible the way you are and have amazing fashion sense too I may add. All the best and I'm looking forward to watching more videos. Take care 🫶
great video, i think it really helps to round out and summarize a lot of the things you and ASTF have talked about in the stream(s)
Thanks!
Great video! I did get sucked into the tru tranz narrative before finally peaking.
It's cool, a lot of us who became gender critical were sucked in at one point and we got out of it at different times, it's normal lol.
its good to see im not the only one who's grown critical of blaire. he makes it surprisingly hard for enablers and handmaidens to let go of the troonally mentality since he tries so hard you feel bad for him (before completely getting outta the handmaiden or enabler mentality, that is).
Oh for sure, I've had this view of him for years now lol If anything, I'm just glad to see more people finally pulling the rug off of him and taking him to task (even if he won't engage back). But yeah, he has the court of public opinion and I get it, he's not a creepy AGP but he still is a man who essentially believes women are a set of attributes that a man can buy and become and I do think he genuinely likes to fetishize himself to men so nah, he's toxic but in a different, less obvious way (at least to men, women seem to be more privy to this for obvious reason).
Really, really well done! The world (including Blaire himself) needs to hear these truths from men like yourself, Kai. You're the example that young gay men need.
Aw, thanks. I do hope that Blaire watches it and even if he doesn't say anything, just think about what was said.
A guy that wears women's clothes? Why do young homosexual men need different examples from young straight men? Do women benefit from having Kai influencing other gay men?
@@kaura678 Why do young homosexual men need different examples from young straight men? I don't understand your question. I'm not saying that all gay men have to be like me, that all gay men have to be feminine. My voice in this pushback against trans ideology is just a means of trying to reach other feminine gay men in that they don't have to fool themselves into believing they are something they are not in order to be themselves. Masculine leaning gay men, I'm not trying to change them and they wouldn't be getting anything out of my content anyway so I don't understand your problem.
@@KaiDecadence This woman thinks you are an example to (all) young gay men need. I'm asking her *why* . Why you, why young gay men
@@kaura678 Maybe she just means that me just being myself and not pretending to be something I'm not is what she finds useful to gay youths? In no where did she say that they have to be exactly like me. You're making a mountain out of a molehill.
Can you make a video about Brad Polumbo?
While i still watch him, he does give me Trans Activist vibes.
He's basically what you call a "True Trans" advocate.
Like Blaire and Buck, most people overlook his semi-woke tactics due to him not being as aggressive as most TRAS. But he still advocates for using correct pro-nouns for Trans-Identifing people as respect.
Thus proofing the fact that unlike being Gay or Lesbian, Trans is all about playing a game with the entire world. Whereas for homosexuality other people's participation and affirmation just simply isn't required.
Another thing is that on one of his Damage Control episodes, he said he was gonna interview Chloe Cole (a Detransitioner) but he just simply never got around to it. (Which is very similar to what Blaire did with Magdalen) That has raised my concerns with him.
Yes I'm aware of Brad Polumbo, only watched one of his videos but I get the idea of him and that he, like Thai Rivera are "true trans" gay advocates which obviously I don't agree with and don't support. I don't know if I'll get around to doing a video on these two, just gotta be honest but I'll take it into consideration.
@KaiDecadence
Thank you for your honesty, with that being said Can you make a video about how The Trans Idealogy preys upon Tomboys?
@@melvinlopez3251Why not on all GNC kids? GNC boys are also being preyed on.
@alexrusso788 Your right both GNC boys and girls are being preyed upon by the idealogy, but it's mostly girls that are being influenced by the idealogy the most, with most trans identifying people today are Trans-Identifing Women, this is also evidenced by the fact that most Detransitioners are women.
@@melvinlopez3251I've heard the female minors being transitioned are not even tomboys. Their parents are mostly Munchhausen by proxy or these girls are influenced by ROGD. Among real GNC kids, it seems that both boys and girls are being transed by homophobic parents in more or less equal numbers.
Wow, thank you, Kai, for boldly speaking the whole truth. I used to buy into the true trans narrative, and was an avid follower of Blair’s since when he was doing videos with that South African/Canadian tyranny (purposely misspelled), Theron. My eyes have been since opened.
No problem. I'm glad you enjoyed the video. And I remember Theryn Meyer, he was the original Blaire White before be stopped making videos and became Contrapoints' writer.
@@KaiDecadenceRight, I forgot his last name!! Fascinating. (didn't know I misspelled his name, too!)
@@j.j.l. It's all good, he hasn't been active in close to a decade now lol.
Great to see you back on this channel Kai, I don't see you in my videos uploads list nearly enough! Great video with based and well thought out points.
Thanks! Admittedly I don't upload as much because you know, life and all that but I do when I can lol.
This is awesome. I thought I was pretty based but you’ve made me baser. :) Thank you!
You're welcome :)
Glad you're back ❤️
I was sad today thank you for making me happy ❤❤❤
As a gay man, my heart goes out to Blaire. I’m very grateful to have always been at least mostly accepted by my family, and to nowadays be fully accepted by them. I can see how much Blaire is still hurting from his past trauma and lack of acceptance by his dad’s side of the family, particularly in the midst of his untimely death. I think he’s a good person who was swept up in this ideology and thought that transing himself would solving his problems, and while I think he is an intelligent, introspective person, and while his “trans”-formation has benefited him in that it’s garnered him fame and success, I’m not so sure that it’s actually made him happy in the way he’d hoped.
