I Had Six Miscarriages | Unpacked with Relebogile Mabotja - Episode 55 | Season 3
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- Опубликовано: 5 дек 2021
- A guest shares her story on how she had multiple miscarriages and yet managed to conceive 2 children at through it all.
Studio Guest: Mpho Ngwenya
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I totally relate, I had 6 miscarriages myself and today I'm a mother of 3 beautiful girls and I thank God for that.
Congratulations mama wama girls🙏🏼💕
@@MrsMphoNgwenya thanks Mpho.
I love happy endings 😍 Thank you God❤
God is still in the business of making miracles. I needed to hear those words.
I am glad. God always meets us at our point of need. 🙏🏼
I can relate to her story, I had my son at the age of 22 and it was a smooth pregnancy.
Then we started to try for a second born at the age of 26 but I had an ectopic pregnancy which they also removed my tube, but we kept on trying and fell pregnant after 6 months but It resulted to miscarriage at 9 weeks then another miscarriage at 5 weeks.
I decided to stop trying for about 8 months then I fell pregnant at 28, and I had a complicated pregnancy where the amniotic fluid was very low and I had to be induced at 36 weeks.
Now my baby girl is 19 months ❤️
I am so sorry to hear about your journey to motherhood, we do thank God for restoration and your baby girl 💕💕💕
@@MrsMphoNgwenya Thank you sesi Mpho.. We also thank you for sharing your journey with us, and I'm happy for you and your family.
May the Lord continue to bless you with more bundles of joy❤️❤️
Praise God
Blessed.
unrelated to pregnancy: this show was for ME. I'm at the verge of writing my fellowship off because life has been very unkind to me for soo long but she just reminded me that there is still Hope in Christ.
Please come back with an update or testimony. We want to celebrate with you🙂
Amen. Every situation is different however it’s still the same God🙏🏼💕. Good luck on your fellowship
Take Courage Hope is alive🙏God is faithful
The fact that she ain't crying when talking about it, shows how strong she is.......
I can imagine her crying after this.
The whole experience makes you numb. You can't cry. It feels like the is a switch that went off😭😭😭
Watching this takes me back to the 10th of October 2018 when I miscarried and had to be admitted. The worst time of my life.
Because God restores, 2021 I gave birth to my Rainbow baby Tshimologo. ❤️
her prayers has been answered,she has healed,en she has a supportive husband and family,i think that is why she is not crying.GOD IS SOOD GOOD..
God totally healed her
I remember the first time I met Mpho, it was actually at an employment induction somewhere in Sandton. She was very noticeable as she was always dressed “ in a makhoti “ kinda fashion. When she introduced herself, there was no doubt that she’s a child of God. She said” I’m 23 and happily married and my husband was my first”. We were just surprised at how comfortable she was. God bless
Wow that was so long ago. Hi Lady E 😊🤗💕
Mrs Mpho Ngwenya I am sending you love from Namibia 🇳🇦 my sister🎉
@@MrsMphoNgwenya blessed blessed woman. I love you
In Christianity 7 is the number of completion🙌🙌
True
Yes and that’s why my husband named her Nontando meaning Gods will 🥺🙏🏼
God made it happen at the right time.
Watching from Saudi Arabia 🇸🇦 I am learning a lot from these stories. Every evening when I come from work I watch an episode. Thank you Relebogile and your team❤️
If there’s anything I learned from this episode is that one should ALWAYS trust and listen to their body!
Always. Always trust your instinct. 💕🙏🏼
This is a testimony. "God is still in the business of making miracle do not write Him off"
Thank you sharing your story with us❤️
My friend's sister had almost a similar condition, I don't know how it's called in medical terms, but it's a condition where the body treats a pregnancy like a disease trying to harm the body, so the body cells fight to protect the body and decide to expell the danger, in this case being the baby.
It's treatable
I also found out about such conditions after the birth of my baby girl. If only we had been told 🤷🏽♀️
@@MrsMphoNgwenya you are a truly an amazing woman, and I know that God is continuing to work In your life, and bringing more beautiful miracles to you ❤️
This episode just restored hope in me🙇♀️🙏
Amen, may God hear your prayers.
Amen and amen. Sometimes that’s all we need. 💕🙏🏼
can I have a husband God...the way her face lights up when talking about her husband
I lost my baby at 4 months.....the pain was unbearable, I would literally open my eyes ,and I would see nothing. For days I would just stare into space,and feel like my world came into an end.
I needed to watch this and read the comments. I am going through a loss too. Thank you for the encouragement.
I'm just here wondering why her OBGYN never told her she has to let her body recover before trying again. Give the uterus atleast 6 months before trying again. Her doctor let her down really and made her go through all these roller-coaster of emotions when maybe the miscarriages could have been easily prevented. Strength to her♥️
Chances are she was told.
@@nzuluyemfihlakaloancientof5369 she says she always wished to know what the problem was, even when she changed doctors she asked the other OBGYN to find out what the problem was. I seriously doubt she was told.
