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Embrace this insight! Asking 'how do I contact my partner' often stems from a desire for personal selfish outcomes. Shift the focus to 'why'-consider your partner's wants. This self-awareness, stepping back, and personal growth naturally paves the way for organic, mutual connection. Contact will happen as a bi product of you steping back and working on yourself. Once your focused on the correct changes the desired outcomes are inevitable. Alan Watts once said: 'The reason you want to be better is the reason why you aren't.'"
Thanks Geoffrey! You came right in time. If you remember me I’m the guy commented on one of your videos about partner having an affair because it’s the latest one. So quick back story I was able to do well starting Sunday. We were chatting and she was telling me about her internal struggles, I would listen, validate her, and then provide solutions if she wanted to. But then came Wednesday and Friday. I became too needy and started trying to get her back again (pulling her inside the house) this caused her to get infuriated which I understand and then lead her to block me today. Although this is a hard event I was actually shocked that I was glad that this happened. Because I saw the massive difference between sticking to the essentials but still being tethered and focused on the outcome (which was me) and someone who is completely untethered and is just invested in bettering themselves. To add on to that, to think that you would post this video just when I needed it, I get this feeling that things are gonna get better. Anyway thanks again Geoffrey!
8 months in. Just started to properly heal using SOC, getting rid of mind viruses, and using controlled compassion and a couple of the frameworks. She actually tells me what she felt/feels now. This is just the beginning but honestly…just me having been able to connect to others made the journey worth it
It’s not always the guy’s fault for no contact. If you have ever been in a serious relationship with a female covert narcissist, then you would know why they block, ghost, stonewall and give the silent treatment. They play the victim and try to flip the script.
Another level explaining but i am committed to stay no contact, 6 month no contact she sad and cry every day but nothing to explain anymore it’s feel to late, me and her will stay broken forever, and i feel stronger every day, thanks coach for this knowledge you share this knowledge so useful for the next relationship
Awesome video, I now realize i was asking myself the wrong questions, I really enjoy all of your videos, but this one, I identify the most. I got work to do!
@GeoffreySetiawan wife and I are separated, and I'm living at another place, but I was always asking myself the negative questions, how to contact her? How to show her my changes if she is not here to see them?, not realizing that I have to work more on the principles, that I'm not 10x, and my vest still needs work, I was asking for an opportunities without being ready! Crossing boundaries. I felt like this video was made for me! Now I know I have more work to do! I have to be ready for when I get called from the bench into the game.
Ive been blocked for 5months. What I’ve learned is that I had to become untethered from the outcome. I’m still going to eventually do the program to 10x myself. I’m doing not to have. I am doing because I am
Hi Coach Geoffrey, my wife forced me to divorce but the divorce process didn't go through because incomplete documents, so she got really upset and block me on social media, I don't know what am I supposed to do. Because I don't want divorce to happen but I do agree to let her go.
I'm starting to realize something. Once you do start to approach that "10x improvement," that "2.0 you..." you start to realize your ex might not even really be all that worth it. Chances are? You're going to be too good for her at that point, because she likely doesn't share your growth-oriented mindset anymore.
My partner got sent a photo of me talking to a girl at a bar and had an absolute rage over it. The confusing part is we’re on a break as she requested and I honestly thought she was falling out of love with me. Although I wasn’t trying to pickup this girl I was talking to or anything of that nature, my girlfriend was still so so mad and I think that means she still cares?
I understand we need to work on ourselves always.. But who can afford thousands of dollars.. Taking advantage of hurting people in bad situations is not right.. Why can people just help people free of charge or low cost..? That.would be the right thing to do..
" she's always watching" LOL No, they don't always watch. When there's zero contact, and neither person uses social media, there is zero ability to to notice. You did not answer the title of the video, which was about no contact and blocked
Yea don’t work on higher income. I mean I can’t afford your program, so I guess I’ll just watch the free videos forever since I shouldn’t up my income.🙄
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Hey guys hope this was helpful! Leave me a comment with your thoughts? Be sure to check out my brand new masterclass on the 5 Proven Steps to Rebuilding Your Relationship/Marriage. (Warning: Spots are limited)
💪 Here is the link to the MASTERCLASS! -> urlgeni.us/MCEP139DS
🎁 Download the FREE GUIDE! -> relationshipsmastered.com/healing-partner-emotions
🎉 To see how all my clients have achieved massive success through dire & hopeless circumstances, click here! ruclips.net/p/PLQ8tvyhQlPzsNm-vC_g_8SWGcJRngefgU
Embrace this insight! Asking 'how do I contact my partner' often stems from a desire for personal selfish outcomes. Shift the focus to 'why'-consider your partner's wants. This self-awareness, stepping back, and personal growth naturally paves the way for organic, mutual connection. Contact will happen as a bi product of you steping back and working on yourself. Once your focused on the correct changes the desired outcomes are inevitable. Alan Watts once said: 'The reason you want to be better is the reason why you aren't.'"