Definitely agree. I do feel for him too as a fellow gay man, a fellow feminine presenting gay man (Those pics of him before he got into his modern day pseudo-Kardashian clone, I totally got it.). But I don't think the "trans" stuff helped him at all and the HRT is slowly poisoning his body and he's now entering his 30s. It's not going to be surprising if he starts noticing the health declining side effects when he gets to his late 30s, early 40s.
@@KaiDecadence 💯💯💯
Your family needs to repent for accepting you. You need to repent of your lifestyle. God hates sinners, Psalm 5:5. The lifestyle you two are living makes you guys evil. REPENT!
Thank you for making this! 🔥🔥🔥
GREAT WORK!!!!
Thanks!
I'm not sure if he's extremely ignorant and careless or just a liar. What he said about Tate made me lose any sympathy for Blaire. Like this man has admitted on camera to doing criminal and vile things, and yet Blaire is defending him and spreading lies. Also, he keeps getting more unnecessary cosmetic operations, looking more and more botched, and supposedly he's one of the sane ones.
I haven't heard what he has said about Tate because I have no patience for that toxicness anymore but if Blaire supports anything that guy says, just no.
And yes, blaire might not see what he actually looks like but he's one more botched surgery away that he will truly see. It's Pete Burns all over again
Don't forget his weird relationship with Alex Jones 🤮
@@patsysaffron9321 Oh yeah, I've seen a little of that. What is up with that? It's very strange how borderline obsessed he comes off with him. Then again, I heard that Alex Jones was found to have gay porn (not calling it "trans") so maybe there's something going on there...
Wow, great analysis! Even the slightly more sensible trans clearly have major untreated issues. Buck angel as well.
Thank you. And yeah, it's important to remember that even the ones who come off sensible are still delusional, they're just not as socially unhinged.
I have never been a very gender typical child ore young man, ore the social great in person. 3 things I have learned: First: Stay to yourself and what you like and you are good in. Stay even to that, your body is made to be good. Second: Just get older. 3. Time will bring you people that like you, even say you are "cool". That will make you more strong in what you are. And that will bring you more people that like you for what you are. --- I think many very young men are under big presure, not strong enough for that, and dont see that they are good as they are. So they choose problematic ways to feel better ore have more sucess in social life, many of them to fast, easy ore good to be true. p.s. Of course its often more easy beeing a non typical type, in a not typical scene like gothic, punk, metal, rock etc... Sooooo... dark greetings from northern germany and stay a cute guy 🎉.
Well said!
Hi Kai! I am glad I found you. Really appreciate your insights. I am a "regular" straight guy, whatever regular means. I do enjoy occasional non gender conforming gender expression I don't really like words like crossdresser and non-binary. I feel I have evolved past being a "crossdresser." And I am clearly straight man. I have shared running into you with two advisors. They both like what they have heard. I really appreciate what you have to say. Your words speak truth and reality for me.
I saw a comment on a RUclips Video that said something along the lines of this "i said years ago the moment we start moving on to Trans Causes is the moment where were running out of causes"
Yeah that sounds about right
Even if Blair DOES accept himself for who and what he is somewhere down the road, he still will have to devote the rest of his life undoing all of the harm and damage that he's done over the years, the people and children thta he influenced. If Blair broke any laws along the way, he'll have to do the jail time that he managed to avoid earlier in his life.
Also, even if Blair does make sincere efforts to make amends for past harm done, some people will never forgive him no matter what. There really is such a thing as doing too much harm and damage to be forgiven and Blair has likely done this over the years. Blair will need to accept this.
In some ways Blair has done things that he can never get any real redemption or absolution for. This is another hard reality that he will have to accept - provided he ever decides to accept the reality of who and what he is in the first place.
There are plenty of people who've been WAY worse about this than Blair has, and many of them have committed crimes that they need to do the prison time for. This is the debt that they need to pay to society. And they need also to deal with their bad karma.
I cackle when I see what he actually looks like. Those tiny boy hips, giant spindley man hands, and the obvious plastic surgery
I think the thing that really gets me is when he wears the hip pads, I don't think he realizes how cartoonishly disproportionate they make him look. He has a skinny man's body and it really does no favors for him...
@@KaiDecadencehe can silicone butt lift. )
@@ivydark9741 True, he could but it would still look comical because he doesn't work out his legs and will just risk having what people call the "Diaper butt" where when one gets a BBL but it starts to sag because the person doesn't workout their legs
I think when people say “true trans” they mean they are
1.) not creepy
2.) gay ( or bi)
3.) gender conforming to the opposite s*x
4.) (the most important one) likable.
It’s really all just a popularity contest.
I can see a case for that but let's be real, how many AGPs have you come across who don't come off creepy, unnerving, or unsettling? This is why I think that gays and lesbians are thought of to be "true trans" because a lot of the time, gays and lesbians who tend to be GNC don't give off the same creepy vibes that a fetishist tends to.
My grandmother still won't forgive me for when I was an addict. The Christmas after my grandpa passed, she shunned me. I know for a fact, being their only granddaughter, he wouldn't have been happy about that, but alas it's been 11 years, and she still hasn't reached out. I know the hurt of being shunned, maybe not to his extent but I know how much it breaks your heart
I'm so sorry to hear about that and I hope that your grandmother does come around eventually. But yeah there's no denying that the estrangement from his family has worsened his mental health but as sad as it is, he still needs to be held to the same standard as any other trans-identifying man.