Exactly my thoughts 😥
I wasn’t told to stop trying. She said I should not stop actually because it’s easier to catch after a miscarriage. The OBGYN I had was very incompetent as well as her team. 🤷🏽♀️
After my first miscarriage I was told to wait for at least a year, I regret not waiting shame.
I have been binge watching a few episodes and this is def one of my faves. Thank you for having these important conversations.
I can relate. You literally loose yourself in the situation but you keep on keeping on and looking back you realise how God has carried you. 3 years later with no baby and no tubes. But we breathe
😭😭😭 that’s why it’s so important to be kind to the next human, you never know what people are going through.
God is still in the business of making miracles,,, Don't give up...
Never give up. 💕💕💕
Man, I’m so happy that God has blessed you after all the heartache. Amen and amen.
thank you for your testimony; it strengthens me today
Thank you for watching. 🙏🏼
I would like to thank u for dz great platform it really gets to heal one from hearing others stories. It's comforting to know that life happens to us all and when am walking out there u won't be able to tell my scars cause u will see just a beautiful soul doing life
That’s why we should always be kind because we never know what someone is going through 💕
🙌🏾🙌🏾 God is still in the business of making miracles🙌🏾🙌🏾
Amen 🙏🏼
She shares a story with such ease that's so beautiful i know it must have been so hard going through that and the trauma of reliving such agonizing moments. God bless her
Thanks for sharing your story, my husband and I are on this journey and it has been emotionally taxing. The uncertainty and anxiety of it all is a lot. God is definitely able to do it all and we cannot wait to hold our little in our hands in one day all in His time and season. God bless you and your husband for not giving up on Him.
I want a studio like this.
I really love her final word never give up God will turn ur situation into a testimony
Amen 🙏🏼
Watching from Thailand 🇹🇭. So much love for you team #Unpacked❤💛
Thank you! ❤️
I can totally relate 😩 strength to all the women that have gone through such
Amen 🙏🏼
I totally relate it happened to me 4, times 😢
She was not letting her body recover 6 miscarriages in 6 months .
I was thinking the same but didn't want to sound judgement
Definitely my gynae recommended 3 months before trying again
It depends on how long you had carried the fetus. Her case its 5 weeks, which is almost like normal menstrual cycle, and her uterus was self cleaning itself, that's why she didn't have to wait long although waiting would be nice as well. Pregnancy has a toll physically and mentally. Others loss their baby and get pregnant within a month and carry to full term, bodies differ
Nna I had mine in public hospital the nurse said wait 3 years atleast.
Exactly i was so mad when i heard 6 miscarriages in 6 months 😏 haibo babes allow your body to heal....
Finally … I have been waiting
I love the hair Lebo❤️😍, it suits you.
This show is wonderful because it allows us to hear people 's perspective.
Mpho' s kids are gorgeous. 🌹❤️God bless them!
Thank you for this episode ❤ 🙏
We ask/pray for things that we want from god but he gives us what we need at the right time .Thank you for sharing cc,love and light for you and your family
Just as the word says in Isaiah At the right time, I The Lord will make it happen. 🙏🏼
I have had more than 6 miscarriages. I was told my womb sees a child as an alien and aborts it at around 6weeks.
😩💔Noooo, I am soo sorry
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I am so sorry for that. Sending you so much love and prayers 🙏🏼🥺
AMEN AMEN AMEN
Just got to the baby making it. Yho this was hard hitting
What a beautiful story really? I am in tears right now!!❤
I wish you have many many more children, even more than four, because the bible says that HE will give you a double portion for the loss you have suferred.🤩🥰
There is a God after all, thank you for sharing your story 🙏 ❤
Very sensitive issue which I positively relate to. Yoo very painful and heartbreaking
You restored my hope sister
And sometimes that’s all we need. A little bit of hope can take you so far🙏🏼
If don't give up was a person. This lady and her husband are thee. God bless them
i can relate so much, thank Mpho for sharing your story
I love it when Rele has hairstyles that do not cover her beautiful face… 🥰🥰🥰
I said I’ll be back after the “dead bodies 😳” Ngila 📍💃🏾💃🏾💃🏾. Ok let me shut up and watch 🐒
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Thank you for the compliment ❤️
😂😂😂😂
Lol
You're so crazy 😆 🤣 😂 😹 😆 🤣 😂 😹
Mpho ❤️ I don’t get tired of hearing your story
Thank you mama 🙏🏼💕
I love this woman so much💕MaNgwenya
Your God is too much 🙌🙏the strength you have is extraordinary
Amen. 🙏🏼
She has beautiful children❤️🥺
Thank you 🙏🏼
She’s also quite gorgeous herself 🤍
What Mpho went through, I went through the same thing. I had 6 miscarriages, after our 1st son, admitted for depression, diagnosed with adenomyosis and multiple fibroids. We tried until my husband told me that, we must stop trying because he doesn't want to loose me. Now our son is 18 years and I thank God for his life. Miscarriage is a very painful thing. I wish I can meet to Mpho.
My experience I had 3 kids alive after that I had 4miscourrages in a raw
What a testimony! To God be the glory! Always!