Thanks Geoffrey! You came right in time. If you remember me I’m the guy commented on one of your videos about partner having an affair because it’s the latest one. So quick back story I was able to do well starting Sunday. We were chatting and she was telling me about her internal struggles, I would listen, validate her, and then provide solutions if she wanted to. But then came Wednesday and Friday. I became too needy and started trying to get her back again (pulling her inside the house) this caused her to get infuriated which I understand and then lead her to block me today. Although this is a hard event I was actually shocked that I was glad that this happened. Because I saw the massive difference between sticking to the essentials but still being tethered and focused on the outcome (which was me) and someone who is completely untethered and is just invested in bettering themselves. To add on to that, to think that you would post this video just when I needed it, I get this feeling that things are gonna get better. Anyway thanks again Geoffrey!
Great to hear!
The way to manufacture contact is by working on yourself to a point that when you 10x yourself, the opportunity will come by itself.
This growing to the point where you can recognise opportunities in stonewalling as well and knowing how to plant seeds and navigate through.
@@Nuez234 Bingo!
I'm too pushy it ends tonight , tomarrow is a new day
8 months in. Just started to properly heal using SOC, getting rid of mind viruses, and using controlled compassion and a couple of the frameworks. She actually tells me what she felt/feels now. This is just the beginning but honestly…just me having been able to connect to others made the journey worth it
It’s not always the guy’s fault for no contact. If you have ever been in a serious relationship with a female covert narcissist, then you would know why they block, ghost, stonewall and give the silent treatment. They play the victim and try to flip the script.
Another level explaining but i am committed to stay no contact, 6 month no contact she sad and cry every day but nothing to explain anymore it’s feel to late, me and her will stay broken forever, and i feel stronger every day, thanks coach for this knowledge you share this knowledge so useful for the next relationship
Great! Staying committed to no contact is one thing, but make sure you're not just passively waiting. Focus on the necessary & sufficient changes!
Sure coach unbelievable now I understand my mistakes, i know she love me and i love her to but I don’t know i can’t contact her anymore,
Awesome video, I now realize i was asking myself the wrong questions, I really enjoy all of your videos, but this one, I identify the most. I got work to do!
What did you identify with the most?
@GeoffreySetiawan wife and I are separated, and I'm living at another place, but I was always asking myself the negative questions, how to contact her? How to show her my changes if she is not here to see them?, not realizing that I have to work more on the principles, that I'm not 10x, and my vest still needs work, I was asking for an opportunities without being ready! Crossing boundaries. I felt like this video was made for me! Now I know I have more work to do! I have to be ready for when I get called from the bench into the game.
Ive been blocked for 5months. What I’ve learned is that I had to become untethered from the outcome. I’m still going to eventually do the program to 10x myself. I’m doing not to have. I am doing because I am
Be a refrigerator. Got it
I don't have social media. I am in no contact. How can she be watching? There is no avenue to "watch" me?
Thanks for your great videos
If you keep worrying, obsessing and thinking about stuff like this, guess what, you'll be right! :)
Watch the vid again and study what G is actually saying
thanks
Hi Coach Geoffrey, my wife forced me to divorce but the divorce process didn't go through because incomplete documents, so she got really upset and block me on social media, I don't know what am I supposed to do. Because I don't want divorce to happen but I do agree to let her go.
I can not get to the 10x version of my self, because i am to relaxed as a person. I am aiming for a 5x, got to be better than nothing
I'm starting to realize something.
Once you do start to approach that "10x improvement," that "2.0 you..." you start to realize your ex might not even really be all that worth it.
Chances are? You're going to be too good for her at that point, because she likely doesn't share your growth-oriented mindset anymore.
Big facts. Noticed that myself. I was like, I can certainly do better. Was stuck on my ex like glue
shouldnt i not say anything when i get blocked? instead of saying i understand?
My partner got sent a photo of me talking to a girl at a bar and had an absolute rage over it.
The confusing part is we’re on a break as she requested and I honestly thought she was falling out of love with me. Although I wasn’t trying to pickup this girl I was talking to or anything of that nature, my girlfriend was still so so mad and I think that means she still cares?
or she feels guilty,
I haven't noticed your bloody knuckles before, how did that happen?
He started mma training
pullin his girl back in the house.
Iam just frm being broked
I understand we need to work on ourselves always.. But who can afford thousands of dollars.. Taking advantage of hurting people in bad situations is not right.. Why can people just help people free of charge or low cost..? That.would be the right thing to do..
It’s not his fault you’re broke
@@ChanceBerryman Who said.. I was broke.. Don't assume...
" she's always watching" LOL
No, they don't always watch. When there's zero contact, and neither person uses social media, there is zero ability to to notice. You did not answer the title of the video, which was about no contact and blocked
Just give up
Yea don’t work on higher income. I mean I can’t afford your program, so I guess I’ll just watch the free videos forever since I shouldn’t up my income.🙄
What do you think "NECESSARY, but not sufficient" means? Am I saying you don't need to work on higher income? :)
I have joined your masterclass for today where do I go to see your class and protisapate .