@@KaiDecadence absolutely he does and thank you for your kind words. I mean we all go through things but we can't use that as an excuse to push negative things into others either. Btw, finally saw your video with Brittany and it was great. I know I'm a bit late for it but I enjoyed it. Again, thanks for being a voice that is so desperately needed now more than ever 💖
What really gets me about all this is how Blaire's signs of trauma are so abundantly clear, yet people willingly choose to ignore it. His fans (like some of the people in the comments here caping for him) say that they are against homophobia, are pro gender-nonconformity, etc., but think that what Blaire has done to himself is perfectly fine. It's pure cognitive dissonance.
Very astute point here. I agree 100%. You can't claim to be supportive of gender nonconformity and pro LGB and then think that this obvious victim of homophobia, abuse, and trans ideology is all well and good.
I love your thorough videos, thank you for making this
Thanks, I'm glad you enjoyed it
Women are not traumatised men. Sorry "blaire."
Rediscovered you Kai
I remember you from way back
You look like you're doing great my love
Keep rocking 🤘🏾
Thanks!
Fantastic video with amazing points!
Thanks!
you're welcome.!☺️👍🏽
Blair like you mentioned has internalised homophobia so thought pretending to be what he thinks a woman is would be his best outcome.
Now he gets to go to the top of the Trans CONservative pyramid and get the attention/validation he has always wanted!
Blair was born into a very CONservative family, they hate LGBT+ the
most. Let alone a effeminate gay guy pretending to be a woman!
I personally think CONservative's are worse than 'Lefties', and there is deffinetly some crazy talking points coming from that camp!
CONservatives think they are the true authority when it comes to society and how everbody should live.🤦🏽♀️
Blaire is ok with men like him using women's spaces. And that's not ok. We're not here to protect him or for him to hide behind. Would he protect us with his superior body strength if need be?
Exactly. Women are not human shields for insecure men and men like him need to stay in their lane.
So it's transgender people job to protect females?
This is a great video! You’re coming into your own as a creator Kai. Keep up the good work
Thanks!
@@KaiDecadence I'm interested to hear more from you on GC topics. I think you could make a successful video series doing this psycho analytic content on other popular figures. You could do the same for Buck Angel who is often referenced a counterpart to Blair. Alternately, I'd love to hear you talk through figures like Contrapoints, or Philosophy tube.
@@umwha Aw thanks you though I'm not entirely sure if I would want to continue doing more topics on GC content because the stuff can be tiring lol I'm not too sure about Buck Angel because she's a trip and many have already done great commentary on her laying out her issues,. I'm not sure I can really add anything more to that.
As for Contrapoints and his skin-walker PhilosophyTube (Seriously, the dude "transed" out after he met him and his persona shtick reeks of Contrapoints lol), these two are the worst when it comes to trans ideology, they are word salad in video form, bring up questions about the ideology only to then either not answer them or use circular logic and you leave their videos either confused and/or having even more questions. I'm not sure if you're aware of him but check out King Critical's (he's a youtuber) videos and livestreams on them, he really helped exposed just how dense their videos reallly are when talking about "trans". And I just don't have the patience to watch their content again, I gotta be honest LOL Same with Jessie Gender and Lily Alexander, just awful brainless (and fake outrage on Jessie's part) stuff.
But yeah, I just gotta be honest about my feelings there on why I more than likely won't be making a series out of this. The main reason why I did this video on Blaire is because every other critique video on him that called him out tended to disappear. A Slightly Twisted Female's video on him was taken down, Vanessa Vokey's channel was taken down, and Karen Davis' channel got taken down. It's like anyone who made a video on him that wasn't validating his non-existent womanhood were taken down but it's important to have something out there take him to task and I also felt like I could add more since I'm a feminine nonconforming gay man who could've turned out like Blaire so I felt like I could contribute some more personal analysis regarding him.
Oh boy, one of my favorite GCers uploading today? AND its a long video?? Must be my lucky day 😁
Edit: getting real sick of RUclips deleting my GC comments, ugh. Maybe more people would deprogram from this trün lunacy if they were actually allowed to see our arguments
Aw thanks! I hope you enjoyed it haha.
@@KaiDecadenceI did enjoy it very much! Just getting tired of RUclips deleting my comments haha
@@twocanplay7976 Oh shoot, I didn't realize it. Freaking censorship... But I understand, sometimes my comments get deleted as well, it's part of why I decided to just make a few videos on this because I was tired of it lol
13:30 Blaire did make a long specific statement about that during the jubilee debate.
Yeah I'm aware but I was referring to before that. Blaire would be mostly silent (and try not to get into that topic)_ a lot prior to that Jubilee video but even then, he's still implying that he should be able to use the women's restroom because of his looks and that is just wrong, he shouldn't be accessing them period. It doesn't matter whether he "passes" or not.
@@KaiDecadence true. I think he tweaks his argument to make himself the exception.
@@ShadowsMasquerade That's what he totally does. If he can't get around it, he'll try to word it in a way that gives inference that he should be the exception because he "passes". And this is wrong and it's why I wish that he would debate with a gender critical woman who would call him on that nonsense and lay down the law on why.
@@KaiDecadencewould the bottom surgery change that? Or not really?
@@KaiDecadencegender in itself is a purely social concept. We go into the restrooms because of our presentation, not our chromosomes. That is an objective reality.