Thank you for sharing
Thank you for watching 🙏🏼
I love that you said it's ohk to get mad. We human indeed.
This is exaclty what I went through...This is too much to digest
It was a lot to go through but good on her for always listening to her body. I'm happy that she has her two children :)
The first few minutes are synonymous to Tracy McMillan Cottom's essay - Dying to be Competent.
She's one strong woman ❤️❤️
Thank you 🙏🏼
Vibrant beautiful lady..tha I you for sharing your testimony
Thank you for watching 🙏🏼
Mama ka Nontando🥰🥰🥺😍 I never knew this n she is my absolute fav on RUclips🥺
Awww thank you ASA 💕💕💕
I know someone who had multiple miscarriages and she HATES kids. never ever liked kids.not sure why she hates kids .maybe it's the trauma of going through such a horrible experience.
This lady needed prayer warriors behind her fighting this war in the spiritual world. For any woman going through this I break this evil painful pattern in the name of Jesus.
And my husband was exactly that. Prayed every night at midnight and fasted for me to be okay not just physically even emotionally 🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼🥺🥺🥺
Wow you are blessed to such a wonderful husband ❤ 💖 💕 it was a trial that God had set for you but he located the right man to go through it all with you. Your daughter is indeed a blessing and she came at a perfect moment of completion - 7. The way you kept on trying shows that your faith was enormous 💖💖💖
it frustrates me how black women are not taken seriously by health care professionals, especially when they are in pain
Looking on the trend of issues in her marriage, it's like they were going through spiritual attacks: six miscarriage s, a car accident and then diabetes coming from nowhere. Warfare prayers were needed in their marriage.
Last year my gf and I lost a child last year. The Dr said it was a actopic pregnancy. The pain of comforting my gf was too much. They gave her a pill to remove the embryo. She was going through a lot of pains😔. I think I have not recovered from that experience 😔
Talk about the God of miracles🙏🙏🙏wish you had invited the husband too so that we can hear how he felt 🤍🤍🤍love and light ❤ to the Ngwenya family and the whole Unpack crew
Relebogile I just love you, when I grow up, I want to be as intelligent as you!
Love Mpho ❤
Thank you Thando 💕💕💕
Indeed God is still in the business of working miracles, you are a living testimony to that statement. May God keep working miracles in your life and the lives of your family💐💞. Thank you Lebo for an amazing show, you are simply the best🌻💞
A living testimony indeed. 🙏🏼
Yena uphendula ungasalindanga uJehovah usulahli towel phansi
So true 🙏🏼
Women we go through the most yhu☹️💔
We do, sadly..🥺
At times they refer to it as spontaneous abortion.
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Oh so sorry to hear this. You can only have a cervical suture at about 12-13 weeks. And it's true even at 5 weeks it's hard. They may call it an embryo but to you it's a baby
Rea leboga sis lebo
Did you switch doctors with each pregnancy and miscarriage or it was one ob/gyn who cared for you throughout?
Black is beautiful I'm so Black and I love it.
Don't write God off!
Never 🙏🏼
Folic acid for first 3 months of pregnancy & before pregnancy helps the fetus to grow stronger she need to sue her doctor for neglecting her first pregnancy health system in Africa is very poor people dont care to safe lifes
If it was not meant to happen it was going to happen. My sister is an OBGYN and another one a pharmacist. I had the best care. But I still lost my baby after 2 months 5 days. After a few days I found out I was still pregnant with 2 more. One still intact in his own sack and the other in a tub. My sisters fought for those babies and head of gynecology department even made sure. But I lost the babies the same night. It was traumatic.
@@basetsanamokoka5462 So true, There is only so much that the Dr can do. In time God makes things happens.
It was meant to happen, it has got nothing to do with the doctor, I have been there many times.
Something is not adding up, did they say she's an exercise specialist ?
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Why are you like this 😣😂
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They called mine an involuntary abortion (or something like that) 22:41
Spontaneous abortion
Yes that's what they call it... I find it so insensitive
Present🙋
Mme wa Noni le Pupa😍
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No but what does she mean 3 going on 13😭😭😂😂♥️
God bless her hey⚘♥️
🤣🤣🤣 I feel her. My 3 year old is the same. Born 10 years later than her actual age. Too smart(and stubborn) for her age. 🙈🙈🙈
@@faithsdollsville2662 so basically she's 3 but she acts older than her age😂💔
Yes 😅😅😅
I think it’s common with most girl children.
Lol I meant she is 3 and way too smart for her age and is very stubborn and also very opinionated 😂💕
My daughter exactly. She’s 3 years old as well. Thinks she’s the same age as her 7 years older brother.
It is always advisable not to immediately try to conceive after having a miscarriage, as it may lead to more miscarriages. Always wait 6-12. Said the Gynecologist. After all God is has a final say
Yes but to me I will 2 years apart and then I will fall pragnant and loose the baby on the second trimester 😢
This presenter and her fake smiles.....As to the guest! God is great and everything in Gods time!!!