30:35 Oof - I had always suspected that there was something very much like this in Blaire's early history, as it would explain so much, but wow. 😞
That poor, poor little boy. With any luck, he has given someone who's following him now and has a similar history the courage to finally reach out for help. This kind of trauma cannot just be ignored safely imo. I also wish Blaire all the best in working towards finding some peace. x
my other reply didnt show up for some reason but i hope he can find peace as well, that was extremely disturbing and sad to find out. it makes sense that he wanted to escape/alter his body so badly because experiencing something that horrific from someone who was supposed to protect you, care for you, etc. had to have been incredibly traumatic, its bad enough coming from anyone but for it to be from your own father seems like a whole different level of betrayal
Yeah I mean, I already had a very good feeling he did experience this but the therapy video helped confirm that the assumptions (the bullying he received in his small town) were correct.
Hey Kai did you hear about the Cass Review/Report that the NHS released in the UK on trans children a few days ago? Its getting a lot of attention in the UK.
Just read up on it and they came to the conclusion that puberty blockers have been viewed as not a truly conclusive way to deal with gender dysphoria. I think that is good that they're taking a step back from this.
Thank you for another great video!
Thanks!
I’m so glad I came across this video. I do t think Ive ever seen a gender critical content creator criticize Blair. Thank you! 🖤
Edit: 14:17 👏🏽 Holy 👏🏽 sh*t 👏🏽
No way. *NO way…* 😨
No problem though A Slightly Twisted Female also did a mini series on Blaire White though it was through live stream. Either way, it's definitely worth checking out if you haven't, she makes good observation on him.
> ruclips.net/user/livegMylxByDh5E?si=6PrpzhEsf3CRTrW-
@@KaiDecadence I appreciate it!
Yess, finally more videos from you🩷
Slowly but surely lol
Quality over quantity. )
I think lots of people latch onto Blaire and claim him for their side is so they can hold him up as a token to say "See I'm not transphobic". Acknowledging that you can't change sex is really the bare minimum. Blaire agreeing that terfs are apparently the worse tells me everything I need to know about how he views women's rights/spaces. What you said at 16:49 is exactly right
Yeah you're totally right. It's really just the people who haven't accepted the reality that "trans' is not a real thing because in the court of public opinion, it is and these people don't want to risk social rejection by being "transphobic" (which doesn't exist) and so they latch onto men like Blaire White and women like Buck Angel for the reason you highlighted.
But if we want to see change, you gotta hold all to the same principle standard, that sex change is impossible and men and women are not defined by arbitrary stereotypes.
@@KaiDecadence
There are quite a few like Blaire and Buck as you’ve mentioned that kind of get it but only up to the point of their own comfort.
Debbie Hayton recently wrote an article called “JK Rowling is playing with fire” where he sort of reprimands JK about her “tone” on twitter. So he’s allowed to call himself a man but when JK does it, she needs to do it in a nicer way so as not to hurt feelings.
I don’t go to any trans-critical groups but I have heard that Hayton receives a lot of pat on the backs from many women in those circles more than just your average woman who speaks about this stuff. Like you said, there should be far more critique about actually calling yourself “trans” even if you don’t claim to have changed sex.
@@feechi8719 Yeah and those people, I've got absolutely no time for. They pat Blaire and Buck (and Rose of Dawn back when he was more active) on the back for criticizing the more socially unhinged trans-identified people but I'm just sitting there like "yeah, and?" Those two are just as delusional as the trans-identified people they call out on pure principle that they think they are "true trans" when that doesn't exist. So I've got no patience for the people who are essentially picking and choosing who they decide who is "true trans" or not when the point is that trans doesn't exist period.
I'm aware of Debbie Hayton but I wasn't aware of what he said about JK Rowling which is just a load of sh*t. I've never liked "Debbie" from the start tbh because by the time I discovered him, I had already fully peaked trans when I saw how manipulative people like Blaire and Buck were/are and Debbie just gave me the same vibes that they give only even if he calls himself a man.
And that's not even bringing up how it's obvious that he put his wife and kids through the ringer with his fetish.
“I have a black friend”
Very interesting and kinda new perspective, New sub for sure
Thanks
@@KaiDecadence What do you personally think would be the best way to treat Transpeople? im not aware of other ways to reduce "gender dysphoria" without transitioning that seem effective. Sadly its like one of the most complicated topics to research on like ever.
@@koalakultofficial Here's the deal. If these people want to continue (foolishly) believing that they are the opposite sex then fine, that is their own prerogative. But they should not be allowed accesses to spaces that they should not be in. No exceptions, no excuses. And they have to accept that not everyone is gonna play into their delusion, that's just the blunt truth. But if they still want to continue taking health destroying drugs and even get quality of life destroying "surgeries", fine so be it. In an ideal world I would want these things outlawed because these things really are life destroying and I would say these people need to go to intensive therapy (not "gender therapy") but I know that at the end of the day people will still do these things so fine, they can do it but these things but they still should kept out of spaces they don't belong in.
I Suggest You Make a Video About Marcus Dib, You Know, The "Trans Men" Version of Blaire White from Denmark Who Proclaims Herself a "Gay Man"
How does this Woman say wants to Fight Trans Ideology by Proclaiming Herself a Gay Man?
And if I'm not mistaken, she says to use gay men dating apps and that gay men might like "Trans Men."
I'll consider her though I think A Slightly Twisted Female did an awesome commentary on her nonsense.
@@KaiDecadence Yes, she was the first person who opened my eyes to this TIF. Although since I had been following Marcus Dib Videos, seeing that she declared herself a Gay Man already made me a little suspicious, I just needed an awakening.
@@fabriciooliveira6459 That's fair
Blaire can't walk into a mens locker room at the gym to change. Are you kidding me. You're being ridiculous.
No one forced Blaire to get chest implants, he did that of his own (fetishitic) volition. No one forces Blaire to get lip and cheek fillers, he does that of his own volition. And finally, no one forces Blaire to dress the way he does, he does that of his own volition. And you know the thing about that? All these things can be undone. He can get the silicone balls removed, he can stop getting his lips overdone, and he can stop wearing women's clothing. Just because Blaire has done all these things 𝐨𝐟 𝐡𝐢𝐬 𝐨𝐰𝐧 𝐩𝐞𝐫𝐬𝐨𝐧𝐚𝐥 𝐜𝐡𝐨𝐢𝐜𝐞(𝐬) doesn't entitle him to women only spaces. If he's that scared of being hassled using the correct restroom and locker room, that's on him, not women. He can either stop looking the way he does, suck it up like any other gender nonconforming man who continues to use the correct private spaces, or simply not enter any at all and wait till he gets home to do whatever it is he needs to do.
In summary no, he has no right to women only restrooms and locker rooms for the choices that he himself made.
I’m not sure I agree with these takes as a moderate Blaire White fan, but I would be really interested in seeing a video about Buck Angel too
As I said, if Blaire wasn't using women-only spaces and was not calling himself a "woman" anything, I wouldn't have much to say about him aside from the obvious that he has internalized homophobia but that's just not the case and the line must be drawn on him to show that he is not above calling out and being told that he is no exception to the rule, the rule being no men in women-only spaces.
And I don't foresee myself doing a video on Buck, at least not any time soon.
@@KaiDecadence fair, but I guess the thought is that she passes well enough that she isn’t distressing any women that go in and might see her because she does pass pretty well and probably because she’s not attracted to women really. I respect your opinion because it’s pretty unique to hear a take like this from a gender noncomforming man like yourself who- from the thumbnail- I assumed was likely to be nonbinary or some sort. I can understand some of your worries about it too, and it’s nice to see another person willing to understand why women might not be keen on ANY bio man in women’s spaces. I think it’s just hard to keep nuance in a lot of these situations sometimes.
@@sheanartisthunty there's no "nuance" to it (that word is being overused and wrongly used so much these days). Blaire White was born male and remains male because no one can change sex. Therefore, he needs to stop using women's bathrooms, and to stop thinking it's up to him to say which men can and cannot invade women's spaces based on how well they "pass".
@@sheanartisthunty Again, it doesn't matter how well he "passes". "Passing" is subjective. One person may think he "passes", others simply will not (and after seeing the candids, I don't see how anyone can think he does). The point is, the person themselves knows they are a man and that they are entering a space they should not be in. And I just feel like the best course of action is to ban all men out of women-only spaces and let it be known to men like Blaire to question if he really wants to risk being punished legally by entering a space he has no legal access to. Who knows, maybe it will get him to campaign for third spaces even though he would be just fine in the men's restrooms. I've used men's restrooms as I am and nothing hasn't happened, the fear is all in their head. Just don't be a creep. And it's not like he lives in a backwater like Nebraska.
And yes I do worry. In that stream I shared in the video, I forgot to show it but he had gotten comments from young people who discovered him as teens and thanked him for helping them realize they were trans.
Why didn’t you talk about Buck Angel or focus on any FtMs in the way you focused on Blaire? Isn’t this a potential obvious lacking in your argument in a similar way as how you pointed at Blaire for not having debated a Terf?
Hello, Kai. Do you actually believe Blaire was SA'ed or is he just playing the victim now? Lots of these HSTS are tooning out for guys... Homophobia isn't even the biggest motivator anymore.
To be completely honest, yes I have thought about the possibility that he could be lying to make his personal story be more dramatic and I remember in reading in Blanchard's study that some trans-identified men do tend to lie or exaggerate their own stories to be seen as more legitimate ("true trans" for lack of better phrasing). And you raise a good point that most HSTS troon out for guys, like it's no secret if you listen to what they say in their "how I knew I was trans" stories or observe how they present themselves which tends to be more on the sexualized side, especially when you compare what they look like before trooning out .
But still, I'm gonna try to give Blaire the benefit of the doubt that he's not lying because it would be insane if he did and while I think Blaire can be disingenuous, I would hope that he would not stoop that low to lie about something like this.
i honestly feel like he's really telling the truth about this, that type of severe trauma & betrayal from his own dad would explain part of why he wanted to escape himself and his reality so badly
@@ratdog6317 I don't disagree with that, it would make things make more sense on top of the things I mentioned in the video. But it's just Blaire has shown himself to be a tad deceitful and opportunistic at times so while I want to give him the benefit of the doubt, I can understand why others might be suspicious.
@@KaiDecadence yeah i get that. it does make sense that people would be hesitant, i guess i just dont expect that he would stoop as low as lying as something as serious as THAT, but then again i don't know him so i really don't know
I don't believe it for a second
Hi, I’ve been subscribed to both of you for years and I enjoy both your guys’ content. I’m sure if you’ve been keeping up with Blaire for the last few months, but he has taken some stances on bathrooms and locker rooms. He doesn’t go into women’s locker rooms and believes that other mtfs shouldn’t either. He believes that trans people should go into the bathrooms of the gender they pass as-which I know you don’t agree with but he’s made his stance clear on that. More recently, he’s been comfortable admitting that his dysphoria is as probably a direct result of abuse from his father, and he’s comfortable calling himself a man in videos (while still living as a woman irl). And he states that trans women are men. I for one find him more grounded in reality at 30 than he was at 25. Idk if you’ve kept up with him recently or feel like he gotten more in tune with it reality.
I'm just gonna be honest here. Just like I said in my video, do you honestly believe that he doesn't use women's restrooms when he's out and about? Really think about that because the truth of the matter is that a lot of these men lie. This was already the case when it was found out that he uses women TSA lines at the airport to be get patted down by a woman TSA agent (that he deleted when people started commenting on that). And back on the bathroom, he thinks that he "passes" so again, think about that.
And I already commented on his therapy video. The therapist was still calling him a "girl" and "woman" throughout it so er, sorry but no dice there neither.
Here's the frank reality about my view of him as far as I'm concerned. Until he starts calling himself a man and absolutely stops calling himself a "woman" or "trans" anything (this includes him stop saying things like "transwomen are men", stop using "transwomen" altogether) and he actually starts talking with a gender critical people (Arielle Scarcella does not count, she still believes in "true trans" which is nonsense), my view of him being an opportunistic grifter will not change. With where we are now in the social sphere with this "trans" crap, I have no patience for people who play the middle ground. You either believe n it or you don't, none of this "true trans" stuff and none of using the bastardized terms neither ("Transwomen", "transman" etc).
Blaire really does like to speak out of both sides of his mouth. He says he doesn't mind people calling him a male or man but then gets offended when they use the correct male pronouns on him (same with Buck Angel when you call her a she). Make it make sense! Lol. What are your thoughts on Nikkie Tutorials? He has an unnerving amount of influence on young girls. I remember when he "came out" a few years ago as trans. I was shocked by the reaction by so many people saying they thought he was a real woman. Even though I didn't know much about trans back then, it was obvious to me that he's a man.
Exactly, please make it make sense. That's why I see right through it and see that they're both Trans Privilege Activists but they go about it in a covert and manipulative way as opposed to the outright aggressive way that we usually see.
And my thoughts on Nikke Tutorials? The truth is I never actually heard of him until he "came out" (I think that was 2017 or 2018?). I can understand why people thought he was a woman because he had only shown himself done up to the nines in makeup with not much pictures of himself not in makeup or showcasing just how tall he really was. So like Blaire, he relies on parlor tricks to mask his true appearance that you know for a fact are more obviously male. Though I will say that I don't buy that his boyfriend didn't know he was a man. Assuming that they had been dating a good while and had sex, he totally knew (ridiculous lol).
I have seen Blair White chastise some trans women using the ladies’ room. She tends to talk about very volatile individuals (eg Jessica Yaniv) using the women’s restrooms. She also attacks individuals who look very unfeminine
It's a case of pointing the fingers at everyone else while 3 are pointing right back at him where in his case, he can moan and mock other men like him who don't "pass" and say they shouldn't use the women's restroom but he himself shouldn't be using them neither. Women are not costumes that are based on how they "pass"". Blaire is a man, he should no be accessing women only spaces, that's just the reality.
Why are you calling a man a woman?
I'm here for this!
Thanks!
@@KaiDecadence
Great video. Agree with every word. Thanks for the work you've put in to this.
It's a wonder I don't have RSI from all the head nods throughout 🤣🤣🤣
Why can't Blaire and others like him just be like you??? 🤷🏻♀️🤦🏻♀️🤦🏻♀️🤦🏻♀️
@@ellie698 Haha no problem lol And I dunno, if Blaire just accepted himself for who he really is, I think he'd find true happiness instead of feeling the need to hold up a lie.
I’m loving that You call Blaire “he” lmao, so disrespectful I live, giving her what she perpetuates.
It's not disrespectful or bad to refer to someone on what they really are.
Why are you calling a man a woman?
Hi Kai! Is this a more succinct version of the longer vid you posted about Blaire 10 months ago?
This is an actual video. The old one I had up was a snippet from my Truth about trans video
@@KaiDecadence Oh gotcha!
I enjoy blaires content and i don't think Blaire is some awful unethical person. But you offer some fair points. Blaire could have been just a feminine gay male. What Blaire and buck push for is returning trans back to a medical basis and that basis is rooted in biology they know your only changing appearance not sex. The TRAs want it to be a identity choice. As for gender critical fems. Some are truly hateful either towards men or trans people. I just don't rock with ideology be it from the right or left. But I also enjoyed your content over the years i like alot of your goth videos😊 that being said Blaire is not for everyone. I don't give those that come from a place of malice the time of day waste of energy. But your video was fair. No one's perfect. As for adults getting medical reassignment. That is where it needs to be for adults only to go threw with it or not.
Wow. He really dramatically altered his face.
I mean in the grand scheme, the FFS didn't do as much as people think. The difference is that he changed his makeup style, change his hair to something more conventional, and uses lighting to his advantage.
Like your avatar you draw it yourself?
Yep, I drew my avatar myself
Hi Kia, do you think that Blair would debate you? I think he wouldn’t.
No, I don't think he would. He already tries hiding from gender critical women and I especially don't think he'd be up for debating someone like me, a fellow effeminate gay man who's gender nonconforming in appearance and can see right through him lol.
He is a coward.
@@Ellington3 He is. Because if he truly believed in his beliefs, he would debate a "terf" and put us in our proverbial place. But nope, he just continues to do the same old thing of dunking on TikTok teens, low hanging fruit.
Hi Kai, what do you think about the Imane Khelif and Lin Yu-Ting incident with womens boxing at the Olympics?
Hello. I actually made a community post about it but to give the cliff notes, it's absolutely shameful. Both of those men are cheats and never should've been allowed to compete in women's sports. I really hope that Khelif gets his gold medal revoked and goes onto the proverbial wall of shame alongside with Lia Thomas, Fallon Fox, and Laurel Hubbard.
@KaiDecadence oh cool. How do I check out your community post?
Yeah agree with you. I think they both knew they are men. I was told that coaches actually go around looking for biological men with DSDs who they can tout off as women in sports. These gender self ID laws and gender passport laws in lot of countries allowed this to happen.
@@9395gb If you go on my RUclips page, click the "community" tab and you'll see it.
The IOC tested positive for them being men last year and disqualified them but for some reason they let them compete in the women's sports this year, it's just messed up. And yeah I heard about that as well and it can make sense why they'd scout them in less developed countries that they can use to sneak them in.
@@KaiDecadence Well I know people in the boxing world and they said there were multiple complaints about Imane Khelif and Lin Yu-Ting for years even before the International Boxing Association did their investigation. The IBA actually had no choice but to do a test because there were so many complaints and a few of the women boxers were basically ending up badly damaged and injured.
I don't think people really appreciate the physiological differences between biological men and biological women. There are some great biological women boxers, but they will never have the power in their punch or ability to withstand a punch from a biological man long-term. Male boxers have 2.6 times the punch force of a female boxers. You're talking about the difference of something like getting hit with a light softball bat and a solid metal 2x4. Hopefully that makes sense.
Some woman is eventually going to end up severely injured or killed if this keeps going.
@@KaiDecadence Also Khelif was saying that they appealed the IBA's decision, but dropped it, but couldn't afford to appeal or something of that nature. Well, I looked up the cost of appealing the IBA's decision to the Court of Arbitration for Sports and it's $1000. That is chump change compared to what Khelif would have lost by not being allowed to fight and losing key career matches.
Do you know how much female boxers get for participating or winning boxing matches? Tens of thousands up to hundreds of thousands of dollars and necessary titles to build their boxing portfolio/career. So it would make no sense that Khelif was willing to lose that much money and their boxing career over a $1000 appeal, which I guarantee Kheli had, Khelif's coaches had or boxing organization/club in Algeria had?
Khelif's net worth was at least up $500,000 from participating on the woman's adult boxing circuit and people think this person is broke? They will be making even more money now from the Olympic win and sponsorship deals that will probably come their way.
The IBA even offered to help with the cost of Khelif's appeal and another genetic test. So Khelif's story doesn't make sense. Khelif's failure to appeal likely had nothing to do with money.
And the fact that Khelif still have not sued the IBA for lost wages and damages make no sense. It's not adding up. They literally banned from boxing in most competitions (with the exception of the Olympics for now) so it would not make sense to not appeal or even sue for damages over the potential loss of their boxing career and future earnings. Not sure how people can't see this whole story is suspicious.
I don't like Blaire White at all. He is miserable and wants to tear others down to cover up whatever childhood trauma he's going through. It sucks that other queer people do this to eachother and hopefully he does change for the better. Blessed be Kai!
The only way I see Blaire changing for the better is if he stops with his LARPing, accepts that he's an feminine man who has trauma from his family and gets prolonged therapy.
I agree. BTW, because of your music recommendations and knowledge of the subculture I started making friends in the goth scene and feel like I have found a new side of me. We are lucky to have people like you, Angela Benedict and Black Friday. Keep up the good work.
@@darklytailored5429 Thanks!
@@KaiDecadenceI think Samantha Lux is just as bad as well.
@@9395gb Samantha Lux is definitely just as bad mainly for how he lied about the reality of his penis inversion. In one video he was making it very known how painful the recovery was and the numerous revisions he had to get done all while still experiencing occasional pains. But then in another video he lied and said that he never had any problems with it. It's just dangerous and deceitful.
How do you feel about Marcus Dib?
I think she's a delusional woman who has internalized misogyny.
@@KaiDecadenceMore like AAP - autoandrophilia
@@sebastiancrowder459 Right right
Severe narcissist vibes.
Even as someone who's very pro-trans (I've gone back and forth on many things in my life, including this very subject), honestly, I think you did a really good analysis here.
Not everyone needs to transition. It's shocking that that's a controversial sentiment. Blaire seems like she'd be happier as an effeminate, gender non-conforming man, and her transition seemed a last ditch effort to retain her sanity. I think that it's really depressing, that she's had to suppress such a large part of herself in order to fit into the world today. Everything from being mistreated for the way she behaved throughout childhood, to sexual assault, to her lack of success in the dating landscape, it's all so sad.
Regardless of how she behaves now, or will behave forever, I hope the best for her. That's all that anyone can do, after all.
No one needs to transition. Transitoon is pure cowardice or fetish
I vehemently disagree with the "not everyone needs to transition" statement because "transition" does not exist, no man can become a woman ever and no woman can become a man ever. We human beings are a sexually dimorphic species where our biological sex is immutable and cannot change. And all that this "transition" does with the taking of wrong sex hormones and the mutilations (getting your penis surgically inverted and getting your breasts amputated for purposes of trying to be something you're not) do not improve one's life, it destroys the quality of life what with the irreversible health problems that come with it.
But as I said before, so long as "trans-identifiyed people stay in their lane by not entering spaces they've got not business being in and they're not pushing this nonsense onto children through school curriculum or media content directed at them, I don't have much else to say about it. If these people want to jeopardize their health, that is their right to do so as much as I disagree with it.
Do you know if Blaire has ever talked about gender euphoria?
11:17 where did he skip over to the next question he answered the question and what delusions I’m so confused 🫥
After he answered Blaire's question of if he was ever attracted to men "like you" (like Joey). Instead of following up and asking him "Okay, what about feminine men? Y'know like "drag queens", guys who had long hair and wore makeup, guys who just didn't like looking masculine and dressed more femininely?" Instead Blaire jumpcuts to the next question that was unrelated. No follow-up.
And the "delusion" is Joey thinking he's straight even though he's literally in a relationship with a man. Straight men don't date other men no matter how feminine the man chooses to look.
I do share many opinions with Blair White however I don't agree with Blair going into women spaces but also don't believe Blair should go into men spaces at all I believe that they should be in third spaces trans ideology I notice that for the past 11 years is rotted in homophobia misandry when it comes to the trans ideology males and misogyny when it comes to the trans identifying female they are both problematic leftist try to also try to tell to focus on Samantha Lux and he has deeply internalized homophobia Samantha trys to use gay liberation to support trans ideology but he never debate a women conservative or right leaning gay men who don't pro reality-based this is coming for right leaning gay man like myself
I'm telling you, if Blaire uses the men's restrooms and doesn't act like a creep or perv, he's gonna be fine. Just get in, get out. I've used the men's restroom as a feminine presenting men and I've been fine. The fear is all in their heads and it's not like he lives in some backwater town. And Sam Lux is worse since he tries to peddle to kids the ideology while lying about how botched his genital mutilation really was/is.
@KaiDecadence third gender natural restroom like family restrooms 🚻 are where Blair and other trans identifying people need to be using because man don't like disburse like that in our restrooms Blair is a feminized man so Blair doesn't behind in the men restrooms either Also Samantha Lux is homophobic because he stay bashing gay and lesbians who disagree with him trans identifying people need gets they own spaces instead trying to assess to spaces that they don't belong in like gay and lesbians spaces they don't belong in
@KaiDecadence i I didn't said any of these but it also not men jobs to manage Blair problems that is his own responsibility and because you are OK with Blair using the bathroom doesn't mean all men and boys are okay with that he should not should be using women restrooms at all because he is not a women he is a gynomorphic gay man if he really care about not causing problems men and specially women he should advocate for his own restrooms and changing rooms there is nonething stopping him and comparing yourself to him does not help your fine because you cause no problems pluse if you try anything you what to happen to you for looking like a goth freak
Blaire is a bootlicker for the conservatives to save herself
@patriciadiamond399 I do think that there are gay men who can lean conservative but with Blaire, he doesn't come off very genuine in his being conservatism and it does come off more as a way to pander to a certain degree.
I disagree, I heard her say and many others say, that they did not use the bathroom until they fully passed and did not cause any stress to woman of a man being in the bathroom.
As well, I agree with many trans that if one fully wants to be a woman yet does not feel the need to actually try to be one, is not indicative to gender dysphoria.
Sports, seriously? The strength and size difference is NOT an even playing field...PERIOD! How does a guy go from ranked 542nd place to FIRST place in woman's category????? Even a bad swimmer can beat woman! In every category of sports, the men hold a way better, faster record. Why is that? Please explain.
Like or not, Katlyn Jenner said she has been invited to play in woman's golf tournaments many times, but will not. When asked why, she said " Cause I'm a man, come on, I hit the ball 100 yards further than woman". Respect!
When you mention it doesn't effect those trans because they are not an athlete, yet there is ZERO respect given to ALL the woman ATHLETES. They worked hard for years, and do not even have a chance against a male. I would not be opposed to trans competing in woman's if it was a fair playing field but it is obviously not! The division to me in trans opinions is that given 100 woman- 99 woman and 1 trans woman, the one side looks at and considers the trans woman ONLY! The other point of view, looks at facts, what is fair, and considers all 100.
It doesn't matter whether a man subjectively "passes" or not. Women are not a costume, they are not something you have to have "effort" to become, you either are one or you're not and no man is a woman no matter what they look like. Blaire is a man, he shouldn't be using women-only spaces and if he continues to do so, he should do so knowing that he's breaking the law by doing it and will have to face legal repercussions for doing that. That's just the objective truth.
If you let one man into a women's only space, you have to let all of them in. "Passing" is subjective and it's irrelevant to the principle of "woman only space".
I am looking at the fact the laws have changed and my view is based on Okay, then at the very least, if you are going to claim you are a woman and force me to share a bathroom, changeroom then AT LEAST do the work to fully appear to be a woman and just blend in rather than freak woman out "seeing a man" in a their space. Which is what I have heard "real" trans state. That if you do not appear female then don't use a woman's space, do not make woman ever feel uncomfortable, do not disrespect their feelings etc... and that a obvious man should not be able to simply put on a dress and go into woman's space. @@KaiDecadence
That was a complete and utter lie. Blaires been using the women's restroom since before he popped estrogen pills. There is photographic evidence of this. He lies constantly. I watch him and even like him but hes not always honest,okay.😂
I just subscribed!
Ngl how is blaire upset over transage when blaire is transgender not a conservative but i actually kinda liked this video
I have no clue why and/or how he doesn't see the irony in the concept of believing you are the opposite sex (when you objectively are not) vs someone who believes they are different age and/or race when they objectively aren't. Truly funny stuff there but er, that's your brain on "trans" logic for ya.
@@KaiDecadence 😭
@@KaiDecadence not too long ago, Blaire was like "if you can change gender you can change race" 💀💀💀💀💀💀
@@_stxrblazerr By his logic since at the end of the day he still follows "trans" logic, that's totally possible lol
@@KaiDecadence yeah but he can't do that for transage